11 Relationships Jonathan
Transcript of 11 Relationships Jonathan
A Nathan…
• Helps you see the things you are running away from
• Is honest about even the little things (Eph 4:15)
• Reminds you of what you have to do (James 1:22)
• Sacrifices politeness and kindness for impact (will ‘knock you out’ to perform life-saving surgery on you)
• Pisses you off but makes you think!
Typical male idea of a best friend?
“Someone they haven’t seen for 10 years”
Laura Marcus, New York Times Columnist
“If your very own brother, or your son or daughter, or the wife you love, or your closest friend…”
Deut 13:6
(Increasing levels of intimacy)
…Jonathan became one in spirit with David, and he loved him as himself.
From that day Saul kept David with him and did not let him return to his father's house.
And Jonathan made a covenant with David because he loved him as himself.
Jonathan took off the robe he was wearing and gave it to David, along with his tunic, and even his sword, his bow and his belt.
1 Samuel 18:1-4
I grieve for you, Jonathan my brother; you were very dear to me.
Your love for me was wonderful,
more wonderful than that of women.
2 Samuel 1:26
“O my dear brother Jonathan, I'm crushed by your death.
Your friendship was a miracle-wonder, love far exceeding anything I've known— or ever hope to know.
2 Samuel 1:26 (The Message)
Sign of a psychologically
healthy human being?The ability to
comple te ly trust at least one other
person.
3. The “What? MeSacrifice?” Syndrome
If you have much, give of your wealth;
if you have little, give of your heart.
(Arabian Proverb)
What does a woman want?
“Simple. She wants a partner who cares what she wants.”
Daniel Goleman,Author of EQ
“Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his
life for his friends. You are my friends.”
John 15:13-14