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The EnclaveatTHE FAIRWAYS

The Enclave at The Fairways65 Enclave Blvd. Lakewood, NJ 08701

Telephone 732-942-2400 Fax 732-905-0877

Newspaper guidelines

1. All type-written, double spaced copy from residents must be in our mailbox by the 15th of each month for the next month’s edition.

2. all photos are welcome. the lites reserves the right to limit the number.3. The staff reserves the right to edit any and all

articles submitted. It also may refuse publication of an article.

4. Please limit articles to no more than 350 words.

Please Be sure to suBmit all articles to our New email address:

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Please note that all photos should be forwarded [email protected] with

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contact infoIsabel Ferrari • 732-942-8204

Hours: Monday - Friday • [email protected]

Jodi Rapicano • 732-942-8205Hours: Monday - Friday • 8am-4pm

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Billiards Nick Quadrel 732-667-3218

Bocce Betty Matiskella 732-363-8528

Book Discussion Group Barbara Clements 732-626-5737

Myrna Cephas 732-664-1152

Bowling League Ken Kahn 732-364-2188

Bridge Club Renee Muller 732-730-1563

Da Vinci Social Group Art Hensler 732-905-0937

Enclave Lites Anita Lepelstat 732-886-3638

Fishing 732-942-8205

Golf Club John Matiskella 732-363-8528

Hebrew Culture Diane Halvorsen 732-901-1309

Mah Jongg 732-942-8205

Men’s Club Hal Halvorsen 732-901-1309

Pickleball 732-942-8205

Poker Linda Baer 732-797-0111 Sherman Gorin 732-363-2382

Pool Bob MacGregor 732-364-5980

Safety & Security Bob MacGregor 732-364-5980

Singles Group Myrna Cephas 732-664-1152

Tennis Club Dennis Hoffman 908-216-8423

Texas Hold’em Paul Laden 732-276-6933

World Issues Disc. Group Bruce Rollier 732-961-3649

The Enclave Lites is printed by Senior Community Media, a division of R&K Publishing. The products and services offered herein by advertisers have not been tested, sanctioned or approved and they are not otherwise promulgated or endorsed by R&K Publishing. Complaints should be directed to the Better Business Bureau or the Ocean County Dept. of Consumer Affairs. For advertising, contact Senior Community Media at 732-240-6611.

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Enclave LitesNewsletter Staff

editorAnita Lepelstat

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Isabel Ferrari O: 732-942-8204 Property Manager65 Enclave Blvd F: 732-905-0877Lakewood, NJ 08701 Email: [email protected]

Jodi Rapicano O: 732-942-8205 Administrative Assistant65 Enclave Blvd F: 732-905-0877Lakewood, NJ 08701 Email: [email protected]

Guard House O: 732-942-2424

Anthony Lusnia H: 732-886-8880 PRESIDENT14 Enclave Blvd C: 973-809-4170 2018 -2020 Email: [email protected] to: The Lites

Fred Verga H: 732-901-6589 VICE PRESIDENT319 Damiano Way C: 201-803-1771 2018 - 2020 Email: [email protected] to: Security & Safety Grounds

John Matiskella H: 732-363-8528 SECRETARY178 Enclave Blvd 2018 -2020 Email: [email protected] to: Social Activities, ARC

Charles Cannata H: 732-364-3646 DIRECTOR151 Enclave Blvd 2019 - 2021Liaison to: Pool Committee, Clubhouse Committee

Hal Halvorsen H: 732-901-1309 DIRECTOR543 Bennington Ln 2019 - 2021 Email: [email protected] to: Finance, Grounds

the enclave at the fairways Board of directorsUpdated 4/10/19

RemindeRSafety and Security Committee

Fred Verga

If there is a prediction of a significant snowfall, please make sure to remove all vehicles from the street. If there is no room in your driveway, you can park in the clubhouse parking lot. This will make the snow removal faster and safer for all the residents. Your cooperation will be appreciated.


Bob MacGregor (732) 364-5980

Bob MacGregor (732) 364-5980

Mike Squeo (732) 276-6633

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urgeNtAs we all know we have a safety issue within the Enclave due to speeding, not stopping at stop signs and incorrect parking. Just recently a person had a close call, almost getting hit by a car going through a stop sign. There is constant talk about the situation and many suggestions are being made. We are looking at all suggestions. However, more signs and speed bumps will not necessarily solve the problem. It is not just a problem for the HOA Board, Property Manager or the Safety & Security Committee to solve. It is a community problem. It is up to all us to solve.

We have 349 households within the community. It is the responsibility of each household to ensure that their guests and vendors obey the rules. It isn’t any more complicated than that. The only traffic within the community, with a few exceptions, is due to us. We are creating the traffic; therefore, we should be able to control it. Everyone should take a moment and think about their responsibilities. Let’s not become

the community that has a fatality.Board of Directors

Enclave at the Fairways Homeowners Association

THiS iS A RemindeRThis is just a reminder your maintenance fees are due quarterly –

January 1, April 1, July 1, and October 1. If you do not pay your fees by the 15th of the month, you will receive a $25.00 fine. If they are not paid by the

30th of the month, your access cards will be deactivated.


list of committeesc (chair) l (Board liaison)

a message from the arc (architectural review committee)

Submitted by Nick Quadrelfinance committee: Meets – 4th Monday (10 am)Hal Halvorsen (C and L), Tony Cherichello, John Heidelberger, Hadassa Buxbaum, Bruce Rollier, Ken Snyder, Harry Lieber, Bob MacGregorclubhouse committee: Meets-2nd Wednesday Tom Moriarty (C), Jack Clements, Tim Murphy, John Heidelberger, Bob Cina, Phyllis Schuster, Esther Szanzer, Charlie Cannata (L) arc committee: Meets-1st and 3rd Monday (7:30 pm)Nick Quadrel (C), Nick Ruggiero, Rich Balcerzak, Lina Aloi, Art Hensler, Tim Murphy, Carol Sarnowski, Phyllis Schuster, John Matiskella (L)security & safety committee:Bob MacGregor (C), Steve Muller, Renee Muller, Tim Murphy, Dale Verga, Fred Verga (L)Pool committee:Bob MacGregor (C), Janice Hutchison, John Hutchison, Leslie MacGregor, Charlie Cannata (L)grounds committee: Meets-3rd Wednesday (10 am)Mike Squeo (C), Fred Verga, Terry Manton, Jack Clements, Charlie Cannata (L), Hadassa Buxbaum, Richard Schusteralternate dispute resolution (adr):Steve Muller (C), Tony Lusnia (L)social activities committee (sac): Meets-2nd WednesdayJoanne Bourne, Myrna Cephas, Marilyn Macco, Betty Matiskella, Jackie Schneider, Fred Schneider, Judy Stawicki, Joan Engelhardt, Mary Ann Graham, Lina Aloi, John Matiskella (L)lites staff:Anita Lepelstat (Editor), Myrna Cephas, Jackie Schneider, Janice Hutchison, John Hutchison, Rachel Zoberman, Betty Silverman,John Heidelberger, Bruce Rollier, Tony Lusnia (L)

As a homeowner of the Enclave, if you desire to have a modification to the exterior of your home or property, you must apply to the ARC for approval before any changes or modifications take place.This applies to almost all modifications with very few exceptions. If you are not sure as to whether or not your project requires ARC approval, you may contact any ARC member for verification.In order to ensure approval, the ARC application is explicit in its description of documents and other necessary items or information which must be included in the presentation of your application package.The ARC will only accept the original signed application (no copies) providing that it is legible and complete. Applications should not be filled out by contractors.The ARC meets on the 1st and 3rd Monday of every month. You are encouraged to place your ARC application package in the ARC mail slot in the library at least several days before the meeting.If your application is denied, you must obtain the items or follow the procedures that were the reasons for your denial as outlined in your denial notification. You must then resubmit these items and information with a new application which will be considered at the next meeting.On approval of your modification, you are still required to obtain all necessary permits and submit them to the Property Manager as indicated on the ARC application.

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fYi: in case of emergencythe red PhoNes & cPr – aed responders

Updated List as of 5/21/18 The red 911 telephones you see in the clubhouse are direct lines to the Lakewood police station. Should an emergency arise, they are in the following locations:

1. In the indoor pool area next to the double entrance doors.

2. In the exercise room.3. On the main level opposite the door of the

south card room. 4. In both locker rooms.5. Outside the pump room at the shallow end of

the outdoor pool.6. Lower level entrance to the outdoor pool. They

are to be used ONLY in emergency situations.

There is an AED located in the craft room hallway as well. Several of our residents are trained in CPR/AED response and they are listed here.

Hensler, Art 180 Enclave Blvd. 732-905-0937Hutchison, Janice 404 Monticello Lane 732-276-6454Hutchison, John 404 Monticello Lane 732-276-6454Stanford, Edie 601 Quail Court 732-534-4415Shevchuk, George 164 Enclave Blvd. 732-905-0507Muller, Renee 516 Bennington Lane 732-730-1563Muller, Steve 516 Bennington Lane 732-730-1563Shah, Kishore 510 Bennington Lane 848-222-4401

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JANUARY 2020WEDNESDAY THURSDAY FRIDAY SATURDAY

9am Aerobics10:30am Bowling at Finnigan’s1pm Bridge5pm Social at Clubhouse 7pm Billiards


9am Aerobics10am Ping Pong

11am Chair Yoga11am Womens Billiards1pm Pickleball2pm CHC3pm Women’s Group Painting7pm Mah Jongg7:30pm Poker7:30pm Womens Water Aerobics

OFFICE CLOSED9am Aerobics

10am Ping Pong11am Chair Yoga11am Womens Billiards1pm Pickleball3pm Women’s Group Painting7pm Mah Jongg7:30pm Poker7:30pm Womens Water Aerobics

9am Aerobics10am Womens Yoga

1pm Knit with Friends1pm Mah Jongg6pm Hi/Lo Poker7pm Mah Jongg7:30pm Womens Water Aerobics

10am Womens Yoga1pm Knit with Friends

1pm Mah Jongg6pm Hi/Lo Poker7pm Mah Jongg7:30pm Womens Water Aerobics

9am Aerobics10:30am Bowling at Finnigan’s1pm Bridge5pm Social at Clubhouse7pm Billiards

1pm Knit with Friends1pm Mah Jongg6pm Hi/Lo Poker7:30pm Womens Water Aerobics


11am Chair Yoga11am Womens Billiards1pm Pickleball2pm Clubhouse Comm. Mtg3pm Women’s Group Painting7pm Mah Jongg7:30pm Poker7:30pm Womens Water Aerobics


11am Chair Yoga11am Womens Billiards1pm Pickleball3pm Women’s Group Painting7pm Billiards7:30pm Poker7:30pm Womens Water Aerobics

JANUARY 2020SUNDAY MONDAY TUESDAY

9am Aerobics10:30am Womens Pilates 5pm Womens Painting7:30pm Womens Water Aerobics

8:30am Tennis 9am Aerobics

12pm Hi/Lo Poker 12:30pm Canasta4pm Sewing5pm Womens Painting7pm Womens Pilates7:30pm Womens Water Aerobics

9am Aerobics10:30am Womens Pilates5pm Womens Painting7pm Pickleball7:30pm Womens Water Aerobics

9am Aerobics10:30am Womens Pilates 5pm Womens Painting7pm Pickleball7:30pm Womens Water Aerobics

9am Billiards9am Aerobics10am Womens Yoga10:30am SAC Mtg1pm Mah Jongg6pm Hi/Lo Poker7:30pm Womens Water Aerobics

8:30am Tennis 9am Aerobics

10am Finance Comm Mtgh12pm Hi/Lo Poker12:30pm Canasta2pm Book Discussion Group4pm Sewing7pm Womens Pilates7:30pm Womens Water Aerobics

9am Aerobics12pm Hi/Lo Poker12:30pm Canasta4pm Sewing7pm Womens Pilates7pm ARC Mtg7:30pm Womens Water Aerobics

9am Aerobics12pm Hi/Lo Poker

12:30pm Canasta2pm World Issues4pm Sewing7pm Womens Pilates7pm Womens Group7:30pm Womens Water Aerobics

9am Aerobics10:30am Womens Pilates5pm Womens Painting7pm Pickleball7:30pm Womens Water Aerobics

9am Billiards9am Aerobics

10am Womens Yoga1pm Paint Party1pm Mah Jongg6pm Hi/Lo Poker7:30pm Womens Water Aerobics

9am Billiards9am Aerobics

10am Womens Yoga1pm Mah Jongg6pm Hi/Lo Poker7:30pm Womens Water Aerobics

9am Billiards9am Aerobics10am Womens Yoga1pm Mah Jongg6pm Hi/Lo Poker7:30pm Womens Water Aerobics

10am Womens Yoga1pm Knit with Friends1pm Mah Jongg6pm Hi/Lo Poker7pm Mah Jongg7:30pm Womens Water Aerobics


9am Mens Club Mtg9am Billiards7:30pm Womens Folk Dancing

9am Billiards7:30pm Womens Folk Dancing



SPECIAL EVENTS

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10:30am Bowling at Finnigan’s1pm Bridge5pm Social at Clubhouse 7pm Billiards


11am Chair Yoga11am Womens Billiards1pm Pickleball3pm Women’s Group Painting7pm Mah Jongg7pm ARC Mtg7:30pm Poker7:30pm Womens Water Aerobics

8:30am Tennis9am Aerobics

10am Womens Yoga1pm Knit with Friends1pm Mah Jongg6pm Hi/Lo Poker7pm Mah Jongg7:30pm Womens Water Aerobics


group & club activitiesworld issues discussion group

Bruce Rollier

Baer, Linda 732-797-0111Engelhardt, Joan 732-363-7609Halvorsen, Diane 732-901-1309Hutchison, Janice 732-276-6454MacGregor, Leslie 732-364-5980Muller, Renee 732-730-1563

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knit with friendsSubmitted by Betty Matiskella

Knit with Friends is a group of Enclave residents who get together weekly to knit and crochet. In addition to crafting, there is also a lot of socializing. We started out knitting sweaters for the Outreach Group to donate to Knit for Kids. To date we have knitted and shipped over 900 sweaters. We also work on our own knitting projects. Our crafters have a range of experience, from beginners to over 20 years of experience. We meet at the Clubhouse every Thursday afternoon at 1:00 p.m. Feel free to join us if you enjoy knitting or crocheting. If you would like to learn, I’m sure one of our seasoned crafters won’t mind giving you a lesson or two.

NEXT MEETING: MONDAY, January 13, 2020Craft Room at the Clubhouse, 2:00 p.m.Topic: Current EventsIn our December meeting John Matiskella led a very interesting discussion of drones, which are increasing rapidly in numbers and complexity and becoming part of our lives. They are used in recreation and in commercial and military applications. Amazon plans to use drones for package delivery at some time in the future. For the January 13 meeting, we will select a discussion topic just prior to the meeting and inform the regular members via email. If you would like to be included in our email list, please send a message to me at [email protected].


Have you ever asked yourself, “What do I have to do to get a good cup of coffee, short of moving to Colombia or Brazil?” You may even ask yourself, “Which country produces the best coffee, and where can I buy it.” But even more important would be, “How will I know that the coffee I purchase is really the coffee it says it is”.Buying high quality coffee should be nearly effortless, but it’s not. Most often, you’re putting your money into products that are sub-standard and misleading facsimiles of the real thing. So beware, although coffee is grown in equatorial zones throughout the world…..not all coffees are created equal.There are more than 6,000 species of coffee plants, however, the two most commercially important types are called “Arabica” and “Robusta”.ARABICA: Arabica coffees are grown primarily in Central & South America and account for over 60% of world production. They are considered the highest quality beans. Arabica plants grow best in high altitudes and produce a very flavorful and aromatic coffee, very low in caffeine and acidity. They are hand picked daily from the finest of trees. I prefer “100% Columbian” coffee because I know that the highest quality of Arabica is exclusively grown there, and unlike beans from other regions, all Colombian coffee is carefully “washed,” this process releases many impurities and acid agents, which gives it its rich taste and aroma.ROBUSTA: Robusta coffees are grown primarily in Africa and Asia and account for approximately 40% of world production. Because they are grown in lower altitudes and in hotter temperatures, they are less desirable. Since they are machine picked, you may get unripe, and rotten beans mixed in with the good ones. Generally, and with a few exceptions, Robusta coffees are considered by the trade to be less flavorful and aromatic than Arabica. Consequently, they are widely used in instant and less expensive coffee blends. It produces a cup with twice the amount of caffeine of Arabica and is very high in acidity (and heartburn). Robusta are not grown in Colombia or anywhere else in the Americas.I would suggest that the next time you shop for a can or package of coffee, take the time to read the label. In most cases, coffee companies will identify the source or

from the “grounds” upSubmitted by Peter Baer

type of beans used. If it simply reads “100 Pure Coffee,” it’s probably a cheaper blend of Robusta.If you are new to specialty coffees, beware of blends. When buying a “blend” you may be getting a few of the pricy beans and a whole bunch of inferior beans added to make up the difference, or you may not be getting any of the pricy beans at all. Read the label. I recently spotted some Kona coffee, and Jamaican Blue Mountain coffee on the shelves of two major warehouse stores selling for approximately $8 a pound. Rather odd since the wholesale cost of those coffees runs between $30 and $40 a pound. Upon closer examination I discovered that it was indeed a “blend.” Now remember that according to current regulations, it only takes a single Jamaican bean added to a balance of junky robustas to make up a “blend” of Jamaican Blue Mountain coffee. Hawaii is a bit stricter, they require roasters to place a minimum of 10% of Kona coffees into their “blends,” that’s one in every ten beans. Some consolation! Avoid any coffee that includes the term “blend” on their label (Classic Blend, Special Blend, Superior Blend, etc.) Stick with 100% Arabica or 100% Columbian regardless of the brand name. Trust me, there is no difference between Maxwell House, Folgers, Hills Bros., or Chock 100% Colombian since it all comes from the same place. After all, it’s a product of nature, they just place it into a package with their name on it.Finally, for you price conscious shoppers, the world’s most expense coffee comes from Sumatra. Workers there follow a gourmet monkey around who consumes only the choicest coffee beans. By hand picking (and we hope cleaning) what he excretes, they obtain “Kopi Lawak” coffee, which sells for over $500 per pound.


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Just before the funeral services, the undertaker came up to the very elderly widow and asked, ‘How old was your husband?’ ‘98,’ she replied.... ‘Two years older than me’ ‘So you’re 96,’ the undertaker commented.. She responded, ‘Hardly worth going home, is it? Reporters interviewing a 104-year-old woman: ‘And what do you think is the best thing about being 104?’ the reporter asked... She simply replied, ‘No peer pressure.’ The nice thing about being senile is you can hide your own Easter eggs and have fun finding them. I’ve sure gotten old! I’ve had two bypass surgeries, a hip replacement, new knees, fought prostate cancer and diabetes. I’m half blind, can’t hear anything quieter than a jet engine, take 40 different medications that make me dizzy, winded, and subject to blackouts. Have bouts with dementia. Have poor circulation; hardly feel my hands and feet anymore. Can’t remember if I’m 85 or 92. Have lost all my friends. But, thank God, I still have my driver’s license. I feel like my body has gotten totally out of shape, so I got my doctor’s permission to join a fitness club and start exercising. I decided to take an aerobics class for seniors. I bent, twisted, gyrated, jumped up and down, and perspired for an hour. But, by the time I got my leotards on, the class was over. My memory’s not as sharp as it used to be. Also, my memory’s not as sharp as it used to be. Know how to prevent sagging? Just eat till the wrinkles fill out. It’s scary when you start making the same noises as your coffee maker. These days about half the stuff in my shopping cart says, ‘For fast relief.’ THE SENILITY PRAYER : Grant me the senility to forget the people I never liked anyway, the good fortune to run into the ones I do, and the eyesight to tell the difference. Now, I think you’re supposed to share this with 5 or 6, maybe 10 others. Oh heck, give it to a bunch of your friends if you can remember who they are! Always Remember This: You don’t stop laughing because you grow old, You grow old because you stop laughing!


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Enclave Residents Trip to the Hamptons

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30th districtBy senator robert w. singer

30th district

We want to share important information about fraud prevention. The information has been provided by the Office of the Attorney General, New Jersey Division of Consumer Affairs. The New Jersey Division of Consumer Affairs prepared an Anti-Fraud Toolkit, which was designed to provide the information needed to recognize and avoid scams.One topic that is part of the Anti-Fraud Toolkit is entitled “Top Ten Red Flags That It Might Be A Scam,” which is described as a simple list of red flags to watch out for when solicited in person, by phone call, by mail, or through the internet.The red flags are as follows:1. You are told not to tell anybody about your alleged “prize” or “winnings.” 2. You are pressured to “act quickly,” without thinking, to “take advantage of a great opportunity,” or to “avoid criminal or legal proceedings.”3. You get an offer of “guaranteed” investment returns, lottery winnings, or promises of free money. 4. During the course of any purported sales pitch, debt collection, or other interaction, you are asked to provide sensitive personal information such as your social security number, credit card data, bank account number, email, PIN number, or your personal passwords.5. A caller avoids answering your questions about who they are and how they got your number, and gets defensive when you ask if they are legitimate.6. A caller threatens you with arrest or legal action, becomes hostile, or uses profanity if you don’t “pay up!”7. Someone tells you to pay money up front before you can receive your purported winnings or prize.8. You receive “official” documents by email or regular mail with misspellings, poor grammar, and/or fake-looking logos.9. You are directed to send money in nontraditional ways; by wire transfer, money orders, pre-paid debit cards, or even cash wrapped in newspaper.10. A caller won’t let you hang up the phone, or a solicitor won’t let you close the door, even after you say you’re not interested.There is also a chapter focusing on “Common Phone

Scams,” which describes common examples of these. Several examples include the following.Someone who claims to be calling from the IRS, a credit card company, or another agency says you, or your spouse, owes them money. If you don’t send cash or pay by credit card immediately, you will be taken to court or your credit will be ruined. Another illustration in the Anti-Fraud Toolkit might be someone who claims to be calling on behalf of Medicare or Medicaid with questions about a claim or to replace your insurance card, but first you must provide personal information-----data that can be used to file false claims in your name or steal your identity. Another instance would be a call announcing you have won a free vacation or a large cash prize but you need pay a prize tax, release fee, or other related expense to collect. Another example cited was “technical support representative” claiming to be from a computer company calls to warn you of a serious problem with your computer. The caller urges you to download a program, or give him access to your computer, to fix the problem. That disreputable person can then install spyware to steal personal information stored on your computer.There is a page in the Anti-Fraud Toolkit with a list of important phone numbers and online contacts. For example, if you think you have been cheated or scammed, you can file a complaint with the New Jersey Division of Consumer Affairs by phone at 800-242-5846 or 973-504-6200. You can also file a complaint online at: njconsumeraffairs.gov/pages/file-a-complaint.aspx; or, if you are about to make an investment and want to make sure that the person offering the investment opportunity is properly registered, you may contact the New Jersey Bureau of Securities at 866-446-8378.There is also a Directory of County Consumer Affairs Offices, which is contact information for county consumer affairs offices throughout New Jersey.Other topics include “Common Mail Scams”, which briefly describes scams that may be reaching you through the mail and tips on how to avoid such scams. There is also information on “Common Door-to-Door Scams”, which describes scams arising from door-to-door solicitations, including charities scams and contracting scams, and tips on how to avoid them. All the topics can be accessed at fightingfraud.nj.gov. The phone number for the New Jersey Division of Consumer Affairs is 800-242-5846.


thank You

Thanks to the following residents who helped to decorate the clubhouse for the Christmas season as well as putting the windscreens at the tennis courts in the winter position. Without your help this could not have been accomplished!ladies gentlemenBarbara Clements Charlie CannataMary Heidelberger Jack Clements Mario Grillo John Heidelberger Art Hensler Dennis Hoffman Ken Kahn Tony Lusnia Bob MacGregor John Matiskella Tom Moriarty Tim Murphy Nick Quadrel Ken Scianna Kishore Shah John Strouse

Best Regards,Tom Moriarty, Clubhouse Chairman

As Chairperson of the DaVinci Social Group, I want to thank the Executive Committee of Mary Heidelberger, Maryann Cherichello, Joe Russo, Kishore Shah, Lina Aloi, and Bruce Rollier for the support in the planning and execution of the many events offered to our members. This year was an especially difficult as several members of the Executive Committee moved from the Enclave Community and we lost one of our charter members with the unexpected passing of Mary Ann Ciccone, who was always there to do whatever was required to put the show on. However, in spite of these losses, we were still able to complete the schedule as planned. I also want to thank the DaVinci Social Group membership for all their support in attending the functions presented and helping with the cleanup and uplifting comments of praise for the job well done.At the Christmas celebration, we collected over 50 toys from the membership which were delivered to the Seeds of Service in Mantoloking for the needy. The people there couldn’t have been more appreciative for what we did to make Christmas for some child happier.As we look ahead to the upcoming year, we are hopeful to keep the DaVinci Social Group together providing the events we have come to enjoy with our fellow Enclave friends.

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CONTACT of Ocean & Monmouth Counties is a 24-hour crisis/suicide prevention hotline for Ocean & Monmouth Counties. CONTACT’s Executive Director is Carol Weshnak, a resident of the Enclave.

The CONTACT hotline numbers are: Crisis Helpline 732-240-6100 and 609-693-5834.

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Neighbor to NeighborDear Fellow Enclavians, We would like to expand this column as a means to help people help each other. If you have a particular skill, such as teaching a card game or knitting, crocheting, or painting etc..., you might be able to help someone here who would like to learn. Or maybe you might be a skilled electrician, plumber or carpenter? Since many of us take an occasional flight from a local airport, someone might be willing to offer his/her chauffeuring services for a reasonable fee. There’s virtually no limit to the help that we might afford each other. So, if you have a skill to share, or need, just fill out a request form (forms are available in the Enclave Lites mailbox) and return it to Enclave Lites slot in the clubhouse library, and we’ll include your request in a coming issue of Lites. We reserve the right to exclude any request we might find unacceptable.

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