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PTSD: The Flashbacks You Never Wanted to HavePresenters: Rose Hart, Cynthia McGuigan & Kat Nielsen
March 28, 2015
American Adoption Congress
36th Annual Conference: Educate, Advocate and Legislate
Cambridge MA.
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Cynthia McGuigan
• President & Conference Chair of AAC
• Financial Associate Harvard University
• First mom to 31 yr. Son
• Married Birth Father 25 years
• Mom to 3 daughters
• Working toward Master Program at Harvard
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Survey
325 respondents
Years placed 1940 – after 2000
Age range younger than 14 – 29
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Q1: What year did you relinquish your child for adoption?
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How old were you when your child was born
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Was this your first child?
Answered: 325 Skipped: 0
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Did you have contact with your family?
Answered: 141 Skipped: 184
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While pregnant or after placement did you have to invent a story about your condition or hide?
Answered: 312 Skipped: 13
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Did you have to conceal your identity?
Answered: 156 Skipped: 169
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Were you told to forget your child?
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Did you ever receive counseling in regards to the relinquishment and loss?
Answered: 325 Skipped: 0
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Did anyone acknowledge your grief?
Answered: 325 Skipped: 0
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Did you ever mourn your child?
Answered: 325 Skipped: 0
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Did you feel shamed by yourself, society, family or peers?
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Are you still concealing your pregnancy and adoption of your child with family or others.
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A mental health condition that is triggered by a terrifying event. Many people who go through traumatic events have difficulty adjusting and coping for a while. But with time and taking Care of themselves, such traumatic reactions usually get better. In some cases, though, the symptoms can get worse or last for months or even years. Sometimes they may completely shake up your life. In this case you may have Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder .Getting treatment as soon as possible may prevent PtSD.
Source Mayo Clinic
What is
PTSD:
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Risk Factors:
Being Female
Experience long lasting trauma earlier in life
Lacking good support system or family and friends
Having other mental problems
Having first – degree relatives with mental health problems
Having first – degree relative with depression
Having been abused or neglected as a child
Source Mayo Clinic
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Post Traumatic Stress Disorder
andAcute Stress Disorder
VS
Adjustment Disordersand
Other Specified Trauma- and Stressor- Related Disorder
DSM 5
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Traumatic Event Defined
“Exposure to actual or threatened death, serious injury, or sexual violence”
DSM 5
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Symptom Categories
Intrusion
Recurrent, Involuntary, & Distressing memories or dreams
Psychological or Physiological distress at similar or symbolic cues
Avoidance
Efforts to avoid memories, thoughts, feelings, and external reminders
Negative Cognition and mood
Inability to remember
Distored belief regarding the cause or future
Loss of interest
Inability to experience positive emotions
Detachment/estrangement from others
Arousal and Reactivity Irritability
Anger
Reckless or self destructive behavior
Hypervigilance
Increased startle response
Concentration problems
Sleep disturbance
Dissociation Detachment from oneself
Detachment from surroundings
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Did you avoid events, special occasion and things that reminded you of your experiences
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The Voices of the Moms
“I was in the hospital giving birth on Christmas and signed papers on New Year’s eve. Avoided Holidays ever since until reunion but still mostly avoid. I felt forgotten, thrown away treated like a criminal, shameful, severely depressed and very alone, like someone stole my soul. “
“I couldn’t attend any baby showers –or any events related to the birth of a child. I hated myself and everyone else for what happened. My grief was complete. I had a tubular ligation at age 26 so I could not have any more children. I felt horrible I was horrible to have let her go. “
“I went to baby showers of friends but didn’t feel comfortable because I couldn’t discuss my pregnancy or birth”
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Feeling emotionally numb
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The Voices of the Moms
Numb, Sad, Lonely heartbroken
I shut down emotionally and tried to forget
Cold, dead Two Suicide Attempts
Few feelings as I went into a state of numbness and denial…I suppose I did think about my baby but I have no memories of doing so. Never spoke of her or my experiences to anyone. My goal was graduate and get a job. To be the perfect daughter after Such a disappointment to my parents
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Did you experience hopelessness about the future?
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Did you have problems concentrating after placement?
Answered: 325 Skipped: 0
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Did you experience unusual anger or irritability?
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The voices of mom’s
Disbelief to anger to grief and I fluctuate between grief and anger
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Complications of PTSD
Mental/Psychological May place you in a higher risk for the following:
Depression
Drug Abuse
Alcohol Abuse
Eating disorders
Suicidal thoughts and actions
Physical
May place you in a higher risk for the following health conditions:
Cardiovascular disease
Chronic Pain
Autoimmune diseases: rheumatoid and thyroid disease
Musculoskeletal conditions
Source Mayo Clinic
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“Because of Society’s expectations many mothers have felt guilt and selfish for mourning their lost Children and Trying to find them ..Only when they are given the Permission by society to grieve can they begin to deal with the loss of their children and go on to take the steps towards resolving their grief.source Adoption and Loss: The Hidden Grief, Evelyn Burns Robinson
Why
Were
WE
Impacted?
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What has helped others to move forward?
Counseling
Books
Other children
Being in Reunion and coming out of the fog
Family, Church, Friends
Advanced education
Professional Work
Support Groups
AAC Conferences
Faith
Meeting other Moms
Others have not felt they can move forward.
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Voice of the Mom’s
Move Forward? No I do not think ever be able to do that. But talking about it, joining a support group and being honest with myself and my feelings regarding the adoption has helped.
I do not know If moving forward is the right words. I have come to accept my situation most of the time whereas before I ignored it. That was the only way I could move through life. I never forget my daughter nor did I try to forget. I just stopped talking about her. As soon as my daughter turned 18 I filled out ISRR and 12 years later she did also. That is how reunited And reunion
Finding other moms of loss gas been a great help. They are the only ones who truly get it. Reading blogs of adoptees/moms and reading books on loss and reunion has also been helpful
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Read adoption related materials and research
Attend adoption workshops/conferences
Seek out adoption CEU classes
Participate in local adoption support groups
Suggests of what we can we do to heal?
Counseling
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Thank You
I want to thank the 325 respondents who took the time to answer the survey. Their help and information provided me with the necessary facts and documentation to support my workshop.
I want to also thank Susan H., Maz, Rose, Wendy, and Denise for their great input, feedback and support. Thank you for also proofreading my work and finding my errors.
Finally thank you to all of you for attending. I hope you go away with knowledge that can help you in your healing, relationships and to educate others.
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Questions?
Any Question or Comments?
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