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FOR PARENTS WHO EXPECT MORE
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FOR PARENTS WHO EXPECT MORE
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Open Heart
HolidayThe Heart Gallery
and Art for the HeartPage 47
Generous SoulsRaising Kids with a Giving Spirit!
Celebrating GreenEmbracing an Eco-Friendly Holidaywww.parentguide.com
Nicole JohnsonMiss America 1999Inspires Us All!
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Giving Back“Eeeww! You mean my hamburger is really a cow?” decried my 7-year-old son with pure disgust. “Well, yes,” I admitted, feeling rather stupid. “Hamburger is from a cow.” “Then, I’m not eating hamburgers anymore,” he announced resolutely as he ran out to play.
After the conversation, I felt like I had just shot a public service announcement (PSA) for PETA (People for the Ethical Treatment of Animals), and I had been cast as the ignorant “bad guy.” And right outside my front door on his scooter was the star of the PSA, an enlightened child who had just “educated” me with his sensitivity and innocence.
I couldn’t help but wonder how I ended up here, but I had a feeling it had started a few weeks earlier when my husband had taken the boys up to his father’s property in north Florida. My father-in-law bought the property several years ago as his own personal hunting refuge, and with an artist’s care, he would go there weekly in the off-season to tend to it. He was constantly building and painting those stands hunters sit in (or sleep in if it’s my husband) and stuffing the feeders with corn to attract and fatten the deer. However, in an effort to entertain the boys, he gave some food to my 7-year-old who actually ended up hand-feeding a deer—a memory he will cherish his whole life I’m betting based on the joy with which he shared the experience. So, when he discovered that the whole purpose of this adventure was to plump up the deer and ultimately shoot and eat them, he became visibly upset—his first step toward vegetarianism.
Meanwhile, little did I know that a similar lesson in caring and compassion was unfolding at the home of my publishers, Linda Silva and Jack Hall. In a mature and loving gesture, my publishers’ 6-year-old daughter decided to cut her stunning long locks and donate them to Locks of Love. Locks of Love is a wonderful organization that uses real hair, donated from caring people, to craft wigs for those who have lost their hair while battling cancer. According to Linda, the act was motivated by her daughter’s desire to help those children who were sick.
Ironically, during all this, I was planning the holiday issue for ParentGuide®, an issue dedicated to “giving back.” Teaching children to give back isn’t always easy. It requires cultivating a sense of empathy and compassion and getting past children’s tendencies to want anything and everything under the sun. Sacrifice is a natural part of giving back, something that doesn’t always flow easily from adults, much less children. So, before I began work on the issue, I had planned a ritual at my own home whereby we would buy a toy and donate it to a social service organization. But now, in my own home and in that of my publishers’, I realized we adults were being taught the true meaning “giving back” by a powerful, pint-sized vegetarian and a lovely, little short-haired lady.
So, in this issue of ParentGuide®, please enjoy our special tribute to adoption, the inspiring story of mom and Miss America 1999, Nicole Johnson, and our “enlightening” gift guide. And this season, rather than trying to teach your kids to give back, watch and learn from them.
Happy Holidays,
Geodie Baxter Padgett
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Vol. 11 No. 6
SATURDAY Nov. 10th
SUNDAY Nov. 11th
Giant Inflatables, Take-Home Crafts, Magic, Face Painting, Roving Dress-Up
Characters, Balloon ArtistsVisit our Nature Zone &
Butterfly Garden
4 SHOWs DAILY by the
SATURDAY Nov. 10th:
11:00-12:00 Daniela/Hello Kitty Meet&Greet
12:00- 1:00 Nickelodeon Live Pool Show &
Dora the Explorer
t:00-2:00 Tampa Bay Applause Music
2:00-3:00 Nickelodeon Live Pool Show & SpongeBob
3:00-4:00 Shana Banana/Spiderman Meet & Greet
4:00-5:00 NE High School Musical
5:00-6:00 Nickelodeon Live Pool Show &
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Family Fun Zone Stage
SUNDAY Nov. 11TH 11:00-12:00 Tampa Bay Applause Music
12:00-1:00 Nickelodeon Live Pool Show & SpongeBob
1:00-2:00 Daniela/Spiderman, Meet & Greet
2:00-3:00 Nickelodeon Live Pool Show &
Dora the Explorer
3:00-4:00 Shana Banana/Hello Kitty Meet & Greet
4:00 -5:00 NE High School Muscial
5:00 -6:00 Nickelodeon Live Pool Show & SpongeBob
For more information call 727-528-3828 or www.ribfest.org
* Performers and Showtimes are subject to change without notice.
Presented by
Vinoy Park - St. Petersburg
SUNDAY Nov. 11TH
SUNDAY Nov. 11TH
$10 In Advance ($9.35 + tax)
$15 Day of Show ($14.02 + tax)
Children 12 and under admitted free when
accompanied by an adult.Gates open daily at 11 A.M.
4 SHOWs DAILY by the4 SHOWs DAILY by the
Shana Banana
SpecialMusical Appearance
“X Games GearSuper Freestyle Tour”
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The Gasparilla Film Festival is presented by Wachovia.
For additional Children’s Day sponsor information, please contact John Rosser, Executive Director, at (561) 251-9941
www.gasparillafi lmfestival.com
Movie NightLead sponsor for this unique event:
The Law Offi ces of KnopikVarnerMoore
CHILDREN’SACTIVITIESfeaturing PBS origami artist, Leonor Rosser (‘Origami with Leonor’), giant infl atable, face painters, free music CDs from Putumayo kids, food and much much more.much much much much
2nd Annual
Children’s DayHyde Park Village
Sunday, November 18th
F I L M F E S T I V A L
Movie NightThe schedule is as follows:3:00- 6:00 pmCHILDREN’S ACTIVITIES6:00- 8:00 pm w/Tom HanksTHE POLAR EXPRESS
Shake up your holiday tradition.
*Free unlimited zoo rides does not include the “Jingle Bell” horse-drawn carriage ride. Dates subject to change without notice. No rain checks.
November 30 and December 1, 7-8, 14-16, 19-23, 26-30 from 6pm to 9pm
Visit Wild Wonderland at Tampa’s Lowry Park Zoo for unique and magical moments the kids won’t soon forget. Get
your picture taken with African penguins, or enjoy other featured events, like a “Jingle Bell” horse-drawn carriage ride,
the new “Frosty’s Foam Factory”, visits with Santa and his reindeer,
free unlimited zoo rides* and over a million holiday lights. But you’d
better get shaking soon. For more information visit LowryParkZoo.com. The Jingle meets the Jungle
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Features
64 Pure Green Guts and Glory An intimate, one-on-one interview with Veggie Tales’ star Larry the Cucumber and his alter ego, Mike Nawrocki.
47Adopting From the Heart With November as adoption month, ParentGuide® celebrates the Heart Gallery of Tampa Bay and Art for the Heart in a moving tribute.
NOVEMBER/DECEMBER
On the Cover:Cortez, a 10-year-old in foster care, shares his soul during an adoption photo shoot for the Heart Gallery of Tampa Bay. Photography by Daniel Wallace.
42 Miss America to Motherhood Nicole Johnson is the definition of inspiring as she defied the medical community and succeeded as Miss America and a mom with Type I diabetes.
56 Creating Appreciative Kids Learn how to “shape an attitude of gratitude” with your kids as Shannon Dean explores how to raise kids who give back.
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16 Eco-Friendly Jessica Brady shares some great tips for enjoying an eco-friendly holiday this year.
20 Design Diva The Harvest Calls
With Thanksgiving right around the corner, Rebecca Markley, ParentGuide’s® Design Diva, provides lots for decorating.
24 ProsperityThe Holidays are Coming!
Quick Develop a Spending PlanKimberly Overman offers some solid financial
advice to keep you from blowing your budget and your holidays.
28 Being Well
Successful Holiday Shopping With Your Overweight Teen or Child
Shopping with an overweight child requires planning and sensitivity. Dr. Susan Bartell shows you how to do it successfully.
32 Special Needs
Move Over Bradys: Here Comes the Byler Bunch Jessica Brady talks about the babies’ birth with Karoline and Ben Byler in the second part of our series on Florida’s first set of sextuplets.
36 Retreat CenterParenting & Humor: No Time to
Lick Your Wounds Kurt Goerke shows us there’s never a better place for humor than in parenting.
38 Ask RuthRuth Broadwater, M.A., answers questions
on adopting.
Annual Gift GuideOur highly anticipated Gift Guide comes in a special
pull-out section featuring unique and beautiful gifts that will add a glow to your holiday.
3 Editor’s Letter
10 Events Calendar
66 Birthday Zone
68 Market Place
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November20071 ThursdayNOVEMBER 1 – 4STRICTLY SAIL TO ST. PETERSBURG1:00pm – 4:00pmSpa Beach Parkwww.strictlysail.com
2 FridayNOVEMBER 2 – 3 HOLIDAY SHOPPING EXTRAVAGANZA9:00amPalma Ceia United Methodist Day School813-837-9580
NOVEMBER 2 – 4 30TH ANNUAL FLAPJACK FESTIVALLand O’ Lakes Community Centerwww.centralpascochamber.com
NOVEMBER 2 – 4 SESAME STREET LIVE “ELMO MAKES MUSIC”Ruth Eckerd Hallwww.rutheckerdhall.com
NOVEMBER 2 – 4 DAY OUT WITH THOMAS 2007 “ALL ABOARD TOUR”Inland Lakes Railway866-468-7630www.inlandlakesrailway.com
3 SaturdayNOVEMBER 3 – 4 “EVER PRESENT HOLIDAY SHOW” EXHIBIT OPENINGDunedin Fine Arts Center727-298-3322www.dfac.org
NOVEMBER 3 – 4 AMERICAN GIRL FASHION SHOWEmbassy Suites813-989-9566www.ttjuniors.org
NOVEMBER 3 – 4 A TASTE OF JAZZWeeki Wachee352-797-7402www.hernandoarts.org
FALL FESTIVAL12:00pm – 6:00pmDoby Elementary
GIRL SCOUTS BROWNIES10:00am – 12:00pmKid City, The Children’s Museum of Tampa813-935-8441www.flachildrensmuseum.com
ZOOFARI7:00pm – 11:00pm813-935-8552www.lowryparkzoo.com
4 DAYLIGHT SAVINGS TIME ENDS
8 ThursdayNOVEMBER 8 – 9 TAMPA BAY DEVIL RAYS CELEBRATIONEvent Kickoff 4:00pm Straub Parkwww.tampabaydevilrays.com
NOVEMBER 8 – 10 POLAR-PALOOZA10:00amMOSI813-987-6100www.mosi.org
NOVEMBER 8 – 11 TAMPA BAY INTERNATIONAL AUTO SHOWTampa Convention Centerwww.autoshowtampa.com
9 FridayNOVEMBER 9 – 11 RIBFESTVinoy Park727-528-3828www.ribfest.org
NOVEMBER 9 – 11 BABIES R’ US/TOYS R’ US SUPERSTORE GRAND OPENINGRegular Store HoursBabies R’US/Toys R’ US Wesley Chapel Superstorewww.babiesrus.com
NOVEMBER 9 – 11 DAY OUT WITH THOMAS 2007 “ALL ABOARD TOUR”Inland Lakes Railway866-468-7630www.inlandlakesrailway.com
NOVEMBER 9 – 11 2007 HOLIDAY GIFT MARKETFlorida State Fairgrounds Entertainment Hallwww.jltampa.org
10 SaturdayNOVEMBER 10 – JANUARY 5 WINTER WONDERLANDSelect Fridays and SaturdaysTyrone Square Mall727-345-0126www.simon.com
SANTA’S ARRIVAL9:30am – 11:30amTyrone Square Mall727-345-0126www.simon.com
11 VETERAN’S DAY
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A TASTE OF JAZZWeeki Wachee352-797-7402www.hernandoarts.org
FALL FESTIVAL12:00pm – 6:00pmDoby Elementary
GIRL SCOUTS BROWNIES10:00am – 12:00pmKid City, The Children’s Museum of Tampa813-935-8441www.flachildrensmuseum.com
ZOOFARI
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813-935-8441
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Dunedin Fine Arts Center
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866-468-7630www.inlandlakesrailway.com
4 DAYLIGHT SAVINGS TIME ENDS
8 ThursdayNOVEMBER 8 – 9 TAMPA BAY DEVIL RAYS CELEBRATIONEvent Kickoff 4:00pm Straub Parkwww.tampabaydevilrays.com
NOVEMBER 8 – 10 POLAR-PALOOZA10:00amMOSI813-987-6100www.mosi.org
NOVEMBER 8 – 11 TAMPA BAY INTERNATIONAL AUTO SHOWTampa Convention Centerwww.autoshowtampa.com
NOVEMBER 9 – 11 DAY OUT WITH THOMAS 2007 “ALL ABOARD TOUR”Inland Lakes Railway866-468-7630www.inlandlakesrailway.com
NOVEMBER 9 – 11 2007 HOLIDAY GIFT MARKETFlorida State Fairgrounds Entertainment Hallwww.jltampa.org
10 SaturdayNOVEMBER 10 – JANUARY 5 WINTER WONDERLANDSelect Fridays and SaturdaysTyrone Square Mall727-345-0126www.simon.com
SANTA’S ARRIVAL9:30am – 11:30amTyrone Square Mall727-345-0126www.simon.com
11 VETERAN’S DAY
2007 “ALL ABOARD TOUR”2007 “ALL ABOARD TOUR”Inland Lakes RailwayInland Lakes Railway866-468-7630
4 DAYLIGHT SAVINGS TIME ENDS
www.inlandlakesrailway.com TIME ENDS
Entertainment Hallwww.jltampa.orgwww.jltampa.org
SaturdayEvent Kickoff 4:00pm Straub Park Saturday
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NOVEMBER 8 – 11 Tyrone Square MallTyrone Square Mall727-345-0126
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12 MondayNOVEMBER 12 – DECEMBER 21MICKEY’S VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS PARTYMagic Kingdom – Walt Disney Worldwww.disneyworld.com
NOVEMBER 9 – JANUARY 6 MICKEY’S JUNGLE JINGLE PARADEAnimal Kingdom – Walt Disney Worldwww.disneyworld.com
MINI MASTERS ART WORKSHOP10:00am – 11:00amDunedin Fine Arts Center727-298-3322www.dfac.org
13 TuesdayNOVEMBER 13 – JANUARY 6 THE OSBORNE FAMILY SPECTACLE OF DANCING LIGHTSMGM Studios – Walt Disney Worldwww.disneyworld.com
14 WednesdayMOMMY & ME10:30am and 11:15amAt Kid City’s Wee Wonder Wednesdayswww.parentguide.com
16 FridayNOVEMBER 16 – 17 ONCE A YEAR GIANT PUPPET SHOW ”CINDERELLA AND THE CHINESE SLIPPER” 11:00am727-821-8992 Ext. 209www.greatex.org
NOVEMBER 16 – 18 FLORIDA PIRATE FESTIVALVinoy Park St. Pete
NOVEMBER 16 – 18 SUNCOAST DIXIELAND JAZZ CLASSICSheraton Sand Key Resortwww.jazzclassic.com
NOVEMBER 16 – DECEMBER 30 OLD FASHIONED CHRISTMASCypress Gardenswww.cypressgardens.com
MOMMY & ME10:30am – 11:30amSafety Harbor Gazebo at John Wilson Parkwww.parentguide.com
AFTERNOON CONCERT SERIESNoon – 2:00pm Gazebo at John Wilson Parkwww.cityofsafetyharbor.com
3RD FRIDAY MUSIC SERIES6:00pm – 9:00pmDowntown Safety Harborwww.cityofsafetyharbor.com
17 SaturdayTHE WIGGLES LIVESt. Pete Times Forumwww.stpetetimesforum.com
CELTIC FESTIVAL11:00am – 9:00pmHighlander Park in Dunedin727-733-3197www.dunedinhighlandgames.com
SKYWATCH6:00pm – 10:00pm, MOSIwww.mosi.org
18 SundayGASPARILLA FILM FESTIVAL “CHILDREN’S DAY”3:00pm – 6:00pm Children’s events6:00pm – 8:00pm Movie presentationHyde Park Villagewww.gasparillafilmfestival.com
20 TuesdayIT’S MAGICMagic show for children with Stuart Palm2:00pmDunedin Fine Arts Center727-298-3322www.dfac.org
22 THANKSGIVING
23 FridayNOVEMBER 23 – DECEMBER 9 WORD OF LIFE THE SIGHTS AND SOUNDS OF CHRISTMASSelect Dates, Harry Bollback Performing Arts Center, New Port Richey877-412-8687www.wol.org
NOVEMBER 23 – DECEMBER 30HOLIDAYS AROUND THE WORLDEpcot – Walt Disney Worldwww.disneyworld.com
HOLIDAY TREE LIGHTING6:30pm, North Straub Park727-893-7734
24 SaturdayNOVEMBER 24 – 25“THE SNOW PRINCESS”Largo Cultural Center, 727-587-6751www.thesnowprincess.com
25 SundayCHARLOTTE’S WEBTampa Bay Performing Arts Centerwww.tbpac.com
29 ThursdaySOCIETY PLAYERS “A CHRISTMAS CAROL”The Lakeland Centerwww.lakelandcenter.com
30 FridayNOVEMBER 30 – DECEMBER 2 ORLANDO BALLET “THE NUTCRACKER”Tampa Bay Performing Arts Centerwww.tbpac.com
NOVEMBER 30 – DECEMBER 30 WILD WONDERLAND6:00pm – 9:00pmLowry Park Zoo813-935-8552www.lowryparkzoo.com
OLD FASHIONED CHRISTMASTampa Bay Performing Arts CenterDowntown Main Street Dunedin727-812-4530
GASPARILLA FILM FESTIVAL “CHILDREN’S DAY”3:00pm – 6:00pm Children’s events6:00pm – 8:00pm Movie presentation
GASPARILLA FILM FESTIVAL “CHILDREN’S DAY”3:00pm – 6:00pm Children’s events
CELTIC FESTIVAL11:00am – 9:00pmHighlander Park in Dunedin727-733-3197Highlander Park in Dunedin727-733-3197www.dunedinhighlandgames.com
SKYWATCH6:00pm – 10:00pm, MOSI
www.dunedinhighlandgames.com
SKYWATCH6:00pm – 10:00pm, MOSIwww.mosi.org
SundayGASPARILLA FILM FESTIVAL
6:00pm – 10:00pm, MOSI6:00pm – 10:00pm, MOSIwww.mosi.org6:00pm – 10:00pm, MOSIwww.mosi.org
11:00am – 9:00pmHighlander Park in Dunedin727-733-3197www.dunedinhighlandgames.com
www.stpetetimesforum.com
CELTIC FESTIVALCELTIC FESTIVALCELTIC FESTIVAL11:00am – 9:00pmHighlander Park in Dunedin11:00am – 9:00pm
www.stpetetimesforum.com
CELTIC FESTIVAL
THE OSBORNE FAMILY SPECTACLE St. Pete Times Forumwww.stpetetimesforum.com
THE WIGGLES LIVESt. Pete Times Forum
SaturdaySaturdayTHE WIGGLES LIVETHE WIGGLES LIVESt. Pete Times Forum
SaturdaySaturday
Downtown Safety Harborwww.cityofsafetyharbor.com
6:00pm – 9:00pmDowntown Safety Harborwww.cityofsafetyharbor.com
Saturday
www.cityofsafetyharbor.com
3RD FRIDAY MUSIC SERIES6:00pm – 9:00pmDowntown Safety Harborwww.cityofsafetyharbor.com
www.cityofsafetyharbor.com
3RD FRIDAY MUSIC SERIES
Downtown Safety HarborDowntown Safety Harbor
www.cityofsafetyharbor.com
3RD FRIDAY MUSIC SERIES
AFTERNOON CONCERT SERIES
Gazebo at John Wilson Parkwww.cityofsafetyharbor.com
AFTERNOON CONCERT SERIES
Gazebo at John Wilson Parkwww.cityofsafetyharbor.comwww.cityofsafetyharbor.com
3RD FRIDAY MUSIC SERIES
Downtown Safety Harborwww.cityofsafetyharbor.com
SaturdayTHE WIGGLES LIVESt. Pete Times ForumTHE WIGGLES LIVE
HOLIDAY TREE LIGHTINGHOLIDAY TREE LIGHTING6:30pm, North Straub Park6:30pm, North Straub Park6:30pm, North Straub Park727-893-77346:30pm, North Straub Park6:30pm, North Straub Park727-893-7734727-893-77346:30pm, North Straub Park727-893-7734
24 Saturday24 SaturdaySaturday24NOVEMBER 24 – 25
24NOVEMBER 24 – 25NOVEMBER 24 – 25“THE SNOW PRINCESS”
St. Pete Times Forumwww.stpetetimesforum.com
SundaySundayCHARLOTTE’S WEBTampa Bay Performing Arts CenterTampa Bay Performing Arts CenterTampa Bay Performing Arts Centerwww.tbpac.comwww.tbpac.comwww.tbpac.com
ThursdayThursdayThursdaywww.tbpac.com
9 Thursday
Tampa Bay Performing Arts Centerwww.tbpac.com
29292 Thursday2SOCIETY PLAYERS SOCIETY PLAYERS “A CHRISTMAS CAROL”
www.dunedinhighlandgames.com
25 SundayCELTIC FESTIVAL11:00am – 9:00pmHighlander Park in Dunedin
www.dunedinhighlandgames.com
6:00pm – 10:00pm, MOSI6:00pm – 10:00pm, MOSI
GASPARILLA FILM FESTIVAL
3:00pm – 6:00pm Children’s events6:00pm – 8:00pm Movie presentation6:00pm – 8:00pm Movie presentation6:00pm – 8:00pm Movie presentation3:00pm – 6:00pm Children’s events6:00pm – 8:00pm Movie presentation
6:00pm – 10:00pm, MOSI
SundayGASPARILLA FILM FESTIVAL “CHILDREN’S DAY”3:00pm – 6:00pm Children’s events6:00pm – 8:00pm Movie presentation
Sunday
6:00pm – 8:00pm Movie presentation
www.gasparillafilmfestival.com
Tuesday
6:00pm – 8:00pm Movie presentation
www.gasparillafilmfestival.com
TuesdayMagic show for children with Stuart Palm
Dunedin Fine Arts Center
22 THANKSGIVING
ORLANDO BALLET
Magic show for children with Stuart Palm
“THE NUTCRACKER”Tampa Bay Performing Arts Centerwww.tbpac.com
NOVEMBER 30 – DECEMBER 30 WILD WONDERLAND6:00pm – 9:00pmLowry Park Zoo
www.gasparillafilmfestival.comwww.gasparillafilmfestival.comwww.gasparillafilmfestival.comwww.gasparillafilmfestival.com
www.tbpac.comTuesday
IT’S MAGICMagic show for children with Stuart PalmMagic show for children with Stuart PalmMagic show for children with Stuart PalmMagic show for children with Stuart PalmMagic show for children with Stuart Palm
Dunedin Fine Arts Center
Magic show for children with Stuart PalmMagic show for children with Stuart PalmMagic show for children with Stuart PalmMagic show for children with Stuart PalmMagic show for children with Stuart PalmMagic show for children with Stuart PalmMagic show for children with Stuart PalmMagic show for children with Stuart PalmMagic show for children with Stuart Palm NOVEMBER 30 – DECEMBER 30 Magic show for children with Stuart PalmMagic show for children with Stuart PalmMagic show for children with Stuart PalmWILD WONDERLAND
Magic show for children with Stuart PalmMagic show for children with Stuart PalmWILD WONDERLANDWILD WONDERLAND
Dunedin Fine Arts Center
22 THANKSGIVING
Lowry Park Zoo813-935-8552Lowry Park Zoo813-935-8552www.lowryparkzoo.com813-935-8552813-935-8552www.lowryparkzoo.com
OLD FASHIONED CHRISTMASTampa Bay Performing Arts CenterDowntown Main Street DunedinDowntown Main Street Dunedin
813-935-8552www.lowryparkzoo.com
OLD FASHIONED CHRISTMASTampa Bay Performing Arts Center
22 THANKSGIVING
Magic show for children with Stuart Palm
Dunedin Fine Arts Center
22 THANKSGIVING
www.gasparillafilmfestival.com
TuesdayIT’S MAGICMagic show for children with Stuart Palm
Dunedin Fine Arts Center
22 THANKSGIVING
Magic show for children with Stuart Palm
Tuesday“THE NUTCRACKER”Tampa Bay Performing Arts Center
www.lowryparkzoo.com
OLD FASHIONED CHRISTMAS
Tampa Bay Performing Arts Centerwww.tbpac.comwww.tbpac.com
NOVEMBER 30 – DECEMBER 30 Magic show for children with Stuart PalmWILD WONDERLAND6:00pm – 9:00pm
Magic show for children with Stuart Palm NOVEMBER 30 – DECEMBER 30 WILD WONDERLAND6:00pm – 9:00pmLowry Park Zoo813-935-8552
OLD FASHIONED CHRISTMASTampa Bay Performing Arts Center
813-935-8552www.lowryparkzoo.com
OLD FASHIONED CHRISTMASTampa Bay Performing Arts Center
Magic Kingdom – Walt Disney World
Cypress Gardenswww.cypressgardens.com
MOMMY & ME10:30am – 11:30amSafety Harbor Gazebo at John Wilson Parkwww.parentguide.com
AFTERNOON CONCERT SERIESNoon – 2:00pm
www.cypressgardens.com
10:30am – 11:30am10:30am – 11:30am
at John Wilson Parkwww.parentguide.com
AFTERNOON CONCERT SERIESNoon – 2:00pm Gazebo at John Wilson Parkwww.cityofsafetyharbor.com
AFTERNOON CONCERT SERIESAFTERNOON CONCERT SERIESNoon – 2:00pm Noon – 2:00pm Noon – 2:00pm
www.cityofsafetyharbor.com
NOVEMBER 16 – 18 FLORIDA PIRATE FESTIVALVinoy Park St. Pete
NOVEMBER 16 – 18 SUNCOAST DIXIELAND JAZZ CLASSICSheraton Sand Key Resortwww.jazzclassic.com
FLORIDA PIRATE FESTIVAL
NOVEMBER 16 – 18 SUNCOAST DIXIELAND
www.jazzclassic.com
NOVEMBER 12 – DECEMBER 21MICKEY’S VERY MERRY
Magic Kingdom – Walt Disney Worldwww.disneyworld.com
NOVEMBER 9 – JANUARY 6 MICKEY’S JUNGLE JINGLE PARADEAnimal Kingdom – Walt Disney Worldwww.disneyworld.com
MINI MASTERS ART WORKSHOP10:00am – 11:00amDunedin Fine Arts Center727-298-3322www.dfac.org
13 TuesdayNOVEMBER 13 – JANUARY 6 THE OSBORNE FAMILY SPECTACLE OF DANCING LIGHTSMGM Studios – Walt Disney Worldwww.disneyworld.com
14 WednesdayMOMMY & ME10:30am and 11:15amAt Kid City’s Wee Wonder Wednesdayswww.parentguide.com
16 Friday
NOVEMBER 13 – JANUARY 6 THE OSBORNE FAMILY SPECTACLE
MGM Studios – Walt Disney World
727-298-3322
Tuesday1313
OF DANCING LIGHTSOF DANCING LIGHTSOF DANCING LIGHTSMGM Studios – Walt Disney WorldOF DANCING LIGHTSMGM Studios – Walt Disney WorldMGM Studios – Walt Disney WorldMGM Studios – Walt Disney WorldMGM Studios – Walt Disney Worldwww.disneyworld.com
WednesdayMOMMY & ME10:30am and 11:15am
www.greatex.org727-821-8992 E11:00727-821-8992 E727-821-8992 E
”CINDERELLA AND THE CHINESE SLIPPER”
727-821-8992 E727-821-8992 E727-821-8992 Eam
”CINDERELLA AND THE CHINESE ”CINDERELLA AND THE CHINESE
727-821-8992 E
”CINDERELLA AND THE CHINESE ONCE A YEAR GIANT PUPPET SHOW ”CINDERELLA AND THE CHINESE SLIPPER” ”CINDERELLA AND THE CHINESE
NOVEMBER 16 – 17 NOVEMBER 16 – 17 NOVEMBER 16 – 17 ONCE A YEAR GIANT PUPPET SHOW ”CINDERELLA AND THE CHINESE
6
ONCE A YEAR GIANT PUPPET SHOW ”CINDERELLA AND THE CHINESE ONCE A YEAR GIANT PUPPET SHOW NOVEMBER 16 – 17
”CINDERELLA AND THE CHINESE
FridayFridayFridayFriday
ONCE A YEAR GIANT PUPPET SHOW ONCE A YEAR GIANT PUPPET SHOW
At Kid City’s Wee Wonder Wednesdays10:30am and 11:15amAt Kid City’s Wee Wonder Wednesdays
MOMMY & ME10:30am and 11:15amAt Kid City’s Wee Wonder Wednesdays10:30am and 11:15am10:30am and 11:15amMOMMY & MEMOMMY & ME10:30am and 11:15amAt Kid City’s Wee Wonder Wednesdayswww.parentguide.comwww.parentguide.com
MOMMY & ME10:30am and 11:15am
WednesdayWednesdayWednesday
MGM Studios – Walt Disney Worldwww.disneyworld.com
Wednesday
OF DANCING LIGHTS
Wednesdaywww.disneyworld.comwww.disneyworld.com
At Kid City’s Wee Wonder Wednesdays
OF DANCING LIGHTS
At Kid City’s Wee Wonder Wednesdays
OF DANCING LIGHTS
Wednesday
THE OSBORNE FAMILY SPECTACLE OF DANCING LIGHTSMGM Studios – Walt Disney Worldwww.disneyworld.com
18
www.disneyworld.com
OF DANCING LIGHTSOF DANCING LIGHTS
6:00pm – 10:00pm, MOSIwww.mosi.org
NOVEMBER 13 – JANUARY 6
MGM Studios – Walt Disney Worldwww.disneyworld.com
1313
Sunday
6:00pm – 10:00pm, MOSI
Sunday
THE OSBORNE FAMILY SPECTACLE THE OSBORNE FAMILY SPECTACLE NOVEMBER 13 – JANUARY 6
www.mosi.org
Sunday
Tuesday
6:00pm – 10:00pm, MOSI
THE OSBORNE FAMILY SPECTACLE
www.dunedinhighlandgames.com
www.mosi.orgwww.mosi.org
www.dunedinhighlandgames.com
SKYWATCH
THE OSBORNE FAMILY SPECTACLE
Tuesday
www.dunedinhighlandgames.com
Tuesday
6:00pm – 10:00pm, MOSI
www.dunedinhighlandgames.comwww.dunedinhighlandgames.com
Highlander Park in Dunedin
6:00pm – 10:00pm, MOSI
727-733-3197727-733-3197
6:00pm – 10:00pm, MOSI
THE OSBORNE FAMILY SPECTACLE
www.dunedinhighlandgames.comwww.dunedinhighlandgames.com
6:00pm – 10:00pm, MOSI
www.dunedinhighlandgames.comwww.dunedinhighlandgames.com
Highlander Park in Dunedin
www.dunedinhighlandgames.com
11:00am – 9:00pm11:00am – 9:00pm
www.dunedinhighlandgames.com
www.stpetetimesforum.com
Highlander Park in Dunedin
www.dunedinhighlandgames.com
Highlander Park in DunedinHighlander Park in DunedinHighlander Park in Dunedin
www.dunedinhighlandgames.comwww.dunedinhighlandgames.com
St. Pete Times Forum
11:00am – 9:00pmCELTIC FESTIVAL
St. Pete Times Forum
CELTIC FESTIVAL
www.dunedinhighlandgames.com
www.stpetetimesforum.comwww.stpetetimesforum.com
THE WIGGLES LIVESt. Pete Times ForumSt. Pete Times Forum
Saturday
www.stpetetimesforum.com
THE WIGGLES LIVETHE WIGGLES LIVESt. Pete Times Forum
MINI MASTERS ART WORKSHOP
www.stpetetimesforum.com
THE WIGGLES LIVE
Saturday
www.stpetetimesforum.com
Saturday
3RD FRIDAY MUSIC SERIES6:00pm – 9:00pm6:00pm – 9:00pm6:00pm – 9:00pm3RD FRIDAY MUSIC SERIES
www.cityofsafetyharbor.com
Saturday
6:00pm – 9:00pm6:00pm – 9:00pmDowntown Safety Harbor
www.cityofsafetyharbor.comGazebo at John Wilson Park
3RD FRIDAY MUSIC SERIES
Noon – 2:00pm Noon – 2:00pm Gazebo at John Wilson ParkNoon – 2:00pm
Downtown Safety Harborwww.cityofsafetyharbor.com
www.cityofsafetyharbor.com
3RD FRIDAY MUSIC SERIES
www.parentguide.com
www.cityofsafetyharbor.comwww.cityofsafetyharbor.com
Noon – 2:00pm
3RD FRIDAY MUSIC SERIES
www.cityofsafetyharbor.com
AFTERNOON CONCERT SERIES
3RD FRIDAY MUSIC SERIES
www.cityofsafetyharbor.com
at John Wilson Parkwww.parentguide.com
www.cityofsafetyharbor.comGazebo at John Wilson ParkNoon – 2:00pm
3RD FRIDAY MUSIC SERIES
www.cityofsafetyharbor.com
Noon – 2:00pm Gazebo at John Wilson Park
www.parentguide.com
Noon – 2:00pm Noon – 2:00pm
www.cityofsafetyharbor.com
AFTERNOON CONCERT SERIES
3RD FRIDAY MUSIC SERIES
AFTERNOON CONCERT SERIES
at John Wilson Parkwww.parentguide.comat John Wilson Parkat John Wilson Parkwww.parentguide.com
Safety Harbor Gazebo
Gazebo at John Wilson Park
at John Wilson Parkwww.parentguide.comwww.parentguide.comwww.parentguide.com
AFTERNOON CONCERT SERIES
www.parentguide.com
AFTERNOON CONCERT SERIESAFTERNOON CONCERT SERIESAFTERNOON CONCERT SERIESAFTERNOON CONCERT SERIES
at John Wilson ParkSafety Harbor Gazebo Safety Harbor Gazebo 10:30am – 11:30am
AFTERNOON CONCERT SERIES
Safety Harbor Gazebo Safety Harbor Gazebo
Epcot – Walt Disney Worldwww.disneyworld.comwww.disneyworld.com
www.wol.org
NOVEMBER 23 – DECEMBER 30HOLIDAYS AROUND THE WORLDEpcot – Walt Disney Worldwww.disneyworld.comEpcot – Walt Disney Worldwww.disneyworld.com
HOLIDAYS AROUND THE WORLDEpcot – Walt Disney Worldwww.disneyworld.com
HOLIDAYS AROUND THE WORLD
www.wol.org877-412-8687www.wol.org877-412-8687Arts Center, New Port RicheySelect Dates, Harry Bollback Performing Arts Center, New Port Richey
11:00am – 9:00pmHighlander Park in Dunedin
10:30am and 11:15amAt Kid City’s Wee Wonder Wednesdayswww.parentguide.com
1
3RD FRIDAY MUSIC SERIES
Downtown Safety Harborwww.cityofsafetyharbor.com
AFTERNOON CONCERT SERIES
AND SOUNDS OF CHRISTMASSelect Dates, Harry Bollback Performing Arts Center, New Port Richey
TuesdayNOVEMBER 13 – JANUARY 6 THE OSBORNE FAMILY SPECTACLE OF DANCING LIGHTSMGM Studios – Walt Disney World
Wednesday
7 SaturdayTHE WIGGLES LIVE
CELTIC FESTIVAL11:00am – 9:00pmHighlander Park in Dunedin
11:00727-821-8992 E
am
14 Wednesday
www.parentguide.com
ONCE A YEAR GIANT PUPPET SHOW
Friday
ONCE A YEAR GIANT PUPPET SHOW
MOMMY & ME
1414
NOVEMBER 13 – JANUARY 6 THE OSBORNE FAMILY SPECTACLE
MGM Studios – Walt Disney World
www.mosi.org
OF DANCING LIGHTS
6:00pm – 10:00pm, MOSI
NOVEMBER 13 – JANUARY 6 THE OSBORNE FAMILY SPECTACLE
727-733-3197
11:00am – 9:00pmHighlander Park in Dunedin727-733-3197
6:00pm – 10:00pm, MOSI
Tuesday
Highlander Park in Dunedin727-733-3197www.dunedinhighlandgames.com
Highlander Park in Dunedin
www.dunedinhighlandgames.com
Highlander Park in Dunedin11:00am – 9:00pmHighlander Park in Dunedin
CELTIC FESTIVAL
Highlander Park in Dunedin
www.stpetetimesforum.comwww.stpetetimesforum.com
Safety Harbor Gazebo at John Wilson Parkwww.parentguide.com
AFTERNOON CONCERT SERIESNoon – 2:00pm Gazebo at John Wilson Parkwww.cityofsafetyharbor.com
3RD FRIDAY MUSIC SERIES6:00pm – 9:00pmDowntown Safety Harborwww.cityofsafetyharbor.com
7
Noon – 2:00pm
www.stpetetimesforum.com
3RD FRIDAY MUSIC SERIES
www.cityofsafetyharbor.comwww.cityofsafetyharbor.com
Saturday
Gazebo at John Wilson Parkwww.cityofsafetyharbor.comwww.cityofsafetyharbor.com
www.cityofsafetyharbor.com
6:00pm – 9:00pmDowntown Safety Harbor
www.disneyworld.com
HOLIDAY TREE LIGHTING6:30pm, North Straub Park
Gazebo at John Wilson Park
www.parentguide.comwww.parentguide.com
AFTERNOON CONCERT SERIES
Gazebo at John Wilson Parkwww.cityofsafetyharbor.com
Safety Harbor Gazebo at John Wilson Park
AFTERNOON CONCERT SERIES
at John Wilson Parkwww.parentguide.com
AFTERNOON CONCERT SERIESAFTERNOON CONCERT SERIES
at John Wilson ParkSafety Harbor Gazebo at John Wilson Parkwww.parentguide.comat John Wilson Parkwww.parentguide.com
10:30am – 11:30amSafety Harbor Gazebo
www.disneyworld.com
HOLIDAYS AROUND THE WORLD
www.wol.org877-412-8687www.wol.org
NOVEMBER 23 – DECEMBER 30
Arts Center, New Port Richey
NOVEMBER 13 – JANUARY 6 NOVEMBER 13 – JANUARY 6
OF DANCING LIGHTSOF DANCING LIGHTSOF DANCING LIGHTSMGM Studios – Walt Disney WorldMGM Studios – Walt Disney World
ONCE A YEAR GIANT PUPPET SHOW ONCE A YEAR GIANT PUPPET SHOW ”CINDERELLA AND THE CHINESE
NOVEMBER 16 – 18
Vinoy Park St. Pete
NOVEMBER 16 – 18
NOVEMBER 16 – 17
”CINDERELLA AND THE CHINESE
FLORIDA PIRATE FESTIVAL
www.jazzclassic.com
FLORIDA PIRATE FESTIVALNOVEMBER 16 – 18 NOVEMBER 16 – 18 NOVEMBER 16 – 18
NOVEMBER 16 – 17
JAZZ CLASSIC
www.jazzclassic.com
FLORIDA PIRATE FESTIVALVinoy Park St. PeteFLORIDA PIRATE FESTIVAL
Sheraton Sand Key ResortSheraton Sand Key Resortwww.jazzclassic.com
NOVEMBER 16 – 18
. 209
www.jazzclassic.com
JAZZ CLASSICSheraton Sand Key ResortSheraton Sand Key Resortwww.jazzclassic.com
FLORIDA PIRATE FESTIVAL
SUNCOAST DIXIELAND
FLORIDA PIRATE FESTIVAL20
Hyde Park Village
2020202020
www.gasparillafilmfestival.com
IT’S MAGICIT’S MAGIC
202020 Tuesday
6:00pm – 8:00pm Movie presentationHyde Park Village
TuesdayTuesdayTuesdayTuesdayTuesdaywww.gasparillafilmfestival.com
6:00pm – 8:00pm Movie presentationHyde Park Village
Tuesday
22 THANKSGIVING
Magic show for children with Stuart Palm
Dunedin Fine Arts Center
www.dfac.orgwww.dfac.org
www.gasparillafilmfestival.com
Dunedin Fine Arts Center
Tampa Bay Performing Arts Centerwww.tbpac.comwww.tbpac.comwww.tbpac.com
SLIPPER” am
727-821-8992 Ewww.greatex.org
ONCE A YEAR GIANT PUPPET SHOW ”CINDERELLA AND THE CHINESE
IT’S MAGICMagic show for children with Stuart Palm2:00pmDunedin Fine Arts Center727-298-3322www.dfac.org
22 THANKSGIVING
Magic show for children with Stuart Palm
NOVEMBER 16 – 18 SUNCOAST DIXIELAND
FLORIDA PIRATE FESTIVAL
www.greatex.org
ONCE A YEAR GIANT PUPPET SHOW
FLORIDA PIRATE FESTIVALNOVEMBER 16 – 18
Vinoy Park St. Pete
www.jazzclassic.com
ONCE A YEAR GIANT PUPPET SHOW
FLORIDA PIRATE FESTIVALNOVEMBER 16 – 18
ONCE A YEAR GIANT PUPPET SHOW
www.jazzclassic.com
Hyde Park Village
727-298-3322www.dfac.org
IT’S MAGIC
3:00pm – 6:00pm Children’s events
www.dfac.org
www.gasparillafilmfestival.com
Tuesday
22 THANKSGIVING
Magic show for children with Stuart Palm
22 THANKSGIVING
“THE NUTCRACKER”Tampa Bay Performing Arts Centerwww.tbpac.comTampa Bay Performing Arts Centerwww.tbpac.comTampa Bay Performing Arts Centerwww.tbpac.comTampa Bay Performing Arts CenterTampa Bay Performing Arts Center
”CINDERELLA AND THE CHINESE
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1 SaturdayDECEMBER 1 – 31CHRISTMAS IN THE VILLAGEJohn’s Pass Village, Madeira Beachwww.johnspassfestivals.com
SANTA PARADE & SNOWFESTDowntown St. Pete and North Straub Park727-893-7441
RIVER LIGHTS BOAT PARADESims Park New Port Richeywww.nprmainstreet.com
GIRL SCOUTS DAISIES10:00am – 12:00pmKid City, The Children’s Museum of Tampa813-935-8441www.flachildrensmuseum.com
5 HANUKKAH
6 ThursdayDECEMBER 6 – 30RADIO CITY CHRISTMAS SPECTACULARTampa Bay Performing Arts Centerwww.tbpac.com
7 FridayDECEMBER 7 – 8CHOCOLATE NUTCRACKERMahaffey Theater727-892-5767www.mahaffeytheater.com
DECEMBER 7 – 9 MAIN STREET HOLIDAYSSims Park New Port Richeywww.nprmainstreet.com
HOLIDAY TREE LIGHTING6:00pmSafety Harbor Gazebo, John Wilson Park727-724-1572
CHRISTMAS WONDERLAND6:00pm – 9:00pmR. E. Olds Park Oldsmar813-749-1260
THE FLORIDA ORCHESTRA’S “JINGLE BELL POPS”Tampa Bay Performing Arts Centerwww.tbpac.com
8 SaturdayDECEMBER 8 – 9NUTCRACKERRuth Eckerd Hall727-791-7400www.rutheckerdhall.com
BREAKFAST WITH SANTA9:00am & 10:30amRigsby Recreation Center727-724-1545
HOLIDAY STREET PARADEBayshore Boulevard Dunedin727-812-4530
A CHRISTMAS CELEBRATION WITH THE TAMPA BAY HERALDS OF HARMONYTampa Bay Performing Arts Centerwww.tbpac.com
9 SundayFAMILY TIME1:30pm – 3:00pmDunedin Fine Art Center727-298-3322www.dfac.org
A JINGLE BELL POPSMahaffey Theater727-892-5767www.mahaffeytheater.com
12 WednesdayMINI-MASTERS PRESCHOOL CREATIONS10:00am – 11:00amDunedin Fine Art Center727-298-3322www.dfac.org
MOMMY & ME10:30am and 11:15amAt Kid City’s Wee Wonder Wednesdayswww.parentguide.com
14 FridayDECEMBER 14 – 15PUPPET SHOW “HANSEL & GRETEL”11:00am727-821-8992 ext. 209www.greatex.org
PRESENTS FOR PRIMATESLowry Park Zoo813-935-8552www.lowryparkzoo.com
15 SaturdayHOLIDAY PARADE1:00pmSafety Harbor Main Street727-724-1530
16 SundayCLAY GINGERBREAD HOUSES1:00pm – 3:30pmDunedin Fine Art Center727-298-3322www.dfac.org parentguide.com 5
On-going EventsAFTERNOON FUNSaturdays 1:00pm – 4:00pmSt. Pete Pier727-821-6443www.stpetepier.com
WEE WONDER WEDNESDAY2nd and 3rd Wednesday of the monthKid City, The Children’s Museum of Tampa813-935-8441www.flachildrensmuseum.com
FREE FIRST FRIDAY1st Friday of the monthKid City, The Children’s Museum of Tampa813-935-8441www.flachildrensmuseum.com
BREAKFAST WITH DALISaturdays9:00amSalvador Dali Museum727-823-3767www.salvadordalimuseum.org
LOWRY PARK ZOOCome celebrate your birthday at the Zoo or the Zoo can come to you!813-935-8552www.lowryparkzoo.com
21 FridayDECEMBER 21 – 22 THE MOSCOW BALLET PRESENTS “THE GREAT RUSSIAN NUTCRACKER”Mahaffey Theater727-892-5767www.mahaffeytheater.com
MOMMY & ME10:30am – 11:30amSafety Harbor Gazebo at John Wilson Parkwww.parentguide.com
AFTERNOON CONCERT SERIESNoon – 2:00pmGazebo at John Wilson Parkwww.cityofsafetyharbor.com
3RD FRIDAY MUSIC SERIES6:00pm – 9:00pmDowntown Safety Harborwww.cityofsafetyharbor.com
22 WINTER BEGINS
22 SaturdayCHRISTMAS CAROLRuth Eckerd Hall727-791-7400www.rutheckerdhall.com
DICKEN’S CAROLERS4:00pmSt. Pete Pierwww.stpetepier.com
SKYWATCH6:00pm – 10:00pmwww.mosi.org
23 SundayA CHRISTMAS CAROLMahaffey Theater727-892-5767www.mahaffeytheater.com
24 CHRISTMAS EVE
25 CHRISTMAS DAY
26 WednesdaySTORY TIME10:00am – 11:00amKid City, The Children’s Museum of Tampa813-935-8441www.flachildrensmuseum.com
28 FridayTHE MOSCOW BALLET’S“GREAT RUSSIAN NUTCRACKER”The Lakeland Centerwww.thelakelandcenter.com
29 SaturdayDECEMBER 29 – 30HOLIDAY WONDERSMahaffey Theater727-892-5767www.mahaffeytheater.com
DOODLEBOPS LIVERuth Eckerd Hallwww.rutheckerdhall.com
31 NEW YEAR’S EVE
31 MondayNOON YEAR’S EVE9:30am – 1:00pmLowry Park Zoo813-935-8552www.lowryparkzoo.com
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You must be the change you want to see in the world.
– M. Gandhi
Go Green. Those two words can be seen and heard pretty much everywhere we go from car commercials to shopping malls. The theme seems to be catching on, and right it should. For far too long, the well-being of mother earth has been pushed aside or placed on the back burner. To help continue the move to a healthier earth, we have put together a number of ways people of all faiths and religions can celebrate a green holiday.
Christmas:Every year, millions of trees are decorated to celebrate Christmas, but after the holiday they usually end up in a landfill. This is not necessary, since there are many other ways to recycle Christmas trees. Before you toss the tree to the curb, check your water bill or call your city government for dates when your city or county will pick-up the trees to recycle them into mulch. Another option is to plant the tree in your backyard and allow birds to use it for a home during the winter. An even better idea is to use artificial trees, and instead of throwing them away, donate them to a less fortunate family.
Hanukkah:Along with the holiday comes a lot of extra waste, especially wrapping paper, which can’t be recycled. Instead of wrapping gifts in store bought wrapping paper, look for recycled paper, or better yet, use the comics page out of the newspaper. Also, give Hanukkah gelt in the form of Tzedakah to a Jewish or environmental organization of your choice in honor of a friend or relative. You could also adopt a pet, plant a tree or buy an acre of rainforest in someone’s honor.
Las Posadas:The lighting of luminarias culminates on Christmas Eve with the night of Las Posadas, meaning the lodging or the inn, which is a celebration of Christ’s birth. Usually, luminarias are lined along sidewalks and driveways in neighborhoods. For the most part, they are made with paper bags, sand and small candles. This year, save the paper and make your own that can
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be reused every year. Follow these instructions to make a tin can luminaria. Fill the tin with water and freeze it. This makes it easier to punch holes in it without denting the tin. Next, use a hammer and nail to punch holes along the top of the tin. Fill the bottom with ¼ inch of sand and place a tea candle in the sand. Lastly, light the candle and enjoy your beautiful luminaria. Tip: Make designs with the holes for a prettier, more festive luminaria.
Kwanzaa:Like other holidays, Kwanzaa is a time of celebration. This year, try to make your celebration green. Below are ways to make the seven symbols of Kwanzaa eco-friendly.Instead of buying a Kinara, make the candleholder from a 2’ x 4’ piece of wood and screw in candle holders that can be bought at a hardware store. Buy straw Mkeka, or place mats. For Mazao, or crops, buy organic since they are free from pesticides that harm the environment. Also,
buy organic corn for Vibunzi. Kikombe cha umoja is a communal cup. Use one you already have, instead of buying new. Mishumaa saba are the seven candles of Kwanzaa. Use beeswax candles that emit less soot. Zawadi are enriching gifts. Instead of buying them, create your own, since they are supposed to represent creativity.
Eid al-Adha:In order to have a green Eid al Adha, the holiest of Islamic sacred observances, do your best to carpool, in order to decrease the amount of pollution in the air. Also, when preparing foods for the feast, do your best to buy and serve natural and organic foods, since they are not sprayed with harmful pesticides. Instead of purchasing gifts, try to make your own earth-friendly gift or buy potted plants. Plants make for nice gifts, since they provide endless beauty and help clean the air both outside and inside.
© 2007 Regions Bank. Member FDIC. Regions Bank will make a $5 donation to the Marine Toys for Tots Foundation for most new consumer deposit or small business deposit accounts opened, or consumer loan accounts closed, at participating Regions Bank branches in AL, FL and Columbus, GA, from 10/8/07 through 12/21/07 and in AR, rest of GA, IA, IL, IN, KY, LA, MS, MO, NC, SC, TN, TX and VA from 11/19/07 through 12/21/07. Certain account types are excluded. Between 10/08/07 and 12/21/07, in AL, FL, and Columbus, GA, for each new consumer or business checking account opened as the result of a referral by an existing Regions Bank
customer, Regions Bank will (i) make a $5 donation to the Marine Toys for Tots Foundation, and (ii) award the referrer a $10 gift certifi cate for referring a new consumer checking account, and a $25 gift certifi cate for referring a new business checking account. To be eligible, referral forms must contain complete and accurate information for both the referrer and the referred customer. Referred customer must be a new household and not residing with the referrer. Referrer should receive his/her gift certifi cate within 30 days of receipt of an eligible, approved referral form. See participating branches for details. Regions Bank’s minimum donation to the Marine Toys for Tots Foundation is $500,000 and maximum donation is $750,000. Toys for Tots is a registered service mark of the Marine Toys for Tots Foundation and is used under license. Opening deposit varies by account type. Credit approval and other restrictions may apply. All accounts are subject to the terms and conditions of the Regions Deposit Agreement.
Hop on thefeel-good express.Open an Account That CountsSM and a little something goes to Toys For Tots.®
Imagine an easier way to bank and bring holiday joy to a child in need at the same time. It’s happening at Regions. With every new account opened, we’ll donate to the Regions Toys For Tots Bike Fund to purchase bikes for kids in your area. Plus, if you refer someone who opens an account, we’ll make another donation. This holiday, do something good for yourself, good for a friend and good for a child in need. Visit your local Regions branch and open an Account That Counts.
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Get ready for Tom—turkey, that is. Okay, let’s be real. That’s usually the first thing people think of when Thanksgiving rolls around. After all, Thanksgiving is an American tradition that nearly every family celebrates. But if you’re a traditional Turkey Day fan, then you know that fall also represents Harvest time. Throughout history, Harvest was a joyous occasion when farmers danced the jig over the bounty they reaped. Below, you will find some tips for jazzing up your home to celebrate this wonderful time of year and for bringing the Harvest into your home.
Festive and Welcoming EntrywaysWhat better way to kick start this festive season then to adorn an entryway with glorious, colorful vegetables and gourds? Display pumpkins of all shapes and sizes along with purple and gold mums for a colorful and welcoming effect at your front door. To involve the children, build a scarecrow of old jeans and flannel shirt stuffed with hay (see sidebar). And don’t wait for Santa to land before decorating your door. You can purchase ready-made, Harvest wreaths at stores like Michaels or JoAnn Fabrics, or even better, the William Sonoma catalog. Make the project an annual tradition with the whole family.
Cozy Indoors Offers Colors and AromaDraw that magical fall feeling indoors with subtlely placed silk fall leaves (or perhaps the real thing) scattered tastefully over an entryway table or coffee table. Purchase colorful candles of delicious smells and light them throughout your home. Yankee Candle always delivers delectable fall scents. Dump the everyday dining table décor in favor of some fall themed placemats and fall colors. Place some novelty, fall-themed pillows on your sofa, along with a warm throw.
Making Family and Friends Feel Special Besides cooking Tom and all the fixings, it’s always fun to decorate a table that the fam talks about for holidays to come. For inspiration and a little help with this project, check out HomeGoods, Bealls Outlet or even your local Dollar Store. You’ll find inexpensive dinnerware and glassware of every color at these stores. Whether you are serving 6 or 26, you can make each guest feel special with a formal setting at the table.
For a centerpiece, consider fresh flowers or the traditional fare of a bountiful cornucopia overflowing with gourds and vegetables. It is always fun to set your main table days before your celebration so that you can continue to add and tweak the look for the most beautiful
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Harvest Callstable. And don’t forget to arrange a kids’ table. Begin now to teach your children about the routines of entertaining by allowing them to get creative and set their own table. Supervise an activity with your children to create di� erent aspects of the holiday table, such as construction paper-weaved placements and individual favors for each little guest. Let your children take part in the decision making process and allow them to feel responsible for the lovely end result.
Take Time for TraditionIn today’s world, it is important to create holiday traditions as well as maintain some of those that parents and grandparents established. Your festive reaction to the season will provide memorable times in the minds of your children for their entire lifetime, and perhaps, the traditions and fun you o� er your children now will be repeated with your grandchildren in the future.
Happy Holidays to you and your family from your Design Diva, Rebecca!
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Every year, the realization that the rapidly approaching holidays are right around the corner strikes a sense of fear in most families, especially large families. If you are just recovering from last year’s holiday financial hang-over, you may want to consider a spending plan.
Your spending plan is essentially your budget. However, by using a more positive name, you can escape the feeling of restriction that often accompanies the term budget. Spending plans are tools for achieving financial goals that otherwise might seem impossible to reach. It is a way of taking charge of your spending on a daily, weekly and monthly basis, so that you can channel your income to achieve your goals. It’s also a way to keep money from slipping away unnoticed, allowing you to control decisions such as what to buy, when to buy it and why.
Think of your budget goals as your financial wish list and your spending plan as a way to make those wishes a reality. Without clear budget goals, your financial life may remain in disarray, especially after a holiday filled with out-of-town guests and family visitors. Like any other goals in life, your holiday budget goals help you turn your wish list into an action plan. With clear goals in sight, you can chart your course of action and change your direction when needed.
How do you develop a spending plan?To develop a spending plan, you must first become aware of your expenditures and income. A spending diary, whether computerized or handwritten, will help you to identify your spending patterns and eliminate unnecessary expenditures. Your spending analysis should include out-of-pattern expenses, such as annual insurance premiums, automobile registration fees, subscription renewals and holiday expenditures including large family meals, holiday decorations, gifts and guests and event-related entertaining. Unless you derive income from various and unpredictable sources, your income analysis should be easy. Include your current salary or use estimates based on the past two years.
Once you know how much money you have coming in and where it is going, you can determine what percentage of your net income goes to each category of expenditures (e.g., housing, taxes, transportation, food, clothing, gifts, entertainment, etc.). If you have selected goals, such as paying off credit card balances or saving for retirement, then you can try to squeeze money out of one or more of your spending categories to fund the goal. By keeping your plan flexible and periodically reevaluating
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your progress, you can take control of your � nancial situation.
How do you cut costs if you are spending too much?If you are spending too much, there are several ways to cut back. One approach is to work on changing your spending habits. Suppose you are spending too much money on particular items (such as clothing) or spending more money at certain times of the month (near payday). By being aware of those habits, you can make appropriate changes. You may also try shopping smarter and reducing restaurant and/or entertainment expenses. Another option is to downsize to a less expensive car or home to reduce expenditures.
You may also reduce spending by decreasing the cost of your debt. One way is to consolidate or re� nance high-interest loans. As mentioned, you shouldn’t be too hard on yourself, but make a few changes. In time, you may be able to bring your spending under control.
How do you increase your cash flow?To maintain your spending plan, you must always have su� cient cash � ow. There are a number of ways to increase your cash � ow if you need to. You might ask for a raise, take a higher-paying job, take a second job or turn a hobby into a business. You can sell or liquidate assets and eliminate expenses. Have a yard sale to rid you of all those items and gifts from prior holidays that are just taking up space in your house or storage bin.
Create a schedule for meeting your goalsSetting your budget goals requires forecasting your future needs and dreams. Involve every member of your family and discuss each possible goal with them. If possible, � nd a time when everyone in your family is relatively free. Have a brainstorming session with your entire family and ask each member to make a list of three to � ve of their possible needs and dreams as individuals and as a family. At this stage, keep in mind that you want to list all of your goals and dreams. Examining them and prioritizing them will come later. Strive to be as speci� c and unambiguous as possible so that they become easier to plan.
Once each member has made the list, go over all the goals and see if you want to make any changes before you incorporate them into your budget. Unfortunately, for most families and individuals, it is not possible to realize all goals, which is why setting priorities is essential. Prioritizing your goals also makes it easier to decide which path to take
when life throws you a curveball. List all your goals according to their priority. Then write down the amount of money needed, when you will need it and how many installments you will need to meet your goals.
Your spending plan is your active strategy for getting where you want to go. It’s a road map that gives you a sense of direction. It not only puts you in charge of how your money is being spent on a weekly, monthly, and yearly basis, but it also gives you a sense of control.
Kimberly Overman is a mom, certi� ed � nancial planner and owner of The Financial Well, a company devoted to a holistic approach to � nancial planning. To learn more, contact her at 813-229-2000 or visit her Web site at www.the� nancialwell.com.
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Staying Healthy and living longer is due in large part to proper nutrition and adequate exercise. Unfortunately as we grow older managing these things becomes more difficult. That is why we offer Nutritional support as well as Chiropractic care to help maintain your health. We do accept insurance and Medicare as well as other cost saving programs. If you have any questions please call us and speak with one of our doctors.
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Birth is a traumatic experience for Mom and Baby. Subluxations (minor misalignments) in the spine can create many health related issues. Our Doctors use safe effective treatments for examining infants and adults. It is important to get an evaluation as soon as possible after the birth. You should bring Dad too so that the whole family healthy. For more information give us a call or visit our website at: www.familylifehealthcenter.com 727-447-4647
There is a familiar phrase: As the tree is bent so grows the tree. This is believed to be a Korean proverb but holds true when you think of a developing spine. Children need Chiropractic so that their backs develop properly. Not to mention all the other health benefits. We not only have great Chiropractic Care but also Nutritional support for the whole family
Family Life Chiropractic Health Center is located at:131 Garden Ave. N Clearwater, FL 33755
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“Robyn B. Lesser, D.M.D. is pleased to announce that Smile Builders, Dentistry for infants and children is moving.” Dr. Lesser dedicates her practice to providing the highest possible quality care and insists parents take an active and participatory
role in their child’s oral health care. In furthering these efforts Dr. Lesser encourages and allows parents to be present with their child during the initial exam and for most other appointments. Dr. Lesser also performs sedation dentistry. A native
of Clearwater, Florida, Dr. Robyn Lesser earned her BA from the University of Pennsylvania and received her D.M.D. from the University of Florida. Dr. Lesser
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As parents, we want our kids to look great for the holidays—for the parties, dinners and for all those family photos. But when you have an overweight, or even chubby child or teen, shopping for the perfect holiday outfit can be stressful—for your child and for you! Maggie, mother of Ali (11), explains it well, “As soon as I tell Ali I don’t like an outfit she’s trying on, she starts yelling that I think she’s fat. Then she’s crying…I feel like I can never say anything right!” Maggie’s experience is not unusual. Many parents want to be able to get their overweight kids—especially tweens and teens—the perfect holiday outfit, but aren’t sure how to find clothes to flatter and fit, without hurting their child’s feelings. So shopping often becomes a dreaded event for both of you, resulting in misunderstandings, arguing and tears. Some parents and kids say that at times, even long term negative effects can be felt from bad clothes shopping experiences. But you don’t have to continue dreading holiday clothes because there are a few simple but very important ways to make the experience much more pleasant. These will not only improve your shopping experience, but also your relationship with your child or teen.
#1 No matter how pressed for time you may be with holiday craziness, resist the urge to shop with an overweight child and a slim child at the same time (age and gender don’t matter). Your overweight child or teen may have a hard time finding the perfect holiday outfit, while your slimmer child will be looking great in everything. This will be a depressing experience for your chubby child, and it will be uncomfortable for your thinner child, too.
#2 If you are a slim mom shopping with your teenage daughter,
don’t shop for your outfit while shopping for your daughter.Her self-esteem will be negatively impacted knowing that you are trying on clothes which are too small for her. Rather, devote your time to her, and save your own shopping for a time when you’re alone. Of course, this suggestion also applies to a slimmer dad shopping for holiday clothes with his son!
#3 If your child or teen tries on an outfit you don’t like, do your best not to react strongly. Saying things like “You look awful in that,” “That makes you look fat,” or “I refuse to buy that,” or similar words are guaranteed to result in anger, hurt feelings and a huge argument in the fitting room, and even long after, so choose your words carefully. Instead try: “I don’t love that outfit, let’s try a few more before we decide,” or “I’m not sure these pants look as great as some other things I’ve seen you in, would you mind if we keep looking?” Or “Someone would have to be a model to look good in that.”
#4 Catalog shopping can be less stressful for some kids because it means being able to try on clothes in complete privacy. However, this requires advanced planning—for you and your child. It also means you must be prepared to handle returns if necessary, without making your child feel guilty—especially if you’ve purchased more than one size of an outfit. If this seems like too much of a hassle for your lifestyle, then don’t choose catalog shopping.
#5 Pre-visit stores alone before taking your child to make sure they carry a wide enough selection of holiday clothing for chubby or overweight kids and teens. Boys are often easier to shop for than girls because you are probably looking for a suit or a pair of khakis and a sweater or blazer. The boys or men’s department of
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a department store, boys’ specialty clothing store or a men’s discount clothing warehouse are your best places to go. But even so, pay them a visit first. It will be worth shopping at the one with, not only the widest range of sizes, but also the most patient sales people who will be sensitive to the feelings of an overweight boy who dreads clothing shopping.
Shopping for girls is more complex. Your daughter will want a particular style, color and fabric. It can be tough to find fashionable clothes for overweight girls. But with enough time and planning, it’s definitely possible! Don’t take your daughter to a store that you know has no options for her—it will be a demoralizing experience.
#6 Since most larger-sized kids and teens are shy about showing their bodies, shopping in stores with private, rather than communal, fitting rooms is a must. Trying to convince your child that “it’s no big deal” will result in you being labeled insensitive and someone who “just doesn’t’ get it!” This is another reason to check out stores in advance.
#7 Often, overweight tweens and teens will be mortified to find themselves shopping at the same time as the kids neighborhood kids they consider “skinny,” “cool” or otherwise “popular.” And trust me, it won’t work to tell your daughter that it’s no big deal to be trying on size 12 or 14 in the fitting room right next door to two giggling size zero’s or your son that his “husky” khaki’s are fine when the popular lacrosse player in the next fitting room is trying on “slims.” You can usually avoid this problem by shopping at off times. For example, make a special occasion of it by taking your child out of school during lunch for a shopping trip. The missed school hours will be worth the saved self-esteem.
#8 It can be helpful to shop in stores where there are a lot of sales assistants who can give you and your child ideas for outfits that you may not have thought of, or may not have seen. It also speeds up the process when there is someone to bring new clothes and take away the ones that aren’t working—leaving less time for conflict between you and your child!
#9 If clothes shopping seems to end in tears and fighting no matter what you do, it may be easier to send your child or teen shopping with someone else—another relative or adult friend, or in the case of older teens, with his or her friends or even alone.
#10 These tips will be useful all year through, not just during the holidays, making for a happier and more peaceful relationship between you and your child. Happy Holidays!
Dr. Susan Bartell is a nationally recognized child, teen and parenting psychologist and award-winning author. Her latest book is Dr. Susan’s Kids-Only Weight Loss Guide: The Parent’s Action Plan for Success.You can learn more about Dr. Bartell at www.drsusanbartell.com.
If your child tries on an outfit you don’t like, be sensitive.
Say something like, “You’d have to be a model to wear that.”
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HillsborougH County HealtH DepartmenttHe leaDer in proteCting tHe publiC’s HealtH
inFluenZaFLU season is just around the bend. Be ahead of the “bug” and have your family immunized. Check with your family doctor or visit your local health department location. When you protect yourself, you also protect others!
Call (813) 307-8073 for the Hillsborough County Influenza Immunization Hot Line.
new immuniZation requirementEffective January 1, 2008, pneumonia vaccine is required for children age 2 to 24 months of age in childcare facilities and family daycare homes.
take aCtion nowYour childcare facility or family daycare home will ask you to provide an updated DH Form 680 (commonly called the “blue form”) before January 2008.
tHese are tHe requireD immuniZationsChildren entering or attending licensed childcare facilities and family daycare homes need the following age-appropriate immunizations documented on the 680:
Pneumococcal Conjugate vaccineDiphtheria, tetanus, and pertussis vaccinePolio vaccineMeasles, mumps, and rubella vaccineVaricella vaccine (chickenpox)Haemophilus influenzae type b vaccine
Ask your healthcare provider, and visit www.ImmunizeFlorida.org for more information.
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Hillsborough County Health Department Immunization Sites
Crosstown ImmunIzatIons4591-B East Adamo Drive Ste. 210
Tampa, FL 33605813-307-8077Floyd Kelton
4704 Montgomery Ave. Tampa, FL 33616(813) 307-8055Plant CIty
302 N. Michigan AvenuePlant City, FL 33566
(813) 307-8057JoyCe ely
205 14th Avenue S.E.Ruskin, FL 33570 (813) 307-8056
north hIllsborough9827 N. Sheldon Rd.Tampa, FL 33615 (813) 307-8053
unIversIty area13601 N. 22nd Street
Tampa, FL 33613813) 307-8058
sulPhur sPrIngs8605 N. Mitchell Ave
Tampa, FL 33604(813) 307-8054
Hillsborough County Health Departmenthttp://hillscountyhealth.org/immunizations/immun_main.htm
The mission of the Hillsborough County Health Department:
Promote, protect and improve the health of all people in Florida. Please note: Florida has a very broad public records law. Most written communications to or from state officials regarding state business are public records available to the public and media upon request. Your e-mail communications are being archived for at least three years and may therefore be subject to public disclosure.
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SecOnd in a SerieS aBOut the Birth and life Of flOrida’S firSt Set Of SextupletS...the BylerS.
it was nothing out of the ordinary for Karoline Byler to feel one of the six babies inside her stomach move or kick. But then, Brady, also known as Baby a, made himself known.
“there was this massive movement inside, like a full-bodied kick,” Karoline said. “then, i felt a little water come out, then a little more, so i thought, ‘uh oh, i should call the nurse.’”
as she turned her body to reach for the clicker, which was no easy task, as she jokingly put it, her entire water broke. then, the chaos began.
“i got scared and pulled the clicker to call the nurse, but when i pulled it, i pulled it out of the wall. So, i start yelling, but the door was closed and no one heard me, plus, i was in the last room down the hall,” she said.
Karoline knew she had to get to the door to call for help. in a calmed panic, she waddled to the door, opened it and started screaming for help. a doctor and a crew of nurses came running around the corner, yelling for her to get back into bed. after a quick exam, the doctor told her the babies were on their way.
Ben and Karoline Byler had prepared themselves for the 29 weeks and four days leading up to the birth of their sextu-plets. On aug. 6, Karoline had to be admitted into Bayfront Medical center to monitor the rest of her pregnancy. dr. Karen raimer and the staff of nurses made the stay as com-fortable as possible, but Karoline couldn’t help but think about her four-year-old daughter Zoe.
“i felt really nervous and upset that this experience was scarring Zoe, because i wasn’t with her for so long. i really felt guilty about it,” Karoline said.
in her heart, she knew everything would work out. Karoline
Byler BunchThe
The entire family waits with anticipation for the babies to
come home. Family and friends will be there to help the Bylers.
loved to hear Zoe talk about her new siblings and what she wanted to get them for Christmas.
Karoline’s days in the hospital seemed long. Ben would visit her fre-quently, but she was still lonely at times. She had her laptop, cell phone, magazines and the TV to keep her occupied when she was by herself. That’s when her addiction began.
“The whole time I was pregnant, it was really boring,” Karoline said. “My cell phone has Scrabble built into it, so I became addicted to playing Scrabble on that and Solitare on my laptop. I played non-stop.”
But for Ben, the soon-to-be father of seven, it was a bit of a nervous and tiring situation. His mother and sister came to stay with him and to help with Zoe while Karoline was in the hospital. When asked about the stress of being the sole bread winner for a family of eight, he laughed and said, “Well, I do sell bread.”
Ben works as an independent contractor for Pepperidge Farm. The co-pany has been very helpful and will give him a month o� of work when the babies come home.
“It’s a lot of pressure, but I will just put a little extra into work,” he said.“I know it’s going to be a lot of work, but I’m excited for them to come home.”
It was 6 p.m., Ben and Karoline had just � nished an early dinner and Ben left. He was looking forward to watching the Kansas State game when he got home. Karoline, pulled out her cell phone and started to play Scrabble. Then at 6:30 p.m., that “full-bodied kick” came.
As the doctor was getting Karloine back in bed, one of the nurses called Dr. Raimer and Ben. He had just walked in the front door when his cell phone rang. With a frantic voice, the nurse asked Ben where he was. “At home,” he replied. Well, she said Karloine is in labor you need to get back here.
He quickly told his mother and sister that Karoline was in labor and left for the 50-mile trip to the hospital from their home in Wesley Chapel. It was no easy task for Ben.
“I jumped in the van, only to realize I had no gas,” he said. “So, after I stopped to get gas, I � nally got there.”
Once there, Ben never left Karoline’s side. Dr. Raimer arrived, and Karoline was prepped for her C-section.
“I didn’t feel anything, and everything was going well. I just laid there and breathed. Then, I heard the � rst cry and listened for each one,” Karoline said.
Then, it was over. Brady, Eli, Ryan, Jackson, Charlie and Mackenzie were welcomed into the world without any complications.
Born Sept. 1, the babies are all doing well and are still at All Children’s Hospital. They are due to go home sometime in mid-November. As for Ben and Karoline, they are enjoying what little time they have left as a family of three.
“We’re cherishing the last few weeks as a small family,” Ben said,…”and are squeezing in as much going out time as we can, because it’s going to be crazy here in the next couple of weeks.”
For the most part the nursery, decorated in pastel colors with oak furni-ture, is ready to welcome the sextuplets. Ben, with the help of his mother and sister, has turned their 400-square foot garage into a large playroom with a couch, TV and tons of toys.
The entire family waits with anticipation for the babies to � nally come home. Family and friends will be there to help the Bylers’ transition from a small family of three to a large family of nine.
“When I was pregnant I was scared, but now that they’ve arrived, I can’t imagine them not being here,” Karoline said. “I have seven children now, and I wouldn’t want it any other way.”
Dad, Ben Byler, lovingly holds his newborn children. All six babies required special care at All Children’ Hospital in St. Petersburg, and all are doing well. On October 18, the � rst baby, Brady, was discharged and allowed to go home with his family. The other siblings will hopefully follow soon.
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Parenting &Humor: No Time toLick Your Wounds
“Why did the chicken cross the road?” As a parent, the first answer that pops into my head is, “To get away from his kids?” I’m never sure it’s the right answer, although I’m confident that if I was on an all-parent team on the Family Feud that the rest of the parents would be clapping and saying, “Good answer, good answer!” We would be bonded, not by the fact that we really wanted to permanently get away from our kids, but rather by our need to be able to laugh at the fact that we all feel that way sometimes.
Parenting is a job where you really don’t have time to lick your wounds for long. And truthfully, I can’t think of any job where you have more of a need for humor than parenting. It’s a great stress reliever and a way for us to admit our imperfections to our kids and ourselves. It’s like taking fertilizer and growing daisies. “I didn’t attach the diaper well, and now my child has peed on someone in the wedding party.” You can either chastise yourself for your poor diapering skills or sneak a little smile at the fact that your child has just watered the flower girl.
Children can fill your life with humor. One day when my son was about 3 years old, I was home sick and lying on the couch while he played on the floor. He wanted me to play with him, but I said that daddy felt bad so it had to be a game where daddy could just lie on the sofa. He asked, “What kind of game is like that?” I thought of the game 20 questions and explained to him that it was a game where one person thought of something and the other had 20 questions to guess it. He said, “What can I ask?” I said, “Anything.” He repeated, “Anything?” I said, “Right.” I had already thought of the TV since it was right there in the room, so I said, “I thought of something; go ahead with your first question.” He asked one last time, “I can ask anything, and you have to answer?” I said, “Yes.” Then, he asked his question, “What is it?” I said, “It was the TV,” and the game was over. I couldn’t help laughing and feeling better because my 3-year-old had just outsmarted me. Laughter is good medicine and cheaper than most prescriptions.
Humor is how we honestly embrace the truth of parenting, the truth that it is the most challenging and important job we will ever have and not do perfectly. It is liberating if you embrace it. We should get together and have “I’m a lousier parent than you” parties where we share our worse moments with each other. We would get a well-needed laugh and feel the bond of our human frailty in a way that would allow us to be more forgiving of our parental shortfalls and debunk the illusion that some folks are just flat out nailing this parenting gig.
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Answer: Personally and professionally, I can answer this question. My husband and I are in the process of adopting a young lady (15 years old) who came to me via my practice over a year ago. She is a good fit for us since she is academically motivated, creative, loving (great with children) and capable of forming a bond with adults. Many children who have cycled through the foster care system have bonding deficits due to ongoing failures of relationships that are no fault of their own. Many have lost count of how many foster homes they have resided in.
Our child is one of the most resilient I have encountered, with inner strength that is absolutely awe-inspiring: for instance, at 2 years old, she approached her biological mother (who has mental health and addiction issues) with a can of food and announced that she was hungry and for her mother to feed her. As a teenager, she insisted her biological mother terminate her parental rights, so she could have other options open up to her. This amazing young lady proactively advocates for her own needs and is now a part of our loving, extended and functional family as a result.
Not all children in the foster care system have this inner strength, but many can be successfully integrated into a caring home with professional guidance and the couple’s awareness that the child will present some issues: i.e. the adoptive couple must have realistic expectations and the tools with which to deal with issues as they arise. I generated an agreement
(four pages long) that thoroughly covered our expectations for our child, allowing for input from her as well, to avoid any misunderstandings and to keep expectations clear. Children will rise to the level of expectations their parents have created.
Within the work I do for a social service agency, I have witnessed many failed adoptions due to unrealistic and unprepared adoptive parents. If a family therapist had been consulted, for instance, before, during and after the adoption, a lot of these placements could have succeeded. Children within the system often unconsciously sabotage their own placements, as it is better to reject the family than ultimately be rejected by them and suffer the grief and loss issues all over again.
Adopting a child who is older and may be more problematic is certainly in my estimation a very positive way to “give back” to the community. Some friends of ours are adopting a baby from China and have been going through the process for years (this is certainly another option, but with all the children who need homes within our country, I prefer to stay local). Plus, what a lot of adoptive parents don’t know is that the state pays a little monthly subsidy for the child (which offsets the expense), and insurance and education are also covered. Although not a lot of money, the subsidy provided for a special needs child (this can just mean an older child who may be past the “cute” stage) encourages adoption as an option so the family is not too strapped financially with the prospect.
We feel very fortunate to have our young lady, and giving back to our community had been very rewarding.
Ruth Broadwater, M.A. (Marriage and Family Counseling) has taught parenting classes and worked with adolescents and their families for a dozen years. She also works as a Family Coach and has written and illustrated the therapeutic coloring book, Bad Mannered Monsters. Contact her at 727-641-1966. For more on Ruth’s series on blending stepfamilies, please visit www.parentguide.com.
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One magical night each year, little girls all across the country grab their favorite pillows and sit in front of televisions with nail-biting anticipation to discover what will be revealed in the next two hours—the new Miss America. For Nicole Johnson, this dream not only came true, but it also became the catalyst for many ironic and
unexpected blessings that would occur in her life. Diagnosed at age 19, while competing in the Miss Florida pageant, and after almost losing her life to low blood sugar, Nicole’s dreams nearly derailed. Doctors told her that, the due to the physical stress it would put on her body, becoming a journalist and pursuing a pageant crown
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were out of the question. But that wasn’t even the worst. They then delivered the most devastating news of all, that she would not be able to have her own child. “I was stunned when I first learned I had a chronic disease, but then I decided to learn everything I could about it, so that it would just be something I had, not something that had me,” Nicole said. It was her determination to prove the medical community wrong that led her to not only pursue a Masters degree in Journalism, but to continue on and become Miss America in 1999.
With diabetes awareness as her platform, Nicole was the first Miss America to take on a medical issue during her reign. And while her time as Miss America was an incredible experience, she later discovered it was only the beginning of a lifelong journey. After a couple of years of marriage, Nicole’s most important role began in January of 2006 when she defied what doctors claimed was impossible and became a mother to a healthy baby girl. Almost two years later, returning back to her roots in Seminole, Florida, Nicole knows all too well the difficulty in balancing life as a celebrity, a traveling business owner and public health advocate, author of numerous books and now a single mother to 21 month-old-daughter, Ava. How does she do it all?
Checking her own blood sugar four to eight times a day, Nicole wears a 24-hour insulin pump and often a continuous glucose monitor. The devices give her much greater freedom and allow her better control in the management of her disease. Like any other parent, the focus of Nicole’s life is her child and her desire to provide a stable and healthy environment so her daughter thrives. Most weeks, Nicole travels three to four days at a time. So, at the tender age of only 3 months, little Ava began accompanying Nicole on many public speaking events. Not only is she Nicole’s inspiration, but she is living proof that those with diabetes can live normal lives, and most importantly, live out their dreams.
“It’s really powerful when I take Ava with me when I’m speaking to young women. I can simply point to my daughter and show them that there is nothing they can’t do…that diabetes doesn’t have to stop them. Ava has brought hope to many young women who thought they’d never have children, and also to their parents who gave up on the dream of becoming grandparents.” Because
of the lack of information available to women with pre-existing diabetes, Nicole is writing a book about pregnancy and diabetes.
Ava seems to be a natural when it comes to being on stage with her mother. When asked how being a celebrity has affected both her and Ava, Nicole says, “Well, for Ava it has meant that she has been in the spotlight since before she was born. A lot of people know her, the story of my pregnancy with her, and thus feel connected to her.” For Nicole, the effect is different. When she is recognized, it often takes her by surprise. She described that it has affected her in deeper ways. “It is hard for me to trust people. Meaning – do people want to hang out with or be with Nicole, or do they want to be with Miss
America? That is really tough.” Now that Ava is getting older, and routine is becoming increasingly important, she has started attending part-time child care, a decision that Nicole struggles with emotionally, since she wants to be home with her more. While Ava still travels with Nicole occasionally, she also spends quality time with her grandparents and has developed a very strong emotional bond. So that Ava can hear her mother’s voice whenever she desires, Nicole created the “mommy ball,” a round sphere that has photographs of Nicole all around it with special voice-recorded messages to her daughter.
To balance the many demands of Nicole’s continued career, she finds creative ways to spend quality time with Ava
when she is home. Nicole and Ava usually start their day quite early. While Ava is at child care until late afternoon, Nicole works on her articles, makes phones calls, sets appointments, and does whatever else she needs to do to prepare for the week ahead. After spending the evening together, which usually includes a walk in her neighborhood, Nicole continues working for another couple of hours after Ava goes to sleep. Leaving little time for herself, Nicole accepts this sacrifice as part of being a working parent.
Nicole and her daughter also enjoy a special day together each week. Every Monday is declared Ava Day. “I make it a point to try not to work at all on Mondays so that I can give Ava my full attention. It’s her day,” Nicole said. Wanting to have a lot of physical interaction with her daughter, they spend at least thirty minutes a day singing songs and dancing together. Ava also loves to be read to and has
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diabetes can fulfilltheir dreams.
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Almost nine years after her reign, Nicole has emerged as one of the most influential voices in the world for diabetes patient advocacy and education. She has co-authored three diabetic cookbooks with Mr. Food, has written an autobiography about her life with diabetes and currently writes monthly articles for two diabetes magazines. Consulting through her own company Nicole Johnson, Inc, she not only educates the public and corporations worldwide, but she also lobbies in Washington D.C. to improve patient care, insurance coverage and other related issues. Nicole is also the host of DLifeTV, a diabetes-focused television show aired weekly on CNBC.
“I’m thankful for the struggle that this disease has brought to my life,” says Nicole. “You can’t fully understand the truest of joys without knowing pain. I’ve walked both sides and I’m thankful for it. I know that I am a better person for it.”
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The Heart Gallery of Tampa Bay is a unique traveling photo exhibit created to The Heart Gallery of Tampa Bay is a unique traveling photo exhibit created to The Heart Gallery of Tampa Bayfi nd adoptive families for children in foster care. it is part of a collaborative eff ort between the children’s board of hillsborough county and hillsborough Kids, inc. to learn more about adopting a child, visit www.heartgallerytampabay.org.Art for the Heart creates one-of-a-kind quilts featuring the images of foster children seeking adoptive homes.
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Left row from tallest to smallest: Cornelius, 14 • Cormarius, 11 • Cordez, 7 Right row from tallest to smallest: Cortez, 10 • Coriana, 8 • Corneshia, 7
“while we are not all called to adopt, we are all called to care.
these children are a part of our community. only about one
percent of people who read this will ever move on to adopt
a child. but, there’s so much we can do to improve a child’s
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my heart is open,
though i’ve lived alone.
no family with me
to call my own.
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my ability to love.
yet, i’m searching for peace
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my heart is open.
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LoveBy Sherri ProctorHeart-felt
David Penn and his family
Art for the heArt creAtes beAutiful quilts in
collAborAtion with the heArt GAllery of tAmPA bAy.
foster children—all they want is a family and a real home. And with
more than 2,000 foster children between hillsborough, Pasco and
Pinellas counties, it’s incredibly difficult to find those homes. but 30
foster children may be a step closer to having a real family thanks
to Art for the heart, a unique program that displays larger-than-life
photos of children on full-sized quilts throughout the tri-county
area. the first quilt will debut in late november 2007, and there are
high hopes for its success.
“november is national Adoption month; we are pushing
to have the quilts ready as soon as possible,” David Penn,
founder of Art for the heart.
the foster children involved with Art for the heart were given
the opportunity to create a personalized picture frame. that
decorated frame along with a professional portrait of the child
will be superimposed onto fabric becoming an Art for the heart
quilt. the quilt will also include information about the child
such as name, age, hobbies and personal interests.
David Penn is executive director and ceo of Great explorations
museum in st. Petersburg and founding member of the Pinellas and
Pasco heart Gallery. he hopes the quilt exhibits will increase aware-
ness of the abundance of foster children needing permanent homes
and help inspire families considering adoption to take action.
“the group homes are so overcrowded that children often sleep
on the floor of the salvation Army offices before being placed in
foster care,” Penn said.
the traditional heart Gallery features approximately 105 foster chil-
dren. their professional portrait is framed and displayed on a spe-
cial display wall. the display includes a collection of bio-cards that
provide information about the child including contact information.
the Art for the heart quilts are easier to transport allowing several
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lery, which is portable but must be displayed together. the quilts
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Like many parents, my winter holiday fantasies coincide with the displays that begin before Halloween. Mine is a fantasy based not on the childhood gifts I received, but on the experiences and emotions I shared with my family. Because I am determined to cultivate the same for my own children, I spend months planning, decorating and shopping while doing my best to introduce and take part in acts of kindness and charity. But I’m sometimes rewarded with children who hurriedly plow through painstakingly-chosen gifts and breathlessly inquire if this is “all there is?” Luckily, experts assure parents like me that it’s entirely possible, even in today’s consumer-driven society, to create the joyous holidays we crave. If we can learn to harness a child’s seemingly conflicting, yet simultaneous selfish generous desires, we are well on our way to shaping year-round gracious, appreciative children who actually enjoy helping others.
The Gimmes Are Age-Appropriate, But TamableA child with a bad case of the holiday gimmes isn’t necessarily spoiled or a reflection of parenting, according to Brenna Hicks, MA, a children’s therapost in Safety Harbor. “Children cannot put themselves
in another’s shoes until 7 to 9 years of age,” she said. “Empathy for others and gratitude are behaviors that are acquired with time, experience and by habitually viewing the behavior of adults.”
The holidays provide the perfect opportunity to demonstrate that gratitude is not only a nice way to show love, but it also makes the grateful feel good.
Gratitude Provides Long-term Benefits Gratitude is the cornerstone of empathy and charitable behavior and is hugely beneficial for all involved. Studies show that feelings of gratitude can lighten our mental load and color our world view. Grateful people report feeling higher levels of life satisfaction and less stress. And gracious seeds planted at a young age later mature and bear fruit. A Gallup Youth Survey found that nearly half of teenagers said they make a point of regularly expressing their thankfulness.
However, young children need to be spoon-fed this concept because they can’t yet totally understand cause and effect. Instead, they evaluate actions based on how the action makes them feel. Telling
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a child to appreciate his gifts because many children don’t get anything at all elicits negative feelings that the child may block out along with the message. Allowing a child to feel the benefits of giving with charitable experiences shared as a family will likely yield better results. The child will probably enjoy the feelings the experience provides and want to repeat the process. Eventually, children build on these feelings and develop empathic and charitable behaviors.
Cultivating Gratitude Into Everyday Family LifeIt is unrealistic to focus on gratitude only during the holidays and expect our children to take the limited message to heart. “Children learn behaviors of gratitude by observing their parents, “ explains Jennifer Lecrone, Ph.D. of the Family Psychology Center of New Tampa. So model thankfulness as often as you can for everything from yummy snacks to the setting sun. Lecrone suggests using the dinner table as a setting for daily discussions about each family members’ blessings for the day. Most people know this list is lengthy, she says, but we all need daily reminders to make appreciation a habit.
Moving From Gratitude To Charitable BehaviorsOnce your child is regularly exhibiting gratitude, begin to introduce the concept of helping others: “When children are mature enough to accept that they are not the only one with needs and desires, a parent can help establish generosity in age-appropriate ways,” explains Leslie Rainaldi, a developmental psychologist in private practice in Tampa. Experts suggest starting with an activity that is already habitual and fun, like picking up trash, after a child has already enjoyed a day at the park.
When habitual helpful behaviors are in place, move your child toward choosing the recipient of his good deeds. Carol Weisman, author of Raising Charitable Children (F.E. Robbins & Sons Press) suggests a
gift donation chosen by your child but initially funded by you. On a special occasion, like your child’s birthday or the holidays, your child can choose a recipient for a “gift” (perhaps a book for the library or an item on a charity’s wish list). Because you want your child to associate this tradition with gaining rather than losing something, don’t limit the gifts that your child receives on the occasion. Eventually, your child may want to take over the entire process: “Something like this not only teaches the joy of giving,” said Weisman, “it also helps kids feel empowered and lets them know they can do something. Kids watch TV. They know what is going on in the world.”
Shared Holiday Charitable Experiences Create Lasting MemoriesCreating lasting, genuinely happy holiday memories can seem an uphill battle in today’s me-society, but experts remain firm that holiday happiness is not tied to material things: “When parents say that all they want ‘is for my child to be happy,’ what they really mean is children who are responsible, generous, kind, loving, thoughtful -- and happy,” explains Weisman. “Those first characteristics have everything to do with the last one,” she assures. And research indicates that it’s the emotions tied to an event, rather than the event itself, that creates deep-down pleasurable, lasting memories. “A child opening a gift will be excited and happy only until the next present is opened. On the contrary, a child who goes caroling with his family to a nursing home will connect giving, selflessness, love and community with the holidays forever,” explains Hicks.
So, as my children frantically whip up their holiday wish list, I’ll evaluate them with my own, which now includes more experiences and less things, because I know first hand, it’s the emotions and shared charitable holiday experiences that my children will likely remember when they are planning family holidays for their own children.
Crafts Kids usually enjoy making crafts and cards. Many Web sites provide addresses and bios for hospitalized children. Families make get-well cards, artwork or small gift items and send them directly to the kids. Two such sites are:Make A Child Smile: wwwmakeachildsmile.org and Hugs And Hope: wwwhugsandhope.org/kidslist.htm
Choosing Gifts For Others During The Holidays There are also many opportunities to choose and purchase holiday gifts for others. Even young children can help choose gift wrap and drop-off items. A few of these programs are: Toys For Tots: For the past 53 years, the US
marines have distributed over 272 million new toys to over 133 million children. Families choose, purchase and wrap gifts and drop them off at one of the many drop off locations. Log onto for a list of drop off sites. Salvation Army’s Angel Tag Gift Drive: Many local retailers display Christmas trees with Angel Tags. Just pick out an angel, choose & purchase gifts for the child listed, and return the new, wrapped items to the store. Contact the local Salvation Army at 813-226-0055 or Priscilla: cruz@uss.salvationarmy.org to find an angel tree near you.
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He’s Larry the Cucumber, that sleek, funny, dapper dude from Veggie Tales that we all know and love. And while this cool cuke rarely has a minute to veg out, he took time out of his insanely busy schedule to chat intimately and exclusively with ParentGuide®
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1. I notice you wear the color green with a vertical pattern quite often. Have you ever thought about changing your out� t, and if so, to what?Green’s really the only color that works with me. I go all corndog in yellow, and red makes me look like Santa Clausen.
2. You seem very mobile even without extremities. How do you get around so easily?It’s either hop or roll. I choose to hop; it’s much more digni� ed. It does take a lot of exercise, though, and I’m really good at
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3. Bob seems a little irritable. How do you redirect his frustrations without squashing him and making ketchup?It’s a blood sugar thing with Bob. He’s a little hypoglycemic. Give him a sandwich, and he’s as happy as a clam. Give him a clam, and he’s happy as a clam with a clam.
4. While there are more and more minorities succeeding in Hollywood, you are the � rst cucumber. How did you get into show business?I’ve always just loved to sing, dance and act. It never seemed to matter that I was green, have seeds and taste good in a salad. Hollywood’s very progressive in that respect. If a Berry can win the Oscar, who’s to say a vegetable can’t?
5. How do you get along with cousin Zucchini? Is it a highly competitive relationship?We get along great. It’s not all that competitive...even though Zucchinis can only squat like 10 times their own body weight.
6. What is your most feared kitchen appliance and why?The refrigerator. It’s a cold, dark and lonely place. You call it, “the crisper drawer.” I call it, “Alcatraz at 38 degrees.”
7. I know the social lives of celebrities are � lled with galas and events. Do you enjoy going to salad mixer parties?I do - it’s a much better scene than salad bars.
8. It’s well known that many cucumbers ultimately end up as pickles? What are your thoughts on this?That’s a path paved with heartache. I deal with vinegar in moderation and never soak in it above my waist or longer than 10 minutes.
9. There’s a huge movement to “go green” right now. But that’s nothing new for you. Can you tell us what it’s like live “green” all the time?It’s great being able to photosynthesize in a pinch. Hungry? Cupboards bare? No problem—just go outside (unless it’s nighttime, then you’re out of luck—that’s why I keep Twinkies under my pillow).
10. Your skin is always so shiny and green. What’s your secret?Clean living and chlorophyll.
squats. Mobile cucumbers can squat 30 times their own body weight—that’s more than ants. Not a lot of people know that.
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11. Freezing vegetables has been practiced for years. What are your thoughts on this?The only thing worse than Alcatraz at 38 degrees is a plastic bag at minus 10.
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You’d never know how wonderfully twisted Mike Naworcki is. From all outward appearances, even in conversation, he seems perfectly normal. But then, your kids turn on “Veggie Tales,” and they laugh, and you laugh (sometimes for di� erent reasons), and you realize this guy, his partner Phil Vischer and their incredibly talented team are pure, crazy genius.
When asked how he and Vischer came up with the fun, wacky idea for singing, dancing and acting vegetables with morals, Veggie Tales co-creator Mike Nawrocki admits that, “Necessity was the mother of invention.”
According to Nawrocki, animation, as we know it today, was still in infancy in early 1990’s (remember those wild “Scrubbing Bubbles” commercials). So, he and Vischer had to create characters without limbs or clothes, characters
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Yet, as computer animation advanced in years following Veggie Tales’ debut, their style also advanced and grew more intricate with cool, wonderful worlds and complex characters. But the simple characters that Nawrocki and Vischer created at the beginning still anchor the stories and animation and, as Nawrocki sees it, maintain their very own charm.
Nawrocki and Vischer met in college where they performed puppets together, and it was during this time that the seeds were sown for Larry the Cucumber’s
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Despite having voiced Larry the Cucumber for years, the future looks bright for these ageless vegetables, mostly because he and Vischer still enjoy their work. And with the recent release of their DVD “The Wizard of Ha’s” and an upcoming theatrical release featuring The Pirates Who Don’t Do Anything, it looks like these vegetables aren’t going to spoil anytime soon.
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