When BGR begins

• Dislikes the opposite sex• Enjoys the difference• Single out a special friend

Development of relationship

You are not alone (Gen 2:19)Develop your character Learn to make friends & keep themBe a friend to others

To know your friends (Gen.2:19b)

AcquaintancesCommon friendsGood friendsSpecial friendsSoul Mate

Choice of friends Suitability (Gen 2:20)

Criteria and PreferencesCompatibility

God – the match maker (Gen 2:21)

God has His own timingGod waits for us to matureTake time to see and choose (Gen 2:19b)Know your potential choice wellAssessing your preferences (Gen 2:19-20)

Criteria & Preferences

Confirmed before relationship

Share same life in Christ (Gen 2:20b)

The Waiting Period

Pray for your choice & yourselfRelax and wait for God’s timing (Gen2:21)With obedience and good preparation you will know God’s choice for you.

Assessing charactersLoving – towards God & parentsFaithful – towards friendsReliable – towards work, study & playGenerous – towards othersSelf control – towards commitment Health conscious – towards exercise, eating & sleeping habits

Lasting Relationship

Leading to Life Partner in marriagePrinciples of MarriageMan & WomanOne wife and one husbandMarried for Life – no back door

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