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Relationship-Building 101 Its something we do every day Why not let it take It s something we do every day . Why not let it take you to the top?” © 2012 DINSMORE & SHOHL | LEGAL COUNSEL | www.dinsmore.com © 2013 DINSMORE & SHOHL | LEGAL COUNSEL | www.dinsmore.com

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Relationship-Building 101“It’s something we do every day Why not let it takeIt s something we do every day. Why not let it take you to the top?”

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Presenter

B i J MBrian J. MooreOffice ^ [email protected]

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We will be covering

R l ti hi B ildi B i• Relationship-Building Basics

• Building Your Business

• Keeping Your Business

• Effective Use of Social MediaEffective Use of Social Media

• Helpful Tips

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I. The BasicsI. The Basics

What is Relationship-Building?What is Relationship Building?In today’s business world, relationships are

everything.y gEstablishing those relationships takes time,

effort and above all else, commitment. ,Relationship-Building, for our purposes, can be

defined as: the establishment and/or fostering of personal connections in the context of a business relationship.

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I. The BasicsI. The Basics

Where Does Relationship-Building Happen?Where Does Relationship Building Happen?“External”:Everywhere!Everywhere!Examples: Dinners, Fundraisers, Board Meetings,

Civic Events, Cocktail Parties, etc. “Internal”:Marketing yourself to co-workers.Being the go-to person.

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I. The BasicsI. The Basics

How Can Relationships Help Me?How Can Relationships Help Me?Growing your business.Retaining your business.g yClimbing the ladder.Creating friendships.

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II. Building Your Business: Relationship-B ildi With PBuilding With a Purpose

When starting out, relationship-building can be aWhen starting out, relationship building can be a daunting task. Most people feel overwhelmed by the p p y

proposition of meeting new people, spending time in strange environments and speaking with people who might not otherwise be in their “peer” group.

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II. Building Your BusinessII. Building Your Business

Planning: Before heading off to your first socialPlanning: Before heading off to your first social event, consider the following:

1. Defining Your Market:g What is my product or service? Who buys my product or service? Why do they buy it?

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II. Building Your BusinessII. Building Your Business

2. Using Existing Connections:2. Using Existing Connections: Who do I know and how can that help me? Familyy Friends Other Networks (High School, Undergrad, etc.)

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II. Building Your BusinessII. Building Your Business

3. Establishing Your “Brand”:3. Establishing Your Brand : What are my skills? How do my skills relate to my profession? y y p Can I be the go-to person? Example: Social Networking

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II. Building Your BusinessII. Building Your Business

Implementation: Once you have establishedImplementation: Once you have established your market, connections and brand, how do you use these skills to grow your network and get business?

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II. Building Your BusinessII. Building Your Business

1. Become an Expert:1. Become an Expert: The first step to being able to carry on a

conversation and sell your services or products is to know what you are selling.

Always be able to answer questions about your field, products interactions and businessproducts, interactions and business.

Being knowledgeable, without being pretentious, will impress potential business associates.

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II. Building Your BusinessII. Building Your Business

2. Embrace the Experience:2. Embrace the Experience: Most people feel awkward walking into new

situations. Find some common ground with your audience “Mix” at the Mixer.

U k l d t i t ti l li t d Use your knowledge to impress potential clients and connections.

Be interesting!!! Don’t be Plain Vanilla Be interesting!!! Don t be Plain Vanilla

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II. Building Your BusinessII. Building Your Business

3. Give a Little to Get a Lot:3. Give a Little to Get a Lot:Meals provide excellent networking opportunitiesPeople Rarely Turn Down a Free Mealp y21 opportunities in a week.Everyone has to eat!

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II. Building Your BusinessII. Building Your Business

4. Service with a Smile:4. Service with a Smile:Service for non-profit organizations. Board Memberships.pVolunteer Activities (Get your hands dirty!).Service as an aspect of your “brand.”

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II. Building Your BusinessII. Building Your Business

5. Authenticity Matters:5. Authenticity Matters:Do what you enjoy.Enthusiasm is vital to success in networking.gA genuine interest will pay dividends. Handshakes, Names and Eye Contact: Show people

th t !that you care!

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II. Building Your BusinessII. Building Your Business

6. Follow Up and Follow Through:6. Follow Up and Follow Through: After establishing new connections, solidify them by

following up. Email, Phone Calls, or other types of communication

can help to establish a lasting connection. Primacy: Following up quickly Primacy: Following up quickly

can help others remember you.

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III. Keeping Your Business: Relationship M i tMaintenance

Once your network is established, maintaining itOnce your network is established, maintaining it and the relationships associated with it can be just important as forming new relationships.Complacency can be the death-nail to a

successful network of relationships.

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III. Keeping Your BusinessIII. Keeping Your Business

The following steps can help you maintain your The following steps can help you maintain your relationships:

1. Keep Your Sources in the Loop:p p Newsletters, blogs, and email lists updating your

network of your activities. “Thank you” lunches for referral sources. Cross-referrals

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III. Keeping Your BusinessIII. Keeping Your Business

2. Keep Your Knowledge Up-to-date:2. Keep Your Knowledge Up to date: Attend conferences in your discipline

(additional networking opportunity). Keep apprised of developments in your client’s

business matters. Learn what your contacts are up to Learn what your contacts are up to.

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III. Keeping Your BusinessIII. Keeping Your Business

3. Maintain Your Team:3. Maintain Your Team: Maintaining a helpful team around you can be one of

the most important aspects to keeping business. Treat those in your network (and others) well, they

are vital to your success in business. Competency is a must Competency is a must. Example: “Full Service” law firms.

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IV. Relationship-Building With Social MediaIV. Relationship Building With Social Media

In the current business climate, social media hasIn the current business climate, social media has vaulted to the forefront of networking. Instead of asking for a card, people commonly g , p p y

ask, “are you on Facebook/Twitter/etc.?”Social media can provide another helpful tool to p p

any successful networker.

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IV. Social MediaIV. Social Media

Facebook:Facebook:Creating a “page.”Establishing a professional Facebook.g pGrooming your digital footprint.Determining the effect of Facebook networking.

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IV. Social MediaIV. Social Media

Twitter:Twitter:140 CharactersGreat tool for updating clients and contacts on recent p g

activities“Lists”

A T itt t tA Twitter account can act as an excellent marketing tool.

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IV. Social MediaIV. Social Media

Linkedin:Linkedin:The “professional” social media platform.Helps potential clients determine experience.p p pProvides a place where contacts can refer potential

clients.I d d t t ki t it th “Li k diIndependent networking opportunity: the “LinkedinNetwork.”

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V. 5 Tips to Build and Sustain Your Business C tiConnections

1. Define Your Market and Your Brand.1. Define Your Market and Your Brand.2. Use Established Connections. 3 Follow Up!3. Follow Up!4. Be an Effective “Brander.” 5 Learn to Play the Game5. Learn to Play the Game.

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Questions?

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