Pencil and Paper Tapping - Webinar Slides

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Pencil And Paper Tapping Andy Hunt Practical Wellbeing © Andy Hunt, Practical Wellbeing 2013

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Pencil And Paper TappingAndy Hunt

Practical Wellbeing

© Andy Hunt, Practical Wellbeing 2013

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What to expect

This webinar is about how to:● Deconstruct problem situations● Find the most important thing to tap on● Construct a tapping statement that works● Apply this to past and future events

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Two Common Tapping Problems

Now that the training is over ...

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Problem 1.

“I don't know where to start”

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Problem 2.

“I don't know what to say”

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It's All About Aspects

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It's All About Aspects

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How To Find Your Aspects

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The Story Of Sally The Dog

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Sally is ...

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Sally is ...

● Hysterical

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Sally is ...

● Hysterical● Annoying

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Sally is ...

● Hysterical● Annoying● Anxious

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Sally is ...

● Hysterical● Annoying● Anxious● Scared

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Sally is ...

● Hysterical● Annoying● Anxious● Scared● Noisy

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Sally is ...

● Hysterical● Annoying● Anxious● Scared● Noisy● Greedy

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Sally is ...

● Hysterical● Annoying● Anxious● Scared● Noisy● Greedy

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Sally is ...

● Hysterical● Annoying● Anxious● Scared● Noisy● Greedy

● Underfoot

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Sally is ...

● Hysterical● Annoying● Anxious● Scared● Noisy● Greedy

● Underfoot● Clingy

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Sally is ...

● Hysterical● Annoying● Anxious● Scared● Noisy● Greedy

● Underfoot● Clingy● Jealous

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Sally is ...

● Hysterical – 9● Annoying● Anxious● Scared● Noisy● Greedy

● Underfoot● Clingy● Jealous● Insecure

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Sally is ...

● Hysterical – 9● Annoying – 8● Anxious● Scared● Noisy● Greedy

● Underfoot● Clingy● Jealous● Insecure

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Sally is ...

● Hysterical – 9● Annoying – 8● Anxious –7 ● Scared● Noisy● Greedy

● Underfoot● Clingy● Jealous● Insecure

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Sally is ...

● Hysterical – 9● Annoying – 8● Anxious –7 ● Scared – 8● Noisy ● Greedy

● Underfoot● Clingy● Jealous● Insecure

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Sally is ...

● Hysterical – 9● Annoying – 8● Anxious –7 ● Scared – 8● Noisy – 8 ● Greedy

● Underfoot● Clingy● Jealous● Insecure

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Sally is ...

● Hysterical – 9● Annoying – 8● Anxious –7 ● Scared – 8● Noisy – 8 ● Greedy – 6

● Underfoot● Clingy● Jealous● Insecure

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Sally is ...

● Hysterical – 9● Annoying – 8● Anxious –7 ● Scared – 8● Noisy – 8 ● Greedy – 6

● Underfoot – 8● Clingy● Jealous● Insecure

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Sally is ...

● Hysterical – 9● Annoying – 8● Anxious –7 ● Scared – 8● Noisy – 8 ● Greedy – 6

● Underfoot – 8● Clingy – 8● Jealous● Insecure

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Sally is ...

● Hysterical – 9● Annoying – 8● Anxious –7 ● Scared – 8● Noisy – 8 ● Greedy – 6

● Underfoot – 8● Clingy – 8● Jealous –8 ● Insecure

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Sally is ...

● Hysterical – 9● Annoying – 8● Anxious – 7 ● Scared – 8● Noisy – 8 ● Greedy – 6

● Underfoot – 8● Clingy – 8● Jealous – 8 ● Insecure – 7

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The Tapping Statements

“Even though Sally is hysterical, I accept myself and how I feel”

“Sally is hysterical”

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Three Perspectives Of A Problem

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Three Perspectives Of A Problem

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1. Situation

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Three Perspectives Of A Problem

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2. Others

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Three Perspectives Of A Problem

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3. Yourself

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Pencil And Paper Tapping

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Think of a current problem or difficulty

The Problem

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The Problem

It (is) ...

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The Problem

It (is) ... He/She/They (are) ...

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The Problem

It (is) ... He/She/They (are) ... I (am) ...

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Pencil And Paper Tapping

1. Pick an issue

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2. Mentally and emotionally get back into it

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3. Complete the sentence: “It is ...”(as many times and as quickly as you can)

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4. Stop when the 'well runs dry' or you start repeating yourself.

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5. Work through the list, repeating the sentence out-loud, giving each item an intensity score.

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6. Repeat the same process for “He/She/They are ...” and “I am ...”

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7. Choose the most intense statement, start tapping

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8. When you have neutralised one statement re-score the remaining items, then start tapping

on the next strongest statement.

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9. Stop when the issue seems resolved to you.

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Pencil And Paper Tapping

● It's simple and effective● It can uncover parts of the issue that might

escape your attention at first glance● It can identify patterns of problems

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Variations On A Theme

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Unpacking The Past

● It was …● He / She / They were …● I was ...

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Preparing For The Future

● It will …● He / She / They will …● I will ...

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Future Webinars

● 18th September - Exception Tapping● 16th October - Uncovering Limitations● 20th November - From Description To Solution● 18th December - What Works For Me

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Thank You!