Pencil and Paper Tapping - Webinar Slides

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Pencil And Paper TappingAndy Hunt

Practical Wellbeing

© Andy Hunt, Practical Wellbeing 2013

What to expect

This webinar is about how to:● Deconstruct problem situations● Find the most important thing to tap on● Construct a tapping statement that works● Apply this to past and future events

Two Common Tapping Problems

Now that the training is over ...

Problem 1.

“I don't know where to start”

Problem 2.

“I don't know what to say”

It's All About Aspects

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It's All About Aspects

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How To Find Your Aspects

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The Story Of Sally The Dog

Sally is ...

Sally is ...

● Hysterical

Sally is ...

● Hysterical● Annoying

Sally is ...

● Hysterical● Annoying● Anxious

Sally is ...

● Hysterical● Annoying● Anxious● Scared

Sally is ...

● Hysterical● Annoying● Anxious● Scared● Noisy

Sally is ...

● Hysterical● Annoying● Anxious● Scared● Noisy● Greedy

Sally is ...

● Hysterical● Annoying● Anxious● Scared● Noisy● Greedy

Sally is ...

● Hysterical● Annoying● Anxious● Scared● Noisy● Greedy

● Underfoot

Sally is ...

● Hysterical● Annoying● Anxious● Scared● Noisy● Greedy

● Underfoot● Clingy

Sally is ...

● Hysterical● Annoying● Anxious● Scared● Noisy● Greedy

● Underfoot● Clingy● Jealous

Sally is ...

● Hysterical – 9● Annoying● Anxious● Scared● Noisy● Greedy

● Underfoot● Clingy● Jealous● Insecure

Sally is ...

● Hysterical – 9● Annoying – 8● Anxious● Scared● Noisy● Greedy

● Underfoot● Clingy● Jealous● Insecure

Sally is ...

● Hysterical – 9● Annoying – 8● Anxious –7 ● Scared● Noisy● Greedy

● Underfoot● Clingy● Jealous● Insecure

Sally is ...

● Hysterical – 9● Annoying – 8● Anxious –7 ● Scared – 8● Noisy ● Greedy

● Underfoot● Clingy● Jealous● Insecure

Sally is ...

● Hysterical – 9● Annoying – 8● Anxious –7 ● Scared – 8● Noisy – 8 ● Greedy

● Underfoot● Clingy● Jealous● Insecure

Sally is ...

● Hysterical – 9● Annoying – 8● Anxious –7 ● Scared – 8● Noisy – 8 ● Greedy – 6

● Underfoot● Clingy● Jealous● Insecure

Sally is ...

● Hysterical – 9● Annoying – 8● Anxious –7 ● Scared – 8● Noisy – 8 ● Greedy – 6

● Underfoot – 8● Clingy● Jealous● Insecure

Sally is ...

● Hysterical – 9● Annoying – 8● Anxious –7 ● Scared – 8● Noisy – 8 ● Greedy – 6

● Underfoot – 8● Clingy – 8● Jealous● Insecure

Sally is ...

● Hysterical – 9● Annoying – 8● Anxious –7 ● Scared – 8● Noisy – 8 ● Greedy – 6

● Underfoot – 8● Clingy – 8● Jealous –8 ● Insecure

Sally is ...

● Hysterical – 9● Annoying – 8● Anxious – 7 ● Scared – 8● Noisy – 8 ● Greedy – 6

● Underfoot – 8● Clingy – 8● Jealous – 8 ● Insecure – 7

The Tapping Statements

“Even though Sally is hysterical, I accept myself and how I feel”

“Sally is hysterical”

Three Perspectives Of A Problem

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Three Perspectives Of A Problem

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1. Situation

Three Perspectives Of A Problem

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2. Others

Three Perspectives Of A Problem

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3. Yourself

Pencil And Paper Tapping

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Think of a current problem or difficulty

The Problem

The Problem

It (is) ...

The Problem

It (is) ... He/She/They (are) ...

The Problem

It (is) ... He/She/They (are) ... I (am) ...

Pencil And Paper Tapping

1. Pick an issue

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2. Mentally and emotionally get back into it

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3. Complete the sentence: “It is ...”(as many times and as quickly as you can)

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4. Stop when the 'well runs dry' or you start repeating yourself.

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5. Work through the list, repeating the sentence out-loud, giving each item an intensity score.

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6. Repeat the same process for “He/She/They are ...” and “I am ...”

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7. Choose the most intense statement, start tapping

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8. When you have neutralised one statement re-score the remaining items, then start tapping

on the next strongest statement.

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9. Stop when the issue seems resolved to you.

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● It's simple and effective● It can uncover parts of the issue that might

escape your attention at first glance● It can identify patterns of problems

Variations On A Theme

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Unpacking The Past

● It was …● He / She / They were …● I was ...

Preparing For The Future

● It will …● He / She / They will …● I will ...

Future Webinars

● 18th September - Exception Tapping● 16th October - Uncovering Limitations● 20th November - From Description To Solution● 18th December - What Works For Me

Thank You!