Post on 04-Jul-2015
Powerful beliefs to create a new life
Laura Mocanu
Belfast Coaching Support Group
Set Intention:For the next two hours we are going to focus on what we need to in order to identify or banish the limiting beliefs from our lives and replace them with beliefs that empower us to be the best that we can be.
By setting an intention we say to ourselves we are serious about what comes next.
Perceptions
The mind: David Hawkins
The mind is contaminated by emotions, feelings, prejudices,
blind spots, denials, projections, paranoias, phobias, fear,
regrets, guilts, worries, anxiety, old age, sickness, death,
failure, rejection, loss and disaster.”
In addition to all the foregoing, the mind has also been
innocently programmed by endless propaganda, political
slogans, religious and social dogmas, continual distortion of
facts, falsifications, errors, misjudgments and
misinformation.”
Beliefs
Emotions, feelings, thoughts and imagination are based on beliefs
We feed our beliefs daily with the memes of our inner dialogue and
with memes from the view of others
We view outside reality through the filters of our beliefs
Our reality and our bodies mirror our beliefs
Life may not follow your conscious desires, but it follows your beliefs
The most efficient way to change your behaviour is to change your
beliefs
Beliefs and memes
Beliefs consist of coherent sets of memes:Being, identity:
“I’m a good person”
Potential“I can do good”
Descriptive categories “I have green eyes”
Cause-effect relationships“I’m a good person because I do good; I do good because I’m a good person”
Conditional relationships“If I do good, I am a good person; If I’m a good person, I do good”
Beliefs that create identity
Self: I am………
Others: The others are……..
Quality of life: Life is……….
Beliefs have the power to create and the power to destroy.
“Human beings have the awesome ability to take any experience of their lives and create a MEANING that disempowers them or one that can literally save their lives.”- Tony Robbins
Beliefs are POWERFUL
POTENTIAL ACTION
RESULTSBELIEFS
How do we interpret?
What is a limiting belief?
1. A limiting belief is one that causes life to be less than completely satisfying.
2. Limiting beliefs have more of a negative impact on your life than any other factor
Discovering Your Limiting Beliefs To change anything, you first
must identify it.
It's important to stay relevant. We all have tons of limiting beliefs, but the truth is that many of them are irrelevant.
Only worry about the limiting beliefs that are going to have the greatest impact.
Limiting beliefs
I can’t…..
I never….
I always….
What aspect of your life would you like to change?
The current state
STORY ACTIONS RESULTSTHOUGHTS FEELINGS
Story
The reason I believe ___________________________is:
Education Family Work Money Health
Thoughts and feelings
My story makes me think:____________________________________________
My story makes me feel:____________________________________________
Current actions and results
Because of the way I feel and think, I do this:
_________________________________
And experience the following results_________________________________
The future state
STORYACTIONSRESULTS THOUGHTSFEELINGS
The only way to achieve different results is through change
Desired state - GOALS
ACTIONS
What can I do
to get the results I want?
Thoughts and feelings
As I change my actions and achieve different results, I expect to think:____________________________________________
And I expect to feel:____________________________________________
A NEW story
I’ve put away the thoughts and feelings that were holding me back, I’ve changed my actions and mindset and this is my NEW EMPOWERING belief:
I can…..
I’ll always….
I never….
One of the main ways that limiting beliefs have a significant negative impact on our lives is that they short-circuit the success process
1. Decide clearly what you want.
2. Do something to make it happen .
3. Adjust your approach as you gain new expertise
4. Keep going until you're successful
Four Steps of Success Process
What’s important for you today?
Align your life with your values
Take action
Celebrate results
Pay it forward
PA ProcessW
If you have an area of your life that displeases you and you're not actively doing
something to fix it, then it's a pretty good bet that you have a limiting belief
(finances, relationships, health, fun/adventure, & any other aspect of your life in
which you're experiencing dissatisfaction.)
EXERCISE: 1. Make a list of the areas in your life where you feel challenged
2. Identify the beliefs that are contributing to your challenges
Make a list of all of your beliefs, good and bad, regarding the challenges
you identified above. Don't attempt to filter them as while doing this; just
get them all listed
Think about which beliefs are having the greatest negative impact on your life.
One way to do this is to consider how your behavior would change if that belief
were eliminated from your life.
Don't just guess which beliefs are the most damaging. Really examine it and
consider the change that your life would experience if you weren't held back
by that belief.
EXERCISE: 3. Identify the beliefs that are holding you back
4. Put the negative beliefs in order
Start with the limiting belief that you feel is creating the most challenge in
your life. Put them all in order from the belief having the greatest negative
impact to least. It makes sense to spend your time where it's going to do the
most good. Prioritizing your time is always a valuable strategy
1. Ask yourself if the belief is true
3. Your declaration
5. Replace the belief
4. Imagine being free from the belief
2. Determine the source of your belief
Steps of change
6. Find evidence for the new belief 7. Test yourself
Limiting beliefs really do put our lives in a stranglehold. They can lead us to believe
that we have limited options to deal with our challenges or that we’re limited in
doing new things.
These beliefs have profound negative consequences and eliminating them is one of
the best things we can do for ourselves.
By systematically going through all of your limiting beliefs, it’s possible to
dramatically improve your life. Always remember that new limiting beliefs will occur
over time, and it's important to check yourself for these new limiting beliefs.
Life can be relatively easy and simple. Deal with your mental obstacles and you'll see
those are the biggest obstacles you have.
Look at your limiting beliefs today – your life will never be the same!
Conclusion
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