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Hierarchy Of RegardUnconditional Positive Regard
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A Hierarchy Of Regard
● No Regard
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A Hierarchy Of Regard
● Negative Regard - Unconditional● No Regard
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A Hierarchy Of Regard
● Negative Regard - Conditional● Negative Regard - Unconditional● No Regard
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A Hierarchy Of Regard
● Positive Regard - Conditional● Negative Regard - Conditional● Negative Regard - Unconditional● No Regard
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A Hierarchy Of Regard
● Positive Regard - Unconditional● Positive Regard - Conditional● Negative Regard - Conditional● Negative Regard - Unconditional● No Regard
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Unconditional?
Positive regards feels good ●
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Unconditional?
Positive regards feels good ● ESPECIALLY IF GIVEN UNGRUDGINGLY
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In Real Life
Some people are so unused to UnconditionalPositive Regard that it threatens them.
It unsettles their " Self Concept ". They don't trust it.
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In Counselling
Maintain an unqualified positive attitude to theclient. Over time the intended effect is to break downand undermine the conditions that the clientplaces on their sense of self worth.
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In Counselling
Maintain an unqualified positive attitude to theclient. Over time the intended effect is to break downand undermine the conditions that the clientplaces on their sense of self worth.
● The client's " Organismic Self " gets stronger
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Components of UPRUnconditional Positive Regard
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Some Components of UPR● Respect● Non-judgmental● Acceptance
● Valuing
● Prizing● Caring● Nurturing
● Compassion
● Warmth● Love
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Some Components of UPR● Respect : respecting a person in their dignity and brokenness as a person.● Non-judgmental : being neither judgmental against nor for.● Acceptance : accepting the person in all their fullness, missing nothing out, including
how they treat the relationship with you.● Valuing : embracing the person you encounter, and valuing them as a unique and
valuable person.● Prizing : celebrating achievements and what is of value in the person’s eyes.● Caring : being concerned for the person, and wanting the best for them.● Nurturing : wanting to help the person to grow in whatever ways are open for their
growth as a person (nurturing the actualising tendency).● Compassion : feeling compassion for how hard life can be for a person struggling to
cope, or to find what is important to them, in a world that they may experience ashostile.● Warmth : experiencing a warmth inside for the person in this relationship.● Love : experiencing the full richness of a non-possessive love for the person in this
relationship.
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Questions about UPRUnconditional Positive Regard
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Who in your life currently gives you:a) conditional positive regard?
b) unconditional positive regard?
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Who in your past has given you:a) conditional positive regard?
b) unconditional positive regard?
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For whom in your life currently do youhave:
a) conditional positive regard?b) unconditional positive regard?
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For whom in your past have you had:a) conditional positive regard?
b) unconditional positive regard?
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To what extent do you typicallycommunicate your:
a) conditional positive regard for a person?b) unconditional positive regard
for a person?
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Questions about UPRWorksheet (5 minutes)
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ConclusionUnconditional Positive Regard
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Therapeutically the goal of PositiveSelf-Regard is based on positive
regard from others.
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● regard from others may at times be negative● child concludes some actions and feelings are unworthy● these become excluded from the self-concept (even
though they are organismically valid)● results in a distorted self-concept● organismic experiences at variance with the self-
concept evoke anxiety● incongruent experiences are denied or distorted
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Healing
1. in a completely non-threatening situation, theperson can examine all his inner experience.
2. when a person can accept all her inner experience, she becomes more accepting of others.
3. the person becomes involved in a
"continuing valuing process".
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Things to avoid
● Confusing the client’s choices with your own- implies that you would make better choicesin the same circumstances.
● Judging the client’s actions to be detrimental- implies your view is more valuable thanyour empathy.
● The client's values change to match those of the counsellor - Accidental Persuasion.