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The May 2016 digital edition of Pompano Today

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Meet our Personal Lines Team

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Jessica CarrionAccount Manager

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Jackie De Los SantosNew Business Development

Ronnie StatonAccount Manager

Christina FislerCustomer Service

Representative

Karen PatrickCustomer Service

Representative

Chylynn BastianMarketing Division

Susie S Krix VP Personal Lines Manager

Deidre Russell Account Manager

Nicole Coppock VIP DeptNew Business Development

Tracy Brown VIP DeptNew Business Development

Jessica Carrion Account Manager

Jackie De Los Santos Account Manager

Ronnie Staton Account Manager

Karen Patrick Customer Service Representative

Chylynn BastianMarketing Division

Catherine Anastasiadis Account Manager Assistant

Christina Fisler Customer Service Representative

ldquoTogether we can help you find a customized solution for all your insurance needs and for your peace of mindrdquo If you value your assets let us protect them Look to us to safeguard all that you hold dear by covering Homes Automobiles Excess Liability Private Collections

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Celebrating over 50 years of excellence amp exceptional service in protecting your family

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Pompano Today is published 12 times annually by Pompano Media Group LLC 3304 SE 4th Street Suite 6 Pompano Beach Florida 33062 Print subscriptions are $20 per year Pompano Today assumes no liability for products or services advertised herein Pompano Today reserves the right to edit rewrite or refuse material Publisher is not responsible for typographical or production errors or accuracy of information provided by its advertisers Pompano Today reserves the right to refuse any advertiser Copyright copy 2015 Pompano Media Group LLC All rights reserved No portion of Pompano Today may be used or reproduced without the express written permission of the Publisher Camera icon used throughout these pages copy Rawpixel - fotoliacom

James ldquoJimrdquo Stafford Media DirectorJim is a professional photographer web and graphic designer He is passionate about photography and art and his marriage You can read more about Jim and his lovely wife in our Marital Minutes column

Trisharsquos work has appeared in numerous publications from Town amp Country to innnewyorkcom A sought-after speaker moderator and radio talk-show guest Trisha will be sharing her insights with readers and staff

Trisha McMahon Beauty amp Health Editor

Dawne is a longtime Pompano visitor and 10-year resident She brings us interesting news and notes from our neighbors and friends from businesses residents and tourists alike and is the founder and publisher

Dawne Richards Publisher

the team

contributors LEARN MORE POMPANOTODAYCOMMEET-THE-TEAM

CONTRIBUTING WRITERSMichael DiPierro Jay Ghanem Dan Hobby Teana McDonald Erica Richards Misty Schwartz Elaine Simmons Charlotte Sundquist

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CHARLOTTE SUNDQUISTcharlottes webCharlotte Sundquist is the founder of the South Florida Artists Association Charlotte travels the globe at every opportunity

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JAY GHANEMyour rideJay Ghanem is the President of Auto Tech and Body an automotive complex in Pompano Beach When not working Jay likes to spend time with his wife and children

TEANA MCDONALDyour businessTeana McDonald is running 3E Connections a successful social media and public relations boutique agency Letrsquos continue the conversation 3EConnections on Twitter

DAN HOBBYnow and thenDan Hobby has kept us connected to our history for decades first as the Executive Director of the Fort Lauderdale Historical Society He is currently focusing his efforts on the Sample-McDougald house

POMPANOS PREMIERELIFESTYLE MAGAZINE

MISTY SCHWARTZstars in your eyesMisty Schwartz is the owner of MSPR and is a public relations and marketing guru who gives back to the community in all she does

ERICA RICHARDSyour diningErica Richards is a Johnson amp Wales-trained chef who focuses on healthy dishes She is currently raising another culinary star

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CONTENTSPOMPANO TODAY

FEATURES

your lifestyle 7 GET GOING

May events

9 SPECIAL THE SCENE10 EXPLORE ON THE PRAIRIE 12 FASHION FORWARD Proper Attire Required a guide for wedding guests

13 FASHION THE GOODS With this ring

14 MARITAL MINUTES 3 pieces of advice before you say I do

15 YOUR KIDS Planning a wedding dollars and senseyour dining20 YUM Mexican Wedding Cookies

your city24 AROUND TOWN A look back

25 CHARLOTTES WEB Wedded bliss the flip sideyour business 26 GET SMART Blissful business Special Falling in love with our citys futureyour ride 30 VROOM Achieving wedded bliss with your vehicle choicestars in your eyes32 HOLLYWOOD CORNER News from the west coastthe last word33 WORD SCRAMBLE

DEPARTMENTS

LOVE STORYWedded Bliss Part 1 Ronnie and Hank Arond

18 ONE GREAT BRIDAL SHOP Wedded Bliss Part 2 Wonderland BridalBENJAMINSWedded Bliss Part 3 From tailoring to tuxes

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Cover photo and Wedded Bliss Parts 2 and 3 above copy Paul McDermott Photography

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Pompano Today May 2016 5

May notes As many of you know I dearly love Pompano Beach Pompano Today magazine was born of my desire to showcase all of the great things that happen all over our city while at the same time grow the magazine as the city grew into its potential

Both Pompano Today and Pompano Beach have done just that The magazine has grown due to the tireless efforts of our advertisers contributors partners photographers readers social media fans and everyone who has supported us during this incredible journey The city has grown due to the tireless efforts of our Mayor and City Commission our volunteer advisory boards the Greater Pompano Beach Chamber of Commerce and the outstanding work of the Pompano Beach CRA

Itrsquos time for me to pursue a different manner of serving our city Thank you for the past six years I hope yoursquove been as engaged entertained and inspired as Irsquove been by all of the opportunities to look around and say ldquoWow What a great city to call homerdquo

Enjoy and have a fantastic May

Dawne Richards Publisher

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Pompano Today May 2016 7

Happenings

Another action-packed month awaits

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This month starts off with a shootout - of the saltwater kind that is - and ends with a lovely if more sedate reminder of those whove paid the ultimate price for our freedom For more local events see our up-to-the-minute calendar at pompanotodaycomevents Enjoy

Spring tournament fishing in South Florida kicks off with The MercurySeaVee Pompano Beach Saltwater Shootout The Saltwater Shootout is the first leg in South Floridas largest tournament trail - The Pompano Beach Saltwater Circuit Teams travel from near and far to enjoy the festivities and take a chance at over $275000 in cash and prizes

By popular demand the Saltwater Shootout has become a sanctioned event in Division 10 of the Southern Kingfish Association Target species in the Shootout are dolphin wahoo kingfish tuna and cobia The Saltwater Shootout offers something for the competitive and the casual fisherman alike Reasonable entry fees great cash prizes top notch hospitality and fun activities for anglers of all ages keep the teams coming back year after year For a complete schedule of events visit bluewatermovementscomsaltwater_shootout_schedule_of_events

Be sure to remember Mom on this special day Brunches of course abound Personally we highly recommend some quality time at the beach any one of our fabulous parks or perhaps a nature walk at Fern Forest

On Saturday May 14 2016 from 5 to 10 pm the Sample-McDougald House Preservation Society will host a Centennial Celebration on the grounds of the 100 year old house Once a pineapple farm and home to two significant Pompano families the house today serves as a reminder of this arearsquos pioneer

spirit and agricultural past Through programs and public tours the restored house is moving into its second century as a community

The event will feature entertainment displays and a lavish bar-be-que cooked on the grounds by Porky amp Beth The evening will feature a silent auction of fine art as well as a live auction by Auctioneer and Mayor Lamar Fisher Donrsquot miss this unique opportunity to win a ride for two on the Goodyear Blimp or a long weekend at A Tranquil Landing in the Village of Hopetown on Elbow Cay Abaco Bahamas Tickets are $100 and may be purchased in advance by calling the SMH office at 754-307-5446 or online at samplemcdougaldcom

The celebration continues on Sunday May 15 2016 from 10 am to 4 pm with Family Day Bring the kids and celebrate our farming heritage with displays of antique cars and tractors displays and demonstration of heritage crafts including quilting and blacksmithing hands-on activities petting zoo pony rides and more No reservation required Tickets are $10 With children 12 and under FREE For more information contact Melissa May 754-307-5446

The City of Pompano Beach holds two beautiful and moving ceremonies on this day While details were not available at press time be sure to visit the Citys Events page at pompanobeachflg o v i n d e x p h p events closer to Memorial Day We never miss these they are fitting tributes to the fallen and a great way to start this day with your kids as a stirring reminder of the meaning of Memorial Day

Memorial Day RemembrancesMothers DayMay 8

Saltwater ShootoutMay 5 7 8

The Sample McDougald House Centennial May 14 and 15

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Pompano Today May 2016 9

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Weddings of course are so symbolic of new beginnings and such joyous events One of our favorite moments is when we happen to be somewhere along or on the beach and just happen upon a beach wedding What lovely occasions these are Our favorite moment however may have occurred a few weeks ago when we were lucky enough to spot a festive golf cart driven by a bride in full wedding attire accompanied by her attendants decked out in beautiful turquoise dresses Oh to have had a camera

Interested in a wedding on Pompano Beach Heres the info from our citys website For those planning a destination wedding Pompano Beach is perfect be it

a romantic beach wedding at one of the popular beach hotels a private cruise on the intracoastal or reception at a popular restaurant overlooking the golf course or the historic and very traditional Sample-McDougald House The weather is almost always accommodating Beach permits are needed and can be purchased at the Emma Lou Olson Civic Center (H-6) 1801 NE 6th Street Pompano Beach Marriage licenses must be purchased from the Broward County Clerk of Courts Info browardclerkorg or 9548316565 Learn more at pompanobeachflgovindexphppagestourist_infotourist_info

Photo of Keli and James copy Paul McDermott Photography PaulMcDermottcom

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EXPLORE

Real FloridaKissimmee Prairie Preserve State Park

On the prairietext and photos by Jim Stafford

At 54000 acres Kissimmee Prairie Preserve State Park is home to the largest remaining dry prairie in Florida Located north of Okeechobee the park is home to both endangered plants and animals Visitors will experience grasslands reminiscent of the Great Plains The park offers excellent birding and is also home to endangered species like the Crested Caracara and Burrowing Owl The Park offers 100 miles of dirt roads easy to walk and handicap friendly They give hikers bicyclists and equestrians excellent opportunities to explore the preserve November through March ranger-led prairie buggy tours allow visitors to see remote areas of the preserve Kissimmee Prairiersquos remoteness makes it one of Floridarsquos premier locations for stargazing For overnight stays the Preserve has two full-facility campground loops family and an equestrian campground with paddocks

AAn important item to note while planning your visit according to the Florida State Parks website ldquoSpring means prescribed fire at Kissimmee Prairie If you see smoke here at the prairie on your next trip there is a good chance it is our staff conducting a prescribed burn at naturersquos preferred time of year Florida Dry Prairie is accustomed to burning every 1-2 years and many of our plants and animals such as the Florida Grasshopper Sparrow need frequent fire to survive Our staff works hard to safely conduct prescribed fires on one third to one half of the preserve annually Please stop by our office for more information regarding fire management at the preserve wersquod be happy to talk to you about itrdquo To learn more about this program visit floridastateparksorgcontentspring-means-smoke-over-prairie

To learn more about Kissimmee Prairie Preserve State Park visit floridastateparksorgparkKissimmee-Prairie

Pompano Today May 2016 11

We are at the top of the wedding season so I would like to offer a quick refresher on wedding dress code etiquette You receive a wedding invitation the time and the location are specified but the big thing that is left up to you is what to wear to a wedding reception There are

some general guidelines to follow such as not wearing white not wearing clothing that is overly revealing and not looking wrinkled or unkempt Even with these guidelines deciding what

to wear can still be extremely difficult These tips will reduce some of the difficulty and give you some ideas for picking the perfect outfit

When deciding on what you wear to a wedding reception make sure you know the venue for the wedding and the time of day For example a beach wedding during the day calls for a more casual look than a church wedding Keep in mind that appropriateness is necessary for all wedding receptions irrespective of the time or the place

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your lifestyle fashion forward

Proper attire requiredA guide for wedding guests

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Suggestions for a Daytime Wedding

For Herbull Floral dressesbull Winter weddings Sweater and skirt

combinationsbull Summer weddings Light colored suitsbull Footwear sling-backs sandals or high

heelsbull Hats that match the rest of your outfit

For Himbull For a formal occasion wear a dark suitbull Spring or summer weddings A

seersucker or light-colored linen suitbull Winter weddings a wool suit or a

sweater underneath a smart blazer with a tie

bull A blazer with a buttoned down shirt trousers and a tie

Suggestions for a ldquoCasualrdquo Wedding

When the dress code calls for ldquoCasualrdquo wear it usually means that there is no dress code but you should still look nice and avoid jeans tank tops and shorts For a wedding ldquocasualrdquo means ldquobusiness casualrdquo

For Herbull A beautiful blouse matched with a pretty

skirt or pantsbull A summer sundress with natural makeup

amp hair

For Himbull A buttoned down or polo shirt paired with

dress pants

Suggestions for a ldquoBeach Formalrdquo Wedding

Beach Formal suggests that you should wear something fashionable but suitable for the beach

For HerA tea length or knee length formal summer sundress with flat sandals natural hair and makeup

For Himbull A summer suit matched with a linen

shirt bull Khakis or linen trousers and sandals A

tie is not required

Suggestions for an Evening Wedding

For Herbull A gown or a fancy dressbull A cocktail dress that is not overly sexy

or provocative (black is fine for this occasion)

bull A sophisticated dark color cocktail suit bull Avoid sequins sparkles and beads

unless the wedding invitation specifies ldquoblack tierdquo

For Himbull Dark smart suits bull A tuxedo for an after 6pm formal

ceremonybull For semi-formalcasual ceremonies a

blazer and slacks matched with a tie

If you stick to the guidelines above you will be all set Itrsquos all about finding a balance between being yourself and looking and feeling confident while not offending others There are lots of opportunities to wear flip-flops and cutoffs - a wedding is not one of them

BY ELAINE SIMMONS

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daytime for him

evening for him

Pompano Today May 2016 13

your lifestyle fashion the goods

With this ring

When approaching wedding planning and the selection of players let common sense reign The ring bearer tradition originated in ancient Egypt an elaborately decorated pillow was often used to display the jewelry during a wedding Exchanging rings became the common outward sign of betrothal and the two traditions merged which put the pillow front and center as the main apparatus for the carrying of rings at a wedding ceremony hence the need for someone to carry the pillow

Asking a young family member or child of a close friend to take on this position in your ceremony should be thought through with care and consideration While it is a wonderful way to honor and involve children in your wedding you must contemplate a few factors first

Age the age of a ring bearer is customarily in the range of 3-7 years old Younger and you are asking for trouble There is really no controlling children in this sort of setting in the first place ndash but this particular job is too much for a very small child just learning to walk I argue the sweet spot is between 4 and 5 years old However it is likely you know the child so if you think they have the maturity to handle the honor then by all means ask On the other end of the spectrum anything older than 7 or 8 begins to look odd Why not ask those young men to take on another role

Your help if you have a ring bearer then you have a flower girl and like the old Hollywood adage goes itrsquos tough to work with children and animals Make sure you have someone appointed to assist with your young charges this person must keep the two players together until they are ready to go down the aisle remind them of what theyrsquore supposed to do and where to land at the end It goes without saying that the ring bearer should be included in the rehearsal this will assuage stage fright on the big day and should eliminate any fear of what to do on his part

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Clothing the ring bearer is traditionally dressed in some miniature version of the groomsmens attire ndash like a little man While this is precious as can be make sure the parents have access to the outfit far enough ahead of time that they can help their son try it on so they can become comfortable in their big day attire The last thing you want is a fit pitching because the tie is lsquochokingrsquo the ring bearer

Tradition does not have to dictate every aspect of your ceremony You have creative license ndash this is your day Just make sure you approach the election of your underage wedding party members with your eyes as well as your heart wide open

14 Pompano Today May 2016

your lifestyle marital minutes

You are a ldquowerdquo not a ldquomerdquo

You cannot make decisions independently anymore Your life decisions can and will impact your spouse Repeat after us Your life decisions can and will impact your spouse If you do not learn this fairly quickly it could impact the stability of your relationship

Just because he is your husband does not mean he is perfect

Remember that both you and your husband will make mistakes You are both human beings and are fallible You need to learn to forgive and also you need to learn from your mistakes

Have fun

Although I love my children I did not take advantage of the time we had together as newlyweds and prior to having kids When a new addition enters your family it is more challenging to do things that you used to like to do together

About the StaffordsDr Gina and Jim Stafford have been married for over 15 years Throughout that time they had four beautiful children ndash all boys Over the course of their relationship they have faced ups and downs especially since three out of the four sons were diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder Despite the obstacles that came their way their marriage has grown stronger People who know the couple always ask how they do it The answer is that with hard work and faith anything is possible The couple decided to share their story their strategies and their lives with other couples to assist them in building a relationship just as strong as their own Each month we bring you their words of wisdom devoted to helping couples explore the many issues facing marriages today Read more about this engaging couple at maritalminutescom

BY DR GINA STAFFORD

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3 pieces of advice before you say I do

Pompano Today May 2016 15

your lifestyle your kids

Planning a wedding dollars and sense

BY MICHAEL DIPIERRO

Michael DiPierro has a decade of experience in education He currently holds a Masters degree in Educational Leadership and has 11 years of teaching experience in Broward County Public Schools

For students who entered 9th grade in the 2013-14 academic year a requirement to earn a standard high school diploma in Florida includes financial literacy instruction I think it is safe to assume that most people who have planned a wedding understand the need to be financially literate In Florida financial literacy instruction includes the knowledge understanding skills behaviors attitudes and values that will enable a student to make responsible and effective financial decisions on a daily basis

While financial literacy covers a broad range of topics in terms of planning a wedding related classroom instruction might focus on buying goods and services saving and financial investing and budgeting and debt management In 2014 the Florida State Board of Education adopted a financial-literacy strand to its Social Studies Next Generation Sunshine State Standards Nationally during the 2015 legislative session about thirty-five states and Puerto Rico considered bills related to financial literacy This is an increase from the roughly twenty-eight states and Puerto Rico that considered legislation related to financial literacy during the 2014 legislative session

Related classroom instruction might focus on buyinggoods and services

saving and financial investing and budgeting and debt

management

The Florida Department of Education approved a high school Personal Financial Literacy elective course written and submitted by the Broward County Public Schools Social Studies Office Some of the instructional practices connected to this course include providing extended learning opportunities that simulate economic scenarios and the use of real world data and evidence to answer complex high-level questions that are based on real world scenarios Although I am not endorsing any classroom projects planning a mock wedding seems like it would be a fun experience to learn about financial literacy especially since the students donrsquot really have to pay for the mock wedding

The Florida Department of Education approved a high school

Personal Financial Literacy elective course written and submitted by the

Broward County Public SchoolsSocial Studies Office

Planning a mock wedding seems like it would be

a fun experienceespecially since the students dont really

have to pay for the mock wedding

16 Pompano Today May 2016

COVER FEATURE

Ronnie and Hank Arond are a real-life fairy talethat should inspire us all

Wedded Bliss Part 1

On a clear sunny weekend morning we enter the clean bright and charming winter digs of Ronnie and Hank Arond (Of course we think that every single inch of the Ebb Tide is clean bright and charming but Ronnie and Hankrsquos quarters seem especially so)

The couple greets us with the vigor of much younger folks their energy levels are those of a much younger couple which is no surprise really given the zest for life with which theyrsquove been greeting each day together for 71 years

Yes 71 years The Aronds in fact celebrated their 72nd anniversary this March And what better place to spend it than the Ebb Tide where theyrsquove been coming each year for the past ten years

First things first however As we enter Ronnie is bustling around tidying up ldquoIrsquom putting away all the messy stuffrdquo she notes cheerfully although itrsquos clear that her standards are much higher than ours In an instant coffee tea and festive cookies are in front of us Yum

When we offer to help we are politely dismissed ldquoWersquore helpful Wersquore not helpless yetrdquo says um Honnie Really this couple speaks with one voice Sort of Throughout our interview they finish each otherrsquos sentences often or break into what can only be described as the best Burns and Allen routine ever Hank can play ndash with equal vigor ndash the comedian and the straight man of this remarkable duo (as well as the violin but more about that later) and he plays every minute and every role with a wink and a nod

Pompano Today May 2016 17

WEDDED BLISS

ldquoCollect adventures Do them

Dont ever say no to somethingrdquo

Ronnie finally sits down her hostessing duties complete Her bright blue eyes and lovely fawn colored hair make for a beautiful portrait of a life well lived her nails are polished her lipstick perfect We ask what itrsquos like to be married for 72 years ldquoNordquo Ronnie smilingly corrects us ldquoitrsquos 36 because half the time he doesnrsquot listen to merdquo

The couple met on March 4 1943 Hank lets us know that ldquoShe was on the other side of a double daterdquo At the time Hank was paired with a girl from upstate (for those who donrsquot know ldquoupstaterdquo is of course ldquoupstate New Yorkrdquo) Driving to the train station he thought to himself ldquoHow do I do thisrdquo He decided to take an interesting tactic somehow he ended up with Ronniersquos phone number in his possession And the rest as they say is history

Hank wasted no time (less than a week in fact) before taking Ronnie to a Broadway show (which they believe was ldquoShadow of a Doubtrdquo) for their first date The very next day they went on another date where Hank met Ronniersquos best friend (and passed the ldquobest friendrdquo test) For those who believe in coincidence the stars aligning divine intervention ndash call it what you will ndash two days later Ronniersquos sister was getting married and she invited Hank to be her date since her current boyfriend a Navy man was stuck in Washington DC Thus within four days Hank had met Ronniersquos entire family Two weeks after their fateful first date Hank was off to serve our country He remembers thinking ldquoIrsquom finally going to get out of Brooklynrdquo and sure enough he did ndash and got stationed in the Bronx

The proposal soon followed ldquoHe asked me to marry himrdquo Ronnie recalls ldquoand I was very young and very naiumlve and polite and I didnrsquot know how to say no So I said lsquoOK Irsquoll marry you until I find someone betterrsquordquo Exactly one year from the day they met Ronnie and Hank were wed

Ronnie begins to interject and then stops herself saying ldquoSometimes I interrupt myselfrdquo

Mind you all of the above conversation happened in probably two minutes Wow Itrsquos impossible to overstate the energy and joie de vivre that simply beams from Ronnie and Hank a beacon of love hope and happiness that is remarkable This feeling ndash that yoursquore in the presence of two incredibly special people ndash is also partly due to their strong belief in fairness justice and not least their deep commitment to faith

Interestingly the Aronds are ldquoJewish by culture and traditionrdquo Ronnie notes ldquobut not observantrdquo In fact they are now Unitarian Universalists about which they are ndash you guessed it ndash very enthusiastic They have been members of their Unitarian Universalist congregation for over two decades ldquoOur congregationrdquo they explain ldquois probably 25 Catholic 25 Jewish 25 born [in the faith] and 25 Muslim other religionshelliptheir committees are

rarr

18 Pompano Today May 2016

no different than Congressrdquo Ronnie laughs She recalls that even her parents were ldquounconcerned about religion ndash for example [they didnrsquot worry about whether I would] marry a nice Jewish boyrdquo

When not in Pompano Beach (where theyrsquove been coming for 20 years) Ronnie and Hank make their home in Bellerose Queens in the house where they raised their two children Sometimes they tell us Hank will be asked ldquoIf you could choose to have children again would yourdquo To which Hank will reply ldquoYes but not themrdquo

Hank of course is kidding as he so often is Their son is an

accomplished pediatrician who travels the world supporting nonprofit efforts Their daughter is a nurse who lives in south Florida so Ronnie and Hank get to spend a lot of time with her each winter Sadly their son lost his wife who was a Quaker Friend in Vietnam during the war three years ago to ALS Has he remarried we ask No but hersquos met a nice woman in a gospel choir Well of course he has These are resilient people who keep going through whatever life throws their way

Back to that house in Queens that they moved into 66 years ago They watched the house get built it was in one of the many new postwar developments springing up around the country to meet the needs of returning veterans and the inordinate number of new families and households springing up everywhere Every weekend during construction ldquowe drove out from the Bronxrdquo We canrsquot help but think about what an exciting and hopeful time that must have been

Ronnie and Hankrsquos son and his wife had two children their granddaughter is currently in Bogota and their grandson is at Amherst (forgive us but what she is doing in Bogota escaped us rest assured that itrsquos something selfless and fabulous Itrsquos astonishing how difficult it is to keep up with Ronnie and Hank)

Our interview with Ronnie and Hank continues at pompanotodaycom We hope that everyone reading this takes this couplersquos incredibly wise life lessons to heart and that wersquove inspired you to live every day to the fullest Ronnie and Hank are both a living example of and testament to how to make the most of every day After all theyrsquore experts ndash theyrsquove had over 70 years of practice

To all the single folks out there get out there and make every day count To all the couples getting married this season make yourselves a life that is as happy healthy and adventurous as Ronniersquos and Hankrsquos As to you two lovebirds - enjoy your summer and wersquoll see you back at the Ebb Tide next year

Patti Nachman and Alicyn Muntildeoz raise the baron bridal shops with Wonderland Bridal

Wedded Bliss Part 2Wonderland Bridalrsquos story is unique as every bridersquos wedding day Co-owners Patti Nachmann and Alicyn Muntildeoz met in their respective Mary Kay businesses and hit it off so instantly ndash and so well ndash that they became known as the ldquoMary Kay sistersrdquo Along the way Alicyn accompanied her best friend on a wedding dress shopping trip and asked

the store owner if she could set up a Mary Kay table there on the weekends The owner agreed and eventually Alicyn was working at the shop part time

She loved it so much that she became determined to open her own shop At the time Patti was still in the corporate world having spent 16 years in the field of medical billing ldquoI wentrdquo Patti recalls ldquofrom screaming at insurance companies on the phone to laughing and crying with brides as theyrsquore choosing their gownsrdquo

Patti excitedly tells us that the business is really taking off ldquoWersquove just acquired a couture line Allure and will be carrying them in the summerrdquo and that Wonderland covers all price points depending on the bridersquos needs

ldquoI feel like everything has just fallen into place with this business and wersquore very luckyrdquo she notes

We ask Patti what the one thing is shersquod like our readers to know about

Wonderland Bridal She thinks for a moment ldquoWe are not like any other bridal store and I say that because we hear that from our brides We have a lot of brides that come here after shopping around and their experiences havenrsquot always been positive Or they come here first and we encourage them to shop around We donrsquot ever pressure our brides and most of them time theyrsquoll tell us ldquoI should have picked our dress while I was herersquo Our brides are really great we have a good bond with them The [wedding dress buying] experience is a process wersquore in constant contact with them from the time they come in until the time they take the dress home

ldquoOur customer service is superb We like to hold one appointment at a time so the entire store is the bridersquos Sometimes of course we get busy [especially] on Saturdays so we have two completely separate fitting rooms

ldquo[We make sure each of our brides] feels like a princess And itrsquos hellip the most important day of their lives and this is part of the memory and wersquore just happy to be a part of itrdquo

For the curious we learned of Wonderland Bridal through Benjaminrsquos Fine Alterations amp Tailoring right here in Pompano Beach The two shops work very closely together Patti explains how these two remarkable local business found each other and yes it includes the magic of social media ldquoBenjaminrsquos

Pompano Today May 2016 19

Benjamins offers painless alterations tailoring and- yes - tuxedo rentals for the big day

and Wonderland started following each other on Instagram Wersquod like each otherrsquos photos and make a comment here and there Then I went to a networking event and one of their employees saw my name tag and grabbed me and said lsquoOh my God yoursquore with Wonderland Bridal And I looked at her nametag and said ldquoOh my God yoursquore with Benjaminrsquosrsquo And we had just recently opened our shop and we got to talking and had a meeting and just picked up from there and [Benjaminrsquos staff have] been our seamstresses since then over a year ago Victoria is an incredible seamstressrdquo

Speaking of Victoria thats her by the way in the photo at left along with Alycin and Patti and the beautiful bride who also graces our cover Learn more about Victoria and Benjamins in Part 3 below

Wonderland Bridal Couture3400 NW 62nd AveMargate FL 33063

954) 973-8695wonderlandbridalcomhomehtml

Benjamins Fine Alterations amp Tailoring2609 East Atlantic BoulevardPompano Beach FL33062

954-943-5878benjaminsalterationscom

Wedded Bliss Part 3Alert readers will recognize Benjamins Fine Alterations and Tailoring from other pages of this publication Its likely however that unless youre already patronized Benjamins (and if you havent well whyever not) you wont recognize Victoria pictured below along with the amazing team of tailors and seamstresses in this beautifully decorated shop As humble as she is talented Victoria and the team are in a word magicians

Really We may be biased having had an unfortunate episode involving a seam ripper many years ago in junior high sewing class but we all have our unique talents Every member of the staff at Benjamins is an

expert in making your clothes look their very best And of course when your clothes look their best well so do you

So drop off those pants youve been meaning to hem that jacket that needs a mite of a tuck that gorgeous blouse with the sleeves that are just a little too long - you wont regret it

And if you are one of the rare individuals whose clothes all fit perfectly Benjamins rents mens formal wear too (see the coupon on page 9)

Why go anywhere else

Photos this and facing page Paul McDermott Photography

INSTRUCTIONS

bull Mix everything adding flour until the mix is firm but not sticky (not too dry)

bull Roll the dough into small balls (about an inch across)bull Place on ungreased cookie sheet and flatten very slightlybull Bake at 350 degrees for 20-25 minutesbull While still warm sift the powdered sugar onto the cookies

INGREDIENTS

bull 1 pound sweet butter softenedbull 6 tablespoons powdered sugar (reserve for after baking)bull Flour to appropriate texturebull Vanilla to taste

Photo copy FomaA Adobe Stock

YUM

chef at home jeff eatsyour diningIn honor of this months theme allow us a bit of poetic license (which sounds so much nicer than bait and switch) Growing up in a Greek household everyone looked forward to these kourabiedes (also known as kourambiethes as well as variety of other spellings Greeks can agree on little spelling included) It was not until well after we left home that we realized how many people identified these as Mexican Wedding cookies And while every Greek will swear that the Greeks invented these there are so many near-identical versions of this cookie around the world that its difficult to tell where they originated

The recipe below is from my beloved late grandmother or Yiayia as we say in Greek It is predictably vague but these are easy to get right Enjoy

Mexican Wedding Cookies

20 Pompano Today May 2016

Pompano Today May 2016 21

your dining jeff eats

Le VinoisSimply Luscious

BY JEFF EATS

NICKrsquoS 50rsquoS DINER 1900 OKEECHOBEE BOULEVARD WEST PALM BEACH FLORIDA 33409 (561) 471-3155

A LITTLE ABOUT JEFF ldquoMy name is Jeff I was born (1949) and bred in Brooklyn New York Since 1991 I have lived full-time in South Florida and have eaten in so many restaurants (down here) that I now consider myself to be a FOOD EXPERT To give you some idea as to how many South Florida restaurants Irsquove been to as of December 31 2014 441 Italian joints alone have had the pleasure of ringing up my American Express card

Just so you know I donrsquot go for the fancy sit-down joints that want you to wear pants and a jacket but rather places where a pair of shorts an old tee shirt and a pair of sneakers is considered formal-wear I donrsquot know one sauce from another I also donrsquot know or really care how ldquodishesrdquo are prepared What I do know is when something tastes delicious and I canrsquot get enough of itrdquo To read more of Jeff rsquos picks visit jeffeatscom

Got an absolutely terrific French bakery for you guys Le Vinois Bakery in Fort Lauderdale The joint has the full-boat of breakfast items breads pastries cakes soups quiches salads sandwiches cookies coffees Order at the counter- handful of tables if you want to eat there

Jeff Eats and Mrs Jeff Eats recently did an eat-in lunchand takeout order and like I said a few seconds ago Le Vinoisrsquo stuff is absolute dynamite

Now letrsquos be adults here and let bygones be bygones- you do remember Freedom Fries sure you do With that in mind Jeff Eats absolutely loved Le Vinois Bakery and Irsquom kinda thinking that you should definitely give it a shot

Clockwise from top left copy Friedberg Adobe Stock copy Chuck Place Adobe Stock copy gkrphoto Adobe Stock copy geshas Adobe Stock

Clockwise from top Enjoy croissants a slice of lemon tart great sandwiches and delicious quiche among the many other delights at Le Vinois

Le Vinois Bakery

6322 N Powerline RoadFt Lauderdale Florida 33309

Hours of operationMonday to Friday7am to 4pm

Phone 954 771 9788

Email modinafrancisyahoocom

levinoisbakerycom

22 Pompano Today May 2016

Whether yoursquore planning a close intimate gathering or a large affair the Sample-McDougald House at Centennial Park (450 NE 10th Street Pompano Beach) sets the scene for memories that will last a lifetime The recently completed $25 million restoration of the house and grounds provides you and your guests with a memorable setting The historic house surrounded by native trees and vegetation is a beautiful background for your photos Renting the Sample-McDougald House can give you and your guests exclusive use of the house and grounds throughout your affair (subject to use guidelines) Visit wwwSampleMcDougaldHousecom to learn more about the house or call 954 691-5686 or 954 214-4759 for more details

Memories yoursquoll treasure at the Sample-McDougald House

Sitting amidst four beautiful acres the Sample-McDougald House offers one of the few

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24 Pompano Today May 2016

AROUND TOWN

a look back charlottes web

your city(the Sample family)

THANKS TO DAN HOBBY AND THE POMPANO BEACH HISTORICAL SOCIETY FOR THE PHOTO AND INFORMATION ABOUT OUR CITYS RICH AND VARIED HISTORY TO LEARN MORE ABOUT OUR CITYS FASCINATING PAST VISIT POMPANOHISTORYCOM

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Members of the Sample family gather together ca 1920 Albert Neal Sample who had the house now known as the Sample-McDougald House constructed in 1916 is standing in the second row third from the viewers right The man kneeling in the first row is Neals younger brother John who prior to 1910 was the first member of the Sample family to settle in the Pompano area The house that Neal Sample built turns 100 this year

The non-profit Sample-McDougald House Preservation Society has a number of activities and events planned to commemorate the historic houses 100th birthday For information visit SampleMcDougaldHousecom or call 754-307-5446

Pompano Today May 2016 25

What the hell do I know about wedded bliss I am a long-term and certified member of the ldquohappily single never been marriedrdquo club Relationships take work people My comfort level of commitment is agreeing to feed walk and nurture the fluffy poodle I brought home from the shelter 5 years ago Beyond thathellipIrsquom selfish And letrsquos face it no onersquos ever gotten into an argument with a dog over a miscommunication Theyrsquore perfect in that respect

But weddings are wonderful events Friends and family gathering together for a festive happy occasion weddings almost always guarantee a good time The happy couple gazing into each otherrsquos eyes while reciting wedding vows Uncle Jim having a few too many at the open bar and trying out his salsa moves on the dance floor Ah the memories we can reminisce about for years to come And the expectation is that the new union will last forever

But how does that same couple reach their 50th year wedding anniversary 50 years of wedded bliss now thatrsquos an accomplishment Since I have already mentioned that I am not exactly a go-to advisor on the subject I did what I always do Letrsquos see what the internet says It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was ldquodonrsquot be selfish and always put your partner firstrdquo Hmmm

ldquoMake it quickrdquo This tip was found when referencing the science of being happily married While it doesnrsquot reference the actual marriage itself in summary I interpreted it to read if someone annoys you now they will most inevitably annoy you much more in the future So maybe not marrying material to begin with Interestingly enough I have this one covered with my three date rule What is the three date rule you ask If there is nothing you find annoying about an individual within the first three dateshellipgreen light means go there may be a future In my case this is a bit of a challenge to achieve

And then Oprahrsquos people had to weigh in on the subject I feel compelled to share a link to a great joke I found on Oprahcom during the search It involves a couple celebrating their 50th anniversary and a mule but no worries Itrsquos a completely clean joke You can see the full joke here oprahcomrelationshipsHappy-Marriage-Tips-Love-Advice

your city charlottes web

Wedded bliss the flip side

BY CHARLOTTE SUNDQUIST

It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was

dont be selfish and always put your partner first Hmmm

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Are you back Good Am I wrong in assuming this has some ties to the three date rule

I donrsquot know I certainly havenrsquot got all the answers But Irsquove just confirmed that single is a perfectly acceptable status for me And you single people that are tired of hearing ldquoWhen are you going to settle down and get marriedrdquo Donrsquot cavehellipdo what makes you happy There is not one version of the perfect relationship ideal If itrsquos a good fit for you so be it Wersquore all different after all

And to all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work Time to go walk the dog

To all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work

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Blissful BusinessCan we be blissful in life Yes Can we be blissfully in love Yes Can we be blissful in business That depends on what your definition of a ldquoblissfulrdquo business is Is it working Monday through Thursday Is it dress down days Is it bringing in a new client or two each month Your bliss depends on what your definition is and what that looks like for your business model Letrsquos talk about a few ways you can be ldquoblissfulrdquo in business

Your Company Culture

What is the tone or perception of your company Are you rigid conservative and safe Or are you creative thought provoking and innovative You have the opportunity to transform your company culture a culture that attracts customers employees and partners Think about Google they have created a co-working collaborative happy environment at work for their employees Google has determined that their definition of ldquoblissfulrdquo is casual dress napping pods libraries and bring your dog to work days Think about what your culture is and try to create an atmosphere that people can enjoy

Better Matters

How can you perform tasks and projects ldquobetterrdquo to make it more manageable for your staff As leaders when we put our employees first the rewards are priceless What are you implementing internally to ldquobetterrdquo your employees to meet their sales goals client leads or individual quotas If you raise your standards the company will follow Being better should be the norm Better business creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo business

The Next Level

What is your definition of the reaching the next level Will reaching that level create a ldquoblissfulrdquo business Maybe yes or maybe no The next level for my business would be to add more employees and another office which would create bliss for me I would be free to do more networking and outside activities Determine and define what the ldquonext levelrdquo is for your company and see if it makes sense and creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo work environment for everyone involved

Itrsquos important to take a step back every now and then to remember why being an entrepreneur makes you happy

Determine your personal definition of a blissful business

BY TEANA MCDONALD

26 Pompano Today May 2016

working it special feature

your business special feature

Pompano Today May 2016 27

Kim Briesemeister greets us at the entrance to RMArsquos new digs a suite of comfortable welcoming offices right on Atlantic Boulevard As usual she is polished professional and enthusiastic about all of the great things happening in our city

ldquoWhat RMA brings is the technical expertise the realities of how to achieve the market visionhellipthe end result is creating a quality place that people want to live in and are proud to call home a place where businesses want to be and the city gets a certain great viberdquo Kim notes You can see this ldquoviberdquo in her eyes ndash and you know that Kim can see what the future looks like here in Pompano Beach and at that moment in time we can see it with her

What is ldquoitrdquo exactly ldquoItrdquo is what great places are made of Art Culture Safety Walkability Excitement The vision that Kim and her partner Chris Brown as well as all of the bright creative energetic staff we see is breathtaking And that feeling of hometown comfort that we all get when we return here whether after a trip to the next town over or a trip around the world is the wellspring from which all of the plans for our future originate Itrsquos still Pompano Beach but itrsquos far far better

As the publishers of this magazine for the past six years we have firsthand knowledge of all of the great people who live here and

the great things that attract more like-minded residents and visitors An airport A harbor The Intracoastal The lighthouse Thriving businesses A small-town feeling that is ever harder to maintain

Without a cohesive vision itrsquos likely that some if not all of these could be lost To paraphrase Benjamin Franklin ldquoFailing to plan is planning to failrdquo and there is no shortage of planning for this bright future going on at RMA

Speaking of that planning at that point Kim turns our attention to the consideration of an ldquoinnovation districtrdquo and this is where her enthusiasm is if possible even more palpable We are treated to a breathtaking visual tour of what is possible in such a district and oh my We can hardly contain ourselves What we ask is RMArsquos role in this endeavor ldquoWe are able to help the community go through the redevelopment processrdquo Kim responds adding that ldquo[the goal is that] in the end everyone says lsquoThis is the most amazing place to live This is where I want to bersquordquo

Yes Thatrsquos what we all want A place that wersquore even more proud to call home Proud of the looks on the faces of others when we tell them ldquoYes I live in Pompano Beachrdquo proud that we raised our children in a place where after theyrsquore grown they choose to return and put down roots of their own right here where they belong This is the place that we will create that will provide a solid foundation on which our city will continue to build on and thrive

As we prepare to depart earnest young professionals come bounding enthusiastically through the door (ok they werenrsquot really bounding ndash they are professionals ndash but they sure gave the impression of bounding)

ldquoAhhhrdquo we think to ourselves imagining an exchange with them ldquoDo you guys happen to live in Pompano Beach No Thatrsquos too badrdquo we say unable to help feeling just a tad smug ldquoItrsquos a great place to live work and playrdquo

Falling in love with the future of Pompano Beach

For the past 50 years the landscape of innovation has been dominated by places like Silicon Valleymdashsuburban corridors of spatially isolated corporate campuses accessible only by car with little emphasis on the quality of life or on integrating work housing and recreation

A new complementary urban model is now emerging giving rise to what we and others are calling ldquoinnovation districtsrdquo These districts by our definition are geographic areas where leading-edge anchor institutions and companies cluster and connect with start-ups business incubators and accelerators1 They are also physically compact transit-accessible and technically-wired and offer mixed-use housing office and retail

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts

LOOKING AHEAD TO AN EVEN BRIGHTER FUTUREFrom top left

bull Creating a Downtown Innovation District means incorporating all of the pieces of a successful plan

bull a sterling example of one such district

bull synergy in actionbull specific steps

to harness our unique strengths

bull targeted industriesbull another sterling

example this time of a complete street

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts What They Are

Economic Assets

Networking Assets

Physical Assets

InnovationEcosystemA synergistic relationship between people firms and place that facilitates idea generation and acceleratescommercialization

Target Industries

International Trade and Logistics

Marine Industry

Life Sciences and Biotechnology

Creative Design

Digital Media and Technology

Class A Office

Tourism

Advanced Materials and High-Tech Manufacturing

Redevelopment of Commercial and Residential

Alternatives Energy and Renewable Resources

AviationAerospace

Global Business Services

Global Media and Production

Headquarters and Management Operations

Human Resources and Higher Education

How to harness our ldquoDowntown Innovation Districtrdquo

1 Build a collaborative leadership network

2 Set a vision for growth to leverage our unique strengths

distinct economic clusters leading local and regional institutions and companies physical location and design advantages and other cultural attributes

3 Pursue talent and technology

4 Promote inclusive growthEquip workers with the skills they need to participate in the innovation economy or other secondary and tertiary jobs generated by innovative growth

5 Enhance access to capital

Cultural ArtsTourism

Industrial

Multi Purpose

DowntownInnovation

District

Target Industries

Education

Housing

Downtown Innovation

District

28 Pompano Today May 2016

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30 Pompano Today May 2016

VROOM

all things automotiveyour rideThis monthrsquos theme is wedded bliss I started checking on an exact meaning for this title This is what was written in the English Dictionary ldquothe happiness of being marriedrdquo As I reflect back and think about life altogether whether marriage engagement purchase of a product or dealing with family and friendshellip

There are many factors in life that can afford you wedded bliss or the joy serenity and comfort of having the right lover husband or wife the right house or car the right job or titlehellip Now letrsquos admit to the fact that we all go though the ups and downs and have to face many situationshellip This is part of being human

Just imagine not having a significant other to share the joy or sadness of an event or a shoulder to cry onhellip Just imagine not having a cell phone to communicate with your loved ones or a car to get you from point A to point B

Just like a marriage you start by meeting a prospective mate lover or significant other You then starting dating and checking on the possibility of a good fit

If that is the case you start focusing on the possibility of a future together and if the positive traits in that individual outweigh the negative and if you canrsquot imagine living without himher then the marriage is to be considered

The same thing goes for the perfect car for you You have specific unique preferences based on your personality and the purpose of the car purchase

Achieving wedded bliss with your vehicle choice

The right car that will suit your needs for years to come exists It just takes a little research planning budgeting and common sense We all dream of the luxury car that we many not be able to afford but till the time comes to make our dream car a reality we will need to settle for what is achievable practical fits our need and makes us proud of the choice we made Here are some practical questions to answer would you like to get a sporty car a regular 4 door sedan a van an SUV or a truck

Would you like a practical car you may drive in city highway or would you like to go off-roading on the weekends Would you need this vehicle to tow your boat to tow your camping trip supplies or would you like to have an elegant car to show off to your friends Now we have to consider the budget and whether we want to purchase a domestic or foreign vehicle the maintenance cost the fuel efficiency and the overall look and feel of the car

We have noticed that cars reflect their ownerrsquos personality so if you are someone who is sporty adventurous have a young spirit and are financially secure then a Bugatti Veyron Porsche 911 Ford Mustang McClaren MP4- 12C Lamborghini Egoista Limited edition Mercedes AMG SL SLK Roadster or E Class Cabriolet Convertible or the Chevy Camaro come to mind Pictured on page 31 is the 2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue by the way

If you are someone who is practical enjoy trips to the mountains or the beach work full time and look for a dependable and comfortable car then check out the Cadillac CTS (pictured above) XTS or DTS Super Subaru Impreza Lexus CT 200h Sport IS 250 or ES 350 Mercedes CS or E Class Chevy Equinox Chevy Tahoe and Toyota Prius V

Cadillac CTS photo copy General Motors

Pompano Today May 2016 31

If you are the family manwoman and are seeking safety comfortable seating and an affordable vehicle with low maintenance we noticed that most of the inquiries are SUV or Van related such as the Mercedes GLA SUB GLE SUV or GLS SUV Audi Q5 Audi Allroad Toyota Sienna Ford Fex Ford Transit Connect Cadillac Escalade Cadillac SRX and letrsquos not forget the Chevy Suburban

Now if you are the hunter or you enjoy off roading every now and then the vehicles we seesell and repair most are the Ford F150 Ford Super Duty Mercedes G Class Toyota TacomaTundra Range Rover Jeep Wrangler and the Chevy Silverado

What about the green energy conscious We have had inquiries about the Toyota Prius and the Rav 4 Hybrid Audi A3 E-tron Cadillac ELR or the Chevy Spark EV Now if you are in the market for a nice ride then you need to test drive the Cadillac CT6 Plug-in Hybrid or the BMW I8 and tell me if you enjoyed the drive

Yes even car owners and their vehicles can talk about wedded bliss So if you have the

perfect car that fits your image your lifestyle your personality then congratulations because you are lucky to get the perfect car In the meantime if you are looking for a vehicle and have questions or concerns feel free to contact us and we will be glad to assist you BY JAY GHANEM

2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue copy The Ford Motor Company 2016 All Rights Reserved

HOLLYWOOD CORNER

news from the west coast

32 Pompano Today May 2016

stars in your eyesBenjamin A Onyango on keeping the faith

and making people happyWhen did you know without any doubt that you wanted to act

Ive always acted in church youth plays that I wrote myself when I was a teenager in Nairobi Kenya In 1987 I came to the United States and while attending California State University Stanislaus in Turlock California formed a traditional dance group called Upendo Singers and Cultural Dancers We wrote plays and songs and performed them in cultural festivals universities and churches After graduating in 1992 I knew I wanted to act so I struck the tent and moved to Hollywood where I joined a funk rock band called PFO and also acted as a background performer in TV and feature films What inspires you to act

I am naturally a happy person and I love it when people are happy So I cant help it but crack jokes and poke fun at myself to make people around me laugh I am inspired by other people Their presence makes me want to do stuff talk dance sing shout etc When did you realize you had reached your goals as an actor

I do not think I have reached my goal as an actor yet To me acting is an evolving thing You get to a certain level and then you strive to get better than the level you currently are on Acting has many facets and therefore many challenges There is no one way to approach acting I therefore believe that I am still reaching for that goal and I must admit that the experience indeed is the best teacher because you indeed get better at it the more you keep doing it

What was your favorite role to date and why

My favorite role to date is the movie I am currently filming called Beautifully Broken The reason its my first role as a lead actor in a feature film and best of all I am playing the role of a real person who survived the Rwanda genocide that the story is about I played a lead role before in a short film called Kwame also based on a true story and was voted best actor at the 2009 Mexico International Film Festival Beautifully Broken is a story that connects very strongly with the human spirit I can almost guarantee that there will not be a

single dry eye in the theater when its screened Its a beautifully written story of hardship resilience survival and hope

What do you enjoy most about your career

What I enjoy most about my career is the ability to travel and see different people in different parts of the world I am a people person and nothing

makes me happier than meeting and making new friends

Can we expect a book from you

Thats funny you mentioned that I write lots of movie scripts and TV show scripts and I have always thought of writing a book So on my down days on the set of Beautifully Broken I started a book Ive been toying with in my head for a while The title of the book is God Moves When We Stop Helping Him Its more of a booklet than a book Its a book about encouragement

What is the best way for your fans to know what yoursquore working on FacebookTwitter Do you post for your own sites or do you have your assistants do the posts

I hope I do have fans LOL They can find out about what I am doing or working on my Facebook page facebookcomEMEBAND or Facebook fan page facebookcomBenjiBendrix Twitter twittercombochieng Instagram instagramcombenjibendrix and imdb imdbcomnamenm1335173ref_=nv_sr I also have a website benjibendrixcom that I use

Tell us something new something bold that yoursquove never told any other magazinehellipnews tip )

Recently I was fortunate to have my TV webseries Dysfunctionally Organized pitched to a major network and they agreed to have us do a spin-off of the show So we have started the writing process Its a major achievement for my team and myself since we have been working on the show for a long time Its not easy to get an audience with a content procurement person on a major network so we feel very fortunate I cant mention the network because of confidentiality reasons

Photo of Benjamin Ochieng aka Benji Bendrix (friend of Jimi Hendrix) copy Flygirl PhotographyLearn more about Benjamin atproimdbcomnamenm1335173afro-mericarecordscommindtricksmoviecom

BY MISTY SCHWARTZ

word scrambleTHE LAST WORD

a workout for your mind

Wedded bliss All of the words in this months Scramble are related to marriage and weddings Good luck Look for the answers online beginning May 15 at pompanotodaycom

Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answerodeutx gnir oeemcryn lsuipnatgnwo iaoynmtmr rogom slrofweermdiadbis eusenv shrue ovwsnwiddge rrdemia erdib psoesuerdbhteot rceepnoit errceat eiervsc

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James ldquoJimrdquo Stafford Media DirectorJim is a professional photographer web and graphic designer He is passionate about photography and art and his marriage You can read more about Jim and his lovely wife in our Marital Minutes column

Trisharsquos work has appeared in numerous publications from Town amp Country to innnewyorkcom A sought-after speaker moderator and radio talk-show guest Trisha will be sharing her insights with readers and staff

Trisha McMahon Beauty amp Health Editor

Dawne is a longtime Pompano visitor and 10-year resident She brings us interesting news and notes from our neighbors and friends from businesses residents and tourists alike and is the founder and publisher

Dawne Richards Publisher

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JAY GHANEMyour rideJay Ghanem is the President of Auto Tech and Body an automotive complex in Pompano Beach When not working Jay likes to spend time with his wife and children

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DAN HOBBYnow and thenDan Hobby has kept us connected to our history for decades first as the Executive Director of the Fort Lauderdale Historical Society He is currently focusing his efforts on the Sample-McDougald house

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MISTY SCHWARTZstars in your eyesMisty Schwartz is the owner of MSPR and is a public relations and marketing guru who gives back to the community in all she does

ERICA RICHARDSyour diningErica Richards is a Johnson amp Wales-trained chef who focuses on healthy dishes She is currently raising another culinary star

4 Pompano Today May 2016

CONTENTSPOMPANO TODAY

FEATURES

your lifestyle 7 GET GOING

May events

9 SPECIAL THE SCENE10 EXPLORE ON THE PRAIRIE 12 FASHION FORWARD Proper Attire Required a guide for wedding guests

13 FASHION THE GOODS With this ring

14 MARITAL MINUTES 3 pieces of advice before you say I do

15 YOUR KIDS Planning a wedding dollars and senseyour dining20 YUM Mexican Wedding Cookies

your city24 AROUND TOWN A look back

25 CHARLOTTES WEB Wedded bliss the flip sideyour business 26 GET SMART Blissful business Special Falling in love with our citys futureyour ride 30 VROOM Achieving wedded bliss with your vehicle choicestars in your eyes32 HOLLYWOOD CORNER News from the west coastthe last word33 WORD SCRAMBLE

DEPARTMENTS

LOVE STORYWedded Bliss Part 1 Ronnie and Hank Arond

18 ONE GREAT BRIDAL SHOP Wedded Bliss Part 2 Wonderland BridalBENJAMINSWedded Bliss Part 3 From tailoring to tuxes

19

16

Cover photo and Wedded Bliss Parts 2 and 3 above copy Paul McDermott Photography

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Pompano Today May 2016 5

May notes As many of you know I dearly love Pompano Beach Pompano Today magazine was born of my desire to showcase all of the great things that happen all over our city while at the same time grow the magazine as the city grew into its potential

Both Pompano Today and Pompano Beach have done just that The magazine has grown due to the tireless efforts of our advertisers contributors partners photographers readers social media fans and everyone who has supported us during this incredible journey The city has grown due to the tireless efforts of our Mayor and City Commission our volunteer advisory boards the Greater Pompano Beach Chamber of Commerce and the outstanding work of the Pompano Beach CRA

Itrsquos time for me to pursue a different manner of serving our city Thank you for the past six years I hope yoursquove been as engaged entertained and inspired as Irsquove been by all of the opportunities to look around and say ldquoWow What a great city to call homerdquo

Enjoy and have a fantastic May

Dawne Richards Publisher

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Pompano Today May 2016 7

Happenings

Another action-packed month awaits

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This month starts off with a shootout - of the saltwater kind that is - and ends with a lovely if more sedate reminder of those whove paid the ultimate price for our freedom For more local events see our up-to-the-minute calendar at pompanotodaycomevents Enjoy

Spring tournament fishing in South Florida kicks off with The MercurySeaVee Pompano Beach Saltwater Shootout The Saltwater Shootout is the first leg in South Floridas largest tournament trail - The Pompano Beach Saltwater Circuit Teams travel from near and far to enjoy the festivities and take a chance at over $275000 in cash and prizes

By popular demand the Saltwater Shootout has become a sanctioned event in Division 10 of the Southern Kingfish Association Target species in the Shootout are dolphin wahoo kingfish tuna and cobia The Saltwater Shootout offers something for the competitive and the casual fisherman alike Reasonable entry fees great cash prizes top notch hospitality and fun activities for anglers of all ages keep the teams coming back year after year For a complete schedule of events visit bluewatermovementscomsaltwater_shootout_schedule_of_events

Be sure to remember Mom on this special day Brunches of course abound Personally we highly recommend some quality time at the beach any one of our fabulous parks or perhaps a nature walk at Fern Forest

On Saturday May 14 2016 from 5 to 10 pm the Sample-McDougald House Preservation Society will host a Centennial Celebration on the grounds of the 100 year old house Once a pineapple farm and home to two significant Pompano families the house today serves as a reminder of this arearsquos pioneer

spirit and agricultural past Through programs and public tours the restored house is moving into its second century as a community

The event will feature entertainment displays and a lavish bar-be-que cooked on the grounds by Porky amp Beth The evening will feature a silent auction of fine art as well as a live auction by Auctioneer and Mayor Lamar Fisher Donrsquot miss this unique opportunity to win a ride for two on the Goodyear Blimp or a long weekend at A Tranquil Landing in the Village of Hopetown on Elbow Cay Abaco Bahamas Tickets are $100 and may be purchased in advance by calling the SMH office at 754-307-5446 or online at samplemcdougaldcom

The celebration continues on Sunday May 15 2016 from 10 am to 4 pm with Family Day Bring the kids and celebrate our farming heritage with displays of antique cars and tractors displays and demonstration of heritage crafts including quilting and blacksmithing hands-on activities petting zoo pony rides and more No reservation required Tickets are $10 With children 12 and under FREE For more information contact Melissa May 754-307-5446

The City of Pompano Beach holds two beautiful and moving ceremonies on this day While details were not available at press time be sure to visit the Citys Events page at pompanobeachflg o v i n d e x p h p events closer to Memorial Day We never miss these they are fitting tributes to the fallen and a great way to start this day with your kids as a stirring reminder of the meaning of Memorial Day

Memorial Day RemembrancesMothers DayMay 8

Saltwater ShootoutMay 5 7 8

The Sample McDougald House Centennial May 14 and 15

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Pompano Today May 2016 9

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Weddings of course are so symbolic of new beginnings and such joyous events One of our favorite moments is when we happen to be somewhere along or on the beach and just happen upon a beach wedding What lovely occasions these are Our favorite moment however may have occurred a few weeks ago when we were lucky enough to spot a festive golf cart driven by a bride in full wedding attire accompanied by her attendants decked out in beautiful turquoise dresses Oh to have had a camera

Interested in a wedding on Pompano Beach Heres the info from our citys website For those planning a destination wedding Pompano Beach is perfect be it

a romantic beach wedding at one of the popular beach hotels a private cruise on the intracoastal or reception at a popular restaurant overlooking the golf course or the historic and very traditional Sample-McDougald House The weather is almost always accommodating Beach permits are needed and can be purchased at the Emma Lou Olson Civic Center (H-6) 1801 NE 6th Street Pompano Beach Marriage licenses must be purchased from the Broward County Clerk of Courts Info browardclerkorg or 9548316565 Learn more at pompanobeachflgovindexphppagestourist_infotourist_info

Photo of Keli and James copy Paul McDermott Photography PaulMcDermottcom

10 Pompano Today May 2016

EXPLORE

Real FloridaKissimmee Prairie Preserve State Park

On the prairietext and photos by Jim Stafford

At 54000 acres Kissimmee Prairie Preserve State Park is home to the largest remaining dry prairie in Florida Located north of Okeechobee the park is home to both endangered plants and animals Visitors will experience grasslands reminiscent of the Great Plains The park offers excellent birding and is also home to endangered species like the Crested Caracara and Burrowing Owl The Park offers 100 miles of dirt roads easy to walk and handicap friendly They give hikers bicyclists and equestrians excellent opportunities to explore the preserve November through March ranger-led prairie buggy tours allow visitors to see remote areas of the preserve Kissimmee Prairiersquos remoteness makes it one of Floridarsquos premier locations for stargazing For overnight stays the Preserve has two full-facility campground loops family and an equestrian campground with paddocks

AAn important item to note while planning your visit according to the Florida State Parks website ldquoSpring means prescribed fire at Kissimmee Prairie If you see smoke here at the prairie on your next trip there is a good chance it is our staff conducting a prescribed burn at naturersquos preferred time of year Florida Dry Prairie is accustomed to burning every 1-2 years and many of our plants and animals such as the Florida Grasshopper Sparrow need frequent fire to survive Our staff works hard to safely conduct prescribed fires on one third to one half of the preserve annually Please stop by our office for more information regarding fire management at the preserve wersquod be happy to talk to you about itrdquo To learn more about this program visit floridastateparksorgcontentspring-means-smoke-over-prairie

To learn more about Kissimmee Prairie Preserve State Park visit floridastateparksorgparkKissimmee-Prairie

Pompano Today May 2016 11

We are at the top of the wedding season so I would like to offer a quick refresher on wedding dress code etiquette You receive a wedding invitation the time and the location are specified but the big thing that is left up to you is what to wear to a wedding reception There are

some general guidelines to follow such as not wearing white not wearing clothing that is overly revealing and not looking wrinkled or unkempt Even with these guidelines deciding what

to wear can still be extremely difficult These tips will reduce some of the difficulty and give you some ideas for picking the perfect outfit

When deciding on what you wear to a wedding reception make sure you know the venue for the wedding and the time of day For example a beach wedding during the day calls for a more casual look than a church wedding Keep in mind that appropriateness is necessary for all wedding receptions irrespective of the time or the place

12 Pompano Today May 2016

your lifestyle fashion forward

Proper attire requiredA guide for wedding guests

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Suggestions for a Daytime Wedding

For Herbull Floral dressesbull Winter weddings Sweater and skirt

combinationsbull Summer weddings Light colored suitsbull Footwear sling-backs sandals or high

heelsbull Hats that match the rest of your outfit

For Himbull For a formal occasion wear a dark suitbull Spring or summer weddings A

seersucker or light-colored linen suitbull Winter weddings a wool suit or a

sweater underneath a smart blazer with a tie

bull A blazer with a buttoned down shirt trousers and a tie

Suggestions for a ldquoCasualrdquo Wedding

When the dress code calls for ldquoCasualrdquo wear it usually means that there is no dress code but you should still look nice and avoid jeans tank tops and shorts For a wedding ldquocasualrdquo means ldquobusiness casualrdquo

For Herbull A beautiful blouse matched with a pretty

skirt or pantsbull A summer sundress with natural makeup

amp hair

For Himbull A buttoned down or polo shirt paired with

dress pants

Suggestions for a ldquoBeach Formalrdquo Wedding

Beach Formal suggests that you should wear something fashionable but suitable for the beach

For HerA tea length or knee length formal summer sundress with flat sandals natural hair and makeup

For Himbull A summer suit matched with a linen

shirt bull Khakis or linen trousers and sandals A

tie is not required

Suggestions for an Evening Wedding

For Herbull A gown or a fancy dressbull A cocktail dress that is not overly sexy

or provocative (black is fine for this occasion)

bull A sophisticated dark color cocktail suit bull Avoid sequins sparkles and beads

unless the wedding invitation specifies ldquoblack tierdquo

For Himbull Dark smart suits bull A tuxedo for an after 6pm formal

ceremonybull For semi-formalcasual ceremonies a

blazer and slacks matched with a tie

If you stick to the guidelines above you will be all set Itrsquos all about finding a balance between being yourself and looking and feeling confident while not offending others There are lots of opportunities to wear flip-flops and cutoffs - a wedding is not one of them

BY ELAINE SIMMONS

daytime for her

evening for her

daytime for him

evening for him

Pompano Today May 2016 13

your lifestyle fashion the goods

With this ring

When approaching wedding planning and the selection of players let common sense reign The ring bearer tradition originated in ancient Egypt an elaborately decorated pillow was often used to display the jewelry during a wedding Exchanging rings became the common outward sign of betrothal and the two traditions merged which put the pillow front and center as the main apparatus for the carrying of rings at a wedding ceremony hence the need for someone to carry the pillow

Asking a young family member or child of a close friend to take on this position in your ceremony should be thought through with care and consideration While it is a wonderful way to honor and involve children in your wedding you must contemplate a few factors first

Age the age of a ring bearer is customarily in the range of 3-7 years old Younger and you are asking for trouble There is really no controlling children in this sort of setting in the first place ndash but this particular job is too much for a very small child just learning to walk I argue the sweet spot is between 4 and 5 years old However it is likely you know the child so if you think they have the maturity to handle the honor then by all means ask On the other end of the spectrum anything older than 7 or 8 begins to look odd Why not ask those young men to take on another role

Your help if you have a ring bearer then you have a flower girl and like the old Hollywood adage goes itrsquos tough to work with children and animals Make sure you have someone appointed to assist with your young charges this person must keep the two players together until they are ready to go down the aisle remind them of what theyrsquore supposed to do and where to land at the end It goes without saying that the ring bearer should be included in the rehearsal this will assuage stage fright on the big day and should eliminate any fear of what to do on his part

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Clothing the ring bearer is traditionally dressed in some miniature version of the groomsmens attire ndash like a little man While this is precious as can be make sure the parents have access to the outfit far enough ahead of time that they can help their son try it on so they can become comfortable in their big day attire The last thing you want is a fit pitching because the tie is lsquochokingrsquo the ring bearer

Tradition does not have to dictate every aspect of your ceremony You have creative license ndash this is your day Just make sure you approach the election of your underage wedding party members with your eyes as well as your heart wide open

14 Pompano Today May 2016

your lifestyle marital minutes

You are a ldquowerdquo not a ldquomerdquo

You cannot make decisions independently anymore Your life decisions can and will impact your spouse Repeat after us Your life decisions can and will impact your spouse If you do not learn this fairly quickly it could impact the stability of your relationship

Just because he is your husband does not mean he is perfect

Remember that both you and your husband will make mistakes You are both human beings and are fallible You need to learn to forgive and also you need to learn from your mistakes

Have fun

Although I love my children I did not take advantage of the time we had together as newlyweds and prior to having kids When a new addition enters your family it is more challenging to do things that you used to like to do together

About the StaffordsDr Gina and Jim Stafford have been married for over 15 years Throughout that time they had four beautiful children ndash all boys Over the course of their relationship they have faced ups and downs especially since three out of the four sons were diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder Despite the obstacles that came their way their marriage has grown stronger People who know the couple always ask how they do it The answer is that with hard work and faith anything is possible The couple decided to share their story their strategies and their lives with other couples to assist them in building a relationship just as strong as their own Each month we bring you their words of wisdom devoted to helping couples explore the many issues facing marriages today Read more about this engaging couple at maritalminutescom

BY DR GINA STAFFORD

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3 pieces of advice before you say I do

Pompano Today May 2016 15

your lifestyle your kids

Planning a wedding dollars and sense

BY MICHAEL DIPIERRO

Michael DiPierro has a decade of experience in education He currently holds a Masters degree in Educational Leadership and has 11 years of teaching experience in Broward County Public Schools

For students who entered 9th grade in the 2013-14 academic year a requirement to earn a standard high school diploma in Florida includes financial literacy instruction I think it is safe to assume that most people who have planned a wedding understand the need to be financially literate In Florida financial literacy instruction includes the knowledge understanding skills behaviors attitudes and values that will enable a student to make responsible and effective financial decisions on a daily basis

While financial literacy covers a broad range of topics in terms of planning a wedding related classroom instruction might focus on buying goods and services saving and financial investing and budgeting and debt management In 2014 the Florida State Board of Education adopted a financial-literacy strand to its Social Studies Next Generation Sunshine State Standards Nationally during the 2015 legislative session about thirty-five states and Puerto Rico considered bills related to financial literacy This is an increase from the roughly twenty-eight states and Puerto Rico that considered legislation related to financial literacy during the 2014 legislative session

Related classroom instruction might focus on buyinggoods and services

saving and financial investing and budgeting and debt

management

The Florida Department of Education approved a high school Personal Financial Literacy elective course written and submitted by the Broward County Public Schools Social Studies Office Some of the instructional practices connected to this course include providing extended learning opportunities that simulate economic scenarios and the use of real world data and evidence to answer complex high-level questions that are based on real world scenarios Although I am not endorsing any classroom projects planning a mock wedding seems like it would be a fun experience to learn about financial literacy especially since the students donrsquot really have to pay for the mock wedding

The Florida Department of Education approved a high school

Personal Financial Literacy elective course written and submitted by the

Broward County Public SchoolsSocial Studies Office

Planning a mock wedding seems like it would be

a fun experienceespecially since the students dont really

have to pay for the mock wedding

16 Pompano Today May 2016

COVER FEATURE

Ronnie and Hank Arond are a real-life fairy talethat should inspire us all

Wedded Bliss Part 1

On a clear sunny weekend morning we enter the clean bright and charming winter digs of Ronnie and Hank Arond (Of course we think that every single inch of the Ebb Tide is clean bright and charming but Ronnie and Hankrsquos quarters seem especially so)

The couple greets us with the vigor of much younger folks their energy levels are those of a much younger couple which is no surprise really given the zest for life with which theyrsquove been greeting each day together for 71 years

Yes 71 years The Aronds in fact celebrated their 72nd anniversary this March And what better place to spend it than the Ebb Tide where theyrsquove been coming each year for the past ten years

First things first however As we enter Ronnie is bustling around tidying up ldquoIrsquom putting away all the messy stuffrdquo she notes cheerfully although itrsquos clear that her standards are much higher than ours In an instant coffee tea and festive cookies are in front of us Yum

When we offer to help we are politely dismissed ldquoWersquore helpful Wersquore not helpless yetrdquo says um Honnie Really this couple speaks with one voice Sort of Throughout our interview they finish each otherrsquos sentences often or break into what can only be described as the best Burns and Allen routine ever Hank can play ndash with equal vigor ndash the comedian and the straight man of this remarkable duo (as well as the violin but more about that later) and he plays every minute and every role with a wink and a nod

Pompano Today May 2016 17

WEDDED BLISS

ldquoCollect adventures Do them

Dont ever say no to somethingrdquo

Ronnie finally sits down her hostessing duties complete Her bright blue eyes and lovely fawn colored hair make for a beautiful portrait of a life well lived her nails are polished her lipstick perfect We ask what itrsquos like to be married for 72 years ldquoNordquo Ronnie smilingly corrects us ldquoitrsquos 36 because half the time he doesnrsquot listen to merdquo

The couple met on March 4 1943 Hank lets us know that ldquoShe was on the other side of a double daterdquo At the time Hank was paired with a girl from upstate (for those who donrsquot know ldquoupstaterdquo is of course ldquoupstate New Yorkrdquo) Driving to the train station he thought to himself ldquoHow do I do thisrdquo He decided to take an interesting tactic somehow he ended up with Ronniersquos phone number in his possession And the rest as they say is history

Hank wasted no time (less than a week in fact) before taking Ronnie to a Broadway show (which they believe was ldquoShadow of a Doubtrdquo) for their first date The very next day they went on another date where Hank met Ronniersquos best friend (and passed the ldquobest friendrdquo test) For those who believe in coincidence the stars aligning divine intervention ndash call it what you will ndash two days later Ronniersquos sister was getting married and she invited Hank to be her date since her current boyfriend a Navy man was stuck in Washington DC Thus within four days Hank had met Ronniersquos entire family Two weeks after their fateful first date Hank was off to serve our country He remembers thinking ldquoIrsquom finally going to get out of Brooklynrdquo and sure enough he did ndash and got stationed in the Bronx

The proposal soon followed ldquoHe asked me to marry himrdquo Ronnie recalls ldquoand I was very young and very naiumlve and polite and I didnrsquot know how to say no So I said lsquoOK Irsquoll marry you until I find someone betterrsquordquo Exactly one year from the day they met Ronnie and Hank were wed

Ronnie begins to interject and then stops herself saying ldquoSometimes I interrupt myselfrdquo

Mind you all of the above conversation happened in probably two minutes Wow Itrsquos impossible to overstate the energy and joie de vivre that simply beams from Ronnie and Hank a beacon of love hope and happiness that is remarkable This feeling ndash that yoursquore in the presence of two incredibly special people ndash is also partly due to their strong belief in fairness justice and not least their deep commitment to faith

Interestingly the Aronds are ldquoJewish by culture and traditionrdquo Ronnie notes ldquobut not observantrdquo In fact they are now Unitarian Universalists about which they are ndash you guessed it ndash very enthusiastic They have been members of their Unitarian Universalist congregation for over two decades ldquoOur congregationrdquo they explain ldquois probably 25 Catholic 25 Jewish 25 born [in the faith] and 25 Muslim other religionshelliptheir committees are

rarr

18 Pompano Today May 2016

no different than Congressrdquo Ronnie laughs She recalls that even her parents were ldquounconcerned about religion ndash for example [they didnrsquot worry about whether I would] marry a nice Jewish boyrdquo

When not in Pompano Beach (where theyrsquove been coming for 20 years) Ronnie and Hank make their home in Bellerose Queens in the house where they raised their two children Sometimes they tell us Hank will be asked ldquoIf you could choose to have children again would yourdquo To which Hank will reply ldquoYes but not themrdquo

Hank of course is kidding as he so often is Their son is an

accomplished pediatrician who travels the world supporting nonprofit efforts Their daughter is a nurse who lives in south Florida so Ronnie and Hank get to spend a lot of time with her each winter Sadly their son lost his wife who was a Quaker Friend in Vietnam during the war three years ago to ALS Has he remarried we ask No but hersquos met a nice woman in a gospel choir Well of course he has These are resilient people who keep going through whatever life throws their way

Back to that house in Queens that they moved into 66 years ago They watched the house get built it was in one of the many new postwar developments springing up around the country to meet the needs of returning veterans and the inordinate number of new families and households springing up everywhere Every weekend during construction ldquowe drove out from the Bronxrdquo We canrsquot help but think about what an exciting and hopeful time that must have been

Ronnie and Hankrsquos son and his wife had two children their granddaughter is currently in Bogota and their grandson is at Amherst (forgive us but what she is doing in Bogota escaped us rest assured that itrsquos something selfless and fabulous Itrsquos astonishing how difficult it is to keep up with Ronnie and Hank)

Our interview with Ronnie and Hank continues at pompanotodaycom We hope that everyone reading this takes this couplersquos incredibly wise life lessons to heart and that wersquove inspired you to live every day to the fullest Ronnie and Hank are both a living example of and testament to how to make the most of every day After all theyrsquore experts ndash theyrsquove had over 70 years of practice

To all the single folks out there get out there and make every day count To all the couples getting married this season make yourselves a life that is as happy healthy and adventurous as Ronniersquos and Hankrsquos As to you two lovebirds - enjoy your summer and wersquoll see you back at the Ebb Tide next year

Patti Nachman and Alicyn Muntildeoz raise the baron bridal shops with Wonderland Bridal

Wedded Bliss Part 2Wonderland Bridalrsquos story is unique as every bridersquos wedding day Co-owners Patti Nachmann and Alicyn Muntildeoz met in their respective Mary Kay businesses and hit it off so instantly ndash and so well ndash that they became known as the ldquoMary Kay sistersrdquo Along the way Alicyn accompanied her best friend on a wedding dress shopping trip and asked

the store owner if she could set up a Mary Kay table there on the weekends The owner agreed and eventually Alicyn was working at the shop part time

She loved it so much that she became determined to open her own shop At the time Patti was still in the corporate world having spent 16 years in the field of medical billing ldquoI wentrdquo Patti recalls ldquofrom screaming at insurance companies on the phone to laughing and crying with brides as theyrsquore choosing their gownsrdquo

Patti excitedly tells us that the business is really taking off ldquoWersquove just acquired a couture line Allure and will be carrying them in the summerrdquo and that Wonderland covers all price points depending on the bridersquos needs

ldquoI feel like everything has just fallen into place with this business and wersquore very luckyrdquo she notes

We ask Patti what the one thing is shersquod like our readers to know about

Wonderland Bridal She thinks for a moment ldquoWe are not like any other bridal store and I say that because we hear that from our brides We have a lot of brides that come here after shopping around and their experiences havenrsquot always been positive Or they come here first and we encourage them to shop around We donrsquot ever pressure our brides and most of them time theyrsquoll tell us ldquoI should have picked our dress while I was herersquo Our brides are really great we have a good bond with them The [wedding dress buying] experience is a process wersquore in constant contact with them from the time they come in until the time they take the dress home

ldquoOur customer service is superb We like to hold one appointment at a time so the entire store is the bridersquos Sometimes of course we get busy [especially] on Saturdays so we have two completely separate fitting rooms

ldquo[We make sure each of our brides] feels like a princess And itrsquos hellip the most important day of their lives and this is part of the memory and wersquore just happy to be a part of itrdquo

For the curious we learned of Wonderland Bridal through Benjaminrsquos Fine Alterations amp Tailoring right here in Pompano Beach The two shops work very closely together Patti explains how these two remarkable local business found each other and yes it includes the magic of social media ldquoBenjaminrsquos

Pompano Today May 2016 19

Benjamins offers painless alterations tailoring and- yes - tuxedo rentals for the big day

and Wonderland started following each other on Instagram Wersquod like each otherrsquos photos and make a comment here and there Then I went to a networking event and one of their employees saw my name tag and grabbed me and said lsquoOh my God yoursquore with Wonderland Bridal And I looked at her nametag and said ldquoOh my God yoursquore with Benjaminrsquosrsquo And we had just recently opened our shop and we got to talking and had a meeting and just picked up from there and [Benjaminrsquos staff have] been our seamstresses since then over a year ago Victoria is an incredible seamstressrdquo

Speaking of Victoria thats her by the way in the photo at left along with Alycin and Patti and the beautiful bride who also graces our cover Learn more about Victoria and Benjamins in Part 3 below

Wonderland Bridal Couture3400 NW 62nd AveMargate FL 33063

954) 973-8695wonderlandbridalcomhomehtml

Benjamins Fine Alterations amp Tailoring2609 East Atlantic BoulevardPompano Beach FL33062

954-943-5878benjaminsalterationscom

Wedded Bliss Part 3Alert readers will recognize Benjamins Fine Alterations and Tailoring from other pages of this publication Its likely however that unless youre already patronized Benjamins (and if you havent well whyever not) you wont recognize Victoria pictured below along with the amazing team of tailors and seamstresses in this beautifully decorated shop As humble as she is talented Victoria and the team are in a word magicians

Really We may be biased having had an unfortunate episode involving a seam ripper many years ago in junior high sewing class but we all have our unique talents Every member of the staff at Benjamins is an

expert in making your clothes look their very best And of course when your clothes look their best well so do you

So drop off those pants youve been meaning to hem that jacket that needs a mite of a tuck that gorgeous blouse with the sleeves that are just a little too long - you wont regret it

And if you are one of the rare individuals whose clothes all fit perfectly Benjamins rents mens formal wear too (see the coupon on page 9)

Why go anywhere else

Photos this and facing page Paul McDermott Photography

INSTRUCTIONS

bull Mix everything adding flour until the mix is firm but not sticky (not too dry)

bull Roll the dough into small balls (about an inch across)bull Place on ungreased cookie sheet and flatten very slightlybull Bake at 350 degrees for 20-25 minutesbull While still warm sift the powdered sugar onto the cookies

INGREDIENTS

bull 1 pound sweet butter softenedbull 6 tablespoons powdered sugar (reserve for after baking)bull Flour to appropriate texturebull Vanilla to taste

Photo copy FomaA Adobe Stock

YUM

chef at home jeff eatsyour diningIn honor of this months theme allow us a bit of poetic license (which sounds so much nicer than bait and switch) Growing up in a Greek household everyone looked forward to these kourabiedes (also known as kourambiethes as well as variety of other spellings Greeks can agree on little spelling included) It was not until well after we left home that we realized how many people identified these as Mexican Wedding cookies And while every Greek will swear that the Greeks invented these there are so many near-identical versions of this cookie around the world that its difficult to tell where they originated

The recipe below is from my beloved late grandmother or Yiayia as we say in Greek It is predictably vague but these are easy to get right Enjoy

Mexican Wedding Cookies

20 Pompano Today May 2016

Pompano Today May 2016 21

your dining jeff eats

Le VinoisSimply Luscious

BY JEFF EATS

NICKrsquoS 50rsquoS DINER 1900 OKEECHOBEE BOULEVARD WEST PALM BEACH FLORIDA 33409 (561) 471-3155

A LITTLE ABOUT JEFF ldquoMy name is Jeff I was born (1949) and bred in Brooklyn New York Since 1991 I have lived full-time in South Florida and have eaten in so many restaurants (down here) that I now consider myself to be a FOOD EXPERT To give you some idea as to how many South Florida restaurants Irsquove been to as of December 31 2014 441 Italian joints alone have had the pleasure of ringing up my American Express card

Just so you know I donrsquot go for the fancy sit-down joints that want you to wear pants and a jacket but rather places where a pair of shorts an old tee shirt and a pair of sneakers is considered formal-wear I donrsquot know one sauce from another I also donrsquot know or really care how ldquodishesrdquo are prepared What I do know is when something tastes delicious and I canrsquot get enough of itrdquo To read more of Jeff rsquos picks visit jeffeatscom

Got an absolutely terrific French bakery for you guys Le Vinois Bakery in Fort Lauderdale The joint has the full-boat of breakfast items breads pastries cakes soups quiches salads sandwiches cookies coffees Order at the counter- handful of tables if you want to eat there

Jeff Eats and Mrs Jeff Eats recently did an eat-in lunchand takeout order and like I said a few seconds ago Le Vinoisrsquo stuff is absolute dynamite

Now letrsquos be adults here and let bygones be bygones- you do remember Freedom Fries sure you do With that in mind Jeff Eats absolutely loved Le Vinois Bakery and Irsquom kinda thinking that you should definitely give it a shot

Clockwise from top left copy Friedberg Adobe Stock copy Chuck Place Adobe Stock copy gkrphoto Adobe Stock copy geshas Adobe Stock

Clockwise from top Enjoy croissants a slice of lemon tart great sandwiches and delicious quiche among the many other delights at Le Vinois

Le Vinois Bakery

6322 N Powerline RoadFt Lauderdale Florida 33309

Hours of operationMonday to Friday7am to 4pm

Phone 954 771 9788

Email modinafrancisyahoocom

levinoisbakerycom

22 Pompano Today May 2016

Whether yoursquore planning a close intimate gathering or a large affair the Sample-McDougald House at Centennial Park (450 NE 10th Street Pompano Beach) sets the scene for memories that will last a lifetime The recently completed $25 million restoration of the house and grounds provides you and your guests with a memorable setting The historic house surrounded by native trees and vegetation is a beautiful background for your photos Renting the Sample-McDougald House can give you and your guests exclusive use of the house and grounds throughout your affair (subject to use guidelines) Visit wwwSampleMcDougaldHousecom to learn more about the house or call 954 691-5686 or 954 214-4759 for more details

Memories yoursquoll treasure at the Sample-McDougald House

Sitting amidst four beautiful acres the Sample-McDougald House offers one of the few

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24 Pompano Today May 2016

AROUND TOWN

a look back charlottes web

your city(the Sample family)

THANKS TO DAN HOBBY AND THE POMPANO BEACH HISTORICAL SOCIETY FOR THE PHOTO AND INFORMATION ABOUT OUR CITYS RICH AND VARIED HISTORY TO LEARN MORE ABOUT OUR CITYS FASCINATING PAST VISIT POMPANOHISTORYCOM

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Members of the Sample family gather together ca 1920 Albert Neal Sample who had the house now known as the Sample-McDougald House constructed in 1916 is standing in the second row third from the viewers right The man kneeling in the first row is Neals younger brother John who prior to 1910 was the first member of the Sample family to settle in the Pompano area The house that Neal Sample built turns 100 this year

The non-profit Sample-McDougald House Preservation Society has a number of activities and events planned to commemorate the historic houses 100th birthday For information visit SampleMcDougaldHousecom or call 754-307-5446

Pompano Today May 2016 25

What the hell do I know about wedded bliss I am a long-term and certified member of the ldquohappily single never been marriedrdquo club Relationships take work people My comfort level of commitment is agreeing to feed walk and nurture the fluffy poodle I brought home from the shelter 5 years ago Beyond thathellipIrsquom selfish And letrsquos face it no onersquos ever gotten into an argument with a dog over a miscommunication Theyrsquore perfect in that respect

But weddings are wonderful events Friends and family gathering together for a festive happy occasion weddings almost always guarantee a good time The happy couple gazing into each otherrsquos eyes while reciting wedding vows Uncle Jim having a few too many at the open bar and trying out his salsa moves on the dance floor Ah the memories we can reminisce about for years to come And the expectation is that the new union will last forever

But how does that same couple reach their 50th year wedding anniversary 50 years of wedded bliss now thatrsquos an accomplishment Since I have already mentioned that I am not exactly a go-to advisor on the subject I did what I always do Letrsquos see what the internet says It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was ldquodonrsquot be selfish and always put your partner firstrdquo Hmmm

ldquoMake it quickrdquo This tip was found when referencing the science of being happily married While it doesnrsquot reference the actual marriage itself in summary I interpreted it to read if someone annoys you now they will most inevitably annoy you much more in the future So maybe not marrying material to begin with Interestingly enough I have this one covered with my three date rule What is the three date rule you ask If there is nothing you find annoying about an individual within the first three dateshellipgreen light means go there may be a future In my case this is a bit of a challenge to achieve

And then Oprahrsquos people had to weigh in on the subject I feel compelled to share a link to a great joke I found on Oprahcom during the search It involves a couple celebrating their 50th anniversary and a mule but no worries Itrsquos a completely clean joke You can see the full joke here oprahcomrelationshipsHappy-Marriage-Tips-Love-Advice

your city charlottes web

Wedded bliss the flip side

BY CHARLOTTE SUNDQUIST

It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was

dont be selfish and always put your partner first Hmmm

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Are you back Good Am I wrong in assuming this has some ties to the three date rule

I donrsquot know I certainly havenrsquot got all the answers But Irsquove just confirmed that single is a perfectly acceptable status for me And you single people that are tired of hearing ldquoWhen are you going to settle down and get marriedrdquo Donrsquot cavehellipdo what makes you happy There is not one version of the perfect relationship ideal If itrsquos a good fit for you so be it Wersquore all different after all

And to all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work Time to go walk the dog

To all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work

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Blissful BusinessCan we be blissful in life Yes Can we be blissfully in love Yes Can we be blissful in business That depends on what your definition of a ldquoblissfulrdquo business is Is it working Monday through Thursday Is it dress down days Is it bringing in a new client or two each month Your bliss depends on what your definition is and what that looks like for your business model Letrsquos talk about a few ways you can be ldquoblissfulrdquo in business

Your Company Culture

What is the tone or perception of your company Are you rigid conservative and safe Or are you creative thought provoking and innovative You have the opportunity to transform your company culture a culture that attracts customers employees and partners Think about Google they have created a co-working collaborative happy environment at work for their employees Google has determined that their definition of ldquoblissfulrdquo is casual dress napping pods libraries and bring your dog to work days Think about what your culture is and try to create an atmosphere that people can enjoy

Better Matters

How can you perform tasks and projects ldquobetterrdquo to make it more manageable for your staff As leaders when we put our employees first the rewards are priceless What are you implementing internally to ldquobetterrdquo your employees to meet their sales goals client leads or individual quotas If you raise your standards the company will follow Being better should be the norm Better business creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo business

The Next Level

What is your definition of the reaching the next level Will reaching that level create a ldquoblissfulrdquo business Maybe yes or maybe no The next level for my business would be to add more employees and another office which would create bliss for me I would be free to do more networking and outside activities Determine and define what the ldquonext levelrdquo is for your company and see if it makes sense and creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo work environment for everyone involved

Itrsquos important to take a step back every now and then to remember why being an entrepreneur makes you happy

Determine your personal definition of a blissful business

BY TEANA MCDONALD

26 Pompano Today May 2016

working it special feature

your business special feature

Pompano Today May 2016 27

Kim Briesemeister greets us at the entrance to RMArsquos new digs a suite of comfortable welcoming offices right on Atlantic Boulevard As usual she is polished professional and enthusiastic about all of the great things happening in our city

ldquoWhat RMA brings is the technical expertise the realities of how to achieve the market visionhellipthe end result is creating a quality place that people want to live in and are proud to call home a place where businesses want to be and the city gets a certain great viberdquo Kim notes You can see this ldquoviberdquo in her eyes ndash and you know that Kim can see what the future looks like here in Pompano Beach and at that moment in time we can see it with her

What is ldquoitrdquo exactly ldquoItrdquo is what great places are made of Art Culture Safety Walkability Excitement The vision that Kim and her partner Chris Brown as well as all of the bright creative energetic staff we see is breathtaking And that feeling of hometown comfort that we all get when we return here whether after a trip to the next town over or a trip around the world is the wellspring from which all of the plans for our future originate Itrsquos still Pompano Beach but itrsquos far far better

As the publishers of this magazine for the past six years we have firsthand knowledge of all of the great people who live here and

the great things that attract more like-minded residents and visitors An airport A harbor The Intracoastal The lighthouse Thriving businesses A small-town feeling that is ever harder to maintain

Without a cohesive vision itrsquos likely that some if not all of these could be lost To paraphrase Benjamin Franklin ldquoFailing to plan is planning to failrdquo and there is no shortage of planning for this bright future going on at RMA

Speaking of that planning at that point Kim turns our attention to the consideration of an ldquoinnovation districtrdquo and this is where her enthusiasm is if possible even more palpable We are treated to a breathtaking visual tour of what is possible in such a district and oh my We can hardly contain ourselves What we ask is RMArsquos role in this endeavor ldquoWe are able to help the community go through the redevelopment processrdquo Kim responds adding that ldquo[the goal is that] in the end everyone says lsquoThis is the most amazing place to live This is where I want to bersquordquo

Yes Thatrsquos what we all want A place that wersquore even more proud to call home Proud of the looks on the faces of others when we tell them ldquoYes I live in Pompano Beachrdquo proud that we raised our children in a place where after theyrsquore grown they choose to return and put down roots of their own right here where they belong This is the place that we will create that will provide a solid foundation on which our city will continue to build on and thrive

As we prepare to depart earnest young professionals come bounding enthusiastically through the door (ok they werenrsquot really bounding ndash they are professionals ndash but they sure gave the impression of bounding)

ldquoAhhhrdquo we think to ourselves imagining an exchange with them ldquoDo you guys happen to live in Pompano Beach No Thatrsquos too badrdquo we say unable to help feeling just a tad smug ldquoItrsquos a great place to live work and playrdquo

Falling in love with the future of Pompano Beach

For the past 50 years the landscape of innovation has been dominated by places like Silicon Valleymdashsuburban corridors of spatially isolated corporate campuses accessible only by car with little emphasis on the quality of life or on integrating work housing and recreation

A new complementary urban model is now emerging giving rise to what we and others are calling ldquoinnovation districtsrdquo These districts by our definition are geographic areas where leading-edge anchor institutions and companies cluster and connect with start-ups business incubators and accelerators1 They are also physically compact transit-accessible and technically-wired and offer mixed-use housing office and retail

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts

LOOKING AHEAD TO AN EVEN BRIGHTER FUTUREFrom top left

bull Creating a Downtown Innovation District means incorporating all of the pieces of a successful plan

bull a sterling example of one such district

bull synergy in actionbull specific steps

to harness our unique strengths

bull targeted industriesbull another sterling

example this time of a complete street

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts What They Are

Economic Assets

Networking Assets

Physical Assets

InnovationEcosystemA synergistic relationship between people firms and place that facilitates idea generation and acceleratescommercialization

Target Industries

International Trade and Logistics

Marine Industry

Life Sciences and Biotechnology

Creative Design

Digital Media and Technology

Class A Office

Tourism

Advanced Materials and High-Tech Manufacturing

Redevelopment of Commercial and Residential

Alternatives Energy and Renewable Resources

AviationAerospace

Global Business Services

Global Media and Production

Headquarters and Management Operations

Human Resources and Higher Education

How to harness our ldquoDowntown Innovation Districtrdquo

1 Build a collaborative leadership network

2 Set a vision for growth to leverage our unique strengths

distinct economic clusters leading local and regional institutions and companies physical location and design advantages and other cultural attributes

3 Pursue talent and technology

4 Promote inclusive growthEquip workers with the skills they need to participate in the innovation economy or other secondary and tertiary jobs generated by innovative growth

5 Enhance access to capital

Cultural ArtsTourism

Industrial

Multi Purpose

DowntownInnovation

District

Target Industries

Education

Housing

Downtown Innovation

District

28 Pompano Today May 2016

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30 Pompano Today May 2016

VROOM

all things automotiveyour rideThis monthrsquos theme is wedded bliss I started checking on an exact meaning for this title This is what was written in the English Dictionary ldquothe happiness of being marriedrdquo As I reflect back and think about life altogether whether marriage engagement purchase of a product or dealing with family and friendshellip

There are many factors in life that can afford you wedded bliss or the joy serenity and comfort of having the right lover husband or wife the right house or car the right job or titlehellip Now letrsquos admit to the fact that we all go though the ups and downs and have to face many situationshellip This is part of being human

Just imagine not having a significant other to share the joy or sadness of an event or a shoulder to cry onhellip Just imagine not having a cell phone to communicate with your loved ones or a car to get you from point A to point B

Just like a marriage you start by meeting a prospective mate lover or significant other You then starting dating and checking on the possibility of a good fit

If that is the case you start focusing on the possibility of a future together and if the positive traits in that individual outweigh the negative and if you canrsquot imagine living without himher then the marriage is to be considered

The same thing goes for the perfect car for you You have specific unique preferences based on your personality and the purpose of the car purchase

Achieving wedded bliss with your vehicle choice

The right car that will suit your needs for years to come exists It just takes a little research planning budgeting and common sense We all dream of the luxury car that we many not be able to afford but till the time comes to make our dream car a reality we will need to settle for what is achievable practical fits our need and makes us proud of the choice we made Here are some practical questions to answer would you like to get a sporty car a regular 4 door sedan a van an SUV or a truck

Would you like a practical car you may drive in city highway or would you like to go off-roading on the weekends Would you need this vehicle to tow your boat to tow your camping trip supplies or would you like to have an elegant car to show off to your friends Now we have to consider the budget and whether we want to purchase a domestic or foreign vehicle the maintenance cost the fuel efficiency and the overall look and feel of the car

We have noticed that cars reflect their ownerrsquos personality so if you are someone who is sporty adventurous have a young spirit and are financially secure then a Bugatti Veyron Porsche 911 Ford Mustang McClaren MP4- 12C Lamborghini Egoista Limited edition Mercedes AMG SL SLK Roadster or E Class Cabriolet Convertible or the Chevy Camaro come to mind Pictured on page 31 is the 2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue by the way

If you are someone who is practical enjoy trips to the mountains or the beach work full time and look for a dependable and comfortable car then check out the Cadillac CTS (pictured above) XTS or DTS Super Subaru Impreza Lexus CT 200h Sport IS 250 or ES 350 Mercedes CS or E Class Chevy Equinox Chevy Tahoe and Toyota Prius V

Cadillac CTS photo copy General Motors

Pompano Today May 2016 31

If you are the family manwoman and are seeking safety comfortable seating and an affordable vehicle with low maintenance we noticed that most of the inquiries are SUV or Van related such as the Mercedes GLA SUB GLE SUV or GLS SUV Audi Q5 Audi Allroad Toyota Sienna Ford Fex Ford Transit Connect Cadillac Escalade Cadillac SRX and letrsquos not forget the Chevy Suburban

Now if you are the hunter or you enjoy off roading every now and then the vehicles we seesell and repair most are the Ford F150 Ford Super Duty Mercedes G Class Toyota TacomaTundra Range Rover Jeep Wrangler and the Chevy Silverado

What about the green energy conscious We have had inquiries about the Toyota Prius and the Rav 4 Hybrid Audi A3 E-tron Cadillac ELR or the Chevy Spark EV Now if you are in the market for a nice ride then you need to test drive the Cadillac CT6 Plug-in Hybrid or the BMW I8 and tell me if you enjoyed the drive

Yes even car owners and their vehicles can talk about wedded bliss So if you have the

perfect car that fits your image your lifestyle your personality then congratulations because you are lucky to get the perfect car In the meantime if you are looking for a vehicle and have questions or concerns feel free to contact us and we will be glad to assist you BY JAY GHANEM

2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue copy The Ford Motor Company 2016 All Rights Reserved

HOLLYWOOD CORNER

news from the west coast

32 Pompano Today May 2016

stars in your eyesBenjamin A Onyango on keeping the faith

and making people happyWhen did you know without any doubt that you wanted to act

Ive always acted in church youth plays that I wrote myself when I was a teenager in Nairobi Kenya In 1987 I came to the United States and while attending California State University Stanislaus in Turlock California formed a traditional dance group called Upendo Singers and Cultural Dancers We wrote plays and songs and performed them in cultural festivals universities and churches After graduating in 1992 I knew I wanted to act so I struck the tent and moved to Hollywood where I joined a funk rock band called PFO and also acted as a background performer in TV and feature films What inspires you to act

I am naturally a happy person and I love it when people are happy So I cant help it but crack jokes and poke fun at myself to make people around me laugh I am inspired by other people Their presence makes me want to do stuff talk dance sing shout etc When did you realize you had reached your goals as an actor

I do not think I have reached my goal as an actor yet To me acting is an evolving thing You get to a certain level and then you strive to get better than the level you currently are on Acting has many facets and therefore many challenges There is no one way to approach acting I therefore believe that I am still reaching for that goal and I must admit that the experience indeed is the best teacher because you indeed get better at it the more you keep doing it

What was your favorite role to date and why

My favorite role to date is the movie I am currently filming called Beautifully Broken The reason its my first role as a lead actor in a feature film and best of all I am playing the role of a real person who survived the Rwanda genocide that the story is about I played a lead role before in a short film called Kwame also based on a true story and was voted best actor at the 2009 Mexico International Film Festival Beautifully Broken is a story that connects very strongly with the human spirit I can almost guarantee that there will not be a

single dry eye in the theater when its screened Its a beautifully written story of hardship resilience survival and hope

What do you enjoy most about your career

What I enjoy most about my career is the ability to travel and see different people in different parts of the world I am a people person and nothing

makes me happier than meeting and making new friends

Can we expect a book from you

Thats funny you mentioned that I write lots of movie scripts and TV show scripts and I have always thought of writing a book So on my down days on the set of Beautifully Broken I started a book Ive been toying with in my head for a while The title of the book is God Moves When We Stop Helping Him Its more of a booklet than a book Its a book about encouragement

What is the best way for your fans to know what yoursquore working on FacebookTwitter Do you post for your own sites or do you have your assistants do the posts

I hope I do have fans LOL They can find out about what I am doing or working on my Facebook page facebookcomEMEBAND or Facebook fan page facebookcomBenjiBendrix Twitter twittercombochieng Instagram instagramcombenjibendrix and imdb imdbcomnamenm1335173ref_=nv_sr I also have a website benjibendrixcom that I use

Tell us something new something bold that yoursquove never told any other magazinehellipnews tip )

Recently I was fortunate to have my TV webseries Dysfunctionally Organized pitched to a major network and they agreed to have us do a spin-off of the show So we have started the writing process Its a major achievement for my team and myself since we have been working on the show for a long time Its not easy to get an audience with a content procurement person on a major network so we feel very fortunate I cant mention the network because of confidentiality reasons

Photo of Benjamin Ochieng aka Benji Bendrix (friend of Jimi Hendrix) copy Flygirl PhotographyLearn more about Benjamin atproimdbcomnamenm1335173afro-mericarecordscommindtricksmoviecom

BY MISTY SCHWARTZ

word scrambleTHE LAST WORD

a workout for your mind

Wedded bliss All of the words in this months Scramble are related to marriage and weddings Good luck Look for the answers online beginning May 15 at pompanotodaycom

Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answerodeutx gnir oeemcryn lsuipnatgnwo iaoynmtmr rogom slrofweermdiadbis eusenv shrue ovwsnwiddge rrdemia erdib psoesuerdbhteot rceepnoit errceat eiervsc

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jamesstaffordname(561) 201-1640

4 Pompano Today May 2016

CONTENTSPOMPANO TODAY

FEATURES

your lifestyle 7 GET GOING

May events

9 SPECIAL THE SCENE10 EXPLORE ON THE PRAIRIE 12 FASHION FORWARD Proper Attire Required a guide for wedding guests

13 FASHION THE GOODS With this ring

14 MARITAL MINUTES 3 pieces of advice before you say I do

15 YOUR KIDS Planning a wedding dollars and senseyour dining20 YUM Mexican Wedding Cookies

your city24 AROUND TOWN A look back

25 CHARLOTTES WEB Wedded bliss the flip sideyour business 26 GET SMART Blissful business Special Falling in love with our citys futureyour ride 30 VROOM Achieving wedded bliss with your vehicle choicestars in your eyes32 HOLLYWOOD CORNER News from the west coastthe last word33 WORD SCRAMBLE

DEPARTMENTS

LOVE STORYWedded Bliss Part 1 Ronnie and Hank Arond

18 ONE GREAT BRIDAL SHOP Wedded Bliss Part 2 Wonderland BridalBENJAMINSWedded Bliss Part 3 From tailoring to tuxes

19

16

Cover photo and Wedded Bliss Parts 2 and 3 above copy Paul McDermott Photography

18

16

19

May2016

Pompano Today May 2016 5

May notes As many of you know I dearly love Pompano Beach Pompano Today magazine was born of my desire to showcase all of the great things that happen all over our city while at the same time grow the magazine as the city grew into its potential

Both Pompano Today and Pompano Beach have done just that The magazine has grown due to the tireless efforts of our advertisers contributors partners photographers readers social media fans and everyone who has supported us during this incredible journey The city has grown due to the tireless efforts of our Mayor and City Commission our volunteer advisory boards the Greater Pompano Beach Chamber of Commerce and the outstanding work of the Pompano Beach CRA

Itrsquos time for me to pursue a different manner of serving our city Thank you for the past six years I hope yoursquove been as engaged entertained and inspired as Irsquove been by all of the opportunities to look around and say ldquoWow What a great city to call homerdquo

Enjoy and have a fantastic May

Dawne Richards Publisher

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Pompano Today May 2016 7

Happenings

Another action-packed month awaits

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This month starts off with a shootout - of the saltwater kind that is - and ends with a lovely if more sedate reminder of those whove paid the ultimate price for our freedom For more local events see our up-to-the-minute calendar at pompanotodaycomevents Enjoy

Spring tournament fishing in South Florida kicks off with The MercurySeaVee Pompano Beach Saltwater Shootout The Saltwater Shootout is the first leg in South Floridas largest tournament trail - The Pompano Beach Saltwater Circuit Teams travel from near and far to enjoy the festivities and take a chance at over $275000 in cash and prizes

By popular demand the Saltwater Shootout has become a sanctioned event in Division 10 of the Southern Kingfish Association Target species in the Shootout are dolphin wahoo kingfish tuna and cobia The Saltwater Shootout offers something for the competitive and the casual fisherman alike Reasonable entry fees great cash prizes top notch hospitality and fun activities for anglers of all ages keep the teams coming back year after year For a complete schedule of events visit bluewatermovementscomsaltwater_shootout_schedule_of_events

Be sure to remember Mom on this special day Brunches of course abound Personally we highly recommend some quality time at the beach any one of our fabulous parks or perhaps a nature walk at Fern Forest

On Saturday May 14 2016 from 5 to 10 pm the Sample-McDougald House Preservation Society will host a Centennial Celebration on the grounds of the 100 year old house Once a pineapple farm and home to two significant Pompano families the house today serves as a reminder of this arearsquos pioneer

spirit and agricultural past Through programs and public tours the restored house is moving into its second century as a community

The event will feature entertainment displays and a lavish bar-be-que cooked on the grounds by Porky amp Beth The evening will feature a silent auction of fine art as well as a live auction by Auctioneer and Mayor Lamar Fisher Donrsquot miss this unique opportunity to win a ride for two on the Goodyear Blimp or a long weekend at A Tranquil Landing in the Village of Hopetown on Elbow Cay Abaco Bahamas Tickets are $100 and may be purchased in advance by calling the SMH office at 754-307-5446 or online at samplemcdougaldcom

The celebration continues on Sunday May 15 2016 from 10 am to 4 pm with Family Day Bring the kids and celebrate our farming heritage with displays of antique cars and tractors displays and demonstration of heritage crafts including quilting and blacksmithing hands-on activities petting zoo pony rides and more No reservation required Tickets are $10 With children 12 and under FREE For more information contact Melissa May 754-307-5446

The City of Pompano Beach holds two beautiful and moving ceremonies on this day While details were not available at press time be sure to visit the Citys Events page at pompanobeachflg o v i n d e x p h p events closer to Memorial Day We never miss these they are fitting tributes to the fallen and a great way to start this day with your kids as a stirring reminder of the meaning of Memorial Day

Memorial Day RemembrancesMothers DayMay 8

Saltwater ShootoutMay 5 7 8

The Sample McDougald House Centennial May 14 and 15

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Pompano Today May 2016 9

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Weddings of course are so symbolic of new beginnings and such joyous events One of our favorite moments is when we happen to be somewhere along or on the beach and just happen upon a beach wedding What lovely occasions these are Our favorite moment however may have occurred a few weeks ago when we were lucky enough to spot a festive golf cart driven by a bride in full wedding attire accompanied by her attendants decked out in beautiful turquoise dresses Oh to have had a camera

Interested in a wedding on Pompano Beach Heres the info from our citys website For those planning a destination wedding Pompano Beach is perfect be it

a romantic beach wedding at one of the popular beach hotels a private cruise on the intracoastal or reception at a popular restaurant overlooking the golf course or the historic and very traditional Sample-McDougald House The weather is almost always accommodating Beach permits are needed and can be purchased at the Emma Lou Olson Civic Center (H-6) 1801 NE 6th Street Pompano Beach Marriage licenses must be purchased from the Broward County Clerk of Courts Info browardclerkorg or 9548316565 Learn more at pompanobeachflgovindexphppagestourist_infotourist_info

Photo of Keli and James copy Paul McDermott Photography PaulMcDermottcom

10 Pompano Today May 2016

EXPLORE

Real FloridaKissimmee Prairie Preserve State Park

On the prairietext and photos by Jim Stafford

At 54000 acres Kissimmee Prairie Preserve State Park is home to the largest remaining dry prairie in Florida Located north of Okeechobee the park is home to both endangered plants and animals Visitors will experience grasslands reminiscent of the Great Plains The park offers excellent birding and is also home to endangered species like the Crested Caracara and Burrowing Owl The Park offers 100 miles of dirt roads easy to walk and handicap friendly They give hikers bicyclists and equestrians excellent opportunities to explore the preserve November through March ranger-led prairie buggy tours allow visitors to see remote areas of the preserve Kissimmee Prairiersquos remoteness makes it one of Floridarsquos premier locations for stargazing For overnight stays the Preserve has two full-facility campground loops family and an equestrian campground with paddocks

AAn important item to note while planning your visit according to the Florida State Parks website ldquoSpring means prescribed fire at Kissimmee Prairie If you see smoke here at the prairie on your next trip there is a good chance it is our staff conducting a prescribed burn at naturersquos preferred time of year Florida Dry Prairie is accustomed to burning every 1-2 years and many of our plants and animals such as the Florida Grasshopper Sparrow need frequent fire to survive Our staff works hard to safely conduct prescribed fires on one third to one half of the preserve annually Please stop by our office for more information regarding fire management at the preserve wersquod be happy to talk to you about itrdquo To learn more about this program visit floridastateparksorgcontentspring-means-smoke-over-prairie

To learn more about Kissimmee Prairie Preserve State Park visit floridastateparksorgparkKissimmee-Prairie

Pompano Today May 2016 11

We are at the top of the wedding season so I would like to offer a quick refresher on wedding dress code etiquette You receive a wedding invitation the time and the location are specified but the big thing that is left up to you is what to wear to a wedding reception There are

some general guidelines to follow such as not wearing white not wearing clothing that is overly revealing and not looking wrinkled or unkempt Even with these guidelines deciding what

to wear can still be extremely difficult These tips will reduce some of the difficulty and give you some ideas for picking the perfect outfit

When deciding on what you wear to a wedding reception make sure you know the venue for the wedding and the time of day For example a beach wedding during the day calls for a more casual look than a church wedding Keep in mind that appropriateness is necessary for all wedding receptions irrespective of the time or the place

12 Pompano Today May 2016

your lifestyle fashion forward

Proper attire requiredA guide for wedding guests

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Suggestions for a Daytime Wedding

For Herbull Floral dressesbull Winter weddings Sweater and skirt

combinationsbull Summer weddings Light colored suitsbull Footwear sling-backs sandals or high

heelsbull Hats that match the rest of your outfit

For Himbull For a formal occasion wear a dark suitbull Spring or summer weddings A

seersucker or light-colored linen suitbull Winter weddings a wool suit or a

sweater underneath a smart blazer with a tie

bull A blazer with a buttoned down shirt trousers and a tie

Suggestions for a ldquoCasualrdquo Wedding

When the dress code calls for ldquoCasualrdquo wear it usually means that there is no dress code but you should still look nice and avoid jeans tank tops and shorts For a wedding ldquocasualrdquo means ldquobusiness casualrdquo

For Herbull A beautiful blouse matched with a pretty

skirt or pantsbull A summer sundress with natural makeup

amp hair

For Himbull A buttoned down or polo shirt paired with

dress pants

Suggestions for a ldquoBeach Formalrdquo Wedding

Beach Formal suggests that you should wear something fashionable but suitable for the beach

For HerA tea length or knee length formal summer sundress with flat sandals natural hair and makeup

For Himbull A summer suit matched with a linen

shirt bull Khakis or linen trousers and sandals A

tie is not required

Suggestions for an Evening Wedding

For Herbull A gown or a fancy dressbull A cocktail dress that is not overly sexy

or provocative (black is fine for this occasion)

bull A sophisticated dark color cocktail suit bull Avoid sequins sparkles and beads

unless the wedding invitation specifies ldquoblack tierdquo

For Himbull Dark smart suits bull A tuxedo for an after 6pm formal

ceremonybull For semi-formalcasual ceremonies a

blazer and slacks matched with a tie

If you stick to the guidelines above you will be all set Itrsquos all about finding a balance between being yourself and looking and feeling confident while not offending others There are lots of opportunities to wear flip-flops and cutoffs - a wedding is not one of them

BY ELAINE SIMMONS

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evening for her

daytime for him

evening for him

Pompano Today May 2016 13

your lifestyle fashion the goods

With this ring

When approaching wedding planning and the selection of players let common sense reign The ring bearer tradition originated in ancient Egypt an elaborately decorated pillow was often used to display the jewelry during a wedding Exchanging rings became the common outward sign of betrothal and the two traditions merged which put the pillow front and center as the main apparatus for the carrying of rings at a wedding ceremony hence the need for someone to carry the pillow

Asking a young family member or child of a close friend to take on this position in your ceremony should be thought through with care and consideration While it is a wonderful way to honor and involve children in your wedding you must contemplate a few factors first

Age the age of a ring bearer is customarily in the range of 3-7 years old Younger and you are asking for trouble There is really no controlling children in this sort of setting in the first place ndash but this particular job is too much for a very small child just learning to walk I argue the sweet spot is between 4 and 5 years old However it is likely you know the child so if you think they have the maturity to handle the honor then by all means ask On the other end of the spectrum anything older than 7 or 8 begins to look odd Why not ask those young men to take on another role

Your help if you have a ring bearer then you have a flower girl and like the old Hollywood adage goes itrsquos tough to work with children and animals Make sure you have someone appointed to assist with your young charges this person must keep the two players together until they are ready to go down the aisle remind them of what theyrsquore supposed to do and where to land at the end It goes without saying that the ring bearer should be included in the rehearsal this will assuage stage fright on the big day and should eliminate any fear of what to do on his part

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Clothing the ring bearer is traditionally dressed in some miniature version of the groomsmens attire ndash like a little man While this is precious as can be make sure the parents have access to the outfit far enough ahead of time that they can help their son try it on so they can become comfortable in their big day attire The last thing you want is a fit pitching because the tie is lsquochokingrsquo the ring bearer

Tradition does not have to dictate every aspect of your ceremony You have creative license ndash this is your day Just make sure you approach the election of your underage wedding party members with your eyes as well as your heart wide open

14 Pompano Today May 2016

your lifestyle marital minutes

You are a ldquowerdquo not a ldquomerdquo

You cannot make decisions independently anymore Your life decisions can and will impact your spouse Repeat after us Your life decisions can and will impact your spouse If you do not learn this fairly quickly it could impact the stability of your relationship

Just because he is your husband does not mean he is perfect

Remember that both you and your husband will make mistakes You are both human beings and are fallible You need to learn to forgive and also you need to learn from your mistakes

Have fun

Although I love my children I did not take advantage of the time we had together as newlyweds and prior to having kids When a new addition enters your family it is more challenging to do things that you used to like to do together

About the StaffordsDr Gina and Jim Stafford have been married for over 15 years Throughout that time they had four beautiful children ndash all boys Over the course of their relationship they have faced ups and downs especially since three out of the four sons were diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder Despite the obstacles that came their way their marriage has grown stronger People who know the couple always ask how they do it The answer is that with hard work and faith anything is possible The couple decided to share their story their strategies and their lives with other couples to assist them in building a relationship just as strong as their own Each month we bring you their words of wisdom devoted to helping couples explore the many issues facing marriages today Read more about this engaging couple at maritalminutescom

BY DR GINA STAFFORD

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3 pieces of advice before you say I do

Pompano Today May 2016 15

your lifestyle your kids

Planning a wedding dollars and sense

BY MICHAEL DIPIERRO

Michael DiPierro has a decade of experience in education He currently holds a Masters degree in Educational Leadership and has 11 years of teaching experience in Broward County Public Schools

For students who entered 9th grade in the 2013-14 academic year a requirement to earn a standard high school diploma in Florida includes financial literacy instruction I think it is safe to assume that most people who have planned a wedding understand the need to be financially literate In Florida financial literacy instruction includes the knowledge understanding skills behaviors attitudes and values that will enable a student to make responsible and effective financial decisions on a daily basis

While financial literacy covers a broad range of topics in terms of planning a wedding related classroom instruction might focus on buying goods and services saving and financial investing and budgeting and debt management In 2014 the Florida State Board of Education adopted a financial-literacy strand to its Social Studies Next Generation Sunshine State Standards Nationally during the 2015 legislative session about thirty-five states and Puerto Rico considered bills related to financial literacy This is an increase from the roughly twenty-eight states and Puerto Rico that considered legislation related to financial literacy during the 2014 legislative session

Related classroom instruction might focus on buyinggoods and services

saving and financial investing and budgeting and debt

management

The Florida Department of Education approved a high school Personal Financial Literacy elective course written and submitted by the Broward County Public Schools Social Studies Office Some of the instructional practices connected to this course include providing extended learning opportunities that simulate economic scenarios and the use of real world data and evidence to answer complex high-level questions that are based on real world scenarios Although I am not endorsing any classroom projects planning a mock wedding seems like it would be a fun experience to learn about financial literacy especially since the students donrsquot really have to pay for the mock wedding

The Florida Department of Education approved a high school

Personal Financial Literacy elective course written and submitted by the

Broward County Public SchoolsSocial Studies Office

Planning a mock wedding seems like it would be

a fun experienceespecially since the students dont really

have to pay for the mock wedding

16 Pompano Today May 2016

COVER FEATURE

Ronnie and Hank Arond are a real-life fairy talethat should inspire us all

Wedded Bliss Part 1

On a clear sunny weekend morning we enter the clean bright and charming winter digs of Ronnie and Hank Arond (Of course we think that every single inch of the Ebb Tide is clean bright and charming but Ronnie and Hankrsquos quarters seem especially so)

The couple greets us with the vigor of much younger folks their energy levels are those of a much younger couple which is no surprise really given the zest for life with which theyrsquove been greeting each day together for 71 years

Yes 71 years The Aronds in fact celebrated their 72nd anniversary this March And what better place to spend it than the Ebb Tide where theyrsquove been coming each year for the past ten years

First things first however As we enter Ronnie is bustling around tidying up ldquoIrsquom putting away all the messy stuffrdquo she notes cheerfully although itrsquos clear that her standards are much higher than ours In an instant coffee tea and festive cookies are in front of us Yum

When we offer to help we are politely dismissed ldquoWersquore helpful Wersquore not helpless yetrdquo says um Honnie Really this couple speaks with one voice Sort of Throughout our interview they finish each otherrsquos sentences often or break into what can only be described as the best Burns and Allen routine ever Hank can play ndash with equal vigor ndash the comedian and the straight man of this remarkable duo (as well as the violin but more about that later) and he plays every minute and every role with a wink and a nod

Pompano Today May 2016 17

WEDDED BLISS

ldquoCollect adventures Do them

Dont ever say no to somethingrdquo

Ronnie finally sits down her hostessing duties complete Her bright blue eyes and lovely fawn colored hair make for a beautiful portrait of a life well lived her nails are polished her lipstick perfect We ask what itrsquos like to be married for 72 years ldquoNordquo Ronnie smilingly corrects us ldquoitrsquos 36 because half the time he doesnrsquot listen to merdquo

The couple met on March 4 1943 Hank lets us know that ldquoShe was on the other side of a double daterdquo At the time Hank was paired with a girl from upstate (for those who donrsquot know ldquoupstaterdquo is of course ldquoupstate New Yorkrdquo) Driving to the train station he thought to himself ldquoHow do I do thisrdquo He decided to take an interesting tactic somehow he ended up with Ronniersquos phone number in his possession And the rest as they say is history

Hank wasted no time (less than a week in fact) before taking Ronnie to a Broadway show (which they believe was ldquoShadow of a Doubtrdquo) for their first date The very next day they went on another date where Hank met Ronniersquos best friend (and passed the ldquobest friendrdquo test) For those who believe in coincidence the stars aligning divine intervention ndash call it what you will ndash two days later Ronniersquos sister was getting married and she invited Hank to be her date since her current boyfriend a Navy man was stuck in Washington DC Thus within four days Hank had met Ronniersquos entire family Two weeks after their fateful first date Hank was off to serve our country He remembers thinking ldquoIrsquom finally going to get out of Brooklynrdquo and sure enough he did ndash and got stationed in the Bronx

The proposal soon followed ldquoHe asked me to marry himrdquo Ronnie recalls ldquoand I was very young and very naiumlve and polite and I didnrsquot know how to say no So I said lsquoOK Irsquoll marry you until I find someone betterrsquordquo Exactly one year from the day they met Ronnie and Hank were wed

Ronnie begins to interject and then stops herself saying ldquoSometimes I interrupt myselfrdquo

Mind you all of the above conversation happened in probably two minutes Wow Itrsquos impossible to overstate the energy and joie de vivre that simply beams from Ronnie and Hank a beacon of love hope and happiness that is remarkable This feeling ndash that yoursquore in the presence of two incredibly special people ndash is also partly due to their strong belief in fairness justice and not least their deep commitment to faith

Interestingly the Aronds are ldquoJewish by culture and traditionrdquo Ronnie notes ldquobut not observantrdquo In fact they are now Unitarian Universalists about which they are ndash you guessed it ndash very enthusiastic They have been members of their Unitarian Universalist congregation for over two decades ldquoOur congregationrdquo they explain ldquois probably 25 Catholic 25 Jewish 25 born [in the faith] and 25 Muslim other religionshelliptheir committees are

rarr

18 Pompano Today May 2016

no different than Congressrdquo Ronnie laughs She recalls that even her parents were ldquounconcerned about religion ndash for example [they didnrsquot worry about whether I would] marry a nice Jewish boyrdquo

When not in Pompano Beach (where theyrsquove been coming for 20 years) Ronnie and Hank make their home in Bellerose Queens in the house where they raised their two children Sometimes they tell us Hank will be asked ldquoIf you could choose to have children again would yourdquo To which Hank will reply ldquoYes but not themrdquo

Hank of course is kidding as he so often is Their son is an

accomplished pediatrician who travels the world supporting nonprofit efforts Their daughter is a nurse who lives in south Florida so Ronnie and Hank get to spend a lot of time with her each winter Sadly their son lost his wife who was a Quaker Friend in Vietnam during the war three years ago to ALS Has he remarried we ask No but hersquos met a nice woman in a gospel choir Well of course he has These are resilient people who keep going through whatever life throws their way

Back to that house in Queens that they moved into 66 years ago They watched the house get built it was in one of the many new postwar developments springing up around the country to meet the needs of returning veterans and the inordinate number of new families and households springing up everywhere Every weekend during construction ldquowe drove out from the Bronxrdquo We canrsquot help but think about what an exciting and hopeful time that must have been

Ronnie and Hankrsquos son and his wife had two children their granddaughter is currently in Bogota and their grandson is at Amherst (forgive us but what she is doing in Bogota escaped us rest assured that itrsquos something selfless and fabulous Itrsquos astonishing how difficult it is to keep up with Ronnie and Hank)

Our interview with Ronnie and Hank continues at pompanotodaycom We hope that everyone reading this takes this couplersquos incredibly wise life lessons to heart and that wersquove inspired you to live every day to the fullest Ronnie and Hank are both a living example of and testament to how to make the most of every day After all theyrsquore experts ndash theyrsquove had over 70 years of practice

To all the single folks out there get out there and make every day count To all the couples getting married this season make yourselves a life that is as happy healthy and adventurous as Ronniersquos and Hankrsquos As to you two lovebirds - enjoy your summer and wersquoll see you back at the Ebb Tide next year

Patti Nachman and Alicyn Muntildeoz raise the baron bridal shops with Wonderland Bridal

Wedded Bliss Part 2Wonderland Bridalrsquos story is unique as every bridersquos wedding day Co-owners Patti Nachmann and Alicyn Muntildeoz met in their respective Mary Kay businesses and hit it off so instantly ndash and so well ndash that they became known as the ldquoMary Kay sistersrdquo Along the way Alicyn accompanied her best friend on a wedding dress shopping trip and asked

the store owner if she could set up a Mary Kay table there on the weekends The owner agreed and eventually Alicyn was working at the shop part time

She loved it so much that she became determined to open her own shop At the time Patti was still in the corporate world having spent 16 years in the field of medical billing ldquoI wentrdquo Patti recalls ldquofrom screaming at insurance companies on the phone to laughing and crying with brides as theyrsquore choosing their gownsrdquo

Patti excitedly tells us that the business is really taking off ldquoWersquove just acquired a couture line Allure and will be carrying them in the summerrdquo and that Wonderland covers all price points depending on the bridersquos needs

ldquoI feel like everything has just fallen into place with this business and wersquore very luckyrdquo she notes

We ask Patti what the one thing is shersquod like our readers to know about

Wonderland Bridal She thinks for a moment ldquoWe are not like any other bridal store and I say that because we hear that from our brides We have a lot of brides that come here after shopping around and their experiences havenrsquot always been positive Or they come here first and we encourage them to shop around We donrsquot ever pressure our brides and most of them time theyrsquoll tell us ldquoI should have picked our dress while I was herersquo Our brides are really great we have a good bond with them The [wedding dress buying] experience is a process wersquore in constant contact with them from the time they come in until the time they take the dress home

ldquoOur customer service is superb We like to hold one appointment at a time so the entire store is the bridersquos Sometimes of course we get busy [especially] on Saturdays so we have two completely separate fitting rooms

ldquo[We make sure each of our brides] feels like a princess And itrsquos hellip the most important day of their lives and this is part of the memory and wersquore just happy to be a part of itrdquo

For the curious we learned of Wonderland Bridal through Benjaminrsquos Fine Alterations amp Tailoring right here in Pompano Beach The two shops work very closely together Patti explains how these two remarkable local business found each other and yes it includes the magic of social media ldquoBenjaminrsquos

Pompano Today May 2016 19

Benjamins offers painless alterations tailoring and- yes - tuxedo rentals for the big day

and Wonderland started following each other on Instagram Wersquod like each otherrsquos photos and make a comment here and there Then I went to a networking event and one of their employees saw my name tag and grabbed me and said lsquoOh my God yoursquore with Wonderland Bridal And I looked at her nametag and said ldquoOh my God yoursquore with Benjaminrsquosrsquo And we had just recently opened our shop and we got to talking and had a meeting and just picked up from there and [Benjaminrsquos staff have] been our seamstresses since then over a year ago Victoria is an incredible seamstressrdquo

Speaking of Victoria thats her by the way in the photo at left along with Alycin and Patti and the beautiful bride who also graces our cover Learn more about Victoria and Benjamins in Part 3 below

Wonderland Bridal Couture3400 NW 62nd AveMargate FL 33063

954) 973-8695wonderlandbridalcomhomehtml

Benjamins Fine Alterations amp Tailoring2609 East Atlantic BoulevardPompano Beach FL33062

954-943-5878benjaminsalterationscom

Wedded Bliss Part 3Alert readers will recognize Benjamins Fine Alterations and Tailoring from other pages of this publication Its likely however that unless youre already patronized Benjamins (and if you havent well whyever not) you wont recognize Victoria pictured below along with the amazing team of tailors and seamstresses in this beautifully decorated shop As humble as she is talented Victoria and the team are in a word magicians

Really We may be biased having had an unfortunate episode involving a seam ripper many years ago in junior high sewing class but we all have our unique talents Every member of the staff at Benjamins is an

expert in making your clothes look their very best And of course when your clothes look their best well so do you

So drop off those pants youve been meaning to hem that jacket that needs a mite of a tuck that gorgeous blouse with the sleeves that are just a little too long - you wont regret it

And if you are one of the rare individuals whose clothes all fit perfectly Benjamins rents mens formal wear too (see the coupon on page 9)

Why go anywhere else

Photos this and facing page Paul McDermott Photography

INSTRUCTIONS

bull Mix everything adding flour until the mix is firm but not sticky (not too dry)

bull Roll the dough into small balls (about an inch across)bull Place on ungreased cookie sheet and flatten very slightlybull Bake at 350 degrees for 20-25 minutesbull While still warm sift the powdered sugar onto the cookies

INGREDIENTS

bull 1 pound sweet butter softenedbull 6 tablespoons powdered sugar (reserve for after baking)bull Flour to appropriate texturebull Vanilla to taste

Photo copy FomaA Adobe Stock

YUM

chef at home jeff eatsyour diningIn honor of this months theme allow us a bit of poetic license (which sounds so much nicer than bait and switch) Growing up in a Greek household everyone looked forward to these kourabiedes (also known as kourambiethes as well as variety of other spellings Greeks can agree on little spelling included) It was not until well after we left home that we realized how many people identified these as Mexican Wedding cookies And while every Greek will swear that the Greeks invented these there are so many near-identical versions of this cookie around the world that its difficult to tell where they originated

The recipe below is from my beloved late grandmother or Yiayia as we say in Greek It is predictably vague but these are easy to get right Enjoy

Mexican Wedding Cookies

20 Pompano Today May 2016

Pompano Today May 2016 21

your dining jeff eats

Le VinoisSimply Luscious

BY JEFF EATS

NICKrsquoS 50rsquoS DINER 1900 OKEECHOBEE BOULEVARD WEST PALM BEACH FLORIDA 33409 (561) 471-3155

A LITTLE ABOUT JEFF ldquoMy name is Jeff I was born (1949) and bred in Brooklyn New York Since 1991 I have lived full-time in South Florida and have eaten in so many restaurants (down here) that I now consider myself to be a FOOD EXPERT To give you some idea as to how many South Florida restaurants Irsquove been to as of December 31 2014 441 Italian joints alone have had the pleasure of ringing up my American Express card

Just so you know I donrsquot go for the fancy sit-down joints that want you to wear pants and a jacket but rather places where a pair of shorts an old tee shirt and a pair of sneakers is considered formal-wear I donrsquot know one sauce from another I also donrsquot know or really care how ldquodishesrdquo are prepared What I do know is when something tastes delicious and I canrsquot get enough of itrdquo To read more of Jeff rsquos picks visit jeffeatscom

Got an absolutely terrific French bakery for you guys Le Vinois Bakery in Fort Lauderdale The joint has the full-boat of breakfast items breads pastries cakes soups quiches salads sandwiches cookies coffees Order at the counter- handful of tables if you want to eat there

Jeff Eats and Mrs Jeff Eats recently did an eat-in lunchand takeout order and like I said a few seconds ago Le Vinoisrsquo stuff is absolute dynamite

Now letrsquos be adults here and let bygones be bygones- you do remember Freedom Fries sure you do With that in mind Jeff Eats absolutely loved Le Vinois Bakery and Irsquom kinda thinking that you should definitely give it a shot

Clockwise from top left copy Friedberg Adobe Stock copy Chuck Place Adobe Stock copy gkrphoto Adobe Stock copy geshas Adobe Stock

Clockwise from top Enjoy croissants a slice of lemon tart great sandwiches and delicious quiche among the many other delights at Le Vinois

Le Vinois Bakery

6322 N Powerline RoadFt Lauderdale Florida 33309

Hours of operationMonday to Friday7am to 4pm

Phone 954 771 9788

Email modinafrancisyahoocom

levinoisbakerycom

22 Pompano Today May 2016

Whether yoursquore planning a close intimate gathering or a large affair the Sample-McDougald House at Centennial Park (450 NE 10th Street Pompano Beach) sets the scene for memories that will last a lifetime The recently completed $25 million restoration of the house and grounds provides you and your guests with a memorable setting The historic house surrounded by native trees and vegetation is a beautiful background for your photos Renting the Sample-McDougald House can give you and your guests exclusive use of the house and grounds throughout your affair (subject to use guidelines) Visit wwwSampleMcDougaldHousecom to learn more about the house or call 954 691-5686 or 954 214-4759 for more details

Memories yoursquoll treasure at the Sample-McDougald House

Sitting amidst four beautiful acres the Sample-McDougald House offers one of the few

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24 Pompano Today May 2016

AROUND TOWN

a look back charlottes web

your city(the Sample family)

THANKS TO DAN HOBBY AND THE POMPANO BEACH HISTORICAL SOCIETY FOR THE PHOTO AND INFORMATION ABOUT OUR CITYS RICH AND VARIED HISTORY TO LEARN MORE ABOUT OUR CITYS FASCINATING PAST VISIT POMPANOHISTORYCOM

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Members of the Sample family gather together ca 1920 Albert Neal Sample who had the house now known as the Sample-McDougald House constructed in 1916 is standing in the second row third from the viewers right The man kneeling in the first row is Neals younger brother John who prior to 1910 was the first member of the Sample family to settle in the Pompano area The house that Neal Sample built turns 100 this year

The non-profit Sample-McDougald House Preservation Society has a number of activities and events planned to commemorate the historic houses 100th birthday For information visit SampleMcDougaldHousecom or call 754-307-5446

Pompano Today May 2016 25

What the hell do I know about wedded bliss I am a long-term and certified member of the ldquohappily single never been marriedrdquo club Relationships take work people My comfort level of commitment is agreeing to feed walk and nurture the fluffy poodle I brought home from the shelter 5 years ago Beyond thathellipIrsquom selfish And letrsquos face it no onersquos ever gotten into an argument with a dog over a miscommunication Theyrsquore perfect in that respect

But weddings are wonderful events Friends and family gathering together for a festive happy occasion weddings almost always guarantee a good time The happy couple gazing into each otherrsquos eyes while reciting wedding vows Uncle Jim having a few too many at the open bar and trying out his salsa moves on the dance floor Ah the memories we can reminisce about for years to come And the expectation is that the new union will last forever

But how does that same couple reach their 50th year wedding anniversary 50 years of wedded bliss now thatrsquos an accomplishment Since I have already mentioned that I am not exactly a go-to advisor on the subject I did what I always do Letrsquos see what the internet says It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was ldquodonrsquot be selfish and always put your partner firstrdquo Hmmm

ldquoMake it quickrdquo This tip was found when referencing the science of being happily married While it doesnrsquot reference the actual marriage itself in summary I interpreted it to read if someone annoys you now they will most inevitably annoy you much more in the future So maybe not marrying material to begin with Interestingly enough I have this one covered with my three date rule What is the three date rule you ask If there is nothing you find annoying about an individual within the first three dateshellipgreen light means go there may be a future In my case this is a bit of a challenge to achieve

And then Oprahrsquos people had to weigh in on the subject I feel compelled to share a link to a great joke I found on Oprahcom during the search It involves a couple celebrating their 50th anniversary and a mule but no worries Itrsquos a completely clean joke You can see the full joke here oprahcomrelationshipsHappy-Marriage-Tips-Love-Advice

your city charlottes web

Wedded bliss the flip side

BY CHARLOTTE SUNDQUIST

It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was

dont be selfish and always put your partner first Hmmm

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Are you back Good Am I wrong in assuming this has some ties to the three date rule

I donrsquot know I certainly havenrsquot got all the answers But Irsquove just confirmed that single is a perfectly acceptable status for me And you single people that are tired of hearing ldquoWhen are you going to settle down and get marriedrdquo Donrsquot cavehellipdo what makes you happy There is not one version of the perfect relationship ideal If itrsquos a good fit for you so be it Wersquore all different after all

And to all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work Time to go walk the dog

To all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work

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Blissful BusinessCan we be blissful in life Yes Can we be blissfully in love Yes Can we be blissful in business That depends on what your definition of a ldquoblissfulrdquo business is Is it working Monday through Thursday Is it dress down days Is it bringing in a new client or two each month Your bliss depends on what your definition is and what that looks like for your business model Letrsquos talk about a few ways you can be ldquoblissfulrdquo in business

Your Company Culture

What is the tone or perception of your company Are you rigid conservative and safe Or are you creative thought provoking and innovative You have the opportunity to transform your company culture a culture that attracts customers employees and partners Think about Google they have created a co-working collaborative happy environment at work for their employees Google has determined that their definition of ldquoblissfulrdquo is casual dress napping pods libraries and bring your dog to work days Think about what your culture is and try to create an atmosphere that people can enjoy

Better Matters

How can you perform tasks and projects ldquobetterrdquo to make it more manageable for your staff As leaders when we put our employees first the rewards are priceless What are you implementing internally to ldquobetterrdquo your employees to meet their sales goals client leads or individual quotas If you raise your standards the company will follow Being better should be the norm Better business creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo business

The Next Level

What is your definition of the reaching the next level Will reaching that level create a ldquoblissfulrdquo business Maybe yes or maybe no The next level for my business would be to add more employees and another office which would create bliss for me I would be free to do more networking and outside activities Determine and define what the ldquonext levelrdquo is for your company and see if it makes sense and creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo work environment for everyone involved

Itrsquos important to take a step back every now and then to remember why being an entrepreneur makes you happy

Determine your personal definition of a blissful business

BY TEANA MCDONALD

26 Pompano Today May 2016

working it special feature

your business special feature

Pompano Today May 2016 27

Kim Briesemeister greets us at the entrance to RMArsquos new digs a suite of comfortable welcoming offices right on Atlantic Boulevard As usual she is polished professional and enthusiastic about all of the great things happening in our city

ldquoWhat RMA brings is the technical expertise the realities of how to achieve the market visionhellipthe end result is creating a quality place that people want to live in and are proud to call home a place where businesses want to be and the city gets a certain great viberdquo Kim notes You can see this ldquoviberdquo in her eyes ndash and you know that Kim can see what the future looks like here in Pompano Beach and at that moment in time we can see it with her

What is ldquoitrdquo exactly ldquoItrdquo is what great places are made of Art Culture Safety Walkability Excitement The vision that Kim and her partner Chris Brown as well as all of the bright creative energetic staff we see is breathtaking And that feeling of hometown comfort that we all get when we return here whether after a trip to the next town over or a trip around the world is the wellspring from which all of the plans for our future originate Itrsquos still Pompano Beach but itrsquos far far better

As the publishers of this magazine for the past six years we have firsthand knowledge of all of the great people who live here and

the great things that attract more like-minded residents and visitors An airport A harbor The Intracoastal The lighthouse Thriving businesses A small-town feeling that is ever harder to maintain

Without a cohesive vision itrsquos likely that some if not all of these could be lost To paraphrase Benjamin Franklin ldquoFailing to plan is planning to failrdquo and there is no shortage of planning for this bright future going on at RMA

Speaking of that planning at that point Kim turns our attention to the consideration of an ldquoinnovation districtrdquo and this is where her enthusiasm is if possible even more palpable We are treated to a breathtaking visual tour of what is possible in such a district and oh my We can hardly contain ourselves What we ask is RMArsquos role in this endeavor ldquoWe are able to help the community go through the redevelopment processrdquo Kim responds adding that ldquo[the goal is that] in the end everyone says lsquoThis is the most amazing place to live This is where I want to bersquordquo

Yes Thatrsquos what we all want A place that wersquore even more proud to call home Proud of the looks on the faces of others when we tell them ldquoYes I live in Pompano Beachrdquo proud that we raised our children in a place where after theyrsquore grown they choose to return and put down roots of their own right here where they belong This is the place that we will create that will provide a solid foundation on which our city will continue to build on and thrive

As we prepare to depart earnest young professionals come bounding enthusiastically through the door (ok they werenrsquot really bounding ndash they are professionals ndash but they sure gave the impression of bounding)

ldquoAhhhrdquo we think to ourselves imagining an exchange with them ldquoDo you guys happen to live in Pompano Beach No Thatrsquos too badrdquo we say unable to help feeling just a tad smug ldquoItrsquos a great place to live work and playrdquo

Falling in love with the future of Pompano Beach

For the past 50 years the landscape of innovation has been dominated by places like Silicon Valleymdashsuburban corridors of spatially isolated corporate campuses accessible only by car with little emphasis on the quality of life or on integrating work housing and recreation

A new complementary urban model is now emerging giving rise to what we and others are calling ldquoinnovation districtsrdquo These districts by our definition are geographic areas where leading-edge anchor institutions and companies cluster and connect with start-ups business incubators and accelerators1 They are also physically compact transit-accessible and technically-wired and offer mixed-use housing office and retail

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts

LOOKING AHEAD TO AN EVEN BRIGHTER FUTUREFrom top left

bull Creating a Downtown Innovation District means incorporating all of the pieces of a successful plan

bull a sterling example of one such district

bull synergy in actionbull specific steps

to harness our unique strengths

bull targeted industriesbull another sterling

example this time of a complete street

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts What They Are

Economic Assets

Networking Assets

Physical Assets

InnovationEcosystemA synergistic relationship between people firms and place that facilitates idea generation and acceleratescommercialization

Target Industries

International Trade and Logistics

Marine Industry

Life Sciences and Biotechnology

Creative Design

Digital Media and Technology

Class A Office

Tourism

Advanced Materials and High-Tech Manufacturing

Redevelopment of Commercial and Residential

Alternatives Energy and Renewable Resources

AviationAerospace

Global Business Services

Global Media and Production

Headquarters and Management Operations

Human Resources and Higher Education

How to harness our ldquoDowntown Innovation Districtrdquo

1 Build a collaborative leadership network

2 Set a vision for growth to leverage our unique strengths

distinct economic clusters leading local and regional institutions and companies physical location and design advantages and other cultural attributes

3 Pursue talent and technology

4 Promote inclusive growthEquip workers with the skills they need to participate in the innovation economy or other secondary and tertiary jobs generated by innovative growth

5 Enhance access to capital

Cultural ArtsTourism

Industrial

Multi Purpose

DowntownInnovation

District

Target Industries

Education

Housing

Downtown Innovation

District

28 Pompano Today May 2016

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30 Pompano Today May 2016

VROOM

all things automotiveyour rideThis monthrsquos theme is wedded bliss I started checking on an exact meaning for this title This is what was written in the English Dictionary ldquothe happiness of being marriedrdquo As I reflect back and think about life altogether whether marriage engagement purchase of a product or dealing with family and friendshellip

There are many factors in life that can afford you wedded bliss or the joy serenity and comfort of having the right lover husband or wife the right house or car the right job or titlehellip Now letrsquos admit to the fact that we all go though the ups and downs and have to face many situationshellip This is part of being human

Just imagine not having a significant other to share the joy or sadness of an event or a shoulder to cry onhellip Just imagine not having a cell phone to communicate with your loved ones or a car to get you from point A to point B

Just like a marriage you start by meeting a prospective mate lover or significant other You then starting dating and checking on the possibility of a good fit

If that is the case you start focusing on the possibility of a future together and if the positive traits in that individual outweigh the negative and if you canrsquot imagine living without himher then the marriage is to be considered

The same thing goes for the perfect car for you You have specific unique preferences based on your personality and the purpose of the car purchase

Achieving wedded bliss with your vehicle choice

The right car that will suit your needs for years to come exists It just takes a little research planning budgeting and common sense We all dream of the luxury car that we many not be able to afford but till the time comes to make our dream car a reality we will need to settle for what is achievable practical fits our need and makes us proud of the choice we made Here are some practical questions to answer would you like to get a sporty car a regular 4 door sedan a van an SUV or a truck

Would you like a practical car you may drive in city highway or would you like to go off-roading on the weekends Would you need this vehicle to tow your boat to tow your camping trip supplies or would you like to have an elegant car to show off to your friends Now we have to consider the budget and whether we want to purchase a domestic or foreign vehicle the maintenance cost the fuel efficiency and the overall look and feel of the car

We have noticed that cars reflect their ownerrsquos personality so if you are someone who is sporty adventurous have a young spirit and are financially secure then a Bugatti Veyron Porsche 911 Ford Mustang McClaren MP4- 12C Lamborghini Egoista Limited edition Mercedes AMG SL SLK Roadster or E Class Cabriolet Convertible or the Chevy Camaro come to mind Pictured on page 31 is the 2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue by the way

If you are someone who is practical enjoy trips to the mountains or the beach work full time and look for a dependable and comfortable car then check out the Cadillac CTS (pictured above) XTS or DTS Super Subaru Impreza Lexus CT 200h Sport IS 250 or ES 350 Mercedes CS or E Class Chevy Equinox Chevy Tahoe and Toyota Prius V

Cadillac CTS photo copy General Motors

Pompano Today May 2016 31

If you are the family manwoman and are seeking safety comfortable seating and an affordable vehicle with low maintenance we noticed that most of the inquiries are SUV or Van related such as the Mercedes GLA SUB GLE SUV or GLS SUV Audi Q5 Audi Allroad Toyota Sienna Ford Fex Ford Transit Connect Cadillac Escalade Cadillac SRX and letrsquos not forget the Chevy Suburban

Now if you are the hunter or you enjoy off roading every now and then the vehicles we seesell and repair most are the Ford F150 Ford Super Duty Mercedes G Class Toyota TacomaTundra Range Rover Jeep Wrangler and the Chevy Silverado

What about the green energy conscious We have had inquiries about the Toyota Prius and the Rav 4 Hybrid Audi A3 E-tron Cadillac ELR or the Chevy Spark EV Now if you are in the market for a nice ride then you need to test drive the Cadillac CT6 Plug-in Hybrid or the BMW I8 and tell me if you enjoyed the drive

Yes even car owners and their vehicles can talk about wedded bliss So if you have the

perfect car that fits your image your lifestyle your personality then congratulations because you are lucky to get the perfect car In the meantime if you are looking for a vehicle and have questions or concerns feel free to contact us and we will be glad to assist you BY JAY GHANEM

2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue copy The Ford Motor Company 2016 All Rights Reserved

HOLLYWOOD CORNER

news from the west coast

32 Pompano Today May 2016

stars in your eyesBenjamin A Onyango on keeping the faith

and making people happyWhen did you know without any doubt that you wanted to act

Ive always acted in church youth plays that I wrote myself when I was a teenager in Nairobi Kenya In 1987 I came to the United States and while attending California State University Stanislaus in Turlock California formed a traditional dance group called Upendo Singers and Cultural Dancers We wrote plays and songs and performed them in cultural festivals universities and churches After graduating in 1992 I knew I wanted to act so I struck the tent and moved to Hollywood where I joined a funk rock band called PFO and also acted as a background performer in TV and feature films What inspires you to act

I am naturally a happy person and I love it when people are happy So I cant help it but crack jokes and poke fun at myself to make people around me laugh I am inspired by other people Their presence makes me want to do stuff talk dance sing shout etc When did you realize you had reached your goals as an actor

I do not think I have reached my goal as an actor yet To me acting is an evolving thing You get to a certain level and then you strive to get better than the level you currently are on Acting has many facets and therefore many challenges There is no one way to approach acting I therefore believe that I am still reaching for that goal and I must admit that the experience indeed is the best teacher because you indeed get better at it the more you keep doing it

What was your favorite role to date and why

My favorite role to date is the movie I am currently filming called Beautifully Broken The reason its my first role as a lead actor in a feature film and best of all I am playing the role of a real person who survived the Rwanda genocide that the story is about I played a lead role before in a short film called Kwame also based on a true story and was voted best actor at the 2009 Mexico International Film Festival Beautifully Broken is a story that connects very strongly with the human spirit I can almost guarantee that there will not be a

single dry eye in the theater when its screened Its a beautifully written story of hardship resilience survival and hope

What do you enjoy most about your career

What I enjoy most about my career is the ability to travel and see different people in different parts of the world I am a people person and nothing

makes me happier than meeting and making new friends

Can we expect a book from you

Thats funny you mentioned that I write lots of movie scripts and TV show scripts and I have always thought of writing a book So on my down days on the set of Beautifully Broken I started a book Ive been toying with in my head for a while The title of the book is God Moves When We Stop Helping Him Its more of a booklet than a book Its a book about encouragement

What is the best way for your fans to know what yoursquore working on FacebookTwitter Do you post for your own sites or do you have your assistants do the posts

I hope I do have fans LOL They can find out about what I am doing or working on my Facebook page facebookcomEMEBAND or Facebook fan page facebookcomBenjiBendrix Twitter twittercombochieng Instagram instagramcombenjibendrix and imdb imdbcomnamenm1335173ref_=nv_sr I also have a website benjibendrixcom that I use

Tell us something new something bold that yoursquove never told any other magazinehellipnews tip )

Recently I was fortunate to have my TV webseries Dysfunctionally Organized pitched to a major network and they agreed to have us do a spin-off of the show So we have started the writing process Its a major achievement for my team and myself since we have been working on the show for a long time Its not easy to get an audience with a content procurement person on a major network so we feel very fortunate I cant mention the network because of confidentiality reasons

Photo of Benjamin Ochieng aka Benji Bendrix (friend of Jimi Hendrix) copy Flygirl PhotographyLearn more about Benjamin atproimdbcomnamenm1335173afro-mericarecordscommindtricksmoviecom

BY MISTY SCHWARTZ

word scrambleTHE LAST WORD

a workout for your mind

Wedded bliss All of the words in this months Scramble are related to marriage and weddings Good luck Look for the answers online beginning May 15 at pompanotodaycom

Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answerodeutx gnir oeemcryn lsuipnatgnwo iaoynmtmr rogom slrofweermdiadbis eusenv shrue ovwsnwiddge rrdemia erdib psoesuerdbhteot rceepnoit errceat eiervsc

James Stafford PhotographyfacebookcomJamesStaffordPhotography

jamesstaffordname(561) 201-1640

Pompano Today May 2016 5

May notes As many of you know I dearly love Pompano Beach Pompano Today magazine was born of my desire to showcase all of the great things that happen all over our city while at the same time grow the magazine as the city grew into its potential

Both Pompano Today and Pompano Beach have done just that The magazine has grown due to the tireless efforts of our advertisers contributors partners photographers readers social media fans and everyone who has supported us during this incredible journey The city has grown due to the tireless efforts of our Mayor and City Commission our volunteer advisory boards the Greater Pompano Beach Chamber of Commerce and the outstanding work of the Pompano Beach CRA

Itrsquos time for me to pursue a different manner of serving our city Thank you for the past six years I hope yoursquove been as engaged entertained and inspired as Irsquove been by all of the opportunities to look around and say ldquoWow What a great city to call homerdquo

Enjoy and have a fantastic May

Dawne Richards Publisher

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Pompano Today May 2016 7

Happenings

Another action-packed month awaits

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This month starts off with a shootout - of the saltwater kind that is - and ends with a lovely if more sedate reminder of those whove paid the ultimate price for our freedom For more local events see our up-to-the-minute calendar at pompanotodaycomevents Enjoy

Spring tournament fishing in South Florida kicks off with The MercurySeaVee Pompano Beach Saltwater Shootout The Saltwater Shootout is the first leg in South Floridas largest tournament trail - The Pompano Beach Saltwater Circuit Teams travel from near and far to enjoy the festivities and take a chance at over $275000 in cash and prizes

By popular demand the Saltwater Shootout has become a sanctioned event in Division 10 of the Southern Kingfish Association Target species in the Shootout are dolphin wahoo kingfish tuna and cobia The Saltwater Shootout offers something for the competitive and the casual fisherman alike Reasonable entry fees great cash prizes top notch hospitality and fun activities for anglers of all ages keep the teams coming back year after year For a complete schedule of events visit bluewatermovementscomsaltwater_shootout_schedule_of_events

Be sure to remember Mom on this special day Brunches of course abound Personally we highly recommend some quality time at the beach any one of our fabulous parks or perhaps a nature walk at Fern Forest

On Saturday May 14 2016 from 5 to 10 pm the Sample-McDougald House Preservation Society will host a Centennial Celebration on the grounds of the 100 year old house Once a pineapple farm and home to two significant Pompano families the house today serves as a reminder of this arearsquos pioneer

spirit and agricultural past Through programs and public tours the restored house is moving into its second century as a community

The event will feature entertainment displays and a lavish bar-be-que cooked on the grounds by Porky amp Beth The evening will feature a silent auction of fine art as well as a live auction by Auctioneer and Mayor Lamar Fisher Donrsquot miss this unique opportunity to win a ride for two on the Goodyear Blimp or a long weekend at A Tranquil Landing in the Village of Hopetown on Elbow Cay Abaco Bahamas Tickets are $100 and may be purchased in advance by calling the SMH office at 754-307-5446 or online at samplemcdougaldcom

The celebration continues on Sunday May 15 2016 from 10 am to 4 pm with Family Day Bring the kids and celebrate our farming heritage with displays of antique cars and tractors displays and demonstration of heritage crafts including quilting and blacksmithing hands-on activities petting zoo pony rides and more No reservation required Tickets are $10 With children 12 and under FREE For more information contact Melissa May 754-307-5446

The City of Pompano Beach holds two beautiful and moving ceremonies on this day While details were not available at press time be sure to visit the Citys Events page at pompanobeachflg o v i n d e x p h p events closer to Memorial Day We never miss these they are fitting tributes to the fallen and a great way to start this day with your kids as a stirring reminder of the meaning of Memorial Day

Memorial Day RemembrancesMothers DayMay 8

Saltwater ShootoutMay 5 7 8

The Sample McDougald House Centennial May 14 and 15

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Pompano Today May 2016 9

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Weddings of course are so symbolic of new beginnings and such joyous events One of our favorite moments is when we happen to be somewhere along or on the beach and just happen upon a beach wedding What lovely occasions these are Our favorite moment however may have occurred a few weeks ago when we were lucky enough to spot a festive golf cart driven by a bride in full wedding attire accompanied by her attendants decked out in beautiful turquoise dresses Oh to have had a camera

Interested in a wedding on Pompano Beach Heres the info from our citys website For those planning a destination wedding Pompano Beach is perfect be it

a romantic beach wedding at one of the popular beach hotels a private cruise on the intracoastal or reception at a popular restaurant overlooking the golf course or the historic and very traditional Sample-McDougald House The weather is almost always accommodating Beach permits are needed and can be purchased at the Emma Lou Olson Civic Center (H-6) 1801 NE 6th Street Pompano Beach Marriage licenses must be purchased from the Broward County Clerk of Courts Info browardclerkorg or 9548316565 Learn more at pompanobeachflgovindexphppagestourist_infotourist_info

Photo of Keli and James copy Paul McDermott Photography PaulMcDermottcom

10 Pompano Today May 2016

EXPLORE

Real FloridaKissimmee Prairie Preserve State Park

On the prairietext and photos by Jim Stafford

At 54000 acres Kissimmee Prairie Preserve State Park is home to the largest remaining dry prairie in Florida Located north of Okeechobee the park is home to both endangered plants and animals Visitors will experience grasslands reminiscent of the Great Plains The park offers excellent birding and is also home to endangered species like the Crested Caracara and Burrowing Owl The Park offers 100 miles of dirt roads easy to walk and handicap friendly They give hikers bicyclists and equestrians excellent opportunities to explore the preserve November through March ranger-led prairie buggy tours allow visitors to see remote areas of the preserve Kissimmee Prairiersquos remoteness makes it one of Floridarsquos premier locations for stargazing For overnight stays the Preserve has two full-facility campground loops family and an equestrian campground with paddocks

AAn important item to note while planning your visit according to the Florida State Parks website ldquoSpring means prescribed fire at Kissimmee Prairie If you see smoke here at the prairie on your next trip there is a good chance it is our staff conducting a prescribed burn at naturersquos preferred time of year Florida Dry Prairie is accustomed to burning every 1-2 years and many of our plants and animals such as the Florida Grasshopper Sparrow need frequent fire to survive Our staff works hard to safely conduct prescribed fires on one third to one half of the preserve annually Please stop by our office for more information regarding fire management at the preserve wersquod be happy to talk to you about itrdquo To learn more about this program visit floridastateparksorgcontentspring-means-smoke-over-prairie

To learn more about Kissimmee Prairie Preserve State Park visit floridastateparksorgparkKissimmee-Prairie

Pompano Today May 2016 11

We are at the top of the wedding season so I would like to offer a quick refresher on wedding dress code etiquette You receive a wedding invitation the time and the location are specified but the big thing that is left up to you is what to wear to a wedding reception There are

some general guidelines to follow such as not wearing white not wearing clothing that is overly revealing and not looking wrinkled or unkempt Even with these guidelines deciding what

to wear can still be extremely difficult These tips will reduce some of the difficulty and give you some ideas for picking the perfect outfit

When deciding on what you wear to a wedding reception make sure you know the venue for the wedding and the time of day For example a beach wedding during the day calls for a more casual look than a church wedding Keep in mind that appropriateness is necessary for all wedding receptions irrespective of the time or the place

12 Pompano Today May 2016

your lifestyle fashion forward

Proper attire requiredA guide for wedding guests

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Suggestions for a Daytime Wedding

For Herbull Floral dressesbull Winter weddings Sweater and skirt

combinationsbull Summer weddings Light colored suitsbull Footwear sling-backs sandals or high

heelsbull Hats that match the rest of your outfit

For Himbull For a formal occasion wear a dark suitbull Spring or summer weddings A

seersucker or light-colored linen suitbull Winter weddings a wool suit or a

sweater underneath a smart blazer with a tie

bull A blazer with a buttoned down shirt trousers and a tie

Suggestions for a ldquoCasualrdquo Wedding

When the dress code calls for ldquoCasualrdquo wear it usually means that there is no dress code but you should still look nice and avoid jeans tank tops and shorts For a wedding ldquocasualrdquo means ldquobusiness casualrdquo

For Herbull A beautiful blouse matched with a pretty

skirt or pantsbull A summer sundress with natural makeup

amp hair

For Himbull A buttoned down or polo shirt paired with

dress pants

Suggestions for a ldquoBeach Formalrdquo Wedding

Beach Formal suggests that you should wear something fashionable but suitable for the beach

For HerA tea length or knee length formal summer sundress with flat sandals natural hair and makeup

For Himbull A summer suit matched with a linen

shirt bull Khakis or linen trousers and sandals A

tie is not required

Suggestions for an Evening Wedding

For Herbull A gown or a fancy dressbull A cocktail dress that is not overly sexy

or provocative (black is fine for this occasion)

bull A sophisticated dark color cocktail suit bull Avoid sequins sparkles and beads

unless the wedding invitation specifies ldquoblack tierdquo

For Himbull Dark smart suits bull A tuxedo for an after 6pm formal

ceremonybull For semi-formalcasual ceremonies a

blazer and slacks matched with a tie

If you stick to the guidelines above you will be all set Itrsquos all about finding a balance between being yourself and looking and feeling confident while not offending others There are lots of opportunities to wear flip-flops and cutoffs - a wedding is not one of them

BY ELAINE SIMMONS

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evening for him

Pompano Today May 2016 13

your lifestyle fashion the goods

With this ring

When approaching wedding planning and the selection of players let common sense reign The ring bearer tradition originated in ancient Egypt an elaborately decorated pillow was often used to display the jewelry during a wedding Exchanging rings became the common outward sign of betrothal and the two traditions merged which put the pillow front and center as the main apparatus for the carrying of rings at a wedding ceremony hence the need for someone to carry the pillow

Asking a young family member or child of a close friend to take on this position in your ceremony should be thought through with care and consideration While it is a wonderful way to honor and involve children in your wedding you must contemplate a few factors first

Age the age of a ring bearer is customarily in the range of 3-7 years old Younger and you are asking for trouble There is really no controlling children in this sort of setting in the first place ndash but this particular job is too much for a very small child just learning to walk I argue the sweet spot is between 4 and 5 years old However it is likely you know the child so if you think they have the maturity to handle the honor then by all means ask On the other end of the spectrum anything older than 7 or 8 begins to look odd Why not ask those young men to take on another role

Your help if you have a ring bearer then you have a flower girl and like the old Hollywood adage goes itrsquos tough to work with children and animals Make sure you have someone appointed to assist with your young charges this person must keep the two players together until they are ready to go down the aisle remind them of what theyrsquore supposed to do and where to land at the end It goes without saying that the ring bearer should be included in the rehearsal this will assuage stage fright on the big day and should eliminate any fear of what to do on his part

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Clothing the ring bearer is traditionally dressed in some miniature version of the groomsmens attire ndash like a little man While this is precious as can be make sure the parents have access to the outfit far enough ahead of time that they can help their son try it on so they can become comfortable in their big day attire The last thing you want is a fit pitching because the tie is lsquochokingrsquo the ring bearer

Tradition does not have to dictate every aspect of your ceremony You have creative license ndash this is your day Just make sure you approach the election of your underage wedding party members with your eyes as well as your heart wide open

14 Pompano Today May 2016

your lifestyle marital minutes

You are a ldquowerdquo not a ldquomerdquo

You cannot make decisions independently anymore Your life decisions can and will impact your spouse Repeat after us Your life decisions can and will impact your spouse If you do not learn this fairly quickly it could impact the stability of your relationship

Just because he is your husband does not mean he is perfect

Remember that both you and your husband will make mistakes You are both human beings and are fallible You need to learn to forgive and also you need to learn from your mistakes

Have fun

Although I love my children I did not take advantage of the time we had together as newlyweds and prior to having kids When a new addition enters your family it is more challenging to do things that you used to like to do together

About the StaffordsDr Gina and Jim Stafford have been married for over 15 years Throughout that time they had four beautiful children ndash all boys Over the course of their relationship they have faced ups and downs especially since three out of the four sons were diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder Despite the obstacles that came their way their marriage has grown stronger People who know the couple always ask how they do it The answer is that with hard work and faith anything is possible The couple decided to share their story their strategies and their lives with other couples to assist them in building a relationship just as strong as their own Each month we bring you their words of wisdom devoted to helping couples explore the many issues facing marriages today Read more about this engaging couple at maritalminutescom

BY DR GINA STAFFORD

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3 pieces of advice before you say I do

Pompano Today May 2016 15

your lifestyle your kids

Planning a wedding dollars and sense

BY MICHAEL DIPIERRO

Michael DiPierro has a decade of experience in education He currently holds a Masters degree in Educational Leadership and has 11 years of teaching experience in Broward County Public Schools

For students who entered 9th grade in the 2013-14 academic year a requirement to earn a standard high school diploma in Florida includes financial literacy instruction I think it is safe to assume that most people who have planned a wedding understand the need to be financially literate In Florida financial literacy instruction includes the knowledge understanding skills behaviors attitudes and values that will enable a student to make responsible and effective financial decisions on a daily basis

While financial literacy covers a broad range of topics in terms of planning a wedding related classroom instruction might focus on buying goods and services saving and financial investing and budgeting and debt management In 2014 the Florida State Board of Education adopted a financial-literacy strand to its Social Studies Next Generation Sunshine State Standards Nationally during the 2015 legislative session about thirty-five states and Puerto Rico considered bills related to financial literacy This is an increase from the roughly twenty-eight states and Puerto Rico that considered legislation related to financial literacy during the 2014 legislative session

Related classroom instruction might focus on buyinggoods and services

saving and financial investing and budgeting and debt

management

The Florida Department of Education approved a high school Personal Financial Literacy elective course written and submitted by the Broward County Public Schools Social Studies Office Some of the instructional practices connected to this course include providing extended learning opportunities that simulate economic scenarios and the use of real world data and evidence to answer complex high-level questions that are based on real world scenarios Although I am not endorsing any classroom projects planning a mock wedding seems like it would be a fun experience to learn about financial literacy especially since the students donrsquot really have to pay for the mock wedding

The Florida Department of Education approved a high school

Personal Financial Literacy elective course written and submitted by the

Broward County Public SchoolsSocial Studies Office

Planning a mock wedding seems like it would be

a fun experienceespecially since the students dont really

have to pay for the mock wedding

16 Pompano Today May 2016

COVER FEATURE

Ronnie and Hank Arond are a real-life fairy talethat should inspire us all

Wedded Bliss Part 1

On a clear sunny weekend morning we enter the clean bright and charming winter digs of Ronnie and Hank Arond (Of course we think that every single inch of the Ebb Tide is clean bright and charming but Ronnie and Hankrsquos quarters seem especially so)

The couple greets us with the vigor of much younger folks their energy levels are those of a much younger couple which is no surprise really given the zest for life with which theyrsquove been greeting each day together for 71 years

Yes 71 years The Aronds in fact celebrated their 72nd anniversary this March And what better place to spend it than the Ebb Tide where theyrsquove been coming each year for the past ten years

First things first however As we enter Ronnie is bustling around tidying up ldquoIrsquom putting away all the messy stuffrdquo she notes cheerfully although itrsquos clear that her standards are much higher than ours In an instant coffee tea and festive cookies are in front of us Yum

When we offer to help we are politely dismissed ldquoWersquore helpful Wersquore not helpless yetrdquo says um Honnie Really this couple speaks with one voice Sort of Throughout our interview they finish each otherrsquos sentences often or break into what can only be described as the best Burns and Allen routine ever Hank can play ndash with equal vigor ndash the comedian and the straight man of this remarkable duo (as well as the violin but more about that later) and he plays every minute and every role with a wink and a nod

Pompano Today May 2016 17

WEDDED BLISS

ldquoCollect adventures Do them

Dont ever say no to somethingrdquo

Ronnie finally sits down her hostessing duties complete Her bright blue eyes and lovely fawn colored hair make for a beautiful portrait of a life well lived her nails are polished her lipstick perfect We ask what itrsquos like to be married for 72 years ldquoNordquo Ronnie smilingly corrects us ldquoitrsquos 36 because half the time he doesnrsquot listen to merdquo

The couple met on March 4 1943 Hank lets us know that ldquoShe was on the other side of a double daterdquo At the time Hank was paired with a girl from upstate (for those who donrsquot know ldquoupstaterdquo is of course ldquoupstate New Yorkrdquo) Driving to the train station he thought to himself ldquoHow do I do thisrdquo He decided to take an interesting tactic somehow he ended up with Ronniersquos phone number in his possession And the rest as they say is history

Hank wasted no time (less than a week in fact) before taking Ronnie to a Broadway show (which they believe was ldquoShadow of a Doubtrdquo) for their first date The very next day they went on another date where Hank met Ronniersquos best friend (and passed the ldquobest friendrdquo test) For those who believe in coincidence the stars aligning divine intervention ndash call it what you will ndash two days later Ronniersquos sister was getting married and she invited Hank to be her date since her current boyfriend a Navy man was stuck in Washington DC Thus within four days Hank had met Ronniersquos entire family Two weeks after their fateful first date Hank was off to serve our country He remembers thinking ldquoIrsquom finally going to get out of Brooklynrdquo and sure enough he did ndash and got stationed in the Bronx

The proposal soon followed ldquoHe asked me to marry himrdquo Ronnie recalls ldquoand I was very young and very naiumlve and polite and I didnrsquot know how to say no So I said lsquoOK Irsquoll marry you until I find someone betterrsquordquo Exactly one year from the day they met Ronnie and Hank were wed

Ronnie begins to interject and then stops herself saying ldquoSometimes I interrupt myselfrdquo

Mind you all of the above conversation happened in probably two minutes Wow Itrsquos impossible to overstate the energy and joie de vivre that simply beams from Ronnie and Hank a beacon of love hope and happiness that is remarkable This feeling ndash that yoursquore in the presence of two incredibly special people ndash is also partly due to their strong belief in fairness justice and not least their deep commitment to faith

Interestingly the Aronds are ldquoJewish by culture and traditionrdquo Ronnie notes ldquobut not observantrdquo In fact they are now Unitarian Universalists about which they are ndash you guessed it ndash very enthusiastic They have been members of their Unitarian Universalist congregation for over two decades ldquoOur congregationrdquo they explain ldquois probably 25 Catholic 25 Jewish 25 born [in the faith] and 25 Muslim other religionshelliptheir committees are

rarr

18 Pompano Today May 2016

no different than Congressrdquo Ronnie laughs She recalls that even her parents were ldquounconcerned about religion ndash for example [they didnrsquot worry about whether I would] marry a nice Jewish boyrdquo

When not in Pompano Beach (where theyrsquove been coming for 20 years) Ronnie and Hank make their home in Bellerose Queens in the house where they raised their two children Sometimes they tell us Hank will be asked ldquoIf you could choose to have children again would yourdquo To which Hank will reply ldquoYes but not themrdquo

Hank of course is kidding as he so often is Their son is an

accomplished pediatrician who travels the world supporting nonprofit efforts Their daughter is a nurse who lives in south Florida so Ronnie and Hank get to spend a lot of time with her each winter Sadly their son lost his wife who was a Quaker Friend in Vietnam during the war three years ago to ALS Has he remarried we ask No but hersquos met a nice woman in a gospel choir Well of course he has These are resilient people who keep going through whatever life throws their way

Back to that house in Queens that they moved into 66 years ago They watched the house get built it was in one of the many new postwar developments springing up around the country to meet the needs of returning veterans and the inordinate number of new families and households springing up everywhere Every weekend during construction ldquowe drove out from the Bronxrdquo We canrsquot help but think about what an exciting and hopeful time that must have been

Ronnie and Hankrsquos son and his wife had two children their granddaughter is currently in Bogota and their grandson is at Amherst (forgive us but what she is doing in Bogota escaped us rest assured that itrsquos something selfless and fabulous Itrsquos astonishing how difficult it is to keep up with Ronnie and Hank)

Our interview with Ronnie and Hank continues at pompanotodaycom We hope that everyone reading this takes this couplersquos incredibly wise life lessons to heart and that wersquove inspired you to live every day to the fullest Ronnie and Hank are both a living example of and testament to how to make the most of every day After all theyrsquore experts ndash theyrsquove had over 70 years of practice

To all the single folks out there get out there and make every day count To all the couples getting married this season make yourselves a life that is as happy healthy and adventurous as Ronniersquos and Hankrsquos As to you two lovebirds - enjoy your summer and wersquoll see you back at the Ebb Tide next year

Patti Nachman and Alicyn Muntildeoz raise the baron bridal shops with Wonderland Bridal

Wedded Bliss Part 2Wonderland Bridalrsquos story is unique as every bridersquos wedding day Co-owners Patti Nachmann and Alicyn Muntildeoz met in their respective Mary Kay businesses and hit it off so instantly ndash and so well ndash that they became known as the ldquoMary Kay sistersrdquo Along the way Alicyn accompanied her best friend on a wedding dress shopping trip and asked

the store owner if she could set up a Mary Kay table there on the weekends The owner agreed and eventually Alicyn was working at the shop part time

She loved it so much that she became determined to open her own shop At the time Patti was still in the corporate world having spent 16 years in the field of medical billing ldquoI wentrdquo Patti recalls ldquofrom screaming at insurance companies on the phone to laughing and crying with brides as theyrsquore choosing their gownsrdquo

Patti excitedly tells us that the business is really taking off ldquoWersquove just acquired a couture line Allure and will be carrying them in the summerrdquo and that Wonderland covers all price points depending on the bridersquos needs

ldquoI feel like everything has just fallen into place with this business and wersquore very luckyrdquo she notes

We ask Patti what the one thing is shersquod like our readers to know about

Wonderland Bridal She thinks for a moment ldquoWe are not like any other bridal store and I say that because we hear that from our brides We have a lot of brides that come here after shopping around and their experiences havenrsquot always been positive Or they come here first and we encourage them to shop around We donrsquot ever pressure our brides and most of them time theyrsquoll tell us ldquoI should have picked our dress while I was herersquo Our brides are really great we have a good bond with them The [wedding dress buying] experience is a process wersquore in constant contact with them from the time they come in until the time they take the dress home

ldquoOur customer service is superb We like to hold one appointment at a time so the entire store is the bridersquos Sometimes of course we get busy [especially] on Saturdays so we have two completely separate fitting rooms

ldquo[We make sure each of our brides] feels like a princess And itrsquos hellip the most important day of their lives and this is part of the memory and wersquore just happy to be a part of itrdquo

For the curious we learned of Wonderland Bridal through Benjaminrsquos Fine Alterations amp Tailoring right here in Pompano Beach The two shops work very closely together Patti explains how these two remarkable local business found each other and yes it includes the magic of social media ldquoBenjaminrsquos

Pompano Today May 2016 19

Benjamins offers painless alterations tailoring and- yes - tuxedo rentals for the big day

and Wonderland started following each other on Instagram Wersquod like each otherrsquos photos and make a comment here and there Then I went to a networking event and one of their employees saw my name tag and grabbed me and said lsquoOh my God yoursquore with Wonderland Bridal And I looked at her nametag and said ldquoOh my God yoursquore with Benjaminrsquosrsquo And we had just recently opened our shop and we got to talking and had a meeting and just picked up from there and [Benjaminrsquos staff have] been our seamstresses since then over a year ago Victoria is an incredible seamstressrdquo

Speaking of Victoria thats her by the way in the photo at left along with Alycin and Patti and the beautiful bride who also graces our cover Learn more about Victoria and Benjamins in Part 3 below

Wonderland Bridal Couture3400 NW 62nd AveMargate FL 33063

954) 973-8695wonderlandbridalcomhomehtml

Benjamins Fine Alterations amp Tailoring2609 East Atlantic BoulevardPompano Beach FL33062

954-943-5878benjaminsalterationscom

Wedded Bliss Part 3Alert readers will recognize Benjamins Fine Alterations and Tailoring from other pages of this publication Its likely however that unless youre already patronized Benjamins (and if you havent well whyever not) you wont recognize Victoria pictured below along with the amazing team of tailors and seamstresses in this beautifully decorated shop As humble as she is talented Victoria and the team are in a word magicians

Really We may be biased having had an unfortunate episode involving a seam ripper many years ago in junior high sewing class but we all have our unique talents Every member of the staff at Benjamins is an

expert in making your clothes look their very best And of course when your clothes look their best well so do you

So drop off those pants youve been meaning to hem that jacket that needs a mite of a tuck that gorgeous blouse with the sleeves that are just a little too long - you wont regret it

And if you are one of the rare individuals whose clothes all fit perfectly Benjamins rents mens formal wear too (see the coupon on page 9)

Why go anywhere else

Photos this and facing page Paul McDermott Photography

INSTRUCTIONS

bull Mix everything adding flour until the mix is firm but not sticky (not too dry)

bull Roll the dough into small balls (about an inch across)bull Place on ungreased cookie sheet and flatten very slightlybull Bake at 350 degrees for 20-25 minutesbull While still warm sift the powdered sugar onto the cookies

INGREDIENTS

bull 1 pound sweet butter softenedbull 6 tablespoons powdered sugar (reserve for after baking)bull Flour to appropriate texturebull Vanilla to taste

Photo copy FomaA Adobe Stock

YUM

chef at home jeff eatsyour diningIn honor of this months theme allow us a bit of poetic license (which sounds so much nicer than bait and switch) Growing up in a Greek household everyone looked forward to these kourabiedes (also known as kourambiethes as well as variety of other spellings Greeks can agree on little spelling included) It was not until well after we left home that we realized how many people identified these as Mexican Wedding cookies And while every Greek will swear that the Greeks invented these there are so many near-identical versions of this cookie around the world that its difficult to tell where they originated

The recipe below is from my beloved late grandmother or Yiayia as we say in Greek It is predictably vague but these are easy to get right Enjoy

Mexican Wedding Cookies

20 Pompano Today May 2016

Pompano Today May 2016 21

your dining jeff eats

Le VinoisSimply Luscious

BY JEFF EATS

NICKrsquoS 50rsquoS DINER 1900 OKEECHOBEE BOULEVARD WEST PALM BEACH FLORIDA 33409 (561) 471-3155

A LITTLE ABOUT JEFF ldquoMy name is Jeff I was born (1949) and bred in Brooklyn New York Since 1991 I have lived full-time in South Florida and have eaten in so many restaurants (down here) that I now consider myself to be a FOOD EXPERT To give you some idea as to how many South Florida restaurants Irsquove been to as of December 31 2014 441 Italian joints alone have had the pleasure of ringing up my American Express card

Just so you know I donrsquot go for the fancy sit-down joints that want you to wear pants and a jacket but rather places where a pair of shorts an old tee shirt and a pair of sneakers is considered formal-wear I donrsquot know one sauce from another I also donrsquot know or really care how ldquodishesrdquo are prepared What I do know is when something tastes delicious and I canrsquot get enough of itrdquo To read more of Jeff rsquos picks visit jeffeatscom

Got an absolutely terrific French bakery for you guys Le Vinois Bakery in Fort Lauderdale The joint has the full-boat of breakfast items breads pastries cakes soups quiches salads sandwiches cookies coffees Order at the counter- handful of tables if you want to eat there

Jeff Eats and Mrs Jeff Eats recently did an eat-in lunchand takeout order and like I said a few seconds ago Le Vinoisrsquo stuff is absolute dynamite

Now letrsquos be adults here and let bygones be bygones- you do remember Freedom Fries sure you do With that in mind Jeff Eats absolutely loved Le Vinois Bakery and Irsquom kinda thinking that you should definitely give it a shot

Clockwise from top left copy Friedberg Adobe Stock copy Chuck Place Adobe Stock copy gkrphoto Adobe Stock copy geshas Adobe Stock

Clockwise from top Enjoy croissants a slice of lemon tart great sandwiches and delicious quiche among the many other delights at Le Vinois

Le Vinois Bakery

6322 N Powerline RoadFt Lauderdale Florida 33309

Hours of operationMonday to Friday7am to 4pm

Phone 954 771 9788

Email modinafrancisyahoocom

levinoisbakerycom

22 Pompano Today May 2016

Whether yoursquore planning a close intimate gathering or a large affair the Sample-McDougald House at Centennial Park (450 NE 10th Street Pompano Beach) sets the scene for memories that will last a lifetime The recently completed $25 million restoration of the house and grounds provides you and your guests with a memorable setting The historic house surrounded by native trees and vegetation is a beautiful background for your photos Renting the Sample-McDougald House can give you and your guests exclusive use of the house and grounds throughout your affair (subject to use guidelines) Visit wwwSampleMcDougaldHousecom to learn more about the house or call 954 691-5686 or 954 214-4759 for more details

Memories yoursquoll treasure at the Sample-McDougald House

Sitting amidst four beautiful acres the Sample-McDougald House offers one of the few

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24 Pompano Today May 2016

AROUND TOWN

a look back charlottes web

your city(the Sample family)

THANKS TO DAN HOBBY AND THE POMPANO BEACH HISTORICAL SOCIETY FOR THE PHOTO AND INFORMATION ABOUT OUR CITYS RICH AND VARIED HISTORY TO LEARN MORE ABOUT OUR CITYS FASCINATING PAST VISIT POMPANOHISTORYCOM

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Members of the Sample family gather together ca 1920 Albert Neal Sample who had the house now known as the Sample-McDougald House constructed in 1916 is standing in the second row third from the viewers right The man kneeling in the first row is Neals younger brother John who prior to 1910 was the first member of the Sample family to settle in the Pompano area The house that Neal Sample built turns 100 this year

The non-profit Sample-McDougald House Preservation Society has a number of activities and events planned to commemorate the historic houses 100th birthday For information visit SampleMcDougaldHousecom or call 754-307-5446

Pompano Today May 2016 25

What the hell do I know about wedded bliss I am a long-term and certified member of the ldquohappily single never been marriedrdquo club Relationships take work people My comfort level of commitment is agreeing to feed walk and nurture the fluffy poodle I brought home from the shelter 5 years ago Beyond thathellipIrsquom selfish And letrsquos face it no onersquos ever gotten into an argument with a dog over a miscommunication Theyrsquore perfect in that respect

But weddings are wonderful events Friends and family gathering together for a festive happy occasion weddings almost always guarantee a good time The happy couple gazing into each otherrsquos eyes while reciting wedding vows Uncle Jim having a few too many at the open bar and trying out his salsa moves on the dance floor Ah the memories we can reminisce about for years to come And the expectation is that the new union will last forever

But how does that same couple reach their 50th year wedding anniversary 50 years of wedded bliss now thatrsquos an accomplishment Since I have already mentioned that I am not exactly a go-to advisor on the subject I did what I always do Letrsquos see what the internet says It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was ldquodonrsquot be selfish and always put your partner firstrdquo Hmmm

ldquoMake it quickrdquo This tip was found when referencing the science of being happily married While it doesnrsquot reference the actual marriage itself in summary I interpreted it to read if someone annoys you now they will most inevitably annoy you much more in the future So maybe not marrying material to begin with Interestingly enough I have this one covered with my three date rule What is the three date rule you ask If there is nothing you find annoying about an individual within the first three dateshellipgreen light means go there may be a future In my case this is a bit of a challenge to achieve

And then Oprahrsquos people had to weigh in on the subject I feel compelled to share a link to a great joke I found on Oprahcom during the search It involves a couple celebrating their 50th anniversary and a mule but no worries Itrsquos a completely clean joke You can see the full joke here oprahcomrelationshipsHappy-Marriage-Tips-Love-Advice

your city charlottes web

Wedded bliss the flip side

BY CHARLOTTE SUNDQUIST

It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was

dont be selfish and always put your partner first Hmmm

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Are you back Good Am I wrong in assuming this has some ties to the three date rule

I donrsquot know I certainly havenrsquot got all the answers But Irsquove just confirmed that single is a perfectly acceptable status for me And you single people that are tired of hearing ldquoWhen are you going to settle down and get marriedrdquo Donrsquot cavehellipdo what makes you happy There is not one version of the perfect relationship ideal If itrsquos a good fit for you so be it Wersquore all different after all

And to all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work Time to go walk the dog

To all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work

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Blissful BusinessCan we be blissful in life Yes Can we be blissfully in love Yes Can we be blissful in business That depends on what your definition of a ldquoblissfulrdquo business is Is it working Monday through Thursday Is it dress down days Is it bringing in a new client or two each month Your bliss depends on what your definition is and what that looks like for your business model Letrsquos talk about a few ways you can be ldquoblissfulrdquo in business

Your Company Culture

What is the tone or perception of your company Are you rigid conservative and safe Or are you creative thought provoking and innovative You have the opportunity to transform your company culture a culture that attracts customers employees and partners Think about Google they have created a co-working collaborative happy environment at work for their employees Google has determined that their definition of ldquoblissfulrdquo is casual dress napping pods libraries and bring your dog to work days Think about what your culture is and try to create an atmosphere that people can enjoy

Better Matters

How can you perform tasks and projects ldquobetterrdquo to make it more manageable for your staff As leaders when we put our employees first the rewards are priceless What are you implementing internally to ldquobetterrdquo your employees to meet their sales goals client leads or individual quotas If you raise your standards the company will follow Being better should be the norm Better business creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo business

The Next Level

What is your definition of the reaching the next level Will reaching that level create a ldquoblissfulrdquo business Maybe yes or maybe no The next level for my business would be to add more employees and another office which would create bliss for me I would be free to do more networking and outside activities Determine and define what the ldquonext levelrdquo is for your company and see if it makes sense and creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo work environment for everyone involved

Itrsquos important to take a step back every now and then to remember why being an entrepreneur makes you happy

Determine your personal definition of a blissful business

BY TEANA MCDONALD

26 Pompano Today May 2016

working it special feature

your business special feature

Pompano Today May 2016 27

Kim Briesemeister greets us at the entrance to RMArsquos new digs a suite of comfortable welcoming offices right on Atlantic Boulevard As usual she is polished professional and enthusiastic about all of the great things happening in our city

ldquoWhat RMA brings is the technical expertise the realities of how to achieve the market visionhellipthe end result is creating a quality place that people want to live in and are proud to call home a place where businesses want to be and the city gets a certain great viberdquo Kim notes You can see this ldquoviberdquo in her eyes ndash and you know that Kim can see what the future looks like here in Pompano Beach and at that moment in time we can see it with her

What is ldquoitrdquo exactly ldquoItrdquo is what great places are made of Art Culture Safety Walkability Excitement The vision that Kim and her partner Chris Brown as well as all of the bright creative energetic staff we see is breathtaking And that feeling of hometown comfort that we all get when we return here whether after a trip to the next town over or a trip around the world is the wellspring from which all of the plans for our future originate Itrsquos still Pompano Beach but itrsquos far far better

As the publishers of this magazine for the past six years we have firsthand knowledge of all of the great people who live here and

the great things that attract more like-minded residents and visitors An airport A harbor The Intracoastal The lighthouse Thriving businesses A small-town feeling that is ever harder to maintain

Without a cohesive vision itrsquos likely that some if not all of these could be lost To paraphrase Benjamin Franklin ldquoFailing to plan is planning to failrdquo and there is no shortage of planning for this bright future going on at RMA

Speaking of that planning at that point Kim turns our attention to the consideration of an ldquoinnovation districtrdquo and this is where her enthusiasm is if possible even more palpable We are treated to a breathtaking visual tour of what is possible in such a district and oh my We can hardly contain ourselves What we ask is RMArsquos role in this endeavor ldquoWe are able to help the community go through the redevelopment processrdquo Kim responds adding that ldquo[the goal is that] in the end everyone says lsquoThis is the most amazing place to live This is where I want to bersquordquo

Yes Thatrsquos what we all want A place that wersquore even more proud to call home Proud of the looks on the faces of others when we tell them ldquoYes I live in Pompano Beachrdquo proud that we raised our children in a place where after theyrsquore grown they choose to return and put down roots of their own right here where they belong This is the place that we will create that will provide a solid foundation on which our city will continue to build on and thrive

As we prepare to depart earnest young professionals come bounding enthusiastically through the door (ok they werenrsquot really bounding ndash they are professionals ndash but they sure gave the impression of bounding)

ldquoAhhhrdquo we think to ourselves imagining an exchange with them ldquoDo you guys happen to live in Pompano Beach No Thatrsquos too badrdquo we say unable to help feeling just a tad smug ldquoItrsquos a great place to live work and playrdquo

Falling in love with the future of Pompano Beach

For the past 50 years the landscape of innovation has been dominated by places like Silicon Valleymdashsuburban corridors of spatially isolated corporate campuses accessible only by car with little emphasis on the quality of life or on integrating work housing and recreation

A new complementary urban model is now emerging giving rise to what we and others are calling ldquoinnovation districtsrdquo These districts by our definition are geographic areas where leading-edge anchor institutions and companies cluster and connect with start-ups business incubators and accelerators1 They are also physically compact transit-accessible and technically-wired and offer mixed-use housing office and retail

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts

LOOKING AHEAD TO AN EVEN BRIGHTER FUTUREFrom top left

bull Creating a Downtown Innovation District means incorporating all of the pieces of a successful plan

bull a sterling example of one such district

bull synergy in actionbull specific steps

to harness our unique strengths

bull targeted industriesbull another sterling

example this time of a complete street

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts What They Are

Economic Assets

Networking Assets

Physical Assets

InnovationEcosystemA synergistic relationship between people firms and place that facilitates idea generation and acceleratescommercialization

Target Industries

International Trade and Logistics

Marine Industry

Life Sciences and Biotechnology

Creative Design

Digital Media and Technology

Class A Office

Tourism

Advanced Materials and High-Tech Manufacturing

Redevelopment of Commercial and Residential

Alternatives Energy and Renewable Resources

AviationAerospace

Global Business Services

Global Media and Production

Headquarters and Management Operations

Human Resources and Higher Education

How to harness our ldquoDowntown Innovation Districtrdquo

1 Build a collaborative leadership network

2 Set a vision for growth to leverage our unique strengths

distinct economic clusters leading local and regional institutions and companies physical location and design advantages and other cultural attributes

3 Pursue talent and technology

4 Promote inclusive growthEquip workers with the skills they need to participate in the innovation economy or other secondary and tertiary jobs generated by innovative growth

5 Enhance access to capital

Cultural ArtsTourism

Industrial

Multi Purpose

DowntownInnovation

District

Target Industries

Education

Housing

Downtown Innovation

District

28 Pompano Today May 2016

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Volleyball with a cause Mark your calendars for the 31st Annual Volleyball Challenge on June 11th-12th 2016 at the Wyndham Sea Gardens (615 N Ocean Blvd Pompano Beach FL) Proceeds to benefit United Cerebral Palsy of South Florida Learn more at ucpsouthfloridaorg

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Pompano Today May 2016 29

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We have never ever ever looked so put together as when the outstanding folks at Benjamins work their magic In fact were fighting the compulsion to buy more clothes () so we can go back

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30 Pompano Today May 2016

VROOM

all things automotiveyour rideThis monthrsquos theme is wedded bliss I started checking on an exact meaning for this title This is what was written in the English Dictionary ldquothe happiness of being marriedrdquo As I reflect back and think about life altogether whether marriage engagement purchase of a product or dealing with family and friendshellip

There are many factors in life that can afford you wedded bliss or the joy serenity and comfort of having the right lover husband or wife the right house or car the right job or titlehellip Now letrsquos admit to the fact that we all go though the ups and downs and have to face many situationshellip This is part of being human

Just imagine not having a significant other to share the joy or sadness of an event or a shoulder to cry onhellip Just imagine not having a cell phone to communicate with your loved ones or a car to get you from point A to point B

Just like a marriage you start by meeting a prospective mate lover or significant other You then starting dating and checking on the possibility of a good fit

If that is the case you start focusing on the possibility of a future together and if the positive traits in that individual outweigh the negative and if you canrsquot imagine living without himher then the marriage is to be considered

The same thing goes for the perfect car for you You have specific unique preferences based on your personality and the purpose of the car purchase

Achieving wedded bliss with your vehicle choice

The right car that will suit your needs for years to come exists It just takes a little research planning budgeting and common sense We all dream of the luxury car that we many not be able to afford but till the time comes to make our dream car a reality we will need to settle for what is achievable practical fits our need and makes us proud of the choice we made Here are some practical questions to answer would you like to get a sporty car a regular 4 door sedan a van an SUV or a truck

Would you like a practical car you may drive in city highway or would you like to go off-roading on the weekends Would you need this vehicle to tow your boat to tow your camping trip supplies or would you like to have an elegant car to show off to your friends Now we have to consider the budget and whether we want to purchase a domestic or foreign vehicle the maintenance cost the fuel efficiency and the overall look and feel of the car

We have noticed that cars reflect their ownerrsquos personality so if you are someone who is sporty adventurous have a young spirit and are financially secure then a Bugatti Veyron Porsche 911 Ford Mustang McClaren MP4- 12C Lamborghini Egoista Limited edition Mercedes AMG SL SLK Roadster or E Class Cabriolet Convertible or the Chevy Camaro come to mind Pictured on page 31 is the 2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue by the way

If you are someone who is practical enjoy trips to the mountains or the beach work full time and look for a dependable and comfortable car then check out the Cadillac CTS (pictured above) XTS or DTS Super Subaru Impreza Lexus CT 200h Sport IS 250 or ES 350 Mercedes CS or E Class Chevy Equinox Chevy Tahoe and Toyota Prius V

Cadillac CTS photo copy General Motors

Pompano Today May 2016 31

If you are the family manwoman and are seeking safety comfortable seating and an affordable vehicle with low maintenance we noticed that most of the inquiries are SUV or Van related such as the Mercedes GLA SUB GLE SUV or GLS SUV Audi Q5 Audi Allroad Toyota Sienna Ford Fex Ford Transit Connect Cadillac Escalade Cadillac SRX and letrsquos not forget the Chevy Suburban

Now if you are the hunter or you enjoy off roading every now and then the vehicles we seesell and repair most are the Ford F150 Ford Super Duty Mercedes G Class Toyota TacomaTundra Range Rover Jeep Wrangler and the Chevy Silverado

What about the green energy conscious We have had inquiries about the Toyota Prius and the Rav 4 Hybrid Audi A3 E-tron Cadillac ELR or the Chevy Spark EV Now if you are in the market for a nice ride then you need to test drive the Cadillac CT6 Plug-in Hybrid or the BMW I8 and tell me if you enjoyed the drive

Yes even car owners and their vehicles can talk about wedded bliss So if you have the

perfect car that fits your image your lifestyle your personality then congratulations because you are lucky to get the perfect car In the meantime if you are looking for a vehicle and have questions or concerns feel free to contact us and we will be glad to assist you BY JAY GHANEM

2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue copy The Ford Motor Company 2016 All Rights Reserved

HOLLYWOOD CORNER

news from the west coast

32 Pompano Today May 2016

stars in your eyesBenjamin A Onyango on keeping the faith

and making people happyWhen did you know without any doubt that you wanted to act

Ive always acted in church youth plays that I wrote myself when I was a teenager in Nairobi Kenya In 1987 I came to the United States and while attending California State University Stanislaus in Turlock California formed a traditional dance group called Upendo Singers and Cultural Dancers We wrote plays and songs and performed them in cultural festivals universities and churches After graduating in 1992 I knew I wanted to act so I struck the tent and moved to Hollywood where I joined a funk rock band called PFO and also acted as a background performer in TV and feature films What inspires you to act

I am naturally a happy person and I love it when people are happy So I cant help it but crack jokes and poke fun at myself to make people around me laugh I am inspired by other people Their presence makes me want to do stuff talk dance sing shout etc When did you realize you had reached your goals as an actor

I do not think I have reached my goal as an actor yet To me acting is an evolving thing You get to a certain level and then you strive to get better than the level you currently are on Acting has many facets and therefore many challenges There is no one way to approach acting I therefore believe that I am still reaching for that goal and I must admit that the experience indeed is the best teacher because you indeed get better at it the more you keep doing it

What was your favorite role to date and why

My favorite role to date is the movie I am currently filming called Beautifully Broken The reason its my first role as a lead actor in a feature film and best of all I am playing the role of a real person who survived the Rwanda genocide that the story is about I played a lead role before in a short film called Kwame also based on a true story and was voted best actor at the 2009 Mexico International Film Festival Beautifully Broken is a story that connects very strongly with the human spirit I can almost guarantee that there will not be a

single dry eye in the theater when its screened Its a beautifully written story of hardship resilience survival and hope

What do you enjoy most about your career

What I enjoy most about my career is the ability to travel and see different people in different parts of the world I am a people person and nothing

makes me happier than meeting and making new friends

Can we expect a book from you

Thats funny you mentioned that I write lots of movie scripts and TV show scripts and I have always thought of writing a book So on my down days on the set of Beautifully Broken I started a book Ive been toying with in my head for a while The title of the book is God Moves When We Stop Helping Him Its more of a booklet than a book Its a book about encouragement

What is the best way for your fans to know what yoursquore working on FacebookTwitter Do you post for your own sites or do you have your assistants do the posts

I hope I do have fans LOL They can find out about what I am doing or working on my Facebook page facebookcomEMEBAND or Facebook fan page facebookcomBenjiBendrix Twitter twittercombochieng Instagram instagramcombenjibendrix and imdb imdbcomnamenm1335173ref_=nv_sr I also have a website benjibendrixcom that I use

Tell us something new something bold that yoursquove never told any other magazinehellipnews tip )

Recently I was fortunate to have my TV webseries Dysfunctionally Organized pitched to a major network and they agreed to have us do a spin-off of the show So we have started the writing process Its a major achievement for my team and myself since we have been working on the show for a long time Its not easy to get an audience with a content procurement person on a major network so we feel very fortunate I cant mention the network because of confidentiality reasons

Photo of Benjamin Ochieng aka Benji Bendrix (friend of Jimi Hendrix) copy Flygirl PhotographyLearn more about Benjamin atproimdbcomnamenm1335173afro-mericarecordscommindtricksmoviecom

BY MISTY SCHWARTZ

word scrambleTHE LAST WORD

a workout for your mind

Wedded bliss All of the words in this months Scramble are related to marriage and weddings Good luck Look for the answers online beginning May 15 at pompanotodaycom

Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answerodeutx gnir oeemcryn lsuipnatgnwo iaoynmtmr rogom slrofweermdiadbis eusenv shrue ovwsnwiddge rrdemia erdib psoesuerdbhteot rceepnoit errceat eiervsc

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6 Pompano Today May 2016

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Pompano Today May 2016 7

Happenings

Another action-packed month awaits

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This month starts off with a shootout - of the saltwater kind that is - and ends with a lovely if more sedate reminder of those whove paid the ultimate price for our freedom For more local events see our up-to-the-minute calendar at pompanotodaycomevents Enjoy

Spring tournament fishing in South Florida kicks off with The MercurySeaVee Pompano Beach Saltwater Shootout The Saltwater Shootout is the first leg in South Floridas largest tournament trail - The Pompano Beach Saltwater Circuit Teams travel from near and far to enjoy the festivities and take a chance at over $275000 in cash and prizes

By popular demand the Saltwater Shootout has become a sanctioned event in Division 10 of the Southern Kingfish Association Target species in the Shootout are dolphin wahoo kingfish tuna and cobia The Saltwater Shootout offers something for the competitive and the casual fisherman alike Reasonable entry fees great cash prizes top notch hospitality and fun activities for anglers of all ages keep the teams coming back year after year For a complete schedule of events visit bluewatermovementscomsaltwater_shootout_schedule_of_events

Be sure to remember Mom on this special day Brunches of course abound Personally we highly recommend some quality time at the beach any one of our fabulous parks or perhaps a nature walk at Fern Forest

On Saturday May 14 2016 from 5 to 10 pm the Sample-McDougald House Preservation Society will host a Centennial Celebration on the grounds of the 100 year old house Once a pineapple farm and home to two significant Pompano families the house today serves as a reminder of this arearsquos pioneer

spirit and agricultural past Through programs and public tours the restored house is moving into its second century as a community

The event will feature entertainment displays and a lavish bar-be-que cooked on the grounds by Porky amp Beth The evening will feature a silent auction of fine art as well as a live auction by Auctioneer and Mayor Lamar Fisher Donrsquot miss this unique opportunity to win a ride for two on the Goodyear Blimp or a long weekend at A Tranquil Landing in the Village of Hopetown on Elbow Cay Abaco Bahamas Tickets are $100 and may be purchased in advance by calling the SMH office at 754-307-5446 or online at samplemcdougaldcom

The celebration continues on Sunday May 15 2016 from 10 am to 4 pm with Family Day Bring the kids and celebrate our farming heritage with displays of antique cars and tractors displays and demonstration of heritage crafts including quilting and blacksmithing hands-on activities petting zoo pony rides and more No reservation required Tickets are $10 With children 12 and under FREE For more information contact Melissa May 754-307-5446

The City of Pompano Beach holds two beautiful and moving ceremonies on this day While details were not available at press time be sure to visit the Citys Events page at pompanobeachflg o v i n d e x p h p events closer to Memorial Day We never miss these they are fitting tributes to the fallen and a great way to start this day with your kids as a stirring reminder of the meaning of Memorial Day

Memorial Day RemembrancesMothers DayMay 8

Saltwater ShootoutMay 5 7 8

The Sample McDougald House Centennial May 14 and 15

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Pompano Today May 2016 9

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Weddings of course are so symbolic of new beginnings and such joyous events One of our favorite moments is when we happen to be somewhere along or on the beach and just happen upon a beach wedding What lovely occasions these are Our favorite moment however may have occurred a few weeks ago when we were lucky enough to spot a festive golf cart driven by a bride in full wedding attire accompanied by her attendants decked out in beautiful turquoise dresses Oh to have had a camera

Interested in a wedding on Pompano Beach Heres the info from our citys website For those planning a destination wedding Pompano Beach is perfect be it

a romantic beach wedding at one of the popular beach hotels a private cruise on the intracoastal or reception at a popular restaurant overlooking the golf course or the historic and very traditional Sample-McDougald House The weather is almost always accommodating Beach permits are needed and can be purchased at the Emma Lou Olson Civic Center (H-6) 1801 NE 6th Street Pompano Beach Marriage licenses must be purchased from the Broward County Clerk of Courts Info browardclerkorg or 9548316565 Learn more at pompanobeachflgovindexphppagestourist_infotourist_info

Photo of Keli and James copy Paul McDermott Photography PaulMcDermottcom

10 Pompano Today May 2016

EXPLORE

Real FloridaKissimmee Prairie Preserve State Park

On the prairietext and photos by Jim Stafford

At 54000 acres Kissimmee Prairie Preserve State Park is home to the largest remaining dry prairie in Florida Located north of Okeechobee the park is home to both endangered plants and animals Visitors will experience grasslands reminiscent of the Great Plains The park offers excellent birding and is also home to endangered species like the Crested Caracara and Burrowing Owl The Park offers 100 miles of dirt roads easy to walk and handicap friendly They give hikers bicyclists and equestrians excellent opportunities to explore the preserve November through March ranger-led prairie buggy tours allow visitors to see remote areas of the preserve Kissimmee Prairiersquos remoteness makes it one of Floridarsquos premier locations for stargazing For overnight stays the Preserve has two full-facility campground loops family and an equestrian campground with paddocks

AAn important item to note while planning your visit according to the Florida State Parks website ldquoSpring means prescribed fire at Kissimmee Prairie If you see smoke here at the prairie on your next trip there is a good chance it is our staff conducting a prescribed burn at naturersquos preferred time of year Florida Dry Prairie is accustomed to burning every 1-2 years and many of our plants and animals such as the Florida Grasshopper Sparrow need frequent fire to survive Our staff works hard to safely conduct prescribed fires on one third to one half of the preserve annually Please stop by our office for more information regarding fire management at the preserve wersquod be happy to talk to you about itrdquo To learn more about this program visit floridastateparksorgcontentspring-means-smoke-over-prairie

To learn more about Kissimmee Prairie Preserve State Park visit floridastateparksorgparkKissimmee-Prairie

Pompano Today May 2016 11

We are at the top of the wedding season so I would like to offer a quick refresher on wedding dress code etiquette You receive a wedding invitation the time and the location are specified but the big thing that is left up to you is what to wear to a wedding reception There are

some general guidelines to follow such as not wearing white not wearing clothing that is overly revealing and not looking wrinkled or unkempt Even with these guidelines deciding what

to wear can still be extremely difficult These tips will reduce some of the difficulty and give you some ideas for picking the perfect outfit

When deciding on what you wear to a wedding reception make sure you know the venue for the wedding and the time of day For example a beach wedding during the day calls for a more casual look than a church wedding Keep in mind that appropriateness is necessary for all wedding receptions irrespective of the time or the place

12 Pompano Today May 2016

your lifestyle fashion forward

Proper attire requiredA guide for wedding guests

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Suggestions for a Daytime Wedding

For Herbull Floral dressesbull Winter weddings Sweater and skirt

combinationsbull Summer weddings Light colored suitsbull Footwear sling-backs sandals or high

heelsbull Hats that match the rest of your outfit

For Himbull For a formal occasion wear a dark suitbull Spring or summer weddings A

seersucker or light-colored linen suitbull Winter weddings a wool suit or a

sweater underneath a smart blazer with a tie

bull A blazer with a buttoned down shirt trousers and a tie

Suggestions for a ldquoCasualrdquo Wedding

When the dress code calls for ldquoCasualrdquo wear it usually means that there is no dress code but you should still look nice and avoid jeans tank tops and shorts For a wedding ldquocasualrdquo means ldquobusiness casualrdquo

For Herbull A beautiful blouse matched with a pretty

skirt or pantsbull A summer sundress with natural makeup

amp hair

For Himbull A buttoned down or polo shirt paired with

dress pants

Suggestions for a ldquoBeach Formalrdquo Wedding

Beach Formal suggests that you should wear something fashionable but suitable for the beach

For HerA tea length or knee length formal summer sundress with flat sandals natural hair and makeup

For Himbull A summer suit matched with a linen

shirt bull Khakis or linen trousers and sandals A

tie is not required

Suggestions for an Evening Wedding

For Herbull A gown or a fancy dressbull A cocktail dress that is not overly sexy

or provocative (black is fine for this occasion)

bull A sophisticated dark color cocktail suit bull Avoid sequins sparkles and beads

unless the wedding invitation specifies ldquoblack tierdquo

For Himbull Dark smart suits bull A tuxedo for an after 6pm formal

ceremonybull For semi-formalcasual ceremonies a

blazer and slacks matched with a tie

If you stick to the guidelines above you will be all set Itrsquos all about finding a balance between being yourself and looking and feeling confident while not offending others There are lots of opportunities to wear flip-flops and cutoffs - a wedding is not one of them

BY ELAINE SIMMONS

daytime for her

evening for her

daytime for him

evening for him

Pompano Today May 2016 13

your lifestyle fashion the goods

With this ring

When approaching wedding planning and the selection of players let common sense reign The ring bearer tradition originated in ancient Egypt an elaborately decorated pillow was often used to display the jewelry during a wedding Exchanging rings became the common outward sign of betrothal and the two traditions merged which put the pillow front and center as the main apparatus for the carrying of rings at a wedding ceremony hence the need for someone to carry the pillow

Asking a young family member or child of a close friend to take on this position in your ceremony should be thought through with care and consideration While it is a wonderful way to honor and involve children in your wedding you must contemplate a few factors first

Age the age of a ring bearer is customarily in the range of 3-7 years old Younger and you are asking for trouble There is really no controlling children in this sort of setting in the first place ndash but this particular job is too much for a very small child just learning to walk I argue the sweet spot is between 4 and 5 years old However it is likely you know the child so if you think they have the maturity to handle the honor then by all means ask On the other end of the spectrum anything older than 7 or 8 begins to look odd Why not ask those young men to take on another role

Your help if you have a ring bearer then you have a flower girl and like the old Hollywood adage goes itrsquos tough to work with children and animals Make sure you have someone appointed to assist with your young charges this person must keep the two players together until they are ready to go down the aisle remind them of what theyrsquore supposed to do and where to land at the end It goes without saying that the ring bearer should be included in the rehearsal this will assuage stage fright on the big day and should eliminate any fear of what to do on his part

BY BENJAMINS FINE ALTERATIONS AND TAILORING Benjamins blends long-forgotten high standards in sewing with outstanding personal service Drop by 2609 East Atlantic Boulevard call them at 954-943-5878 or visit them online at benjaminsalterationscom

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Clothing the ring bearer is traditionally dressed in some miniature version of the groomsmens attire ndash like a little man While this is precious as can be make sure the parents have access to the outfit far enough ahead of time that they can help their son try it on so they can become comfortable in their big day attire The last thing you want is a fit pitching because the tie is lsquochokingrsquo the ring bearer

Tradition does not have to dictate every aspect of your ceremony You have creative license ndash this is your day Just make sure you approach the election of your underage wedding party members with your eyes as well as your heart wide open

14 Pompano Today May 2016

your lifestyle marital minutes

You are a ldquowerdquo not a ldquomerdquo

You cannot make decisions independently anymore Your life decisions can and will impact your spouse Repeat after us Your life decisions can and will impact your spouse If you do not learn this fairly quickly it could impact the stability of your relationship

Just because he is your husband does not mean he is perfect

Remember that both you and your husband will make mistakes You are both human beings and are fallible You need to learn to forgive and also you need to learn from your mistakes

Have fun

Although I love my children I did not take advantage of the time we had together as newlyweds and prior to having kids When a new addition enters your family it is more challenging to do things that you used to like to do together

About the StaffordsDr Gina and Jim Stafford have been married for over 15 years Throughout that time they had four beautiful children ndash all boys Over the course of their relationship they have faced ups and downs especially since three out of the four sons were diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder Despite the obstacles that came their way their marriage has grown stronger People who know the couple always ask how they do it The answer is that with hard work and faith anything is possible The couple decided to share their story their strategies and their lives with other couples to assist them in building a relationship just as strong as their own Each month we bring you their words of wisdom devoted to helping couples explore the many issues facing marriages today Read more about this engaging couple at maritalminutescom

BY DR GINA STAFFORD

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3 pieces of advice before you say I do

Pompano Today May 2016 15

your lifestyle your kids

Planning a wedding dollars and sense

BY MICHAEL DIPIERRO

Michael DiPierro has a decade of experience in education He currently holds a Masters degree in Educational Leadership and has 11 years of teaching experience in Broward County Public Schools

For students who entered 9th grade in the 2013-14 academic year a requirement to earn a standard high school diploma in Florida includes financial literacy instruction I think it is safe to assume that most people who have planned a wedding understand the need to be financially literate In Florida financial literacy instruction includes the knowledge understanding skills behaviors attitudes and values that will enable a student to make responsible and effective financial decisions on a daily basis

While financial literacy covers a broad range of topics in terms of planning a wedding related classroom instruction might focus on buying goods and services saving and financial investing and budgeting and debt management In 2014 the Florida State Board of Education adopted a financial-literacy strand to its Social Studies Next Generation Sunshine State Standards Nationally during the 2015 legislative session about thirty-five states and Puerto Rico considered bills related to financial literacy This is an increase from the roughly twenty-eight states and Puerto Rico that considered legislation related to financial literacy during the 2014 legislative session

Related classroom instruction might focus on buyinggoods and services

saving and financial investing and budgeting and debt

management

The Florida Department of Education approved a high school Personal Financial Literacy elective course written and submitted by the Broward County Public Schools Social Studies Office Some of the instructional practices connected to this course include providing extended learning opportunities that simulate economic scenarios and the use of real world data and evidence to answer complex high-level questions that are based on real world scenarios Although I am not endorsing any classroom projects planning a mock wedding seems like it would be a fun experience to learn about financial literacy especially since the students donrsquot really have to pay for the mock wedding

The Florida Department of Education approved a high school

Personal Financial Literacy elective course written and submitted by the

Broward County Public SchoolsSocial Studies Office

Planning a mock wedding seems like it would be

a fun experienceespecially since the students dont really

have to pay for the mock wedding

16 Pompano Today May 2016

COVER FEATURE

Ronnie and Hank Arond are a real-life fairy talethat should inspire us all

Wedded Bliss Part 1

On a clear sunny weekend morning we enter the clean bright and charming winter digs of Ronnie and Hank Arond (Of course we think that every single inch of the Ebb Tide is clean bright and charming but Ronnie and Hankrsquos quarters seem especially so)

The couple greets us with the vigor of much younger folks their energy levels are those of a much younger couple which is no surprise really given the zest for life with which theyrsquove been greeting each day together for 71 years

Yes 71 years The Aronds in fact celebrated their 72nd anniversary this March And what better place to spend it than the Ebb Tide where theyrsquove been coming each year for the past ten years

First things first however As we enter Ronnie is bustling around tidying up ldquoIrsquom putting away all the messy stuffrdquo she notes cheerfully although itrsquos clear that her standards are much higher than ours In an instant coffee tea and festive cookies are in front of us Yum

When we offer to help we are politely dismissed ldquoWersquore helpful Wersquore not helpless yetrdquo says um Honnie Really this couple speaks with one voice Sort of Throughout our interview they finish each otherrsquos sentences often or break into what can only be described as the best Burns and Allen routine ever Hank can play ndash with equal vigor ndash the comedian and the straight man of this remarkable duo (as well as the violin but more about that later) and he plays every minute and every role with a wink and a nod

Pompano Today May 2016 17

WEDDED BLISS

ldquoCollect adventures Do them

Dont ever say no to somethingrdquo

Ronnie finally sits down her hostessing duties complete Her bright blue eyes and lovely fawn colored hair make for a beautiful portrait of a life well lived her nails are polished her lipstick perfect We ask what itrsquos like to be married for 72 years ldquoNordquo Ronnie smilingly corrects us ldquoitrsquos 36 because half the time he doesnrsquot listen to merdquo

The couple met on March 4 1943 Hank lets us know that ldquoShe was on the other side of a double daterdquo At the time Hank was paired with a girl from upstate (for those who donrsquot know ldquoupstaterdquo is of course ldquoupstate New Yorkrdquo) Driving to the train station he thought to himself ldquoHow do I do thisrdquo He decided to take an interesting tactic somehow he ended up with Ronniersquos phone number in his possession And the rest as they say is history

Hank wasted no time (less than a week in fact) before taking Ronnie to a Broadway show (which they believe was ldquoShadow of a Doubtrdquo) for their first date The very next day they went on another date where Hank met Ronniersquos best friend (and passed the ldquobest friendrdquo test) For those who believe in coincidence the stars aligning divine intervention ndash call it what you will ndash two days later Ronniersquos sister was getting married and she invited Hank to be her date since her current boyfriend a Navy man was stuck in Washington DC Thus within four days Hank had met Ronniersquos entire family Two weeks after their fateful first date Hank was off to serve our country He remembers thinking ldquoIrsquom finally going to get out of Brooklynrdquo and sure enough he did ndash and got stationed in the Bronx

The proposal soon followed ldquoHe asked me to marry himrdquo Ronnie recalls ldquoand I was very young and very naiumlve and polite and I didnrsquot know how to say no So I said lsquoOK Irsquoll marry you until I find someone betterrsquordquo Exactly one year from the day they met Ronnie and Hank were wed

Ronnie begins to interject and then stops herself saying ldquoSometimes I interrupt myselfrdquo

Mind you all of the above conversation happened in probably two minutes Wow Itrsquos impossible to overstate the energy and joie de vivre that simply beams from Ronnie and Hank a beacon of love hope and happiness that is remarkable This feeling ndash that yoursquore in the presence of two incredibly special people ndash is also partly due to their strong belief in fairness justice and not least their deep commitment to faith

Interestingly the Aronds are ldquoJewish by culture and traditionrdquo Ronnie notes ldquobut not observantrdquo In fact they are now Unitarian Universalists about which they are ndash you guessed it ndash very enthusiastic They have been members of their Unitarian Universalist congregation for over two decades ldquoOur congregationrdquo they explain ldquois probably 25 Catholic 25 Jewish 25 born [in the faith] and 25 Muslim other religionshelliptheir committees are

rarr

18 Pompano Today May 2016

no different than Congressrdquo Ronnie laughs She recalls that even her parents were ldquounconcerned about religion ndash for example [they didnrsquot worry about whether I would] marry a nice Jewish boyrdquo

When not in Pompano Beach (where theyrsquove been coming for 20 years) Ronnie and Hank make their home in Bellerose Queens in the house where they raised their two children Sometimes they tell us Hank will be asked ldquoIf you could choose to have children again would yourdquo To which Hank will reply ldquoYes but not themrdquo

Hank of course is kidding as he so often is Their son is an

accomplished pediatrician who travels the world supporting nonprofit efforts Their daughter is a nurse who lives in south Florida so Ronnie and Hank get to spend a lot of time with her each winter Sadly their son lost his wife who was a Quaker Friend in Vietnam during the war three years ago to ALS Has he remarried we ask No but hersquos met a nice woman in a gospel choir Well of course he has These are resilient people who keep going through whatever life throws their way

Back to that house in Queens that they moved into 66 years ago They watched the house get built it was in one of the many new postwar developments springing up around the country to meet the needs of returning veterans and the inordinate number of new families and households springing up everywhere Every weekend during construction ldquowe drove out from the Bronxrdquo We canrsquot help but think about what an exciting and hopeful time that must have been

Ronnie and Hankrsquos son and his wife had two children their granddaughter is currently in Bogota and their grandson is at Amherst (forgive us but what she is doing in Bogota escaped us rest assured that itrsquos something selfless and fabulous Itrsquos astonishing how difficult it is to keep up with Ronnie and Hank)

Our interview with Ronnie and Hank continues at pompanotodaycom We hope that everyone reading this takes this couplersquos incredibly wise life lessons to heart and that wersquove inspired you to live every day to the fullest Ronnie and Hank are both a living example of and testament to how to make the most of every day After all theyrsquore experts ndash theyrsquove had over 70 years of practice

To all the single folks out there get out there and make every day count To all the couples getting married this season make yourselves a life that is as happy healthy and adventurous as Ronniersquos and Hankrsquos As to you two lovebirds - enjoy your summer and wersquoll see you back at the Ebb Tide next year

Patti Nachman and Alicyn Muntildeoz raise the baron bridal shops with Wonderland Bridal

Wedded Bliss Part 2Wonderland Bridalrsquos story is unique as every bridersquos wedding day Co-owners Patti Nachmann and Alicyn Muntildeoz met in their respective Mary Kay businesses and hit it off so instantly ndash and so well ndash that they became known as the ldquoMary Kay sistersrdquo Along the way Alicyn accompanied her best friend on a wedding dress shopping trip and asked

the store owner if she could set up a Mary Kay table there on the weekends The owner agreed and eventually Alicyn was working at the shop part time

She loved it so much that she became determined to open her own shop At the time Patti was still in the corporate world having spent 16 years in the field of medical billing ldquoI wentrdquo Patti recalls ldquofrom screaming at insurance companies on the phone to laughing and crying with brides as theyrsquore choosing their gownsrdquo

Patti excitedly tells us that the business is really taking off ldquoWersquove just acquired a couture line Allure and will be carrying them in the summerrdquo and that Wonderland covers all price points depending on the bridersquos needs

ldquoI feel like everything has just fallen into place with this business and wersquore very luckyrdquo she notes

We ask Patti what the one thing is shersquod like our readers to know about

Wonderland Bridal She thinks for a moment ldquoWe are not like any other bridal store and I say that because we hear that from our brides We have a lot of brides that come here after shopping around and their experiences havenrsquot always been positive Or they come here first and we encourage them to shop around We donrsquot ever pressure our brides and most of them time theyrsquoll tell us ldquoI should have picked our dress while I was herersquo Our brides are really great we have a good bond with them The [wedding dress buying] experience is a process wersquore in constant contact with them from the time they come in until the time they take the dress home

ldquoOur customer service is superb We like to hold one appointment at a time so the entire store is the bridersquos Sometimes of course we get busy [especially] on Saturdays so we have two completely separate fitting rooms

ldquo[We make sure each of our brides] feels like a princess And itrsquos hellip the most important day of their lives and this is part of the memory and wersquore just happy to be a part of itrdquo

For the curious we learned of Wonderland Bridal through Benjaminrsquos Fine Alterations amp Tailoring right here in Pompano Beach The two shops work very closely together Patti explains how these two remarkable local business found each other and yes it includes the magic of social media ldquoBenjaminrsquos

Pompano Today May 2016 19

Benjamins offers painless alterations tailoring and- yes - tuxedo rentals for the big day

and Wonderland started following each other on Instagram Wersquod like each otherrsquos photos and make a comment here and there Then I went to a networking event and one of their employees saw my name tag and grabbed me and said lsquoOh my God yoursquore with Wonderland Bridal And I looked at her nametag and said ldquoOh my God yoursquore with Benjaminrsquosrsquo And we had just recently opened our shop and we got to talking and had a meeting and just picked up from there and [Benjaminrsquos staff have] been our seamstresses since then over a year ago Victoria is an incredible seamstressrdquo

Speaking of Victoria thats her by the way in the photo at left along with Alycin and Patti and the beautiful bride who also graces our cover Learn more about Victoria and Benjamins in Part 3 below

Wonderland Bridal Couture3400 NW 62nd AveMargate FL 33063

954) 973-8695wonderlandbridalcomhomehtml

Benjamins Fine Alterations amp Tailoring2609 East Atlantic BoulevardPompano Beach FL33062

954-943-5878benjaminsalterationscom

Wedded Bliss Part 3Alert readers will recognize Benjamins Fine Alterations and Tailoring from other pages of this publication Its likely however that unless youre already patronized Benjamins (and if you havent well whyever not) you wont recognize Victoria pictured below along with the amazing team of tailors and seamstresses in this beautifully decorated shop As humble as she is talented Victoria and the team are in a word magicians

Really We may be biased having had an unfortunate episode involving a seam ripper many years ago in junior high sewing class but we all have our unique talents Every member of the staff at Benjamins is an

expert in making your clothes look their very best And of course when your clothes look their best well so do you

So drop off those pants youve been meaning to hem that jacket that needs a mite of a tuck that gorgeous blouse with the sleeves that are just a little too long - you wont regret it

And if you are one of the rare individuals whose clothes all fit perfectly Benjamins rents mens formal wear too (see the coupon on page 9)

Why go anywhere else

Photos this and facing page Paul McDermott Photography

INSTRUCTIONS

bull Mix everything adding flour until the mix is firm but not sticky (not too dry)

bull Roll the dough into small balls (about an inch across)bull Place on ungreased cookie sheet and flatten very slightlybull Bake at 350 degrees for 20-25 minutesbull While still warm sift the powdered sugar onto the cookies

INGREDIENTS

bull 1 pound sweet butter softenedbull 6 tablespoons powdered sugar (reserve for after baking)bull Flour to appropriate texturebull Vanilla to taste

Photo copy FomaA Adobe Stock

YUM

chef at home jeff eatsyour diningIn honor of this months theme allow us a bit of poetic license (which sounds so much nicer than bait and switch) Growing up in a Greek household everyone looked forward to these kourabiedes (also known as kourambiethes as well as variety of other spellings Greeks can agree on little spelling included) It was not until well after we left home that we realized how many people identified these as Mexican Wedding cookies And while every Greek will swear that the Greeks invented these there are so many near-identical versions of this cookie around the world that its difficult to tell where they originated

The recipe below is from my beloved late grandmother or Yiayia as we say in Greek It is predictably vague but these are easy to get right Enjoy

Mexican Wedding Cookies

20 Pompano Today May 2016

Pompano Today May 2016 21

your dining jeff eats

Le VinoisSimply Luscious

BY JEFF EATS

NICKrsquoS 50rsquoS DINER 1900 OKEECHOBEE BOULEVARD WEST PALM BEACH FLORIDA 33409 (561) 471-3155

A LITTLE ABOUT JEFF ldquoMy name is Jeff I was born (1949) and bred in Brooklyn New York Since 1991 I have lived full-time in South Florida and have eaten in so many restaurants (down here) that I now consider myself to be a FOOD EXPERT To give you some idea as to how many South Florida restaurants Irsquove been to as of December 31 2014 441 Italian joints alone have had the pleasure of ringing up my American Express card

Just so you know I donrsquot go for the fancy sit-down joints that want you to wear pants and a jacket but rather places where a pair of shorts an old tee shirt and a pair of sneakers is considered formal-wear I donrsquot know one sauce from another I also donrsquot know or really care how ldquodishesrdquo are prepared What I do know is when something tastes delicious and I canrsquot get enough of itrdquo To read more of Jeff rsquos picks visit jeffeatscom

Got an absolutely terrific French bakery for you guys Le Vinois Bakery in Fort Lauderdale The joint has the full-boat of breakfast items breads pastries cakes soups quiches salads sandwiches cookies coffees Order at the counter- handful of tables if you want to eat there

Jeff Eats and Mrs Jeff Eats recently did an eat-in lunchand takeout order and like I said a few seconds ago Le Vinoisrsquo stuff is absolute dynamite

Now letrsquos be adults here and let bygones be bygones- you do remember Freedom Fries sure you do With that in mind Jeff Eats absolutely loved Le Vinois Bakery and Irsquom kinda thinking that you should definitely give it a shot

Clockwise from top left copy Friedberg Adobe Stock copy Chuck Place Adobe Stock copy gkrphoto Adobe Stock copy geshas Adobe Stock

Clockwise from top Enjoy croissants a slice of lemon tart great sandwiches and delicious quiche among the many other delights at Le Vinois

Le Vinois Bakery

6322 N Powerline RoadFt Lauderdale Florida 33309

Hours of operationMonday to Friday7am to 4pm

Phone 954 771 9788

Email modinafrancisyahoocom

levinoisbakerycom

22 Pompano Today May 2016

Whether yoursquore planning a close intimate gathering or a large affair the Sample-McDougald House at Centennial Park (450 NE 10th Street Pompano Beach) sets the scene for memories that will last a lifetime The recently completed $25 million restoration of the house and grounds provides you and your guests with a memorable setting The historic house surrounded by native trees and vegetation is a beautiful background for your photos Renting the Sample-McDougald House can give you and your guests exclusive use of the house and grounds throughout your affair (subject to use guidelines) Visit wwwSampleMcDougaldHousecom to learn more about the house or call 954 691-5686 or 954 214-4759 for more details

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24 Pompano Today May 2016

AROUND TOWN

a look back charlottes web

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Members of the Sample family gather together ca 1920 Albert Neal Sample who had the house now known as the Sample-McDougald House constructed in 1916 is standing in the second row third from the viewers right The man kneeling in the first row is Neals younger brother John who prior to 1910 was the first member of the Sample family to settle in the Pompano area The house that Neal Sample built turns 100 this year

The non-profit Sample-McDougald House Preservation Society has a number of activities and events planned to commemorate the historic houses 100th birthday For information visit SampleMcDougaldHousecom or call 754-307-5446

Pompano Today May 2016 25

What the hell do I know about wedded bliss I am a long-term and certified member of the ldquohappily single never been marriedrdquo club Relationships take work people My comfort level of commitment is agreeing to feed walk and nurture the fluffy poodle I brought home from the shelter 5 years ago Beyond thathellipIrsquom selfish And letrsquos face it no onersquos ever gotten into an argument with a dog over a miscommunication Theyrsquore perfect in that respect

But weddings are wonderful events Friends and family gathering together for a festive happy occasion weddings almost always guarantee a good time The happy couple gazing into each otherrsquos eyes while reciting wedding vows Uncle Jim having a few too many at the open bar and trying out his salsa moves on the dance floor Ah the memories we can reminisce about for years to come And the expectation is that the new union will last forever

But how does that same couple reach their 50th year wedding anniversary 50 years of wedded bliss now thatrsquos an accomplishment Since I have already mentioned that I am not exactly a go-to advisor on the subject I did what I always do Letrsquos see what the internet says It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was ldquodonrsquot be selfish and always put your partner firstrdquo Hmmm

ldquoMake it quickrdquo This tip was found when referencing the science of being happily married While it doesnrsquot reference the actual marriage itself in summary I interpreted it to read if someone annoys you now they will most inevitably annoy you much more in the future So maybe not marrying material to begin with Interestingly enough I have this one covered with my three date rule What is the three date rule you ask If there is nothing you find annoying about an individual within the first three dateshellipgreen light means go there may be a future In my case this is a bit of a challenge to achieve

And then Oprahrsquos people had to weigh in on the subject I feel compelled to share a link to a great joke I found on Oprahcom during the search It involves a couple celebrating their 50th anniversary and a mule but no worries Itrsquos a completely clean joke You can see the full joke here oprahcomrelationshipsHappy-Marriage-Tips-Love-Advice

your city charlottes web

Wedded bliss the flip side

BY CHARLOTTE SUNDQUIST

It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was

dont be selfish and always put your partner first Hmmm

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Are you back Good Am I wrong in assuming this has some ties to the three date rule

I donrsquot know I certainly havenrsquot got all the answers But Irsquove just confirmed that single is a perfectly acceptable status for me And you single people that are tired of hearing ldquoWhen are you going to settle down and get marriedrdquo Donrsquot cavehellipdo what makes you happy There is not one version of the perfect relationship ideal If itrsquos a good fit for you so be it Wersquore all different after all

And to all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work Time to go walk the dog

To all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work

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Blissful BusinessCan we be blissful in life Yes Can we be blissfully in love Yes Can we be blissful in business That depends on what your definition of a ldquoblissfulrdquo business is Is it working Monday through Thursday Is it dress down days Is it bringing in a new client or two each month Your bliss depends on what your definition is and what that looks like for your business model Letrsquos talk about a few ways you can be ldquoblissfulrdquo in business

Your Company Culture

What is the tone or perception of your company Are you rigid conservative and safe Or are you creative thought provoking and innovative You have the opportunity to transform your company culture a culture that attracts customers employees and partners Think about Google they have created a co-working collaborative happy environment at work for their employees Google has determined that their definition of ldquoblissfulrdquo is casual dress napping pods libraries and bring your dog to work days Think about what your culture is and try to create an atmosphere that people can enjoy

Better Matters

How can you perform tasks and projects ldquobetterrdquo to make it more manageable for your staff As leaders when we put our employees first the rewards are priceless What are you implementing internally to ldquobetterrdquo your employees to meet their sales goals client leads or individual quotas If you raise your standards the company will follow Being better should be the norm Better business creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo business

The Next Level

What is your definition of the reaching the next level Will reaching that level create a ldquoblissfulrdquo business Maybe yes or maybe no The next level for my business would be to add more employees and another office which would create bliss for me I would be free to do more networking and outside activities Determine and define what the ldquonext levelrdquo is for your company and see if it makes sense and creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo work environment for everyone involved

Itrsquos important to take a step back every now and then to remember why being an entrepreneur makes you happy

Determine your personal definition of a blissful business

BY TEANA MCDONALD

26 Pompano Today May 2016

working it special feature

your business special feature

Pompano Today May 2016 27

Kim Briesemeister greets us at the entrance to RMArsquos new digs a suite of comfortable welcoming offices right on Atlantic Boulevard As usual she is polished professional and enthusiastic about all of the great things happening in our city

ldquoWhat RMA brings is the technical expertise the realities of how to achieve the market visionhellipthe end result is creating a quality place that people want to live in and are proud to call home a place where businesses want to be and the city gets a certain great viberdquo Kim notes You can see this ldquoviberdquo in her eyes ndash and you know that Kim can see what the future looks like here in Pompano Beach and at that moment in time we can see it with her

What is ldquoitrdquo exactly ldquoItrdquo is what great places are made of Art Culture Safety Walkability Excitement The vision that Kim and her partner Chris Brown as well as all of the bright creative energetic staff we see is breathtaking And that feeling of hometown comfort that we all get when we return here whether after a trip to the next town over or a trip around the world is the wellspring from which all of the plans for our future originate Itrsquos still Pompano Beach but itrsquos far far better

As the publishers of this magazine for the past six years we have firsthand knowledge of all of the great people who live here and

the great things that attract more like-minded residents and visitors An airport A harbor The Intracoastal The lighthouse Thriving businesses A small-town feeling that is ever harder to maintain

Without a cohesive vision itrsquos likely that some if not all of these could be lost To paraphrase Benjamin Franklin ldquoFailing to plan is planning to failrdquo and there is no shortage of planning for this bright future going on at RMA

Speaking of that planning at that point Kim turns our attention to the consideration of an ldquoinnovation districtrdquo and this is where her enthusiasm is if possible even more palpable We are treated to a breathtaking visual tour of what is possible in such a district and oh my We can hardly contain ourselves What we ask is RMArsquos role in this endeavor ldquoWe are able to help the community go through the redevelopment processrdquo Kim responds adding that ldquo[the goal is that] in the end everyone says lsquoThis is the most amazing place to live This is where I want to bersquordquo

Yes Thatrsquos what we all want A place that wersquore even more proud to call home Proud of the looks on the faces of others when we tell them ldquoYes I live in Pompano Beachrdquo proud that we raised our children in a place where after theyrsquore grown they choose to return and put down roots of their own right here where they belong This is the place that we will create that will provide a solid foundation on which our city will continue to build on and thrive

As we prepare to depart earnest young professionals come bounding enthusiastically through the door (ok they werenrsquot really bounding ndash they are professionals ndash but they sure gave the impression of bounding)

ldquoAhhhrdquo we think to ourselves imagining an exchange with them ldquoDo you guys happen to live in Pompano Beach No Thatrsquos too badrdquo we say unable to help feeling just a tad smug ldquoItrsquos a great place to live work and playrdquo

Falling in love with the future of Pompano Beach

For the past 50 years the landscape of innovation has been dominated by places like Silicon Valleymdashsuburban corridors of spatially isolated corporate campuses accessible only by car with little emphasis on the quality of life or on integrating work housing and recreation

A new complementary urban model is now emerging giving rise to what we and others are calling ldquoinnovation districtsrdquo These districts by our definition are geographic areas where leading-edge anchor institutions and companies cluster and connect with start-ups business incubators and accelerators1 They are also physically compact transit-accessible and technically-wired and offer mixed-use housing office and retail

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts

LOOKING AHEAD TO AN EVEN BRIGHTER FUTUREFrom top left

bull Creating a Downtown Innovation District means incorporating all of the pieces of a successful plan

bull a sterling example of one such district

bull synergy in actionbull specific steps

to harness our unique strengths

bull targeted industriesbull another sterling

example this time of a complete street

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts What They Are

Economic Assets

Networking Assets

Physical Assets

InnovationEcosystemA synergistic relationship between people firms and place that facilitates idea generation and acceleratescommercialization

Target Industries

International Trade and Logistics

Marine Industry

Life Sciences and Biotechnology

Creative Design

Digital Media and Technology

Class A Office

Tourism

Advanced Materials and High-Tech Manufacturing

Redevelopment of Commercial and Residential

Alternatives Energy and Renewable Resources

AviationAerospace

Global Business Services

Global Media and Production

Headquarters and Management Operations

Human Resources and Higher Education

How to harness our ldquoDowntown Innovation Districtrdquo

1 Build a collaborative leadership network

2 Set a vision for growth to leverage our unique strengths

distinct economic clusters leading local and regional institutions and companies physical location and design advantages and other cultural attributes

3 Pursue talent and technology

4 Promote inclusive growthEquip workers with the skills they need to participate in the innovation economy or other secondary and tertiary jobs generated by innovative growth

5 Enhance access to capital

Cultural ArtsTourism

Industrial

Multi Purpose

DowntownInnovation

District

Target Industries

Education

Housing

Downtown Innovation

District

28 Pompano Today May 2016

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Volleyball with a cause Mark your calendars for the 31st Annual Volleyball Challenge on June 11th-12th 2016 at the Wyndham Sea Gardens (615 N Ocean Blvd Pompano Beach FL) Proceeds to benefit United Cerebral Palsy of South Florida Learn more at ucpsouthfloridaorg

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Pompano Today May 2016 29

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30 Pompano Today May 2016

VROOM

all things automotiveyour rideThis monthrsquos theme is wedded bliss I started checking on an exact meaning for this title This is what was written in the English Dictionary ldquothe happiness of being marriedrdquo As I reflect back and think about life altogether whether marriage engagement purchase of a product or dealing with family and friendshellip

There are many factors in life that can afford you wedded bliss or the joy serenity and comfort of having the right lover husband or wife the right house or car the right job or titlehellip Now letrsquos admit to the fact that we all go though the ups and downs and have to face many situationshellip This is part of being human

Just imagine not having a significant other to share the joy or sadness of an event or a shoulder to cry onhellip Just imagine not having a cell phone to communicate with your loved ones or a car to get you from point A to point B

Just like a marriage you start by meeting a prospective mate lover or significant other You then starting dating and checking on the possibility of a good fit

If that is the case you start focusing on the possibility of a future together and if the positive traits in that individual outweigh the negative and if you canrsquot imagine living without himher then the marriage is to be considered

The same thing goes for the perfect car for you You have specific unique preferences based on your personality and the purpose of the car purchase

Achieving wedded bliss with your vehicle choice

The right car that will suit your needs for years to come exists It just takes a little research planning budgeting and common sense We all dream of the luxury car that we many not be able to afford but till the time comes to make our dream car a reality we will need to settle for what is achievable practical fits our need and makes us proud of the choice we made Here are some practical questions to answer would you like to get a sporty car a regular 4 door sedan a van an SUV or a truck

Would you like a practical car you may drive in city highway or would you like to go off-roading on the weekends Would you need this vehicle to tow your boat to tow your camping trip supplies or would you like to have an elegant car to show off to your friends Now we have to consider the budget and whether we want to purchase a domestic or foreign vehicle the maintenance cost the fuel efficiency and the overall look and feel of the car

We have noticed that cars reflect their ownerrsquos personality so if you are someone who is sporty adventurous have a young spirit and are financially secure then a Bugatti Veyron Porsche 911 Ford Mustang McClaren MP4- 12C Lamborghini Egoista Limited edition Mercedes AMG SL SLK Roadster or E Class Cabriolet Convertible or the Chevy Camaro come to mind Pictured on page 31 is the 2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue by the way

If you are someone who is practical enjoy trips to the mountains or the beach work full time and look for a dependable and comfortable car then check out the Cadillac CTS (pictured above) XTS or DTS Super Subaru Impreza Lexus CT 200h Sport IS 250 or ES 350 Mercedes CS or E Class Chevy Equinox Chevy Tahoe and Toyota Prius V

Cadillac CTS photo copy General Motors

Pompano Today May 2016 31

If you are the family manwoman and are seeking safety comfortable seating and an affordable vehicle with low maintenance we noticed that most of the inquiries are SUV or Van related such as the Mercedes GLA SUB GLE SUV or GLS SUV Audi Q5 Audi Allroad Toyota Sienna Ford Fex Ford Transit Connect Cadillac Escalade Cadillac SRX and letrsquos not forget the Chevy Suburban

Now if you are the hunter or you enjoy off roading every now and then the vehicles we seesell and repair most are the Ford F150 Ford Super Duty Mercedes G Class Toyota TacomaTundra Range Rover Jeep Wrangler and the Chevy Silverado

What about the green energy conscious We have had inquiries about the Toyota Prius and the Rav 4 Hybrid Audi A3 E-tron Cadillac ELR or the Chevy Spark EV Now if you are in the market for a nice ride then you need to test drive the Cadillac CT6 Plug-in Hybrid or the BMW I8 and tell me if you enjoyed the drive

Yes even car owners and their vehicles can talk about wedded bliss So if you have the

perfect car that fits your image your lifestyle your personality then congratulations because you are lucky to get the perfect car In the meantime if you are looking for a vehicle and have questions or concerns feel free to contact us and we will be glad to assist you BY JAY GHANEM

2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue copy The Ford Motor Company 2016 All Rights Reserved

HOLLYWOOD CORNER

news from the west coast

32 Pompano Today May 2016

stars in your eyesBenjamin A Onyango on keeping the faith

and making people happyWhen did you know without any doubt that you wanted to act

Ive always acted in church youth plays that I wrote myself when I was a teenager in Nairobi Kenya In 1987 I came to the United States and while attending California State University Stanislaus in Turlock California formed a traditional dance group called Upendo Singers and Cultural Dancers We wrote plays and songs and performed them in cultural festivals universities and churches After graduating in 1992 I knew I wanted to act so I struck the tent and moved to Hollywood where I joined a funk rock band called PFO and also acted as a background performer in TV and feature films What inspires you to act

I am naturally a happy person and I love it when people are happy So I cant help it but crack jokes and poke fun at myself to make people around me laugh I am inspired by other people Their presence makes me want to do stuff talk dance sing shout etc When did you realize you had reached your goals as an actor

I do not think I have reached my goal as an actor yet To me acting is an evolving thing You get to a certain level and then you strive to get better than the level you currently are on Acting has many facets and therefore many challenges There is no one way to approach acting I therefore believe that I am still reaching for that goal and I must admit that the experience indeed is the best teacher because you indeed get better at it the more you keep doing it

What was your favorite role to date and why

My favorite role to date is the movie I am currently filming called Beautifully Broken The reason its my first role as a lead actor in a feature film and best of all I am playing the role of a real person who survived the Rwanda genocide that the story is about I played a lead role before in a short film called Kwame also based on a true story and was voted best actor at the 2009 Mexico International Film Festival Beautifully Broken is a story that connects very strongly with the human spirit I can almost guarantee that there will not be a

single dry eye in the theater when its screened Its a beautifully written story of hardship resilience survival and hope

What do you enjoy most about your career

What I enjoy most about my career is the ability to travel and see different people in different parts of the world I am a people person and nothing

makes me happier than meeting and making new friends

Can we expect a book from you

Thats funny you mentioned that I write lots of movie scripts and TV show scripts and I have always thought of writing a book So on my down days on the set of Beautifully Broken I started a book Ive been toying with in my head for a while The title of the book is God Moves When We Stop Helping Him Its more of a booklet than a book Its a book about encouragement

What is the best way for your fans to know what yoursquore working on FacebookTwitter Do you post for your own sites or do you have your assistants do the posts

I hope I do have fans LOL They can find out about what I am doing or working on my Facebook page facebookcomEMEBAND or Facebook fan page facebookcomBenjiBendrix Twitter twittercombochieng Instagram instagramcombenjibendrix and imdb imdbcomnamenm1335173ref_=nv_sr I also have a website benjibendrixcom that I use

Tell us something new something bold that yoursquove never told any other magazinehellipnews tip )

Recently I was fortunate to have my TV webseries Dysfunctionally Organized pitched to a major network and they agreed to have us do a spin-off of the show So we have started the writing process Its a major achievement for my team and myself since we have been working on the show for a long time Its not easy to get an audience with a content procurement person on a major network so we feel very fortunate I cant mention the network because of confidentiality reasons

Photo of Benjamin Ochieng aka Benji Bendrix (friend of Jimi Hendrix) copy Flygirl PhotographyLearn more about Benjamin atproimdbcomnamenm1335173afro-mericarecordscommindtricksmoviecom

BY MISTY SCHWARTZ

word scrambleTHE LAST WORD

a workout for your mind

Wedded bliss All of the words in this months Scramble are related to marriage and weddings Good luck Look for the answers online beginning May 15 at pompanotodaycom

Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answerodeutx gnir oeemcryn lsuipnatgnwo iaoynmtmr rogom slrofweermdiadbis eusenv shrue ovwsnwiddge rrdemia erdib psoesuerdbhteot rceepnoit errceat eiervsc

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jamesstaffordname(561) 201-1640

Pompano Today May 2016 7

Happenings

Another action-packed month awaits

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This month starts off with a shootout - of the saltwater kind that is - and ends with a lovely if more sedate reminder of those whove paid the ultimate price for our freedom For more local events see our up-to-the-minute calendar at pompanotodaycomevents Enjoy

Spring tournament fishing in South Florida kicks off with The MercurySeaVee Pompano Beach Saltwater Shootout The Saltwater Shootout is the first leg in South Floridas largest tournament trail - The Pompano Beach Saltwater Circuit Teams travel from near and far to enjoy the festivities and take a chance at over $275000 in cash and prizes

By popular demand the Saltwater Shootout has become a sanctioned event in Division 10 of the Southern Kingfish Association Target species in the Shootout are dolphin wahoo kingfish tuna and cobia The Saltwater Shootout offers something for the competitive and the casual fisherman alike Reasonable entry fees great cash prizes top notch hospitality and fun activities for anglers of all ages keep the teams coming back year after year For a complete schedule of events visit bluewatermovementscomsaltwater_shootout_schedule_of_events

Be sure to remember Mom on this special day Brunches of course abound Personally we highly recommend some quality time at the beach any one of our fabulous parks or perhaps a nature walk at Fern Forest

On Saturday May 14 2016 from 5 to 10 pm the Sample-McDougald House Preservation Society will host a Centennial Celebration on the grounds of the 100 year old house Once a pineapple farm and home to two significant Pompano families the house today serves as a reminder of this arearsquos pioneer

spirit and agricultural past Through programs and public tours the restored house is moving into its second century as a community

The event will feature entertainment displays and a lavish bar-be-que cooked on the grounds by Porky amp Beth The evening will feature a silent auction of fine art as well as a live auction by Auctioneer and Mayor Lamar Fisher Donrsquot miss this unique opportunity to win a ride for two on the Goodyear Blimp or a long weekend at A Tranquil Landing in the Village of Hopetown on Elbow Cay Abaco Bahamas Tickets are $100 and may be purchased in advance by calling the SMH office at 754-307-5446 or online at samplemcdougaldcom

The celebration continues on Sunday May 15 2016 from 10 am to 4 pm with Family Day Bring the kids and celebrate our farming heritage with displays of antique cars and tractors displays and demonstration of heritage crafts including quilting and blacksmithing hands-on activities petting zoo pony rides and more No reservation required Tickets are $10 With children 12 and under FREE For more information contact Melissa May 754-307-5446

The City of Pompano Beach holds two beautiful and moving ceremonies on this day While details were not available at press time be sure to visit the Citys Events page at pompanobeachflg o v i n d e x p h p events closer to Memorial Day We never miss these they are fitting tributes to the fallen and a great way to start this day with your kids as a stirring reminder of the meaning of Memorial Day

Memorial Day RemembrancesMothers DayMay 8

Saltwater ShootoutMay 5 7 8

The Sample McDougald House Centennial May 14 and 15

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Pompano Today May 2016 9

THE SCENE

Getting married on Pompano BeachWedding Bells

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PRESENTATION

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Weddings of course are so symbolic of new beginnings and such joyous events One of our favorite moments is when we happen to be somewhere along or on the beach and just happen upon a beach wedding What lovely occasions these are Our favorite moment however may have occurred a few weeks ago when we were lucky enough to spot a festive golf cart driven by a bride in full wedding attire accompanied by her attendants decked out in beautiful turquoise dresses Oh to have had a camera

Interested in a wedding on Pompano Beach Heres the info from our citys website For those planning a destination wedding Pompano Beach is perfect be it

a romantic beach wedding at one of the popular beach hotels a private cruise on the intracoastal or reception at a popular restaurant overlooking the golf course or the historic and very traditional Sample-McDougald House The weather is almost always accommodating Beach permits are needed and can be purchased at the Emma Lou Olson Civic Center (H-6) 1801 NE 6th Street Pompano Beach Marriage licenses must be purchased from the Broward County Clerk of Courts Info browardclerkorg or 9548316565 Learn more at pompanobeachflgovindexphppagestourist_infotourist_info

Photo of Keli and James copy Paul McDermott Photography PaulMcDermottcom

10 Pompano Today May 2016

EXPLORE

Real FloridaKissimmee Prairie Preserve State Park

On the prairietext and photos by Jim Stafford

At 54000 acres Kissimmee Prairie Preserve State Park is home to the largest remaining dry prairie in Florida Located north of Okeechobee the park is home to both endangered plants and animals Visitors will experience grasslands reminiscent of the Great Plains The park offers excellent birding and is also home to endangered species like the Crested Caracara and Burrowing Owl The Park offers 100 miles of dirt roads easy to walk and handicap friendly They give hikers bicyclists and equestrians excellent opportunities to explore the preserve November through March ranger-led prairie buggy tours allow visitors to see remote areas of the preserve Kissimmee Prairiersquos remoteness makes it one of Floridarsquos premier locations for stargazing For overnight stays the Preserve has two full-facility campground loops family and an equestrian campground with paddocks

AAn important item to note while planning your visit according to the Florida State Parks website ldquoSpring means prescribed fire at Kissimmee Prairie If you see smoke here at the prairie on your next trip there is a good chance it is our staff conducting a prescribed burn at naturersquos preferred time of year Florida Dry Prairie is accustomed to burning every 1-2 years and many of our plants and animals such as the Florida Grasshopper Sparrow need frequent fire to survive Our staff works hard to safely conduct prescribed fires on one third to one half of the preserve annually Please stop by our office for more information regarding fire management at the preserve wersquod be happy to talk to you about itrdquo To learn more about this program visit floridastateparksorgcontentspring-means-smoke-over-prairie

To learn more about Kissimmee Prairie Preserve State Park visit floridastateparksorgparkKissimmee-Prairie

Pompano Today May 2016 11

We are at the top of the wedding season so I would like to offer a quick refresher on wedding dress code etiquette You receive a wedding invitation the time and the location are specified but the big thing that is left up to you is what to wear to a wedding reception There are

some general guidelines to follow such as not wearing white not wearing clothing that is overly revealing and not looking wrinkled or unkempt Even with these guidelines deciding what

to wear can still be extremely difficult These tips will reduce some of the difficulty and give you some ideas for picking the perfect outfit

When deciding on what you wear to a wedding reception make sure you know the venue for the wedding and the time of day For example a beach wedding during the day calls for a more casual look than a church wedding Keep in mind that appropriateness is necessary for all wedding receptions irrespective of the time or the place

12 Pompano Today May 2016

your lifestyle fashion forward

Proper attire requiredA guide for wedding guests

From top copy nicoletaionescuFotoliacom copy DURIS Guillaume Fotoliacom copy ysbrandcosijn Fotoliacom copy pio3 Fotoliacom

Suggestions for a Daytime Wedding

For Herbull Floral dressesbull Winter weddings Sweater and skirt

combinationsbull Summer weddings Light colored suitsbull Footwear sling-backs sandals or high

heelsbull Hats that match the rest of your outfit

For Himbull For a formal occasion wear a dark suitbull Spring or summer weddings A

seersucker or light-colored linen suitbull Winter weddings a wool suit or a

sweater underneath a smart blazer with a tie

bull A blazer with a buttoned down shirt trousers and a tie

Suggestions for a ldquoCasualrdquo Wedding

When the dress code calls for ldquoCasualrdquo wear it usually means that there is no dress code but you should still look nice and avoid jeans tank tops and shorts For a wedding ldquocasualrdquo means ldquobusiness casualrdquo

For Herbull A beautiful blouse matched with a pretty

skirt or pantsbull A summer sundress with natural makeup

amp hair

For Himbull A buttoned down or polo shirt paired with

dress pants

Suggestions for a ldquoBeach Formalrdquo Wedding

Beach Formal suggests that you should wear something fashionable but suitable for the beach

For HerA tea length or knee length formal summer sundress with flat sandals natural hair and makeup

For Himbull A summer suit matched with a linen

shirt bull Khakis or linen trousers and sandals A

tie is not required

Suggestions for an Evening Wedding

For Herbull A gown or a fancy dressbull A cocktail dress that is not overly sexy

or provocative (black is fine for this occasion)

bull A sophisticated dark color cocktail suit bull Avoid sequins sparkles and beads

unless the wedding invitation specifies ldquoblack tierdquo

For Himbull Dark smart suits bull A tuxedo for an after 6pm formal

ceremonybull For semi-formalcasual ceremonies a

blazer and slacks matched with a tie

If you stick to the guidelines above you will be all set Itrsquos all about finding a balance between being yourself and looking and feeling confident while not offending others There are lots of opportunities to wear flip-flops and cutoffs - a wedding is not one of them

BY ELAINE SIMMONS

daytime for her

evening for her

daytime for him

evening for him

Pompano Today May 2016 13

your lifestyle fashion the goods

With this ring

When approaching wedding planning and the selection of players let common sense reign The ring bearer tradition originated in ancient Egypt an elaborately decorated pillow was often used to display the jewelry during a wedding Exchanging rings became the common outward sign of betrothal and the two traditions merged which put the pillow front and center as the main apparatus for the carrying of rings at a wedding ceremony hence the need for someone to carry the pillow

Asking a young family member or child of a close friend to take on this position in your ceremony should be thought through with care and consideration While it is a wonderful way to honor and involve children in your wedding you must contemplate a few factors first

Age the age of a ring bearer is customarily in the range of 3-7 years old Younger and you are asking for trouble There is really no controlling children in this sort of setting in the first place ndash but this particular job is too much for a very small child just learning to walk I argue the sweet spot is between 4 and 5 years old However it is likely you know the child so if you think they have the maturity to handle the honor then by all means ask On the other end of the spectrum anything older than 7 or 8 begins to look odd Why not ask those young men to take on another role

Your help if you have a ring bearer then you have a flower girl and like the old Hollywood adage goes itrsquos tough to work with children and animals Make sure you have someone appointed to assist with your young charges this person must keep the two players together until they are ready to go down the aisle remind them of what theyrsquore supposed to do and where to land at the end It goes without saying that the ring bearer should be included in the rehearsal this will assuage stage fright on the big day and should eliminate any fear of what to do on his part

BY BENJAMINS FINE ALTERATIONS AND TAILORING Benjamins blends long-forgotten high standards in sewing with outstanding personal service Drop by 2609 East Atlantic Boulevard call them at 954-943-5878 or visit them online at benjaminsalterationscom

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Clothing the ring bearer is traditionally dressed in some miniature version of the groomsmens attire ndash like a little man While this is precious as can be make sure the parents have access to the outfit far enough ahead of time that they can help their son try it on so they can become comfortable in their big day attire The last thing you want is a fit pitching because the tie is lsquochokingrsquo the ring bearer

Tradition does not have to dictate every aspect of your ceremony You have creative license ndash this is your day Just make sure you approach the election of your underage wedding party members with your eyes as well as your heart wide open

14 Pompano Today May 2016

your lifestyle marital minutes

You are a ldquowerdquo not a ldquomerdquo

You cannot make decisions independently anymore Your life decisions can and will impact your spouse Repeat after us Your life decisions can and will impact your spouse If you do not learn this fairly quickly it could impact the stability of your relationship

Just because he is your husband does not mean he is perfect

Remember that both you and your husband will make mistakes You are both human beings and are fallible You need to learn to forgive and also you need to learn from your mistakes

Have fun

Although I love my children I did not take advantage of the time we had together as newlyweds and prior to having kids When a new addition enters your family it is more challenging to do things that you used to like to do together

About the StaffordsDr Gina and Jim Stafford have been married for over 15 years Throughout that time they had four beautiful children ndash all boys Over the course of their relationship they have faced ups and downs especially since three out of the four sons were diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder Despite the obstacles that came their way their marriage has grown stronger People who know the couple always ask how they do it The answer is that with hard work and faith anything is possible The couple decided to share their story their strategies and their lives with other couples to assist them in building a relationship just as strong as their own Each month we bring you their words of wisdom devoted to helping couples explore the many issues facing marriages today Read more about this engaging couple at maritalminutescom

BY DR GINA STAFFORD

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3 pieces of advice before you say I do

Pompano Today May 2016 15

your lifestyle your kids

Planning a wedding dollars and sense

BY MICHAEL DIPIERRO

Michael DiPierro has a decade of experience in education He currently holds a Masters degree in Educational Leadership and has 11 years of teaching experience in Broward County Public Schools

For students who entered 9th grade in the 2013-14 academic year a requirement to earn a standard high school diploma in Florida includes financial literacy instruction I think it is safe to assume that most people who have planned a wedding understand the need to be financially literate In Florida financial literacy instruction includes the knowledge understanding skills behaviors attitudes and values that will enable a student to make responsible and effective financial decisions on a daily basis

While financial literacy covers a broad range of topics in terms of planning a wedding related classroom instruction might focus on buying goods and services saving and financial investing and budgeting and debt management In 2014 the Florida State Board of Education adopted a financial-literacy strand to its Social Studies Next Generation Sunshine State Standards Nationally during the 2015 legislative session about thirty-five states and Puerto Rico considered bills related to financial literacy This is an increase from the roughly twenty-eight states and Puerto Rico that considered legislation related to financial literacy during the 2014 legislative session

Related classroom instruction might focus on buyinggoods and services

saving and financial investing and budgeting and debt

management

The Florida Department of Education approved a high school Personal Financial Literacy elective course written and submitted by the Broward County Public Schools Social Studies Office Some of the instructional practices connected to this course include providing extended learning opportunities that simulate economic scenarios and the use of real world data and evidence to answer complex high-level questions that are based on real world scenarios Although I am not endorsing any classroom projects planning a mock wedding seems like it would be a fun experience to learn about financial literacy especially since the students donrsquot really have to pay for the mock wedding

The Florida Department of Education approved a high school

Personal Financial Literacy elective course written and submitted by the

Broward County Public SchoolsSocial Studies Office

Planning a mock wedding seems like it would be

a fun experienceespecially since the students dont really

have to pay for the mock wedding

16 Pompano Today May 2016

COVER FEATURE

Ronnie and Hank Arond are a real-life fairy talethat should inspire us all

Wedded Bliss Part 1

On a clear sunny weekend morning we enter the clean bright and charming winter digs of Ronnie and Hank Arond (Of course we think that every single inch of the Ebb Tide is clean bright and charming but Ronnie and Hankrsquos quarters seem especially so)

The couple greets us with the vigor of much younger folks their energy levels are those of a much younger couple which is no surprise really given the zest for life with which theyrsquove been greeting each day together for 71 years

Yes 71 years The Aronds in fact celebrated their 72nd anniversary this March And what better place to spend it than the Ebb Tide where theyrsquove been coming each year for the past ten years

First things first however As we enter Ronnie is bustling around tidying up ldquoIrsquom putting away all the messy stuffrdquo she notes cheerfully although itrsquos clear that her standards are much higher than ours In an instant coffee tea and festive cookies are in front of us Yum

When we offer to help we are politely dismissed ldquoWersquore helpful Wersquore not helpless yetrdquo says um Honnie Really this couple speaks with one voice Sort of Throughout our interview they finish each otherrsquos sentences often or break into what can only be described as the best Burns and Allen routine ever Hank can play ndash with equal vigor ndash the comedian and the straight man of this remarkable duo (as well as the violin but more about that later) and he plays every minute and every role with a wink and a nod

Pompano Today May 2016 17

WEDDED BLISS

ldquoCollect adventures Do them

Dont ever say no to somethingrdquo

Ronnie finally sits down her hostessing duties complete Her bright blue eyes and lovely fawn colored hair make for a beautiful portrait of a life well lived her nails are polished her lipstick perfect We ask what itrsquos like to be married for 72 years ldquoNordquo Ronnie smilingly corrects us ldquoitrsquos 36 because half the time he doesnrsquot listen to merdquo

The couple met on March 4 1943 Hank lets us know that ldquoShe was on the other side of a double daterdquo At the time Hank was paired with a girl from upstate (for those who donrsquot know ldquoupstaterdquo is of course ldquoupstate New Yorkrdquo) Driving to the train station he thought to himself ldquoHow do I do thisrdquo He decided to take an interesting tactic somehow he ended up with Ronniersquos phone number in his possession And the rest as they say is history

Hank wasted no time (less than a week in fact) before taking Ronnie to a Broadway show (which they believe was ldquoShadow of a Doubtrdquo) for their first date The very next day they went on another date where Hank met Ronniersquos best friend (and passed the ldquobest friendrdquo test) For those who believe in coincidence the stars aligning divine intervention ndash call it what you will ndash two days later Ronniersquos sister was getting married and she invited Hank to be her date since her current boyfriend a Navy man was stuck in Washington DC Thus within four days Hank had met Ronniersquos entire family Two weeks after their fateful first date Hank was off to serve our country He remembers thinking ldquoIrsquom finally going to get out of Brooklynrdquo and sure enough he did ndash and got stationed in the Bronx

The proposal soon followed ldquoHe asked me to marry himrdquo Ronnie recalls ldquoand I was very young and very naiumlve and polite and I didnrsquot know how to say no So I said lsquoOK Irsquoll marry you until I find someone betterrsquordquo Exactly one year from the day they met Ronnie and Hank were wed

Ronnie begins to interject and then stops herself saying ldquoSometimes I interrupt myselfrdquo

Mind you all of the above conversation happened in probably two minutes Wow Itrsquos impossible to overstate the energy and joie de vivre that simply beams from Ronnie and Hank a beacon of love hope and happiness that is remarkable This feeling ndash that yoursquore in the presence of two incredibly special people ndash is also partly due to their strong belief in fairness justice and not least their deep commitment to faith

Interestingly the Aronds are ldquoJewish by culture and traditionrdquo Ronnie notes ldquobut not observantrdquo In fact they are now Unitarian Universalists about which they are ndash you guessed it ndash very enthusiastic They have been members of their Unitarian Universalist congregation for over two decades ldquoOur congregationrdquo they explain ldquois probably 25 Catholic 25 Jewish 25 born [in the faith] and 25 Muslim other religionshelliptheir committees are

rarr

18 Pompano Today May 2016

no different than Congressrdquo Ronnie laughs She recalls that even her parents were ldquounconcerned about religion ndash for example [they didnrsquot worry about whether I would] marry a nice Jewish boyrdquo

When not in Pompano Beach (where theyrsquove been coming for 20 years) Ronnie and Hank make their home in Bellerose Queens in the house where they raised their two children Sometimes they tell us Hank will be asked ldquoIf you could choose to have children again would yourdquo To which Hank will reply ldquoYes but not themrdquo

Hank of course is kidding as he so often is Their son is an

accomplished pediatrician who travels the world supporting nonprofit efforts Their daughter is a nurse who lives in south Florida so Ronnie and Hank get to spend a lot of time with her each winter Sadly their son lost his wife who was a Quaker Friend in Vietnam during the war three years ago to ALS Has he remarried we ask No but hersquos met a nice woman in a gospel choir Well of course he has These are resilient people who keep going through whatever life throws their way

Back to that house in Queens that they moved into 66 years ago They watched the house get built it was in one of the many new postwar developments springing up around the country to meet the needs of returning veterans and the inordinate number of new families and households springing up everywhere Every weekend during construction ldquowe drove out from the Bronxrdquo We canrsquot help but think about what an exciting and hopeful time that must have been

Ronnie and Hankrsquos son and his wife had two children their granddaughter is currently in Bogota and their grandson is at Amherst (forgive us but what she is doing in Bogota escaped us rest assured that itrsquos something selfless and fabulous Itrsquos astonishing how difficult it is to keep up with Ronnie and Hank)

Our interview with Ronnie and Hank continues at pompanotodaycom We hope that everyone reading this takes this couplersquos incredibly wise life lessons to heart and that wersquove inspired you to live every day to the fullest Ronnie and Hank are both a living example of and testament to how to make the most of every day After all theyrsquore experts ndash theyrsquove had over 70 years of practice

To all the single folks out there get out there and make every day count To all the couples getting married this season make yourselves a life that is as happy healthy and adventurous as Ronniersquos and Hankrsquos As to you two lovebirds - enjoy your summer and wersquoll see you back at the Ebb Tide next year

Patti Nachman and Alicyn Muntildeoz raise the baron bridal shops with Wonderland Bridal

Wedded Bliss Part 2Wonderland Bridalrsquos story is unique as every bridersquos wedding day Co-owners Patti Nachmann and Alicyn Muntildeoz met in their respective Mary Kay businesses and hit it off so instantly ndash and so well ndash that they became known as the ldquoMary Kay sistersrdquo Along the way Alicyn accompanied her best friend on a wedding dress shopping trip and asked

the store owner if she could set up a Mary Kay table there on the weekends The owner agreed and eventually Alicyn was working at the shop part time

She loved it so much that she became determined to open her own shop At the time Patti was still in the corporate world having spent 16 years in the field of medical billing ldquoI wentrdquo Patti recalls ldquofrom screaming at insurance companies on the phone to laughing and crying with brides as theyrsquore choosing their gownsrdquo

Patti excitedly tells us that the business is really taking off ldquoWersquove just acquired a couture line Allure and will be carrying them in the summerrdquo and that Wonderland covers all price points depending on the bridersquos needs

ldquoI feel like everything has just fallen into place with this business and wersquore very luckyrdquo she notes

We ask Patti what the one thing is shersquod like our readers to know about

Wonderland Bridal She thinks for a moment ldquoWe are not like any other bridal store and I say that because we hear that from our brides We have a lot of brides that come here after shopping around and their experiences havenrsquot always been positive Or they come here first and we encourage them to shop around We donrsquot ever pressure our brides and most of them time theyrsquoll tell us ldquoI should have picked our dress while I was herersquo Our brides are really great we have a good bond with them The [wedding dress buying] experience is a process wersquore in constant contact with them from the time they come in until the time they take the dress home

ldquoOur customer service is superb We like to hold one appointment at a time so the entire store is the bridersquos Sometimes of course we get busy [especially] on Saturdays so we have two completely separate fitting rooms

ldquo[We make sure each of our brides] feels like a princess And itrsquos hellip the most important day of their lives and this is part of the memory and wersquore just happy to be a part of itrdquo

For the curious we learned of Wonderland Bridal through Benjaminrsquos Fine Alterations amp Tailoring right here in Pompano Beach The two shops work very closely together Patti explains how these two remarkable local business found each other and yes it includes the magic of social media ldquoBenjaminrsquos

Pompano Today May 2016 19

Benjamins offers painless alterations tailoring and- yes - tuxedo rentals for the big day

and Wonderland started following each other on Instagram Wersquod like each otherrsquos photos and make a comment here and there Then I went to a networking event and one of their employees saw my name tag and grabbed me and said lsquoOh my God yoursquore with Wonderland Bridal And I looked at her nametag and said ldquoOh my God yoursquore with Benjaminrsquosrsquo And we had just recently opened our shop and we got to talking and had a meeting and just picked up from there and [Benjaminrsquos staff have] been our seamstresses since then over a year ago Victoria is an incredible seamstressrdquo

Speaking of Victoria thats her by the way in the photo at left along with Alycin and Patti and the beautiful bride who also graces our cover Learn more about Victoria and Benjamins in Part 3 below

Wonderland Bridal Couture3400 NW 62nd AveMargate FL 33063

954) 973-8695wonderlandbridalcomhomehtml

Benjamins Fine Alterations amp Tailoring2609 East Atlantic BoulevardPompano Beach FL33062

954-943-5878benjaminsalterationscom

Wedded Bliss Part 3Alert readers will recognize Benjamins Fine Alterations and Tailoring from other pages of this publication Its likely however that unless youre already patronized Benjamins (and if you havent well whyever not) you wont recognize Victoria pictured below along with the amazing team of tailors and seamstresses in this beautifully decorated shop As humble as she is talented Victoria and the team are in a word magicians

Really We may be biased having had an unfortunate episode involving a seam ripper many years ago in junior high sewing class but we all have our unique talents Every member of the staff at Benjamins is an

expert in making your clothes look their very best And of course when your clothes look their best well so do you

So drop off those pants youve been meaning to hem that jacket that needs a mite of a tuck that gorgeous blouse with the sleeves that are just a little too long - you wont regret it

And if you are one of the rare individuals whose clothes all fit perfectly Benjamins rents mens formal wear too (see the coupon on page 9)

Why go anywhere else

Photos this and facing page Paul McDermott Photography

INSTRUCTIONS

bull Mix everything adding flour until the mix is firm but not sticky (not too dry)

bull Roll the dough into small balls (about an inch across)bull Place on ungreased cookie sheet and flatten very slightlybull Bake at 350 degrees for 20-25 minutesbull While still warm sift the powdered sugar onto the cookies

INGREDIENTS

bull 1 pound sweet butter softenedbull 6 tablespoons powdered sugar (reserve for after baking)bull Flour to appropriate texturebull Vanilla to taste

Photo copy FomaA Adobe Stock

YUM

chef at home jeff eatsyour diningIn honor of this months theme allow us a bit of poetic license (which sounds so much nicer than bait and switch) Growing up in a Greek household everyone looked forward to these kourabiedes (also known as kourambiethes as well as variety of other spellings Greeks can agree on little spelling included) It was not until well after we left home that we realized how many people identified these as Mexican Wedding cookies And while every Greek will swear that the Greeks invented these there are so many near-identical versions of this cookie around the world that its difficult to tell where they originated

The recipe below is from my beloved late grandmother or Yiayia as we say in Greek It is predictably vague but these are easy to get right Enjoy

Mexican Wedding Cookies

20 Pompano Today May 2016

Pompano Today May 2016 21

your dining jeff eats

Le VinoisSimply Luscious

BY JEFF EATS

NICKrsquoS 50rsquoS DINER 1900 OKEECHOBEE BOULEVARD WEST PALM BEACH FLORIDA 33409 (561) 471-3155

A LITTLE ABOUT JEFF ldquoMy name is Jeff I was born (1949) and bred in Brooklyn New York Since 1991 I have lived full-time in South Florida and have eaten in so many restaurants (down here) that I now consider myself to be a FOOD EXPERT To give you some idea as to how many South Florida restaurants Irsquove been to as of December 31 2014 441 Italian joints alone have had the pleasure of ringing up my American Express card

Just so you know I donrsquot go for the fancy sit-down joints that want you to wear pants and a jacket but rather places where a pair of shorts an old tee shirt and a pair of sneakers is considered formal-wear I donrsquot know one sauce from another I also donrsquot know or really care how ldquodishesrdquo are prepared What I do know is when something tastes delicious and I canrsquot get enough of itrdquo To read more of Jeff rsquos picks visit jeffeatscom

Got an absolutely terrific French bakery for you guys Le Vinois Bakery in Fort Lauderdale The joint has the full-boat of breakfast items breads pastries cakes soups quiches salads sandwiches cookies coffees Order at the counter- handful of tables if you want to eat there

Jeff Eats and Mrs Jeff Eats recently did an eat-in lunchand takeout order and like I said a few seconds ago Le Vinoisrsquo stuff is absolute dynamite

Now letrsquos be adults here and let bygones be bygones- you do remember Freedom Fries sure you do With that in mind Jeff Eats absolutely loved Le Vinois Bakery and Irsquom kinda thinking that you should definitely give it a shot

Clockwise from top left copy Friedberg Adobe Stock copy Chuck Place Adobe Stock copy gkrphoto Adobe Stock copy geshas Adobe Stock

Clockwise from top Enjoy croissants a slice of lemon tart great sandwiches and delicious quiche among the many other delights at Le Vinois

Le Vinois Bakery

6322 N Powerline RoadFt Lauderdale Florida 33309

Hours of operationMonday to Friday7am to 4pm

Phone 954 771 9788

Email modinafrancisyahoocom

levinoisbakerycom

22 Pompano Today May 2016

Whether yoursquore planning a close intimate gathering or a large affair the Sample-McDougald House at Centennial Park (450 NE 10th Street Pompano Beach) sets the scene for memories that will last a lifetime The recently completed $25 million restoration of the house and grounds provides you and your guests with a memorable setting The historic house surrounded by native trees and vegetation is a beautiful background for your photos Renting the Sample-McDougald House can give you and your guests exclusive use of the house and grounds throughout your affair (subject to use guidelines) Visit wwwSampleMcDougaldHousecom to learn more about the house or call 954 691-5686 or 954 214-4759 for more details

Memories yoursquoll treasure at the Sample-McDougald House

Sitting amidst four beautiful acres the Sample-McDougald House offers one of the few

historically significant settings in the area for events of any size uniquely

suited to your special day Advertisement

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AROUND TOWN

a look back charlottes web

your city(the Sample family)

THANKS TO DAN HOBBY AND THE POMPANO BEACH HISTORICAL SOCIETY FOR THE PHOTO AND INFORMATION ABOUT OUR CITYS RICH AND VARIED HISTORY TO LEARN MORE ABOUT OUR CITYS FASCINATING PAST VISIT POMPANOHISTORYCOM

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Members of the Sample family gather together ca 1920 Albert Neal Sample who had the house now known as the Sample-McDougald House constructed in 1916 is standing in the second row third from the viewers right The man kneeling in the first row is Neals younger brother John who prior to 1910 was the first member of the Sample family to settle in the Pompano area The house that Neal Sample built turns 100 this year

The non-profit Sample-McDougald House Preservation Society has a number of activities and events planned to commemorate the historic houses 100th birthday For information visit SampleMcDougaldHousecom or call 754-307-5446

Pompano Today May 2016 25

What the hell do I know about wedded bliss I am a long-term and certified member of the ldquohappily single never been marriedrdquo club Relationships take work people My comfort level of commitment is agreeing to feed walk and nurture the fluffy poodle I brought home from the shelter 5 years ago Beyond thathellipIrsquom selfish And letrsquos face it no onersquos ever gotten into an argument with a dog over a miscommunication Theyrsquore perfect in that respect

But weddings are wonderful events Friends and family gathering together for a festive happy occasion weddings almost always guarantee a good time The happy couple gazing into each otherrsquos eyes while reciting wedding vows Uncle Jim having a few too many at the open bar and trying out his salsa moves on the dance floor Ah the memories we can reminisce about for years to come And the expectation is that the new union will last forever

But how does that same couple reach their 50th year wedding anniversary 50 years of wedded bliss now thatrsquos an accomplishment Since I have already mentioned that I am not exactly a go-to advisor on the subject I did what I always do Letrsquos see what the internet says It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was ldquodonrsquot be selfish and always put your partner firstrdquo Hmmm

ldquoMake it quickrdquo This tip was found when referencing the science of being happily married While it doesnrsquot reference the actual marriage itself in summary I interpreted it to read if someone annoys you now they will most inevitably annoy you much more in the future So maybe not marrying material to begin with Interestingly enough I have this one covered with my three date rule What is the three date rule you ask If there is nothing you find annoying about an individual within the first three dateshellipgreen light means go there may be a future In my case this is a bit of a challenge to achieve

And then Oprahrsquos people had to weigh in on the subject I feel compelled to share a link to a great joke I found on Oprahcom during the search It involves a couple celebrating their 50th anniversary and a mule but no worries Itrsquos a completely clean joke You can see the full joke here oprahcomrelationshipsHappy-Marriage-Tips-Love-Advice

your city charlottes web

Wedded bliss the flip side

BY CHARLOTTE SUNDQUIST

It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was

dont be selfish and always put your partner first Hmmm

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Are you back Good Am I wrong in assuming this has some ties to the three date rule

I donrsquot know I certainly havenrsquot got all the answers But Irsquove just confirmed that single is a perfectly acceptable status for me And you single people that are tired of hearing ldquoWhen are you going to settle down and get marriedrdquo Donrsquot cavehellipdo what makes you happy There is not one version of the perfect relationship ideal If itrsquos a good fit for you so be it Wersquore all different after all

And to all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work Time to go walk the dog

To all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work

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Blissful BusinessCan we be blissful in life Yes Can we be blissfully in love Yes Can we be blissful in business That depends on what your definition of a ldquoblissfulrdquo business is Is it working Monday through Thursday Is it dress down days Is it bringing in a new client or two each month Your bliss depends on what your definition is and what that looks like for your business model Letrsquos talk about a few ways you can be ldquoblissfulrdquo in business

Your Company Culture

What is the tone or perception of your company Are you rigid conservative and safe Or are you creative thought provoking and innovative You have the opportunity to transform your company culture a culture that attracts customers employees and partners Think about Google they have created a co-working collaborative happy environment at work for their employees Google has determined that their definition of ldquoblissfulrdquo is casual dress napping pods libraries and bring your dog to work days Think about what your culture is and try to create an atmosphere that people can enjoy

Better Matters

How can you perform tasks and projects ldquobetterrdquo to make it more manageable for your staff As leaders when we put our employees first the rewards are priceless What are you implementing internally to ldquobetterrdquo your employees to meet their sales goals client leads or individual quotas If you raise your standards the company will follow Being better should be the norm Better business creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo business

The Next Level

What is your definition of the reaching the next level Will reaching that level create a ldquoblissfulrdquo business Maybe yes or maybe no The next level for my business would be to add more employees and another office which would create bliss for me I would be free to do more networking and outside activities Determine and define what the ldquonext levelrdquo is for your company and see if it makes sense and creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo work environment for everyone involved

Itrsquos important to take a step back every now and then to remember why being an entrepreneur makes you happy

Determine your personal definition of a blissful business

BY TEANA MCDONALD

26 Pompano Today May 2016

working it special feature

your business special feature

Pompano Today May 2016 27

Kim Briesemeister greets us at the entrance to RMArsquos new digs a suite of comfortable welcoming offices right on Atlantic Boulevard As usual she is polished professional and enthusiastic about all of the great things happening in our city

ldquoWhat RMA brings is the technical expertise the realities of how to achieve the market visionhellipthe end result is creating a quality place that people want to live in and are proud to call home a place where businesses want to be and the city gets a certain great viberdquo Kim notes You can see this ldquoviberdquo in her eyes ndash and you know that Kim can see what the future looks like here in Pompano Beach and at that moment in time we can see it with her

What is ldquoitrdquo exactly ldquoItrdquo is what great places are made of Art Culture Safety Walkability Excitement The vision that Kim and her partner Chris Brown as well as all of the bright creative energetic staff we see is breathtaking And that feeling of hometown comfort that we all get when we return here whether after a trip to the next town over or a trip around the world is the wellspring from which all of the plans for our future originate Itrsquos still Pompano Beach but itrsquos far far better

As the publishers of this magazine for the past six years we have firsthand knowledge of all of the great people who live here and

the great things that attract more like-minded residents and visitors An airport A harbor The Intracoastal The lighthouse Thriving businesses A small-town feeling that is ever harder to maintain

Without a cohesive vision itrsquos likely that some if not all of these could be lost To paraphrase Benjamin Franklin ldquoFailing to plan is planning to failrdquo and there is no shortage of planning for this bright future going on at RMA

Speaking of that planning at that point Kim turns our attention to the consideration of an ldquoinnovation districtrdquo and this is where her enthusiasm is if possible even more palpable We are treated to a breathtaking visual tour of what is possible in such a district and oh my We can hardly contain ourselves What we ask is RMArsquos role in this endeavor ldquoWe are able to help the community go through the redevelopment processrdquo Kim responds adding that ldquo[the goal is that] in the end everyone says lsquoThis is the most amazing place to live This is where I want to bersquordquo

Yes Thatrsquos what we all want A place that wersquore even more proud to call home Proud of the looks on the faces of others when we tell them ldquoYes I live in Pompano Beachrdquo proud that we raised our children in a place where after theyrsquore grown they choose to return and put down roots of their own right here where they belong This is the place that we will create that will provide a solid foundation on which our city will continue to build on and thrive

As we prepare to depart earnest young professionals come bounding enthusiastically through the door (ok they werenrsquot really bounding ndash they are professionals ndash but they sure gave the impression of bounding)

ldquoAhhhrdquo we think to ourselves imagining an exchange with them ldquoDo you guys happen to live in Pompano Beach No Thatrsquos too badrdquo we say unable to help feeling just a tad smug ldquoItrsquos a great place to live work and playrdquo

Falling in love with the future of Pompano Beach

For the past 50 years the landscape of innovation has been dominated by places like Silicon Valleymdashsuburban corridors of spatially isolated corporate campuses accessible only by car with little emphasis on the quality of life or on integrating work housing and recreation

A new complementary urban model is now emerging giving rise to what we and others are calling ldquoinnovation districtsrdquo These districts by our definition are geographic areas where leading-edge anchor institutions and companies cluster and connect with start-ups business incubators and accelerators1 They are also physically compact transit-accessible and technically-wired and offer mixed-use housing office and retail

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts

LOOKING AHEAD TO AN EVEN BRIGHTER FUTUREFrom top left

bull Creating a Downtown Innovation District means incorporating all of the pieces of a successful plan

bull a sterling example of one such district

bull synergy in actionbull specific steps

to harness our unique strengths

bull targeted industriesbull another sterling

example this time of a complete street

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts What They Are

Economic Assets

Networking Assets

Physical Assets

InnovationEcosystemA synergistic relationship between people firms and place that facilitates idea generation and acceleratescommercialization

Target Industries

International Trade and Logistics

Marine Industry

Life Sciences and Biotechnology

Creative Design

Digital Media and Technology

Class A Office

Tourism

Advanced Materials and High-Tech Manufacturing

Redevelopment of Commercial and Residential

Alternatives Energy and Renewable Resources

AviationAerospace

Global Business Services

Global Media and Production

Headquarters and Management Operations

Human Resources and Higher Education

How to harness our ldquoDowntown Innovation Districtrdquo

1 Build a collaborative leadership network

2 Set a vision for growth to leverage our unique strengths

distinct economic clusters leading local and regional institutions and companies physical location and design advantages and other cultural attributes

3 Pursue talent and technology

4 Promote inclusive growthEquip workers with the skills they need to participate in the innovation economy or other secondary and tertiary jobs generated by innovative growth

5 Enhance access to capital

Cultural ArtsTourism

Industrial

Multi Purpose

DowntownInnovation

District

Target Industries

Education

Housing

Downtown Innovation

District

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30 Pompano Today May 2016

VROOM

all things automotiveyour rideThis monthrsquos theme is wedded bliss I started checking on an exact meaning for this title This is what was written in the English Dictionary ldquothe happiness of being marriedrdquo As I reflect back and think about life altogether whether marriage engagement purchase of a product or dealing with family and friendshellip

There are many factors in life that can afford you wedded bliss or the joy serenity and comfort of having the right lover husband or wife the right house or car the right job or titlehellip Now letrsquos admit to the fact that we all go though the ups and downs and have to face many situationshellip This is part of being human

Just imagine not having a significant other to share the joy or sadness of an event or a shoulder to cry onhellip Just imagine not having a cell phone to communicate with your loved ones or a car to get you from point A to point B

Just like a marriage you start by meeting a prospective mate lover or significant other You then starting dating and checking on the possibility of a good fit

If that is the case you start focusing on the possibility of a future together and if the positive traits in that individual outweigh the negative and if you canrsquot imagine living without himher then the marriage is to be considered

The same thing goes for the perfect car for you You have specific unique preferences based on your personality and the purpose of the car purchase

Achieving wedded bliss with your vehicle choice

The right car that will suit your needs for years to come exists It just takes a little research planning budgeting and common sense We all dream of the luxury car that we many not be able to afford but till the time comes to make our dream car a reality we will need to settle for what is achievable practical fits our need and makes us proud of the choice we made Here are some practical questions to answer would you like to get a sporty car a regular 4 door sedan a van an SUV or a truck

Would you like a practical car you may drive in city highway or would you like to go off-roading on the weekends Would you need this vehicle to tow your boat to tow your camping trip supplies or would you like to have an elegant car to show off to your friends Now we have to consider the budget and whether we want to purchase a domestic or foreign vehicle the maintenance cost the fuel efficiency and the overall look and feel of the car

We have noticed that cars reflect their ownerrsquos personality so if you are someone who is sporty adventurous have a young spirit and are financially secure then a Bugatti Veyron Porsche 911 Ford Mustang McClaren MP4- 12C Lamborghini Egoista Limited edition Mercedes AMG SL SLK Roadster or E Class Cabriolet Convertible or the Chevy Camaro come to mind Pictured on page 31 is the 2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue by the way

If you are someone who is practical enjoy trips to the mountains or the beach work full time and look for a dependable and comfortable car then check out the Cadillac CTS (pictured above) XTS or DTS Super Subaru Impreza Lexus CT 200h Sport IS 250 or ES 350 Mercedes CS or E Class Chevy Equinox Chevy Tahoe and Toyota Prius V

Cadillac CTS photo copy General Motors

Pompano Today May 2016 31

If you are the family manwoman and are seeking safety comfortable seating and an affordable vehicle with low maintenance we noticed that most of the inquiries are SUV or Van related such as the Mercedes GLA SUB GLE SUV or GLS SUV Audi Q5 Audi Allroad Toyota Sienna Ford Fex Ford Transit Connect Cadillac Escalade Cadillac SRX and letrsquos not forget the Chevy Suburban

Now if you are the hunter or you enjoy off roading every now and then the vehicles we seesell and repair most are the Ford F150 Ford Super Duty Mercedes G Class Toyota TacomaTundra Range Rover Jeep Wrangler and the Chevy Silverado

What about the green energy conscious We have had inquiries about the Toyota Prius and the Rav 4 Hybrid Audi A3 E-tron Cadillac ELR or the Chevy Spark EV Now if you are in the market for a nice ride then you need to test drive the Cadillac CT6 Plug-in Hybrid or the BMW I8 and tell me if you enjoyed the drive

Yes even car owners and their vehicles can talk about wedded bliss So if you have the

perfect car that fits your image your lifestyle your personality then congratulations because you are lucky to get the perfect car In the meantime if you are looking for a vehicle and have questions or concerns feel free to contact us and we will be glad to assist you BY JAY GHANEM

2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue copy The Ford Motor Company 2016 All Rights Reserved

HOLLYWOOD CORNER

news from the west coast

32 Pompano Today May 2016

stars in your eyesBenjamin A Onyango on keeping the faith

and making people happyWhen did you know without any doubt that you wanted to act

Ive always acted in church youth plays that I wrote myself when I was a teenager in Nairobi Kenya In 1987 I came to the United States and while attending California State University Stanislaus in Turlock California formed a traditional dance group called Upendo Singers and Cultural Dancers We wrote plays and songs and performed them in cultural festivals universities and churches After graduating in 1992 I knew I wanted to act so I struck the tent and moved to Hollywood where I joined a funk rock band called PFO and also acted as a background performer in TV and feature films What inspires you to act

I am naturally a happy person and I love it when people are happy So I cant help it but crack jokes and poke fun at myself to make people around me laugh I am inspired by other people Their presence makes me want to do stuff talk dance sing shout etc When did you realize you had reached your goals as an actor

I do not think I have reached my goal as an actor yet To me acting is an evolving thing You get to a certain level and then you strive to get better than the level you currently are on Acting has many facets and therefore many challenges There is no one way to approach acting I therefore believe that I am still reaching for that goal and I must admit that the experience indeed is the best teacher because you indeed get better at it the more you keep doing it

What was your favorite role to date and why

My favorite role to date is the movie I am currently filming called Beautifully Broken The reason its my first role as a lead actor in a feature film and best of all I am playing the role of a real person who survived the Rwanda genocide that the story is about I played a lead role before in a short film called Kwame also based on a true story and was voted best actor at the 2009 Mexico International Film Festival Beautifully Broken is a story that connects very strongly with the human spirit I can almost guarantee that there will not be a

single dry eye in the theater when its screened Its a beautifully written story of hardship resilience survival and hope

What do you enjoy most about your career

What I enjoy most about my career is the ability to travel and see different people in different parts of the world I am a people person and nothing

makes me happier than meeting and making new friends

Can we expect a book from you

Thats funny you mentioned that I write lots of movie scripts and TV show scripts and I have always thought of writing a book So on my down days on the set of Beautifully Broken I started a book Ive been toying with in my head for a while The title of the book is God Moves When We Stop Helping Him Its more of a booklet than a book Its a book about encouragement

What is the best way for your fans to know what yoursquore working on FacebookTwitter Do you post for your own sites or do you have your assistants do the posts

I hope I do have fans LOL They can find out about what I am doing or working on my Facebook page facebookcomEMEBAND or Facebook fan page facebookcomBenjiBendrix Twitter twittercombochieng Instagram instagramcombenjibendrix and imdb imdbcomnamenm1335173ref_=nv_sr I also have a website benjibendrixcom that I use

Tell us something new something bold that yoursquove never told any other magazinehellipnews tip )

Recently I was fortunate to have my TV webseries Dysfunctionally Organized pitched to a major network and they agreed to have us do a spin-off of the show So we have started the writing process Its a major achievement for my team and myself since we have been working on the show for a long time Its not easy to get an audience with a content procurement person on a major network so we feel very fortunate I cant mention the network because of confidentiality reasons

Photo of Benjamin Ochieng aka Benji Bendrix (friend of Jimi Hendrix) copy Flygirl PhotographyLearn more about Benjamin atproimdbcomnamenm1335173afro-mericarecordscommindtricksmoviecom

BY MISTY SCHWARTZ

word scrambleTHE LAST WORD

a workout for your mind

Wedded bliss All of the words in this months Scramble are related to marriage and weddings Good luck Look for the answers online beginning May 15 at pompanotodaycom

Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answerodeutx gnir oeemcryn lsuipnatgnwo iaoynmtmr rogom slrofweermdiadbis eusenv shrue ovwsnwiddge rrdemia erdib psoesuerdbhteot rceepnoit errceat eiervsc

James Stafford PhotographyfacebookcomJamesStaffordPhotography

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Pompano Today May 2016 9

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Weddings of course are so symbolic of new beginnings and such joyous events One of our favorite moments is when we happen to be somewhere along or on the beach and just happen upon a beach wedding What lovely occasions these are Our favorite moment however may have occurred a few weeks ago when we were lucky enough to spot a festive golf cart driven by a bride in full wedding attire accompanied by her attendants decked out in beautiful turquoise dresses Oh to have had a camera

Interested in a wedding on Pompano Beach Heres the info from our citys website For those planning a destination wedding Pompano Beach is perfect be it

a romantic beach wedding at one of the popular beach hotels a private cruise on the intracoastal or reception at a popular restaurant overlooking the golf course or the historic and very traditional Sample-McDougald House The weather is almost always accommodating Beach permits are needed and can be purchased at the Emma Lou Olson Civic Center (H-6) 1801 NE 6th Street Pompano Beach Marriage licenses must be purchased from the Broward County Clerk of Courts Info browardclerkorg or 9548316565 Learn more at pompanobeachflgovindexphppagestourist_infotourist_info

Photo of Keli and James copy Paul McDermott Photography PaulMcDermottcom

10 Pompano Today May 2016

EXPLORE

Real FloridaKissimmee Prairie Preserve State Park

On the prairietext and photos by Jim Stafford

At 54000 acres Kissimmee Prairie Preserve State Park is home to the largest remaining dry prairie in Florida Located north of Okeechobee the park is home to both endangered plants and animals Visitors will experience grasslands reminiscent of the Great Plains The park offers excellent birding and is also home to endangered species like the Crested Caracara and Burrowing Owl The Park offers 100 miles of dirt roads easy to walk and handicap friendly They give hikers bicyclists and equestrians excellent opportunities to explore the preserve November through March ranger-led prairie buggy tours allow visitors to see remote areas of the preserve Kissimmee Prairiersquos remoteness makes it one of Floridarsquos premier locations for stargazing For overnight stays the Preserve has two full-facility campground loops family and an equestrian campground with paddocks

AAn important item to note while planning your visit according to the Florida State Parks website ldquoSpring means prescribed fire at Kissimmee Prairie If you see smoke here at the prairie on your next trip there is a good chance it is our staff conducting a prescribed burn at naturersquos preferred time of year Florida Dry Prairie is accustomed to burning every 1-2 years and many of our plants and animals such as the Florida Grasshopper Sparrow need frequent fire to survive Our staff works hard to safely conduct prescribed fires on one third to one half of the preserve annually Please stop by our office for more information regarding fire management at the preserve wersquod be happy to talk to you about itrdquo To learn more about this program visit floridastateparksorgcontentspring-means-smoke-over-prairie

To learn more about Kissimmee Prairie Preserve State Park visit floridastateparksorgparkKissimmee-Prairie

Pompano Today May 2016 11

We are at the top of the wedding season so I would like to offer a quick refresher on wedding dress code etiquette You receive a wedding invitation the time and the location are specified but the big thing that is left up to you is what to wear to a wedding reception There are

some general guidelines to follow such as not wearing white not wearing clothing that is overly revealing and not looking wrinkled or unkempt Even with these guidelines deciding what

to wear can still be extremely difficult These tips will reduce some of the difficulty and give you some ideas for picking the perfect outfit

When deciding on what you wear to a wedding reception make sure you know the venue for the wedding and the time of day For example a beach wedding during the day calls for a more casual look than a church wedding Keep in mind that appropriateness is necessary for all wedding receptions irrespective of the time or the place

12 Pompano Today May 2016

your lifestyle fashion forward

Proper attire requiredA guide for wedding guests

From top copy nicoletaionescuFotoliacom copy DURIS Guillaume Fotoliacom copy ysbrandcosijn Fotoliacom copy pio3 Fotoliacom

Suggestions for a Daytime Wedding

For Herbull Floral dressesbull Winter weddings Sweater and skirt

combinationsbull Summer weddings Light colored suitsbull Footwear sling-backs sandals or high

heelsbull Hats that match the rest of your outfit

For Himbull For a formal occasion wear a dark suitbull Spring or summer weddings A

seersucker or light-colored linen suitbull Winter weddings a wool suit or a

sweater underneath a smart blazer with a tie

bull A blazer with a buttoned down shirt trousers and a tie

Suggestions for a ldquoCasualrdquo Wedding

When the dress code calls for ldquoCasualrdquo wear it usually means that there is no dress code but you should still look nice and avoid jeans tank tops and shorts For a wedding ldquocasualrdquo means ldquobusiness casualrdquo

For Herbull A beautiful blouse matched with a pretty

skirt or pantsbull A summer sundress with natural makeup

amp hair

For Himbull A buttoned down or polo shirt paired with

dress pants

Suggestions for a ldquoBeach Formalrdquo Wedding

Beach Formal suggests that you should wear something fashionable but suitable for the beach

For HerA tea length or knee length formal summer sundress with flat sandals natural hair and makeup

For Himbull A summer suit matched with a linen

shirt bull Khakis or linen trousers and sandals A

tie is not required

Suggestions for an Evening Wedding

For Herbull A gown or a fancy dressbull A cocktail dress that is not overly sexy

or provocative (black is fine for this occasion)

bull A sophisticated dark color cocktail suit bull Avoid sequins sparkles and beads

unless the wedding invitation specifies ldquoblack tierdquo

For Himbull Dark smart suits bull A tuxedo for an after 6pm formal

ceremonybull For semi-formalcasual ceremonies a

blazer and slacks matched with a tie

If you stick to the guidelines above you will be all set Itrsquos all about finding a balance between being yourself and looking and feeling confident while not offending others There are lots of opportunities to wear flip-flops and cutoffs - a wedding is not one of them

BY ELAINE SIMMONS

daytime for her

evening for her

daytime for him

evening for him

Pompano Today May 2016 13

your lifestyle fashion the goods

With this ring

When approaching wedding planning and the selection of players let common sense reign The ring bearer tradition originated in ancient Egypt an elaborately decorated pillow was often used to display the jewelry during a wedding Exchanging rings became the common outward sign of betrothal and the two traditions merged which put the pillow front and center as the main apparatus for the carrying of rings at a wedding ceremony hence the need for someone to carry the pillow

Asking a young family member or child of a close friend to take on this position in your ceremony should be thought through with care and consideration While it is a wonderful way to honor and involve children in your wedding you must contemplate a few factors first

Age the age of a ring bearer is customarily in the range of 3-7 years old Younger and you are asking for trouble There is really no controlling children in this sort of setting in the first place ndash but this particular job is too much for a very small child just learning to walk I argue the sweet spot is between 4 and 5 years old However it is likely you know the child so if you think they have the maturity to handle the honor then by all means ask On the other end of the spectrum anything older than 7 or 8 begins to look odd Why not ask those young men to take on another role

Your help if you have a ring bearer then you have a flower girl and like the old Hollywood adage goes itrsquos tough to work with children and animals Make sure you have someone appointed to assist with your young charges this person must keep the two players together until they are ready to go down the aisle remind them of what theyrsquore supposed to do and where to land at the end It goes without saying that the ring bearer should be included in the rehearsal this will assuage stage fright on the big day and should eliminate any fear of what to do on his part

BY BENJAMINS FINE ALTERATIONS AND TAILORING Benjamins blends long-forgotten high standards in sewing with outstanding personal service Drop by 2609 East Atlantic Boulevard call them at 954-943-5878 or visit them online at benjaminsalterationscom

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Clothing the ring bearer is traditionally dressed in some miniature version of the groomsmens attire ndash like a little man While this is precious as can be make sure the parents have access to the outfit far enough ahead of time that they can help their son try it on so they can become comfortable in their big day attire The last thing you want is a fit pitching because the tie is lsquochokingrsquo the ring bearer

Tradition does not have to dictate every aspect of your ceremony You have creative license ndash this is your day Just make sure you approach the election of your underage wedding party members with your eyes as well as your heart wide open

14 Pompano Today May 2016

your lifestyle marital minutes

You are a ldquowerdquo not a ldquomerdquo

You cannot make decisions independently anymore Your life decisions can and will impact your spouse Repeat after us Your life decisions can and will impact your spouse If you do not learn this fairly quickly it could impact the stability of your relationship

Just because he is your husband does not mean he is perfect

Remember that both you and your husband will make mistakes You are both human beings and are fallible You need to learn to forgive and also you need to learn from your mistakes

Have fun

Although I love my children I did not take advantage of the time we had together as newlyweds and prior to having kids When a new addition enters your family it is more challenging to do things that you used to like to do together

About the StaffordsDr Gina and Jim Stafford have been married for over 15 years Throughout that time they had four beautiful children ndash all boys Over the course of their relationship they have faced ups and downs especially since three out of the four sons were diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder Despite the obstacles that came their way their marriage has grown stronger People who know the couple always ask how they do it The answer is that with hard work and faith anything is possible The couple decided to share their story their strategies and their lives with other couples to assist them in building a relationship just as strong as their own Each month we bring you their words of wisdom devoted to helping couples explore the many issues facing marriages today Read more about this engaging couple at maritalminutescom

BY DR GINA STAFFORD

copy James Stafford Photography

3 pieces of advice before you say I do

Pompano Today May 2016 15

your lifestyle your kids

Planning a wedding dollars and sense

BY MICHAEL DIPIERRO

Michael DiPierro has a decade of experience in education He currently holds a Masters degree in Educational Leadership and has 11 years of teaching experience in Broward County Public Schools

For students who entered 9th grade in the 2013-14 academic year a requirement to earn a standard high school diploma in Florida includes financial literacy instruction I think it is safe to assume that most people who have planned a wedding understand the need to be financially literate In Florida financial literacy instruction includes the knowledge understanding skills behaviors attitudes and values that will enable a student to make responsible and effective financial decisions on a daily basis

While financial literacy covers a broad range of topics in terms of planning a wedding related classroom instruction might focus on buying goods and services saving and financial investing and budgeting and debt management In 2014 the Florida State Board of Education adopted a financial-literacy strand to its Social Studies Next Generation Sunshine State Standards Nationally during the 2015 legislative session about thirty-five states and Puerto Rico considered bills related to financial literacy This is an increase from the roughly twenty-eight states and Puerto Rico that considered legislation related to financial literacy during the 2014 legislative session

Related classroom instruction might focus on buyinggoods and services

saving and financial investing and budgeting and debt

management

The Florida Department of Education approved a high school Personal Financial Literacy elective course written and submitted by the Broward County Public Schools Social Studies Office Some of the instructional practices connected to this course include providing extended learning opportunities that simulate economic scenarios and the use of real world data and evidence to answer complex high-level questions that are based on real world scenarios Although I am not endorsing any classroom projects planning a mock wedding seems like it would be a fun experience to learn about financial literacy especially since the students donrsquot really have to pay for the mock wedding

The Florida Department of Education approved a high school

Personal Financial Literacy elective course written and submitted by the

Broward County Public SchoolsSocial Studies Office

Planning a mock wedding seems like it would be

a fun experienceespecially since the students dont really

have to pay for the mock wedding

16 Pompano Today May 2016

COVER FEATURE

Ronnie and Hank Arond are a real-life fairy talethat should inspire us all

Wedded Bliss Part 1

On a clear sunny weekend morning we enter the clean bright and charming winter digs of Ronnie and Hank Arond (Of course we think that every single inch of the Ebb Tide is clean bright and charming but Ronnie and Hankrsquos quarters seem especially so)

The couple greets us with the vigor of much younger folks their energy levels are those of a much younger couple which is no surprise really given the zest for life with which theyrsquove been greeting each day together for 71 years

Yes 71 years The Aronds in fact celebrated their 72nd anniversary this March And what better place to spend it than the Ebb Tide where theyrsquove been coming each year for the past ten years

First things first however As we enter Ronnie is bustling around tidying up ldquoIrsquom putting away all the messy stuffrdquo she notes cheerfully although itrsquos clear that her standards are much higher than ours In an instant coffee tea and festive cookies are in front of us Yum

When we offer to help we are politely dismissed ldquoWersquore helpful Wersquore not helpless yetrdquo says um Honnie Really this couple speaks with one voice Sort of Throughout our interview they finish each otherrsquos sentences often or break into what can only be described as the best Burns and Allen routine ever Hank can play ndash with equal vigor ndash the comedian and the straight man of this remarkable duo (as well as the violin but more about that later) and he plays every minute and every role with a wink and a nod

Pompano Today May 2016 17

WEDDED BLISS

ldquoCollect adventures Do them

Dont ever say no to somethingrdquo

Ronnie finally sits down her hostessing duties complete Her bright blue eyes and lovely fawn colored hair make for a beautiful portrait of a life well lived her nails are polished her lipstick perfect We ask what itrsquos like to be married for 72 years ldquoNordquo Ronnie smilingly corrects us ldquoitrsquos 36 because half the time he doesnrsquot listen to merdquo

The couple met on March 4 1943 Hank lets us know that ldquoShe was on the other side of a double daterdquo At the time Hank was paired with a girl from upstate (for those who donrsquot know ldquoupstaterdquo is of course ldquoupstate New Yorkrdquo) Driving to the train station he thought to himself ldquoHow do I do thisrdquo He decided to take an interesting tactic somehow he ended up with Ronniersquos phone number in his possession And the rest as they say is history

Hank wasted no time (less than a week in fact) before taking Ronnie to a Broadway show (which they believe was ldquoShadow of a Doubtrdquo) for their first date The very next day they went on another date where Hank met Ronniersquos best friend (and passed the ldquobest friendrdquo test) For those who believe in coincidence the stars aligning divine intervention ndash call it what you will ndash two days later Ronniersquos sister was getting married and she invited Hank to be her date since her current boyfriend a Navy man was stuck in Washington DC Thus within four days Hank had met Ronniersquos entire family Two weeks after their fateful first date Hank was off to serve our country He remembers thinking ldquoIrsquom finally going to get out of Brooklynrdquo and sure enough he did ndash and got stationed in the Bronx

The proposal soon followed ldquoHe asked me to marry himrdquo Ronnie recalls ldquoand I was very young and very naiumlve and polite and I didnrsquot know how to say no So I said lsquoOK Irsquoll marry you until I find someone betterrsquordquo Exactly one year from the day they met Ronnie and Hank were wed

Ronnie begins to interject and then stops herself saying ldquoSometimes I interrupt myselfrdquo

Mind you all of the above conversation happened in probably two minutes Wow Itrsquos impossible to overstate the energy and joie de vivre that simply beams from Ronnie and Hank a beacon of love hope and happiness that is remarkable This feeling ndash that yoursquore in the presence of two incredibly special people ndash is also partly due to their strong belief in fairness justice and not least their deep commitment to faith

Interestingly the Aronds are ldquoJewish by culture and traditionrdquo Ronnie notes ldquobut not observantrdquo In fact they are now Unitarian Universalists about which they are ndash you guessed it ndash very enthusiastic They have been members of their Unitarian Universalist congregation for over two decades ldquoOur congregationrdquo they explain ldquois probably 25 Catholic 25 Jewish 25 born [in the faith] and 25 Muslim other religionshelliptheir committees are

rarr

18 Pompano Today May 2016

no different than Congressrdquo Ronnie laughs She recalls that even her parents were ldquounconcerned about religion ndash for example [they didnrsquot worry about whether I would] marry a nice Jewish boyrdquo

When not in Pompano Beach (where theyrsquove been coming for 20 years) Ronnie and Hank make their home in Bellerose Queens in the house where they raised their two children Sometimes they tell us Hank will be asked ldquoIf you could choose to have children again would yourdquo To which Hank will reply ldquoYes but not themrdquo

Hank of course is kidding as he so often is Their son is an

accomplished pediatrician who travels the world supporting nonprofit efforts Their daughter is a nurse who lives in south Florida so Ronnie and Hank get to spend a lot of time with her each winter Sadly their son lost his wife who was a Quaker Friend in Vietnam during the war three years ago to ALS Has he remarried we ask No but hersquos met a nice woman in a gospel choir Well of course he has These are resilient people who keep going through whatever life throws their way

Back to that house in Queens that they moved into 66 years ago They watched the house get built it was in one of the many new postwar developments springing up around the country to meet the needs of returning veterans and the inordinate number of new families and households springing up everywhere Every weekend during construction ldquowe drove out from the Bronxrdquo We canrsquot help but think about what an exciting and hopeful time that must have been

Ronnie and Hankrsquos son and his wife had two children their granddaughter is currently in Bogota and their grandson is at Amherst (forgive us but what she is doing in Bogota escaped us rest assured that itrsquos something selfless and fabulous Itrsquos astonishing how difficult it is to keep up with Ronnie and Hank)

Our interview with Ronnie and Hank continues at pompanotodaycom We hope that everyone reading this takes this couplersquos incredibly wise life lessons to heart and that wersquove inspired you to live every day to the fullest Ronnie and Hank are both a living example of and testament to how to make the most of every day After all theyrsquore experts ndash theyrsquove had over 70 years of practice

To all the single folks out there get out there and make every day count To all the couples getting married this season make yourselves a life that is as happy healthy and adventurous as Ronniersquos and Hankrsquos As to you two lovebirds - enjoy your summer and wersquoll see you back at the Ebb Tide next year

Patti Nachman and Alicyn Muntildeoz raise the baron bridal shops with Wonderland Bridal

Wedded Bliss Part 2Wonderland Bridalrsquos story is unique as every bridersquos wedding day Co-owners Patti Nachmann and Alicyn Muntildeoz met in their respective Mary Kay businesses and hit it off so instantly ndash and so well ndash that they became known as the ldquoMary Kay sistersrdquo Along the way Alicyn accompanied her best friend on a wedding dress shopping trip and asked

the store owner if she could set up a Mary Kay table there on the weekends The owner agreed and eventually Alicyn was working at the shop part time

She loved it so much that she became determined to open her own shop At the time Patti was still in the corporate world having spent 16 years in the field of medical billing ldquoI wentrdquo Patti recalls ldquofrom screaming at insurance companies on the phone to laughing and crying with brides as theyrsquore choosing their gownsrdquo

Patti excitedly tells us that the business is really taking off ldquoWersquove just acquired a couture line Allure and will be carrying them in the summerrdquo and that Wonderland covers all price points depending on the bridersquos needs

ldquoI feel like everything has just fallen into place with this business and wersquore very luckyrdquo she notes

We ask Patti what the one thing is shersquod like our readers to know about

Wonderland Bridal She thinks for a moment ldquoWe are not like any other bridal store and I say that because we hear that from our brides We have a lot of brides that come here after shopping around and their experiences havenrsquot always been positive Or they come here first and we encourage them to shop around We donrsquot ever pressure our brides and most of them time theyrsquoll tell us ldquoI should have picked our dress while I was herersquo Our brides are really great we have a good bond with them The [wedding dress buying] experience is a process wersquore in constant contact with them from the time they come in until the time they take the dress home

ldquoOur customer service is superb We like to hold one appointment at a time so the entire store is the bridersquos Sometimes of course we get busy [especially] on Saturdays so we have two completely separate fitting rooms

ldquo[We make sure each of our brides] feels like a princess And itrsquos hellip the most important day of their lives and this is part of the memory and wersquore just happy to be a part of itrdquo

For the curious we learned of Wonderland Bridal through Benjaminrsquos Fine Alterations amp Tailoring right here in Pompano Beach The two shops work very closely together Patti explains how these two remarkable local business found each other and yes it includes the magic of social media ldquoBenjaminrsquos

Pompano Today May 2016 19

Benjamins offers painless alterations tailoring and- yes - tuxedo rentals for the big day

and Wonderland started following each other on Instagram Wersquod like each otherrsquos photos and make a comment here and there Then I went to a networking event and one of their employees saw my name tag and grabbed me and said lsquoOh my God yoursquore with Wonderland Bridal And I looked at her nametag and said ldquoOh my God yoursquore with Benjaminrsquosrsquo And we had just recently opened our shop and we got to talking and had a meeting and just picked up from there and [Benjaminrsquos staff have] been our seamstresses since then over a year ago Victoria is an incredible seamstressrdquo

Speaking of Victoria thats her by the way in the photo at left along with Alycin and Patti and the beautiful bride who also graces our cover Learn more about Victoria and Benjamins in Part 3 below

Wonderland Bridal Couture3400 NW 62nd AveMargate FL 33063

954) 973-8695wonderlandbridalcomhomehtml

Benjamins Fine Alterations amp Tailoring2609 East Atlantic BoulevardPompano Beach FL33062

954-943-5878benjaminsalterationscom

Wedded Bliss Part 3Alert readers will recognize Benjamins Fine Alterations and Tailoring from other pages of this publication Its likely however that unless youre already patronized Benjamins (and if you havent well whyever not) you wont recognize Victoria pictured below along with the amazing team of tailors and seamstresses in this beautifully decorated shop As humble as she is talented Victoria and the team are in a word magicians

Really We may be biased having had an unfortunate episode involving a seam ripper many years ago in junior high sewing class but we all have our unique talents Every member of the staff at Benjamins is an

expert in making your clothes look their very best And of course when your clothes look their best well so do you

So drop off those pants youve been meaning to hem that jacket that needs a mite of a tuck that gorgeous blouse with the sleeves that are just a little too long - you wont regret it

And if you are one of the rare individuals whose clothes all fit perfectly Benjamins rents mens formal wear too (see the coupon on page 9)

Why go anywhere else

Photos this and facing page Paul McDermott Photography

INSTRUCTIONS

bull Mix everything adding flour until the mix is firm but not sticky (not too dry)

bull Roll the dough into small balls (about an inch across)bull Place on ungreased cookie sheet and flatten very slightlybull Bake at 350 degrees for 20-25 minutesbull While still warm sift the powdered sugar onto the cookies

INGREDIENTS

bull 1 pound sweet butter softenedbull 6 tablespoons powdered sugar (reserve for after baking)bull Flour to appropriate texturebull Vanilla to taste

Photo copy FomaA Adobe Stock

YUM

chef at home jeff eatsyour diningIn honor of this months theme allow us a bit of poetic license (which sounds so much nicer than bait and switch) Growing up in a Greek household everyone looked forward to these kourabiedes (also known as kourambiethes as well as variety of other spellings Greeks can agree on little spelling included) It was not until well after we left home that we realized how many people identified these as Mexican Wedding cookies And while every Greek will swear that the Greeks invented these there are so many near-identical versions of this cookie around the world that its difficult to tell where they originated

The recipe below is from my beloved late grandmother or Yiayia as we say in Greek It is predictably vague but these are easy to get right Enjoy

Mexican Wedding Cookies

20 Pompano Today May 2016

Pompano Today May 2016 21

your dining jeff eats

Le VinoisSimply Luscious

BY JEFF EATS

NICKrsquoS 50rsquoS DINER 1900 OKEECHOBEE BOULEVARD WEST PALM BEACH FLORIDA 33409 (561) 471-3155

A LITTLE ABOUT JEFF ldquoMy name is Jeff I was born (1949) and bred in Brooklyn New York Since 1991 I have lived full-time in South Florida and have eaten in so many restaurants (down here) that I now consider myself to be a FOOD EXPERT To give you some idea as to how many South Florida restaurants Irsquove been to as of December 31 2014 441 Italian joints alone have had the pleasure of ringing up my American Express card

Just so you know I donrsquot go for the fancy sit-down joints that want you to wear pants and a jacket but rather places where a pair of shorts an old tee shirt and a pair of sneakers is considered formal-wear I donrsquot know one sauce from another I also donrsquot know or really care how ldquodishesrdquo are prepared What I do know is when something tastes delicious and I canrsquot get enough of itrdquo To read more of Jeff rsquos picks visit jeffeatscom

Got an absolutely terrific French bakery for you guys Le Vinois Bakery in Fort Lauderdale The joint has the full-boat of breakfast items breads pastries cakes soups quiches salads sandwiches cookies coffees Order at the counter- handful of tables if you want to eat there

Jeff Eats and Mrs Jeff Eats recently did an eat-in lunchand takeout order and like I said a few seconds ago Le Vinoisrsquo stuff is absolute dynamite

Now letrsquos be adults here and let bygones be bygones- you do remember Freedom Fries sure you do With that in mind Jeff Eats absolutely loved Le Vinois Bakery and Irsquom kinda thinking that you should definitely give it a shot

Clockwise from top left copy Friedberg Adobe Stock copy Chuck Place Adobe Stock copy gkrphoto Adobe Stock copy geshas Adobe Stock

Clockwise from top Enjoy croissants a slice of lemon tart great sandwiches and delicious quiche among the many other delights at Le Vinois

Le Vinois Bakery

6322 N Powerline RoadFt Lauderdale Florida 33309

Hours of operationMonday to Friday7am to 4pm

Phone 954 771 9788

Email modinafrancisyahoocom

levinoisbakerycom

22 Pompano Today May 2016

Whether yoursquore planning a close intimate gathering or a large affair the Sample-McDougald House at Centennial Park (450 NE 10th Street Pompano Beach) sets the scene for memories that will last a lifetime The recently completed $25 million restoration of the house and grounds provides you and your guests with a memorable setting The historic house surrounded by native trees and vegetation is a beautiful background for your photos Renting the Sample-McDougald House can give you and your guests exclusive use of the house and grounds throughout your affair (subject to use guidelines) Visit wwwSampleMcDougaldHousecom to learn more about the house or call 954 691-5686 or 954 214-4759 for more details

Memories yoursquoll treasure at the Sample-McDougald House

Sitting amidst four beautiful acres the Sample-McDougald House offers one of the few

historically significant settings in the area for events of any size uniquely

suited to your special day Advertisement

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24 Pompano Today May 2016

AROUND TOWN

a look back charlottes web

your city(the Sample family)

THANKS TO DAN HOBBY AND THE POMPANO BEACH HISTORICAL SOCIETY FOR THE PHOTO AND INFORMATION ABOUT OUR CITYS RICH AND VARIED HISTORY TO LEARN MORE ABOUT OUR CITYS FASCINATING PAST VISIT POMPANOHISTORYCOM

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Members of the Sample family gather together ca 1920 Albert Neal Sample who had the house now known as the Sample-McDougald House constructed in 1916 is standing in the second row third from the viewers right The man kneeling in the first row is Neals younger brother John who prior to 1910 was the first member of the Sample family to settle in the Pompano area The house that Neal Sample built turns 100 this year

The non-profit Sample-McDougald House Preservation Society has a number of activities and events planned to commemorate the historic houses 100th birthday For information visit SampleMcDougaldHousecom or call 754-307-5446

Pompano Today May 2016 25

What the hell do I know about wedded bliss I am a long-term and certified member of the ldquohappily single never been marriedrdquo club Relationships take work people My comfort level of commitment is agreeing to feed walk and nurture the fluffy poodle I brought home from the shelter 5 years ago Beyond thathellipIrsquom selfish And letrsquos face it no onersquos ever gotten into an argument with a dog over a miscommunication Theyrsquore perfect in that respect

But weddings are wonderful events Friends and family gathering together for a festive happy occasion weddings almost always guarantee a good time The happy couple gazing into each otherrsquos eyes while reciting wedding vows Uncle Jim having a few too many at the open bar and trying out his salsa moves on the dance floor Ah the memories we can reminisce about for years to come And the expectation is that the new union will last forever

But how does that same couple reach their 50th year wedding anniversary 50 years of wedded bliss now thatrsquos an accomplishment Since I have already mentioned that I am not exactly a go-to advisor on the subject I did what I always do Letrsquos see what the internet says It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was ldquodonrsquot be selfish and always put your partner firstrdquo Hmmm

ldquoMake it quickrdquo This tip was found when referencing the science of being happily married While it doesnrsquot reference the actual marriage itself in summary I interpreted it to read if someone annoys you now they will most inevitably annoy you much more in the future So maybe not marrying material to begin with Interestingly enough I have this one covered with my three date rule What is the three date rule you ask If there is nothing you find annoying about an individual within the first three dateshellipgreen light means go there may be a future In my case this is a bit of a challenge to achieve

And then Oprahrsquos people had to weigh in on the subject I feel compelled to share a link to a great joke I found on Oprahcom during the search It involves a couple celebrating their 50th anniversary and a mule but no worries Itrsquos a completely clean joke You can see the full joke here oprahcomrelationshipsHappy-Marriage-Tips-Love-Advice

your city charlottes web

Wedded bliss the flip side

BY CHARLOTTE SUNDQUIST

It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was

dont be selfish and always put your partner first Hmmm

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Are you back Good Am I wrong in assuming this has some ties to the three date rule

I donrsquot know I certainly havenrsquot got all the answers But Irsquove just confirmed that single is a perfectly acceptable status for me And you single people that are tired of hearing ldquoWhen are you going to settle down and get marriedrdquo Donrsquot cavehellipdo what makes you happy There is not one version of the perfect relationship ideal If itrsquos a good fit for you so be it Wersquore all different after all

And to all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work Time to go walk the dog

To all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work

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Blissful BusinessCan we be blissful in life Yes Can we be blissfully in love Yes Can we be blissful in business That depends on what your definition of a ldquoblissfulrdquo business is Is it working Monday through Thursday Is it dress down days Is it bringing in a new client or two each month Your bliss depends on what your definition is and what that looks like for your business model Letrsquos talk about a few ways you can be ldquoblissfulrdquo in business

Your Company Culture

What is the tone or perception of your company Are you rigid conservative and safe Or are you creative thought provoking and innovative You have the opportunity to transform your company culture a culture that attracts customers employees and partners Think about Google they have created a co-working collaborative happy environment at work for their employees Google has determined that their definition of ldquoblissfulrdquo is casual dress napping pods libraries and bring your dog to work days Think about what your culture is and try to create an atmosphere that people can enjoy

Better Matters

How can you perform tasks and projects ldquobetterrdquo to make it more manageable for your staff As leaders when we put our employees first the rewards are priceless What are you implementing internally to ldquobetterrdquo your employees to meet their sales goals client leads or individual quotas If you raise your standards the company will follow Being better should be the norm Better business creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo business

The Next Level

What is your definition of the reaching the next level Will reaching that level create a ldquoblissfulrdquo business Maybe yes or maybe no The next level for my business would be to add more employees and another office which would create bliss for me I would be free to do more networking and outside activities Determine and define what the ldquonext levelrdquo is for your company and see if it makes sense and creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo work environment for everyone involved

Itrsquos important to take a step back every now and then to remember why being an entrepreneur makes you happy

Determine your personal definition of a blissful business

BY TEANA MCDONALD

26 Pompano Today May 2016

working it special feature

your business special feature

Pompano Today May 2016 27

Kim Briesemeister greets us at the entrance to RMArsquos new digs a suite of comfortable welcoming offices right on Atlantic Boulevard As usual she is polished professional and enthusiastic about all of the great things happening in our city

ldquoWhat RMA brings is the technical expertise the realities of how to achieve the market visionhellipthe end result is creating a quality place that people want to live in and are proud to call home a place where businesses want to be and the city gets a certain great viberdquo Kim notes You can see this ldquoviberdquo in her eyes ndash and you know that Kim can see what the future looks like here in Pompano Beach and at that moment in time we can see it with her

What is ldquoitrdquo exactly ldquoItrdquo is what great places are made of Art Culture Safety Walkability Excitement The vision that Kim and her partner Chris Brown as well as all of the bright creative energetic staff we see is breathtaking And that feeling of hometown comfort that we all get when we return here whether after a trip to the next town over or a trip around the world is the wellspring from which all of the plans for our future originate Itrsquos still Pompano Beach but itrsquos far far better

As the publishers of this magazine for the past six years we have firsthand knowledge of all of the great people who live here and

the great things that attract more like-minded residents and visitors An airport A harbor The Intracoastal The lighthouse Thriving businesses A small-town feeling that is ever harder to maintain

Without a cohesive vision itrsquos likely that some if not all of these could be lost To paraphrase Benjamin Franklin ldquoFailing to plan is planning to failrdquo and there is no shortage of planning for this bright future going on at RMA

Speaking of that planning at that point Kim turns our attention to the consideration of an ldquoinnovation districtrdquo and this is where her enthusiasm is if possible even more palpable We are treated to a breathtaking visual tour of what is possible in such a district and oh my We can hardly contain ourselves What we ask is RMArsquos role in this endeavor ldquoWe are able to help the community go through the redevelopment processrdquo Kim responds adding that ldquo[the goal is that] in the end everyone says lsquoThis is the most amazing place to live This is where I want to bersquordquo

Yes Thatrsquos what we all want A place that wersquore even more proud to call home Proud of the looks on the faces of others when we tell them ldquoYes I live in Pompano Beachrdquo proud that we raised our children in a place where after theyrsquore grown they choose to return and put down roots of their own right here where they belong This is the place that we will create that will provide a solid foundation on which our city will continue to build on and thrive

As we prepare to depart earnest young professionals come bounding enthusiastically through the door (ok they werenrsquot really bounding ndash they are professionals ndash but they sure gave the impression of bounding)

ldquoAhhhrdquo we think to ourselves imagining an exchange with them ldquoDo you guys happen to live in Pompano Beach No Thatrsquos too badrdquo we say unable to help feeling just a tad smug ldquoItrsquos a great place to live work and playrdquo

Falling in love with the future of Pompano Beach

For the past 50 years the landscape of innovation has been dominated by places like Silicon Valleymdashsuburban corridors of spatially isolated corporate campuses accessible only by car with little emphasis on the quality of life or on integrating work housing and recreation

A new complementary urban model is now emerging giving rise to what we and others are calling ldquoinnovation districtsrdquo These districts by our definition are geographic areas where leading-edge anchor institutions and companies cluster and connect with start-ups business incubators and accelerators1 They are also physically compact transit-accessible and technically-wired and offer mixed-use housing office and retail

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts

LOOKING AHEAD TO AN EVEN BRIGHTER FUTUREFrom top left

bull Creating a Downtown Innovation District means incorporating all of the pieces of a successful plan

bull a sterling example of one such district

bull synergy in actionbull specific steps

to harness our unique strengths

bull targeted industriesbull another sterling

example this time of a complete street

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts What They Are

Economic Assets

Networking Assets

Physical Assets

InnovationEcosystemA synergistic relationship between people firms and place that facilitates idea generation and acceleratescommercialization

Target Industries

International Trade and Logistics

Marine Industry

Life Sciences and Biotechnology

Creative Design

Digital Media and Technology

Class A Office

Tourism

Advanced Materials and High-Tech Manufacturing

Redevelopment of Commercial and Residential

Alternatives Energy and Renewable Resources

AviationAerospace

Global Business Services

Global Media and Production

Headquarters and Management Operations

Human Resources and Higher Education

How to harness our ldquoDowntown Innovation Districtrdquo

1 Build a collaborative leadership network

2 Set a vision for growth to leverage our unique strengths

distinct economic clusters leading local and regional institutions and companies physical location and design advantages and other cultural attributes

3 Pursue talent and technology

4 Promote inclusive growthEquip workers with the skills they need to participate in the innovation economy or other secondary and tertiary jobs generated by innovative growth

5 Enhance access to capital

Cultural ArtsTourism

Industrial

Multi Purpose

DowntownInnovation

District

Target Industries

Education

Housing

Downtown Innovation

District

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30 Pompano Today May 2016

VROOM

all things automotiveyour rideThis monthrsquos theme is wedded bliss I started checking on an exact meaning for this title This is what was written in the English Dictionary ldquothe happiness of being marriedrdquo As I reflect back and think about life altogether whether marriage engagement purchase of a product or dealing with family and friendshellip

There are many factors in life that can afford you wedded bliss or the joy serenity and comfort of having the right lover husband or wife the right house or car the right job or titlehellip Now letrsquos admit to the fact that we all go though the ups and downs and have to face many situationshellip This is part of being human

Just imagine not having a significant other to share the joy or sadness of an event or a shoulder to cry onhellip Just imagine not having a cell phone to communicate with your loved ones or a car to get you from point A to point B

Just like a marriage you start by meeting a prospective mate lover or significant other You then starting dating and checking on the possibility of a good fit

If that is the case you start focusing on the possibility of a future together and if the positive traits in that individual outweigh the negative and if you canrsquot imagine living without himher then the marriage is to be considered

The same thing goes for the perfect car for you You have specific unique preferences based on your personality and the purpose of the car purchase

Achieving wedded bliss with your vehicle choice

The right car that will suit your needs for years to come exists It just takes a little research planning budgeting and common sense We all dream of the luxury car that we many not be able to afford but till the time comes to make our dream car a reality we will need to settle for what is achievable practical fits our need and makes us proud of the choice we made Here are some practical questions to answer would you like to get a sporty car a regular 4 door sedan a van an SUV or a truck

Would you like a practical car you may drive in city highway or would you like to go off-roading on the weekends Would you need this vehicle to tow your boat to tow your camping trip supplies or would you like to have an elegant car to show off to your friends Now we have to consider the budget and whether we want to purchase a domestic or foreign vehicle the maintenance cost the fuel efficiency and the overall look and feel of the car

We have noticed that cars reflect their ownerrsquos personality so if you are someone who is sporty adventurous have a young spirit and are financially secure then a Bugatti Veyron Porsche 911 Ford Mustang McClaren MP4- 12C Lamborghini Egoista Limited edition Mercedes AMG SL SLK Roadster or E Class Cabriolet Convertible or the Chevy Camaro come to mind Pictured on page 31 is the 2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue by the way

If you are someone who is practical enjoy trips to the mountains or the beach work full time and look for a dependable and comfortable car then check out the Cadillac CTS (pictured above) XTS or DTS Super Subaru Impreza Lexus CT 200h Sport IS 250 or ES 350 Mercedes CS or E Class Chevy Equinox Chevy Tahoe and Toyota Prius V

Cadillac CTS photo copy General Motors

Pompano Today May 2016 31

If you are the family manwoman and are seeking safety comfortable seating and an affordable vehicle with low maintenance we noticed that most of the inquiries are SUV or Van related such as the Mercedes GLA SUB GLE SUV or GLS SUV Audi Q5 Audi Allroad Toyota Sienna Ford Fex Ford Transit Connect Cadillac Escalade Cadillac SRX and letrsquos not forget the Chevy Suburban

Now if you are the hunter or you enjoy off roading every now and then the vehicles we seesell and repair most are the Ford F150 Ford Super Duty Mercedes G Class Toyota TacomaTundra Range Rover Jeep Wrangler and the Chevy Silverado

What about the green energy conscious We have had inquiries about the Toyota Prius and the Rav 4 Hybrid Audi A3 E-tron Cadillac ELR or the Chevy Spark EV Now if you are in the market for a nice ride then you need to test drive the Cadillac CT6 Plug-in Hybrid or the BMW I8 and tell me if you enjoyed the drive

Yes even car owners and their vehicles can talk about wedded bliss So if you have the

perfect car that fits your image your lifestyle your personality then congratulations because you are lucky to get the perfect car In the meantime if you are looking for a vehicle and have questions or concerns feel free to contact us and we will be glad to assist you BY JAY GHANEM

2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue copy The Ford Motor Company 2016 All Rights Reserved

HOLLYWOOD CORNER

news from the west coast

32 Pompano Today May 2016

stars in your eyesBenjamin A Onyango on keeping the faith

and making people happyWhen did you know without any doubt that you wanted to act

Ive always acted in church youth plays that I wrote myself when I was a teenager in Nairobi Kenya In 1987 I came to the United States and while attending California State University Stanislaus in Turlock California formed a traditional dance group called Upendo Singers and Cultural Dancers We wrote plays and songs and performed them in cultural festivals universities and churches After graduating in 1992 I knew I wanted to act so I struck the tent and moved to Hollywood where I joined a funk rock band called PFO and also acted as a background performer in TV and feature films What inspires you to act

I am naturally a happy person and I love it when people are happy So I cant help it but crack jokes and poke fun at myself to make people around me laugh I am inspired by other people Their presence makes me want to do stuff talk dance sing shout etc When did you realize you had reached your goals as an actor

I do not think I have reached my goal as an actor yet To me acting is an evolving thing You get to a certain level and then you strive to get better than the level you currently are on Acting has many facets and therefore many challenges There is no one way to approach acting I therefore believe that I am still reaching for that goal and I must admit that the experience indeed is the best teacher because you indeed get better at it the more you keep doing it

What was your favorite role to date and why

My favorite role to date is the movie I am currently filming called Beautifully Broken The reason its my first role as a lead actor in a feature film and best of all I am playing the role of a real person who survived the Rwanda genocide that the story is about I played a lead role before in a short film called Kwame also based on a true story and was voted best actor at the 2009 Mexico International Film Festival Beautifully Broken is a story that connects very strongly with the human spirit I can almost guarantee that there will not be a

single dry eye in the theater when its screened Its a beautifully written story of hardship resilience survival and hope

What do you enjoy most about your career

What I enjoy most about my career is the ability to travel and see different people in different parts of the world I am a people person and nothing

makes me happier than meeting and making new friends

Can we expect a book from you

Thats funny you mentioned that I write lots of movie scripts and TV show scripts and I have always thought of writing a book So on my down days on the set of Beautifully Broken I started a book Ive been toying with in my head for a while The title of the book is God Moves When We Stop Helping Him Its more of a booklet than a book Its a book about encouragement

What is the best way for your fans to know what yoursquore working on FacebookTwitter Do you post for your own sites or do you have your assistants do the posts

I hope I do have fans LOL They can find out about what I am doing or working on my Facebook page facebookcomEMEBAND or Facebook fan page facebookcomBenjiBendrix Twitter twittercombochieng Instagram instagramcombenjibendrix and imdb imdbcomnamenm1335173ref_=nv_sr I also have a website benjibendrixcom that I use

Tell us something new something bold that yoursquove never told any other magazinehellipnews tip )

Recently I was fortunate to have my TV webseries Dysfunctionally Organized pitched to a major network and they agreed to have us do a spin-off of the show So we have started the writing process Its a major achievement for my team and myself since we have been working on the show for a long time Its not easy to get an audience with a content procurement person on a major network so we feel very fortunate I cant mention the network because of confidentiality reasons

Photo of Benjamin Ochieng aka Benji Bendrix (friend of Jimi Hendrix) copy Flygirl PhotographyLearn more about Benjamin atproimdbcomnamenm1335173afro-mericarecordscommindtricksmoviecom

BY MISTY SCHWARTZ

word scrambleTHE LAST WORD

a workout for your mind

Wedded bliss All of the words in this months Scramble are related to marriage and weddings Good luck Look for the answers online beginning May 15 at pompanotodaycom

Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answerodeutx gnir oeemcryn lsuipnatgnwo iaoynmtmr rogom slrofweermdiadbis eusenv shrue ovwsnwiddge rrdemia erdib psoesuerdbhteot rceepnoit errceat eiervsc

James Stafford PhotographyfacebookcomJamesStaffordPhotography

jamesstaffordname(561) 201-1640

10 Pompano Today May 2016

EXPLORE

Real FloridaKissimmee Prairie Preserve State Park

On the prairietext and photos by Jim Stafford

At 54000 acres Kissimmee Prairie Preserve State Park is home to the largest remaining dry prairie in Florida Located north of Okeechobee the park is home to both endangered plants and animals Visitors will experience grasslands reminiscent of the Great Plains The park offers excellent birding and is also home to endangered species like the Crested Caracara and Burrowing Owl The Park offers 100 miles of dirt roads easy to walk and handicap friendly They give hikers bicyclists and equestrians excellent opportunities to explore the preserve November through March ranger-led prairie buggy tours allow visitors to see remote areas of the preserve Kissimmee Prairiersquos remoteness makes it one of Floridarsquos premier locations for stargazing For overnight stays the Preserve has two full-facility campground loops family and an equestrian campground with paddocks

AAn important item to note while planning your visit according to the Florida State Parks website ldquoSpring means prescribed fire at Kissimmee Prairie If you see smoke here at the prairie on your next trip there is a good chance it is our staff conducting a prescribed burn at naturersquos preferred time of year Florida Dry Prairie is accustomed to burning every 1-2 years and many of our plants and animals such as the Florida Grasshopper Sparrow need frequent fire to survive Our staff works hard to safely conduct prescribed fires on one third to one half of the preserve annually Please stop by our office for more information regarding fire management at the preserve wersquod be happy to talk to you about itrdquo To learn more about this program visit floridastateparksorgcontentspring-means-smoke-over-prairie

To learn more about Kissimmee Prairie Preserve State Park visit floridastateparksorgparkKissimmee-Prairie

Pompano Today May 2016 11

We are at the top of the wedding season so I would like to offer a quick refresher on wedding dress code etiquette You receive a wedding invitation the time and the location are specified but the big thing that is left up to you is what to wear to a wedding reception There are

some general guidelines to follow such as not wearing white not wearing clothing that is overly revealing and not looking wrinkled or unkempt Even with these guidelines deciding what

to wear can still be extremely difficult These tips will reduce some of the difficulty and give you some ideas for picking the perfect outfit

When deciding on what you wear to a wedding reception make sure you know the venue for the wedding and the time of day For example a beach wedding during the day calls for a more casual look than a church wedding Keep in mind that appropriateness is necessary for all wedding receptions irrespective of the time or the place

12 Pompano Today May 2016

your lifestyle fashion forward

Proper attire requiredA guide for wedding guests

From top copy nicoletaionescuFotoliacom copy DURIS Guillaume Fotoliacom copy ysbrandcosijn Fotoliacom copy pio3 Fotoliacom

Suggestions for a Daytime Wedding

For Herbull Floral dressesbull Winter weddings Sweater and skirt

combinationsbull Summer weddings Light colored suitsbull Footwear sling-backs sandals or high

heelsbull Hats that match the rest of your outfit

For Himbull For a formal occasion wear a dark suitbull Spring or summer weddings A

seersucker or light-colored linen suitbull Winter weddings a wool suit or a

sweater underneath a smart blazer with a tie

bull A blazer with a buttoned down shirt trousers and a tie

Suggestions for a ldquoCasualrdquo Wedding

When the dress code calls for ldquoCasualrdquo wear it usually means that there is no dress code but you should still look nice and avoid jeans tank tops and shorts For a wedding ldquocasualrdquo means ldquobusiness casualrdquo

For Herbull A beautiful blouse matched with a pretty

skirt or pantsbull A summer sundress with natural makeup

amp hair

For Himbull A buttoned down or polo shirt paired with

dress pants

Suggestions for a ldquoBeach Formalrdquo Wedding

Beach Formal suggests that you should wear something fashionable but suitable for the beach

For HerA tea length or knee length formal summer sundress with flat sandals natural hair and makeup

For Himbull A summer suit matched with a linen

shirt bull Khakis or linen trousers and sandals A

tie is not required

Suggestions for an Evening Wedding

For Herbull A gown or a fancy dressbull A cocktail dress that is not overly sexy

or provocative (black is fine for this occasion)

bull A sophisticated dark color cocktail suit bull Avoid sequins sparkles and beads

unless the wedding invitation specifies ldquoblack tierdquo

For Himbull Dark smart suits bull A tuxedo for an after 6pm formal

ceremonybull For semi-formalcasual ceremonies a

blazer and slacks matched with a tie

If you stick to the guidelines above you will be all set Itrsquos all about finding a balance between being yourself and looking and feeling confident while not offending others There are lots of opportunities to wear flip-flops and cutoffs - a wedding is not one of them

BY ELAINE SIMMONS

daytime for her

evening for her

daytime for him

evening for him

Pompano Today May 2016 13

your lifestyle fashion the goods

With this ring

When approaching wedding planning and the selection of players let common sense reign The ring bearer tradition originated in ancient Egypt an elaborately decorated pillow was often used to display the jewelry during a wedding Exchanging rings became the common outward sign of betrothal and the two traditions merged which put the pillow front and center as the main apparatus for the carrying of rings at a wedding ceremony hence the need for someone to carry the pillow

Asking a young family member or child of a close friend to take on this position in your ceremony should be thought through with care and consideration While it is a wonderful way to honor and involve children in your wedding you must contemplate a few factors first

Age the age of a ring bearer is customarily in the range of 3-7 years old Younger and you are asking for trouble There is really no controlling children in this sort of setting in the first place ndash but this particular job is too much for a very small child just learning to walk I argue the sweet spot is between 4 and 5 years old However it is likely you know the child so if you think they have the maturity to handle the honor then by all means ask On the other end of the spectrum anything older than 7 or 8 begins to look odd Why not ask those young men to take on another role

Your help if you have a ring bearer then you have a flower girl and like the old Hollywood adage goes itrsquos tough to work with children and animals Make sure you have someone appointed to assist with your young charges this person must keep the two players together until they are ready to go down the aisle remind them of what theyrsquore supposed to do and where to land at the end It goes without saying that the ring bearer should be included in the rehearsal this will assuage stage fright on the big day and should eliminate any fear of what to do on his part

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Clothing the ring bearer is traditionally dressed in some miniature version of the groomsmens attire ndash like a little man While this is precious as can be make sure the parents have access to the outfit far enough ahead of time that they can help their son try it on so they can become comfortable in their big day attire The last thing you want is a fit pitching because the tie is lsquochokingrsquo the ring bearer

Tradition does not have to dictate every aspect of your ceremony You have creative license ndash this is your day Just make sure you approach the election of your underage wedding party members with your eyes as well as your heart wide open

14 Pompano Today May 2016

your lifestyle marital minutes

You are a ldquowerdquo not a ldquomerdquo

You cannot make decisions independently anymore Your life decisions can and will impact your spouse Repeat after us Your life decisions can and will impact your spouse If you do not learn this fairly quickly it could impact the stability of your relationship

Just because he is your husband does not mean he is perfect

Remember that both you and your husband will make mistakes You are both human beings and are fallible You need to learn to forgive and also you need to learn from your mistakes

Have fun

Although I love my children I did not take advantage of the time we had together as newlyweds and prior to having kids When a new addition enters your family it is more challenging to do things that you used to like to do together

About the StaffordsDr Gina and Jim Stafford have been married for over 15 years Throughout that time they had four beautiful children ndash all boys Over the course of their relationship they have faced ups and downs especially since three out of the four sons were diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder Despite the obstacles that came their way their marriage has grown stronger People who know the couple always ask how they do it The answer is that with hard work and faith anything is possible The couple decided to share their story their strategies and their lives with other couples to assist them in building a relationship just as strong as their own Each month we bring you their words of wisdom devoted to helping couples explore the many issues facing marriages today Read more about this engaging couple at maritalminutescom

BY DR GINA STAFFORD

copy James Stafford Photography

3 pieces of advice before you say I do

Pompano Today May 2016 15

your lifestyle your kids

Planning a wedding dollars and sense

BY MICHAEL DIPIERRO

Michael DiPierro has a decade of experience in education He currently holds a Masters degree in Educational Leadership and has 11 years of teaching experience in Broward County Public Schools

For students who entered 9th grade in the 2013-14 academic year a requirement to earn a standard high school diploma in Florida includes financial literacy instruction I think it is safe to assume that most people who have planned a wedding understand the need to be financially literate In Florida financial literacy instruction includes the knowledge understanding skills behaviors attitudes and values that will enable a student to make responsible and effective financial decisions on a daily basis

While financial literacy covers a broad range of topics in terms of planning a wedding related classroom instruction might focus on buying goods and services saving and financial investing and budgeting and debt management In 2014 the Florida State Board of Education adopted a financial-literacy strand to its Social Studies Next Generation Sunshine State Standards Nationally during the 2015 legislative session about thirty-five states and Puerto Rico considered bills related to financial literacy This is an increase from the roughly twenty-eight states and Puerto Rico that considered legislation related to financial literacy during the 2014 legislative session

Related classroom instruction might focus on buyinggoods and services

saving and financial investing and budgeting and debt

management

The Florida Department of Education approved a high school Personal Financial Literacy elective course written and submitted by the Broward County Public Schools Social Studies Office Some of the instructional practices connected to this course include providing extended learning opportunities that simulate economic scenarios and the use of real world data and evidence to answer complex high-level questions that are based on real world scenarios Although I am not endorsing any classroom projects planning a mock wedding seems like it would be a fun experience to learn about financial literacy especially since the students donrsquot really have to pay for the mock wedding

The Florida Department of Education approved a high school

Personal Financial Literacy elective course written and submitted by the

Broward County Public SchoolsSocial Studies Office

Planning a mock wedding seems like it would be

a fun experienceespecially since the students dont really

have to pay for the mock wedding

16 Pompano Today May 2016

COVER FEATURE

Ronnie and Hank Arond are a real-life fairy talethat should inspire us all

Wedded Bliss Part 1

On a clear sunny weekend morning we enter the clean bright and charming winter digs of Ronnie and Hank Arond (Of course we think that every single inch of the Ebb Tide is clean bright and charming but Ronnie and Hankrsquos quarters seem especially so)

The couple greets us with the vigor of much younger folks their energy levels are those of a much younger couple which is no surprise really given the zest for life with which theyrsquove been greeting each day together for 71 years

Yes 71 years The Aronds in fact celebrated their 72nd anniversary this March And what better place to spend it than the Ebb Tide where theyrsquove been coming each year for the past ten years

First things first however As we enter Ronnie is bustling around tidying up ldquoIrsquom putting away all the messy stuffrdquo she notes cheerfully although itrsquos clear that her standards are much higher than ours In an instant coffee tea and festive cookies are in front of us Yum

When we offer to help we are politely dismissed ldquoWersquore helpful Wersquore not helpless yetrdquo says um Honnie Really this couple speaks with one voice Sort of Throughout our interview they finish each otherrsquos sentences often or break into what can only be described as the best Burns and Allen routine ever Hank can play ndash with equal vigor ndash the comedian and the straight man of this remarkable duo (as well as the violin but more about that later) and he plays every minute and every role with a wink and a nod

Pompano Today May 2016 17

WEDDED BLISS

ldquoCollect adventures Do them

Dont ever say no to somethingrdquo

Ronnie finally sits down her hostessing duties complete Her bright blue eyes and lovely fawn colored hair make for a beautiful portrait of a life well lived her nails are polished her lipstick perfect We ask what itrsquos like to be married for 72 years ldquoNordquo Ronnie smilingly corrects us ldquoitrsquos 36 because half the time he doesnrsquot listen to merdquo

The couple met on March 4 1943 Hank lets us know that ldquoShe was on the other side of a double daterdquo At the time Hank was paired with a girl from upstate (for those who donrsquot know ldquoupstaterdquo is of course ldquoupstate New Yorkrdquo) Driving to the train station he thought to himself ldquoHow do I do thisrdquo He decided to take an interesting tactic somehow he ended up with Ronniersquos phone number in his possession And the rest as they say is history

Hank wasted no time (less than a week in fact) before taking Ronnie to a Broadway show (which they believe was ldquoShadow of a Doubtrdquo) for their first date The very next day they went on another date where Hank met Ronniersquos best friend (and passed the ldquobest friendrdquo test) For those who believe in coincidence the stars aligning divine intervention ndash call it what you will ndash two days later Ronniersquos sister was getting married and she invited Hank to be her date since her current boyfriend a Navy man was stuck in Washington DC Thus within four days Hank had met Ronniersquos entire family Two weeks after their fateful first date Hank was off to serve our country He remembers thinking ldquoIrsquom finally going to get out of Brooklynrdquo and sure enough he did ndash and got stationed in the Bronx

The proposal soon followed ldquoHe asked me to marry himrdquo Ronnie recalls ldquoand I was very young and very naiumlve and polite and I didnrsquot know how to say no So I said lsquoOK Irsquoll marry you until I find someone betterrsquordquo Exactly one year from the day they met Ronnie and Hank were wed

Ronnie begins to interject and then stops herself saying ldquoSometimes I interrupt myselfrdquo

Mind you all of the above conversation happened in probably two minutes Wow Itrsquos impossible to overstate the energy and joie de vivre that simply beams from Ronnie and Hank a beacon of love hope and happiness that is remarkable This feeling ndash that yoursquore in the presence of two incredibly special people ndash is also partly due to their strong belief in fairness justice and not least their deep commitment to faith

Interestingly the Aronds are ldquoJewish by culture and traditionrdquo Ronnie notes ldquobut not observantrdquo In fact they are now Unitarian Universalists about which they are ndash you guessed it ndash very enthusiastic They have been members of their Unitarian Universalist congregation for over two decades ldquoOur congregationrdquo they explain ldquois probably 25 Catholic 25 Jewish 25 born [in the faith] and 25 Muslim other religionshelliptheir committees are

rarr

18 Pompano Today May 2016

no different than Congressrdquo Ronnie laughs She recalls that even her parents were ldquounconcerned about religion ndash for example [they didnrsquot worry about whether I would] marry a nice Jewish boyrdquo

When not in Pompano Beach (where theyrsquove been coming for 20 years) Ronnie and Hank make their home in Bellerose Queens in the house where they raised their two children Sometimes they tell us Hank will be asked ldquoIf you could choose to have children again would yourdquo To which Hank will reply ldquoYes but not themrdquo

Hank of course is kidding as he so often is Their son is an

accomplished pediatrician who travels the world supporting nonprofit efforts Their daughter is a nurse who lives in south Florida so Ronnie and Hank get to spend a lot of time with her each winter Sadly their son lost his wife who was a Quaker Friend in Vietnam during the war three years ago to ALS Has he remarried we ask No but hersquos met a nice woman in a gospel choir Well of course he has These are resilient people who keep going through whatever life throws their way

Back to that house in Queens that they moved into 66 years ago They watched the house get built it was in one of the many new postwar developments springing up around the country to meet the needs of returning veterans and the inordinate number of new families and households springing up everywhere Every weekend during construction ldquowe drove out from the Bronxrdquo We canrsquot help but think about what an exciting and hopeful time that must have been

Ronnie and Hankrsquos son and his wife had two children their granddaughter is currently in Bogota and their grandson is at Amherst (forgive us but what she is doing in Bogota escaped us rest assured that itrsquos something selfless and fabulous Itrsquos astonishing how difficult it is to keep up with Ronnie and Hank)

Our interview with Ronnie and Hank continues at pompanotodaycom We hope that everyone reading this takes this couplersquos incredibly wise life lessons to heart and that wersquove inspired you to live every day to the fullest Ronnie and Hank are both a living example of and testament to how to make the most of every day After all theyrsquore experts ndash theyrsquove had over 70 years of practice

To all the single folks out there get out there and make every day count To all the couples getting married this season make yourselves a life that is as happy healthy and adventurous as Ronniersquos and Hankrsquos As to you two lovebirds - enjoy your summer and wersquoll see you back at the Ebb Tide next year

Patti Nachman and Alicyn Muntildeoz raise the baron bridal shops with Wonderland Bridal

Wedded Bliss Part 2Wonderland Bridalrsquos story is unique as every bridersquos wedding day Co-owners Patti Nachmann and Alicyn Muntildeoz met in their respective Mary Kay businesses and hit it off so instantly ndash and so well ndash that they became known as the ldquoMary Kay sistersrdquo Along the way Alicyn accompanied her best friend on a wedding dress shopping trip and asked

the store owner if she could set up a Mary Kay table there on the weekends The owner agreed and eventually Alicyn was working at the shop part time

She loved it so much that she became determined to open her own shop At the time Patti was still in the corporate world having spent 16 years in the field of medical billing ldquoI wentrdquo Patti recalls ldquofrom screaming at insurance companies on the phone to laughing and crying with brides as theyrsquore choosing their gownsrdquo

Patti excitedly tells us that the business is really taking off ldquoWersquove just acquired a couture line Allure and will be carrying them in the summerrdquo and that Wonderland covers all price points depending on the bridersquos needs

ldquoI feel like everything has just fallen into place with this business and wersquore very luckyrdquo she notes

We ask Patti what the one thing is shersquod like our readers to know about

Wonderland Bridal She thinks for a moment ldquoWe are not like any other bridal store and I say that because we hear that from our brides We have a lot of brides that come here after shopping around and their experiences havenrsquot always been positive Or they come here first and we encourage them to shop around We donrsquot ever pressure our brides and most of them time theyrsquoll tell us ldquoI should have picked our dress while I was herersquo Our brides are really great we have a good bond with them The [wedding dress buying] experience is a process wersquore in constant contact with them from the time they come in until the time they take the dress home

ldquoOur customer service is superb We like to hold one appointment at a time so the entire store is the bridersquos Sometimes of course we get busy [especially] on Saturdays so we have two completely separate fitting rooms

ldquo[We make sure each of our brides] feels like a princess And itrsquos hellip the most important day of their lives and this is part of the memory and wersquore just happy to be a part of itrdquo

For the curious we learned of Wonderland Bridal through Benjaminrsquos Fine Alterations amp Tailoring right here in Pompano Beach The two shops work very closely together Patti explains how these two remarkable local business found each other and yes it includes the magic of social media ldquoBenjaminrsquos

Pompano Today May 2016 19

Benjamins offers painless alterations tailoring and- yes - tuxedo rentals for the big day

and Wonderland started following each other on Instagram Wersquod like each otherrsquos photos and make a comment here and there Then I went to a networking event and one of their employees saw my name tag and grabbed me and said lsquoOh my God yoursquore with Wonderland Bridal And I looked at her nametag and said ldquoOh my God yoursquore with Benjaminrsquosrsquo And we had just recently opened our shop and we got to talking and had a meeting and just picked up from there and [Benjaminrsquos staff have] been our seamstresses since then over a year ago Victoria is an incredible seamstressrdquo

Speaking of Victoria thats her by the way in the photo at left along with Alycin and Patti and the beautiful bride who also graces our cover Learn more about Victoria and Benjamins in Part 3 below

Wonderland Bridal Couture3400 NW 62nd AveMargate FL 33063

954) 973-8695wonderlandbridalcomhomehtml

Benjamins Fine Alterations amp Tailoring2609 East Atlantic BoulevardPompano Beach FL33062

954-943-5878benjaminsalterationscom

Wedded Bliss Part 3Alert readers will recognize Benjamins Fine Alterations and Tailoring from other pages of this publication Its likely however that unless youre already patronized Benjamins (and if you havent well whyever not) you wont recognize Victoria pictured below along with the amazing team of tailors and seamstresses in this beautifully decorated shop As humble as she is talented Victoria and the team are in a word magicians

Really We may be biased having had an unfortunate episode involving a seam ripper many years ago in junior high sewing class but we all have our unique talents Every member of the staff at Benjamins is an

expert in making your clothes look their very best And of course when your clothes look their best well so do you

So drop off those pants youve been meaning to hem that jacket that needs a mite of a tuck that gorgeous blouse with the sleeves that are just a little too long - you wont regret it

And if you are one of the rare individuals whose clothes all fit perfectly Benjamins rents mens formal wear too (see the coupon on page 9)

Why go anywhere else

Photos this and facing page Paul McDermott Photography

INSTRUCTIONS

bull Mix everything adding flour until the mix is firm but not sticky (not too dry)

bull Roll the dough into small balls (about an inch across)bull Place on ungreased cookie sheet and flatten very slightlybull Bake at 350 degrees for 20-25 minutesbull While still warm sift the powdered sugar onto the cookies

INGREDIENTS

bull 1 pound sweet butter softenedbull 6 tablespoons powdered sugar (reserve for after baking)bull Flour to appropriate texturebull Vanilla to taste

Photo copy FomaA Adobe Stock

YUM

chef at home jeff eatsyour diningIn honor of this months theme allow us a bit of poetic license (which sounds so much nicer than bait and switch) Growing up in a Greek household everyone looked forward to these kourabiedes (also known as kourambiethes as well as variety of other spellings Greeks can agree on little spelling included) It was not until well after we left home that we realized how many people identified these as Mexican Wedding cookies And while every Greek will swear that the Greeks invented these there are so many near-identical versions of this cookie around the world that its difficult to tell where they originated

The recipe below is from my beloved late grandmother or Yiayia as we say in Greek It is predictably vague but these are easy to get right Enjoy

Mexican Wedding Cookies

20 Pompano Today May 2016

Pompano Today May 2016 21

your dining jeff eats

Le VinoisSimply Luscious

BY JEFF EATS

NICKrsquoS 50rsquoS DINER 1900 OKEECHOBEE BOULEVARD WEST PALM BEACH FLORIDA 33409 (561) 471-3155

A LITTLE ABOUT JEFF ldquoMy name is Jeff I was born (1949) and bred in Brooklyn New York Since 1991 I have lived full-time in South Florida and have eaten in so many restaurants (down here) that I now consider myself to be a FOOD EXPERT To give you some idea as to how many South Florida restaurants Irsquove been to as of December 31 2014 441 Italian joints alone have had the pleasure of ringing up my American Express card

Just so you know I donrsquot go for the fancy sit-down joints that want you to wear pants and a jacket but rather places where a pair of shorts an old tee shirt and a pair of sneakers is considered formal-wear I donrsquot know one sauce from another I also donrsquot know or really care how ldquodishesrdquo are prepared What I do know is when something tastes delicious and I canrsquot get enough of itrdquo To read more of Jeff rsquos picks visit jeffeatscom

Got an absolutely terrific French bakery for you guys Le Vinois Bakery in Fort Lauderdale The joint has the full-boat of breakfast items breads pastries cakes soups quiches salads sandwiches cookies coffees Order at the counter- handful of tables if you want to eat there

Jeff Eats and Mrs Jeff Eats recently did an eat-in lunchand takeout order and like I said a few seconds ago Le Vinoisrsquo stuff is absolute dynamite

Now letrsquos be adults here and let bygones be bygones- you do remember Freedom Fries sure you do With that in mind Jeff Eats absolutely loved Le Vinois Bakery and Irsquom kinda thinking that you should definitely give it a shot

Clockwise from top left copy Friedberg Adobe Stock copy Chuck Place Adobe Stock copy gkrphoto Adobe Stock copy geshas Adobe Stock

Clockwise from top Enjoy croissants a slice of lemon tart great sandwiches and delicious quiche among the many other delights at Le Vinois

Le Vinois Bakery

6322 N Powerline RoadFt Lauderdale Florida 33309

Hours of operationMonday to Friday7am to 4pm

Phone 954 771 9788

Email modinafrancisyahoocom

levinoisbakerycom

22 Pompano Today May 2016

Whether yoursquore planning a close intimate gathering or a large affair the Sample-McDougald House at Centennial Park (450 NE 10th Street Pompano Beach) sets the scene for memories that will last a lifetime The recently completed $25 million restoration of the house and grounds provides you and your guests with a memorable setting The historic house surrounded by native trees and vegetation is a beautiful background for your photos Renting the Sample-McDougald House can give you and your guests exclusive use of the house and grounds throughout your affair (subject to use guidelines) Visit wwwSampleMcDougaldHousecom to learn more about the house or call 954 691-5686 or 954 214-4759 for more details

Memories yoursquoll treasure at the Sample-McDougald House

Sitting amidst four beautiful acres the Sample-McDougald House offers one of the few

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24 Pompano Today May 2016

AROUND TOWN

a look back charlottes web

your city(the Sample family)

THANKS TO DAN HOBBY AND THE POMPANO BEACH HISTORICAL SOCIETY FOR THE PHOTO AND INFORMATION ABOUT OUR CITYS RICH AND VARIED HISTORY TO LEARN MORE ABOUT OUR CITYS FASCINATING PAST VISIT POMPANOHISTORYCOM

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Members of the Sample family gather together ca 1920 Albert Neal Sample who had the house now known as the Sample-McDougald House constructed in 1916 is standing in the second row third from the viewers right The man kneeling in the first row is Neals younger brother John who prior to 1910 was the first member of the Sample family to settle in the Pompano area The house that Neal Sample built turns 100 this year

The non-profit Sample-McDougald House Preservation Society has a number of activities and events planned to commemorate the historic houses 100th birthday For information visit SampleMcDougaldHousecom or call 754-307-5446

Pompano Today May 2016 25

What the hell do I know about wedded bliss I am a long-term and certified member of the ldquohappily single never been marriedrdquo club Relationships take work people My comfort level of commitment is agreeing to feed walk and nurture the fluffy poodle I brought home from the shelter 5 years ago Beyond thathellipIrsquom selfish And letrsquos face it no onersquos ever gotten into an argument with a dog over a miscommunication Theyrsquore perfect in that respect

But weddings are wonderful events Friends and family gathering together for a festive happy occasion weddings almost always guarantee a good time The happy couple gazing into each otherrsquos eyes while reciting wedding vows Uncle Jim having a few too many at the open bar and trying out his salsa moves on the dance floor Ah the memories we can reminisce about for years to come And the expectation is that the new union will last forever

But how does that same couple reach their 50th year wedding anniversary 50 years of wedded bliss now thatrsquos an accomplishment Since I have already mentioned that I am not exactly a go-to advisor on the subject I did what I always do Letrsquos see what the internet says It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was ldquodonrsquot be selfish and always put your partner firstrdquo Hmmm

ldquoMake it quickrdquo This tip was found when referencing the science of being happily married While it doesnrsquot reference the actual marriage itself in summary I interpreted it to read if someone annoys you now they will most inevitably annoy you much more in the future So maybe not marrying material to begin with Interestingly enough I have this one covered with my three date rule What is the three date rule you ask If there is nothing you find annoying about an individual within the first three dateshellipgreen light means go there may be a future In my case this is a bit of a challenge to achieve

And then Oprahrsquos people had to weigh in on the subject I feel compelled to share a link to a great joke I found on Oprahcom during the search It involves a couple celebrating their 50th anniversary and a mule but no worries Itrsquos a completely clean joke You can see the full joke here oprahcomrelationshipsHappy-Marriage-Tips-Love-Advice

your city charlottes web

Wedded bliss the flip side

BY CHARLOTTE SUNDQUIST

It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was

dont be selfish and always put your partner first Hmmm

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Are you back Good Am I wrong in assuming this has some ties to the three date rule

I donrsquot know I certainly havenrsquot got all the answers But Irsquove just confirmed that single is a perfectly acceptable status for me And you single people that are tired of hearing ldquoWhen are you going to settle down and get marriedrdquo Donrsquot cavehellipdo what makes you happy There is not one version of the perfect relationship ideal If itrsquos a good fit for you so be it Wersquore all different after all

And to all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work Time to go walk the dog

To all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work

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Blissful BusinessCan we be blissful in life Yes Can we be blissfully in love Yes Can we be blissful in business That depends on what your definition of a ldquoblissfulrdquo business is Is it working Monday through Thursday Is it dress down days Is it bringing in a new client or two each month Your bliss depends on what your definition is and what that looks like for your business model Letrsquos talk about a few ways you can be ldquoblissfulrdquo in business

Your Company Culture

What is the tone or perception of your company Are you rigid conservative and safe Or are you creative thought provoking and innovative You have the opportunity to transform your company culture a culture that attracts customers employees and partners Think about Google they have created a co-working collaborative happy environment at work for their employees Google has determined that their definition of ldquoblissfulrdquo is casual dress napping pods libraries and bring your dog to work days Think about what your culture is and try to create an atmosphere that people can enjoy

Better Matters

How can you perform tasks and projects ldquobetterrdquo to make it more manageable for your staff As leaders when we put our employees first the rewards are priceless What are you implementing internally to ldquobetterrdquo your employees to meet their sales goals client leads or individual quotas If you raise your standards the company will follow Being better should be the norm Better business creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo business

The Next Level

What is your definition of the reaching the next level Will reaching that level create a ldquoblissfulrdquo business Maybe yes or maybe no The next level for my business would be to add more employees and another office which would create bliss for me I would be free to do more networking and outside activities Determine and define what the ldquonext levelrdquo is for your company and see if it makes sense and creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo work environment for everyone involved

Itrsquos important to take a step back every now and then to remember why being an entrepreneur makes you happy

Determine your personal definition of a blissful business

BY TEANA MCDONALD

26 Pompano Today May 2016

working it special feature

your business special feature

Pompano Today May 2016 27

Kim Briesemeister greets us at the entrance to RMArsquos new digs a suite of comfortable welcoming offices right on Atlantic Boulevard As usual she is polished professional and enthusiastic about all of the great things happening in our city

ldquoWhat RMA brings is the technical expertise the realities of how to achieve the market visionhellipthe end result is creating a quality place that people want to live in and are proud to call home a place where businesses want to be and the city gets a certain great viberdquo Kim notes You can see this ldquoviberdquo in her eyes ndash and you know that Kim can see what the future looks like here in Pompano Beach and at that moment in time we can see it with her

What is ldquoitrdquo exactly ldquoItrdquo is what great places are made of Art Culture Safety Walkability Excitement The vision that Kim and her partner Chris Brown as well as all of the bright creative energetic staff we see is breathtaking And that feeling of hometown comfort that we all get when we return here whether after a trip to the next town over or a trip around the world is the wellspring from which all of the plans for our future originate Itrsquos still Pompano Beach but itrsquos far far better

As the publishers of this magazine for the past six years we have firsthand knowledge of all of the great people who live here and

the great things that attract more like-minded residents and visitors An airport A harbor The Intracoastal The lighthouse Thriving businesses A small-town feeling that is ever harder to maintain

Without a cohesive vision itrsquos likely that some if not all of these could be lost To paraphrase Benjamin Franklin ldquoFailing to plan is planning to failrdquo and there is no shortage of planning for this bright future going on at RMA

Speaking of that planning at that point Kim turns our attention to the consideration of an ldquoinnovation districtrdquo and this is where her enthusiasm is if possible even more palpable We are treated to a breathtaking visual tour of what is possible in such a district and oh my We can hardly contain ourselves What we ask is RMArsquos role in this endeavor ldquoWe are able to help the community go through the redevelopment processrdquo Kim responds adding that ldquo[the goal is that] in the end everyone says lsquoThis is the most amazing place to live This is where I want to bersquordquo

Yes Thatrsquos what we all want A place that wersquore even more proud to call home Proud of the looks on the faces of others when we tell them ldquoYes I live in Pompano Beachrdquo proud that we raised our children in a place where after theyrsquore grown they choose to return and put down roots of their own right here where they belong This is the place that we will create that will provide a solid foundation on which our city will continue to build on and thrive

As we prepare to depart earnest young professionals come bounding enthusiastically through the door (ok they werenrsquot really bounding ndash they are professionals ndash but they sure gave the impression of bounding)

ldquoAhhhrdquo we think to ourselves imagining an exchange with them ldquoDo you guys happen to live in Pompano Beach No Thatrsquos too badrdquo we say unable to help feeling just a tad smug ldquoItrsquos a great place to live work and playrdquo

Falling in love with the future of Pompano Beach

For the past 50 years the landscape of innovation has been dominated by places like Silicon Valleymdashsuburban corridors of spatially isolated corporate campuses accessible only by car with little emphasis on the quality of life or on integrating work housing and recreation

A new complementary urban model is now emerging giving rise to what we and others are calling ldquoinnovation districtsrdquo These districts by our definition are geographic areas where leading-edge anchor institutions and companies cluster and connect with start-ups business incubators and accelerators1 They are also physically compact transit-accessible and technically-wired and offer mixed-use housing office and retail

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts

LOOKING AHEAD TO AN EVEN BRIGHTER FUTUREFrom top left

bull Creating a Downtown Innovation District means incorporating all of the pieces of a successful plan

bull a sterling example of one such district

bull synergy in actionbull specific steps

to harness our unique strengths

bull targeted industriesbull another sterling

example this time of a complete street

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts What They Are

Economic Assets

Networking Assets

Physical Assets

InnovationEcosystemA synergistic relationship between people firms and place that facilitates idea generation and acceleratescommercialization

Target Industries

International Trade and Logistics

Marine Industry

Life Sciences and Biotechnology

Creative Design

Digital Media and Technology

Class A Office

Tourism

Advanced Materials and High-Tech Manufacturing

Redevelopment of Commercial and Residential

Alternatives Energy and Renewable Resources

AviationAerospace

Global Business Services

Global Media and Production

Headquarters and Management Operations

Human Resources and Higher Education

How to harness our ldquoDowntown Innovation Districtrdquo

1 Build a collaborative leadership network

2 Set a vision for growth to leverage our unique strengths

distinct economic clusters leading local and regional institutions and companies physical location and design advantages and other cultural attributes

3 Pursue talent and technology

4 Promote inclusive growthEquip workers with the skills they need to participate in the innovation economy or other secondary and tertiary jobs generated by innovative growth

5 Enhance access to capital

Cultural ArtsTourism

Industrial

Multi Purpose

DowntownInnovation

District

Target Industries

Education

Housing

Downtown Innovation

District

28 Pompano Today May 2016

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Volleyball with a cause Mark your calendars for the 31st Annual Volleyball Challenge on June 11th-12th 2016 at the Wyndham Sea Gardens (615 N Ocean Blvd Pompano Beach FL) Proceeds to benefit United Cerebral Palsy of South Florida Learn more at ucpsouthfloridaorg

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VROOM

all things automotiveyour rideThis monthrsquos theme is wedded bliss I started checking on an exact meaning for this title This is what was written in the English Dictionary ldquothe happiness of being marriedrdquo As I reflect back and think about life altogether whether marriage engagement purchase of a product or dealing with family and friendshellip

There are many factors in life that can afford you wedded bliss or the joy serenity and comfort of having the right lover husband or wife the right house or car the right job or titlehellip Now letrsquos admit to the fact that we all go though the ups and downs and have to face many situationshellip This is part of being human

Just imagine not having a significant other to share the joy or sadness of an event or a shoulder to cry onhellip Just imagine not having a cell phone to communicate with your loved ones or a car to get you from point A to point B

Just like a marriage you start by meeting a prospective mate lover or significant other You then starting dating and checking on the possibility of a good fit

If that is the case you start focusing on the possibility of a future together and if the positive traits in that individual outweigh the negative and if you canrsquot imagine living without himher then the marriage is to be considered

The same thing goes for the perfect car for you You have specific unique preferences based on your personality and the purpose of the car purchase

Achieving wedded bliss with your vehicle choice

The right car that will suit your needs for years to come exists It just takes a little research planning budgeting and common sense We all dream of the luxury car that we many not be able to afford but till the time comes to make our dream car a reality we will need to settle for what is achievable practical fits our need and makes us proud of the choice we made Here are some practical questions to answer would you like to get a sporty car a regular 4 door sedan a van an SUV or a truck

Would you like a practical car you may drive in city highway or would you like to go off-roading on the weekends Would you need this vehicle to tow your boat to tow your camping trip supplies or would you like to have an elegant car to show off to your friends Now we have to consider the budget and whether we want to purchase a domestic or foreign vehicle the maintenance cost the fuel efficiency and the overall look and feel of the car

We have noticed that cars reflect their ownerrsquos personality so if you are someone who is sporty adventurous have a young spirit and are financially secure then a Bugatti Veyron Porsche 911 Ford Mustang McClaren MP4- 12C Lamborghini Egoista Limited edition Mercedes AMG SL SLK Roadster or E Class Cabriolet Convertible or the Chevy Camaro come to mind Pictured on page 31 is the 2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue by the way

If you are someone who is practical enjoy trips to the mountains or the beach work full time and look for a dependable and comfortable car then check out the Cadillac CTS (pictured above) XTS or DTS Super Subaru Impreza Lexus CT 200h Sport IS 250 or ES 350 Mercedes CS or E Class Chevy Equinox Chevy Tahoe and Toyota Prius V

Cadillac CTS photo copy General Motors

Pompano Today May 2016 31

If you are the family manwoman and are seeking safety comfortable seating and an affordable vehicle with low maintenance we noticed that most of the inquiries are SUV or Van related such as the Mercedes GLA SUB GLE SUV or GLS SUV Audi Q5 Audi Allroad Toyota Sienna Ford Fex Ford Transit Connect Cadillac Escalade Cadillac SRX and letrsquos not forget the Chevy Suburban

Now if you are the hunter or you enjoy off roading every now and then the vehicles we seesell and repair most are the Ford F150 Ford Super Duty Mercedes G Class Toyota TacomaTundra Range Rover Jeep Wrangler and the Chevy Silverado

What about the green energy conscious We have had inquiries about the Toyota Prius and the Rav 4 Hybrid Audi A3 E-tron Cadillac ELR or the Chevy Spark EV Now if you are in the market for a nice ride then you need to test drive the Cadillac CT6 Plug-in Hybrid or the BMW I8 and tell me if you enjoyed the drive

Yes even car owners and their vehicles can talk about wedded bliss So if you have the

perfect car that fits your image your lifestyle your personality then congratulations because you are lucky to get the perfect car In the meantime if you are looking for a vehicle and have questions or concerns feel free to contact us and we will be glad to assist you BY JAY GHANEM

2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue copy The Ford Motor Company 2016 All Rights Reserved

HOLLYWOOD CORNER

news from the west coast

32 Pompano Today May 2016

stars in your eyesBenjamin A Onyango on keeping the faith

and making people happyWhen did you know without any doubt that you wanted to act

Ive always acted in church youth plays that I wrote myself when I was a teenager in Nairobi Kenya In 1987 I came to the United States and while attending California State University Stanislaus in Turlock California formed a traditional dance group called Upendo Singers and Cultural Dancers We wrote plays and songs and performed them in cultural festivals universities and churches After graduating in 1992 I knew I wanted to act so I struck the tent and moved to Hollywood where I joined a funk rock band called PFO and also acted as a background performer in TV and feature films What inspires you to act

I am naturally a happy person and I love it when people are happy So I cant help it but crack jokes and poke fun at myself to make people around me laugh I am inspired by other people Their presence makes me want to do stuff talk dance sing shout etc When did you realize you had reached your goals as an actor

I do not think I have reached my goal as an actor yet To me acting is an evolving thing You get to a certain level and then you strive to get better than the level you currently are on Acting has many facets and therefore many challenges There is no one way to approach acting I therefore believe that I am still reaching for that goal and I must admit that the experience indeed is the best teacher because you indeed get better at it the more you keep doing it

What was your favorite role to date and why

My favorite role to date is the movie I am currently filming called Beautifully Broken The reason its my first role as a lead actor in a feature film and best of all I am playing the role of a real person who survived the Rwanda genocide that the story is about I played a lead role before in a short film called Kwame also based on a true story and was voted best actor at the 2009 Mexico International Film Festival Beautifully Broken is a story that connects very strongly with the human spirit I can almost guarantee that there will not be a

single dry eye in the theater when its screened Its a beautifully written story of hardship resilience survival and hope

What do you enjoy most about your career

What I enjoy most about my career is the ability to travel and see different people in different parts of the world I am a people person and nothing

makes me happier than meeting and making new friends

Can we expect a book from you

Thats funny you mentioned that I write lots of movie scripts and TV show scripts and I have always thought of writing a book So on my down days on the set of Beautifully Broken I started a book Ive been toying with in my head for a while The title of the book is God Moves When We Stop Helping Him Its more of a booklet than a book Its a book about encouragement

What is the best way for your fans to know what yoursquore working on FacebookTwitter Do you post for your own sites or do you have your assistants do the posts

I hope I do have fans LOL They can find out about what I am doing or working on my Facebook page facebookcomEMEBAND or Facebook fan page facebookcomBenjiBendrix Twitter twittercombochieng Instagram instagramcombenjibendrix and imdb imdbcomnamenm1335173ref_=nv_sr I also have a website benjibendrixcom that I use

Tell us something new something bold that yoursquove never told any other magazinehellipnews tip )

Recently I was fortunate to have my TV webseries Dysfunctionally Organized pitched to a major network and they agreed to have us do a spin-off of the show So we have started the writing process Its a major achievement for my team and myself since we have been working on the show for a long time Its not easy to get an audience with a content procurement person on a major network so we feel very fortunate I cant mention the network because of confidentiality reasons

Photo of Benjamin Ochieng aka Benji Bendrix (friend of Jimi Hendrix) copy Flygirl PhotographyLearn more about Benjamin atproimdbcomnamenm1335173afro-mericarecordscommindtricksmoviecom

BY MISTY SCHWARTZ

word scrambleTHE LAST WORD

a workout for your mind

Wedded bliss All of the words in this months Scramble are related to marriage and weddings Good luck Look for the answers online beginning May 15 at pompanotodaycom

Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answerodeutx gnir oeemcryn lsuipnatgnwo iaoynmtmr rogom slrofweermdiadbis eusenv shrue ovwsnwiddge rrdemia erdib psoesuerdbhteot rceepnoit errceat eiervsc

James Stafford PhotographyfacebookcomJamesStaffordPhotography

jamesstaffordname(561) 201-1640

Pompano Today May 2016 11

We are at the top of the wedding season so I would like to offer a quick refresher on wedding dress code etiquette You receive a wedding invitation the time and the location are specified but the big thing that is left up to you is what to wear to a wedding reception There are

some general guidelines to follow such as not wearing white not wearing clothing that is overly revealing and not looking wrinkled or unkempt Even with these guidelines deciding what

to wear can still be extremely difficult These tips will reduce some of the difficulty and give you some ideas for picking the perfect outfit

When deciding on what you wear to a wedding reception make sure you know the venue for the wedding and the time of day For example a beach wedding during the day calls for a more casual look than a church wedding Keep in mind that appropriateness is necessary for all wedding receptions irrespective of the time or the place

12 Pompano Today May 2016

your lifestyle fashion forward

Proper attire requiredA guide for wedding guests

From top copy nicoletaionescuFotoliacom copy DURIS Guillaume Fotoliacom copy ysbrandcosijn Fotoliacom copy pio3 Fotoliacom

Suggestions for a Daytime Wedding

For Herbull Floral dressesbull Winter weddings Sweater and skirt

combinationsbull Summer weddings Light colored suitsbull Footwear sling-backs sandals or high

heelsbull Hats that match the rest of your outfit

For Himbull For a formal occasion wear a dark suitbull Spring or summer weddings A

seersucker or light-colored linen suitbull Winter weddings a wool suit or a

sweater underneath a smart blazer with a tie

bull A blazer with a buttoned down shirt trousers and a tie

Suggestions for a ldquoCasualrdquo Wedding

When the dress code calls for ldquoCasualrdquo wear it usually means that there is no dress code but you should still look nice and avoid jeans tank tops and shorts For a wedding ldquocasualrdquo means ldquobusiness casualrdquo

For Herbull A beautiful blouse matched with a pretty

skirt or pantsbull A summer sundress with natural makeup

amp hair

For Himbull A buttoned down or polo shirt paired with

dress pants

Suggestions for a ldquoBeach Formalrdquo Wedding

Beach Formal suggests that you should wear something fashionable but suitable for the beach

For HerA tea length or knee length formal summer sundress with flat sandals natural hair and makeup

For Himbull A summer suit matched with a linen

shirt bull Khakis or linen trousers and sandals A

tie is not required

Suggestions for an Evening Wedding

For Herbull A gown or a fancy dressbull A cocktail dress that is not overly sexy

or provocative (black is fine for this occasion)

bull A sophisticated dark color cocktail suit bull Avoid sequins sparkles and beads

unless the wedding invitation specifies ldquoblack tierdquo

For Himbull Dark smart suits bull A tuxedo for an after 6pm formal

ceremonybull For semi-formalcasual ceremonies a

blazer and slacks matched with a tie

If you stick to the guidelines above you will be all set Itrsquos all about finding a balance between being yourself and looking and feeling confident while not offending others There are lots of opportunities to wear flip-flops and cutoffs - a wedding is not one of them

BY ELAINE SIMMONS

daytime for her

evening for her

daytime for him

evening for him

Pompano Today May 2016 13

your lifestyle fashion the goods

With this ring

When approaching wedding planning and the selection of players let common sense reign The ring bearer tradition originated in ancient Egypt an elaborately decorated pillow was often used to display the jewelry during a wedding Exchanging rings became the common outward sign of betrothal and the two traditions merged which put the pillow front and center as the main apparatus for the carrying of rings at a wedding ceremony hence the need for someone to carry the pillow

Asking a young family member or child of a close friend to take on this position in your ceremony should be thought through with care and consideration While it is a wonderful way to honor and involve children in your wedding you must contemplate a few factors first

Age the age of a ring bearer is customarily in the range of 3-7 years old Younger and you are asking for trouble There is really no controlling children in this sort of setting in the first place ndash but this particular job is too much for a very small child just learning to walk I argue the sweet spot is between 4 and 5 years old However it is likely you know the child so if you think they have the maturity to handle the honor then by all means ask On the other end of the spectrum anything older than 7 or 8 begins to look odd Why not ask those young men to take on another role

Your help if you have a ring bearer then you have a flower girl and like the old Hollywood adage goes itrsquos tough to work with children and animals Make sure you have someone appointed to assist with your young charges this person must keep the two players together until they are ready to go down the aisle remind them of what theyrsquore supposed to do and where to land at the end It goes without saying that the ring bearer should be included in the rehearsal this will assuage stage fright on the big day and should eliminate any fear of what to do on his part

BY BENJAMINS FINE ALTERATIONS AND TAILORING Benjamins blends long-forgotten high standards in sewing with outstanding personal service Drop by 2609 East Atlantic Boulevard call them at 954-943-5878 or visit them online at benjaminsalterationscom

copy Arena Creative Fotoliacom copy bonniemarie Fotoliacom copy micromonkey Fotoliacom

Clothing the ring bearer is traditionally dressed in some miniature version of the groomsmens attire ndash like a little man While this is precious as can be make sure the parents have access to the outfit far enough ahead of time that they can help their son try it on so they can become comfortable in their big day attire The last thing you want is a fit pitching because the tie is lsquochokingrsquo the ring bearer

Tradition does not have to dictate every aspect of your ceremony You have creative license ndash this is your day Just make sure you approach the election of your underage wedding party members with your eyes as well as your heart wide open

14 Pompano Today May 2016

your lifestyle marital minutes

You are a ldquowerdquo not a ldquomerdquo

You cannot make decisions independently anymore Your life decisions can and will impact your spouse Repeat after us Your life decisions can and will impact your spouse If you do not learn this fairly quickly it could impact the stability of your relationship

Just because he is your husband does not mean he is perfect

Remember that both you and your husband will make mistakes You are both human beings and are fallible You need to learn to forgive and also you need to learn from your mistakes

Have fun

Although I love my children I did not take advantage of the time we had together as newlyweds and prior to having kids When a new addition enters your family it is more challenging to do things that you used to like to do together

About the StaffordsDr Gina and Jim Stafford have been married for over 15 years Throughout that time they had four beautiful children ndash all boys Over the course of their relationship they have faced ups and downs especially since three out of the four sons were diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder Despite the obstacles that came their way their marriage has grown stronger People who know the couple always ask how they do it The answer is that with hard work and faith anything is possible The couple decided to share their story their strategies and their lives with other couples to assist them in building a relationship just as strong as their own Each month we bring you their words of wisdom devoted to helping couples explore the many issues facing marriages today Read more about this engaging couple at maritalminutescom

BY DR GINA STAFFORD

copy James Stafford Photography

3 pieces of advice before you say I do

Pompano Today May 2016 15

your lifestyle your kids

Planning a wedding dollars and sense

BY MICHAEL DIPIERRO

Michael DiPierro has a decade of experience in education He currently holds a Masters degree in Educational Leadership and has 11 years of teaching experience in Broward County Public Schools

For students who entered 9th grade in the 2013-14 academic year a requirement to earn a standard high school diploma in Florida includes financial literacy instruction I think it is safe to assume that most people who have planned a wedding understand the need to be financially literate In Florida financial literacy instruction includes the knowledge understanding skills behaviors attitudes and values that will enable a student to make responsible and effective financial decisions on a daily basis

While financial literacy covers a broad range of topics in terms of planning a wedding related classroom instruction might focus on buying goods and services saving and financial investing and budgeting and debt management In 2014 the Florida State Board of Education adopted a financial-literacy strand to its Social Studies Next Generation Sunshine State Standards Nationally during the 2015 legislative session about thirty-five states and Puerto Rico considered bills related to financial literacy This is an increase from the roughly twenty-eight states and Puerto Rico that considered legislation related to financial literacy during the 2014 legislative session

Related classroom instruction might focus on buyinggoods and services

saving and financial investing and budgeting and debt

management

The Florida Department of Education approved a high school Personal Financial Literacy elective course written and submitted by the Broward County Public Schools Social Studies Office Some of the instructional practices connected to this course include providing extended learning opportunities that simulate economic scenarios and the use of real world data and evidence to answer complex high-level questions that are based on real world scenarios Although I am not endorsing any classroom projects planning a mock wedding seems like it would be a fun experience to learn about financial literacy especially since the students donrsquot really have to pay for the mock wedding

The Florida Department of Education approved a high school

Personal Financial Literacy elective course written and submitted by the

Broward County Public SchoolsSocial Studies Office

Planning a mock wedding seems like it would be

a fun experienceespecially since the students dont really

have to pay for the mock wedding

16 Pompano Today May 2016

COVER FEATURE

Ronnie and Hank Arond are a real-life fairy talethat should inspire us all

Wedded Bliss Part 1

On a clear sunny weekend morning we enter the clean bright and charming winter digs of Ronnie and Hank Arond (Of course we think that every single inch of the Ebb Tide is clean bright and charming but Ronnie and Hankrsquos quarters seem especially so)

The couple greets us with the vigor of much younger folks their energy levels are those of a much younger couple which is no surprise really given the zest for life with which theyrsquove been greeting each day together for 71 years

Yes 71 years The Aronds in fact celebrated their 72nd anniversary this March And what better place to spend it than the Ebb Tide where theyrsquove been coming each year for the past ten years

First things first however As we enter Ronnie is bustling around tidying up ldquoIrsquom putting away all the messy stuffrdquo she notes cheerfully although itrsquos clear that her standards are much higher than ours In an instant coffee tea and festive cookies are in front of us Yum

When we offer to help we are politely dismissed ldquoWersquore helpful Wersquore not helpless yetrdquo says um Honnie Really this couple speaks with one voice Sort of Throughout our interview they finish each otherrsquos sentences often or break into what can only be described as the best Burns and Allen routine ever Hank can play ndash with equal vigor ndash the comedian and the straight man of this remarkable duo (as well as the violin but more about that later) and he plays every minute and every role with a wink and a nod

Pompano Today May 2016 17

WEDDED BLISS

ldquoCollect adventures Do them

Dont ever say no to somethingrdquo

Ronnie finally sits down her hostessing duties complete Her bright blue eyes and lovely fawn colored hair make for a beautiful portrait of a life well lived her nails are polished her lipstick perfect We ask what itrsquos like to be married for 72 years ldquoNordquo Ronnie smilingly corrects us ldquoitrsquos 36 because half the time he doesnrsquot listen to merdquo

The couple met on March 4 1943 Hank lets us know that ldquoShe was on the other side of a double daterdquo At the time Hank was paired with a girl from upstate (for those who donrsquot know ldquoupstaterdquo is of course ldquoupstate New Yorkrdquo) Driving to the train station he thought to himself ldquoHow do I do thisrdquo He decided to take an interesting tactic somehow he ended up with Ronniersquos phone number in his possession And the rest as they say is history

Hank wasted no time (less than a week in fact) before taking Ronnie to a Broadway show (which they believe was ldquoShadow of a Doubtrdquo) for their first date The very next day they went on another date where Hank met Ronniersquos best friend (and passed the ldquobest friendrdquo test) For those who believe in coincidence the stars aligning divine intervention ndash call it what you will ndash two days later Ronniersquos sister was getting married and she invited Hank to be her date since her current boyfriend a Navy man was stuck in Washington DC Thus within four days Hank had met Ronniersquos entire family Two weeks after their fateful first date Hank was off to serve our country He remembers thinking ldquoIrsquom finally going to get out of Brooklynrdquo and sure enough he did ndash and got stationed in the Bronx

The proposal soon followed ldquoHe asked me to marry himrdquo Ronnie recalls ldquoand I was very young and very naiumlve and polite and I didnrsquot know how to say no So I said lsquoOK Irsquoll marry you until I find someone betterrsquordquo Exactly one year from the day they met Ronnie and Hank were wed

Ronnie begins to interject and then stops herself saying ldquoSometimes I interrupt myselfrdquo

Mind you all of the above conversation happened in probably two minutes Wow Itrsquos impossible to overstate the energy and joie de vivre that simply beams from Ronnie and Hank a beacon of love hope and happiness that is remarkable This feeling ndash that yoursquore in the presence of two incredibly special people ndash is also partly due to their strong belief in fairness justice and not least their deep commitment to faith

Interestingly the Aronds are ldquoJewish by culture and traditionrdquo Ronnie notes ldquobut not observantrdquo In fact they are now Unitarian Universalists about which they are ndash you guessed it ndash very enthusiastic They have been members of their Unitarian Universalist congregation for over two decades ldquoOur congregationrdquo they explain ldquois probably 25 Catholic 25 Jewish 25 born [in the faith] and 25 Muslim other religionshelliptheir committees are

rarr

18 Pompano Today May 2016

no different than Congressrdquo Ronnie laughs She recalls that even her parents were ldquounconcerned about religion ndash for example [they didnrsquot worry about whether I would] marry a nice Jewish boyrdquo

When not in Pompano Beach (where theyrsquove been coming for 20 years) Ronnie and Hank make their home in Bellerose Queens in the house where they raised their two children Sometimes they tell us Hank will be asked ldquoIf you could choose to have children again would yourdquo To which Hank will reply ldquoYes but not themrdquo

Hank of course is kidding as he so often is Their son is an

accomplished pediatrician who travels the world supporting nonprofit efforts Their daughter is a nurse who lives in south Florida so Ronnie and Hank get to spend a lot of time with her each winter Sadly their son lost his wife who was a Quaker Friend in Vietnam during the war three years ago to ALS Has he remarried we ask No but hersquos met a nice woman in a gospel choir Well of course he has These are resilient people who keep going through whatever life throws their way

Back to that house in Queens that they moved into 66 years ago They watched the house get built it was in one of the many new postwar developments springing up around the country to meet the needs of returning veterans and the inordinate number of new families and households springing up everywhere Every weekend during construction ldquowe drove out from the Bronxrdquo We canrsquot help but think about what an exciting and hopeful time that must have been

Ronnie and Hankrsquos son and his wife had two children their granddaughter is currently in Bogota and their grandson is at Amherst (forgive us but what she is doing in Bogota escaped us rest assured that itrsquos something selfless and fabulous Itrsquos astonishing how difficult it is to keep up with Ronnie and Hank)

Our interview with Ronnie and Hank continues at pompanotodaycom We hope that everyone reading this takes this couplersquos incredibly wise life lessons to heart and that wersquove inspired you to live every day to the fullest Ronnie and Hank are both a living example of and testament to how to make the most of every day After all theyrsquore experts ndash theyrsquove had over 70 years of practice

To all the single folks out there get out there and make every day count To all the couples getting married this season make yourselves a life that is as happy healthy and adventurous as Ronniersquos and Hankrsquos As to you two lovebirds - enjoy your summer and wersquoll see you back at the Ebb Tide next year

Patti Nachman and Alicyn Muntildeoz raise the baron bridal shops with Wonderland Bridal

Wedded Bliss Part 2Wonderland Bridalrsquos story is unique as every bridersquos wedding day Co-owners Patti Nachmann and Alicyn Muntildeoz met in their respective Mary Kay businesses and hit it off so instantly ndash and so well ndash that they became known as the ldquoMary Kay sistersrdquo Along the way Alicyn accompanied her best friend on a wedding dress shopping trip and asked

the store owner if she could set up a Mary Kay table there on the weekends The owner agreed and eventually Alicyn was working at the shop part time

She loved it so much that she became determined to open her own shop At the time Patti was still in the corporate world having spent 16 years in the field of medical billing ldquoI wentrdquo Patti recalls ldquofrom screaming at insurance companies on the phone to laughing and crying with brides as theyrsquore choosing their gownsrdquo

Patti excitedly tells us that the business is really taking off ldquoWersquove just acquired a couture line Allure and will be carrying them in the summerrdquo and that Wonderland covers all price points depending on the bridersquos needs

ldquoI feel like everything has just fallen into place with this business and wersquore very luckyrdquo she notes

We ask Patti what the one thing is shersquod like our readers to know about

Wonderland Bridal She thinks for a moment ldquoWe are not like any other bridal store and I say that because we hear that from our brides We have a lot of brides that come here after shopping around and their experiences havenrsquot always been positive Or they come here first and we encourage them to shop around We donrsquot ever pressure our brides and most of them time theyrsquoll tell us ldquoI should have picked our dress while I was herersquo Our brides are really great we have a good bond with them The [wedding dress buying] experience is a process wersquore in constant contact with them from the time they come in until the time they take the dress home

ldquoOur customer service is superb We like to hold one appointment at a time so the entire store is the bridersquos Sometimes of course we get busy [especially] on Saturdays so we have two completely separate fitting rooms

ldquo[We make sure each of our brides] feels like a princess And itrsquos hellip the most important day of their lives and this is part of the memory and wersquore just happy to be a part of itrdquo

For the curious we learned of Wonderland Bridal through Benjaminrsquos Fine Alterations amp Tailoring right here in Pompano Beach The two shops work very closely together Patti explains how these two remarkable local business found each other and yes it includes the magic of social media ldquoBenjaminrsquos

Pompano Today May 2016 19

Benjamins offers painless alterations tailoring and- yes - tuxedo rentals for the big day

and Wonderland started following each other on Instagram Wersquod like each otherrsquos photos and make a comment here and there Then I went to a networking event and one of their employees saw my name tag and grabbed me and said lsquoOh my God yoursquore with Wonderland Bridal And I looked at her nametag and said ldquoOh my God yoursquore with Benjaminrsquosrsquo And we had just recently opened our shop and we got to talking and had a meeting and just picked up from there and [Benjaminrsquos staff have] been our seamstresses since then over a year ago Victoria is an incredible seamstressrdquo

Speaking of Victoria thats her by the way in the photo at left along with Alycin and Patti and the beautiful bride who also graces our cover Learn more about Victoria and Benjamins in Part 3 below

Wonderland Bridal Couture3400 NW 62nd AveMargate FL 33063

954) 973-8695wonderlandbridalcomhomehtml

Benjamins Fine Alterations amp Tailoring2609 East Atlantic BoulevardPompano Beach FL33062

954-943-5878benjaminsalterationscom

Wedded Bliss Part 3Alert readers will recognize Benjamins Fine Alterations and Tailoring from other pages of this publication Its likely however that unless youre already patronized Benjamins (and if you havent well whyever not) you wont recognize Victoria pictured below along with the amazing team of tailors and seamstresses in this beautifully decorated shop As humble as she is talented Victoria and the team are in a word magicians

Really We may be biased having had an unfortunate episode involving a seam ripper many years ago in junior high sewing class but we all have our unique talents Every member of the staff at Benjamins is an

expert in making your clothes look their very best And of course when your clothes look their best well so do you

So drop off those pants youve been meaning to hem that jacket that needs a mite of a tuck that gorgeous blouse with the sleeves that are just a little too long - you wont regret it

And if you are one of the rare individuals whose clothes all fit perfectly Benjamins rents mens formal wear too (see the coupon on page 9)

Why go anywhere else

Photos this and facing page Paul McDermott Photography

INSTRUCTIONS

bull Mix everything adding flour until the mix is firm but not sticky (not too dry)

bull Roll the dough into small balls (about an inch across)bull Place on ungreased cookie sheet and flatten very slightlybull Bake at 350 degrees for 20-25 minutesbull While still warm sift the powdered sugar onto the cookies

INGREDIENTS

bull 1 pound sweet butter softenedbull 6 tablespoons powdered sugar (reserve for after baking)bull Flour to appropriate texturebull Vanilla to taste

Photo copy FomaA Adobe Stock

YUM

chef at home jeff eatsyour diningIn honor of this months theme allow us a bit of poetic license (which sounds so much nicer than bait and switch) Growing up in a Greek household everyone looked forward to these kourabiedes (also known as kourambiethes as well as variety of other spellings Greeks can agree on little spelling included) It was not until well after we left home that we realized how many people identified these as Mexican Wedding cookies And while every Greek will swear that the Greeks invented these there are so many near-identical versions of this cookie around the world that its difficult to tell where they originated

The recipe below is from my beloved late grandmother or Yiayia as we say in Greek It is predictably vague but these are easy to get right Enjoy

Mexican Wedding Cookies

20 Pompano Today May 2016

Pompano Today May 2016 21

your dining jeff eats

Le VinoisSimply Luscious

BY JEFF EATS

NICKrsquoS 50rsquoS DINER 1900 OKEECHOBEE BOULEVARD WEST PALM BEACH FLORIDA 33409 (561) 471-3155

A LITTLE ABOUT JEFF ldquoMy name is Jeff I was born (1949) and bred in Brooklyn New York Since 1991 I have lived full-time in South Florida and have eaten in so many restaurants (down here) that I now consider myself to be a FOOD EXPERT To give you some idea as to how many South Florida restaurants Irsquove been to as of December 31 2014 441 Italian joints alone have had the pleasure of ringing up my American Express card

Just so you know I donrsquot go for the fancy sit-down joints that want you to wear pants and a jacket but rather places where a pair of shorts an old tee shirt and a pair of sneakers is considered formal-wear I donrsquot know one sauce from another I also donrsquot know or really care how ldquodishesrdquo are prepared What I do know is when something tastes delicious and I canrsquot get enough of itrdquo To read more of Jeff rsquos picks visit jeffeatscom

Got an absolutely terrific French bakery for you guys Le Vinois Bakery in Fort Lauderdale The joint has the full-boat of breakfast items breads pastries cakes soups quiches salads sandwiches cookies coffees Order at the counter- handful of tables if you want to eat there

Jeff Eats and Mrs Jeff Eats recently did an eat-in lunchand takeout order and like I said a few seconds ago Le Vinoisrsquo stuff is absolute dynamite

Now letrsquos be adults here and let bygones be bygones- you do remember Freedom Fries sure you do With that in mind Jeff Eats absolutely loved Le Vinois Bakery and Irsquom kinda thinking that you should definitely give it a shot

Clockwise from top left copy Friedberg Adobe Stock copy Chuck Place Adobe Stock copy gkrphoto Adobe Stock copy geshas Adobe Stock

Clockwise from top Enjoy croissants a slice of lemon tart great sandwiches and delicious quiche among the many other delights at Le Vinois

Le Vinois Bakery

6322 N Powerline RoadFt Lauderdale Florida 33309

Hours of operationMonday to Friday7am to 4pm

Phone 954 771 9788

Email modinafrancisyahoocom

levinoisbakerycom

22 Pompano Today May 2016

Whether yoursquore planning a close intimate gathering or a large affair the Sample-McDougald House at Centennial Park (450 NE 10th Street Pompano Beach) sets the scene for memories that will last a lifetime The recently completed $25 million restoration of the house and grounds provides you and your guests with a memorable setting The historic house surrounded by native trees and vegetation is a beautiful background for your photos Renting the Sample-McDougald House can give you and your guests exclusive use of the house and grounds throughout your affair (subject to use guidelines) Visit wwwSampleMcDougaldHousecom to learn more about the house or call 954 691-5686 or 954 214-4759 for more details

Memories yoursquoll treasure at the Sample-McDougald House

Sitting amidst four beautiful acres the Sample-McDougald House offers one of the few

historically significant settings in the area for events of any size uniquely

suited to your special day Advertisement

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24 Pompano Today May 2016

AROUND TOWN

a look back charlottes web

your city(the Sample family)

THANKS TO DAN HOBBY AND THE POMPANO BEACH HISTORICAL SOCIETY FOR THE PHOTO AND INFORMATION ABOUT OUR CITYS RICH AND VARIED HISTORY TO LEARN MORE ABOUT OUR CITYS FASCINATING PAST VISIT POMPANOHISTORYCOM

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Members of the Sample family gather together ca 1920 Albert Neal Sample who had the house now known as the Sample-McDougald House constructed in 1916 is standing in the second row third from the viewers right The man kneeling in the first row is Neals younger brother John who prior to 1910 was the first member of the Sample family to settle in the Pompano area The house that Neal Sample built turns 100 this year

The non-profit Sample-McDougald House Preservation Society has a number of activities and events planned to commemorate the historic houses 100th birthday For information visit SampleMcDougaldHousecom or call 754-307-5446

Pompano Today May 2016 25

What the hell do I know about wedded bliss I am a long-term and certified member of the ldquohappily single never been marriedrdquo club Relationships take work people My comfort level of commitment is agreeing to feed walk and nurture the fluffy poodle I brought home from the shelter 5 years ago Beyond thathellipIrsquom selfish And letrsquos face it no onersquos ever gotten into an argument with a dog over a miscommunication Theyrsquore perfect in that respect

But weddings are wonderful events Friends and family gathering together for a festive happy occasion weddings almost always guarantee a good time The happy couple gazing into each otherrsquos eyes while reciting wedding vows Uncle Jim having a few too many at the open bar and trying out his salsa moves on the dance floor Ah the memories we can reminisce about for years to come And the expectation is that the new union will last forever

But how does that same couple reach their 50th year wedding anniversary 50 years of wedded bliss now thatrsquos an accomplishment Since I have already mentioned that I am not exactly a go-to advisor on the subject I did what I always do Letrsquos see what the internet says It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was ldquodonrsquot be selfish and always put your partner firstrdquo Hmmm

ldquoMake it quickrdquo This tip was found when referencing the science of being happily married While it doesnrsquot reference the actual marriage itself in summary I interpreted it to read if someone annoys you now they will most inevitably annoy you much more in the future So maybe not marrying material to begin with Interestingly enough I have this one covered with my three date rule What is the three date rule you ask If there is nothing you find annoying about an individual within the first three dateshellipgreen light means go there may be a future In my case this is a bit of a challenge to achieve

And then Oprahrsquos people had to weigh in on the subject I feel compelled to share a link to a great joke I found on Oprahcom during the search It involves a couple celebrating their 50th anniversary and a mule but no worries Itrsquos a completely clean joke You can see the full joke here oprahcomrelationshipsHappy-Marriage-Tips-Love-Advice

your city charlottes web

Wedded bliss the flip side

BY CHARLOTTE SUNDQUIST

It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was

dont be selfish and always put your partner first Hmmm

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Are you back Good Am I wrong in assuming this has some ties to the three date rule

I donrsquot know I certainly havenrsquot got all the answers But Irsquove just confirmed that single is a perfectly acceptable status for me And you single people that are tired of hearing ldquoWhen are you going to settle down and get marriedrdquo Donrsquot cavehellipdo what makes you happy There is not one version of the perfect relationship ideal If itrsquos a good fit for you so be it Wersquore all different after all

And to all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work Time to go walk the dog

To all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work

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Blissful BusinessCan we be blissful in life Yes Can we be blissfully in love Yes Can we be blissful in business That depends on what your definition of a ldquoblissfulrdquo business is Is it working Monday through Thursday Is it dress down days Is it bringing in a new client or two each month Your bliss depends on what your definition is and what that looks like for your business model Letrsquos talk about a few ways you can be ldquoblissfulrdquo in business

Your Company Culture

What is the tone or perception of your company Are you rigid conservative and safe Or are you creative thought provoking and innovative You have the opportunity to transform your company culture a culture that attracts customers employees and partners Think about Google they have created a co-working collaborative happy environment at work for their employees Google has determined that their definition of ldquoblissfulrdquo is casual dress napping pods libraries and bring your dog to work days Think about what your culture is and try to create an atmosphere that people can enjoy

Better Matters

How can you perform tasks and projects ldquobetterrdquo to make it more manageable for your staff As leaders when we put our employees first the rewards are priceless What are you implementing internally to ldquobetterrdquo your employees to meet their sales goals client leads or individual quotas If you raise your standards the company will follow Being better should be the norm Better business creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo business

The Next Level

What is your definition of the reaching the next level Will reaching that level create a ldquoblissfulrdquo business Maybe yes or maybe no The next level for my business would be to add more employees and another office which would create bliss for me I would be free to do more networking and outside activities Determine and define what the ldquonext levelrdquo is for your company and see if it makes sense and creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo work environment for everyone involved

Itrsquos important to take a step back every now and then to remember why being an entrepreneur makes you happy

Determine your personal definition of a blissful business

BY TEANA MCDONALD

26 Pompano Today May 2016

working it special feature

your business special feature

Pompano Today May 2016 27

Kim Briesemeister greets us at the entrance to RMArsquos new digs a suite of comfortable welcoming offices right on Atlantic Boulevard As usual she is polished professional and enthusiastic about all of the great things happening in our city

ldquoWhat RMA brings is the technical expertise the realities of how to achieve the market visionhellipthe end result is creating a quality place that people want to live in and are proud to call home a place where businesses want to be and the city gets a certain great viberdquo Kim notes You can see this ldquoviberdquo in her eyes ndash and you know that Kim can see what the future looks like here in Pompano Beach and at that moment in time we can see it with her

What is ldquoitrdquo exactly ldquoItrdquo is what great places are made of Art Culture Safety Walkability Excitement The vision that Kim and her partner Chris Brown as well as all of the bright creative energetic staff we see is breathtaking And that feeling of hometown comfort that we all get when we return here whether after a trip to the next town over or a trip around the world is the wellspring from which all of the plans for our future originate Itrsquos still Pompano Beach but itrsquos far far better

As the publishers of this magazine for the past six years we have firsthand knowledge of all of the great people who live here and

the great things that attract more like-minded residents and visitors An airport A harbor The Intracoastal The lighthouse Thriving businesses A small-town feeling that is ever harder to maintain

Without a cohesive vision itrsquos likely that some if not all of these could be lost To paraphrase Benjamin Franklin ldquoFailing to plan is planning to failrdquo and there is no shortage of planning for this bright future going on at RMA

Speaking of that planning at that point Kim turns our attention to the consideration of an ldquoinnovation districtrdquo and this is where her enthusiasm is if possible even more palpable We are treated to a breathtaking visual tour of what is possible in such a district and oh my We can hardly contain ourselves What we ask is RMArsquos role in this endeavor ldquoWe are able to help the community go through the redevelopment processrdquo Kim responds adding that ldquo[the goal is that] in the end everyone says lsquoThis is the most amazing place to live This is where I want to bersquordquo

Yes Thatrsquos what we all want A place that wersquore even more proud to call home Proud of the looks on the faces of others when we tell them ldquoYes I live in Pompano Beachrdquo proud that we raised our children in a place where after theyrsquore grown they choose to return and put down roots of their own right here where they belong This is the place that we will create that will provide a solid foundation on which our city will continue to build on and thrive

As we prepare to depart earnest young professionals come bounding enthusiastically through the door (ok they werenrsquot really bounding ndash they are professionals ndash but they sure gave the impression of bounding)

ldquoAhhhrdquo we think to ourselves imagining an exchange with them ldquoDo you guys happen to live in Pompano Beach No Thatrsquos too badrdquo we say unable to help feeling just a tad smug ldquoItrsquos a great place to live work and playrdquo

Falling in love with the future of Pompano Beach

For the past 50 years the landscape of innovation has been dominated by places like Silicon Valleymdashsuburban corridors of spatially isolated corporate campuses accessible only by car with little emphasis on the quality of life or on integrating work housing and recreation

A new complementary urban model is now emerging giving rise to what we and others are calling ldquoinnovation districtsrdquo These districts by our definition are geographic areas where leading-edge anchor institutions and companies cluster and connect with start-ups business incubators and accelerators1 They are also physically compact transit-accessible and technically-wired and offer mixed-use housing office and retail

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts

LOOKING AHEAD TO AN EVEN BRIGHTER FUTUREFrom top left

bull Creating a Downtown Innovation District means incorporating all of the pieces of a successful plan

bull a sterling example of one such district

bull synergy in actionbull specific steps

to harness our unique strengths

bull targeted industriesbull another sterling

example this time of a complete street

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts What They Are

Economic Assets

Networking Assets

Physical Assets

InnovationEcosystemA synergistic relationship between people firms and place that facilitates idea generation and acceleratescommercialization

Target Industries

International Trade and Logistics

Marine Industry

Life Sciences and Biotechnology

Creative Design

Digital Media and Technology

Class A Office

Tourism

Advanced Materials and High-Tech Manufacturing

Redevelopment of Commercial and Residential

Alternatives Energy and Renewable Resources

AviationAerospace

Global Business Services

Global Media and Production

Headquarters and Management Operations

Human Resources and Higher Education

How to harness our ldquoDowntown Innovation Districtrdquo

1 Build a collaborative leadership network

2 Set a vision for growth to leverage our unique strengths

distinct economic clusters leading local and regional institutions and companies physical location and design advantages and other cultural attributes

3 Pursue talent and technology

4 Promote inclusive growthEquip workers with the skills they need to participate in the innovation economy or other secondary and tertiary jobs generated by innovative growth

5 Enhance access to capital

Cultural ArtsTourism

Industrial

Multi Purpose

DowntownInnovation

District

Target Industries

Education

Housing

Downtown Innovation

District

28 Pompano Today May 2016

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30 Pompano Today May 2016

VROOM

all things automotiveyour rideThis monthrsquos theme is wedded bliss I started checking on an exact meaning for this title This is what was written in the English Dictionary ldquothe happiness of being marriedrdquo As I reflect back and think about life altogether whether marriage engagement purchase of a product or dealing with family and friendshellip

There are many factors in life that can afford you wedded bliss or the joy serenity and comfort of having the right lover husband or wife the right house or car the right job or titlehellip Now letrsquos admit to the fact that we all go though the ups and downs and have to face many situationshellip This is part of being human

Just imagine not having a significant other to share the joy or sadness of an event or a shoulder to cry onhellip Just imagine not having a cell phone to communicate with your loved ones or a car to get you from point A to point B

Just like a marriage you start by meeting a prospective mate lover or significant other You then starting dating and checking on the possibility of a good fit

If that is the case you start focusing on the possibility of a future together and if the positive traits in that individual outweigh the negative and if you canrsquot imagine living without himher then the marriage is to be considered

The same thing goes for the perfect car for you You have specific unique preferences based on your personality and the purpose of the car purchase

Achieving wedded bliss with your vehicle choice

The right car that will suit your needs for years to come exists It just takes a little research planning budgeting and common sense We all dream of the luxury car that we many not be able to afford but till the time comes to make our dream car a reality we will need to settle for what is achievable practical fits our need and makes us proud of the choice we made Here are some practical questions to answer would you like to get a sporty car a regular 4 door sedan a van an SUV or a truck

Would you like a practical car you may drive in city highway or would you like to go off-roading on the weekends Would you need this vehicle to tow your boat to tow your camping trip supplies or would you like to have an elegant car to show off to your friends Now we have to consider the budget and whether we want to purchase a domestic or foreign vehicle the maintenance cost the fuel efficiency and the overall look and feel of the car

We have noticed that cars reflect their ownerrsquos personality so if you are someone who is sporty adventurous have a young spirit and are financially secure then a Bugatti Veyron Porsche 911 Ford Mustang McClaren MP4- 12C Lamborghini Egoista Limited edition Mercedes AMG SL SLK Roadster or E Class Cabriolet Convertible or the Chevy Camaro come to mind Pictured on page 31 is the 2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue by the way

If you are someone who is practical enjoy trips to the mountains or the beach work full time and look for a dependable and comfortable car then check out the Cadillac CTS (pictured above) XTS or DTS Super Subaru Impreza Lexus CT 200h Sport IS 250 or ES 350 Mercedes CS or E Class Chevy Equinox Chevy Tahoe and Toyota Prius V

Cadillac CTS photo copy General Motors

Pompano Today May 2016 31

If you are the family manwoman and are seeking safety comfortable seating and an affordable vehicle with low maintenance we noticed that most of the inquiries are SUV or Van related such as the Mercedes GLA SUB GLE SUV or GLS SUV Audi Q5 Audi Allroad Toyota Sienna Ford Fex Ford Transit Connect Cadillac Escalade Cadillac SRX and letrsquos not forget the Chevy Suburban

Now if you are the hunter or you enjoy off roading every now and then the vehicles we seesell and repair most are the Ford F150 Ford Super Duty Mercedes G Class Toyota TacomaTundra Range Rover Jeep Wrangler and the Chevy Silverado

What about the green energy conscious We have had inquiries about the Toyota Prius and the Rav 4 Hybrid Audi A3 E-tron Cadillac ELR or the Chevy Spark EV Now if you are in the market for a nice ride then you need to test drive the Cadillac CT6 Plug-in Hybrid or the BMW I8 and tell me if you enjoyed the drive

Yes even car owners and their vehicles can talk about wedded bliss So if you have the

perfect car that fits your image your lifestyle your personality then congratulations because you are lucky to get the perfect car In the meantime if you are looking for a vehicle and have questions or concerns feel free to contact us and we will be glad to assist you BY JAY GHANEM

2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue copy The Ford Motor Company 2016 All Rights Reserved

HOLLYWOOD CORNER

news from the west coast

32 Pompano Today May 2016

stars in your eyesBenjamin A Onyango on keeping the faith

and making people happyWhen did you know without any doubt that you wanted to act

Ive always acted in church youth plays that I wrote myself when I was a teenager in Nairobi Kenya In 1987 I came to the United States and while attending California State University Stanislaus in Turlock California formed a traditional dance group called Upendo Singers and Cultural Dancers We wrote plays and songs and performed them in cultural festivals universities and churches After graduating in 1992 I knew I wanted to act so I struck the tent and moved to Hollywood where I joined a funk rock band called PFO and also acted as a background performer in TV and feature films What inspires you to act

I am naturally a happy person and I love it when people are happy So I cant help it but crack jokes and poke fun at myself to make people around me laugh I am inspired by other people Their presence makes me want to do stuff talk dance sing shout etc When did you realize you had reached your goals as an actor

I do not think I have reached my goal as an actor yet To me acting is an evolving thing You get to a certain level and then you strive to get better than the level you currently are on Acting has many facets and therefore many challenges There is no one way to approach acting I therefore believe that I am still reaching for that goal and I must admit that the experience indeed is the best teacher because you indeed get better at it the more you keep doing it

What was your favorite role to date and why

My favorite role to date is the movie I am currently filming called Beautifully Broken The reason its my first role as a lead actor in a feature film and best of all I am playing the role of a real person who survived the Rwanda genocide that the story is about I played a lead role before in a short film called Kwame also based on a true story and was voted best actor at the 2009 Mexico International Film Festival Beautifully Broken is a story that connects very strongly with the human spirit I can almost guarantee that there will not be a

single dry eye in the theater when its screened Its a beautifully written story of hardship resilience survival and hope

What do you enjoy most about your career

What I enjoy most about my career is the ability to travel and see different people in different parts of the world I am a people person and nothing

makes me happier than meeting and making new friends

Can we expect a book from you

Thats funny you mentioned that I write lots of movie scripts and TV show scripts and I have always thought of writing a book So on my down days on the set of Beautifully Broken I started a book Ive been toying with in my head for a while The title of the book is God Moves When We Stop Helping Him Its more of a booklet than a book Its a book about encouragement

What is the best way for your fans to know what yoursquore working on FacebookTwitter Do you post for your own sites or do you have your assistants do the posts

I hope I do have fans LOL They can find out about what I am doing or working on my Facebook page facebookcomEMEBAND or Facebook fan page facebookcomBenjiBendrix Twitter twittercombochieng Instagram instagramcombenjibendrix and imdb imdbcomnamenm1335173ref_=nv_sr I also have a website benjibendrixcom that I use

Tell us something new something bold that yoursquove never told any other magazinehellipnews tip )

Recently I was fortunate to have my TV webseries Dysfunctionally Organized pitched to a major network and they agreed to have us do a spin-off of the show So we have started the writing process Its a major achievement for my team and myself since we have been working on the show for a long time Its not easy to get an audience with a content procurement person on a major network so we feel very fortunate I cant mention the network because of confidentiality reasons

Photo of Benjamin Ochieng aka Benji Bendrix (friend of Jimi Hendrix) copy Flygirl PhotographyLearn more about Benjamin atproimdbcomnamenm1335173afro-mericarecordscommindtricksmoviecom

BY MISTY SCHWARTZ

word scrambleTHE LAST WORD

a workout for your mind

Wedded bliss All of the words in this months Scramble are related to marriage and weddings Good luck Look for the answers online beginning May 15 at pompanotodaycom

Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answerodeutx gnir oeemcryn lsuipnatgnwo iaoynmtmr rogom slrofweermdiadbis eusenv shrue ovwsnwiddge rrdemia erdib psoesuerdbhteot rceepnoit errceat eiervsc

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We are at the top of the wedding season so I would like to offer a quick refresher on wedding dress code etiquette You receive a wedding invitation the time and the location are specified but the big thing that is left up to you is what to wear to a wedding reception There are

some general guidelines to follow such as not wearing white not wearing clothing that is overly revealing and not looking wrinkled or unkempt Even with these guidelines deciding what

to wear can still be extremely difficult These tips will reduce some of the difficulty and give you some ideas for picking the perfect outfit

When deciding on what you wear to a wedding reception make sure you know the venue for the wedding and the time of day For example a beach wedding during the day calls for a more casual look than a church wedding Keep in mind that appropriateness is necessary for all wedding receptions irrespective of the time or the place

12 Pompano Today May 2016

your lifestyle fashion forward

Proper attire requiredA guide for wedding guests

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Suggestions for a Daytime Wedding

For Herbull Floral dressesbull Winter weddings Sweater and skirt

combinationsbull Summer weddings Light colored suitsbull Footwear sling-backs sandals or high

heelsbull Hats that match the rest of your outfit

For Himbull For a formal occasion wear a dark suitbull Spring or summer weddings A

seersucker or light-colored linen suitbull Winter weddings a wool suit or a

sweater underneath a smart blazer with a tie

bull A blazer with a buttoned down shirt trousers and a tie

Suggestions for a ldquoCasualrdquo Wedding

When the dress code calls for ldquoCasualrdquo wear it usually means that there is no dress code but you should still look nice and avoid jeans tank tops and shorts For a wedding ldquocasualrdquo means ldquobusiness casualrdquo

For Herbull A beautiful blouse matched with a pretty

skirt or pantsbull A summer sundress with natural makeup

amp hair

For Himbull A buttoned down or polo shirt paired with

dress pants

Suggestions for a ldquoBeach Formalrdquo Wedding

Beach Formal suggests that you should wear something fashionable but suitable for the beach

For HerA tea length or knee length formal summer sundress with flat sandals natural hair and makeup

For Himbull A summer suit matched with a linen

shirt bull Khakis or linen trousers and sandals A

tie is not required

Suggestions for an Evening Wedding

For Herbull A gown or a fancy dressbull A cocktail dress that is not overly sexy

or provocative (black is fine for this occasion)

bull A sophisticated dark color cocktail suit bull Avoid sequins sparkles and beads

unless the wedding invitation specifies ldquoblack tierdquo

For Himbull Dark smart suits bull A tuxedo for an after 6pm formal

ceremonybull For semi-formalcasual ceremonies a

blazer and slacks matched with a tie

If you stick to the guidelines above you will be all set Itrsquos all about finding a balance between being yourself and looking and feeling confident while not offending others There are lots of opportunities to wear flip-flops and cutoffs - a wedding is not one of them

BY ELAINE SIMMONS

daytime for her

evening for her

daytime for him

evening for him

Pompano Today May 2016 13

your lifestyle fashion the goods

With this ring

When approaching wedding planning and the selection of players let common sense reign The ring bearer tradition originated in ancient Egypt an elaborately decorated pillow was often used to display the jewelry during a wedding Exchanging rings became the common outward sign of betrothal and the two traditions merged which put the pillow front and center as the main apparatus for the carrying of rings at a wedding ceremony hence the need for someone to carry the pillow

Asking a young family member or child of a close friend to take on this position in your ceremony should be thought through with care and consideration While it is a wonderful way to honor and involve children in your wedding you must contemplate a few factors first

Age the age of a ring bearer is customarily in the range of 3-7 years old Younger and you are asking for trouble There is really no controlling children in this sort of setting in the first place ndash but this particular job is too much for a very small child just learning to walk I argue the sweet spot is between 4 and 5 years old However it is likely you know the child so if you think they have the maturity to handle the honor then by all means ask On the other end of the spectrum anything older than 7 or 8 begins to look odd Why not ask those young men to take on another role

Your help if you have a ring bearer then you have a flower girl and like the old Hollywood adage goes itrsquos tough to work with children and animals Make sure you have someone appointed to assist with your young charges this person must keep the two players together until they are ready to go down the aisle remind them of what theyrsquore supposed to do and where to land at the end It goes without saying that the ring bearer should be included in the rehearsal this will assuage stage fright on the big day and should eliminate any fear of what to do on his part

BY BENJAMINS FINE ALTERATIONS AND TAILORING Benjamins blends long-forgotten high standards in sewing with outstanding personal service Drop by 2609 East Atlantic Boulevard call them at 954-943-5878 or visit them online at benjaminsalterationscom

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Clothing the ring bearer is traditionally dressed in some miniature version of the groomsmens attire ndash like a little man While this is precious as can be make sure the parents have access to the outfit far enough ahead of time that they can help their son try it on so they can become comfortable in their big day attire The last thing you want is a fit pitching because the tie is lsquochokingrsquo the ring bearer

Tradition does not have to dictate every aspect of your ceremony You have creative license ndash this is your day Just make sure you approach the election of your underage wedding party members with your eyes as well as your heart wide open

14 Pompano Today May 2016

your lifestyle marital minutes

You are a ldquowerdquo not a ldquomerdquo

You cannot make decisions independently anymore Your life decisions can and will impact your spouse Repeat after us Your life decisions can and will impact your spouse If you do not learn this fairly quickly it could impact the stability of your relationship

Just because he is your husband does not mean he is perfect

Remember that both you and your husband will make mistakes You are both human beings and are fallible You need to learn to forgive and also you need to learn from your mistakes

Have fun

Although I love my children I did not take advantage of the time we had together as newlyweds and prior to having kids When a new addition enters your family it is more challenging to do things that you used to like to do together

About the StaffordsDr Gina and Jim Stafford have been married for over 15 years Throughout that time they had four beautiful children ndash all boys Over the course of their relationship they have faced ups and downs especially since three out of the four sons were diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder Despite the obstacles that came their way their marriage has grown stronger People who know the couple always ask how they do it The answer is that with hard work and faith anything is possible The couple decided to share their story their strategies and their lives with other couples to assist them in building a relationship just as strong as their own Each month we bring you their words of wisdom devoted to helping couples explore the many issues facing marriages today Read more about this engaging couple at maritalminutescom

BY DR GINA STAFFORD

copy James Stafford Photography

3 pieces of advice before you say I do

Pompano Today May 2016 15

your lifestyle your kids

Planning a wedding dollars and sense

BY MICHAEL DIPIERRO

Michael DiPierro has a decade of experience in education He currently holds a Masters degree in Educational Leadership and has 11 years of teaching experience in Broward County Public Schools

For students who entered 9th grade in the 2013-14 academic year a requirement to earn a standard high school diploma in Florida includes financial literacy instruction I think it is safe to assume that most people who have planned a wedding understand the need to be financially literate In Florida financial literacy instruction includes the knowledge understanding skills behaviors attitudes and values that will enable a student to make responsible and effective financial decisions on a daily basis

While financial literacy covers a broad range of topics in terms of planning a wedding related classroom instruction might focus on buying goods and services saving and financial investing and budgeting and debt management In 2014 the Florida State Board of Education adopted a financial-literacy strand to its Social Studies Next Generation Sunshine State Standards Nationally during the 2015 legislative session about thirty-five states and Puerto Rico considered bills related to financial literacy This is an increase from the roughly twenty-eight states and Puerto Rico that considered legislation related to financial literacy during the 2014 legislative session

Related classroom instruction might focus on buyinggoods and services

saving and financial investing and budgeting and debt

management

The Florida Department of Education approved a high school Personal Financial Literacy elective course written and submitted by the Broward County Public Schools Social Studies Office Some of the instructional practices connected to this course include providing extended learning opportunities that simulate economic scenarios and the use of real world data and evidence to answer complex high-level questions that are based on real world scenarios Although I am not endorsing any classroom projects planning a mock wedding seems like it would be a fun experience to learn about financial literacy especially since the students donrsquot really have to pay for the mock wedding

The Florida Department of Education approved a high school

Personal Financial Literacy elective course written and submitted by the

Broward County Public SchoolsSocial Studies Office

Planning a mock wedding seems like it would be

a fun experienceespecially since the students dont really

have to pay for the mock wedding

16 Pompano Today May 2016

COVER FEATURE

Ronnie and Hank Arond are a real-life fairy talethat should inspire us all

Wedded Bliss Part 1

On a clear sunny weekend morning we enter the clean bright and charming winter digs of Ronnie and Hank Arond (Of course we think that every single inch of the Ebb Tide is clean bright and charming but Ronnie and Hankrsquos quarters seem especially so)

The couple greets us with the vigor of much younger folks their energy levels are those of a much younger couple which is no surprise really given the zest for life with which theyrsquove been greeting each day together for 71 years

Yes 71 years The Aronds in fact celebrated their 72nd anniversary this March And what better place to spend it than the Ebb Tide where theyrsquove been coming each year for the past ten years

First things first however As we enter Ronnie is bustling around tidying up ldquoIrsquom putting away all the messy stuffrdquo she notes cheerfully although itrsquos clear that her standards are much higher than ours In an instant coffee tea and festive cookies are in front of us Yum

When we offer to help we are politely dismissed ldquoWersquore helpful Wersquore not helpless yetrdquo says um Honnie Really this couple speaks with one voice Sort of Throughout our interview they finish each otherrsquos sentences often or break into what can only be described as the best Burns and Allen routine ever Hank can play ndash with equal vigor ndash the comedian and the straight man of this remarkable duo (as well as the violin but more about that later) and he plays every minute and every role with a wink and a nod

Pompano Today May 2016 17

WEDDED BLISS

ldquoCollect adventures Do them

Dont ever say no to somethingrdquo

Ronnie finally sits down her hostessing duties complete Her bright blue eyes and lovely fawn colored hair make for a beautiful portrait of a life well lived her nails are polished her lipstick perfect We ask what itrsquos like to be married for 72 years ldquoNordquo Ronnie smilingly corrects us ldquoitrsquos 36 because half the time he doesnrsquot listen to merdquo

The couple met on March 4 1943 Hank lets us know that ldquoShe was on the other side of a double daterdquo At the time Hank was paired with a girl from upstate (for those who donrsquot know ldquoupstaterdquo is of course ldquoupstate New Yorkrdquo) Driving to the train station he thought to himself ldquoHow do I do thisrdquo He decided to take an interesting tactic somehow he ended up with Ronniersquos phone number in his possession And the rest as they say is history

Hank wasted no time (less than a week in fact) before taking Ronnie to a Broadway show (which they believe was ldquoShadow of a Doubtrdquo) for their first date The very next day they went on another date where Hank met Ronniersquos best friend (and passed the ldquobest friendrdquo test) For those who believe in coincidence the stars aligning divine intervention ndash call it what you will ndash two days later Ronniersquos sister was getting married and she invited Hank to be her date since her current boyfriend a Navy man was stuck in Washington DC Thus within four days Hank had met Ronniersquos entire family Two weeks after their fateful first date Hank was off to serve our country He remembers thinking ldquoIrsquom finally going to get out of Brooklynrdquo and sure enough he did ndash and got stationed in the Bronx

The proposal soon followed ldquoHe asked me to marry himrdquo Ronnie recalls ldquoand I was very young and very naiumlve and polite and I didnrsquot know how to say no So I said lsquoOK Irsquoll marry you until I find someone betterrsquordquo Exactly one year from the day they met Ronnie and Hank were wed

Ronnie begins to interject and then stops herself saying ldquoSometimes I interrupt myselfrdquo

Mind you all of the above conversation happened in probably two minutes Wow Itrsquos impossible to overstate the energy and joie de vivre that simply beams from Ronnie and Hank a beacon of love hope and happiness that is remarkable This feeling ndash that yoursquore in the presence of two incredibly special people ndash is also partly due to their strong belief in fairness justice and not least their deep commitment to faith

Interestingly the Aronds are ldquoJewish by culture and traditionrdquo Ronnie notes ldquobut not observantrdquo In fact they are now Unitarian Universalists about which they are ndash you guessed it ndash very enthusiastic They have been members of their Unitarian Universalist congregation for over two decades ldquoOur congregationrdquo they explain ldquois probably 25 Catholic 25 Jewish 25 born [in the faith] and 25 Muslim other religionshelliptheir committees are

rarr

18 Pompano Today May 2016

no different than Congressrdquo Ronnie laughs She recalls that even her parents were ldquounconcerned about religion ndash for example [they didnrsquot worry about whether I would] marry a nice Jewish boyrdquo

When not in Pompano Beach (where theyrsquove been coming for 20 years) Ronnie and Hank make their home in Bellerose Queens in the house where they raised their two children Sometimes they tell us Hank will be asked ldquoIf you could choose to have children again would yourdquo To which Hank will reply ldquoYes but not themrdquo

Hank of course is kidding as he so often is Their son is an

accomplished pediatrician who travels the world supporting nonprofit efforts Their daughter is a nurse who lives in south Florida so Ronnie and Hank get to spend a lot of time with her each winter Sadly their son lost his wife who was a Quaker Friend in Vietnam during the war three years ago to ALS Has he remarried we ask No but hersquos met a nice woman in a gospel choir Well of course he has These are resilient people who keep going through whatever life throws their way

Back to that house in Queens that they moved into 66 years ago They watched the house get built it was in one of the many new postwar developments springing up around the country to meet the needs of returning veterans and the inordinate number of new families and households springing up everywhere Every weekend during construction ldquowe drove out from the Bronxrdquo We canrsquot help but think about what an exciting and hopeful time that must have been

Ronnie and Hankrsquos son and his wife had two children their granddaughter is currently in Bogota and their grandson is at Amherst (forgive us but what she is doing in Bogota escaped us rest assured that itrsquos something selfless and fabulous Itrsquos astonishing how difficult it is to keep up with Ronnie and Hank)

Our interview with Ronnie and Hank continues at pompanotodaycom We hope that everyone reading this takes this couplersquos incredibly wise life lessons to heart and that wersquove inspired you to live every day to the fullest Ronnie and Hank are both a living example of and testament to how to make the most of every day After all theyrsquore experts ndash theyrsquove had over 70 years of practice

To all the single folks out there get out there and make every day count To all the couples getting married this season make yourselves a life that is as happy healthy and adventurous as Ronniersquos and Hankrsquos As to you two lovebirds - enjoy your summer and wersquoll see you back at the Ebb Tide next year

Patti Nachman and Alicyn Muntildeoz raise the baron bridal shops with Wonderland Bridal

Wedded Bliss Part 2Wonderland Bridalrsquos story is unique as every bridersquos wedding day Co-owners Patti Nachmann and Alicyn Muntildeoz met in their respective Mary Kay businesses and hit it off so instantly ndash and so well ndash that they became known as the ldquoMary Kay sistersrdquo Along the way Alicyn accompanied her best friend on a wedding dress shopping trip and asked

the store owner if she could set up a Mary Kay table there on the weekends The owner agreed and eventually Alicyn was working at the shop part time

She loved it so much that she became determined to open her own shop At the time Patti was still in the corporate world having spent 16 years in the field of medical billing ldquoI wentrdquo Patti recalls ldquofrom screaming at insurance companies on the phone to laughing and crying with brides as theyrsquore choosing their gownsrdquo

Patti excitedly tells us that the business is really taking off ldquoWersquove just acquired a couture line Allure and will be carrying them in the summerrdquo and that Wonderland covers all price points depending on the bridersquos needs

ldquoI feel like everything has just fallen into place with this business and wersquore very luckyrdquo she notes

We ask Patti what the one thing is shersquod like our readers to know about

Wonderland Bridal She thinks for a moment ldquoWe are not like any other bridal store and I say that because we hear that from our brides We have a lot of brides that come here after shopping around and their experiences havenrsquot always been positive Or they come here first and we encourage them to shop around We donrsquot ever pressure our brides and most of them time theyrsquoll tell us ldquoI should have picked our dress while I was herersquo Our brides are really great we have a good bond with them The [wedding dress buying] experience is a process wersquore in constant contact with them from the time they come in until the time they take the dress home

ldquoOur customer service is superb We like to hold one appointment at a time so the entire store is the bridersquos Sometimes of course we get busy [especially] on Saturdays so we have two completely separate fitting rooms

ldquo[We make sure each of our brides] feels like a princess And itrsquos hellip the most important day of their lives and this is part of the memory and wersquore just happy to be a part of itrdquo

For the curious we learned of Wonderland Bridal through Benjaminrsquos Fine Alterations amp Tailoring right here in Pompano Beach The two shops work very closely together Patti explains how these two remarkable local business found each other and yes it includes the magic of social media ldquoBenjaminrsquos

Pompano Today May 2016 19

Benjamins offers painless alterations tailoring and- yes - tuxedo rentals for the big day

and Wonderland started following each other on Instagram Wersquod like each otherrsquos photos and make a comment here and there Then I went to a networking event and one of their employees saw my name tag and grabbed me and said lsquoOh my God yoursquore with Wonderland Bridal And I looked at her nametag and said ldquoOh my God yoursquore with Benjaminrsquosrsquo And we had just recently opened our shop and we got to talking and had a meeting and just picked up from there and [Benjaminrsquos staff have] been our seamstresses since then over a year ago Victoria is an incredible seamstressrdquo

Speaking of Victoria thats her by the way in the photo at left along with Alycin and Patti and the beautiful bride who also graces our cover Learn more about Victoria and Benjamins in Part 3 below

Wonderland Bridal Couture3400 NW 62nd AveMargate FL 33063

954) 973-8695wonderlandbridalcomhomehtml

Benjamins Fine Alterations amp Tailoring2609 East Atlantic BoulevardPompano Beach FL33062

954-943-5878benjaminsalterationscom

Wedded Bliss Part 3Alert readers will recognize Benjamins Fine Alterations and Tailoring from other pages of this publication Its likely however that unless youre already patronized Benjamins (and if you havent well whyever not) you wont recognize Victoria pictured below along with the amazing team of tailors and seamstresses in this beautifully decorated shop As humble as she is talented Victoria and the team are in a word magicians

Really We may be biased having had an unfortunate episode involving a seam ripper many years ago in junior high sewing class but we all have our unique talents Every member of the staff at Benjamins is an

expert in making your clothes look their very best And of course when your clothes look their best well so do you

So drop off those pants youve been meaning to hem that jacket that needs a mite of a tuck that gorgeous blouse with the sleeves that are just a little too long - you wont regret it

And if you are one of the rare individuals whose clothes all fit perfectly Benjamins rents mens formal wear too (see the coupon on page 9)

Why go anywhere else

Photos this and facing page Paul McDermott Photography

INSTRUCTIONS

bull Mix everything adding flour until the mix is firm but not sticky (not too dry)

bull Roll the dough into small balls (about an inch across)bull Place on ungreased cookie sheet and flatten very slightlybull Bake at 350 degrees for 20-25 minutesbull While still warm sift the powdered sugar onto the cookies

INGREDIENTS

bull 1 pound sweet butter softenedbull 6 tablespoons powdered sugar (reserve for after baking)bull Flour to appropriate texturebull Vanilla to taste

Photo copy FomaA Adobe Stock

YUM

chef at home jeff eatsyour diningIn honor of this months theme allow us a bit of poetic license (which sounds so much nicer than bait and switch) Growing up in a Greek household everyone looked forward to these kourabiedes (also known as kourambiethes as well as variety of other spellings Greeks can agree on little spelling included) It was not until well after we left home that we realized how many people identified these as Mexican Wedding cookies And while every Greek will swear that the Greeks invented these there are so many near-identical versions of this cookie around the world that its difficult to tell where they originated

The recipe below is from my beloved late grandmother or Yiayia as we say in Greek It is predictably vague but these are easy to get right Enjoy

Mexican Wedding Cookies

20 Pompano Today May 2016

Pompano Today May 2016 21

your dining jeff eats

Le VinoisSimply Luscious

BY JEFF EATS

NICKrsquoS 50rsquoS DINER 1900 OKEECHOBEE BOULEVARD WEST PALM BEACH FLORIDA 33409 (561) 471-3155

A LITTLE ABOUT JEFF ldquoMy name is Jeff I was born (1949) and bred in Brooklyn New York Since 1991 I have lived full-time in South Florida and have eaten in so many restaurants (down here) that I now consider myself to be a FOOD EXPERT To give you some idea as to how many South Florida restaurants Irsquove been to as of December 31 2014 441 Italian joints alone have had the pleasure of ringing up my American Express card

Just so you know I donrsquot go for the fancy sit-down joints that want you to wear pants and a jacket but rather places where a pair of shorts an old tee shirt and a pair of sneakers is considered formal-wear I donrsquot know one sauce from another I also donrsquot know or really care how ldquodishesrdquo are prepared What I do know is when something tastes delicious and I canrsquot get enough of itrdquo To read more of Jeff rsquos picks visit jeffeatscom

Got an absolutely terrific French bakery for you guys Le Vinois Bakery in Fort Lauderdale The joint has the full-boat of breakfast items breads pastries cakes soups quiches salads sandwiches cookies coffees Order at the counter- handful of tables if you want to eat there

Jeff Eats and Mrs Jeff Eats recently did an eat-in lunchand takeout order and like I said a few seconds ago Le Vinoisrsquo stuff is absolute dynamite

Now letrsquos be adults here and let bygones be bygones- you do remember Freedom Fries sure you do With that in mind Jeff Eats absolutely loved Le Vinois Bakery and Irsquom kinda thinking that you should definitely give it a shot

Clockwise from top left copy Friedberg Adobe Stock copy Chuck Place Adobe Stock copy gkrphoto Adobe Stock copy geshas Adobe Stock

Clockwise from top Enjoy croissants a slice of lemon tart great sandwiches and delicious quiche among the many other delights at Le Vinois

Le Vinois Bakery

6322 N Powerline RoadFt Lauderdale Florida 33309

Hours of operationMonday to Friday7am to 4pm

Phone 954 771 9788

Email modinafrancisyahoocom

levinoisbakerycom

22 Pompano Today May 2016

Whether yoursquore planning a close intimate gathering or a large affair the Sample-McDougald House at Centennial Park (450 NE 10th Street Pompano Beach) sets the scene for memories that will last a lifetime The recently completed $25 million restoration of the house and grounds provides you and your guests with a memorable setting The historic house surrounded by native trees and vegetation is a beautiful background for your photos Renting the Sample-McDougald House can give you and your guests exclusive use of the house and grounds throughout your affair (subject to use guidelines) Visit wwwSampleMcDougaldHousecom to learn more about the house or call 954 691-5686 or 954 214-4759 for more details

Memories yoursquoll treasure at the Sample-McDougald House

Sitting amidst four beautiful acres the Sample-McDougald House offers one of the few

historically significant settings in the area for events of any size uniquely

suited to your special day Advertisement

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24 Pompano Today May 2016

AROUND TOWN

a look back charlottes web

your city(the Sample family)

THANKS TO DAN HOBBY AND THE POMPANO BEACH HISTORICAL SOCIETY FOR THE PHOTO AND INFORMATION ABOUT OUR CITYS RICH AND VARIED HISTORY TO LEARN MORE ABOUT OUR CITYS FASCINATING PAST VISIT POMPANOHISTORYCOM

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Members of the Sample family gather together ca 1920 Albert Neal Sample who had the house now known as the Sample-McDougald House constructed in 1916 is standing in the second row third from the viewers right The man kneeling in the first row is Neals younger brother John who prior to 1910 was the first member of the Sample family to settle in the Pompano area The house that Neal Sample built turns 100 this year

The non-profit Sample-McDougald House Preservation Society has a number of activities and events planned to commemorate the historic houses 100th birthday For information visit SampleMcDougaldHousecom or call 754-307-5446

Pompano Today May 2016 25

What the hell do I know about wedded bliss I am a long-term and certified member of the ldquohappily single never been marriedrdquo club Relationships take work people My comfort level of commitment is agreeing to feed walk and nurture the fluffy poodle I brought home from the shelter 5 years ago Beyond thathellipIrsquom selfish And letrsquos face it no onersquos ever gotten into an argument with a dog over a miscommunication Theyrsquore perfect in that respect

But weddings are wonderful events Friends and family gathering together for a festive happy occasion weddings almost always guarantee a good time The happy couple gazing into each otherrsquos eyes while reciting wedding vows Uncle Jim having a few too many at the open bar and trying out his salsa moves on the dance floor Ah the memories we can reminisce about for years to come And the expectation is that the new union will last forever

But how does that same couple reach their 50th year wedding anniversary 50 years of wedded bliss now thatrsquos an accomplishment Since I have already mentioned that I am not exactly a go-to advisor on the subject I did what I always do Letrsquos see what the internet says It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was ldquodonrsquot be selfish and always put your partner firstrdquo Hmmm

ldquoMake it quickrdquo This tip was found when referencing the science of being happily married While it doesnrsquot reference the actual marriage itself in summary I interpreted it to read if someone annoys you now they will most inevitably annoy you much more in the future So maybe not marrying material to begin with Interestingly enough I have this one covered with my three date rule What is the three date rule you ask If there is nothing you find annoying about an individual within the first three dateshellipgreen light means go there may be a future In my case this is a bit of a challenge to achieve

And then Oprahrsquos people had to weigh in on the subject I feel compelled to share a link to a great joke I found on Oprahcom during the search It involves a couple celebrating their 50th anniversary and a mule but no worries Itrsquos a completely clean joke You can see the full joke here oprahcomrelationshipsHappy-Marriage-Tips-Love-Advice

your city charlottes web

Wedded bliss the flip side

BY CHARLOTTE SUNDQUIST

It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was

dont be selfish and always put your partner first Hmmm

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Are you back Good Am I wrong in assuming this has some ties to the three date rule

I donrsquot know I certainly havenrsquot got all the answers But Irsquove just confirmed that single is a perfectly acceptable status for me And you single people that are tired of hearing ldquoWhen are you going to settle down and get marriedrdquo Donrsquot cavehellipdo what makes you happy There is not one version of the perfect relationship ideal If itrsquos a good fit for you so be it Wersquore all different after all

And to all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work Time to go walk the dog

To all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work

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Blissful BusinessCan we be blissful in life Yes Can we be blissfully in love Yes Can we be blissful in business That depends on what your definition of a ldquoblissfulrdquo business is Is it working Monday through Thursday Is it dress down days Is it bringing in a new client or two each month Your bliss depends on what your definition is and what that looks like for your business model Letrsquos talk about a few ways you can be ldquoblissfulrdquo in business

Your Company Culture

What is the tone or perception of your company Are you rigid conservative and safe Or are you creative thought provoking and innovative You have the opportunity to transform your company culture a culture that attracts customers employees and partners Think about Google they have created a co-working collaborative happy environment at work for their employees Google has determined that their definition of ldquoblissfulrdquo is casual dress napping pods libraries and bring your dog to work days Think about what your culture is and try to create an atmosphere that people can enjoy

Better Matters

How can you perform tasks and projects ldquobetterrdquo to make it more manageable for your staff As leaders when we put our employees first the rewards are priceless What are you implementing internally to ldquobetterrdquo your employees to meet their sales goals client leads or individual quotas If you raise your standards the company will follow Being better should be the norm Better business creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo business

The Next Level

What is your definition of the reaching the next level Will reaching that level create a ldquoblissfulrdquo business Maybe yes or maybe no The next level for my business would be to add more employees and another office which would create bliss for me I would be free to do more networking and outside activities Determine and define what the ldquonext levelrdquo is for your company and see if it makes sense and creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo work environment for everyone involved

Itrsquos important to take a step back every now and then to remember why being an entrepreneur makes you happy

Determine your personal definition of a blissful business

BY TEANA MCDONALD

26 Pompano Today May 2016

working it special feature

your business special feature

Pompano Today May 2016 27

Kim Briesemeister greets us at the entrance to RMArsquos new digs a suite of comfortable welcoming offices right on Atlantic Boulevard As usual she is polished professional and enthusiastic about all of the great things happening in our city

ldquoWhat RMA brings is the technical expertise the realities of how to achieve the market visionhellipthe end result is creating a quality place that people want to live in and are proud to call home a place where businesses want to be and the city gets a certain great viberdquo Kim notes You can see this ldquoviberdquo in her eyes ndash and you know that Kim can see what the future looks like here in Pompano Beach and at that moment in time we can see it with her

What is ldquoitrdquo exactly ldquoItrdquo is what great places are made of Art Culture Safety Walkability Excitement The vision that Kim and her partner Chris Brown as well as all of the bright creative energetic staff we see is breathtaking And that feeling of hometown comfort that we all get when we return here whether after a trip to the next town over or a trip around the world is the wellspring from which all of the plans for our future originate Itrsquos still Pompano Beach but itrsquos far far better

As the publishers of this magazine for the past six years we have firsthand knowledge of all of the great people who live here and

the great things that attract more like-minded residents and visitors An airport A harbor The Intracoastal The lighthouse Thriving businesses A small-town feeling that is ever harder to maintain

Without a cohesive vision itrsquos likely that some if not all of these could be lost To paraphrase Benjamin Franklin ldquoFailing to plan is planning to failrdquo and there is no shortage of planning for this bright future going on at RMA

Speaking of that planning at that point Kim turns our attention to the consideration of an ldquoinnovation districtrdquo and this is where her enthusiasm is if possible even more palpable We are treated to a breathtaking visual tour of what is possible in such a district and oh my We can hardly contain ourselves What we ask is RMArsquos role in this endeavor ldquoWe are able to help the community go through the redevelopment processrdquo Kim responds adding that ldquo[the goal is that] in the end everyone says lsquoThis is the most amazing place to live This is where I want to bersquordquo

Yes Thatrsquos what we all want A place that wersquore even more proud to call home Proud of the looks on the faces of others when we tell them ldquoYes I live in Pompano Beachrdquo proud that we raised our children in a place where after theyrsquore grown they choose to return and put down roots of their own right here where they belong This is the place that we will create that will provide a solid foundation on which our city will continue to build on and thrive

As we prepare to depart earnest young professionals come bounding enthusiastically through the door (ok they werenrsquot really bounding ndash they are professionals ndash but they sure gave the impression of bounding)

ldquoAhhhrdquo we think to ourselves imagining an exchange with them ldquoDo you guys happen to live in Pompano Beach No Thatrsquos too badrdquo we say unable to help feeling just a tad smug ldquoItrsquos a great place to live work and playrdquo

Falling in love with the future of Pompano Beach

For the past 50 years the landscape of innovation has been dominated by places like Silicon Valleymdashsuburban corridors of spatially isolated corporate campuses accessible only by car with little emphasis on the quality of life or on integrating work housing and recreation

A new complementary urban model is now emerging giving rise to what we and others are calling ldquoinnovation districtsrdquo These districts by our definition are geographic areas where leading-edge anchor institutions and companies cluster and connect with start-ups business incubators and accelerators1 They are also physically compact transit-accessible and technically-wired and offer mixed-use housing office and retail

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts

LOOKING AHEAD TO AN EVEN BRIGHTER FUTUREFrom top left

bull Creating a Downtown Innovation District means incorporating all of the pieces of a successful plan

bull a sterling example of one such district

bull synergy in actionbull specific steps

to harness our unique strengths

bull targeted industriesbull another sterling

example this time of a complete street

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts What They Are

Economic Assets

Networking Assets

Physical Assets

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30 Pompano Today May 2016

VROOM

all things automotiveyour rideThis monthrsquos theme is wedded bliss I started checking on an exact meaning for this title This is what was written in the English Dictionary ldquothe happiness of being marriedrdquo As I reflect back and think about life altogether whether marriage engagement purchase of a product or dealing with family and friendshellip

There are many factors in life that can afford you wedded bliss or the joy serenity and comfort of having the right lover husband or wife the right house or car the right job or titlehellip Now letrsquos admit to the fact that we all go though the ups and downs and have to face many situationshellip This is part of being human

Just imagine not having a significant other to share the joy or sadness of an event or a shoulder to cry onhellip Just imagine not having a cell phone to communicate with your loved ones or a car to get you from point A to point B

Just like a marriage you start by meeting a prospective mate lover or significant other You then starting dating and checking on the possibility of a good fit

If that is the case you start focusing on the possibility of a future together and if the positive traits in that individual outweigh the negative and if you canrsquot imagine living without himher then the marriage is to be considered

The same thing goes for the perfect car for you You have specific unique preferences based on your personality and the purpose of the car purchase

Achieving wedded bliss with your vehicle choice

The right car that will suit your needs for years to come exists It just takes a little research planning budgeting and common sense We all dream of the luxury car that we many not be able to afford but till the time comes to make our dream car a reality we will need to settle for what is achievable practical fits our need and makes us proud of the choice we made Here are some practical questions to answer would you like to get a sporty car a regular 4 door sedan a van an SUV or a truck

Would you like a practical car you may drive in city highway or would you like to go off-roading on the weekends Would you need this vehicle to tow your boat to tow your camping trip supplies or would you like to have an elegant car to show off to your friends Now we have to consider the budget and whether we want to purchase a domestic or foreign vehicle the maintenance cost the fuel efficiency and the overall look and feel of the car

We have noticed that cars reflect their ownerrsquos personality so if you are someone who is sporty adventurous have a young spirit and are financially secure then a Bugatti Veyron Porsche 911 Ford Mustang McClaren MP4- 12C Lamborghini Egoista Limited edition Mercedes AMG SL SLK Roadster or E Class Cabriolet Convertible or the Chevy Camaro come to mind Pictured on page 31 is the 2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue by the way

If you are someone who is practical enjoy trips to the mountains or the beach work full time and look for a dependable and comfortable car then check out the Cadillac CTS (pictured above) XTS or DTS Super Subaru Impreza Lexus CT 200h Sport IS 250 or ES 350 Mercedes CS or E Class Chevy Equinox Chevy Tahoe and Toyota Prius V

Cadillac CTS photo copy General Motors

Pompano Today May 2016 31

If you are the family manwoman and are seeking safety comfortable seating and an affordable vehicle with low maintenance we noticed that most of the inquiries are SUV or Van related such as the Mercedes GLA SUB GLE SUV or GLS SUV Audi Q5 Audi Allroad Toyota Sienna Ford Fex Ford Transit Connect Cadillac Escalade Cadillac SRX and letrsquos not forget the Chevy Suburban

Now if you are the hunter or you enjoy off roading every now and then the vehicles we seesell and repair most are the Ford F150 Ford Super Duty Mercedes G Class Toyota TacomaTundra Range Rover Jeep Wrangler and the Chevy Silverado

What about the green energy conscious We have had inquiries about the Toyota Prius and the Rav 4 Hybrid Audi A3 E-tron Cadillac ELR or the Chevy Spark EV Now if you are in the market for a nice ride then you need to test drive the Cadillac CT6 Plug-in Hybrid or the BMW I8 and tell me if you enjoyed the drive

Yes even car owners and their vehicles can talk about wedded bliss So if you have the

perfect car that fits your image your lifestyle your personality then congratulations because you are lucky to get the perfect car In the meantime if you are looking for a vehicle and have questions or concerns feel free to contact us and we will be glad to assist you BY JAY GHANEM

2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue copy The Ford Motor Company 2016 All Rights Reserved

HOLLYWOOD CORNER

news from the west coast

32 Pompano Today May 2016

stars in your eyesBenjamin A Onyango on keeping the faith

and making people happyWhen did you know without any doubt that you wanted to act

Ive always acted in church youth plays that I wrote myself when I was a teenager in Nairobi Kenya In 1987 I came to the United States and while attending California State University Stanislaus in Turlock California formed a traditional dance group called Upendo Singers and Cultural Dancers We wrote plays and songs and performed them in cultural festivals universities and churches After graduating in 1992 I knew I wanted to act so I struck the tent and moved to Hollywood where I joined a funk rock band called PFO and also acted as a background performer in TV and feature films What inspires you to act

I am naturally a happy person and I love it when people are happy So I cant help it but crack jokes and poke fun at myself to make people around me laugh I am inspired by other people Their presence makes me want to do stuff talk dance sing shout etc When did you realize you had reached your goals as an actor

I do not think I have reached my goal as an actor yet To me acting is an evolving thing You get to a certain level and then you strive to get better than the level you currently are on Acting has many facets and therefore many challenges There is no one way to approach acting I therefore believe that I am still reaching for that goal and I must admit that the experience indeed is the best teacher because you indeed get better at it the more you keep doing it

What was your favorite role to date and why

My favorite role to date is the movie I am currently filming called Beautifully Broken The reason its my first role as a lead actor in a feature film and best of all I am playing the role of a real person who survived the Rwanda genocide that the story is about I played a lead role before in a short film called Kwame also based on a true story and was voted best actor at the 2009 Mexico International Film Festival Beautifully Broken is a story that connects very strongly with the human spirit I can almost guarantee that there will not be a

single dry eye in the theater when its screened Its a beautifully written story of hardship resilience survival and hope

What do you enjoy most about your career

What I enjoy most about my career is the ability to travel and see different people in different parts of the world I am a people person and nothing

makes me happier than meeting and making new friends

Can we expect a book from you

Thats funny you mentioned that I write lots of movie scripts and TV show scripts and I have always thought of writing a book So on my down days on the set of Beautifully Broken I started a book Ive been toying with in my head for a while The title of the book is God Moves When We Stop Helping Him Its more of a booklet than a book Its a book about encouragement

What is the best way for your fans to know what yoursquore working on FacebookTwitter Do you post for your own sites or do you have your assistants do the posts

I hope I do have fans LOL They can find out about what I am doing or working on my Facebook page facebookcomEMEBAND or Facebook fan page facebookcomBenjiBendrix Twitter twittercombochieng Instagram instagramcombenjibendrix and imdb imdbcomnamenm1335173ref_=nv_sr I also have a website benjibendrixcom that I use

Tell us something new something bold that yoursquove never told any other magazinehellipnews tip )

Recently I was fortunate to have my TV webseries Dysfunctionally Organized pitched to a major network and they agreed to have us do a spin-off of the show So we have started the writing process Its a major achievement for my team and myself since we have been working on the show for a long time Its not easy to get an audience with a content procurement person on a major network so we feel very fortunate I cant mention the network because of confidentiality reasons

Photo of Benjamin Ochieng aka Benji Bendrix (friend of Jimi Hendrix) copy Flygirl PhotographyLearn more about Benjamin atproimdbcomnamenm1335173afro-mericarecordscommindtricksmoviecom

BY MISTY SCHWARTZ

word scrambleTHE LAST WORD

a workout for your mind

Wedded bliss All of the words in this months Scramble are related to marriage and weddings Good luck Look for the answers online beginning May 15 at pompanotodaycom

Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answerodeutx gnir oeemcryn lsuipnatgnwo iaoynmtmr rogom slrofweermdiadbis eusenv shrue ovwsnwiddge rrdemia erdib psoesuerdbhteot rceepnoit errceat eiervsc

James Stafford PhotographyfacebookcomJamesStaffordPhotography

jamesstaffordname(561) 201-1640

Pompano Today May 2016 13

your lifestyle fashion the goods

With this ring

When approaching wedding planning and the selection of players let common sense reign The ring bearer tradition originated in ancient Egypt an elaborately decorated pillow was often used to display the jewelry during a wedding Exchanging rings became the common outward sign of betrothal and the two traditions merged which put the pillow front and center as the main apparatus for the carrying of rings at a wedding ceremony hence the need for someone to carry the pillow

Asking a young family member or child of a close friend to take on this position in your ceremony should be thought through with care and consideration While it is a wonderful way to honor and involve children in your wedding you must contemplate a few factors first

Age the age of a ring bearer is customarily in the range of 3-7 years old Younger and you are asking for trouble There is really no controlling children in this sort of setting in the first place ndash but this particular job is too much for a very small child just learning to walk I argue the sweet spot is between 4 and 5 years old However it is likely you know the child so if you think they have the maturity to handle the honor then by all means ask On the other end of the spectrum anything older than 7 or 8 begins to look odd Why not ask those young men to take on another role

Your help if you have a ring bearer then you have a flower girl and like the old Hollywood adage goes itrsquos tough to work with children and animals Make sure you have someone appointed to assist with your young charges this person must keep the two players together until they are ready to go down the aisle remind them of what theyrsquore supposed to do and where to land at the end It goes without saying that the ring bearer should be included in the rehearsal this will assuage stage fright on the big day and should eliminate any fear of what to do on his part

BY BENJAMINS FINE ALTERATIONS AND TAILORING Benjamins blends long-forgotten high standards in sewing with outstanding personal service Drop by 2609 East Atlantic Boulevard call them at 954-943-5878 or visit them online at benjaminsalterationscom

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Clothing the ring bearer is traditionally dressed in some miniature version of the groomsmens attire ndash like a little man While this is precious as can be make sure the parents have access to the outfit far enough ahead of time that they can help their son try it on so they can become comfortable in their big day attire The last thing you want is a fit pitching because the tie is lsquochokingrsquo the ring bearer

Tradition does not have to dictate every aspect of your ceremony You have creative license ndash this is your day Just make sure you approach the election of your underage wedding party members with your eyes as well as your heart wide open

14 Pompano Today May 2016

your lifestyle marital minutes

You are a ldquowerdquo not a ldquomerdquo

You cannot make decisions independently anymore Your life decisions can and will impact your spouse Repeat after us Your life decisions can and will impact your spouse If you do not learn this fairly quickly it could impact the stability of your relationship

Just because he is your husband does not mean he is perfect

Remember that both you and your husband will make mistakes You are both human beings and are fallible You need to learn to forgive and also you need to learn from your mistakes

Have fun

Although I love my children I did not take advantage of the time we had together as newlyweds and prior to having kids When a new addition enters your family it is more challenging to do things that you used to like to do together

About the StaffordsDr Gina and Jim Stafford have been married for over 15 years Throughout that time they had four beautiful children ndash all boys Over the course of their relationship they have faced ups and downs especially since three out of the four sons were diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder Despite the obstacles that came their way their marriage has grown stronger People who know the couple always ask how they do it The answer is that with hard work and faith anything is possible The couple decided to share their story their strategies and their lives with other couples to assist them in building a relationship just as strong as their own Each month we bring you their words of wisdom devoted to helping couples explore the many issues facing marriages today Read more about this engaging couple at maritalminutescom

BY DR GINA STAFFORD

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3 pieces of advice before you say I do

Pompano Today May 2016 15

your lifestyle your kids

Planning a wedding dollars and sense

BY MICHAEL DIPIERRO

Michael DiPierro has a decade of experience in education He currently holds a Masters degree in Educational Leadership and has 11 years of teaching experience in Broward County Public Schools

For students who entered 9th grade in the 2013-14 academic year a requirement to earn a standard high school diploma in Florida includes financial literacy instruction I think it is safe to assume that most people who have planned a wedding understand the need to be financially literate In Florida financial literacy instruction includes the knowledge understanding skills behaviors attitudes and values that will enable a student to make responsible and effective financial decisions on a daily basis

While financial literacy covers a broad range of topics in terms of planning a wedding related classroom instruction might focus on buying goods and services saving and financial investing and budgeting and debt management In 2014 the Florida State Board of Education adopted a financial-literacy strand to its Social Studies Next Generation Sunshine State Standards Nationally during the 2015 legislative session about thirty-five states and Puerto Rico considered bills related to financial literacy This is an increase from the roughly twenty-eight states and Puerto Rico that considered legislation related to financial literacy during the 2014 legislative session

Related classroom instruction might focus on buyinggoods and services

saving and financial investing and budgeting and debt

management

The Florida Department of Education approved a high school Personal Financial Literacy elective course written and submitted by the Broward County Public Schools Social Studies Office Some of the instructional practices connected to this course include providing extended learning opportunities that simulate economic scenarios and the use of real world data and evidence to answer complex high-level questions that are based on real world scenarios Although I am not endorsing any classroom projects planning a mock wedding seems like it would be a fun experience to learn about financial literacy especially since the students donrsquot really have to pay for the mock wedding

The Florida Department of Education approved a high school

Personal Financial Literacy elective course written and submitted by the

Broward County Public SchoolsSocial Studies Office

Planning a mock wedding seems like it would be

a fun experienceespecially since the students dont really

have to pay for the mock wedding

16 Pompano Today May 2016

COVER FEATURE

Ronnie and Hank Arond are a real-life fairy talethat should inspire us all

Wedded Bliss Part 1

On a clear sunny weekend morning we enter the clean bright and charming winter digs of Ronnie and Hank Arond (Of course we think that every single inch of the Ebb Tide is clean bright and charming but Ronnie and Hankrsquos quarters seem especially so)

The couple greets us with the vigor of much younger folks their energy levels are those of a much younger couple which is no surprise really given the zest for life with which theyrsquove been greeting each day together for 71 years

Yes 71 years The Aronds in fact celebrated their 72nd anniversary this March And what better place to spend it than the Ebb Tide where theyrsquove been coming each year for the past ten years

First things first however As we enter Ronnie is bustling around tidying up ldquoIrsquom putting away all the messy stuffrdquo she notes cheerfully although itrsquos clear that her standards are much higher than ours In an instant coffee tea and festive cookies are in front of us Yum

When we offer to help we are politely dismissed ldquoWersquore helpful Wersquore not helpless yetrdquo says um Honnie Really this couple speaks with one voice Sort of Throughout our interview they finish each otherrsquos sentences often or break into what can only be described as the best Burns and Allen routine ever Hank can play ndash with equal vigor ndash the comedian and the straight man of this remarkable duo (as well as the violin but more about that later) and he plays every minute and every role with a wink and a nod

Pompano Today May 2016 17

WEDDED BLISS

ldquoCollect adventures Do them

Dont ever say no to somethingrdquo

Ronnie finally sits down her hostessing duties complete Her bright blue eyes and lovely fawn colored hair make for a beautiful portrait of a life well lived her nails are polished her lipstick perfect We ask what itrsquos like to be married for 72 years ldquoNordquo Ronnie smilingly corrects us ldquoitrsquos 36 because half the time he doesnrsquot listen to merdquo

The couple met on March 4 1943 Hank lets us know that ldquoShe was on the other side of a double daterdquo At the time Hank was paired with a girl from upstate (for those who donrsquot know ldquoupstaterdquo is of course ldquoupstate New Yorkrdquo) Driving to the train station he thought to himself ldquoHow do I do thisrdquo He decided to take an interesting tactic somehow he ended up with Ronniersquos phone number in his possession And the rest as they say is history

Hank wasted no time (less than a week in fact) before taking Ronnie to a Broadway show (which they believe was ldquoShadow of a Doubtrdquo) for their first date The very next day they went on another date where Hank met Ronniersquos best friend (and passed the ldquobest friendrdquo test) For those who believe in coincidence the stars aligning divine intervention ndash call it what you will ndash two days later Ronniersquos sister was getting married and she invited Hank to be her date since her current boyfriend a Navy man was stuck in Washington DC Thus within four days Hank had met Ronniersquos entire family Two weeks after their fateful first date Hank was off to serve our country He remembers thinking ldquoIrsquom finally going to get out of Brooklynrdquo and sure enough he did ndash and got stationed in the Bronx

The proposal soon followed ldquoHe asked me to marry himrdquo Ronnie recalls ldquoand I was very young and very naiumlve and polite and I didnrsquot know how to say no So I said lsquoOK Irsquoll marry you until I find someone betterrsquordquo Exactly one year from the day they met Ronnie and Hank were wed

Ronnie begins to interject and then stops herself saying ldquoSometimes I interrupt myselfrdquo

Mind you all of the above conversation happened in probably two minutes Wow Itrsquos impossible to overstate the energy and joie de vivre that simply beams from Ronnie and Hank a beacon of love hope and happiness that is remarkable This feeling ndash that yoursquore in the presence of two incredibly special people ndash is also partly due to their strong belief in fairness justice and not least their deep commitment to faith

Interestingly the Aronds are ldquoJewish by culture and traditionrdquo Ronnie notes ldquobut not observantrdquo In fact they are now Unitarian Universalists about which they are ndash you guessed it ndash very enthusiastic They have been members of their Unitarian Universalist congregation for over two decades ldquoOur congregationrdquo they explain ldquois probably 25 Catholic 25 Jewish 25 born [in the faith] and 25 Muslim other religionshelliptheir committees are

rarr

18 Pompano Today May 2016

no different than Congressrdquo Ronnie laughs She recalls that even her parents were ldquounconcerned about religion ndash for example [they didnrsquot worry about whether I would] marry a nice Jewish boyrdquo

When not in Pompano Beach (where theyrsquove been coming for 20 years) Ronnie and Hank make their home in Bellerose Queens in the house where they raised their two children Sometimes they tell us Hank will be asked ldquoIf you could choose to have children again would yourdquo To which Hank will reply ldquoYes but not themrdquo

Hank of course is kidding as he so often is Their son is an

accomplished pediatrician who travels the world supporting nonprofit efforts Their daughter is a nurse who lives in south Florida so Ronnie and Hank get to spend a lot of time with her each winter Sadly their son lost his wife who was a Quaker Friend in Vietnam during the war three years ago to ALS Has he remarried we ask No but hersquos met a nice woman in a gospel choir Well of course he has These are resilient people who keep going through whatever life throws their way

Back to that house in Queens that they moved into 66 years ago They watched the house get built it was in one of the many new postwar developments springing up around the country to meet the needs of returning veterans and the inordinate number of new families and households springing up everywhere Every weekend during construction ldquowe drove out from the Bronxrdquo We canrsquot help but think about what an exciting and hopeful time that must have been

Ronnie and Hankrsquos son and his wife had two children their granddaughter is currently in Bogota and their grandson is at Amherst (forgive us but what she is doing in Bogota escaped us rest assured that itrsquos something selfless and fabulous Itrsquos astonishing how difficult it is to keep up with Ronnie and Hank)

Our interview with Ronnie and Hank continues at pompanotodaycom We hope that everyone reading this takes this couplersquos incredibly wise life lessons to heart and that wersquove inspired you to live every day to the fullest Ronnie and Hank are both a living example of and testament to how to make the most of every day After all theyrsquore experts ndash theyrsquove had over 70 years of practice

To all the single folks out there get out there and make every day count To all the couples getting married this season make yourselves a life that is as happy healthy and adventurous as Ronniersquos and Hankrsquos As to you two lovebirds - enjoy your summer and wersquoll see you back at the Ebb Tide next year

Patti Nachman and Alicyn Muntildeoz raise the baron bridal shops with Wonderland Bridal

Wedded Bliss Part 2Wonderland Bridalrsquos story is unique as every bridersquos wedding day Co-owners Patti Nachmann and Alicyn Muntildeoz met in their respective Mary Kay businesses and hit it off so instantly ndash and so well ndash that they became known as the ldquoMary Kay sistersrdquo Along the way Alicyn accompanied her best friend on a wedding dress shopping trip and asked

the store owner if she could set up a Mary Kay table there on the weekends The owner agreed and eventually Alicyn was working at the shop part time

She loved it so much that she became determined to open her own shop At the time Patti was still in the corporate world having spent 16 years in the field of medical billing ldquoI wentrdquo Patti recalls ldquofrom screaming at insurance companies on the phone to laughing and crying with brides as theyrsquore choosing their gownsrdquo

Patti excitedly tells us that the business is really taking off ldquoWersquove just acquired a couture line Allure and will be carrying them in the summerrdquo and that Wonderland covers all price points depending on the bridersquos needs

ldquoI feel like everything has just fallen into place with this business and wersquore very luckyrdquo she notes

We ask Patti what the one thing is shersquod like our readers to know about

Wonderland Bridal She thinks for a moment ldquoWe are not like any other bridal store and I say that because we hear that from our brides We have a lot of brides that come here after shopping around and their experiences havenrsquot always been positive Or they come here first and we encourage them to shop around We donrsquot ever pressure our brides and most of them time theyrsquoll tell us ldquoI should have picked our dress while I was herersquo Our brides are really great we have a good bond with them The [wedding dress buying] experience is a process wersquore in constant contact with them from the time they come in until the time they take the dress home

ldquoOur customer service is superb We like to hold one appointment at a time so the entire store is the bridersquos Sometimes of course we get busy [especially] on Saturdays so we have two completely separate fitting rooms

ldquo[We make sure each of our brides] feels like a princess And itrsquos hellip the most important day of their lives and this is part of the memory and wersquore just happy to be a part of itrdquo

For the curious we learned of Wonderland Bridal through Benjaminrsquos Fine Alterations amp Tailoring right here in Pompano Beach The two shops work very closely together Patti explains how these two remarkable local business found each other and yes it includes the magic of social media ldquoBenjaminrsquos

Pompano Today May 2016 19

Benjamins offers painless alterations tailoring and- yes - tuxedo rentals for the big day

and Wonderland started following each other on Instagram Wersquod like each otherrsquos photos and make a comment here and there Then I went to a networking event and one of their employees saw my name tag and grabbed me and said lsquoOh my God yoursquore with Wonderland Bridal And I looked at her nametag and said ldquoOh my God yoursquore with Benjaminrsquosrsquo And we had just recently opened our shop and we got to talking and had a meeting and just picked up from there and [Benjaminrsquos staff have] been our seamstresses since then over a year ago Victoria is an incredible seamstressrdquo

Speaking of Victoria thats her by the way in the photo at left along with Alycin and Patti and the beautiful bride who also graces our cover Learn more about Victoria and Benjamins in Part 3 below

Wonderland Bridal Couture3400 NW 62nd AveMargate FL 33063

954) 973-8695wonderlandbridalcomhomehtml

Benjamins Fine Alterations amp Tailoring2609 East Atlantic BoulevardPompano Beach FL33062

954-943-5878benjaminsalterationscom

Wedded Bliss Part 3Alert readers will recognize Benjamins Fine Alterations and Tailoring from other pages of this publication Its likely however that unless youre already patronized Benjamins (and if you havent well whyever not) you wont recognize Victoria pictured below along with the amazing team of tailors and seamstresses in this beautifully decorated shop As humble as she is talented Victoria and the team are in a word magicians

Really We may be biased having had an unfortunate episode involving a seam ripper many years ago in junior high sewing class but we all have our unique talents Every member of the staff at Benjamins is an

expert in making your clothes look their very best And of course when your clothes look their best well so do you

So drop off those pants youve been meaning to hem that jacket that needs a mite of a tuck that gorgeous blouse with the sleeves that are just a little too long - you wont regret it

And if you are one of the rare individuals whose clothes all fit perfectly Benjamins rents mens formal wear too (see the coupon on page 9)

Why go anywhere else

Photos this and facing page Paul McDermott Photography

INSTRUCTIONS

bull Mix everything adding flour until the mix is firm but not sticky (not too dry)

bull Roll the dough into small balls (about an inch across)bull Place on ungreased cookie sheet and flatten very slightlybull Bake at 350 degrees for 20-25 minutesbull While still warm sift the powdered sugar onto the cookies

INGREDIENTS

bull 1 pound sweet butter softenedbull 6 tablespoons powdered sugar (reserve for after baking)bull Flour to appropriate texturebull Vanilla to taste

Photo copy FomaA Adobe Stock

YUM

chef at home jeff eatsyour diningIn honor of this months theme allow us a bit of poetic license (which sounds so much nicer than bait and switch) Growing up in a Greek household everyone looked forward to these kourabiedes (also known as kourambiethes as well as variety of other spellings Greeks can agree on little spelling included) It was not until well after we left home that we realized how many people identified these as Mexican Wedding cookies And while every Greek will swear that the Greeks invented these there are so many near-identical versions of this cookie around the world that its difficult to tell where they originated

The recipe below is from my beloved late grandmother or Yiayia as we say in Greek It is predictably vague but these are easy to get right Enjoy

Mexican Wedding Cookies

20 Pompano Today May 2016

Pompano Today May 2016 21

your dining jeff eats

Le VinoisSimply Luscious

BY JEFF EATS

NICKrsquoS 50rsquoS DINER 1900 OKEECHOBEE BOULEVARD WEST PALM BEACH FLORIDA 33409 (561) 471-3155

A LITTLE ABOUT JEFF ldquoMy name is Jeff I was born (1949) and bred in Brooklyn New York Since 1991 I have lived full-time in South Florida and have eaten in so many restaurants (down here) that I now consider myself to be a FOOD EXPERT To give you some idea as to how many South Florida restaurants Irsquove been to as of December 31 2014 441 Italian joints alone have had the pleasure of ringing up my American Express card

Just so you know I donrsquot go for the fancy sit-down joints that want you to wear pants and a jacket but rather places where a pair of shorts an old tee shirt and a pair of sneakers is considered formal-wear I donrsquot know one sauce from another I also donrsquot know or really care how ldquodishesrdquo are prepared What I do know is when something tastes delicious and I canrsquot get enough of itrdquo To read more of Jeff rsquos picks visit jeffeatscom

Got an absolutely terrific French bakery for you guys Le Vinois Bakery in Fort Lauderdale The joint has the full-boat of breakfast items breads pastries cakes soups quiches salads sandwiches cookies coffees Order at the counter- handful of tables if you want to eat there

Jeff Eats and Mrs Jeff Eats recently did an eat-in lunchand takeout order and like I said a few seconds ago Le Vinoisrsquo stuff is absolute dynamite

Now letrsquos be adults here and let bygones be bygones- you do remember Freedom Fries sure you do With that in mind Jeff Eats absolutely loved Le Vinois Bakery and Irsquom kinda thinking that you should definitely give it a shot

Clockwise from top left copy Friedberg Adobe Stock copy Chuck Place Adobe Stock copy gkrphoto Adobe Stock copy geshas Adobe Stock

Clockwise from top Enjoy croissants a slice of lemon tart great sandwiches and delicious quiche among the many other delights at Le Vinois

Le Vinois Bakery

6322 N Powerline RoadFt Lauderdale Florida 33309

Hours of operationMonday to Friday7am to 4pm

Phone 954 771 9788

Email modinafrancisyahoocom

levinoisbakerycom

22 Pompano Today May 2016

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24 Pompano Today May 2016

AROUND TOWN

a look back charlottes web

your city(the Sample family)

THANKS TO DAN HOBBY AND THE POMPANO BEACH HISTORICAL SOCIETY FOR THE PHOTO AND INFORMATION ABOUT OUR CITYS RICH AND VARIED HISTORY TO LEARN MORE ABOUT OUR CITYS FASCINATING PAST VISIT POMPANOHISTORYCOM

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Members of the Sample family gather together ca 1920 Albert Neal Sample who had the house now known as the Sample-McDougald House constructed in 1916 is standing in the second row third from the viewers right The man kneeling in the first row is Neals younger brother John who prior to 1910 was the first member of the Sample family to settle in the Pompano area The house that Neal Sample built turns 100 this year

The non-profit Sample-McDougald House Preservation Society has a number of activities and events planned to commemorate the historic houses 100th birthday For information visit SampleMcDougaldHousecom or call 754-307-5446

Pompano Today May 2016 25

What the hell do I know about wedded bliss I am a long-term and certified member of the ldquohappily single never been marriedrdquo club Relationships take work people My comfort level of commitment is agreeing to feed walk and nurture the fluffy poodle I brought home from the shelter 5 years ago Beyond thathellipIrsquom selfish And letrsquos face it no onersquos ever gotten into an argument with a dog over a miscommunication Theyrsquore perfect in that respect

But weddings are wonderful events Friends and family gathering together for a festive happy occasion weddings almost always guarantee a good time The happy couple gazing into each otherrsquos eyes while reciting wedding vows Uncle Jim having a few too many at the open bar and trying out his salsa moves on the dance floor Ah the memories we can reminisce about for years to come And the expectation is that the new union will last forever

But how does that same couple reach their 50th year wedding anniversary 50 years of wedded bliss now thatrsquos an accomplishment Since I have already mentioned that I am not exactly a go-to advisor on the subject I did what I always do Letrsquos see what the internet says It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was ldquodonrsquot be selfish and always put your partner firstrdquo Hmmm

ldquoMake it quickrdquo This tip was found when referencing the science of being happily married While it doesnrsquot reference the actual marriage itself in summary I interpreted it to read if someone annoys you now they will most inevitably annoy you much more in the future So maybe not marrying material to begin with Interestingly enough I have this one covered with my three date rule What is the three date rule you ask If there is nothing you find annoying about an individual within the first three dateshellipgreen light means go there may be a future In my case this is a bit of a challenge to achieve

And then Oprahrsquos people had to weigh in on the subject I feel compelled to share a link to a great joke I found on Oprahcom during the search It involves a couple celebrating their 50th anniversary and a mule but no worries Itrsquos a completely clean joke You can see the full joke here oprahcomrelationshipsHappy-Marriage-Tips-Love-Advice

your city charlottes web

Wedded bliss the flip side

BY CHARLOTTE SUNDQUIST

It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was

dont be selfish and always put your partner first Hmmm

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Are you back Good Am I wrong in assuming this has some ties to the three date rule

I donrsquot know I certainly havenrsquot got all the answers But Irsquove just confirmed that single is a perfectly acceptable status for me And you single people that are tired of hearing ldquoWhen are you going to settle down and get marriedrdquo Donrsquot cavehellipdo what makes you happy There is not one version of the perfect relationship ideal If itrsquos a good fit for you so be it Wersquore all different after all

And to all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work Time to go walk the dog

To all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work

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Blissful BusinessCan we be blissful in life Yes Can we be blissfully in love Yes Can we be blissful in business That depends on what your definition of a ldquoblissfulrdquo business is Is it working Monday through Thursday Is it dress down days Is it bringing in a new client or two each month Your bliss depends on what your definition is and what that looks like for your business model Letrsquos talk about a few ways you can be ldquoblissfulrdquo in business

Your Company Culture

What is the tone or perception of your company Are you rigid conservative and safe Or are you creative thought provoking and innovative You have the opportunity to transform your company culture a culture that attracts customers employees and partners Think about Google they have created a co-working collaborative happy environment at work for their employees Google has determined that their definition of ldquoblissfulrdquo is casual dress napping pods libraries and bring your dog to work days Think about what your culture is and try to create an atmosphere that people can enjoy

Better Matters

How can you perform tasks and projects ldquobetterrdquo to make it more manageable for your staff As leaders when we put our employees first the rewards are priceless What are you implementing internally to ldquobetterrdquo your employees to meet their sales goals client leads or individual quotas If you raise your standards the company will follow Being better should be the norm Better business creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo business

The Next Level

What is your definition of the reaching the next level Will reaching that level create a ldquoblissfulrdquo business Maybe yes or maybe no The next level for my business would be to add more employees and another office which would create bliss for me I would be free to do more networking and outside activities Determine and define what the ldquonext levelrdquo is for your company and see if it makes sense and creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo work environment for everyone involved

Itrsquos important to take a step back every now and then to remember why being an entrepreneur makes you happy

Determine your personal definition of a blissful business

BY TEANA MCDONALD

26 Pompano Today May 2016

working it special feature

your business special feature

Pompano Today May 2016 27

Kim Briesemeister greets us at the entrance to RMArsquos new digs a suite of comfortable welcoming offices right on Atlantic Boulevard As usual she is polished professional and enthusiastic about all of the great things happening in our city

ldquoWhat RMA brings is the technical expertise the realities of how to achieve the market visionhellipthe end result is creating a quality place that people want to live in and are proud to call home a place where businesses want to be and the city gets a certain great viberdquo Kim notes You can see this ldquoviberdquo in her eyes ndash and you know that Kim can see what the future looks like here in Pompano Beach and at that moment in time we can see it with her

What is ldquoitrdquo exactly ldquoItrdquo is what great places are made of Art Culture Safety Walkability Excitement The vision that Kim and her partner Chris Brown as well as all of the bright creative energetic staff we see is breathtaking And that feeling of hometown comfort that we all get when we return here whether after a trip to the next town over or a trip around the world is the wellspring from which all of the plans for our future originate Itrsquos still Pompano Beach but itrsquos far far better

As the publishers of this magazine for the past six years we have firsthand knowledge of all of the great people who live here and

the great things that attract more like-minded residents and visitors An airport A harbor The Intracoastal The lighthouse Thriving businesses A small-town feeling that is ever harder to maintain

Without a cohesive vision itrsquos likely that some if not all of these could be lost To paraphrase Benjamin Franklin ldquoFailing to plan is planning to failrdquo and there is no shortage of planning for this bright future going on at RMA

Speaking of that planning at that point Kim turns our attention to the consideration of an ldquoinnovation districtrdquo and this is where her enthusiasm is if possible even more palpable We are treated to a breathtaking visual tour of what is possible in such a district and oh my We can hardly contain ourselves What we ask is RMArsquos role in this endeavor ldquoWe are able to help the community go through the redevelopment processrdquo Kim responds adding that ldquo[the goal is that] in the end everyone says lsquoThis is the most amazing place to live This is where I want to bersquordquo

Yes Thatrsquos what we all want A place that wersquore even more proud to call home Proud of the looks on the faces of others when we tell them ldquoYes I live in Pompano Beachrdquo proud that we raised our children in a place where after theyrsquore grown they choose to return and put down roots of their own right here where they belong This is the place that we will create that will provide a solid foundation on which our city will continue to build on and thrive

As we prepare to depart earnest young professionals come bounding enthusiastically through the door (ok they werenrsquot really bounding ndash they are professionals ndash but they sure gave the impression of bounding)

ldquoAhhhrdquo we think to ourselves imagining an exchange with them ldquoDo you guys happen to live in Pompano Beach No Thatrsquos too badrdquo we say unable to help feeling just a tad smug ldquoItrsquos a great place to live work and playrdquo

Falling in love with the future of Pompano Beach

For the past 50 years the landscape of innovation has been dominated by places like Silicon Valleymdashsuburban corridors of spatially isolated corporate campuses accessible only by car with little emphasis on the quality of life or on integrating work housing and recreation

A new complementary urban model is now emerging giving rise to what we and others are calling ldquoinnovation districtsrdquo These districts by our definition are geographic areas where leading-edge anchor institutions and companies cluster and connect with start-ups business incubators and accelerators1 They are also physically compact transit-accessible and technically-wired and offer mixed-use housing office and retail

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts

LOOKING AHEAD TO AN EVEN BRIGHTER FUTUREFrom top left

bull Creating a Downtown Innovation District means incorporating all of the pieces of a successful plan

bull a sterling example of one such district

bull synergy in actionbull specific steps

to harness our unique strengths

bull targeted industriesbull another sterling

example this time of a complete street

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts What They Are

Economic Assets

Networking Assets

Physical Assets

InnovationEcosystemA synergistic relationship between people firms and place that facilitates idea generation and acceleratescommercialization

Target Industries

International Trade and Logistics

Marine Industry

Life Sciences and Biotechnology

Creative Design

Digital Media and Technology

Class A Office

Tourism

Advanced Materials and High-Tech Manufacturing

Redevelopment of Commercial and Residential

Alternatives Energy and Renewable Resources

AviationAerospace

Global Business Services

Global Media and Production

Headquarters and Management Operations

Human Resources and Higher Education

How to harness our ldquoDowntown Innovation Districtrdquo

1 Build a collaborative leadership network

2 Set a vision for growth to leverage our unique strengths

distinct economic clusters leading local and regional institutions and companies physical location and design advantages and other cultural attributes

3 Pursue talent and technology

4 Promote inclusive growthEquip workers with the skills they need to participate in the innovation economy or other secondary and tertiary jobs generated by innovative growth

5 Enhance access to capital

Cultural ArtsTourism

Industrial

Multi Purpose

DowntownInnovation

District

Target Industries

Education

Housing

Downtown Innovation

District

28 Pompano Today May 2016

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Pompano Today May 2016 29

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30 Pompano Today May 2016

VROOM

all things automotiveyour rideThis monthrsquos theme is wedded bliss I started checking on an exact meaning for this title This is what was written in the English Dictionary ldquothe happiness of being marriedrdquo As I reflect back and think about life altogether whether marriage engagement purchase of a product or dealing with family and friendshellip

There are many factors in life that can afford you wedded bliss or the joy serenity and comfort of having the right lover husband or wife the right house or car the right job or titlehellip Now letrsquos admit to the fact that we all go though the ups and downs and have to face many situationshellip This is part of being human

Just imagine not having a significant other to share the joy or sadness of an event or a shoulder to cry onhellip Just imagine not having a cell phone to communicate with your loved ones or a car to get you from point A to point B

Just like a marriage you start by meeting a prospective mate lover or significant other You then starting dating and checking on the possibility of a good fit

If that is the case you start focusing on the possibility of a future together and if the positive traits in that individual outweigh the negative and if you canrsquot imagine living without himher then the marriage is to be considered

The same thing goes for the perfect car for you You have specific unique preferences based on your personality and the purpose of the car purchase

Achieving wedded bliss with your vehicle choice

The right car that will suit your needs for years to come exists It just takes a little research planning budgeting and common sense We all dream of the luxury car that we many not be able to afford but till the time comes to make our dream car a reality we will need to settle for what is achievable practical fits our need and makes us proud of the choice we made Here are some practical questions to answer would you like to get a sporty car a regular 4 door sedan a van an SUV or a truck

Would you like a practical car you may drive in city highway or would you like to go off-roading on the weekends Would you need this vehicle to tow your boat to tow your camping trip supplies or would you like to have an elegant car to show off to your friends Now we have to consider the budget and whether we want to purchase a domestic or foreign vehicle the maintenance cost the fuel efficiency and the overall look and feel of the car

We have noticed that cars reflect their ownerrsquos personality so if you are someone who is sporty adventurous have a young spirit and are financially secure then a Bugatti Veyron Porsche 911 Ford Mustang McClaren MP4- 12C Lamborghini Egoista Limited edition Mercedes AMG SL SLK Roadster or E Class Cabriolet Convertible or the Chevy Camaro come to mind Pictured on page 31 is the 2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue by the way

If you are someone who is practical enjoy trips to the mountains or the beach work full time and look for a dependable and comfortable car then check out the Cadillac CTS (pictured above) XTS or DTS Super Subaru Impreza Lexus CT 200h Sport IS 250 or ES 350 Mercedes CS or E Class Chevy Equinox Chevy Tahoe and Toyota Prius V

Cadillac CTS photo copy General Motors

Pompano Today May 2016 31

If you are the family manwoman and are seeking safety comfortable seating and an affordable vehicle with low maintenance we noticed that most of the inquiries are SUV or Van related such as the Mercedes GLA SUB GLE SUV or GLS SUV Audi Q5 Audi Allroad Toyota Sienna Ford Fex Ford Transit Connect Cadillac Escalade Cadillac SRX and letrsquos not forget the Chevy Suburban

Now if you are the hunter or you enjoy off roading every now and then the vehicles we seesell and repair most are the Ford F150 Ford Super Duty Mercedes G Class Toyota TacomaTundra Range Rover Jeep Wrangler and the Chevy Silverado

What about the green energy conscious We have had inquiries about the Toyota Prius and the Rav 4 Hybrid Audi A3 E-tron Cadillac ELR or the Chevy Spark EV Now if you are in the market for a nice ride then you need to test drive the Cadillac CT6 Plug-in Hybrid or the BMW I8 and tell me if you enjoyed the drive

Yes even car owners and their vehicles can talk about wedded bliss So if you have the

perfect car that fits your image your lifestyle your personality then congratulations because you are lucky to get the perfect car In the meantime if you are looking for a vehicle and have questions or concerns feel free to contact us and we will be glad to assist you BY JAY GHANEM

2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue copy The Ford Motor Company 2016 All Rights Reserved

HOLLYWOOD CORNER

news from the west coast

32 Pompano Today May 2016

stars in your eyesBenjamin A Onyango on keeping the faith

and making people happyWhen did you know without any doubt that you wanted to act

Ive always acted in church youth plays that I wrote myself when I was a teenager in Nairobi Kenya In 1987 I came to the United States and while attending California State University Stanislaus in Turlock California formed a traditional dance group called Upendo Singers and Cultural Dancers We wrote plays and songs and performed them in cultural festivals universities and churches After graduating in 1992 I knew I wanted to act so I struck the tent and moved to Hollywood where I joined a funk rock band called PFO and also acted as a background performer in TV and feature films What inspires you to act

I am naturally a happy person and I love it when people are happy So I cant help it but crack jokes and poke fun at myself to make people around me laugh I am inspired by other people Their presence makes me want to do stuff talk dance sing shout etc When did you realize you had reached your goals as an actor

I do not think I have reached my goal as an actor yet To me acting is an evolving thing You get to a certain level and then you strive to get better than the level you currently are on Acting has many facets and therefore many challenges There is no one way to approach acting I therefore believe that I am still reaching for that goal and I must admit that the experience indeed is the best teacher because you indeed get better at it the more you keep doing it

What was your favorite role to date and why

My favorite role to date is the movie I am currently filming called Beautifully Broken The reason its my first role as a lead actor in a feature film and best of all I am playing the role of a real person who survived the Rwanda genocide that the story is about I played a lead role before in a short film called Kwame also based on a true story and was voted best actor at the 2009 Mexico International Film Festival Beautifully Broken is a story that connects very strongly with the human spirit I can almost guarantee that there will not be a

single dry eye in the theater when its screened Its a beautifully written story of hardship resilience survival and hope

What do you enjoy most about your career

What I enjoy most about my career is the ability to travel and see different people in different parts of the world I am a people person and nothing

makes me happier than meeting and making new friends

Can we expect a book from you

Thats funny you mentioned that I write lots of movie scripts and TV show scripts and I have always thought of writing a book So on my down days on the set of Beautifully Broken I started a book Ive been toying with in my head for a while The title of the book is God Moves When We Stop Helping Him Its more of a booklet than a book Its a book about encouragement

What is the best way for your fans to know what yoursquore working on FacebookTwitter Do you post for your own sites or do you have your assistants do the posts

I hope I do have fans LOL They can find out about what I am doing or working on my Facebook page facebookcomEMEBAND or Facebook fan page facebookcomBenjiBendrix Twitter twittercombochieng Instagram instagramcombenjibendrix and imdb imdbcomnamenm1335173ref_=nv_sr I also have a website benjibendrixcom that I use

Tell us something new something bold that yoursquove never told any other magazinehellipnews tip )

Recently I was fortunate to have my TV webseries Dysfunctionally Organized pitched to a major network and they agreed to have us do a spin-off of the show So we have started the writing process Its a major achievement for my team and myself since we have been working on the show for a long time Its not easy to get an audience with a content procurement person on a major network so we feel very fortunate I cant mention the network because of confidentiality reasons

Photo of Benjamin Ochieng aka Benji Bendrix (friend of Jimi Hendrix) copy Flygirl PhotographyLearn more about Benjamin atproimdbcomnamenm1335173afro-mericarecordscommindtricksmoviecom

BY MISTY SCHWARTZ

word scrambleTHE LAST WORD

a workout for your mind

Wedded bliss All of the words in this months Scramble are related to marriage and weddings Good luck Look for the answers online beginning May 15 at pompanotodaycom

Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answerodeutx gnir oeemcryn lsuipnatgnwo iaoynmtmr rogom slrofweermdiadbis eusenv shrue ovwsnwiddge rrdemia erdib psoesuerdbhteot rceepnoit errceat eiervsc

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jamesstaffordname(561) 201-1640

14 Pompano Today May 2016

your lifestyle marital minutes

You are a ldquowerdquo not a ldquomerdquo

You cannot make decisions independently anymore Your life decisions can and will impact your spouse Repeat after us Your life decisions can and will impact your spouse If you do not learn this fairly quickly it could impact the stability of your relationship

Just because he is your husband does not mean he is perfect

Remember that both you and your husband will make mistakes You are both human beings and are fallible You need to learn to forgive and also you need to learn from your mistakes

Have fun

Although I love my children I did not take advantage of the time we had together as newlyweds and prior to having kids When a new addition enters your family it is more challenging to do things that you used to like to do together

About the StaffordsDr Gina and Jim Stafford have been married for over 15 years Throughout that time they had four beautiful children ndash all boys Over the course of their relationship they have faced ups and downs especially since three out of the four sons were diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder Despite the obstacles that came their way their marriage has grown stronger People who know the couple always ask how they do it The answer is that with hard work and faith anything is possible The couple decided to share their story their strategies and their lives with other couples to assist them in building a relationship just as strong as their own Each month we bring you their words of wisdom devoted to helping couples explore the many issues facing marriages today Read more about this engaging couple at maritalminutescom

BY DR GINA STAFFORD

copy James Stafford Photography

3 pieces of advice before you say I do

Pompano Today May 2016 15

your lifestyle your kids

Planning a wedding dollars and sense

BY MICHAEL DIPIERRO

Michael DiPierro has a decade of experience in education He currently holds a Masters degree in Educational Leadership and has 11 years of teaching experience in Broward County Public Schools

For students who entered 9th grade in the 2013-14 academic year a requirement to earn a standard high school diploma in Florida includes financial literacy instruction I think it is safe to assume that most people who have planned a wedding understand the need to be financially literate In Florida financial literacy instruction includes the knowledge understanding skills behaviors attitudes and values that will enable a student to make responsible and effective financial decisions on a daily basis

While financial literacy covers a broad range of topics in terms of planning a wedding related classroom instruction might focus on buying goods and services saving and financial investing and budgeting and debt management In 2014 the Florida State Board of Education adopted a financial-literacy strand to its Social Studies Next Generation Sunshine State Standards Nationally during the 2015 legislative session about thirty-five states and Puerto Rico considered bills related to financial literacy This is an increase from the roughly twenty-eight states and Puerto Rico that considered legislation related to financial literacy during the 2014 legislative session

Related classroom instruction might focus on buyinggoods and services

saving and financial investing and budgeting and debt

management

The Florida Department of Education approved a high school Personal Financial Literacy elective course written and submitted by the Broward County Public Schools Social Studies Office Some of the instructional practices connected to this course include providing extended learning opportunities that simulate economic scenarios and the use of real world data and evidence to answer complex high-level questions that are based on real world scenarios Although I am not endorsing any classroom projects planning a mock wedding seems like it would be a fun experience to learn about financial literacy especially since the students donrsquot really have to pay for the mock wedding

The Florida Department of Education approved a high school

Personal Financial Literacy elective course written and submitted by the

Broward County Public SchoolsSocial Studies Office

Planning a mock wedding seems like it would be

a fun experienceespecially since the students dont really

have to pay for the mock wedding

16 Pompano Today May 2016

COVER FEATURE

Ronnie and Hank Arond are a real-life fairy talethat should inspire us all

Wedded Bliss Part 1

On a clear sunny weekend morning we enter the clean bright and charming winter digs of Ronnie and Hank Arond (Of course we think that every single inch of the Ebb Tide is clean bright and charming but Ronnie and Hankrsquos quarters seem especially so)

The couple greets us with the vigor of much younger folks their energy levels are those of a much younger couple which is no surprise really given the zest for life with which theyrsquove been greeting each day together for 71 years

Yes 71 years The Aronds in fact celebrated their 72nd anniversary this March And what better place to spend it than the Ebb Tide where theyrsquove been coming each year for the past ten years

First things first however As we enter Ronnie is bustling around tidying up ldquoIrsquom putting away all the messy stuffrdquo she notes cheerfully although itrsquos clear that her standards are much higher than ours In an instant coffee tea and festive cookies are in front of us Yum

When we offer to help we are politely dismissed ldquoWersquore helpful Wersquore not helpless yetrdquo says um Honnie Really this couple speaks with one voice Sort of Throughout our interview they finish each otherrsquos sentences often or break into what can only be described as the best Burns and Allen routine ever Hank can play ndash with equal vigor ndash the comedian and the straight man of this remarkable duo (as well as the violin but more about that later) and he plays every minute and every role with a wink and a nod

Pompano Today May 2016 17

WEDDED BLISS

ldquoCollect adventures Do them

Dont ever say no to somethingrdquo

Ronnie finally sits down her hostessing duties complete Her bright blue eyes and lovely fawn colored hair make for a beautiful portrait of a life well lived her nails are polished her lipstick perfect We ask what itrsquos like to be married for 72 years ldquoNordquo Ronnie smilingly corrects us ldquoitrsquos 36 because half the time he doesnrsquot listen to merdquo

The couple met on March 4 1943 Hank lets us know that ldquoShe was on the other side of a double daterdquo At the time Hank was paired with a girl from upstate (for those who donrsquot know ldquoupstaterdquo is of course ldquoupstate New Yorkrdquo) Driving to the train station he thought to himself ldquoHow do I do thisrdquo He decided to take an interesting tactic somehow he ended up with Ronniersquos phone number in his possession And the rest as they say is history

Hank wasted no time (less than a week in fact) before taking Ronnie to a Broadway show (which they believe was ldquoShadow of a Doubtrdquo) for their first date The very next day they went on another date where Hank met Ronniersquos best friend (and passed the ldquobest friendrdquo test) For those who believe in coincidence the stars aligning divine intervention ndash call it what you will ndash two days later Ronniersquos sister was getting married and she invited Hank to be her date since her current boyfriend a Navy man was stuck in Washington DC Thus within four days Hank had met Ronniersquos entire family Two weeks after their fateful first date Hank was off to serve our country He remembers thinking ldquoIrsquom finally going to get out of Brooklynrdquo and sure enough he did ndash and got stationed in the Bronx

The proposal soon followed ldquoHe asked me to marry himrdquo Ronnie recalls ldquoand I was very young and very naiumlve and polite and I didnrsquot know how to say no So I said lsquoOK Irsquoll marry you until I find someone betterrsquordquo Exactly one year from the day they met Ronnie and Hank were wed

Ronnie begins to interject and then stops herself saying ldquoSometimes I interrupt myselfrdquo

Mind you all of the above conversation happened in probably two minutes Wow Itrsquos impossible to overstate the energy and joie de vivre that simply beams from Ronnie and Hank a beacon of love hope and happiness that is remarkable This feeling ndash that yoursquore in the presence of two incredibly special people ndash is also partly due to their strong belief in fairness justice and not least their deep commitment to faith

Interestingly the Aronds are ldquoJewish by culture and traditionrdquo Ronnie notes ldquobut not observantrdquo In fact they are now Unitarian Universalists about which they are ndash you guessed it ndash very enthusiastic They have been members of their Unitarian Universalist congregation for over two decades ldquoOur congregationrdquo they explain ldquois probably 25 Catholic 25 Jewish 25 born [in the faith] and 25 Muslim other religionshelliptheir committees are

rarr

18 Pompano Today May 2016

no different than Congressrdquo Ronnie laughs She recalls that even her parents were ldquounconcerned about religion ndash for example [they didnrsquot worry about whether I would] marry a nice Jewish boyrdquo

When not in Pompano Beach (where theyrsquove been coming for 20 years) Ronnie and Hank make their home in Bellerose Queens in the house where they raised their two children Sometimes they tell us Hank will be asked ldquoIf you could choose to have children again would yourdquo To which Hank will reply ldquoYes but not themrdquo

Hank of course is kidding as he so often is Their son is an

accomplished pediatrician who travels the world supporting nonprofit efforts Their daughter is a nurse who lives in south Florida so Ronnie and Hank get to spend a lot of time with her each winter Sadly their son lost his wife who was a Quaker Friend in Vietnam during the war three years ago to ALS Has he remarried we ask No but hersquos met a nice woman in a gospel choir Well of course he has These are resilient people who keep going through whatever life throws their way

Back to that house in Queens that they moved into 66 years ago They watched the house get built it was in one of the many new postwar developments springing up around the country to meet the needs of returning veterans and the inordinate number of new families and households springing up everywhere Every weekend during construction ldquowe drove out from the Bronxrdquo We canrsquot help but think about what an exciting and hopeful time that must have been

Ronnie and Hankrsquos son and his wife had two children their granddaughter is currently in Bogota and their grandson is at Amherst (forgive us but what she is doing in Bogota escaped us rest assured that itrsquos something selfless and fabulous Itrsquos astonishing how difficult it is to keep up with Ronnie and Hank)

Our interview with Ronnie and Hank continues at pompanotodaycom We hope that everyone reading this takes this couplersquos incredibly wise life lessons to heart and that wersquove inspired you to live every day to the fullest Ronnie and Hank are both a living example of and testament to how to make the most of every day After all theyrsquore experts ndash theyrsquove had over 70 years of practice

To all the single folks out there get out there and make every day count To all the couples getting married this season make yourselves a life that is as happy healthy and adventurous as Ronniersquos and Hankrsquos As to you two lovebirds - enjoy your summer and wersquoll see you back at the Ebb Tide next year

Patti Nachman and Alicyn Muntildeoz raise the baron bridal shops with Wonderland Bridal

Wedded Bliss Part 2Wonderland Bridalrsquos story is unique as every bridersquos wedding day Co-owners Patti Nachmann and Alicyn Muntildeoz met in their respective Mary Kay businesses and hit it off so instantly ndash and so well ndash that they became known as the ldquoMary Kay sistersrdquo Along the way Alicyn accompanied her best friend on a wedding dress shopping trip and asked

the store owner if she could set up a Mary Kay table there on the weekends The owner agreed and eventually Alicyn was working at the shop part time

She loved it so much that she became determined to open her own shop At the time Patti was still in the corporate world having spent 16 years in the field of medical billing ldquoI wentrdquo Patti recalls ldquofrom screaming at insurance companies on the phone to laughing and crying with brides as theyrsquore choosing their gownsrdquo

Patti excitedly tells us that the business is really taking off ldquoWersquove just acquired a couture line Allure and will be carrying them in the summerrdquo and that Wonderland covers all price points depending on the bridersquos needs

ldquoI feel like everything has just fallen into place with this business and wersquore very luckyrdquo she notes

We ask Patti what the one thing is shersquod like our readers to know about

Wonderland Bridal She thinks for a moment ldquoWe are not like any other bridal store and I say that because we hear that from our brides We have a lot of brides that come here after shopping around and their experiences havenrsquot always been positive Or they come here first and we encourage them to shop around We donrsquot ever pressure our brides and most of them time theyrsquoll tell us ldquoI should have picked our dress while I was herersquo Our brides are really great we have a good bond with them The [wedding dress buying] experience is a process wersquore in constant contact with them from the time they come in until the time they take the dress home

ldquoOur customer service is superb We like to hold one appointment at a time so the entire store is the bridersquos Sometimes of course we get busy [especially] on Saturdays so we have two completely separate fitting rooms

ldquo[We make sure each of our brides] feels like a princess And itrsquos hellip the most important day of their lives and this is part of the memory and wersquore just happy to be a part of itrdquo

For the curious we learned of Wonderland Bridal through Benjaminrsquos Fine Alterations amp Tailoring right here in Pompano Beach The two shops work very closely together Patti explains how these two remarkable local business found each other and yes it includes the magic of social media ldquoBenjaminrsquos

Pompano Today May 2016 19

Benjamins offers painless alterations tailoring and- yes - tuxedo rentals for the big day

and Wonderland started following each other on Instagram Wersquod like each otherrsquos photos and make a comment here and there Then I went to a networking event and one of their employees saw my name tag and grabbed me and said lsquoOh my God yoursquore with Wonderland Bridal And I looked at her nametag and said ldquoOh my God yoursquore with Benjaminrsquosrsquo And we had just recently opened our shop and we got to talking and had a meeting and just picked up from there and [Benjaminrsquos staff have] been our seamstresses since then over a year ago Victoria is an incredible seamstressrdquo

Speaking of Victoria thats her by the way in the photo at left along with Alycin and Patti and the beautiful bride who also graces our cover Learn more about Victoria and Benjamins in Part 3 below

Wonderland Bridal Couture3400 NW 62nd AveMargate FL 33063

954) 973-8695wonderlandbridalcomhomehtml

Benjamins Fine Alterations amp Tailoring2609 East Atlantic BoulevardPompano Beach FL33062

954-943-5878benjaminsalterationscom

Wedded Bliss Part 3Alert readers will recognize Benjamins Fine Alterations and Tailoring from other pages of this publication Its likely however that unless youre already patronized Benjamins (and if you havent well whyever not) you wont recognize Victoria pictured below along with the amazing team of tailors and seamstresses in this beautifully decorated shop As humble as she is talented Victoria and the team are in a word magicians

Really We may be biased having had an unfortunate episode involving a seam ripper many years ago in junior high sewing class but we all have our unique talents Every member of the staff at Benjamins is an

expert in making your clothes look their very best And of course when your clothes look their best well so do you

So drop off those pants youve been meaning to hem that jacket that needs a mite of a tuck that gorgeous blouse with the sleeves that are just a little too long - you wont regret it

And if you are one of the rare individuals whose clothes all fit perfectly Benjamins rents mens formal wear too (see the coupon on page 9)

Why go anywhere else

Photos this and facing page Paul McDermott Photography

INSTRUCTIONS

bull Mix everything adding flour until the mix is firm but not sticky (not too dry)

bull Roll the dough into small balls (about an inch across)bull Place on ungreased cookie sheet and flatten very slightlybull Bake at 350 degrees for 20-25 minutesbull While still warm sift the powdered sugar onto the cookies

INGREDIENTS

bull 1 pound sweet butter softenedbull 6 tablespoons powdered sugar (reserve for after baking)bull Flour to appropriate texturebull Vanilla to taste

Photo copy FomaA Adobe Stock

YUM

chef at home jeff eatsyour diningIn honor of this months theme allow us a bit of poetic license (which sounds so much nicer than bait and switch) Growing up in a Greek household everyone looked forward to these kourabiedes (also known as kourambiethes as well as variety of other spellings Greeks can agree on little spelling included) It was not until well after we left home that we realized how many people identified these as Mexican Wedding cookies And while every Greek will swear that the Greeks invented these there are so many near-identical versions of this cookie around the world that its difficult to tell where they originated

The recipe below is from my beloved late grandmother or Yiayia as we say in Greek It is predictably vague but these are easy to get right Enjoy

Mexican Wedding Cookies

20 Pompano Today May 2016

Pompano Today May 2016 21

your dining jeff eats

Le VinoisSimply Luscious

BY JEFF EATS

NICKrsquoS 50rsquoS DINER 1900 OKEECHOBEE BOULEVARD WEST PALM BEACH FLORIDA 33409 (561) 471-3155

A LITTLE ABOUT JEFF ldquoMy name is Jeff I was born (1949) and bred in Brooklyn New York Since 1991 I have lived full-time in South Florida and have eaten in so many restaurants (down here) that I now consider myself to be a FOOD EXPERT To give you some idea as to how many South Florida restaurants Irsquove been to as of December 31 2014 441 Italian joints alone have had the pleasure of ringing up my American Express card

Just so you know I donrsquot go for the fancy sit-down joints that want you to wear pants and a jacket but rather places where a pair of shorts an old tee shirt and a pair of sneakers is considered formal-wear I donrsquot know one sauce from another I also donrsquot know or really care how ldquodishesrdquo are prepared What I do know is when something tastes delicious and I canrsquot get enough of itrdquo To read more of Jeff rsquos picks visit jeffeatscom

Got an absolutely terrific French bakery for you guys Le Vinois Bakery in Fort Lauderdale The joint has the full-boat of breakfast items breads pastries cakes soups quiches salads sandwiches cookies coffees Order at the counter- handful of tables if you want to eat there

Jeff Eats and Mrs Jeff Eats recently did an eat-in lunchand takeout order and like I said a few seconds ago Le Vinoisrsquo stuff is absolute dynamite

Now letrsquos be adults here and let bygones be bygones- you do remember Freedom Fries sure you do With that in mind Jeff Eats absolutely loved Le Vinois Bakery and Irsquom kinda thinking that you should definitely give it a shot

Clockwise from top left copy Friedberg Adobe Stock copy Chuck Place Adobe Stock copy gkrphoto Adobe Stock copy geshas Adobe Stock

Clockwise from top Enjoy croissants a slice of lemon tart great sandwiches and delicious quiche among the many other delights at Le Vinois

Le Vinois Bakery

6322 N Powerline RoadFt Lauderdale Florida 33309

Hours of operationMonday to Friday7am to 4pm

Phone 954 771 9788

Email modinafrancisyahoocom

levinoisbakerycom

22 Pompano Today May 2016

Whether yoursquore planning a close intimate gathering or a large affair the Sample-McDougald House at Centennial Park (450 NE 10th Street Pompano Beach) sets the scene for memories that will last a lifetime The recently completed $25 million restoration of the house and grounds provides you and your guests with a memorable setting The historic house surrounded by native trees and vegetation is a beautiful background for your photos Renting the Sample-McDougald House can give you and your guests exclusive use of the house and grounds throughout your affair (subject to use guidelines) Visit wwwSampleMcDougaldHousecom to learn more about the house or call 954 691-5686 or 954 214-4759 for more details

Memories yoursquoll treasure at the Sample-McDougald House

Sitting amidst four beautiful acres the Sample-McDougald House offers one of the few

historically significant settings in the area for events of any size uniquely

suited to your special day Advertisement

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24 Pompano Today May 2016

AROUND TOWN

a look back charlottes web

your city(the Sample family)

THANKS TO DAN HOBBY AND THE POMPANO BEACH HISTORICAL SOCIETY FOR THE PHOTO AND INFORMATION ABOUT OUR CITYS RICH AND VARIED HISTORY TO LEARN MORE ABOUT OUR CITYS FASCINATING PAST VISIT POMPANOHISTORYCOM

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Members of the Sample family gather together ca 1920 Albert Neal Sample who had the house now known as the Sample-McDougald House constructed in 1916 is standing in the second row third from the viewers right The man kneeling in the first row is Neals younger brother John who prior to 1910 was the first member of the Sample family to settle in the Pompano area The house that Neal Sample built turns 100 this year

The non-profit Sample-McDougald House Preservation Society has a number of activities and events planned to commemorate the historic houses 100th birthday For information visit SampleMcDougaldHousecom or call 754-307-5446

Pompano Today May 2016 25

What the hell do I know about wedded bliss I am a long-term and certified member of the ldquohappily single never been marriedrdquo club Relationships take work people My comfort level of commitment is agreeing to feed walk and nurture the fluffy poodle I brought home from the shelter 5 years ago Beyond thathellipIrsquom selfish And letrsquos face it no onersquos ever gotten into an argument with a dog over a miscommunication Theyrsquore perfect in that respect

But weddings are wonderful events Friends and family gathering together for a festive happy occasion weddings almost always guarantee a good time The happy couple gazing into each otherrsquos eyes while reciting wedding vows Uncle Jim having a few too many at the open bar and trying out his salsa moves on the dance floor Ah the memories we can reminisce about for years to come And the expectation is that the new union will last forever

But how does that same couple reach their 50th year wedding anniversary 50 years of wedded bliss now thatrsquos an accomplishment Since I have already mentioned that I am not exactly a go-to advisor on the subject I did what I always do Letrsquos see what the internet says It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was ldquodonrsquot be selfish and always put your partner firstrdquo Hmmm

ldquoMake it quickrdquo This tip was found when referencing the science of being happily married While it doesnrsquot reference the actual marriage itself in summary I interpreted it to read if someone annoys you now they will most inevitably annoy you much more in the future So maybe not marrying material to begin with Interestingly enough I have this one covered with my three date rule What is the three date rule you ask If there is nothing you find annoying about an individual within the first three dateshellipgreen light means go there may be a future In my case this is a bit of a challenge to achieve

And then Oprahrsquos people had to weigh in on the subject I feel compelled to share a link to a great joke I found on Oprahcom during the search It involves a couple celebrating their 50th anniversary and a mule but no worries Itrsquos a completely clean joke You can see the full joke here oprahcomrelationshipsHappy-Marriage-Tips-Love-Advice

your city charlottes web

Wedded bliss the flip side

BY CHARLOTTE SUNDQUIST

It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was

dont be selfish and always put your partner first Hmmm

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Are you back Good Am I wrong in assuming this has some ties to the three date rule

I donrsquot know I certainly havenrsquot got all the answers But Irsquove just confirmed that single is a perfectly acceptable status for me And you single people that are tired of hearing ldquoWhen are you going to settle down and get marriedrdquo Donrsquot cavehellipdo what makes you happy There is not one version of the perfect relationship ideal If itrsquos a good fit for you so be it Wersquore all different after all

And to all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work Time to go walk the dog

To all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work

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Blissful BusinessCan we be blissful in life Yes Can we be blissfully in love Yes Can we be blissful in business That depends on what your definition of a ldquoblissfulrdquo business is Is it working Monday through Thursday Is it dress down days Is it bringing in a new client or two each month Your bliss depends on what your definition is and what that looks like for your business model Letrsquos talk about a few ways you can be ldquoblissfulrdquo in business

Your Company Culture

What is the tone or perception of your company Are you rigid conservative and safe Or are you creative thought provoking and innovative You have the opportunity to transform your company culture a culture that attracts customers employees and partners Think about Google they have created a co-working collaborative happy environment at work for their employees Google has determined that their definition of ldquoblissfulrdquo is casual dress napping pods libraries and bring your dog to work days Think about what your culture is and try to create an atmosphere that people can enjoy

Better Matters

How can you perform tasks and projects ldquobetterrdquo to make it more manageable for your staff As leaders when we put our employees first the rewards are priceless What are you implementing internally to ldquobetterrdquo your employees to meet their sales goals client leads or individual quotas If you raise your standards the company will follow Being better should be the norm Better business creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo business

The Next Level

What is your definition of the reaching the next level Will reaching that level create a ldquoblissfulrdquo business Maybe yes or maybe no The next level for my business would be to add more employees and another office which would create bliss for me I would be free to do more networking and outside activities Determine and define what the ldquonext levelrdquo is for your company and see if it makes sense and creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo work environment for everyone involved

Itrsquos important to take a step back every now and then to remember why being an entrepreneur makes you happy

Determine your personal definition of a blissful business

BY TEANA MCDONALD

26 Pompano Today May 2016

working it special feature

your business special feature

Pompano Today May 2016 27

Kim Briesemeister greets us at the entrance to RMArsquos new digs a suite of comfortable welcoming offices right on Atlantic Boulevard As usual she is polished professional and enthusiastic about all of the great things happening in our city

ldquoWhat RMA brings is the technical expertise the realities of how to achieve the market visionhellipthe end result is creating a quality place that people want to live in and are proud to call home a place where businesses want to be and the city gets a certain great viberdquo Kim notes You can see this ldquoviberdquo in her eyes ndash and you know that Kim can see what the future looks like here in Pompano Beach and at that moment in time we can see it with her

What is ldquoitrdquo exactly ldquoItrdquo is what great places are made of Art Culture Safety Walkability Excitement The vision that Kim and her partner Chris Brown as well as all of the bright creative energetic staff we see is breathtaking And that feeling of hometown comfort that we all get when we return here whether after a trip to the next town over or a trip around the world is the wellspring from which all of the plans for our future originate Itrsquos still Pompano Beach but itrsquos far far better

As the publishers of this magazine for the past six years we have firsthand knowledge of all of the great people who live here and

the great things that attract more like-minded residents and visitors An airport A harbor The Intracoastal The lighthouse Thriving businesses A small-town feeling that is ever harder to maintain

Without a cohesive vision itrsquos likely that some if not all of these could be lost To paraphrase Benjamin Franklin ldquoFailing to plan is planning to failrdquo and there is no shortage of planning for this bright future going on at RMA

Speaking of that planning at that point Kim turns our attention to the consideration of an ldquoinnovation districtrdquo and this is where her enthusiasm is if possible even more palpable We are treated to a breathtaking visual tour of what is possible in such a district and oh my We can hardly contain ourselves What we ask is RMArsquos role in this endeavor ldquoWe are able to help the community go through the redevelopment processrdquo Kim responds adding that ldquo[the goal is that] in the end everyone says lsquoThis is the most amazing place to live This is where I want to bersquordquo

Yes Thatrsquos what we all want A place that wersquore even more proud to call home Proud of the looks on the faces of others when we tell them ldquoYes I live in Pompano Beachrdquo proud that we raised our children in a place where after theyrsquore grown they choose to return and put down roots of their own right here where they belong This is the place that we will create that will provide a solid foundation on which our city will continue to build on and thrive

As we prepare to depart earnest young professionals come bounding enthusiastically through the door (ok they werenrsquot really bounding ndash they are professionals ndash but they sure gave the impression of bounding)

ldquoAhhhrdquo we think to ourselves imagining an exchange with them ldquoDo you guys happen to live in Pompano Beach No Thatrsquos too badrdquo we say unable to help feeling just a tad smug ldquoItrsquos a great place to live work and playrdquo

Falling in love with the future of Pompano Beach

For the past 50 years the landscape of innovation has been dominated by places like Silicon Valleymdashsuburban corridors of spatially isolated corporate campuses accessible only by car with little emphasis on the quality of life or on integrating work housing and recreation

A new complementary urban model is now emerging giving rise to what we and others are calling ldquoinnovation districtsrdquo These districts by our definition are geographic areas where leading-edge anchor institutions and companies cluster and connect with start-ups business incubators and accelerators1 They are also physically compact transit-accessible and technically-wired and offer mixed-use housing office and retail

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts

LOOKING AHEAD TO AN EVEN BRIGHTER FUTUREFrom top left

bull Creating a Downtown Innovation District means incorporating all of the pieces of a successful plan

bull a sterling example of one such district

bull synergy in actionbull specific steps

to harness our unique strengths

bull targeted industriesbull another sterling

example this time of a complete street

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts What They Are

Economic Assets

Networking Assets

Physical Assets

InnovationEcosystemA synergistic relationship between people firms and place that facilitates idea generation and acceleratescommercialization

Target Industries

International Trade and Logistics

Marine Industry

Life Sciences and Biotechnology

Creative Design

Digital Media and Technology

Class A Office

Tourism

Advanced Materials and High-Tech Manufacturing

Redevelopment of Commercial and Residential

Alternatives Energy and Renewable Resources

AviationAerospace

Global Business Services

Global Media and Production

Headquarters and Management Operations

Human Resources and Higher Education

How to harness our ldquoDowntown Innovation Districtrdquo

1 Build a collaborative leadership network

2 Set a vision for growth to leverage our unique strengths

distinct economic clusters leading local and regional institutions and companies physical location and design advantages and other cultural attributes

3 Pursue talent and technology

4 Promote inclusive growthEquip workers with the skills they need to participate in the innovation economy or other secondary and tertiary jobs generated by innovative growth

5 Enhance access to capital

Cultural ArtsTourism

Industrial

Multi Purpose

DowntownInnovation

District

Target Industries

Education

Housing

Downtown Innovation

District

28 Pompano Today May 2016

INDULGENCESCOOL

MAKE A SPLASH

HOT PROPERTIES

hot properties cool indulgences festive weekends

the guide

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WEEKENDSFESTIVE

Volleyball with a cause Mark your calendars for the 31st Annual Volleyball Challenge on June 11th-12th 2016 at the Wyndham Sea Gardens (615 N Ocean Blvd Pompano Beach FL) Proceeds to benefit United Cerebral Palsy of South Florida Learn more at ucpsouthfloridaorg

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A tasty and unique dine-in or drive-through experience

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30 Pompano Today May 2016

VROOM

all things automotiveyour rideThis monthrsquos theme is wedded bliss I started checking on an exact meaning for this title This is what was written in the English Dictionary ldquothe happiness of being marriedrdquo As I reflect back and think about life altogether whether marriage engagement purchase of a product or dealing with family and friendshellip

There are many factors in life that can afford you wedded bliss or the joy serenity and comfort of having the right lover husband or wife the right house or car the right job or titlehellip Now letrsquos admit to the fact that we all go though the ups and downs and have to face many situationshellip This is part of being human

Just imagine not having a significant other to share the joy or sadness of an event or a shoulder to cry onhellip Just imagine not having a cell phone to communicate with your loved ones or a car to get you from point A to point B

Just like a marriage you start by meeting a prospective mate lover or significant other You then starting dating and checking on the possibility of a good fit

If that is the case you start focusing on the possibility of a future together and if the positive traits in that individual outweigh the negative and if you canrsquot imagine living without himher then the marriage is to be considered

The same thing goes for the perfect car for you You have specific unique preferences based on your personality and the purpose of the car purchase

Achieving wedded bliss with your vehicle choice

The right car that will suit your needs for years to come exists It just takes a little research planning budgeting and common sense We all dream of the luxury car that we many not be able to afford but till the time comes to make our dream car a reality we will need to settle for what is achievable practical fits our need and makes us proud of the choice we made Here are some practical questions to answer would you like to get a sporty car a regular 4 door sedan a van an SUV or a truck

Would you like a practical car you may drive in city highway or would you like to go off-roading on the weekends Would you need this vehicle to tow your boat to tow your camping trip supplies or would you like to have an elegant car to show off to your friends Now we have to consider the budget and whether we want to purchase a domestic or foreign vehicle the maintenance cost the fuel efficiency and the overall look and feel of the car

We have noticed that cars reflect their ownerrsquos personality so if you are someone who is sporty adventurous have a young spirit and are financially secure then a Bugatti Veyron Porsche 911 Ford Mustang McClaren MP4- 12C Lamborghini Egoista Limited edition Mercedes AMG SL SLK Roadster or E Class Cabriolet Convertible or the Chevy Camaro come to mind Pictured on page 31 is the 2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue by the way

If you are someone who is practical enjoy trips to the mountains or the beach work full time and look for a dependable and comfortable car then check out the Cadillac CTS (pictured above) XTS or DTS Super Subaru Impreza Lexus CT 200h Sport IS 250 or ES 350 Mercedes CS or E Class Chevy Equinox Chevy Tahoe and Toyota Prius V

Cadillac CTS photo copy General Motors

Pompano Today May 2016 31

If you are the family manwoman and are seeking safety comfortable seating and an affordable vehicle with low maintenance we noticed that most of the inquiries are SUV or Van related such as the Mercedes GLA SUB GLE SUV or GLS SUV Audi Q5 Audi Allroad Toyota Sienna Ford Fex Ford Transit Connect Cadillac Escalade Cadillac SRX and letrsquos not forget the Chevy Suburban

Now if you are the hunter or you enjoy off roading every now and then the vehicles we seesell and repair most are the Ford F150 Ford Super Duty Mercedes G Class Toyota TacomaTundra Range Rover Jeep Wrangler and the Chevy Silverado

What about the green energy conscious We have had inquiries about the Toyota Prius and the Rav 4 Hybrid Audi A3 E-tron Cadillac ELR or the Chevy Spark EV Now if you are in the market for a nice ride then you need to test drive the Cadillac CT6 Plug-in Hybrid or the BMW I8 and tell me if you enjoyed the drive

Yes even car owners and their vehicles can talk about wedded bliss So if you have the

perfect car that fits your image your lifestyle your personality then congratulations because you are lucky to get the perfect car In the meantime if you are looking for a vehicle and have questions or concerns feel free to contact us and we will be glad to assist you BY JAY GHANEM

2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue copy The Ford Motor Company 2016 All Rights Reserved

HOLLYWOOD CORNER

news from the west coast

32 Pompano Today May 2016

stars in your eyesBenjamin A Onyango on keeping the faith

and making people happyWhen did you know without any doubt that you wanted to act

Ive always acted in church youth plays that I wrote myself when I was a teenager in Nairobi Kenya In 1987 I came to the United States and while attending California State University Stanislaus in Turlock California formed a traditional dance group called Upendo Singers and Cultural Dancers We wrote plays and songs and performed them in cultural festivals universities and churches After graduating in 1992 I knew I wanted to act so I struck the tent and moved to Hollywood where I joined a funk rock band called PFO and also acted as a background performer in TV and feature films What inspires you to act

I am naturally a happy person and I love it when people are happy So I cant help it but crack jokes and poke fun at myself to make people around me laugh I am inspired by other people Their presence makes me want to do stuff talk dance sing shout etc When did you realize you had reached your goals as an actor

I do not think I have reached my goal as an actor yet To me acting is an evolving thing You get to a certain level and then you strive to get better than the level you currently are on Acting has many facets and therefore many challenges There is no one way to approach acting I therefore believe that I am still reaching for that goal and I must admit that the experience indeed is the best teacher because you indeed get better at it the more you keep doing it

What was your favorite role to date and why

My favorite role to date is the movie I am currently filming called Beautifully Broken The reason its my first role as a lead actor in a feature film and best of all I am playing the role of a real person who survived the Rwanda genocide that the story is about I played a lead role before in a short film called Kwame also based on a true story and was voted best actor at the 2009 Mexico International Film Festival Beautifully Broken is a story that connects very strongly with the human spirit I can almost guarantee that there will not be a

single dry eye in the theater when its screened Its a beautifully written story of hardship resilience survival and hope

What do you enjoy most about your career

What I enjoy most about my career is the ability to travel and see different people in different parts of the world I am a people person and nothing

makes me happier than meeting and making new friends

Can we expect a book from you

Thats funny you mentioned that I write lots of movie scripts and TV show scripts and I have always thought of writing a book So on my down days on the set of Beautifully Broken I started a book Ive been toying with in my head for a while The title of the book is God Moves When We Stop Helping Him Its more of a booklet than a book Its a book about encouragement

What is the best way for your fans to know what yoursquore working on FacebookTwitter Do you post for your own sites or do you have your assistants do the posts

I hope I do have fans LOL They can find out about what I am doing or working on my Facebook page facebookcomEMEBAND or Facebook fan page facebookcomBenjiBendrix Twitter twittercombochieng Instagram instagramcombenjibendrix and imdb imdbcomnamenm1335173ref_=nv_sr I also have a website benjibendrixcom that I use

Tell us something new something bold that yoursquove never told any other magazinehellipnews tip )

Recently I was fortunate to have my TV webseries Dysfunctionally Organized pitched to a major network and they agreed to have us do a spin-off of the show So we have started the writing process Its a major achievement for my team and myself since we have been working on the show for a long time Its not easy to get an audience with a content procurement person on a major network so we feel very fortunate I cant mention the network because of confidentiality reasons

Photo of Benjamin Ochieng aka Benji Bendrix (friend of Jimi Hendrix) copy Flygirl PhotographyLearn more about Benjamin atproimdbcomnamenm1335173afro-mericarecordscommindtricksmoviecom

BY MISTY SCHWARTZ

word scrambleTHE LAST WORD

a workout for your mind

Wedded bliss All of the words in this months Scramble are related to marriage and weddings Good luck Look for the answers online beginning May 15 at pompanotodaycom

Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answerodeutx gnir oeemcryn lsuipnatgnwo iaoynmtmr rogom slrofweermdiadbis eusenv shrue ovwsnwiddge rrdemia erdib psoesuerdbhteot rceepnoit errceat eiervsc

James Stafford PhotographyfacebookcomJamesStaffordPhotography

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Pompano Today May 2016 15

your lifestyle your kids

Planning a wedding dollars and sense

BY MICHAEL DIPIERRO

Michael DiPierro has a decade of experience in education He currently holds a Masters degree in Educational Leadership and has 11 years of teaching experience in Broward County Public Schools

For students who entered 9th grade in the 2013-14 academic year a requirement to earn a standard high school diploma in Florida includes financial literacy instruction I think it is safe to assume that most people who have planned a wedding understand the need to be financially literate In Florida financial literacy instruction includes the knowledge understanding skills behaviors attitudes and values that will enable a student to make responsible and effective financial decisions on a daily basis

While financial literacy covers a broad range of topics in terms of planning a wedding related classroom instruction might focus on buying goods and services saving and financial investing and budgeting and debt management In 2014 the Florida State Board of Education adopted a financial-literacy strand to its Social Studies Next Generation Sunshine State Standards Nationally during the 2015 legislative session about thirty-five states and Puerto Rico considered bills related to financial literacy This is an increase from the roughly twenty-eight states and Puerto Rico that considered legislation related to financial literacy during the 2014 legislative session

Related classroom instruction might focus on buyinggoods and services

saving and financial investing and budgeting and debt

management

The Florida Department of Education approved a high school Personal Financial Literacy elective course written and submitted by the Broward County Public Schools Social Studies Office Some of the instructional practices connected to this course include providing extended learning opportunities that simulate economic scenarios and the use of real world data and evidence to answer complex high-level questions that are based on real world scenarios Although I am not endorsing any classroom projects planning a mock wedding seems like it would be a fun experience to learn about financial literacy especially since the students donrsquot really have to pay for the mock wedding

The Florida Department of Education approved a high school

Personal Financial Literacy elective course written and submitted by the

Broward County Public SchoolsSocial Studies Office

Planning a mock wedding seems like it would be

a fun experienceespecially since the students dont really

have to pay for the mock wedding

16 Pompano Today May 2016

COVER FEATURE

Ronnie and Hank Arond are a real-life fairy talethat should inspire us all

Wedded Bliss Part 1

On a clear sunny weekend morning we enter the clean bright and charming winter digs of Ronnie and Hank Arond (Of course we think that every single inch of the Ebb Tide is clean bright and charming but Ronnie and Hankrsquos quarters seem especially so)

The couple greets us with the vigor of much younger folks their energy levels are those of a much younger couple which is no surprise really given the zest for life with which theyrsquove been greeting each day together for 71 years

Yes 71 years The Aronds in fact celebrated their 72nd anniversary this March And what better place to spend it than the Ebb Tide where theyrsquove been coming each year for the past ten years

First things first however As we enter Ronnie is bustling around tidying up ldquoIrsquom putting away all the messy stuffrdquo she notes cheerfully although itrsquos clear that her standards are much higher than ours In an instant coffee tea and festive cookies are in front of us Yum

When we offer to help we are politely dismissed ldquoWersquore helpful Wersquore not helpless yetrdquo says um Honnie Really this couple speaks with one voice Sort of Throughout our interview they finish each otherrsquos sentences often or break into what can only be described as the best Burns and Allen routine ever Hank can play ndash with equal vigor ndash the comedian and the straight man of this remarkable duo (as well as the violin but more about that later) and he plays every minute and every role with a wink and a nod

Pompano Today May 2016 17

WEDDED BLISS

ldquoCollect adventures Do them

Dont ever say no to somethingrdquo

Ronnie finally sits down her hostessing duties complete Her bright blue eyes and lovely fawn colored hair make for a beautiful portrait of a life well lived her nails are polished her lipstick perfect We ask what itrsquos like to be married for 72 years ldquoNordquo Ronnie smilingly corrects us ldquoitrsquos 36 because half the time he doesnrsquot listen to merdquo

The couple met on March 4 1943 Hank lets us know that ldquoShe was on the other side of a double daterdquo At the time Hank was paired with a girl from upstate (for those who donrsquot know ldquoupstaterdquo is of course ldquoupstate New Yorkrdquo) Driving to the train station he thought to himself ldquoHow do I do thisrdquo He decided to take an interesting tactic somehow he ended up with Ronniersquos phone number in his possession And the rest as they say is history

Hank wasted no time (less than a week in fact) before taking Ronnie to a Broadway show (which they believe was ldquoShadow of a Doubtrdquo) for their first date The very next day they went on another date where Hank met Ronniersquos best friend (and passed the ldquobest friendrdquo test) For those who believe in coincidence the stars aligning divine intervention ndash call it what you will ndash two days later Ronniersquos sister was getting married and she invited Hank to be her date since her current boyfriend a Navy man was stuck in Washington DC Thus within four days Hank had met Ronniersquos entire family Two weeks after their fateful first date Hank was off to serve our country He remembers thinking ldquoIrsquom finally going to get out of Brooklynrdquo and sure enough he did ndash and got stationed in the Bronx

The proposal soon followed ldquoHe asked me to marry himrdquo Ronnie recalls ldquoand I was very young and very naiumlve and polite and I didnrsquot know how to say no So I said lsquoOK Irsquoll marry you until I find someone betterrsquordquo Exactly one year from the day they met Ronnie and Hank were wed

Ronnie begins to interject and then stops herself saying ldquoSometimes I interrupt myselfrdquo

Mind you all of the above conversation happened in probably two minutes Wow Itrsquos impossible to overstate the energy and joie de vivre that simply beams from Ronnie and Hank a beacon of love hope and happiness that is remarkable This feeling ndash that yoursquore in the presence of two incredibly special people ndash is also partly due to their strong belief in fairness justice and not least their deep commitment to faith

Interestingly the Aronds are ldquoJewish by culture and traditionrdquo Ronnie notes ldquobut not observantrdquo In fact they are now Unitarian Universalists about which they are ndash you guessed it ndash very enthusiastic They have been members of their Unitarian Universalist congregation for over two decades ldquoOur congregationrdquo they explain ldquois probably 25 Catholic 25 Jewish 25 born [in the faith] and 25 Muslim other religionshelliptheir committees are

rarr

18 Pompano Today May 2016

no different than Congressrdquo Ronnie laughs She recalls that even her parents were ldquounconcerned about religion ndash for example [they didnrsquot worry about whether I would] marry a nice Jewish boyrdquo

When not in Pompano Beach (where theyrsquove been coming for 20 years) Ronnie and Hank make their home in Bellerose Queens in the house where they raised their two children Sometimes they tell us Hank will be asked ldquoIf you could choose to have children again would yourdquo To which Hank will reply ldquoYes but not themrdquo

Hank of course is kidding as he so often is Their son is an

accomplished pediatrician who travels the world supporting nonprofit efforts Their daughter is a nurse who lives in south Florida so Ronnie and Hank get to spend a lot of time with her each winter Sadly their son lost his wife who was a Quaker Friend in Vietnam during the war three years ago to ALS Has he remarried we ask No but hersquos met a nice woman in a gospel choir Well of course he has These are resilient people who keep going through whatever life throws their way

Back to that house in Queens that they moved into 66 years ago They watched the house get built it was in one of the many new postwar developments springing up around the country to meet the needs of returning veterans and the inordinate number of new families and households springing up everywhere Every weekend during construction ldquowe drove out from the Bronxrdquo We canrsquot help but think about what an exciting and hopeful time that must have been

Ronnie and Hankrsquos son and his wife had two children their granddaughter is currently in Bogota and their grandson is at Amherst (forgive us but what she is doing in Bogota escaped us rest assured that itrsquos something selfless and fabulous Itrsquos astonishing how difficult it is to keep up with Ronnie and Hank)

Our interview with Ronnie and Hank continues at pompanotodaycom We hope that everyone reading this takes this couplersquos incredibly wise life lessons to heart and that wersquove inspired you to live every day to the fullest Ronnie and Hank are both a living example of and testament to how to make the most of every day After all theyrsquore experts ndash theyrsquove had over 70 years of practice

To all the single folks out there get out there and make every day count To all the couples getting married this season make yourselves a life that is as happy healthy and adventurous as Ronniersquos and Hankrsquos As to you two lovebirds - enjoy your summer and wersquoll see you back at the Ebb Tide next year

Patti Nachman and Alicyn Muntildeoz raise the baron bridal shops with Wonderland Bridal

Wedded Bliss Part 2Wonderland Bridalrsquos story is unique as every bridersquos wedding day Co-owners Patti Nachmann and Alicyn Muntildeoz met in their respective Mary Kay businesses and hit it off so instantly ndash and so well ndash that they became known as the ldquoMary Kay sistersrdquo Along the way Alicyn accompanied her best friend on a wedding dress shopping trip and asked

the store owner if she could set up a Mary Kay table there on the weekends The owner agreed and eventually Alicyn was working at the shop part time

She loved it so much that she became determined to open her own shop At the time Patti was still in the corporate world having spent 16 years in the field of medical billing ldquoI wentrdquo Patti recalls ldquofrom screaming at insurance companies on the phone to laughing and crying with brides as theyrsquore choosing their gownsrdquo

Patti excitedly tells us that the business is really taking off ldquoWersquove just acquired a couture line Allure and will be carrying them in the summerrdquo and that Wonderland covers all price points depending on the bridersquos needs

ldquoI feel like everything has just fallen into place with this business and wersquore very luckyrdquo she notes

We ask Patti what the one thing is shersquod like our readers to know about

Wonderland Bridal She thinks for a moment ldquoWe are not like any other bridal store and I say that because we hear that from our brides We have a lot of brides that come here after shopping around and their experiences havenrsquot always been positive Or they come here first and we encourage them to shop around We donrsquot ever pressure our brides and most of them time theyrsquoll tell us ldquoI should have picked our dress while I was herersquo Our brides are really great we have a good bond with them The [wedding dress buying] experience is a process wersquore in constant contact with them from the time they come in until the time they take the dress home

ldquoOur customer service is superb We like to hold one appointment at a time so the entire store is the bridersquos Sometimes of course we get busy [especially] on Saturdays so we have two completely separate fitting rooms

ldquo[We make sure each of our brides] feels like a princess And itrsquos hellip the most important day of their lives and this is part of the memory and wersquore just happy to be a part of itrdquo

For the curious we learned of Wonderland Bridal through Benjaminrsquos Fine Alterations amp Tailoring right here in Pompano Beach The two shops work very closely together Patti explains how these two remarkable local business found each other and yes it includes the magic of social media ldquoBenjaminrsquos

Pompano Today May 2016 19

Benjamins offers painless alterations tailoring and- yes - tuxedo rentals for the big day

and Wonderland started following each other on Instagram Wersquod like each otherrsquos photos and make a comment here and there Then I went to a networking event and one of their employees saw my name tag and grabbed me and said lsquoOh my God yoursquore with Wonderland Bridal And I looked at her nametag and said ldquoOh my God yoursquore with Benjaminrsquosrsquo And we had just recently opened our shop and we got to talking and had a meeting and just picked up from there and [Benjaminrsquos staff have] been our seamstresses since then over a year ago Victoria is an incredible seamstressrdquo

Speaking of Victoria thats her by the way in the photo at left along with Alycin and Patti and the beautiful bride who also graces our cover Learn more about Victoria and Benjamins in Part 3 below

Wonderland Bridal Couture3400 NW 62nd AveMargate FL 33063

954) 973-8695wonderlandbridalcomhomehtml

Benjamins Fine Alterations amp Tailoring2609 East Atlantic BoulevardPompano Beach FL33062

954-943-5878benjaminsalterationscom

Wedded Bliss Part 3Alert readers will recognize Benjamins Fine Alterations and Tailoring from other pages of this publication Its likely however that unless youre already patronized Benjamins (and if you havent well whyever not) you wont recognize Victoria pictured below along with the amazing team of tailors and seamstresses in this beautifully decorated shop As humble as she is talented Victoria and the team are in a word magicians

Really We may be biased having had an unfortunate episode involving a seam ripper many years ago in junior high sewing class but we all have our unique talents Every member of the staff at Benjamins is an

expert in making your clothes look their very best And of course when your clothes look their best well so do you

So drop off those pants youve been meaning to hem that jacket that needs a mite of a tuck that gorgeous blouse with the sleeves that are just a little too long - you wont regret it

And if you are one of the rare individuals whose clothes all fit perfectly Benjamins rents mens formal wear too (see the coupon on page 9)

Why go anywhere else

Photos this and facing page Paul McDermott Photography

INSTRUCTIONS

bull Mix everything adding flour until the mix is firm but not sticky (not too dry)

bull Roll the dough into small balls (about an inch across)bull Place on ungreased cookie sheet and flatten very slightlybull Bake at 350 degrees for 20-25 minutesbull While still warm sift the powdered sugar onto the cookies

INGREDIENTS

bull 1 pound sweet butter softenedbull 6 tablespoons powdered sugar (reserve for after baking)bull Flour to appropriate texturebull Vanilla to taste

Photo copy FomaA Adobe Stock

YUM

chef at home jeff eatsyour diningIn honor of this months theme allow us a bit of poetic license (which sounds so much nicer than bait and switch) Growing up in a Greek household everyone looked forward to these kourabiedes (also known as kourambiethes as well as variety of other spellings Greeks can agree on little spelling included) It was not until well after we left home that we realized how many people identified these as Mexican Wedding cookies And while every Greek will swear that the Greeks invented these there are so many near-identical versions of this cookie around the world that its difficult to tell where they originated

The recipe below is from my beloved late grandmother or Yiayia as we say in Greek It is predictably vague but these are easy to get right Enjoy

Mexican Wedding Cookies

20 Pompano Today May 2016

Pompano Today May 2016 21

your dining jeff eats

Le VinoisSimply Luscious

BY JEFF EATS

NICKrsquoS 50rsquoS DINER 1900 OKEECHOBEE BOULEVARD WEST PALM BEACH FLORIDA 33409 (561) 471-3155

A LITTLE ABOUT JEFF ldquoMy name is Jeff I was born (1949) and bred in Brooklyn New York Since 1991 I have lived full-time in South Florida and have eaten in so many restaurants (down here) that I now consider myself to be a FOOD EXPERT To give you some idea as to how many South Florida restaurants Irsquove been to as of December 31 2014 441 Italian joints alone have had the pleasure of ringing up my American Express card

Just so you know I donrsquot go for the fancy sit-down joints that want you to wear pants and a jacket but rather places where a pair of shorts an old tee shirt and a pair of sneakers is considered formal-wear I donrsquot know one sauce from another I also donrsquot know or really care how ldquodishesrdquo are prepared What I do know is when something tastes delicious and I canrsquot get enough of itrdquo To read more of Jeff rsquos picks visit jeffeatscom

Got an absolutely terrific French bakery for you guys Le Vinois Bakery in Fort Lauderdale The joint has the full-boat of breakfast items breads pastries cakes soups quiches salads sandwiches cookies coffees Order at the counter- handful of tables if you want to eat there

Jeff Eats and Mrs Jeff Eats recently did an eat-in lunchand takeout order and like I said a few seconds ago Le Vinoisrsquo stuff is absolute dynamite

Now letrsquos be adults here and let bygones be bygones- you do remember Freedom Fries sure you do With that in mind Jeff Eats absolutely loved Le Vinois Bakery and Irsquom kinda thinking that you should definitely give it a shot

Clockwise from top left copy Friedberg Adobe Stock copy Chuck Place Adobe Stock copy gkrphoto Adobe Stock copy geshas Adobe Stock

Clockwise from top Enjoy croissants a slice of lemon tart great sandwiches and delicious quiche among the many other delights at Le Vinois

Le Vinois Bakery

6322 N Powerline RoadFt Lauderdale Florida 33309

Hours of operationMonday to Friday7am to 4pm

Phone 954 771 9788

Email modinafrancisyahoocom

levinoisbakerycom

22 Pompano Today May 2016

Whether yoursquore planning a close intimate gathering or a large affair the Sample-McDougald House at Centennial Park (450 NE 10th Street Pompano Beach) sets the scene for memories that will last a lifetime The recently completed $25 million restoration of the house and grounds provides you and your guests with a memorable setting The historic house surrounded by native trees and vegetation is a beautiful background for your photos Renting the Sample-McDougald House can give you and your guests exclusive use of the house and grounds throughout your affair (subject to use guidelines) Visit wwwSampleMcDougaldHousecom to learn more about the house or call 954 691-5686 or 954 214-4759 for more details

Memories yoursquoll treasure at the Sample-McDougald House

Sitting amidst four beautiful acres the Sample-McDougald House offers one of the few

historically significant settings in the area for events of any size uniquely

suited to your special day Advertisement

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24 Pompano Today May 2016

AROUND TOWN

a look back charlottes web

your city(the Sample family)

THANKS TO DAN HOBBY AND THE POMPANO BEACH HISTORICAL SOCIETY FOR THE PHOTO AND INFORMATION ABOUT OUR CITYS RICH AND VARIED HISTORY TO LEARN MORE ABOUT OUR CITYS FASCINATING PAST VISIT POMPANOHISTORYCOM

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Members of the Sample family gather together ca 1920 Albert Neal Sample who had the house now known as the Sample-McDougald House constructed in 1916 is standing in the second row third from the viewers right The man kneeling in the first row is Neals younger brother John who prior to 1910 was the first member of the Sample family to settle in the Pompano area The house that Neal Sample built turns 100 this year

The non-profit Sample-McDougald House Preservation Society has a number of activities and events planned to commemorate the historic houses 100th birthday For information visit SampleMcDougaldHousecom or call 754-307-5446

Pompano Today May 2016 25

What the hell do I know about wedded bliss I am a long-term and certified member of the ldquohappily single never been marriedrdquo club Relationships take work people My comfort level of commitment is agreeing to feed walk and nurture the fluffy poodle I brought home from the shelter 5 years ago Beyond thathellipIrsquom selfish And letrsquos face it no onersquos ever gotten into an argument with a dog over a miscommunication Theyrsquore perfect in that respect

But weddings are wonderful events Friends and family gathering together for a festive happy occasion weddings almost always guarantee a good time The happy couple gazing into each otherrsquos eyes while reciting wedding vows Uncle Jim having a few too many at the open bar and trying out his salsa moves on the dance floor Ah the memories we can reminisce about for years to come And the expectation is that the new union will last forever

But how does that same couple reach their 50th year wedding anniversary 50 years of wedded bliss now thatrsquos an accomplishment Since I have already mentioned that I am not exactly a go-to advisor on the subject I did what I always do Letrsquos see what the internet says It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was ldquodonrsquot be selfish and always put your partner firstrdquo Hmmm

ldquoMake it quickrdquo This tip was found when referencing the science of being happily married While it doesnrsquot reference the actual marriage itself in summary I interpreted it to read if someone annoys you now they will most inevitably annoy you much more in the future So maybe not marrying material to begin with Interestingly enough I have this one covered with my three date rule What is the three date rule you ask If there is nothing you find annoying about an individual within the first three dateshellipgreen light means go there may be a future In my case this is a bit of a challenge to achieve

And then Oprahrsquos people had to weigh in on the subject I feel compelled to share a link to a great joke I found on Oprahcom during the search It involves a couple celebrating their 50th anniversary and a mule but no worries Itrsquos a completely clean joke You can see the full joke here oprahcomrelationshipsHappy-Marriage-Tips-Love-Advice

your city charlottes web

Wedded bliss the flip side

BY CHARLOTTE SUNDQUIST

It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was

dont be selfish and always put your partner first Hmmm

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Are you back Good Am I wrong in assuming this has some ties to the three date rule

I donrsquot know I certainly havenrsquot got all the answers But Irsquove just confirmed that single is a perfectly acceptable status for me And you single people that are tired of hearing ldquoWhen are you going to settle down and get marriedrdquo Donrsquot cavehellipdo what makes you happy There is not one version of the perfect relationship ideal If itrsquos a good fit for you so be it Wersquore all different after all

And to all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work Time to go walk the dog

To all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work

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Blissful BusinessCan we be blissful in life Yes Can we be blissfully in love Yes Can we be blissful in business That depends on what your definition of a ldquoblissfulrdquo business is Is it working Monday through Thursday Is it dress down days Is it bringing in a new client or two each month Your bliss depends on what your definition is and what that looks like for your business model Letrsquos talk about a few ways you can be ldquoblissfulrdquo in business

Your Company Culture

What is the tone or perception of your company Are you rigid conservative and safe Or are you creative thought provoking and innovative You have the opportunity to transform your company culture a culture that attracts customers employees and partners Think about Google they have created a co-working collaborative happy environment at work for their employees Google has determined that their definition of ldquoblissfulrdquo is casual dress napping pods libraries and bring your dog to work days Think about what your culture is and try to create an atmosphere that people can enjoy

Better Matters

How can you perform tasks and projects ldquobetterrdquo to make it more manageable for your staff As leaders when we put our employees first the rewards are priceless What are you implementing internally to ldquobetterrdquo your employees to meet their sales goals client leads or individual quotas If you raise your standards the company will follow Being better should be the norm Better business creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo business

The Next Level

What is your definition of the reaching the next level Will reaching that level create a ldquoblissfulrdquo business Maybe yes or maybe no The next level for my business would be to add more employees and another office which would create bliss for me I would be free to do more networking and outside activities Determine and define what the ldquonext levelrdquo is for your company and see if it makes sense and creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo work environment for everyone involved

Itrsquos important to take a step back every now and then to remember why being an entrepreneur makes you happy

Determine your personal definition of a blissful business

BY TEANA MCDONALD

26 Pompano Today May 2016

working it special feature

your business special feature

Pompano Today May 2016 27

Kim Briesemeister greets us at the entrance to RMArsquos new digs a suite of comfortable welcoming offices right on Atlantic Boulevard As usual she is polished professional and enthusiastic about all of the great things happening in our city

ldquoWhat RMA brings is the technical expertise the realities of how to achieve the market visionhellipthe end result is creating a quality place that people want to live in and are proud to call home a place where businesses want to be and the city gets a certain great viberdquo Kim notes You can see this ldquoviberdquo in her eyes ndash and you know that Kim can see what the future looks like here in Pompano Beach and at that moment in time we can see it with her

What is ldquoitrdquo exactly ldquoItrdquo is what great places are made of Art Culture Safety Walkability Excitement The vision that Kim and her partner Chris Brown as well as all of the bright creative energetic staff we see is breathtaking And that feeling of hometown comfort that we all get when we return here whether after a trip to the next town over or a trip around the world is the wellspring from which all of the plans for our future originate Itrsquos still Pompano Beach but itrsquos far far better

As the publishers of this magazine for the past six years we have firsthand knowledge of all of the great people who live here and

the great things that attract more like-minded residents and visitors An airport A harbor The Intracoastal The lighthouse Thriving businesses A small-town feeling that is ever harder to maintain

Without a cohesive vision itrsquos likely that some if not all of these could be lost To paraphrase Benjamin Franklin ldquoFailing to plan is planning to failrdquo and there is no shortage of planning for this bright future going on at RMA

Speaking of that planning at that point Kim turns our attention to the consideration of an ldquoinnovation districtrdquo and this is where her enthusiasm is if possible even more palpable We are treated to a breathtaking visual tour of what is possible in such a district and oh my We can hardly contain ourselves What we ask is RMArsquos role in this endeavor ldquoWe are able to help the community go through the redevelopment processrdquo Kim responds adding that ldquo[the goal is that] in the end everyone says lsquoThis is the most amazing place to live This is where I want to bersquordquo

Yes Thatrsquos what we all want A place that wersquore even more proud to call home Proud of the looks on the faces of others when we tell them ldquoYes I live in Pompano Beachrdquo proud that we raised our children in a place where after theyrsquore grown they choose to return and put down roots of their own right here where they belong This is the place that we will create that will provide a solid foundation on which our city will continue to build on and thrive

As we prepare to depart earnest young professionals come bounding enthusiastically through the door (ok they werenrsquot really bounding ndash they are professionals ndash but they sure gave the impression of bounding)

ldquoAhhhrdquo we think to ourselves imagining an exchange with them ldquoDo you guys happen to live in Pompano Beach No Thatrsquos too badrdquo we say unable to help feeling just a tad smug ldquoItrsquos a great place to live work and playrdquo

Falling in love with the future of Pompano Beach

For the past 50 years the landscape of innovation has been dominated by places like Silicon Valleymdashsuburban corridors of spatially isolated corporate campuses accessible only by car with little emphasis on the quality of life or on integrating work housing and recreation

A new complementary urban model is now emerging giving rise to what we and others are calling ldquoinnovation districtsrdquo These districts by our definition are geographic areas where leading-edge anchor institutions and companies cluster and connect with start-ups business incubators and accelerators1 They are also physically compact transit-accessible and technically-wired and offer mixed-use housing office and retail

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts

LOOKING AHEAD TO AN EVEN BRIGHTER FUTUREFrom top left

bull Creating a Downtown Innovation District means incorporating all of the pieces of a successful plan

bull a sterling example of one such district

bull synergy in actionbull specific steps

to harness our unique strengths

bull targeted industriesbull another sterling

example this time of a complete street

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts What They Are

Economic Assets

Networking Assets

Physical Assets

InnovationEcosystemA synergistic relationship between people firms and place that facilitates idea generation and acceleratescommercialization

Target Industries

International Trade and Logistics

Marine Industry

Life Sciences and Biotechnology

Creative Design

Digital Media and Technology

Class A Office

Tourism

Advanced Materials and High-Tech Manufacturing

Redevelopment of Commercial and Residential

Alternatives Energy and Renewable Resources

AviationAerospace

Global Business Services

Global Media and Production

Headquarters and Management Operations

Human Resources and Higher Education

How to harness our ldquoDowntown Innovation Districtrdquo

1 Build a collaborative leadership network

2 Set a vision for growth to leverage our unique strengths

distinct economic clusters leading local and regional institutions and companies physical location and design advantages and other cultural attributes

3 Pursue talent and technology

4 Promote inclusive growthEquip workers with the skills they need to participate in the innovation economy or other secondary and tertiary jobs generated by innovative growth

5 Enhance access to capital

Cultural ArtsTourism

Industrial

Multi Purpose

DowntownInnovation

District

Target Industries

Education

Housing

Downtown Innovation

District

28 Pompano Today May 2016

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30 Pompano Today May 2016

VROOM

all things automotiveyour rideThis monthrsquos theme is wedded bliss I started checking on an exact meaning for this title This is what was written in the English Dictionary ldquothe happiness of being marriedrdquo As I reflect back and think about life altogether whether marriage engagement purchase of a product or dealing with family and friendshellip

There are many factors in life that can afford you wedded bliss or the joy serenity and comfort of having the right lover husband or wife the right house or car the right job or titlehellip Now letrsquos admit to the fact that we all go though the ups and downs and have to face many situationshellip This is part of being human

Just imagine not having a significant other to share the joy or sadness of an event or a shoulder to cry onhellip Just imagine not having a cell phone to communicate with your loved ones or a car to get you from point A to point B

Just like a marriage you start by meeting a prospective mate lover or significant other You then starting dating and checking on the possibility of a good fit

If that is the case you start focusing on the possibility of a future together and if the positive traits in that individual outweigh the negative and if you canrsquot imagine living without himher then the marriage is to be considered

The same thing goes for the perfect car for you You have specific unique preferences based on your personality and the purpose of the car purchase

Achieving wedded bliss with your vehicle choice

The right car that will suit your needs for years to come exists It just takes a little research planning budgeting and common sense We all dream of the luxury car that we many not be able to afford but till the time comes to make our dream car a reality we will need to settle for what is achievable practical fits our need and makes us proud of the choice we made Here are some practical questions to answer would you like to get a sporty car a regular 4 door sedan a van an SUV or a truck

Would you like a practical car you may drive in city highway or would you like to go off-roading on the weekends Would you need this vehicle to tow your boat to tow your camping trip supplies or would you like to have an elegant car to show off to your friends Now we have to consider the budget and whether we want to purchase a domestic or foreign vehicle the maintenance cost the fuel efficiency and the overall look and feel of the car

We have noticed that cars reflect their ownerrsquos personality so if you are someone who is sporty adventurous have a young spirit and are financially secure then a Bugatti Veyron Porsche 911 Ford Mustang McClaren MP4- 12C Lamborghini Egoista Limited edition Mercedes AMG SL SLK Roadster or E Class Cabriolet Convertible or the Chevy Camaro come to mind Pictured on page 31 is the 2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue by the way

If you are someone who is practical enjoy trips to the mountains or the beach work full time and look for a dependable and comfortable car then check out the Cadillac CTS (pictured above) XTS or DTS Super Subaru Impreza Lexus CT 200h Sport IS 250 or ES 350 Mercedes CS or E Class Chevy Equinox Chevy Tahoe and Toyota Prius V

Cadillac CTS photo copy General Motors

Pompano Today May 2016 31

If you are the family manwoman and are seeking safety comfortable seating and an affordable vehicle with low maintenance we noticed that most of the inquiries are SUV or Van related such as the Mercedes GLA SUB GLE SUV or GLS SUV Audi Q5 Audi Allroad Toyota Sienna Ford Fex Ford Transit Connect Cadillac Escalade Cadillac SRX and letrsquos not forget the Chevy Suburban

Now if you are the hunter or you enjoy off roading every now and then the vehicles we seesell and repair most are the Ford F150 Ford Super Duty Mercedes G Class Toyota TacomaTundra Range Rover Jeep Wrangler and the Chevy Silverado

What about the green energy conscious We have had inquiries about the Toyota Prius and the Rav 4 Hybrid Audi A3 E-tron Cadillac ELR or the Chevy Spark EV Now if you are in the market for a nice ride then you need to test drive the Cadillac CT6 Plug-in Hybrid or the BMW I8 and tell me if you enjoyed the drive

Yes even car owners and their vehicles can talk about wedded bliss So if you have the

perfect car that fits your image your lifestyle your personality then congratulations because you are lucky to get the perfect car In the meantime if you are looking for a vehicle and have questions or concerns feel free to contact us and we will be glad to assist you BY JAY GHANEM

2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue copy The Ford Motor Company 2016 All Rights Reserved

HOLLYWOOD CORNER

news from the west coast

32 Pompano Today May 2016

stars in your eyesBenjamin A Onyango on keeping the faith

and making people happyWhen did you know without any doubt that you wanted to act

Ive always acted in church youth plays that I wrote myself when I was a teenager in Nairobi Kenya In 1987 I came to the United States and while attending California State University Stanislaus in Turlock California formed a traditional dance group called Upendo Singers and Cultural Dancers We wrote plays and songs and performed them in cultural festivals universities and churches After graduating in 1992 I knew I wanted to act so I struck the tent and moved to Hollywood where I joined a funk rock band called PFO and also acted as a background performer in TV and feature films What inspires you to act

I am naturally a happy person and I love it when people are happy So I cant help it but crack jokes and poke fun at myself to make people around me laugh I am inspired by other people Their presence makes me want to do stuff talk dance sing shout etc When did you realize you had reached your goals as an actor

I do not think I have reached my goal as an actor yet To me acting is an evolving thing You get to a certain level and then you strive to get better than the level you currently are on Acting has many facets and therefore many challenges There is no one way to approach acting I therefore believe that I am still reaching for that goal and I must admit that the experience indeed is the best teacher because you indeed get better at it the more you keep doing it

What was your favorite role to date and why

My favorite role to date is the movie I am currently filming called Beautifully Broken The reason its my first role as a lead actor in a feature film and best of all I am playing the role of a real person who survived the Rwanda genocide that the story is about I played a lead role before in a short film called Kwame also based on a true story and was voted best actor at the 2009 Mexico International Film Festival Beautifully Broken is a story that connects very strongly with the human spirit I can almost guarantee that there will not be a

single dry eye in the theater when its screened Its a beautifully written story of hardship resilience survival and hope

What do you enjoy most about your career

What I enjoy most about my career is the ability to travel and see different people in different parts of the world I am a people person and nothing

makes me happier than meeting and making new friends

Can we expect a book from you

Thats funny you mentioned that I write lots of movie scripts and TV show scripts and I have always thought of writing a book So on my down days on the set of Beautifully Broken I started a book Ive been toying with in my head for a while The title of the book is God Moves When We Stop Helping Him Its more of a booklet than a book Its a book about encouragement

What is the best way for your fans to know what yoursquore working on FacebookTwitter Do you post for your own sites or do you have your assistants do the posts

I hope I do have fans LOL They can find out about what I am doing or working on my Facebook page facebookcomEMEBAND or Facebook fan page facebookcomBenjiBendrix Twitter twittercombochieng Instagram instagramcombenjibendrix and imdb imdbcomnamenm1335173ref_=nv_sr I also have a website benjibendrixcom that I use

Tell us something new something bold that yoursquove never told any other magazinehellipnews tip )

Recently I was fortunate to have my TV webseries Dysfunctionally Organized pitched to a major network and they agreed to have us do a spin-off of the show So we have started the writing process Its a major achievement for my team and myself since we have been working on the show for a long time Its not easy to get an audience with a content procurement person on a major network so we feel very fortunate I cant mention the network because of confidentiality reasons

Photo of Benjamin Ochieng aka Benji Bendrix (friend of Jimi Hendrix) copy Flygirl PhotographyLearn more about Benjamin atproimdbcomnamenm1335173afro-mericarecordscommindtricksmoviecom

BY MISTY SCHWARTZ

word scrambleTHE LAST WORD

a workout for your mind

Wedded bliss All of the words in this months Scramble are related to marriage and weddings Good luck Look for the answers online beginning May 15 at pompanotodaycom

Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answerodeutx gnir oeemcryn lsuipnatgnwo iaoynmtmr rogom slrofweermdiadbis eusenv shrue ovwsnwiddge rrdemia erdib psoesuerdbhteot rceepnoit errceat eiervsc

James Stafford PhotographyfacebookcomJamesStaffordPhotography

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16 Pompano Today May 2016

COVER FEATURE

Ronnie and Hank Arond are a real-life fairy talethat should inspire us all

Wedded Bliss Part 1

On a clear sunny weekend morning we enter the clean bright and charming winter digs of Ronnie and Hank Arond (Of course we think that every single inch of the Ebb Tide is clean bright and charming but Ronnie and Hankrsquos quarters seem especially so)

The couple greets us with the vigor of much younger folks their energy levels are those of a much younger couple which is no surprise really given the zest for life with which theyrsquove been greeting each day together for 71 years

Yes 71 years The Aronds in fact celebrated their 72nd anniversary this March And what better place to spend it than the Ebb Tide where theyrsquove been coming each year for the past ten years

First things first however As we enter Ronnie is bustling around tidying up ldquoIrsquom putting away all the messy stuffrdquo she notes cheerfully although itrsquos clear that her standards are much higher than ours In an instant coffee tea and festive cookies are in front of us Yum

When we offer to help we are politely dismissed ldquoWersquore helpful Wersquore not helpless yetrdquo says um Honnie Really this couple speaks with one voice Sort of Throughout our interview they finish each otherrsquos sentences often or break into what can only be described as the best Burns and Allen routine ever Hank can play ndash with equal vigor ndash the comedian and the straight man of this remarkable duo (as well as the violin but more about that later) and he plays every minute and every role with a wink and a nod

Pompano Today May 2016 17

WEDDED BLISS

ldquoCollect adventures Do them

Dont ever say no to somethingrdquo

Ronnie finally sits down her hostessing duties complete Her bright blue eyes and lovely fawn colored hair make for a beautiful portrait of a life well lived her nails are polished her lipstick perfect We ask what itrsquos like to be married for 72 years ldquoNordquo Ronnie smilingly corrects us ldquoitrsquos 36 because half the time he doesnrsquot listen to merdquo

The couple met on March 4 1943 Hank lets us know that ldquoShe was on the other side of a double daterdquo At the time Hank was paired with a girl from upstate (for those who donrsquot know ldquoupstaterdquo is of course ldquoupstate New Yorkrdquo) Driving to the train station he thought to himself ldquoHow do I do thisrdquo He decided to take an interesting tactic somehow he ended up with Ronniersquos phone number in his possession And the rest as they say is history

Hank wasted no time (less than a week in fact) before taking Ronnie to a Broadway show (which they believe was ldquoShadow of a Doubtrdquo) for their first date The very next day they went on another date where Hank met Ronniersquos best friend (and passed the ldquobest friendrdquo test) For those who believe in coincidence the stars aligning divine intervention ndash call it what you will ndash two days later Ronniersquos sister was getting married and she invited Hank to be her date since her current boyfriend a Navy man was stuck in Washington DC Thus within four days Hank had met Ronniersquos entire family Two weeks after their fateful first date Hank was off to serve our country He remembers thinking ldquoIrsquom finally going to get out of Brooklynrdquo and sure enough he did ndash and got stationed in the Bronx

The proposal soon followed ldquoHe asked me to marry himrdquo Ronnie recalls ldquoand I was very young and very naiumlve and polite and I didnrsquot know how to say no So I said lsquoOK Irsquoll marry you until I find someone betterrsquordquo Exactly one year from the day they met Ronnie and Hank were wed

Ronnie begins to interject and then stops herself saying ldquoSometimes I interrupt myselfrdquo

Mind you all of the above conversation happened in probably two minutes Wow Itrsquos impossible to overstate the energy and joie de vivre that simply beams from Ronnie and Hank a beacon of love hope and happiness that is remarkable This feeling ndash that yoursquore in the presence of two incredibly special people ndash is also partly due to their strong belief in fairness justice and not least their deep commitment to faith

Interestingly the Aronds are ldquoJewish by culture and traditionrdquo Ronnie notes ldquobut not observantrdquo In fact they are now Unitarian Universalists about which they are ndash you guessed it ndash very enthusiastic They have been members of their Unitarian Universalist congregation for over two decades ldquoOur congregationrdquo they explain ldquois probably 25 Catholic 25 Jewish 25 born [in the faith] and 25 Muslim other religionshelliptheir committees are

rarr

18 Pompano Today May 2016

no different than Congressrdquo Ronnie laughs She recalls that even her parents were ldquounconcerned about religion ndash for example [they didnrsquot worry about whether I would] marry a nice Jewish boyrdquo

When not in Pompano Beach (where theyrsquove been coming for 20 years) Ronnie and Hank make their home in Bellerose Queens in the house where they raised their two children Sometimes they tell us Hank will be asked ldquoIf you could choose to have children again would yourdquo To which Hank will reply ldquoYes but not themrdquo

Hank of course is kidding as he so often is Their son is an

accomplished pediatrician who travels the world supporting nonprofit efforts Their daughter is a nurse who lives in south Florida so Ronnie and Hank get to spend a lot of time with her each winter Sadly their son lost his wife who was a Quaker Friend in Vietnam during the war three years ago to ALS Has he remarried we ask No but hersquos met a nice woman in a gospel choir Well of course he has These are resilient people who keep going through whatever life throws their way

Back to that house in Queens that they moved into 66 years ago They watched the house get built it was in one of the many new postwar developments springing up around the country to meet the needs of returning veterans and the inordinate number of new families and households springing up everywhere Every weekend during construction ldquowe drove out from the Bronxrdquo We canrsquot help but think about what an exciting and hopeful time that must have been

Ronnie and Hankrsquos son and his wife had two children their granddaughter is currently in Bogota and their grandson is at Amherst (forgive us but what she is doing in Bogota escaped us rest assured that itrsquos something selfless and fabulous Itrsquos astonishing how difficult it is to keep up with Ronnie and Hank)

Our interview with Ronnie and Hank continues at pompanotodaycom We hope that everyone reading this takes this couplersquos incredibly wise life lessons to heart and that wersquove inspired you to live every day to the fullest Ronnie and Hank are both a living example of and testament to how to make the most of every day After all theyrsquore experts ndash theyrsquove had over 70 years of practice

To all the single folks out there get out there and make every day count To all the couples getting married this season make yourselves a life that is as happy healthy and adventurous as Ronniersquos and Hankrsquos As to you two lovebirds - enjoy your summer and wersquoll see you back at the Ebb Tide next year

Patti Nachman and Alicyn Muntildeoz raise the baron bridal shops with Wonderland Bridal

Wedded Bliss Part 2Wonderland Bridalrsquos story is unique as every bridersquos wedding day Co-owners Patti Nachmann and Alicyn Muntildeoz met in their respective Mary Kay businesses and hit it off so instantly ndash and so well ndash that they became known as the ldquoMary Kay sistersrdquo Along the way Alicyn accompanied her best friend on a wedding dress shopping trip and asked

the store owner if she could set up a Mary Kay table there on the weekends The owner agreed and eventually Alicyn was working at the shop part time

She loved it so much that she became determined to open her own shop At the time Patti was still in the corporate world having spent 16 years in the field of medical billing ldquoI wentrdquo Patti recalls ldquofrom screaming at insurance companies on the phone to laughing and crying with brides as theyrsquore choosing their gownsrdquo

Patti excitedly tells us that the business is really taking off ldquoWersquove just acquired a couture line Allure and will be carrying them in the summerrdquo and that Wonderland covers all price points depending on the bridersquos needs

ldquoI feel like everything has just fallen into place with this business and wersquore very luckyrdquo she notes

We ask Patti what the one thing is shersquod like our readers to know about

Wonderland Bridal She thinks for a moment ldquoWe are not like any other bridal store and I say that because we hear that from our brides We have a lot of brides that come here after shopping around and their experiences havenrsquot always been positive Or they come here first and we encourage them to shop around We donrsquot ever pressure our brides and most of them time theyrsquoll tell us ldquoI should have picked our dress while I was herersquo Our brides are really great we have a good bond with them The [wedding dress buying] experience is a process wersquore in constant contact with them from the time they come in until the time they take the dress home

ldquoOur customer service is superb We like to hold one appointment at a time so the entire store is the bridersquos Sometimes of course we get busy [especially] on Saturdays so we have two completely separate fitting rooms

ldquo[We make sure each of our brides] feels like a princess And itrsquos hellip the most important day of their lives and this is part of the memory and wersquore just happy to be a part of itrdquo

For the curious we learned of Wonderland Bridal through Benjaminrsquos Fine Alterations amp Tailoring right here in Pompano Beach The two shops work very closely together Patti explains how these two remarkable local business found each other and yes it includes the magic of social media ldquoBenjaminrsquos

Pompano Today May 2016 19

Benjamins offers painless alterations tailoring and- yes - tuxedo rentals for the big day

and Wonderland started following each other on Instagram Wersquod like each otherrsquos photos and make a comment here and there Then I went to a networking event and one of their employees saw my name tag and grabbed me and said lsquoOh my God yoursquore with Wonderland Bridal And I looked at her nametag and said ldquoOh my God yoursquore with Benjaminrsquosrsquo And we had just recently opened our shop and we got to talking and had a meeting and just picked up from there and [Benjaminrsquos staff have] been our seamstresses since then over a year ago Victoria is an incredible seamstressrdquo

Speaking of Victoria thats her by the way in the photo at left along with Alycin and Patti and the beautiful bride who also graces our cover Learn more about Victoria and Benjamins in Part 3 below

Wonderland Bridal Couture3400 NW 62nd AveMargate FL 33063

954) 973-8695wonderlandbridalcomhomehtml

Benjamins Fine Alterations amp Tailoring2609 East Atlantic BoulevardPompano Beach FL33062

954-943-5878benjaminsalterationscom

Wedded Bliss Part 3Alert readers will recognize Benjamins Fine Alterations and Tailoring from other pages of this publication Its likely however that unless youre already patronized Benjamins (and if you havent well whyever not) you wont recognize Victoria pictured below along with the amazing team of tailors and seamstresses in this beautifully decorated shop As humble as she is talented Victoria and the team are in a word magicians

Really We may be biased having had an unfortunate episode involving a seam ripper many years ago in junior high sewing class but we all have our unique talents Every member of the staff at Benjamins is an

expert in making your clothes look their very best And of course when your clothes look their best well so do you

So drop off those pants youve been meaning to hem that jacket that needs a mite of a tuck that gorgeous blouse with the sleeves that are just a little too long - you wont regret it

And if you are one of the rare individuals whose clothes all fit perfectly Benjamins rents mens formal wear too (see the coupon on page 9)

Why go anywhere else

Photos this and facing page Paul McDermott Photography

INSTRUCTIONS

bull Mix everything adding flour until the mix is firm but not sticky (not too dry)

bull Roll the dough into small balls (about an inch across)bull Place on ungreased cookie sheet and flatten very slightlybull Bake at 350 degrees for 20-25 minutesbull While still warm sift the powdered sugar onto the cookies

INGREDIENTS

bull 1 pound sweet butter softenedbull 6 tablespoons powdered sugar (reserve for after baking)bull Flour to appropriate texturebull Vanilla to taste

Photo copy FomaA Adobe Stock

YUM

chef at home jeff eatsyour diningIn honor of this months theme allow us a bit of poetic license (which sounds so much nicer than bait and switch) Growing up in a Greek household everyone looked forward to these kourabiedes (also known as kourambiethes as well as variety of other spellings Greeks can agree on little spelling included) It was not until well after we left home that we realized how many people identified these as Mexican Wedding cookies And while every Greek will swear that the Greeks invented these there are so many near-identical versions of this cookie around the world that its difficult to tell where they originated

The recipe below is from my beloved late grandmother or Yiayia as we say in Greek It is predictably vague but these are easy to get right Enjoy

Mexican Wedding Cookies

20 Pompano Today May 2016

Pompano Today May 2016 21

your dining jeff eats

Le VinoisSimply Luscious

BY JEFF EATS

NICKrsquoS 50rsquoS DINER 1900 OKEECHOBEE BOULEVARD WEST PALM BEACH FLORIDA 33409 (561) 471-3155

A LITTLE ABOUT JEFF ldquoMy name is Jeff I was born (1949) and bred in Brooklyn New York Since 1991 I have lived full-time in South Florida and have eaten in so many restaurants (down here) that I now consider myself to be a FOOD EXPERT To give you some idea as to how many South Florida restaurants Irsquove been to as of December 31 2014 441 Italian joints alone have had the pleasure of ringing up my American Express card

Just so you know I donrsquot go for the fancy sit-down joints that want you to wear pants and a jacket but rather places where a pair of shorts an old tee shirt and a pair of sneakers is considered formal-wear I donrsquot know one sauce from another I also donrsquot know or really care how ldquodishesrdquo are prepared What I do know is when something tastes delicious and I canrsquot get enough of itrdquo To read more of Jeff rsquos picks visit jeffeatscom

Got an absolutely terrific French bakery for you guys Le Vinois Bakery in Fort Lauderdale The joint has the full-boat of breakfast items breads pastries cakes soups quiches salads sandwiches cookies coffees Order at the counter- handful of tables if you want to eat there

Jeff Eats and Mrs Jeff Eats recently did an eat-in lunchand takeout order and like I said a few seconds ago Le Vinoisrsquo stuff is absolute dynamite

Now letrsquos be adults here and let bygones be bygones- you do remember Freedom Fries sure you do With that in mind Jeff Eats absolutely loved Le Vinois Bakery and Irsquom kinda thinking that you should definitely give it a shot

Clockwise from top left copy Friedberg Adobe Stock copy Chuck Place Adobe Stock copy gkrphoto Adobe Stock copy geshas Adobe Stock

Clockwise from top Enjoy croissants a slice of lemon tart great sandwiches and delicious quiche among the many other delights at Le Vinois

Le Vinois Bakery

6322 N Powerline RoadFt Lauderdale Florida 33309

Hours of operationMonday to Friday7am to 4pm

Phone 954 771 9788

Email modinafrancisyahoocom

levinoisbakerycom

22 Pompano Today May 2016

Whether yoursquore planning a close intimate gathering or a large affair the Sample-McDougald House at Centennial Park (450 NE 10th Street Pompano Beach) sets the scene for memories that will last a lifetime The recently completed $25 million restoration of the house and grounds provides you and your guests with a memorable setting The historic house surrounded by native trees and vegetation is a beautiful background for your photos Renting the Sample-McDougald House can give you and your guests exclusive use of the house and grounds throughout your affair (subject to use guidelines) Visit wwwSampleMcDougaldHousecom to learn more about the house or call 954 691-5686 or 954 214-4759 for more details

Memories yoursquoll treasure at the Sample-McDougald House

Sitting amidst four beautiful acres the Sample-McDougald House offers one of the few

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24 Pompano Today May 2016

AROUND TOWN

a look back charlottes web

your city(the Sample family)

THANKS TO DAN HOBBY AND THE POMPANO BEACH HISTORICAL SOCIETY FOR THE PHOTO AND INFORMATION ABOUT OUR CITYS RICH AND VARIED HISTORY TO LEARN MORE ABOUT OUR CITYS FASCINATING PAST VISIT POMPANOHISTORYCOM

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Members of the Sample family gather together ca 1920 Albert Neal Sample who had the house now known as the Sample-McDougald House constructed in 1916 is standing in the second row third from the viewers right The man kneeling in the first row is Neals younger brother John who prior to 1910 was the first member of the Sample family to settle in the Pompano area The house that Neal Sample built turns 100 this year

The non-profit Sample-McDougald House Preservation Society has a number of activities and events planned to commemorate the historic houses 100th birthday For information visit SampleMcDougaldHousecom or call 754-307-5446

Pompano Today May 2016 25

What the hell do I know about wedded bliss I am a long-term and certified member of the ldquohappily single never been marriedrdquo club Relationships take work people My comfort level of commitment is agreeing to feed walk and nurture the fluffy poodle I brought home from the shelter 5 years ago Beyond thathellipIrsquom selfish And letrsquos face it no onersquos ever gotten into an argument with a dog over a miscommunication Theyrsquore perfect in that respect

But weddings are wonderful events Friends and family gathering together for a festive happy occasion weddings almost always guarantee a good time The happy couple gazing into each otherrsquos eyes while reciting wedding vows Uncle Jim having a few too many at the open bar and trying out his salsa moves on the dance floor Ah the memories we can reminisce about for years to come And the expectation is that the new union will last forever

But how does that same couple reach their 50th year wedding anniversary 50 years of wedded bliss now thatrsquos an accomplishment Since I have already mentioned that I am not exactly a go-to advisor on the subject I did what I always do Letrsquos see what the internet says It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was ldquodonrsquot be selfish and always put your partner firstrdquo Hmmm

ldquoMake it quickrdquo This tip was found when referencing the science of being happily married While it doesnrsquot reference the actual marriage itself in summary I interpreted it to read if someone annoys you now they will most inevitably annoy you much more in the future So maybe not marrying material to begin with Interestingly enough I have this one covered with my three date rule What is the three date rule you ask If there is nothing you find annoying about an individual within the first three dateshellipgreen light means go there may be a future In my case this is a bit of a challenge to achieve

And then Oprahrsquos people had to weigh in on the subject I feel compelled to share a link to a great joke I found on Oprahcom during the search It involves a couple celebrating their 50th anniversary and a mule but no worries Itrsquos a completely clean joke You can see the full joke here oprahcomrelationshipsHappy-Marriage-Tips-Love-Advice

your city charlottes web

Wedded bliss the flip side

BY CHARLOTTE SUNDQUIST

It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was

dont be selfish and always put your partner first Hmmm

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Are you back Good Am I wrong in assuming this has some ties to the three date rule

I donrsquot know I certainly havenrsquot got all the answers But Irsquove just confirmed that single is a perfectly acceptable status for me And you single people that are tired of hearing ldquoWhen are you going to settle down and get marriedrdquo Donrsquot cavehellipdo what makes you happy There is not one version of the perfect relationship ideal If itrsquos a good fit for you so be it Wersquore all different after all

And to all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work Time to go walk the dog

To all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work

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Blissful BusinessCan we be blissful in life Yes Can we be blissfully in love Yes Can we be blissful in business That depends on what your definition of a ldquoblissfulrdquo business is Is it working Monday through Thursday Is it dress down days Is it bringing in a new client or two each month Your bliss depends on what your definition is and what that looks like for your business model Letrsquos talk about a few ways you can be ldquoblissfulrdquo in business

Your Company Culture

What is the tone or perception of your company Are you rigid conservative and safe Or are you creative thought provoking and innovative You have the opportunity to transform your company culture a culture that attracts customers employees and partners Think about Google they have created a co-working collaborative happy environment at work for their employees Google has determined that their definition of ldquoblissfulrdquo is casual dress napping pods libraries and bring your dog to work days Think about what your culture is and try to create an atmosphere that people can enjoy

Better Matters

How can you perform tasks and projects ldquobetterrdquo to make it more manageable for your staff As leaders when we put our employees first the rewards are priceless What are you implementing internally to ldquobetterrdquo your employees to meet their sales goals client leads or individual quotas If you raise your standards the company will follow Being better should be the norm Better business creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo business

The Next Level

What is your definition of the reaching the next level Will reaching that level create a ldquoblissfulrdquo business Maybe yes or maybe no The next level for my business would be to add more employees and another office which would create bliss for me I would be free to do more networking and outside activities Determine and define what the ldquonext levelrdquo is for your company and see if it makes sense and creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo work environment for everyone involved

Itrsquos important to take a step back every now and then to remember why being an entrepreneur makes you happy

Determine your personal definition of a blissful business

BY TEANA MCDONALD

26 Pompano Today May 2016

working it special feature

your business special feature

Pompano Today May 2016 27

Kim Briesemeister greets us at the entrance to RMArsquos new digs a suite of comfortable welcoming offices right on Atlantic Boulevard As usual she is polished professional and enthusiastic about all of the great things happening in our city

ldquoWhat RMA brings is the technical expertise the realities of how to achieve the market visionhellipthe end result is creating a quality place that people want to live in and are proud to call home a place where businesses want to be and the city gets a certain great viberdquo Kim notes You can see this ldquoviberdquo in her eyes ndash and you know that Kim can see what the future looks like here in Pompano Beach and at that moment in time we can see it with her

What is ldquoitrdquo exactly ldquoItrdquo is what great places are made of Art Culture Safety Walkability Excitement The vision that Kim and her partner Chris Brown as well as all of the bright creative energetic staff we see is breathtaking And that feeling of hometown comfort that we all get when we return here whether after a trip to the next town over or a trip around the world is the wellspring from which all of the plans for our future originate Itrsquos still Pompano Beach but itrsquos far far better

As the publishers of this magazine for the past six years we have firsthand knowledge of all of the great people who live here and

the great things that attract more like-minded residents and visitors An airport A harbor The Intracoastal The lighthouse Thriving businesses A small-town feeling that is ever harder to maintain

Without a cohesive vision itrsquos likely that some if not all of these could be lost To paraphrase Benjamin Franklin ldquoFailing to plan is planning to failrdquo and there is no shortage of planning for this bright future going on at RMA

Speaking of that planning at that point Kim turns our attention to the consideration of an ldquoinnovation districtrdquo and this is where her enthusiasm is if possible even more palpable We are treated to a breathtaking visual tour of what is possible in such a district and oh my We can hardly contain ourselves What we ask is RMArsquos role in this endeavor ldquoWe are able to help the community go through the redevelopment processrdquo Kim responds adding that ldquo[the goal is that] in the end everyone says lsquoThis is the most amazing place to live This is where I want to bersquordquo

Yes Thatrsquos what we all want A place that wersquore even more proud to call home Proud of the looks on the faces of others when we tell them ldquoYes I live in Pompano Beachrdquo proud that we raised our children in a place where after theyrsquore grown they choose to return and put down roots of their own right here where they belong This is the place that we will create that will provide a solid foundation on which our city will continue to build on and thrive

As we prepare to depart earnest young professionals come bounding enthusiastically through the door (ok they werenrsquot really bounding ndash they are professionals ndash but they sure gave the impression of bounding)

ldquoAhhhrdquo we think to ourselves imagining an exchange with them ldquoDo you guys happen to live in Pompano Beach No Thatrsquos too badrdquo we say unable to help feeling just a tad smug ldquoItrsquos a great place to live work and playrdquo

Falling in love with the future of Pompano Beach

For the past 50 years the landscape of innovation has been dominated by places like Silicon Valleymdashsuburban corridors of spatially isolated corporate campuses accessible only by car with little emphasis on the quality of life or on integrating work housing and recreation

A new complementary urban model is now emerging giving rise to what we and others are calling ldquoinnovation districtsrdquo These districts by our definition are geographic areas where leading-edge anchor institutions and companies cluster and connect with start-ups business incubators and accelerators1 They are also physically compact transit-accessible and technically-wired and offer mixed-use housing office and retail

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts

LOOKING AHEAD TO AN EVEN BRIGHTER FUTUREFrom top left

bull Creating a Downtown Innovation District means incorporating all of the pieces of a successful plan

bull a sterling example of one such district

bull synergy in actionbull specific steps

to harness our unique strengths

bull targeted industriesbull another sterling

example this time of a complete street

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts What They Are

Economic Assets

Networking Assets

Physical Assets

InnovationEcosystemA synergistic relationship between people firms and place that facilitates idea generation and acceleratescommercialization

Target Industries

International Trade and Logistics

Marine Industry

Life Sciences and Biotechnology

Creative Design

Digital Media and Technology

Class A Office

Tourism

Advanced Materials and High-Tech Manufacturing

Redevelopment of Commercial and Residential

Alternatives Energy and Renewable Resources

AviationAerospace

Global Business Services

Global Media and Production

Headquarters and Management Operations

Human Resources and Higher Education

How to harness our ldquoDowntown Innovation Districtrdquo

1 Build a collaborative leadership network

2 Set a vision for growth to leverage our unique strengths

distinct economic clusters leading local and regional institutions and companies physical location and design advantages and other cultural attributes

3 Pursue talent and technology

4 Promote inclusive growthEquip workers with the skills they need to participate in the innovation economy or other secondary and tertiary jobs generated by innovative growth

5 Enhance access to capital

Cultural ArtsTourism

Industrial

Multi Purpose

DowntownInnovation

District

Target Industries

Education

Housing

Downtown Innovation

District

28 Pompano Today May 2016

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30 Pompano Today May 2016

VROOM

all things automotiveyour rideThis monthrsquos theme is wedded bliss I started checking on an exact meaning for this title This is what was written in the English Dictionary ldquothe happiness of being marriedrdquo As I reflect back and think about life altogether whether marriage engagement purchase of a product or dealing with family and friendshellip

There are many factors in life that can afford you wedded bliss or the joy serenity and comfort of having the right lover husband or wife the right house or car the right job or titlehellip Now letrsquos admit to the fact that we all go though the ups and downs and have to face many situationshellip This is part of being human

Just imagine not having a significant other to share the joy or sadness of an event or a shoulder to cry onhellip Just imagine not having a cell phone to communicate with your loved ones or a car to get you from point A to point B

Just like a marriage you start by meeting a prospective mate lover or significant other You then starting dating and checking on the possibility of a good fit

If that is the case you start focusing on the possibility of a future together and if the positive traits in that individual outweigh the negative and if you canrsquot imagine living without himher then the marriage is to be considered

The same thing goes for the perfect car for you You have specific unique preferences based on your personality and the purpose of the car purchase

Achieving wedded bliss with your vehicle choice

The right car that will suit your needs for years to come exists It just takes a little research planning budgeting and common sense We all dream of the luxury car that we many not be able to afford but till the time comes to make our dream car a reality we will need to settle for what is achievable practical fits our need and makes us proud of the choice we made Here are some practical questions to answer would you like to get a sporty car a regular 4 door sedan a van an SUV or a truck

Would you like a practical car you may drive in city highway or would you like to go off-roading on the weekends Would you need this vehicle to tow your boat to tow your camping trip supplies or would you like to have an elegant car to show off to your friends Now we have to consider the budget and whether we want to purchase a domestic or foreign vehicle the maintenance cost the fuel efficiency and the overall look and feel of the car

We have noticed that cars reflect their ownerrsquos personality so if you are someone who is sporty adventurous have a young spirit and are financially secure then a Bugatti Veyron Porsche 911 Ford Mustang McClaren MP4- 12C Lamborghini Egoista Limited edition Mercedes AMG SL SLK Roadster or E Class Cabriolet Convertible or the Chevy Camaro come to mind Pictured on page 31 is the 2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue by the way

If you are someone who is practical enjoy trips to the mountains or the beach work full time and look for a dependable and comfortable car then check out the Cadillac CTS (pictured above) XTS or DTS Super Subaru Impreza Lexus CT 200h Sport IS 250 or ES 350 Mercedes CS or E Class Chevy Equinox Chevy Tahoe and Toyota Prius V

Cadillac CTS photo copy General Motors

Pompano Today May 2016 31

If you are the family manwoman and are seeking safety comfortable seating and an affordable vehicle with low maintenance we noticed that most of the inquiries are SUV or Van related such as the Mercedes GLA SUB GLE SUV or GLS SUV Audi Q5 Audi Allroad Toyota Sienna Ford Fex Ford Transit Connect Cadillac Escalade Cadillac SRX and letrsquos not forget the Chevy Suburban

Now if you are the hunter or you enjoy off roading every now and then the vehicles we seesell and repair most are the Ford F150 Ford Super Duty Mercedes G Class Toyota TacomaTundra Range Rover Jeep Wrangler and the Chevy Silverado

What about the green energy conscious We have had inquiries about the Toyota Prius and the Rav 4 Hybrid Audi A3 E-tron Cadillac ELR or the Chevy Spark EV Now if you are in the market for a nice ride then you need to test drive the Cadillac CT6 Plug-in Hybrid or the BMW I8 and tell me if you enjoyed the drive

Yes even car owners and their vehicles can talk about wedded bliss So if you have the

perfect car that fits your image your lifestyle your personality then congratulations because you are lucky to get the perfect car In the meantime if you are looking for a vehicle and have questions or concerns feel free to contact us and we will be glad to assist you BY JAY GHANEM

2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue copy The Ford Motor Company 2016 All Rights Reserved

HOLLYWOOD CORNER

news from the west coast

32 Pompano Today May 2016

stars in your eyesBenjamin A Onyango on keeping the faith

and making people happyWhen did you know without any doubt that you wanted to act

Ive always acted in church youth plays that I wrote myself when I was a teenager in Nairobi Kenya In 1987 I came to the United States and while attending California State University Stanislaus in Turlock California formed a traditional dance group called Upendo Singers and Cultural Dancers We wrote plays and songs and performed them in cultural festivals universities and churches After graduating in 1992 I knew I wanted to act so I struck the tent and moved to Hollywood where I joined a funk rock band called PFO and also acted as a background performer in TV and feature films What inspires you to act

I am naturally a happy person and I love it when people are happy So I cant help it but crack jokes and poke fun at myself to make people around me laugh I am inspired by other people Their presence makes me want to do stuff talk dance sing shout etc When did you realize you had reached your goals as an actor

I do not think I have reached my goal as an actor yet To me acting is an evolving thing You get to a certain level and then you strive to get better than the level you currently are on Acting has many facets and therefore many challenges There is no one way to approach acting I therefore believe that I am still reaching for that goal and I must admit that the experience indeed is the best teacher because you indeed get better at it the more you keep doing it

What was your favorite role to date and why

My favorite role to date is the movie I am currently filming called Beautifully Broken The reason its my first role as a lead actor in a feature film and best of all I am playing the role of a real person who survived the Rwanda genocide that the story is about I played a lead role before in a short film called Kwame also based on a true story and was voted best actor at the 2009 Mexico International Film Festival Beautifully Broken is a story that connects very strongly with the human spirit I can almost guarantee that there will not be a

single dry eye in the theater when its screened Its a beautifully written story of hardship resilience survival and hope

What do you enjoy most about your career

What I enjoy most about my career is the ability to travel and see different people in different parts of the world I am a people person and nothing

makes me happier than meeting and making new friends

Can we expect a book from you

Thats funny you mentioned that I write lots of movie scripts and TV show scripts and I have always thought of writing a book So on my down days on the set of Beautifully Broken I started a book Ive been toying with in my head for a while The title of the book is God Moves When We Stop Helping Him Its more of a booklet than a book Its a book about encouragement

What is the best way for your fans to know what yoursquore working on FacebookTwitter Do you post for your own sites or do you have your assistants do the posts

I hope I do have fans LOL They can find out about what I am doing or working on my Facebook page facebookcomEMEBAND or Facebook fan page facebookcomBenjiBendrix Twitter twittercombochieng Instagram instagramcombenjibendrix and imdb imdbcomnamenm1335173ref_=nv_sr I also have a website benjibendrixcom that I use

Tell us something new something bold that yoursquove never told any other magazinehellipnews tip )

Recently I was fortunate to have my TV webseries Dysfunctionally Organized pitched to a major network and they agreed to have us do a spin-off of the show So we have started the writing process Its a major achievement for my team and myself since we have been working on the show for a long time Its not easy to get an audience with a content procurement person on a major network so we feel very fortunate I cant mention the network because of confidentiality reasons

Photo of Benjamin Ochieng aka Benji Bendrix (friend of Jimi Hendrix) copy Flygirl PhotographyLearn more about Benjamin atproimdbcomnamenm1335173afro-mericarecordscommindtricksmoviecom

BY MISTY SCHWARTZ

word scrambleTHE LAST WORD

a workout for your mind

Wedded bliss All of the words in this months Scramble are related to marriage and weddings Good luck Look for the answers online beginning May 15 at pompanotodaycom

Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answerodeutx gnir oeemcryn lsuipnatgnwo iaoynmtmr rogom slrofweermdiadbis eusenv shrue ovwsnwiddge rrdemia erdib psoesuerdbhteot rceepnoit errceat eiervsc

James Stafford PhotographyfacebookcomJamesStaffordPhotography

jamesstaffordname(561) 201-1640

Pompano Today May 2016 17

WEDDED BLISS

ldquoCollect adventures Do them

Dont ever say no to somethingrdquo

Ronnie finally sits down her hostessing duties complete Her bright blue eyes and lovely fawn colored hair make for a beautiful portrait of a life well lived her nails are polished her lipstick perfect We ask what itrsquos like to be married for 72 years ldquoNordquo Ronnie smilingly corrects us ldquoitrsquos 36 because half the time he doesnrsquot listen to merdquo

The couple met on March 4 1943 Hank lets us know that ldquoShe was on the other side of a double daterdquo At the time Hank was paired with a girl from upstate (for those who donrsquot know ldquoupstaterdquo is of course ldquoupstate New Yorkrdquo) Driving to the train station he thought to himself ldquoHow do I do thisrdquo He decided to take an interesting tactic somehow he ended up with Ronniersquos phone number in his possession And the rest as they say is history

Hank wasted no time (less than a week in fact) before taking Ronnie to a Broadway show (which they believe was ldquoShadow of a Doubtrdquo) for their first date The very next day they went on another date where Hank met Ronniersquos best friend (and passed the ldquobest friendrdquo test) For those who believe in coincidence the stars aligning divine intervention ndash call it what you will ndash two days later Ronniersquos sister was getting married and she invited Hank to be her date since her current boyfriend a Navy man was stuck in Washington DC Thus within four days Hank had met Ronniersquos entire family Two weeks after their fateful first date Hank was off to serve our country He remembers thinking ldquoIrsquom finally going to get out of Brooklynrdquo and sure enough he did ndash and got stationed in the Bronx

The proposal soon followed ldquoHe asked me to marry himrdquo Ronnie recalls ldquoand I was very young and very naiumlve and polite and I didnrsquot know how to say no So I said lsquoOK Irsquoll marry you until I find someone betterrsquordquo Exactly one year from the day they met Ronnie and Hank were wed

Ronnie begins to interject and then stops herself saying ldquoSometimes I interrupt myselfrdquo

Mind you all of the above conversation happened in probably two minutes Wow Itrsquos impossible to overstate the energy and joie de vivre that simply beams from Ronnie and Hank a beacon of love hope and happiness that is remarkable This feeling ndash that yoursquore in the presence of two incredibly special people ndash is also partly due to their strong belief in fairness justice and not least their deep commitment to faith

Interestingly the Aronds are ldquoJewish by culture and traditionrdquo Ronnie notes ldquobut not observantrdquo In fact they are now Unitarian Universalists about which they are ndash you guessed it ndash very enthusiastic They have been members of their Unitarian Universalist congregation for over two decades ldquoOur congregationrdquo they explain ldquois probably 25 Catholic 25 Jewish 25 born [in the faith] and 25 Muslim other religionshelliptheir committees are

rarr

18 Pompano Today May 2016

no different than Congressrdquo Ronnie laughs She recalls that even her parents were ldquounconcerned about religion ndash for example [they didnrsquot worry about whether I would] marry a nice Jewish boyrdquo

When not in Pompano Beach (where theyrsquove been coming for 20 years) Ronnie and Hank make their home in Bellerose Queens in the house where they raised their two children Sometimes they tell us Hank will be asked ldquoIf you could choose to have children again would yourdquo To which Hank will reply ldquoYes but not themrdquo

Hank of course is kidding as he so often is Their son is an

accomplished pediatrician who travels the world supporting nonprofit efforts Their daughter is a nurse who lives in south Florida so Ronnie and Hank get to spend a lot of time with her each winter Sadly their son lost his wife who was a Quaker Friend in Vietnam during the war three years ago to ALS Has he remarried we ask No but hersquos met a nice woman in a gospel choir Well of course he has These are resilient people who keep going through whatever life throws their way

Back to that house in Queens that they moved into 66 years ago They watched the house get built it was in one of the many new postwar developments springing up around the country to meet the needs of returning veterans and the inordinate number of new families and households springing up everywhere Every weekend during construction ldquowe drove out from the Bronxrdquo We canrsquot help but think about what an exciting and hopeful time that must have been

Ronnie and Hankrsquos son and his wife had two children their granddaughter is currently in Bogota and their grandson is at Amherst (forgive us but what she is doing in Bogota escaped us rest assured that itrsquos something selfless and fabulous Itrsquos astonishing how difficult it is to keep up with Ronnie and Hank)

Our interview with Ronnie and Hank continues at pompanotodaycom We hope that everyone reading this takes this couplersquos incredibly wise life lessons to heart and that wersquove inspired you to live every day to the fullest Ronnie and Hank are both a living example of and testament to how to make the most of every day After all theyrsquore experts ndash theyrsquove had over 70 years of practice

To all the single folks out there get out there and make every day count To all the couples getting married this season make yourselves a life that is as happy healthy and adventurous as Ronniersquos and Hankrsquos As to you two lovebirds - enjoy your summer and wersquoll see you back at the Ebb Tide next year

Patti Nachman and Alicyn Muntildeoz raise the baron bridal shops with Wonderland Bridal

Wedded Bliss Part 2Wonderland Bridalrsquos story is unique as every bridersquos wedding day Co-owners Patti Nachmann and Alicyn Muntildeoz met in their respective Mary Kay businesses and hit it off so instantly ndash and so well ndash that they became known as the ldquoMary Kay sistersrdquo Along the way Alicyn accompanied her best friend on a wedding dress shopping trip and asked

the store owner if she could set up a Mary Kay table there on the weekends The owner agreed and eventually Alicyn was working at the shop part time

She loved it so much that she became determined to open her own shop At the time Patti was still in the corporate world having spent 16 years in the field of medical billing ldquoI wentrdquo Patti recalls ldquofrom screaming at insurance companies on the phone to laughing and crying with brides as theyrsquore choosing their gownsrdquo

Patti excitedly tells us that the business is really taking off ldquoWersquove just acquired a couture line Allure and will be carrying them in the summerrdquo and that Wonderland covers all price points depending on the bridersquos needs

ldquoI feel like everything has just fallen into place with this business and wersquore very luckyrdquo she notes

We ask Patti what the one thing is shersquod like our readers to know about

Wonderland Bridal She thinks for a moment ldquoWe are not like any other bridal store and I say that because we hear that from our brides We have a lot of brides that come here after shopping around and their experiences havenrsquot always been positive Or they come here first and we encourage them to shop around We donrsquot ever pressure our brides and most of them time theyrsquoll tell us ldquoI should have picked our dress while I was herersquo Our brides are really great we have a good bond with them The [wedding dress buying] experience is a process wersquore in constant contact with them from the time they come in until the time they take the dress home

ldquoOur customer service is superb We like to hold one appointment at a time so the entire store is the bridersquos Sometimes of course we get busy [especially] on Saturdays so we have two completely separate fitting rooms

ldquo[We make sure each of our brides] feels like a princess And itrsquos hellip the most important day of their lives and this is part of the memory and wersquore just happy to be a part of itrdquo

For the curious we learned of Wonderland Bridal through Benjaminrsquos Fine Alterations amp Tailoring right here in Pompano Beach The two shops work very closely together Patti explains how these two remarkable local business found each other and yes it includes the magic of social media ldquoBenjaminrsquos

Pompano Today May 2016 19

Benjamins offers painless alterations tailoring and- yes - tuxedo rentals for the big day

and Wonderland started following each other on Instagram Wersquod like each otherrsquos photos and make a comment here and there Then I went to a networking event and one of their employees saw my name tag and grabbed me and said lsquoOh my God yoursquore with Wonderland Bridal And I looked at her nametag and said ldquoOh my God yoursquore with Benjaminrsquosrsquo And we had just recently opened our shop and we got to talking and had a meeting and just picked up from there and [Benjaminrsquos staff have] been our seamstresses since then over a year ago Victoria is an incredible seamstressrdquo

Speaking of Victoria thats her by the way in the photo at left along with Alycin and Patti and the beautiful bride who also graces our cover Learn more about Victoria and Benjamins in Part 3 below

Wonderland Bridal Couture3400 NW 62nd AveMargate FL 33063

954) 973-8695wonderlandbridalcomhomehtml

Benjamins Fine Alterations amp Tailoring2609 East Atlantic BoulevardPompano Beach FL33062

954-943-5878benjaminsalterationscom

Wedded Bliss Part 3Alert readers will recognize Benjamins Fine Alterations and Tailoring from other pages of this publication Its likely however that unless youre already patronized Benjamins (and if you havent well whyever not) you wont recognize Victoria pictured below along with the amazing team of tailors and seamstresses in this beautifully decorated shop As humble as she is talented Victoria and the team are in a word magicians

Really We may be biased having had an unfortunate episode involving a seam ripper many years ago in junior high sewing class but we all have our unique talents Every member of the staff at Benjamins is an

expert in making your clothes look their very best And of course when your clothes look their best well so do you

So drop off those pants youve been meaning to hem that jacket that needs a mite of a tuck that gorgeous blouse with the sleeves that are just a little too long - you wont regret it

And if you are one of the rare individuals whose clothes all fit perfectly Benjamins rents mens formal wear too (see the coupon on page 9)

Why go anywhere else

Photos this and facing page Paul McDermott Photography

INSTRUCTIONS

bull Mix everything adding flour until the mix is firm but not sticky (not too dry)

bull Roll the dough into small balls (about an inch across)bull Place on ungreased cookie sheet and flatten very slightlybull Bake at 350 degrees for 20-25 minutesbull While still warm sift the powdered sugar onto the cookies

INGREDIENTS

bull 1 pound sweet butter softenedbull 6 tablespoons powdered sugar (reserve for after baking)bull Flour to appropriate texturebull Vanilla to taste

Photo copy FomaA Adobe Stock

YUM

chef at home jeff eatsyour diningIn honor of this months theme allow us a bit of poetic license (which sounds so much nicer than bait and switch) Growing up in a Greek household everyone looked forward to these kourabiedes (also known as kourambiethes as well as variety of other spellings Greeks can agree on little spelling included) It was not until well after we left home that we realized how many people identified these as Mexican Wedding cookies And while every Greek will swear that the Greeks invented these there are so many near-identical versions of this cookie around the world that its difficult to tell where they originated

The recipe below is from my beloved late grandmother or Yiayia as we say in Greek It is predictably vague but these are easy to get right Enjoy

Mexican Wedding Cookies

20 Pompano Today May 2016

Pompano Today May 2016 21

your dining jeff eats

Le VinoisSimply Luscious

BY JEFF EATS

NICKrsquoS 50rsquoS DINER 1900 OKEECHOBEE BOULEVARD WEST PALM BEACH FLORIDA 33409 (561) 471-3155

A LITTLE ABOUT JEFF ldquoMy name is Jeff I was born (1949) and bred in Brooklyn New York Since 1991 I have lived full-time in South Florida and have eaten in so many restaurants (down here) that I now consider myself to be a FOOD EXPERT To give you some idea as to how many South Florida restaurants Irsquove been to as of December 31 2014 441 Italian joints alone have had the pleasure of ringing up my American Express card

Just so you know I donrsquot go for the fancy sit-down joints that want you to wear pants and a jacket but rather places where a pair of shorts an old tee shirt and a pair of sneakers is considered formal-wear I donrsquot know one sauce from another I also donrsquot know or really care how ldquodishesrdquo are prepared What I do know is when something tastes delicious and I canrsquot get enough of itrdquo To read more of Jeff rsquos picks visit jeffeatscom

Got an absolutely terrific French bakery for you guys Le Vinois Bakery in Fort Lauderdale The joint has the full-boat of breakfast items breads pastries cakes soups quiches salads sandwiches cookies coffees Order at the counter- handful of tables if you want to eat there

Jeff Eats and Mrs Jeff Eats recently did an eat-in lunchand takeout order and like I said a few seconds ago Le Vinoisrsquo stuff is absolute dynamite

Now letrsquos be adults here and let bygones be bygones- you do remember Freedom Fries sure you do With that in mind Jeff Eats absolutely loved Le Vinois Bakery and Irsquom kinda thinking that you should definitely give it a shot

Clockwise from top left copy Friedberg Adobe Stock copy Chuck Place Adobe Stock copy gkrphoto Adobe Stock copy geshas Adobe Stock

Clockwise from top Enjoy croissants a slice of lemon tart great sandwiches and delicious quiche among the many other delights at Le Vinois

Le Vinois Bakery

6322 N Powerline RoadFt Lauderdale Florida 33309

Hours of operationMonday to Friday7am to 4pm

Phone 954 771 9788

Email modinafrancisyahoocom

levinoisbakerycom

22 Pompano Today May 2016

Whether yoursquore planning a close intimate gathering or a large affair the Sample-McDougald House at Centennial Park (450 NE 10th Street Pompano Beach) sets the scene for memories that will last a lifetime The recently completed $25 million restoration of the house and grounds provides you and your guests with a memorable setting The historic house surrounded by native trees and vegetation is a beautiful background for your photos Renting the Sample-McDougald House can give you and your guests exclusive use of the house and grounds throughout your affair (subject to use guidelines) Visit wwwSampleMcDougaldHousecom to learn more about the house or call 954 691-5686 or 954 214-4759 for more details

Memories yoursquoll treasure at the Sample-McDougald House

Sitting amidst four beautiful acres the Sample-McDougald House offers one of the few

historically significant settings in the area for events of any size uniquely

suited to your special day Advertisement

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24 Pompano Today May 2016

AROUND TOWN

a look back charlottes web

your city(the Sample family)

THANKS TO DAN HOBBY AND THE POMPANO BEACH HISTORICAL SOCIETY FOR THE PHOTO AND INFORMATION ABOUT OUR CITYS RICH AND VARIED HISTORY TO LEARN MORE ABOUT OUR CITYS FASCINATING PAST VISIT POMPANOHISTORYCOM

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Members of the Sample family gather together ca 1920 Albert Neal Sample who had the house now known as the Sample-McDougald House constructed in 1916 is standing in the second row third from the viewers right The man kneeling in the first row is Neals younger brother John who prior to 1910 was the first member of the Sample family to settle in the Pompano area The house that Neal Sample built turns 100 this year

The non-profit Sample-McDougald House Preservation Society has a number of activities and events planned to commemorate the historic houses 100th birthday For information visit SampleMcDougaldHousecom or call 754-307-5446

Pompano Today May 2016 25

What the hell do I know about wedded bliss I am a long-term and certified member of the ldquohappily single never been marriedrdquo club Relationships take work people My comfort level of commitment is agreeing to feed walk and nurture the fluffy poodle I brought home from the shelter 5 years ago Beyond thathellipIrsquom selfish And letrsquos face it no onersquos ever gotten into an argument with a dog over a miscommunication Theyrsquore perfect in that respect

But weddings are wonderful events Friends and family gathering together for a festive happy occasion weddings almost always guarantee a good time The happy couple gazing into each otherrsquos eyes while reciting wedding vows Uncle Jim having a few too many at the open bar and trying out his salsa moves on the dance floor Ah the memories we can reminisce about for years to come And the expectation is that the new union will last forever

But how does that same couple reach their 50th year wedding anniversary 50 years of wedded bliss now thatrsquos an accomplishment Since I have already mentioned that I am not exactly a go-to advisor on the subject I did what I always do Letrsquos see what the internet says It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was ldquodonrsquot be selfish and always put your partner firstrdquo Hmmm

ldquoMake it quickrdquo This tip was found when referencing the science of being happily married While it doesnrsquot reference the actual marriage itself in summary I interpreted it to read if someone annoys you now they will most inevitably annoy you much more in the future So maybe not marrying material to begin with Interestingly enough I have this one covered with my three date rule What is the three date rule you ask If there is nothing you find annoying about an individual within the first three dateshellipgreen light means go there may be a future In my case this is a bit of a challenge to achieve

And then Oprahrsquos people had to weigh in on the subject I feel compelled to share a link to a great joke I found on Oprahcom during the search It involves a couple celebrating their 50th anniversary and a mule but no worries Itrsquos a completely clean joke You can see the full joke here oprahcomrelationshipsHappy-Marriage-Tips-Love-Advice

your city charlottes web

Wedded bliss the flip side

BY CHARLOTTE SUNDQUIST

It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was

dont be selfish and always put your partner first Hmmm

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Are you back Good Am I wrong in assuming this has some ties to the three date rule

I donrsquot know I certainly havenrsquot got all the answers But Irsquove just confirmed that single is a perfectly acceptable status for me And you single people that are tired of hearing ldquoWhen are you going to settle down and get marriedrdquo Donrsquot cavehellipdo what makes you happy There is not one version of the perfect relationship ideal If itrsquos a good fit for you so be it Wersquore all different after all

And to all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work Time to go walk the dog

To all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work

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Blissful BusinessCan we be blissful in life Yes Can we be blissfully in love Yes Can we be blissful in business That depends on what your definition of a ldquoblissfulrdquo business is Is it working Monday through Thursday Is it dress down days Is it bringing in a new client or two each month Your bliss depends on what your definition is and what that looks like for your business model Letrsquos talk about a few ways you can be ldquoblissfulrdquo in business

Your Company Culture

What is the tone or perception of your company Are you rigid conservative and safe Or are you creative thought provoking and innovative You have the opportunity to transform your company culture a culture that attracts customers employees and partners Think about Google they have created a co-working collaborative happy environment at work for their employees Google has determined that their definition of ldquoblissfulrdquo is casual dress napping pods libraries and bring your dog to work days Think about what your culture is and try to create an atmosphere that people can enjoy

Better Matters

How can you perform tasks and projects ldquobetterrdquo to make it more manageable for your staff As leaders when we put our employees first the rewards are priceless What are you implementing internally to ldquobetterrdquo your employees to meet their sales goals client leads or individual quotas If you raise your standards the company will follow Being better should be the norm Better business creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo business

The Next Level

What is your definition of the reaching the next level Will reaching that level create a ldquoblissfulrdquo business Maybe yes or maybe no The next level for my business would be to add more employees and another office which would create bliss for me I would be free to do more networking and outside activities Determine and define what the ldquonext levelrdquo is for your company and see if it makes sense and creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo work environment for everyone involved

Itrsquos important to take a step back every now and then to remember why being an entrepreneur makes you happy

Determine your personal definition of a blissful business

BY TEANA MCDONALD

26 Pompano Today May 2016

working it special feature

your business special feature

Pompano Today May 2016 27

Kim Briesemeister greets us at the entrance to RMArsquos new digs a suite of comfortable welcoming offices right on Atlantic Boulevard As usual she is polished professional and enthusiastic about all of the great things happening in our city

ldquoWhat RMA brings is the technical expertise the realities of how to achieve the market visionhellipthe end result is creating a quality place that people want to live in and are proud to call home a place where businesses want to be and the city gets a certain great viberdquo Kim notes You can see this ldquoviberdquo in her eyes ndash and you know that Kim can see what the future looks like here in Pompano Beach and at that moment in time we can see it with her

What is ldquoitrdquo exactly ldquoItrdquo is what great places are made of Art Culture Safety Walkability Excitement The vision that Kim and her partner Chris Brown as well as all of the bright creative energetic staff we see is breathtaking And that feeling of hometown comfort that we all get when we return here whether after a trip to the next town over or a trip around the world is the wellspring from which all of the plans for our future originate Itrsquos still Pompano Beach but itrsquos far far better

As the publishers of this magazine for the past six years we have firsthand knowledge of all of the great people who live here and

the great things that attract more like-minded residents and visitors An airport A harbor The Intracoastal The lighthouse Thriving businesses A small-town feeling that is ever harder to maintain

Without a cohesive vision itrsquos likely that some if not all of these could be lost To paraphrase Benjamin Franklin ldquoFailing to plan is planning to failrdquo and there is no shortage of planning for this bright future going on at RMA

Speaking of that planning at that point Kim turns our attention to the consideration of an ldquoinnovation districtrdquo and this is where her enthusiasm is if possible even more palpable We are treated to a breathtaking visual tour of what is possible in such a district and oh my We can hardly contain ourselves What we ask is RMArsquos role in this endeavor ldquoWe are able to help the community go through the redevelopment processrdquo Kim responds adding that ldquo[the goal is that] in the end everyone says lsquoThis is the most amazing place to live This is where I want to bersquordquo

Yes Thatrsquos what we all want A place that wersquore even more proud to call home Proud of the looks on the faces of others when we tell them ldquoYes I live in Pompano Beachrdquo proud that we raised our children in a place where after theyrsquore grown they choose to return and put down roots of their own right here where they belong This is the place that we will create that will provide a solid foundation on which our city will continue to build on and thrive

As we prepare to depart earnest young professionals come bounding enthusiastically through the door (ok they werenrsquot really bounding ndash they are professionals ndash but they sure gave the impression of bounding)

ldquoAhhhrdquo we think to ourselves imagining an exchange with them ldquoDo you guys happen to live in Pompano Beach No Thatrsquos too badrdquo we say unable to help feeling just a tad smug ldquoItrsquos a great place to live work and playrdquo

Falling in love with the future of Pompano Beach

For the past 50 years the landscape of innovation has been dominated by places like Silicon Valleymdashsuburban corridors of spatially isolated corporate campuses accessible only by car with little emphasis on the quality of life or on integrating work housing and recreation

A new complementary urban model is now emerging giving rise to what we and others are calling ldquoinnovation districtsrdquo These districts by our definition are geographic areas where leading-edge anchor institutions and companies cluster and connect with start-ups business incubators and accelerators1 They are also physically compact transit-accessible and technically-wired and offer mixed-use housing office and retail

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts

LOOKING AHEAD TO AN EVEN BRIGHTER FUTUREFrom top left

bull Creating a Downtown Innovation District means incorporating all of the pieces of a successful plan

bull a sterling example of one such district

bull synergy in actionbull specific steps

to harness our unique strengths

bull targeted industriesbull another sterling

example this time of a complete street

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts What They Are

Economic Assets

Networking Assets

Physical Assets

InnovationEcosystemA synergistic relationship between people firms and place that facilitates idea generation and acceleratescommercialization

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Pompano Today May 2016 29

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30 Pompano Today May 2016

VROOM

all things automotiveyour rideThis monthrsquos theme is wedded bliss I started checking on an exact meaning for this title This is what was written in the English Dictionary ldquothe happiness of being marriedrdquo As I reflect back and think about life altogether whether marriage engagement purchase of a product or dealing with family and friendshellip

There are many factors in life that can afford you wedded bliss or the joy serenity and comfort of having the right lover husband or wife the right house or car the right job or titlehellip Now letrsquos admit to the fact that we all go though the ups and downs and have to face many situationshellip This is part of being human

Just imagine not having a significant other to share the joy or sadness of an event or a shoulder to cry onhellip Just imagine not having a cell phone to communicate with your loved ones or a car to get you from point A to point B

Just like a marriage you start by meeting a prospective mate lover or significant other You then starting dating and checking on the possibility of a good fit

If that is the case you start focusing on the possibility of a future together and if the positive traits in that individual outweigh the negative and if you canrsquot imagine living without himher then the marriage is to be considered

The same thing goes for the perfect car for you You have specific unique preferences based on your personality and the purpose of the car purchase

Achieving wedded bliss with your vehicle choice

The right car that will suit your needs for years to come exists It just takes a little research planning budgeting and common sense We all dream of the luxury car that we many not be able to afford but till the time comes to make our dream car a reality we will need to settle for what is achievable practical fits our need and makes us proud of the choice we made Here are some practical questions to answer would you like to get a sporty car a regular 4 door sedan a van an SUV or a truck

Would you like a practical car you may drive in city highway or would you like to go off-roading on the weekends Would you need this vehicle to tow your boat to tow your camping trip supplies or would you like to have an elegant car to show off to your friends Now we have to consider the budget and whether we want to purchase a domestic or foreign vehicle the maintenance cost the fuel efficiency and the overall look and feel of the car

We have noticed that cars reflect their ownerrsquos personality so if you are someone who is sporty adventurous have a young spirit and are financially secure then a Bugatti Veyron Porsche 911 Ford Mustang McClaren MP4- 12C Lamborghini Egoista Limited edition Mercedes AMG SL SLK Roadster or E Class Cabriolet Convertible or the Chevy Camaro come to mind Pictured on page 31 is the 2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue by the way

If you are someone who is practical enjoy trips to the mountains or the beach work full time and look for a dependable and comfortable car then check out the Cadillac CTS (pictured above) XTS or DTS Super Subaru Impreza Lexus CT 200h Sport IS 250 or ES 350 Mercedes CS or E Class Chevy Equinox Chevy Tahoe and Toyota Prius V

Cadillac CTS photo copy General Motors

Pompano Today May 2016 31

If you are the family manwoman and are seeking safety comfortable seating and an affordable vehicle with low maintenance we noticed that most of the inquiries are SUV or Van related such as the Mercedes GLA SUB GLE SUV or GLS SUV Audi Q5 Audi Allroad Toyota Sienna Ford Fex Ford Transit Connect Cadillac Escalade Cadillac SRX and letrsquos not forget the Chevy Suburban

Now if you are the hunter or you enjoy off roading every now and then the vehicles we seesell and repair most are the Ford F150 Ford Super Duty Mercedes G Class Toyota TacomaTundra Range Rover Jeep Wrangler and the Chevy Silverado

What about the green energy conscious We have had inquiries about the Toyota Prius and the Rav 4 Hybrid Audi A3 E-tron Cadillac ELR or the Chevy Spark EV Now if you are in the market for a nice ride then you need to test drive the Cadillac CT6 Plug-in Hybrid or the BMW I8 and tell me if you enjoyed the drive

Yes even car owners and their vehicles can talk about wedded bliss So if you have the

perfect car that fits your image your lifestyle your personality then congratulations because you are lucky to get the perfect car In the meantime if you are looking for a vehicle and have questions or concerns feel free to contact us and we will be glad to assist you BY JAY GHANEM

2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue copy The Ford Motor Company 2016 All Rights Reserved

HOLLYWOOD CORNER

news from the west coast

32 Pompano Today May 2016

stars in your eyesBenjamin A Onyango on keeping the faith

and making people happyWhen did you know without any doubt that you wanted to act

Ive always acted in church youth plays that I wrote myself when I was a teenager in Nairobi Kenya In 1987 I came to the United States and while attending California State University Stanislaus in Turlock California formed a traditional dance group called Upendo Singers and Cultural Dancers We wrote plays and songs and performed them in cultural festivals universities and churches After graduating in 1992 I knew I wanted to act so I struck the tent and moved to Hollywood where I joined a funk rock band called PFO and also acted as a background performer in TV and feature films What inspires you to act

I am naturally a happy person and I love it when people are happy So I cant help it but crack jokes and poke fun at myself to make people around me laugh I am inspired by other people Their presence makes me want to do stuff talk dance sing shout etc When did you realize you had reached your goals as an actor

I do not think I have reached my goal as an actor yet To me acting is an evolving thing You get to a certain level and then you strive to get better than the level you currently are on Acting has many facets and therefore many challenges There is no one way to approach acting I therefore believe that I am still reaching for that goal and I must admit that the experience indeed is the best teacher because you indeed get better at it the more you keep doing it

What was your favorite role to date and why

My favorite role to date is the movie I am currently filming called Beautifully Broken The reason its my first role as a lead actor in a feature film and best of all I am playing the role of a real person who survived the Rwanda genocide that the story is about I played a lead role before in a short film called Kwame also based on a true story and was voted best actor at the 2009 Mexico International Film Festival Beautifully Broken is a story that connects very strongly with the human spirit I can almost guarantee that there will not be a

single dry eye in the theater when its screened Its a beautifully written story of hardship resilience survival and hope

What do you enjoy most about your career

What I enjoy most about my career is the ability to travel and see different people in different parts of the world I am a people person and nothing

makes me happier than meeting and making new friends

Can we expect a book from you

Thats funny you mentioned that I write lots of movie scripts and TV show scripts and I have always thought of writing a book So on my down days on the set of Beautifully Broken I started a book Ive been toying with in my head for a while The title of the book is God Moves When We Stop Helping Him Its more of a booklet than a book Its a book about encouragement

What is the best way for your fans to know what yoursquore working on FacebookTwitter Do you post for your own sites or do you have your assistants do the posts

I hope I do have fans LOL They can find out about what I am doing or working on my Facebook page facebookcomEMEBAND or Facebook fan page facebookcomBenjiBendrix Twitter twittercombochieng Instagram instagramcombenjibendrix and imdb imdbcomnamenm1335173ref_=nv_sr I also have a website benjibendrixcom that I use

Tell us something new something bold that yoursquove never told any other magazinehellipnews tip )

Recently I was fortunate to have my TV webseries Dysfunctionally Organized pitched to a major network and they agreed to have us do a spin-off of the show So we have started the writing process Its a major achievement for my team and myself since we have been working on the show for a long time Its not easy to get an audience with a content procurement person on a major network so we feel very fortunate I cant mention the network because of confidentiality reasons

Photo of Benjamin Ochieng aka Benji Bendrix (friend of Jimi Hendrix) copy Flygirl PhotographyLearn more about Benjamin atproimdbcomnamenm1335173afro-mericarecordscommindtricksmoviecom

BY MISTY SCHWARTZ

word scrambleTHE LAST WORD

a workout for your mind

Wedded bliss All of the words in this months Scramble are related to marriage and weddings Good luck Look for the answers online beginning May 15 at pompanotodaycom

Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answerodeutx gnir oeemcryn lsuipnatgnwo iaoynmtmr rogom slrofweermdiadbis eusenv shrue ovwsnwiddge rrdemia erdib psoesuerdbhteot rceepnoit errceat eiervsc

James Stafford PhotographyfacebookcomJamesStaffordPhotography

jamesstaffordname(561) 201-1640

18 Pompano Today May 2016

no different than Congressrdquo Ronnie laughs She recalls that even her parents were ldquounconcerned about religion ndash for example [they didnrsquot worry about whether I would] marry a nice Jewish boyrdquo

When not in Pompano Beach (where theyrsquove been coming for 20 years) Ronnie and Hank make their home in Bellerose Queens in the house where they raised their two children Sometimes they tell us Hank will be asked ldquoIf you could choose to have children again would yourdquo To which Hank will reply ldquoYes but not themrdquo

Hank of course is kidding as he so often is Their son is an

accomplished pediatrician who travels the world supporting nonprofit efforts Their daughter is a nurse who lives in south Florida so Ronnie and Hank get to spend a lot of time with her each winter Sadly their son lost his wife who was a Quaker Friend in Vietnam during the war three years ago to ALS Has he remarried we ask No but hersquos met a nice woman in a gospel choir Well of course he has These are resilient people who keep going through whatever life throws their way

Back to that house in Queens that they moved into 66 years ago They watched the house get built it was in one of the many new postwar developments springing up around the country to meet the needs of returning veterans and the inordinate number of new families and households springing up everywhere Every weekend during construction ldquowe drove out from the Bronxrdquo We canrsquot help but think about what an exciting and hopeful time that must have been

Ronnie and Hankrsquos son and his wife had two children their granddaughter is currently in Bogota and their grandson is at Amherst (forgive us but what she is doing in Bogota escaped us rest assured that itrsquos something selfless and fabulous Itrsquos astonishing how difficult it is to keep up with Ronnie and Hank)

Our interview with Ronnie and Hank continues at pompanotodaycom We hope that everyone reading this takes this couplersquos incredibly wise life lessons to heart and that wersquove inspired you to live every day to the fullest Ronnie and Hank are both a living example of and testament to how to make the most of every day After all theyrsquore experts ndash theyrsquove had over 70 years of practice

To all the single folks out there get out there and make every day count To all the couples getting married this season make yourselves a life that is as happy healthy and adventurous as Ronniersquos and Hankrsquos As to you two lovebirds - enjoy your summer and wersquoll see you back at the Ebb Tide next year

Patti Nachman and Alicyn Muntildeoz raise the baron bridal shops with Wonderland Bridal

Wedded Bliss Part 2Wonderland Bridalrsquos story is unique as every bridersquos wedding day Co-owners Patti Nachmann and Alicyn Muntildeoz met in their respective Mary Kay businesses and hit it off so instantly ndash and so well ndash that they became known as the ldquoMary Kay sistersrdquo Along the way Alicyn accompanied her best friend on a wedding dress shopping trip and asked

the store owner if she could set up a Mary Kay table there on the weekends The owner agreed and eventually Alicyn was working at the shop part time

She loved it so much that she became determined to open her own shop At the time Patti was still in the corporate world having spent 16 years in the field of medical billing ldquoI wentrdquo Patti recalls ldquofrom screaming at insurance companies on the phone to laughing and crying with brides as theyrsquore choosing their gownsrdquo

Patti excitedly tells us that the business is really taking off ldquoWersquove just acquired a couture line Allure and will be carrying them in the summerrdquo and that Wonderland covers all price points depending on the bridersquos needs

ldquoI feel like everything has just fallen into place with this business and wersquore very luckyrdquo she notes

We ask Patti what the one thing is shersquod like our readers to know about

Wonderland Bridal She thinks for a moment ldquoWe are not like any other bridal store and I say that because we hear that from our brides We have a lot of brides that come here after shopping around and their experiences havenrsquot always been positive Or they come here first and we encourage them to shop around We donrsquot ever pressure our brides and most of them time theyrsquoll tell us ldquoI should have picked our dress while I was herersquo Our brides are really great we have a good bond with them The [wedding dress buying] experience is a process wersquore in constant contact with them from the time they come in until the time they take the dress home

ldquoOur customer service is superb We like to hold one appointment at a time so the entire store is the bridersquos Sometimes of course we get busy [especially] on Saturdays so we have two completely separate fitting rooms

ldquo[We make sure each of our brides] feels like a princess And itrsquos hellip the most important day of their lives and this is part of the memory and wersquore just happy to be a part of itrdquo

For the curious we learned of Wonderland Bridal through Benjaminrsquos Fine Alterations amp Tailoring right here in Pompano Beach The two shops work very closely together Patti explains how these two remarkable local business found each other and yes it includes the magic of social media ldquoBenjaminrsquos

Pompano Today May 2016 19

Benjamins offers painless alterations tailoring and- yes - tuxedo rentals for the big day

and Wonderland started following each other on Instagram Wersquod like each otherrsquos photos and make a comment here and there Then I went to a networking event and one of their employees saw my name tag and grabbed me and said lsquoOh my God yoursquore with Wonderland Bridal And I looked at her nametag and said ldquoOh my God yoursquore with Benjaminrsquosrsquo And we had just recently opened our shop and we got to talking and had a meeting and just picked up from there and [Benjaminrsquos staff have] been our seamstresses since then over a year ago Victoria is an incredible seamstressrdquo

Speaking of Victoria thats her by the way in the photo at left along with Alycin and Patti and the beautiful bride who also graces our cover Learn more about Victoria and Benjamins in Part 3 below

Wonderland Bridal Couture3400 NW 62nd AveMargate FL 33063

954) 973-8695wonderlandbridalcomhomehtml

Benjamins Fine Alterations amp Tailoring2609 East Atlantic BoulevardPompano Beach FL33062

954-943-5878benjaminsalterationscom

Wedded Bliss Part 3Alert readers will recognize Benjamins Fine Alterations and Tailoring from other pages of this publication Its likely however that unless youre already patronized Benjamins (and if you havent well whyever not) you wont recognize Victoria pictured below along with the amazing team of tailors and seamstresses in this beautifully decorated shop As humble as she is talented Victoria and the team are in a word magicians

Really We may be biased having had an unfortunate episode involving a seam ripper many years ago in junior high sewing class but we all have our unique talents Every member of the staff at Benjamins is an

expert in making your clothes look their very best And of course when your clothes look their best well so do you

So drop off those pants youve been meaning to hem that jacket that needs a mite of a tuck that gorgeous blouse with the sleeves that are just a little too long - you wont regret it

And if you are one of the rare individuals whose clothes all fit perfectly Benjamins rents mens formal wear too (see the coupon on page 9)

Why go anywhere else

Photos this and facing page Paul McDermott Photography

INSTRUCTIONS

bull Mix everything adding flour until the mix is firm but not sticky (not too dry)

bull Roll the dough into small balls (about an inch across)bull Place on ungreased cookie sheet and flatten very slightlybull Bake at 350 degrees for 20-25 minutesbull While still warm sift the powdered sugar onto the cookies

INGREDIENTS

bull 1 pound sweet butter softenedbull 6 tablespoons powdered sugar (reserve for after baking)bull Flour to appropriate texturebull Vanilla to taste

Photo copy FomaA Adobe Stock

YUM

chef at home jeff eatsyour diningIn honor of this months theme allow us a bit of poetic license (which sounds so much nicer than bait and switch) Growing up in a Greek household everyone looked forward to these kourabiedes (also known as kourambiethes as well as variety of other spellings Greeks can agree on little spelling included) It was not until well after we left home that we realized how many people identified these as Mexican Wedding cookies And while every Greek will swear that the Greeks invented these there are so many near-identical versions of this cookie around the world that its difficult to tell where they originated

The recipe below is from my beloved late grandmother or Yiayia as we say in Greek It is predictably vague but these are easy to get right Enjoy

Mexican Wedding Cookies

20 Pompano Today May 2016

Pompano Today May 2016 21

your dining jeff eats

Le VinoisSimply Luscious

BY JEFF EATS

NICKrsquoS 50rsquoS DINER 1900 OKEECHOBEE BOULEVARD WEST PALM BEACH FLORIDA 33409 (561) 471-3155

A LITTLE ABOUT JEFF ldquoMy name is Jeff I was born (1949) and bred in Brooklyn New York Since 1991 I have lived full-time in South Florida and have eaten in so many restaurants (down here) that I now consider myself to be a FOOD EXPERT To give you some idea as to how many South Florida restaurants Irsquove been to as of December 31 2014 441 Italian joints alone have had the pleasure of ringing up my American Express card

Just so you know I donrsquot go for the fancy sit-down joints that want you to wear pants and a jacket but rather places where a pair of shorts an old tee shirt and a pair of sneakers is considered formal-wear I donrsquot know one sauce from another I also donrsquot know or really care how ldquodishesrdquo are prepared What I do know is when something tastes delicious and I canrsquot get enough of itrdquo To read more of Jeff rsquos picks visit jeffeatscom

Got an absolutely terrific French bakery for you guys Le Vinois Bakery in Fort Lauderdale The joint has the full-boat of breakfast items breads pastries cakes soups quiches salads sandwiches cookies coffees Order at the counter- handful of tables if you want to eat there

Jeff Eats and Mrs Jeff Eats recently did an eat-in lunchand takeout order and like I said a few seconds ago Le Vinoisrsquo stuff is absolute dynamite

Now letrsquos be adults here and let bygones be bygones- you do remember Freedom Fries sure you do With that in mind Jeff Eats absolutely loved Le Vinois Bakery and Irsquom kinda thinking that you should definitely give it a shot

Clockwise from top left copy Friedberg Adobe Stock copy Chuck Place Adobe Stock copy gkrphoto Adobe Stock copy geshas Adobe Stock

Clockwise from top Enjoy croissants a slice of lemon tart great sandwiches and delicious quiche among the many other delights at Le Vinois

Le Vinois Bakery

6322 N Powerline RoadFt Lauderdale Florida 33309

Hours of operationMonday to Friday7am to 4pm

Phone 954 771 9788

Email modinafrancisyahoocom

levinoisbakerycom

22 Pompano Today May 2016

Whether yoursquore planning a close intimate gathering or a large affair the Sample-McDougald House at Centennial Park (450 NE 10th Street Pompano Beach) sets the scene for memories that will last a lifetime The recently completed $25 million restoration of the house and grounds provides you and your guests with a memorable setting The historic house surrounded by native trees and vegetation is a beautiful background for your photos Renting the Sample-McDougald House can give you and your guests exclusive use of the house and grounds throughout your affair (subject to use guidelines) Visit wwwSampleMcDougaldHousecom to learn more about the house or call 954 691-5686 or 954 214-4759 for more details

Memories yoursquoll treasure at the Sample-McDougald House

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AROUND TOWN

a look back charlottes web

your city(the Sample family)

THANKS TO DAN HOBBY AND THE POMPANO BEACH HISTORICAL SOCIETY FOR THE PHOTO AND INFORMATION ABOUT OUR CITYS RICH AND VARIED HISTORY TO LEARN MORE ABOUT OUR CITYS FASCINATING PAST VISIT POMPANOHISTORYCOM

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Members of the Sample family gather together ca 1920 Albert Neal Sample who had the house now known as the Sample-McDougald House constructed in 1916 is standing in the second row third from the viewers right The man kneeling in the first row is Neals younger brother John who prior to 1910 was the first member of the Sample family to settle in the Pompano area The house that Neal Sample built turns 100 this year

The non-profit Sample-McDougald House Preservation Society has a number of activities and events planned to commemorate the historic houses 100th birthday For information visit SampleMcDougaldHousecom or call 754-307-5446

Pompano Today May 2016 25

What the hell do I know about wedded bliss I am a long-term and certified member of the ldquohappily single never been marriedrdquo club Relationships take work people My comfort level of commitment is agreeing to feed walk and nurture the fluffy poodle I brought home from the shelter 5 years ago Beyond thathellipIrsquom selfish And letrsquos face it no onersquos ever gotten into an argument with a dog over a miscommunication Theyrsquore perfect in that respect

But weddings are wonderful events Friends and family gathering together for a festive happy occasion weddings almost always guarantee a good time The happy couple gazing into each otherrsquos eyes while reciting wedding vows Uncle Jim having a few too many at the open bar and trying out his salsa moves on the dance floor Ah the memories we can reminisce about for years to come And the expectation is that the new union will last forever

But how does that same couple reach their 50th year wedding anniversary 50 years of wedded bliss now thatrsquos an accomplishment Since I have already mentioned that I am not exactly a go-to advisor on the subject I did what I always do Letrsquos see what the internet says It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was ldquodonrsquot be selfish and always put your partner firstrdquo Hmmm

ldquoMake it quickrdquo This tip was found when referencing the science of being happily married While it doesnrsquot reference the actual marriage itself in summary I interpreted it to read if someone annoys you now they will most inevitably annoy you much more in the future So maybe not marrying material to begin with Interestingly enough I have this one covered with my three date rule What is the three date rule you ask If there is nothing you find annoying about an individual within the first three dateshellipgreen light means go there may be a future In my case this is a bit of a challenge to achieve

And then Oprahrsquos people had to weigh in on the subject I feel compelled to share a link to a great joke I found on Oprahcom during the search It involves a couple celebrating their 50th anniversary and a mule but no worries Itrsquos a completely clean joke You can see the full joke here oprahcomrelationshipsHappy-Marriage-Tips-Love-Advice

your city charlottes web

Wedded bliss the flip side

BY CHARLOTTE SUNDQUIST

It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was

dont be selfish and always put your partner first Hmmm

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Are you back Good Am I wrong in assuming this has some ties to the three date rule

I donrsquot know I certainly havenrsquot got all the answers But Irsquove just confirmed that single is a perfectly acceptable status for me And you single people that are tired of hearing ldquoWhen are you going to settle down and get marriedrdquo Donrsquot cavehellipdo what makes you happy There is not one version of the perfect relationship ideal If itrsquos a good fit for you so be it Wersquore all different after all

And to all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work Time to go walk the dog

To all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work

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Blissful BusinessCan we be blissful in life Yes Can we be blissfully in love Yes Can we be blissful in business That depends on what your definition of a ldquoblissfulrdquo business is Is it working Monday through Thursday Is it dress down days Is it bringing in a new client or two each month Your bliss depends on what your definition is and what that looks like for your business model Letrsquos talk about a few ways you can be ldquoblissfulrdquo in business

Your Company Culture

What is the tone or perception of your company Are you rigid conservative and safe Or are you creative thought provoking and innovative You have the opportunity to transform your company culture a culture that attracts customers employees and partners Think about Google they have created a co-working collaborative happy environment at work for their employees Google has determined that their definition of ldquoblissfulrdquo is casual dress napping pods libraries and bring your dog to work days Think about what your culture is and try to create an atmosphere that people can enjoy

Better Matters

How can you perform tasks and projects ldquobetterrdquo to make it more manageable for your staff As leaders when we put our employees first the rewards are priceless What are you implementing internally to ldquobetterrdquo your employees to meet their sales goals client leads or individual quotas If you raise your standards the company will follow Being better should be the norm Better business creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo business

The Next Level

What is your definition of the reaching the next level Will reaching that level create a ldquoblissfulrdquo business Maybe yes or maybe no The next level for my business would be to add more employees and another office which would create bliss for me I would be free to do more networking and outside activities Determine and define what the ldquonext levelrdquo is for your company and see if it makes sense and creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo work environment for everyone involved

Itrsquos important to take a step back every now and then to remember why being an entrepreneur makes you happy

Determine your personal definition of a blissful business

BY TEANA MCDONALD

26 Pompano Today May 2016

working it special feature

your business special feature

Pompano Today May 2016 27

Kim Briesemeister greets us at the entrance to RMArsquos new digs a suite of comfortable welcoming offices right on Atlantic Boulevard As usual she is polished professional and enthusiastic about all of the great things happening in our city

ldquoWhat RMA brings is the technical expertise the realities of how to achieve the market visionhellipthe end result is creating a quality place that people want to live in and are proud to call home a place where businesses want to be and the city gets a certain great viberdquo Kim notes You can see this ldquoviberdquo in her eyes ndash and you know that Kim can see what the future looks like here in Pompano Beach and at that moment in time we can see it with her

What is ldquoitrdquo exactly ldquoItrdquo is what great places are made of Art Culture Safety Walkability Excitement The vision that Kim and her partner Chris Brown as well as all of the bright creative energetic staff we see is breathtaking And that feeling of hometown comfort that we all get when we return here whether after a trip to the next town over or a trip around the world is the wellspring from which all of the plans for our future originate Itrsquos still Pompano Beach but itrsquos far far better

As the publishers of this magazine for the past six years we have firsthand knowledge of all of the great people who live here and

the great things that attract more like-minded residents and visitors An airport A harbor The Intracoastal The lighthouse Thriving businesses A small-town feeling that is ever harder to maintain

Without a cohesive vision itrsquos likely that some if not all of these could be lost To paraphrase Benjamin Franklin ldquoFailing to plan is planning to failrdquo and there is no shortage of planning for this bright future going on at RMA

Speaking of that planning at that point Kim turns our attention to the consideration of an ldquoinnovation districtrdquo and this is where her enthusiasm is if possible even more palpable We are treated to a breathtaking visual tour of what is possible in such a district and oh my We can hardly contain ourselves What we ask is RMArsquos role in this endeavor ldquoWe are able to help the community go through the redevelopment processrdquo Kim responds adding that ldquo[the goal is that] in the end everyone says lsquoThis is the most amazing place to live This is where I want to bersquordquo

Yes Thatrsquos what we all want A place that wersquore even more proud to call home Proud of the looks on the faces of others when we tell them ldquoYes I live in Pompano Beachrdquo proud that we raised our children in a place where after theyrsquore grown they choose to return and put down roots of their own right here where they belong This is the place that we will create that will provide a solid foundation on which our city will continue to build on and thrive

As we prepare to depart earnest young professionals come bounding enthusiastically through the door (ok they werenrsquot really bounding ndash they are professionals ndash but they sure gave the impression of bounding)

ldquoAhhhrdquo we think to ourselves imagining an exchange with them ldquoDo you guys happen to live in Pompano Beach No Thatrsquos too badrdquo we say unable to help feeling just a tad smug ldquoItrsquos a great place to live work and playrdquo

Falling in love with the future of Pompano Beach

For the past 50 years the landscape of innovation has been dominated by places like Silicon Valleymdashsuburban corridors of spatially isolated corporate campuses accessible only by car with little emphasis on the quality of life or on integrating work housing and recreation

A new complementary urban model is now emerging giving rise to what we and others are calling ldquoinnovation districtsrdquo These districts by our definition are geographic areas where leading-edge anchor institutions and companies cluster and connect with start-ups business incubators and accelerators1 They are also physically compact transit-accessible and technically-wired and offer mixed-use housing office and retail

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts

LOOKING AHEAD TO AN EVEN BRIGHTER FUTUREFrom top left

bull Creating a Downtown Innovation District means incorporating all of the pieces of a successful plan

bull a sterling example of one such district

bull synergy in actionbull specific steps

to harness our unique strengths

bull targeted industriesbull another sterling

example this time of a complete street

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts What They Are

Economic Assets

Networking Assets

Physical Assets

InnovationEcosystemA synergistic relationship between people firms and place that facilitates idea generation and acceleratescommercialization

Target Industries

International Trade and Logistics

Marine Industry

Life Sciences and Biotechnology

Creative Design

Digital Media and Technology

Class A Office

Tourism

Advanced Materials and High-Tech Manufacturing

Redevelopment of Commercial and Residential

Alternatives Energy and Renewable Resources

AviationAerospace

Global Business Services

Global Media and Production

Headquarters and Management Operations

Human Resources and Higher Education

How to harness our ldquoDowntown Innovation Districtrdquo

1 Build a collaborative leadership network

2 Set a vision for growth to leverage our unique strengths

distinct economic clusters leading local and regional institutions and companies physical location and design advantages and other cultural attributes

3 Pursue talent and technology

4 Promote inclusive growthEquip workers with the skills they need to participate in the innovation economy or other secondary and tertiary jobs generated by innovative growth

5 Enhance access to capital

Cultural ArtsTourism

Industrial

Multi Purpose

DowntownInnovation

District

Target Industries

Education

Housing

Downtown Innovation

District

28 Pompano Today May 2016

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Pompano Today May 2016 29

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30 Pompano Today May 2016

VROOM

all things automotiveyour rideThis monthrsquos theme is wedded bliss I started checking on an exact meaning for this title This is what was written in the English Dictionary ldquothe happiness of being marriedrdquo As I reflect back and think about life altogether whether marriage engagement purchase of a product or dealing with family and friendshellip

There are many factors in life that can afford you wedded bliss or the joy serenity and comfort of having the right lover husband or wife the right house or car the right job or titlehellip Now letrsquos admit to the fact that we all go though the ups and downs and have to face many situationshellip This is part of being human

Just imagine not having a significant other to share the joy or sadness of an event or a shoulder to cry onhellip Just imagine not having a cell phone to communicate with your loved ones or a car to get you from point A to point B

Just like a marriage you start by meeting a prospective mate lover or significant other You then starting dating and checking on the possibility of a good fit

If that is the case you start focusing on the possibility of a future together and if the positive traits in that individual outweigh the negative and if you canrsquot imagine living without himher then the marriage is to be considered

The same thing goes for the perfect car for you You have specific unique preferences based on your personality and the purpose of the car purchase

Achieving wedded bliss with your vehicle choice

The right car that will suit your needs for years to come exists It just takes a little research planning budgeting and common sense We all dream of the luxury car that we many not be able to afford but till the time comes to make our dream car a reality we will need to settle for what is achievable practical fits our need and makes us proud of the choice we made Here are some practical questions to answer would you like to get a sporty car a regular 4 door sedan a van an SUV or a truck

Would you like a practical car you may drive in city highway or would you like to go off-roading on the weekends Would you need this vehicle to tow your boat to tow your camping trip supplies or would you like to have an elegant car to show off to your friends Now we have to consider the budget and whether we want to purchase a domestic or foreign vehicle the maintenance cost the fuel efficiency and the overall look and feel of the car

We have noticed that cars reflect their ownerrsquos personality so if you are someone who is sporty adventurous have a young spirit and are financially secure then a Bugatti Veyron Porsche 911 Ford Mustang McClaren MP4- 12C Lamborghini Egoista Limited edition Mercedes AMG SL SLK Roadster or E Class Cabriolet Convertible or the Chevy Camaro come to mind Pictured on page 31 is the 2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue by the way

If you are someone who is practical enjoy trips to the mountains or the beach work full time and look for a dependable and comfortable car then check out the Cadillac CTS (pictured above) XTS or DTS Super Subaru Impreza Lexus CT 200h Sport IS 250 or ES 350 Mercedes CS or E Class Chevy Equinox Chevy Tahoe and Toyota Prius V

Cadillac CTS photo copy General Motors

Pompano Today May 2016 31

If you are the family manwoman and are seeking safety comfortable seating and an affordable vehicle with low maintenance we noticed that most of the inquiries are SUV or Van related such as the Mercedes GLA SUB GLE SUV or GLS SUV Audi Q5 Audi Allroad Toyota Sienna Ford Fex Ford Transit Connect Cadillac Escalade Cadillac SRX and letrsquos not forget the Chevy Suburban

Now if you are the hunter or you enjoy off roading every now and then the vehicles we seesell and repair most are the Ford F150 Ford Super Duty Mercedes G Class Toyota TacomaTundra Range Rover Jeep Wrangler and the Chevy Silverado

What about the green energy conscious We have had inquiries about the Toyota Prius and the Rav 4 Hybrid Audi A3 E-tron Cadillac ELR or the Chevy Spark EV Now if you are in the market for a nice ride then you need to test drive the Cadillac CT6 Plug-in Hybrid or the BMW I8 and tell me if you enjoyed the drive

Yes even car owners and their vehicles can talk about wedded bliss So if you have the

perfect car that fits your image your lifestyle your personality then congratulations because you are lucky to get the perfect car In the meantime if you are looking for a vehicle and have questions or concerns feel free to contact us and we will be glad to assist you BY JAY GHANEM

2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue copy The Ford Motor Company 2016 All Rights Reserved

HOLLYWOOD CORNER

news from the west coast

32 Pompano Today May 2016

stars in your eyesBenjamin A Onyango on keeping the faith

and making people happyWhen did you know without any doubt that you wanted to act

Ive always acted in church youth plays that I wrote myself when I was a teenager in Nairobi Kenya In 1987 I came to the United States and while attending California State University Stanislaus in Turlock California formed a traditional dance group called Upendo Singers and Cultural Dancers We wrote plays and songs and performed them in cultural festivals universities and churches After graduating in 1992 I knew I wanted to act so I struck the tent and moved to Hollywood where I joined a funk rock band called PFO and also acted as a background performer in TV and feature films What inspires you to act

I am naturally a happy person and I love it when people are happy So I cant help it but crack jokes and poke fun at myself to make people around me laugh I am inspired by other people Their presence makes me want to do stuff talk dance sing shout etc When did you realize you had reached your goals as an actor

I do not think I have reached my goal as an actor yet To me acting is an evolving thing You get to a certain level and then you strive to get better than the level you currently are on Acting has many facets and therefore many challenges There is no one way to approach acting I therefore believe that I am still reaching for that goal and I must admit that the experience indeed is the best teacher because you indeed get better at it the more you keep doing it

What was your favorite role to date and why

My favorite role to date is the movie I am currently filming called Beautifully Broken The reason its my first role as a lead actor in a feature film and best of all I am playing the role of a real person who survived the Rwanda genocide that the story is about I played a lead role before in a short film called Kwame also based on a true story and was voted best actor at the 2009 Mexico International Film Festival Beautifully Broken is a story that connects very strongly with the human spirit I can almost guarantee that there will not be a

single dry eye in the theater when its screened Its a beautifully written story of hardship resilience survival and hope

What do you enjoy most about your career

What I enjoy most about my career is the ability to travel and see different people in different parts of the world I am a people person and nothing

makes me happier than meeting and making new friends

Can we expect a book from you

Thats funny you mentioned that I write lots of movie scripts and TV show scripts and I have always thought of writing a book So on my down days on the set of Beautifully Broken I started a book Ive been toying with in my head for a while The title of the book is God Moves When We Stop Helping Him Its more of a booklet than a book Its a book about encouragement

What is the best way for your fans to know what yoursquore working on FacebookTwitter Do you post for your own sites or do you have your assistants do the posts

I hope I do have fans LOL They can find out about what I am doing or working on my Facebook page facebookcomEMEBAND or Facebook fan page facebookcomBenjiBendrix Twitter twittercombochieng Instagram instagramcombenjibendrix and imdb imdbcomnamenm1335173ref_=nv_sr I also have a website benjibendrixcom that I use

Tell us something new something bold that yoursquove never told any other magazinehellipnews tip )

Recently I was fortunate to have my TV webseries Dysfunctionally Organized pitched to a major network and they agreed to have us do a spin-off of the show So we have started the writing process Its a major achievement for my team and myself since we have been working on the show for a long time Its not easy to get an audience with a content procurement person on a major network so we feel very fortunate I cant mention the network because of confidentiality reasons

Photo of Benjamin Ochieng aka Benji Bendrix (friend of Jimi Hendrix) copy Flygirl PhotographyLearn more about Benjamin atproimdbcomnamenm1335173afro-mericarecordscommindtricksmoviecom

BY MISTY SCHWARTZ

word scrambleTHE LAST WORD

a workout for your mind

Wedded bliss All of the words in this months Scramble are related to marriage and weddings Good luck Look for the answers online beginning May 15 at pompanotodaycom

Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answerodeutx gnir oeemcryn lsuipnatgnwo iaoynmtmr rogom slrofweermdiadbis eusenv shrue ovwsnwiddge rrdemia erdib psoesuerdbhteot rceepnoit errceat eiervsc

James Stafford PhotographyfacebookcomJamesStaffordPhotography

jamesstaffordname(561) 201-1640

Pompano Today May 2016 19

Benjamins offers painless alterations tailoring and- yes - tuxedo rentals for the big day

and Wonderland started following each other on Instagram Wersquod like each otherrsquos photos and make a comment here and there Then I went to a networking event and one of their employees saw my name tag and grabbed me and said lsquoOh my God yoursquore with Wonderland Bridal And I looked at her nametag and said ldquoOh my God yoursquore with Benjaminrsquosrsquo And we had just recently opened our shop and we got to talking and had a meeting and just picked up from there and [Benjaminrsquos staff have] been our seamstresses since then over a year ago Victoria is an incredible seamstressrdquo

Speaking of Victoria thats her by the way in the photo at left along with Alycin and Patti and the beautiful bride who also graces our cover Learn more about Victoria and Benjamins in Part 3 below

Wonderland Bridal Couture3400 NW 62nd AveMargate FL 33063

954) 973-8695wonderlandbridalcomhomehtml

Benjamins Fine Alterations amp Tailoring2609 East Atlantic BoulevardPompano Beach FL33062

954-943-5878benjaminsalterationscom

Wedded Bliss Part 3Alert readers will recognize Benjamins Fine Alterations and Tailoring from other pages of this publication Its likely however that unless youre already patronized Benjamins (and if you havent well whyever not) you wont recognize Victoria pictured below along with the amazing team of tailors and seamstresses in this beautifully decorated shop As humble as she is talented Victoria and the team are in a word magicians

Really We may be biased having had an unfortunate episode involving a seam ripper many years ago in junior high sewing class but we all have our unique talents Every member of the staff at Benjamins is an

expert in making your clothes look their very best And of course when your clothes look their best well so do you

So drop off those pants youve been meaning to hem that jacket that needs a mite of a tuck that gorgeous blouse with the sleeves that are just a little too long - you wont regret it

And if you are one of the rare individuals whose clothes all fit perfectly Benjamins rents mens formal wear too (see the coupon on page 9)

Why go anywhere else

Photos this and facing page Paul McDermott Photography

INSTRUCTIONS

bull Mix everything adding flour until the mix is firm but not sticky (not too dry)

bull Roll the dough into small balls (about an inch across)bull Place on ungreased cookie sheet and flatten very slightlybull Bake at 350 degrees for 20-25 minutesbull While still warm sift the powdered sugar onto the cookies

INGREDIENTS

bull 1 pound sweet butter softenedbull 6 tablespoons powdered sugar (reserve for after baking)bull Flour to appropriate texturebull Vanilla to taste

Photo copy FomaA Adobe Stock

YUM

chef at home jeff eatsyour diningIn honor of this months theme allow us a bit of poetic license (which sounds so much nicer than bait and switch) Growing up in a Greek household everyone looked forward to these kourabiedes (also known as kourambiethes as well as variety of other spellings Greeks can agree on little spelling included) It was not until well after we left home that we realized how many people identified these as Mexican Wedding cookies And while every Greek will swear that the Greeks invented these there are so many near-identical versions of this cookie around the world that its difficult to tell where they originated

The recipe below is from my beloved late grandmother or Yiayia as we say in Greek It is predictably vague but these are easy to get right Enjoy

Mexican Wedding Cookies

20 Pompano Today May 2016

Pompano Today May 2016 21

your dining jeff eats

Le VinoisSimply Luscious

BY JEFF EATS

NICKrsquoS 50rsquoS DINER 1900 OKEECHOBEE BOULEVARD WEST PALM BEACH FLORIDA 33409 (561) 471-3155

A LITTLE ABOUT JEFF ldquoMy name is Jeff I was born (1949) and bred in Brooklyn New York Since 1991 I have lived full-time in South Florida and have eaten in so many restaurants (down here) that I now consider myself to be a FOOD EXPERT To give you some idea as to how many South Florida restaurants Irsquove been to as of December 31 2014 441 Italian joints alone have had the pleasure of ringing up my American Express card

Just so you know I donrsquot go for the fancy sit-down joints that want you to wear pants and a jacket but rather places where a pair of shorts an old tee shirt and a pair of sneakers is considered formal-wear I donrsquot know one sauce from another I also donrsquot know or really care how ldquodishesrdquo are prepared What I do know is when something tastes delicious and I canrsquot get enough of itrdquo To read more of Jeff rsquos picks visit jeffeatscom

Got an absolutely terrific French bakery for you guys Le Vinois Bakery in Fort Lauderdale The joint has the full-boat of breakfast items breads pastries cakes soups quiches salads sandwiches cookies coffees Order at the counter- handful of tables if you want to eat there

Jeff Eats and Mrs Jeff Eats recently did an eat-in lunchand takeout order and like I said a few seconds ago Le Vinoisrsquo stuff is absolute dynamite

Now letrsquos be adults here and let bygones be bygones- you do remember Freedom Fries sure you do With that in mind Jeff Eats absolutely loved Le Vinois Bakery and Irsquom kinda thinking that you should definitely give it a shot

Clockwise from top left copy Friedberg Adobe Stock copy Chuck Place Adobe Stock copy gkrphoto Adobe Stock copy geshas Adobe Stock

Clockwise from top Enjoy croissants a slice of lemon tart great sandwiches and delicious quiche among the many other delights at Le Vinois

Le Vinois Bakery

6322 N Powerline RoadFt Lauderdale Florida 33309

Hours of operationMonday to Friday7am to 4pm

Phone 954 771 9788

Email modinafrancisyahoocom

levinoisbakerycom

22 Pompano Today May 2016

Whether yoursquore planning a close intimate gathering or a large affair the Sample-McDougald House at Centennial Park (450 NE 10th Street Pompano Beach) sets the scene for memories that will last a lifetime The recently completed $25 million restoration of the house and grounds provides you and your guests with a memorable setting The historic house surrounded by native trees and vegetation is a beautiful background for your photos Renting the Sample-McDougald House can give you and your guests exclusive use of the house and grounds throughout your affair (subject to use guidelines) Visit wwwSampleMcDougaldHousecom to learn more about the house or call 954 691-5686 or 954 214-4759 for more details

Memories yoursquoll treasure at the Sample-McDougald House

Sitting amidst four beautiful acres the Sample-McDougald House offers one of the few

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24 Pompano Today May 2016

AROUND TOWN

a look back charlottes web

your city(the Sample family)

THANKS TO DAN HOBBY AND THE POMPANO BEACH HISTORICAL SOCIETY FOR THE PHOTO AND INFORMATION ABOUT OUR CITYS RICH AND VARIED HISTORY TO LEARN MORE ABOUT OUR CITYS FASCINATING PAST VISIT POMPANOHISTORYCOM

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Members of the Sample family gather together ca 1920 Albert Neal Sample who had the house now known as the Sample-McDougald House constructed in 1916 is standing in the second row third from the viewers right The man kneeling in the first row is Neals younger brother John who prior to 1910 was the first member of the Sample family to settle in the Pompano area The house that Neal Sample built turns 100 this year

The non-profit Sample-McDougald House Preservation Society has a number of activities and events planned to commemorate the historic houses 100th birthday For information visit SampleMcDougaldHousecom or call 754-307-5446

Pompano Today May 2016 25

What the hell do I know about wedded bliss I am a long-term and certified member of the ldquohappily single never been marriedrdquo club Relationships take work people My comfort level of commitment is agreeing to feed walk and nurture the fluffy poodle I brought home from the shelter 5 years ago Beyond thathellipIrsquom selfish And letrsquos face it no onersquos ever gotten into an argument with a dog over a miscommunication Theyrsquore perfect in that respect

But weddings are wonderful events Friends and family gathering together for a festive happy occasion weddings almost always guarantee a good time The happy couple gazing into each otherrsquos eyes while reciting wedding vows Uncle Jim having a few too many at the open bar and trying out his salsa moves on the dance floor Ah the memories we can reminisce about for years to come And the expectation is that the new union will last forever

But how does that same couple reach their 50th year wedding anniversary 50 years of wedded bliss now thatrsquos an accomplishment Since I have already mentioned that I am not exactly a go-to advisor on the subject I did what I always do Letrsquos see what the internet says It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was ldquodonrsquot be selfish and always put your partner firstrdquo Hmmm

ldquoMake it quickrdquo This tip was found when referencing the science of being happily married While it doesnrsquot reference the actual marriage itself in summary I interpreted it to read if someone annoys you now they will most inevitably annoy you much more in the future So maybe not marrying material to begin with Interestingly enough I have this one covered with my three date rule What is the three date rule you ask If there is nothing you find annoying about an individual within the first three dateshellipgreen light means go there may be a future In my case this is a bit of a challenge to achieve

And then Oprahrsquos people had to weigh in on the subject I feel compelled to share a link to a great joke I found on Oprahcom during the search It involves a couple celebrating their 50th anniversary and a mule but no worries Itrsquos a completely clean joke You can see the full joke here oprahcomrelationshipsHappy-Marriage-Tips-Love-Advice

your city charlottes web

Wedded bliss the flip side

BY CHARLOTTE SUNDQUIST

It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was

dont be selfish and always put your partner first Hmmm

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Are you back Good Am I wrong in assuming this has some ties to the three date rule

I donrsquot know I certainly havenrsquot got all the answers But Irsquove just confirmed that single is a perfectly acceptable status for me And you single people that are tired of hearing ldquoWhen are you going to settle down and get marriedrdquo Donrsquot cavehellipdo what makes you happy There is not one version of the perfect relationship ideal If itrsquos a good fit for you so be it Wersquore all different after all

And to all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work Time to go walk the dog

To all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work

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Blissful BusinessCan we be blissful in life Yes Can we be blissfully in love Yes Can we be blissful in business That depends on what your definition of a ldquoblissfulrdquo business is Is it working Monday through Thursday Is it dress down days Is it bringing in a new client or two each month Your bliss depends on what your definition is and what that looks like for your business model Letrsquos talk about a few ways you can be ldquoblissfulrdquo in business

Your Company Culture

What is the tone or perception of your company Are you rigid conservative and safe Or are you creative thought provoking and innovative You have the opportunity to transform your company culture a culture that attracts customers employees and partners Think about Google they have created a co-working collaborative happy environment at work for their employees Google has determined that their definition of ldquoblissfulrdquo is casual dress napping pods libraries and bring your dog to work days Think about what your culture is and try to create an atmosphere that people can enjoy

Better Matters

How can you perform tasks and projects ldquobetterrdquo to make it more manageable for your staff As leaders when we put our employees first the rewards are priceless What are you implementing internally to ldquobetterrdquo your employees to meet their sales goals client leads or individual quotas If you raise your standards the company will follow Being better should be the norm Better business creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo business

The Next Level

What is your definition of the reaching the next level Will reaching that level create a ldquoblissfulrdquo business Maybe yes or maybe no The next level for my business would be to add more employees and another office which would create bliss for me I would be free to do more networking and outside activities Determine and define what the ldquonext levelrdquo is for your company and see if it makes sense and creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo work environment for everyone involved

Itrsquos important to take a step back every now and then to remember why being an entrepreneur makes you happy

Determine your personal definition of a blissful business

BY TEANA MCDONALD

26 Pompano Today May 2016

working it special feature

your business special feature

Pompano Today May 2016 27

Kim Briesemeister greets us at the entrance to RMArsquos new digs a suite of comfortable welcoming offices right on Atlantic Boulevard As usual she is polished professional and enthusiastic about all of the great things happening in our city

ldquoWhat RMA brings is the technical expertise the realities of how to achieve the market visionhellipthe end result is creating a quality place that people want to live in and are proud to call home a place where businesses want to be and the city gets a certain great viberdquo Kim notes You can see this ldquoviberdquo in her eyes ndash and you know that Kim can see what the future looks like here in Pompano Beach and at that moment in time we can see it with her

What is ldquoitrdquo exactly ldquoItrdquo is what great places are made of Art Culture Safety Walkability Excitement The vision that Kim and her partner Chris Brown as well as all of the bright creative energetic staff we see is breathtaking And that feeling of hometown comfort that we all get when we return here whether after a trip to the next town over or a trip around the world is the wellspring from which all of the plans for our future originate Itrsquos still Pompano Beach but itrsquos far far better

As the publishers of this magazine for the past six years we have firsthand knowledge of all of the great people who live here and

the great things that attract more like-minded residents and visitors An airport A harbor The Intracoastal The lighthouse Thriving businesses A small-town feeling that is ever harder to maintain

Without a cohesive vision itrsquos likely that some if not all of these could be lost To paraphrase Benjamin Franklin ldquoFailing to plan is planning to failrdquo and there is no shortage of planning for this bright future going on at RMA

Speaking of that planning at that point Kim turns our attention to the consideration of an ldquoinnovation districtrdquo and this is where her enthusiasm is if possible even more palpable We are treated to a breathtaking visual tour of what is possible in such a district and oh my We can hardly contain ourselves What we ask is RMArsquos role in this endeavor ldquoWe are able to help the community go through the redevelopment processrdquo Kim responds adding that ldquo[the goal is that] in the end everyone says lsquoThis is the most amazing place to live This is where I want to bersquordquo

Yes Thatrsquos what we all want A place that wersquore even more proud to call home Proud of the looks on the faces of others when we tell them ldquoYes I live in Pompano Beachrdquo proud that we raised our children in a place where after theyrsquore grown they choose to return and put down roots of their own right here where they belong This is the place that we will create that will provide a solid foundation on which our city will continue to build on and thrive

As we prepare to depart earnest young professionals come bounding enthusiastically through the door (ok they werenrsquot really bounding ndash they are professionals ndash but they sure gave the impression of bounding)

ldquoAhhhrdquo we think to ourselves imagining an exchange with them ldquoDo you guys happen to live in Pompano Beach No Thatrsquos too badrdquo we say unable to help feeling just a tad smug ldquoItrsquos a great place to live work and playrdquo

Falling in love with the future of Pompano Beach

For the past 50 years the landscape of innovation has been dominated by places like Silicon Valleymdashsuburban corridors of spatially isolated corporate campuses accessible only by car with little emphasis on the quality of life or on integrating work housing and recreation

A new complementary urban model is now emerging giving rise to what we and others are calling ldquoinnovation districtsrdquo These districts by our definition are geographic areas where leading-edge anchor institutions and companies cluster and connect with start-ups business incubators and accelerators1 They are also physically compact transit-accessible and technically-wired and offer mixed-use housing office and retail

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts

LOOKING AHEAD TO AN EVEN BRIGHTER FUTUREFrom top left

bull Creating a Downtown Innovation District means incorporating all of the pieces of a successful plan

bull a sterling example of one such district

bull synergy in actionbull specific steps

to harness our unique strengths

bull targeted industriesbull another sterling

example this time of a complete street

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts What They Are

Economic Assets

Networking Assets

Physical Assets

InnovationEcosystemA synergistic relationship between people firms and place that facilitates idea generation and acceleratescommercialization

Target Industries

International Trade and Logistics

Marine Industry

Life Sciences and Biotechnology

Creative Design

Digital Media and Technology

Class A Office

Tourism

Advanced Materials and High-Tech Manufacturing

Redevelopment of Commercial and Residential

Alternatives Energy and Renewable Resources

AviationAerospace

Global Business Services

Global Media and Production

Headquarters and Management Operations

Human Resources and Higher Education

How to harness our ldquoDowntown Innovation Districtrdquo

1 Build a collaborative leadership network

2 Set a vision for growth to leverage our unique strengths

distinct economic clusters leading local and regional institutions and companies physical location and design advantages and other cultural attributes

3 Pursue talent and technology

4 Promote inclusive growthEquip workers with the skills they need to participate in the innovation economy or other secondary and tertiary jobs generated by innovative growth

5 Enhance access to capital

Cultural ArtsTourism

Industrial

Multi Purpose

DowntownInnovation

District

Target Industries

Education

Housing

Downtown Innovation

District

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30 Pompano Today May 2016

VROOM

all things automotiveyour rideThis monthrsquos theme is wedded bliss I started checking on an exact meaning for this title This is what was written in the English Dictionary ldquothe happiness of being marriedrdquo As I reflect back and think about life altogether whether marriage engagement purchase of a product or dealing with family and friendshellip

There are many factors in life that can afford you wedded bliss or the joy serenity and comfort of having the right lover husband or wife the right house or car the right job or titlehellip Now letrsquos admit to the fact that we all go though the ups and downs and have to face many situationshellip This is part of being human

Just imagine not having a significant other to share the joy or sadness of an event or a shoulder to cry onhellip Just imagine not having a cell phone to communicate with your loved ones or a car to get you from point A to point B

Just like a marriage you start by meeting a prospective mate lover or significant other You then starting dating and checking on the possibility of a good fit

If that is the case you start focusing on the possibility of a future together and if the positive traits in that individual outweigh the negative and if you canrsquot imagine living without himher then the marriage is to be considered

The same thing goes for the perfect car for you You have specific unique preferences based on your personality and the purpose of the car purchase

Achieving wedded bliss with your vehicle choice

The right car that will suit your needs for years to come exists It just takes a little research planning budgeting and common sense We all dream of the luxury car that we many not be able to afford but till the time comes to make our dream car a reality we will need to settle for what is achievable practical fits our need and makes us proud of the choice we made Here are some practical questions to answer would you like to get a sporty car a regular 4 door sedan a van an SUV or a truck

Would you like a practical car you may drive in city highway or would you like to go off-roading on the weekends Would you need this vehicle to tow your boat to tow your camping trip supplies or would you like to have an elegant car to show off to your friends Now we have to consider the budget and whether we want to purchase a domestic or foreign vehicle the maintenance cost the fuel efficiency and the overall look and feel of the car

We have noticed that cars reflect their ownerrsquos personality so if you are someone who is sporty adventurous have a young spirit and are financially secure then a Bugatti Veyron Porsche 911 Ford Mustang McClaren MP4- 12C Lamborghini Egoista Limited edition Mercedes AMG SL SLK Roadster or E Class Cabriolet Convertible or the Chevy Camaro come to mind Pictured on page 31 is the 2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue by the way

If you are someone who is practical enjoy trips to the mountains or the beach work full time and look for a dependable and comfortable car then check out the Cadillac CTS (pictured above) XTS or DTS Super Subaru Impreza Lexus CT 200h Sport IS 250 or ES 350 Mercedes CS or E Class Chevy Equinox Chevy Tahoe and Toyota Prius V

Cadillac CTS photo copy General Motors

Pompano Today May 2016 31

If you are the family manwoman and are seeking safety comfortable seating and an affordable vehicle with low maintenance we noticed that most of the inquiries are SUV or Van related such as the Mercedes GLA SUB GLE SUV or GLS SUV Audi Q5 Audi Allroad Toyota Sienna Ford Fex Ford Transit Connect Cadillac Escalade Cadillac SRX and letrsquos not forget the Chevy Suburban

Now if you are the hunter or you enjoy off roading every now and then the vehicles we seesell and repair most are the Ford F150 Ford Super Duty Mercedes G Class Toyota TacomaTundra Range Rover Jeep Wrangler and the Chevy Silverado

What about the green energy conscious We have had inquiries about the Toyota Prius and the Rav 4 Hybrid Audi A3 E-tron Cadillac ELR or the Chevy Spark EV Now if you are in the market for a nice ride then you need to test drive the Cadillac CT6 Plug-in Hybrid or the BMW I8 and tell me if you enjoyed the drive

Yes even car owners and their vehicles can talk about wedded bliss So if you have the

perfect car that fits your image your lifestyle your personality then congratulations because you are lucky to get the perfect car In the meantime if you are looking for a vehicle and have questions or concerns feel free to contact us and we will be glad to assist you BY JAY GHANEM

2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue copy The Ford Motor Company 2016 All Rights Reserved

HOLLYWOOD CORNER

news from the west coast

32 Pompano Today May 2016

stars in your eyesBenjamin A Onyango on keeping the faith

and making people happyWhen did you know without any doubt that you wanted to act

Ive always acted in church youth plays that I wrote myself when I was a teenager in Nairobi Kenya In 1987 I came to the United States and while attending California State University Stanislaus in Turlock California formed a traditional dance group called Upendo Singers and Cultural Dancers We wrote plays and songs and performed them in cultural festivals universities and churches After graduating in 1992 I knew I wanted to act so I struck the tent and moved to Hollywood where I joined a funk rock band called PFO and also acted as a background performer in TV and feature films What inspires you to act

I am naturally a happy person and I love it when people are happy So I cant help it but crack jokes and poke fun at myself to make people around me laugh I am inspired by other people Their presence makes me want to do stuff talk dance sing shout etc When did you realize you had reached your goals as an actor

I do not think I have reached my goal as an actor yet To me acting is an evolving thing You get to a certain level and then you strive to get better than the level you currently are on Acting has many facets and therefore many challenges There is no one way to approach acting I therefore believe that I am still reaching for that goal and I must admit that the experience indeed is the best teacher because you indeed get better at it the more you keep doing it

What was your favorite role to date and why

My favorite role to date is the movie I am currently filming called Beautifully Broken The reason its my first role as a lead actor in a feature film and best of all I am playing the role of a real person who survived the Rwanda genocide that the story is about I played a lead role before in a short film called Kwame also based on a true story and was voted best actor at the 2009 Mexico International Film Festival Beautifully Broken is a story that connects very strongly with the human spirit I can almost guarantee that there will not be a

single dry eye in the theater when its screened Its a beautifully written story of hardship resilience survival and hope

What do you enjoy most about your career

What I enjoy most about my career is the ability to travel and see different people in different parts of the world I am a people person and nothing

makes me happier than meeting and making new friends

Can we expect a book from you

Thats funny you mentioned that I write lots of movie scripts and TV show scripts and I have always thought of writing a book So on my down days on the set of Beautifully Broken I started a book Ive been toying with in my head for a while The title of the book is God Moves When We Stop Helping Him Its more of a booklet than a book Its a book about encouragement

What is the best way for your fans to know what yoursquore working on FacebookTwitter Do you post for your own sites or do you have your assistants do the posts

I hope I do have fans LOL They can find out about what I am doing or working on my Facebook page facebookcomEMEBAND or Facebook fan page facebookcomBenjiBendrix Twitter twittercombochieng Instagram instagramcombenjibendrix and imdb imdbcomnamenm1335173ref_=nv_sr I also have a website benjibendrixcom that I use

Tell us something new something bold that yoursquove never told any other magazinehellipnews tip )

Recently I was fortunate to have my TV webseries Dysfunctionally Organized pitched to a major network and they agreed to have us do a spin-off of the show So we have started the writing process Its a major achievement for my team and myself since we have been working on the show for a long time Its not easy to get an audience with a content procurement person on a major network so we feel very fortunate I cant mention the network because of confidentiality reasons

Photo of Benjamin Ochieng aka Benji Bendrix (friend of Jimi Hendrix) copy Flygirl PhotographyLearn more about Benjamin atproimdbcomnamenm1335173afro-mericarecordscommindtricksmoviecom

BY MISTY SCHWARTZ

word scrambleTHE LAST WORD

a workout for your mind

Wedded bliss All of the words in this months Scramble are related to marriage and weddings Good luck Look for the answers online beginning May 15 at pompanotodaycom

Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answerodeutx gnir oeemcryn lsuipnatgnwo iaoynmtmr rogom slrofweermdiadbis eusenv shrue ovwsnwiddge rrdemia erdib psoesuerdbhteot rceepnoit errceat eiervsc

James Stafford PhotographyfacebookcomJamesStaffordPhotography

jamesstaffordname(561) 201-1640

INSTRUCTIONS

bull Mix everything adding flour until the mix is firm but not sticky (not too dry)

bull Roll the dough into small balls (about an inch across)bull Place on ungreased cookie sheet and flatten very slightlybull Bake at 350 degrees for 20-25 minutesbull While still warm sift the powdered sugar onto the cookies

INGREDIENTS

bull 1 pound sweet butter softenedbull 6 tablespoons powdered sugar (reserve for after baking)bull Flour to appropriate texturebull Vanilla to taste

Photo copy FomaA Adobe Stock

YUM

chef at home jeff eatsyour diningIn honor of this months theme allow us a bit of poetic license (which sounds so much nicer than bait and switch) Growing up in a Greek household everyone looked forward to these kourabiedes (also known as kourambiethes as well as variety of other spellings Greeks can agree on little spelling included) It was not until well after we left home that we realized how many people identified these as Mexican Wedding cookies And while every Greek will swear that the Greeks invented these there are so many near-identical versions of this cookie around the world that its difficult to tell where they originated

The recipe below is from my beloved late grandmother or Yiayia as we say in Greek It is predictably vague but these are easy to get right Enjoy

Mexican Wedding Cookies

20 Pompano Today May 2016

Pompano Today May 2016 21

your dining jeff eats

Le VinoisSimply Luscious

BY JEFF EATS

NICKrsquoS 50rsquoS DINER 1900 OKEECHOBEE BOULEVARD WEST PALM BEACH FLORIDA 33409 (561) 471-3155

A LITTLE ABOUT JEFF ldquoMy name is Jeff I was born (1949) and bred in Brooklyn New York Since 1991 I have lived full-time in South Florida and have eaten in so many restaurants (down here) that I now consider myself to be a FOOD EXPERT To give you some idea as to how many South Florida restaurants Irsquove been to as of December 31 2014 441 Italian joints alone have had the pleasure of ringing up my American Express card

Just so you know I donrsquot go for the fancy sit-down joints that want you to wear pants and a jacket but rather places where a pair of shorts an old tee shirt and a pair of sneakers is considered formal-wear I donrsquot know one sauce from another I also donrsquot know or really care how ldquodishesrdquo are prepared What I do know is when something tastes delicious and I canrsquot get enough of itrdquo To read more of Jeff rsquos picks visit jeffeatscom

Got an absolutely terrific French bakery for you guys Le Vinois Bakery in Fort Lauderdale The joint has the full-boat of breakfast items breads pastries cakes soups quiches salads sandwiches cookies coffees Order at the counter- handful of tables if you want to eat there

Jeff Eats and Mrs Jeff Eats recently did an eat-in lunchand takeout order and like I said a few seconds ago Le Vinoisrsquo stuff is absolute dynamite

Now letrsquos be adults here and let bygones be bygones- you do remember Freedom Fries sure you do With that in mind Jeff Eats absolutely loved Le Vinois Bakery and Irsquom kinda thinking that you should definitely give it a shot

Clockwise from top left copy Friedberg Adobe Stock copy Chuck Place Adobe Stock copy gkrphoto Adobe Stock copy geshas Adobe Stock

Clockwise from top Enjoy croissants a slice of lemon tart great sandwiches and delicious quiche among the many other delights at Le Vinois

Le Vinois Bakery

6322 N Powerline RoadFt Lauderdale Florida 33309

Hours of operationMonday to Friday7am to 4pm

Phone 954 771 9788

Email modinafrancisyahoocom

levinoisbakerycom

22 Pompano Today May 2016

Whether yoursquore planning a close intimate gathering or a large affair the Sample-McDougald House at Centennial Park (450 NE 10th Street Pompano Beach) sets the scene for memories that will last a lifetime The recently completed $25 million restoration of the house and grounds provides you and your guests with a memorable setting The historic house surrounded by native trees and vegetation is a beautiful background for your photos Renting the Sample-McDougald House can give you and your guests exclusive use of the house and grounds throughout your affair (subject to use guidelines) Visit wwwSampleMcDougaldHousecom to learn more about the house or call 954 691-5686 or 954 214-4759 for more details

Memories yoursquoll treasure at the Sample-McDougald House

Sitting amidst four beautiful acres the Sample-McDougald House offers one of the few

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AROUND TOWN

a look back charlottes web

your city(the Sample family)

THANKS TO DAN HOBBY AND THE POMPANO BEACH HISTORICAL SOCIETY FOR THE PHOTO AND INFORMATION ABOUT OUR CITYS RICH AND VARIED HISTORY TO LEARN MORE ABOUT OUR CITYS FASCINATING PAST VISIT POMPANOHISTORYCOM

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Members of the Sample family gather together ca 1920 Albert Neal Sample who had the house now known as the Sample-McDougald House constructed in 1916 is standing in the second row third from the viewers right The man kneeling in the first row is Neals younger brother John who prior to 1910 was the first member of the Sample family to settle in the Pompano area The house that Neal Sample built turns 100 this year

The non-profit Sample-McDougald House Preservation Society has a number of activities and events planned to commemorate the historic houses 100th birthday For information visit SampleMcDougaldHousecom or call 754-307-5446

Pompano Today May 2016 25

What the hell do I know about wedded bliss I am a long-term and certified member of the ldquohappily single never been marriedrdquo club Relationships take work people My comfort level of commitment is agreeing to feed walk and nurture the fluffy poodle I brought home from the shelter 5 years ago Beyond thathellipIrsquom selfish And letrsquos face it no onersquos ever gotten into an argument with a dog over a miscommunication Theyrsquore perfect in that respect

But weddings are wonderful events Friends and family gathering together for a festive happy occasion weddings almost always guarantee a good time The happy couple gazing into each otherrsquos eyes while reciting wedding vows Uncle Jim having a few too many at the open bar and trying out his salsa moves on the dance floor Ah the memories we can reminisce about for years to come And the expectation is that the new union will last forever

But how does that same couple reach their 50th year wedding anniversary 50 years of wedded bliss now thatrsquos an accomplishment Since I have already mentioned that I am not exactly a go-to advisor on the subject I did what I always do Letrsquos see what the internet says It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was ldquodonrsquot be selfish and always put your partner firstrdquo Hmmm

ldquoMake it quickrdquo This tip was found when referencing the science of being happily married While it doesnrsquot reference the actual marriage itself in summary I interpreted it to read if someone annoys you now they will most inevitably annoy you much more in the future So maybe not marrying material to begin with Interestingly enough I have this one covered with my three date rule What is the three date rule you ask If there is nothing you find annoying about an individual within the first three dateshellipgreen light means go there may be a future In my case this is a bit of a challenge to achieve

And then Oprahrsquos people had to weigh in on the subject I feel compelled to share a link to a great joke I found on Oprahcom during the search It involves a couple celebrating their 50th anniversary and a mule but no worries Itrsquos a completely clean joke You can see the full joke here oprahcomrelationshipsHappy-Marriage-Tips-Love-Advice

your city charlottes web

Wedded bliss the flip side

BY CHARLOTTE SUNDQUIST

It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was

dont be selfish and always put your partner first Hmmm

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Are you back Good Am I wrong in assuming this has some ties to the three date rule

I donrsquot know I certainly havenrsquot got all the answers But Irsquove just confirmed that single is a perfectly acceptable status for me And you single people that are tired of hearing ldquoWhen are you going to settle down and get marriedrdquo Donrsquot cavehellipdo what makes you happy There is not one version of the perfect relationship ideal If itrsquos a good fit for you so be it Wersquore all different after all

And to all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work Time to go walk the dog

To all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work

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Blissful BusinessCan we be blissful in life Yes Can we be blissfully in love Yes Can we be blissful in business That depends on what your definition of a ldquoblissfulrdquo business is Is it working Monday through Thursday Is it dress down days Is it bringing in a new client or two each month Your bliss depends on what your definition is and what that looks like for your business model Letrsquos talk about a few ways you can be ldquoblissfulrdquo in business

Your Company Culture

What is the tone or perception of your company Are you rigid conservative and safe Or are you creative thought provoking and innovative You have the opportunity to transform your company culture a culture that attracts customers employees and partners Think about Google they have created a co-working collaborative happy environment at work for their employees Google has determined that their definition of ldquoblissfulrdquo is casual dress napping pods libraries and bring your dog to work days Think about what your culture is and try to create an atmosphere that people can enjoy

Better Matters

How can you perform tasks and projects ldquobetterrdquo to make it more manageable for your staff As leaders when we put our employees first the rewards are priceless What are you implementing internally to ldquobetterrdquo your employees to meet their sales goals client leads or individual quotas If you raise your standards the company will follow Being better should be the norm Better business creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo business

The Next Level

What is your definition of the reaching the next level Will reaching that level create a ldquoblissfulrdquo business Maybe yes or maybe no The next level for my business would be to add more employees and another office which would create bliss for me I would be free to do more networking and outside activities Determine and define what the ldquonext levelrdquo is for your company and see if it makes sense and creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo work environment for everyone involved

Itrsquos important to take a step back every now and then to remember why being an entrepreneur makes you happy

Determine your personal definition of a blissful business

BY TEANA MCDONALD

26 Pompano Today May 2016

working it special feature

your business special feature

Pompano Today May 2016 27

Kim Briesemeister greets us at the entrance to RMArsquos new digs a suite of comfortable welcoming offices right on Atlantic Boulevard As usual she is polished professional and enthusiastic about all of the great things happening in our city

ldquoWhat RMA brings is the technical expertise the realities of how to achieve the market visionhellipthe end result is creating a quality place that people want to live in and are proud to call home a place where businesses want to be and the city gets a certain great viberdquo Kim notes You can see this ldquoviberdquo in her eyes ndash and you know that Kim can see what the future looks like here in Pompano Beach and at that moment in time we can see it with her

What is ldquoitrdquo exactly ldquoItrdquo is what great places are made of Art Culture Safety Walkability Excitement The vision that Kim and her partner Chris Brown as well as all of the bright creative energetic staff we see is breathtaking And that feeling of hometown comfort that we all get when we return here whether after a trip to the next town over or a trip around the world is the wellspring from which all of the plans for our future originate Itrsquos still Pompano Beach but itrsquos far far better

As the publishers of this magazine for the past six years we have firsthand knowledge of all of the great people who live here and

the great things that attract more like-minded residents and visitors An airport A harbor The Intracoastal The lighthouse Thriving businesses A small-town feeling that is ever harder to maintain

Without a cohesive vision itrsquos likely that some if not all of these could be lost To paraphrase Benjamin Franklin ldquoFailing to plan is planning to failrdquo and there is no shortage of planning for this bright future going on at RMA

Speaking of that planning at that point Kim turns our attention to the consideration of an ldquoinnovation districtrdquo and this is where her enthusiasm is if possible even more palpable We are treated to a breathtaking visual tour of what is possible in such a district and oh my We can hardly contain ourselves What we ask is RMArsquos role in this endeavor ldquoWe are able to help the community go through the redevelopment processrdquo Kim responds adding that ldquo[the goal is that] in the end everyone says lsquoThis is the most amazing place to live This is where I want to bersquordquo

Yes Thatrsquos what we all want A place that wersquore even more proud to call home Proud of the looks on the faces of others when we tell them ldquoYes I live in Pompano Beachrdquo proud that we raised our children in a place where after theyrsquore grown they choose to return and put down roots of their own right here where they belong This is the place that we will create that will provide a solid foundation on which our city will continue to build on and thrive

As we prepare to depart earnest young professionals come bounding enthusiastically through the door (ok they werenrsquot really bounding ndash they are professionals ndash but they sure gave the impression of bounding)

ldquoAhhhrdquo we think to ourselves imagining an exchange with them ldquoDo you guys happen to live in Pompano Beach No Thatrsquos too badrdquo we say unable to help feeling just a tad smug ldquoItrsquos a great place to live work and playrdquo

Falling in love with the future of Pompano Beach

For the past 50 years the landscape of innovation has been dominated by places like Silicon Valleymdashsuburban corridors of spatially isolated corporate campuses accessible only by car with little emphasis on the quality of life or on integrating work housing and recreation

A new complementary urban model is now emerging giving rise to what we and others are calling ldquoinnovation districtsrdquo These districts by our definition are geographic areas where leading-edge anchor institutions and companies cluster and connect with start-ups business incubators and accelerators1 They are also physically compact transit-accessible and technically-wired and offer mixed-use housing office and retail

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts

LOOKING AHEAD TO AN EVEN BRIGHTER FUTUREFrom top left

bull Creating a Downtown Innovation District means incorporating all of the pieces of a successful plan

bull a sterling example of one such district

bull synergy in actionbull specific steps

to harness our unique strengths

bull targeted industriesbull another sterling

example this time of a complete street

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts What They Are

Economic Assets

Networking Assets

Physical Assets

InnovationEcosystemA synergistic relationship between people firms and place that facilitates idea generation and acceleratescommercialization

Target Industries

International Trade and Logistics

Marine Industry

Life Sciences and Biotechnology

Creative Design

Digital Media and Technology

Class A Office

Tourism

Advanced Materials and High-Tech Manufacturing

Redevelopment of Commercial and Residential

Alternatives Energy and Renewable Resources

AviationAerospace

Global Business Services

Global Media and Production

Headquarters and Management Operations

Human Resources and Higher Education

How to harness our ldquoDowntown Innovation Districtrdquo

1 Build a collaborative leadership network

2 Set a vision for growth to leverage our unique strengths

distinct economic clusters leading local and regional institutions and companies physical location and design advantages and other cultural attributes

3 Pursue talent and technology

4 Promote inclusive growthEquip workers with the skills they need to participate in the innovation economy or other secondary and tertiary jobs generated by innovative growth

5 Enhance access to capital

Cultural ArtsTourism

Industrial

Multi Purpose

DowntownInnovation

District

Target Industries

Education

Housing

Downtown Innovation

District

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30 Pompano Today May 2016

VROOM

all things automotiveyour rideThis monthrsquos theme is wedded bliss I started checking on an exact meaning for this title This is what was written in the English Dictionary ldquothe happiness of being marriedrdquo As I reflect back and think about life altogether whether marriage engagement purchase of a product or dealing with family and friendshellip

There are many factors in life that can afford you wedded bliss or the joy serenity and comfort of having the right lover husband or wife the right house or car the right job or titlehellip Now letrsquos admit to the fact that we all go though the ups and downs and have to face many situationshellip This is part of being human

Just imagine not having a significant other to share the joy or sadness of an event or a shoulder to cry onhellip Just imagine not having a cell phone to communicate with your loved ones or a car to get you from point A to point B

Just like a marriage you start by meeting a prospective mate lover or significant other You then starting dating and checking on the possibility of a good fit

If that is the case you start focusing on the possibility of a future together and if the positive traits in that individual outweigh the negative and if you canrsquot imagine living without himher then the marriage is to be considered

The same thing goes for the perfect car for you You have specific unique preferences based on your personality and the purpose of the car purchase

Achieving wedded bliss with your vehicle choice

The right car that will suit your needs for years to come exists It just takes a little research planning budgeting and common sense We all dream of the luxury car that we many not be able to afford but till the time comes to make our dream car a reality we will need to settle for what is achievable practical fits our need and makes us proud of the choice we made Here are some practical questions to answer would you like to get a sporty car a regular 4 door sedan a van an SUV or a truck

Would you like a practical car you may drive in city highway or would you like to go off-roading on the weekends Would you need this vehicle to tow your boat to tow your camping trip supplies or would you like to have an elegant car to show off to your friends Now we have to consider the budget and whether we want to purchase a domestic or foreign vehicle the maintenance cost the fuel efficiency and the overall look and feel of the car

We have noticed that cars reflect their ownerrsquos personality so if you are someone who is sporty adventurous have a young spirit and are financially secure then a Bugatti Veyron Porsche 911 Ford Mustang McClaren MP4- 12C Lamborghini Egoista Limited edition Mercedes AMG SL SLK Roadster or E Class Cabriolet Convertible or the Chevy Camaro come to mind Pictured on page 31 is the 2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue by the way

If you are someone who is practical enjoy trips to the mountains or the beach work full time and look for a dependable and comfortable car then check out the Cadillac CTS (pictured above) XTS or DTS Super Subaru Impreza Lexus CT 200h Sport IS 250 or ES 350 Mercedes CS or E Class Chevy Equinox Chevy Tahoe and Toyota Prius V

Cadillac CTS photo copy General Motors

Pompano Today May 2016 31

If you are the family manwoman and are seeking safety comfortable seating and an affordable vehicle with low maintenance we noticed that most of the inquiries are SUV or Van related such as the Mercedes GLA SUB GLE SUV or GLS SUV Audi Q5 Audi Allroad Toyota Sienna Ford Fex Ford Transit Connect Cadillac Escalade Cadillac SRX and letrsquos not forget the Chevy Suburban

Now if you are the hunter or you enjoy off roading every now and then the vehicles we seesell and repair most are the Ford F150 Ford Super Duty Mercedes G Class Toyota TacomaTundra Range Rover Jeep Wrangler and the Chevy Silverado

What about the green energy conscious We have had inquiries about the Toyota Prius and the Rav 4 Hybrid Audi A3 E-tron Cadillac ELR or the Chevy Spark EV Now if you are in the market for a nice ride then you need to test drive the Cadillac CT6 Plug-in Hybrid or the BMW I8 and tell me if you enjoyed the drive

Yes even car owners and their vehicles can talk about wedded bliss So if you have the

perfect car that fits your image your lifestyle your personality then congratulations because you are lucky to get the perfect car In the meantime if you are looking for a vehicle and have questions or concerns feel free to contact us and we will be glad to assist you BY JAY GHANEM

2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue copy The Ford Motor Company 2016 All Rights Reserved

HOLLYWOOD CORNER

news from the west coast

32 Pompano Today May 2016

stars in your eyesBenjamin A Onyango on keeping the faith

and making people happyWhen did you know without any doubt that you wanted to act

Ive always acted in church youth plays that I wrote myself when I was a teenager in Nairobi Kenya In 1987 I came to the United States and while attending California State University Stanislaus in Turlock California formed a traditional dance group called Upendo Singers and Cultural Dancers We wrote plays and songs and performed them in cultural festivals universities and churches After graduating in 1992 I knew I wanted to act so I struck the tent and moved to Hollywood where I joined a funk rock band called PFO and also acted as a background performer in TV and feature films What inspires you to act

I am naturally a happy person and I love it when people are happy So I cant help it but crack jokes and poke fun at myself to make people around me laugh I am inspired by other people Their presence makes me want to do stuff talk dance sing shout etc When did you realize you had reached your goals as an actor

I do not think I have reached my goal as an actor yet To me acting is an evolving thing You get to a certain level and then you strive to get better than the level you currently are on Acting has many facets and therefore many challenges There is no one way to approach acting I therefore believe that I am still reaching for that goal and I must admit that the experience indeed is the best teacher because you indeed get better at it the more you keep doing it

What was your favorite role to date and why

My favorite role to date is the movie I am currently filming called Beautifully Broken The reason its my first role as a lead actor in a feature film and best of all I am playing the role of a real person who survived the Rwanda genocide that the story is about I played a lead role before in a short film called Kwame also based on a true story and was voted best actor at the 2009 Mexico International Film Festival Beautifully Broken is a story that connects very strongly with the human spirit I can almost guarantee that there will not be a

single dry eye in the theater when its screened Its a beautifully written story of hardship resilience survival and hope

What do you enjoy most about your career

What I enjoy most about my career is the ability to travel and see different people in different parts of the world I am a people person and nothing

makes me happier than meeting and making new friends

Can we expect a book from you

Thats funny you mentioned that I write lots of movie scripts and TV show scripts and I have always thought of writing a book So on my down days on the set of Beautifully Broken I started a book Ive been toying with in my head for a while The title of the book is God Moves When We Stop Helping Him Its more of a booklet than a book Its a book about encouragement

What is the best way for your fans to know what yoursquore working on FacebookTwitter Do you post for your own sites or do you have your assistants do the posts

I hope I do have fans LOL They can find out about what I am doing or working on my Facebook page facebookcomEMEBAND or Facebook fan page facebookcomBenjiBendrix Twitter twittercombochieng Instagram instagramcombenjibendrix and imdb imdbcomnamenm1335173ref_=nv_sr I also have a website benjibendrixcom that I use

Tell us something new something bold that yoursquove never told any other magazinehellipnews tip )

Recently I was fortunate to have my TV webseries Dysfunctionally Organized pitched to a major network and they agreed to have us do a spin-off of the show So we have started the writing process Its a major achievement for my team and myself since we have been working on the show for a long time Its not easy to get an audience with a content procurement person on a major network so we feel very fortunate I cant mention the network because of confidentiality reasons

Photo of Benjamin Ochieng aka Benji Bendrix (friend of Jimi Hendrix) copy Flygirl PhotographyLearn more about Benjamin atproimdbcomnamenm1335173afro-mericarecordscommindtricksmoviecom

BY MISTY SCHWARTZ

word scrambleTHE LAST WORD

a workout for your mind

Wedded bliss All of the words in this months Scramble are related to marriage and weddings Good luck Look for the answers online beginning May 15 at pompanotodaycom

Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answerodeutx gnir oeemcryn lsuipnatgnwo iaoynmtmr rogom slrofweermdiadbis eusenv shrue ovwsnwiddge rrdemia erdib psoesuerdbhteot rceepnoit errceat eiervsc

James Stafford PhotographyfacebookcomJamesStaffordPhotography

jamesstaffordname(561) 201-1640

Pompano Today May 2016 21

your dining jeff eats

Le VinoisSimply Luscious

BY JEFF EATS

NICKrsquoS 50rsquoS DINER 1900 OKEECHOBEE BOULEVARD WEST PALM BEACH FLORIDA 33409 (561) 471-3155

A LITTLE ABOUT JEFF ldquoMy name is Jeff I was born (1949) and bred in Brooklyn New York Since 1991 I have lived full-time in South Florida and have eaten in so many restaurants (down here) that I now consider myself to be a FOOD EXPERT To give you some idea as to how many South Florida restaurants Irsquove been to as of December 31 2014 441 Italian joints alone have had the pleasure of ringing up my American Express card

Just so you know I donrsquot go for the fancy sit-down joints that want you to wear pants and a jacket but rather places where a pair of shorts an old tee shirt and a pair of sneakers is considered formal-wear I donrsquot know one sauce from another I also donrsquot know or really care how ldquodishesrdquo are prepared What I do know is when something tastes delicious and I canrsquot get enough of itrdquo To read more of Jeff rsquos picks visit jeffeatscom

Got an absolutely terrific French bakery for you guys Le Vinois Bakery in Fort Lauderdale The joint has the full-boat of breakfast items breads pastries cakes soups quiches salads sandwiches cookies coffees Order at the counter- handful of tables if you want to eat there

Jeff Eats and Mrs Jeff Eats recently did an eat-in lunchand takeout order and like I said a few seconds ago Le Vinoisrsquo stuff is absolute dynamite

Now letrsquos be adults here and let bygones be bygones- you do remember Freedom Fries sure you do With that in mind Jeff Eats absolutely loved Le Vinois Bakery and Irsquom kinda thinking that you should definitely give it a shot

Clockwise from top left copy Friedberg Adobe Stock copy Chuck Place Adobe Stock copy gkrphoto Adobe Stock copy geshas Adobe Stock

Clockwise from top Enjoy croissants a slice of lemon tart great sandwiches and delicious quiche among the many other delights at Le Vinois

Le Vinois Bakery

6322 N Powerline RoadFt Lauderdale Florida 33309

Hours of operationMonday to Friday7am to 4pm

Phone 954 771 9788

Email modinafrancisyahoocom

levinoisbakerycom

22 Pompano Today May 2016

Whether yoursquore planning a close intimate gathering or a large affair the Sample-McDougald House at Centennial Park (450 NE 10th Street Pompano Beach) sets the scene for memories that will last a lifetime The recently completed $25 million restoration of the house and grounds provides you and your guests with a memorable setting The historic house surrounded by native trees and vegetation is a beautiful background for your photos Renting the Sample-McDougald House can give you and your guests exclusive use of the house and grounds throughout your affair (subject to use guidelines) Visit wwwSampleMcDougaldHousecom to learn more about the house or call 954 691-5686 or 954 214-4759 for more details

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AROUND TOWN

a look back charlottes web

your city(the Sample family)

THANKS TO DAN HOBBY AND THE POMPANO BEACH HISTORICAL SOCIETY FOR THE PHOTO AND INFORMATION ABOUT OUR CITYS RICH AND VARIED HISTORY TO LEARN MORE ABOUT OUR CITYS FASCINATING PAST VISIT POMPANOHISTORYCOM

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Members of the Sample family gather together ca 1920 Albert Neal Sample who had the house now known as the Sample-McDougald House constructed in 1916 is standing in the second row third from the viewers right The man kneeling in the first row is Neals younger brother John who prior to 1910 was the first member of the Sample family to settle in the Pompano area The house that Neal Sample built turns 100 this year

The non-profit Sample-McDougald House Preservation Society has a number of activities and events planned to commemorate the historic houses 100th birthday For information visit SampleMcDougaldHousecom or call 754-307-5446

Pompano Today May 2016 25

What the hell do I know about wedded bliss I am a long-term and certified member of the ldquohappily single never been marriedrdquo club Relationships take work people My comfort level of commitment is agreeing to feed walk and nurture the fluffy poodle I brought home from the shelter 5 years ago Beyond thathellipIrsquom selfish And letrsquos face it no onersquos ever gotten into an argument with a dog over a miscommunication Theyrsquore perfect in that respect

But weddings are wonderful events Friends and family gathering together for a festive happy occasion weddings almost always guarantee a good time The happy couple gazing into each otherrsquos eyes while reciting wedding vows Uncle Jim having a few too many at the open bar and trying out his salsa moves on the dance floor Ah the memories we can reminisce about for years to come And the expectation is that the new union will last forever

But how does that same couple reach their 50th year wedding anniversary 50 years of wedded bliss now thatrsquos an accomplishment Since I have already mentioned that I am not exactly a go-to advisor on the subject I did what I always do Letrsquos see what the internet says It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was ldquodonrsquot be selfish and always put your partner firstrdquo Hmmm

ldquoMake it quickrdquo This tip was found when referencing the science of being happily married While it doesnrsquot reference the actual marriage itself in summary I interpreted it to read if someone annoys you now they will most inevitably annoy you much more in the future So maybe not marrying material to begin with Interestingly enough I have this one covered with my three date rule What is the three date rule you ask If there is nothing you find annoying about an individual within the first three dateshellipgreen light means go there may be a future In my case this is a bit of a challenge to achieve

And then Oprahrsquos people had to weigh in on the subject I feel compelled to share a link to a great joke I found on Oprahcom during the search It involves a couple celebrating their 50th anniversary and a mule but no worries Itrsquos a completely clean joke You can see the full joke here oprahcomrelationshipsHappy-Marriage-Tips-Love-Advice

your city charlottes web

Wedded bliss the flip side

BY CHARLOTTE SUNDQUIST

It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was

dont be selfish and always put your partner first Hmmm

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Are you back Good Am I wrong in assuming this has some ties to the three date rule

I donrsquot know I certainly havenrsquot got all the answers But Irsquove just confirmed that single is a perfectly acceptable status for me And you single people that are tired of hearing ldquoWhen are you going to settle down and get marriedrdquo Donrsquot cavehellipdo what makes you happy There is not one version of the perfect relationship ideal If itrsquos a good fit for you so be it Wersquore all different after all

And to all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work Time to go walk the dog

To all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work

GET SMART

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Blissful BusinessCan we be blissful in life Yes Can we be blissfully in love Yes Can we be blissful in business That depends on what your definition of a ldquoblissfulrdquo business is Is it working Monday through Thursday Is it dress down days Is it bringing in a new client or two each month Your bliss depends on what your definition is and what that looks like for your business model Letrsquos talk about a few ways you can be ldquoblissfulrdquo in business

Your Company Culture

What is the tone or perception of your company Are you rigid conservative and safe Or are you creative thought provoking and innovative You have the opportunity to transform your company culture a culture that attracts customers employees and partners Think about Google they have created a co-working collaborative happy environment at work for their employees Google has determined that their definition of ldquoblissfulrdquo is casual dress napping pods libraries and bring your dog to work days Think about what your culture is and try to create an atmosphere that people can enjoy

Better Matters

How can you perform tasks and projects ldquobetterrdquo to make it more manageable for your staff As leaders when we put our employees first the rewards are priceless What are you implementing internally to ldquobetterrdquo your employees to meet their sales goals client leads or individual quotas If you raise your standards the company will follow Being better should be the norm Better business creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo business

The Next Level

What is your definition of the reaching the next level Will reaching that level create a ldquoblissfulrdquo business Maybe yes or maybe no The next level for my business would be to add more employees and another office which would create bliss for me I would be free to do more networking and outside activities Determine and define what the ldquonext levelrdquo is for your company and see if it makes sense and creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo work environment for everyone involved

Itrsquos important to take a step back every now and then to remember why being an entrepreneur makes you happy

Determine your personal definition of a blissful business

BY TEANA MCDONALD

26 Pompano Today May 2016

working it special feature

your business special feature

Pompano Today May 2016 27

Kim Briesemeister greets us at the entrance to RMArsquos new digs a suite of comfortable welcoming offices right on Atlantic Boulevard As usual she is polished professional and enthusiastic about all of the great things happening in our city

ldquoWhat RMA brings is the technical expertise the realities of how to achieve the market visionhellipthe end result is creating a quality place that people want to live in and are proud to call home a place where businesses want to be and the city gets a certain great viberdquo Kim notes You can see this ldquoviberdquo in her eyes ndash and you know that Kim can see what the future looks like here in Pompano Beach and at that moment in time we can see it with her

What is ldquoitrdquo exactly ldquoItrdquo is what great places are made of Art Culture Safety Walkability Excitement The vision that Kim and her partner Chris Brown as well as all of the bright creative energetic staff we see is breathtaking And that feeling of hometown comfort that we all get when we return here whether after a trip to the next town over or a trip around the world is the wellspring from which all of the plans for our future originate Itrsquos still Pompano Beach but itrsquos far far better

As the publishers of this magazine for the past six years we have firsthand knowledge of all of the great people who live here and

the great things that attract more like-minded residents and visitors An airport A harbor The Intracoastal The lighthouse Thriving businesses A small-town feeling that is ever harder to maintain

Without a cohesive vision itrsquos likely that some if not all of these could be lost To paraphrase Benjamin Franklin ldquoFailing to plan is planning to failrdquo and there is no shortage of planning for this bright future going on at RMA

Speaking of that planning at that point Kim turns our attention to the consideration of an ldquoinnovation districtrdquo and this is where her enthusiasm is if possible even more palpable We are treated to a breathtaking visual tour of what is possible in such a district and oh my We can hardly contain ourselves What we ask is RMArsquos role in this endeavor ldquoWe are able to help the community go through the redevelopment processrdquo Kim responds adding that ldquo[the goal is that] in the end everyone says lsquoThis is the most amazing place to live This is where I want to bersquordquo

Yes Thatrsquos what we all want A place that wersquore even more proud to call home Proud of the looks on the faces of others when we tell them ldquoYes I live in Pompano Beachrdquo proud that we raised our children in a place where after theyrsquore grown they choose to return and put down roots of their own right here where they belong This is the place that we will create that will provide a solid foundation on which our city will continue to build on and thrive

As we prepare to depart earnest young professionals come bounding enthusiastically through the door (ok they werenrsquot really bounding ndash they are professionals ndash but they sure gave the impression of bounding)

ldquoAhhhrdquo we think to ourselves imagining an exchange with them ldquoDo you guys happen to live in Pompano Beach No Thatrsquos too badrdquo we say unable to help feeling just a tad smug ldquoItrsquos a great place to live work and playrdquo

Falling in love with the future of Pompano Beach

For the past 50 years the landscape of innovation has been dominated by places like Silicon Valleymdashsuburban corridors of spatially isolated corporate campuses accessible only by car with little emphasis on the quality of life or on integrating work housing and recreation

A new complementary urban model is now emerging giving rise to what we and others are calling ldquoinnovation districtsrdquo These districts by our definition are geographic areas where leading-edge anchor institutions and companies cluster and connect with start-ups business incubators and accelerators1 They are also physically compact transit-accessible and technically-wired and offer mixed-use housing office and retail

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts

LOOKING AHEAD TO AN EVEN BRIGHTER FUTUREFrom top left

bull Creating a Downtown Innovation District means incorporating all of the pieces of a successful plan

bull a sterling example of one such district

bull synergy in actionbull specific steps

to harness our unique strengths

bull targeted industriesbull another sterling

example this time of a complete street

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts What They Are

Economic Assets

Networking Assets

Physical Assets

InnovationEcosystemA synergistic relationship between people firms and place that facilitates idea generation and acceleratescommercialization

Target Industries

International Trade and Logistics

Marine Industry

Life Sciences and Biotechnology

Creative Design

Digital Media and Technology

Class A Office

Tourism

Advanced Materials and High-Tech Manufacturing

Redevelopment of Commercial and Residential

Alternatives Energy and Renewable Resources

AviationAerospace

Global Business Services

Global Media and Production

Headquarters and Management Operations

Human Resources and Higher Education

How to harness our ldquoDowntown Innovation Districtrdquo

1 Build a collaborative leadership network

2 Set a vision for growth to leverage our unique strengths

distinct economic clusters leading local and regional institutions and companies physical location and design advantages and other cultural attributes

3 Pursue talent and technology

4 Promote inclusive growthEquip workers with the skills they need to participate in the innovation economy or other secondary and tertiary jobs generated by innovative growth

5 Enhance access to capital

Cultural ArtsTourism

Industrial

Multi Purpose

DowntownInnovation

District

Target Industries

Education

Housing

Downtown Innovation

District

28 Pompano Today May 2016

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30 Pompano Today May 2016

VROOM

all things automotiveyour rideThis monthrsquos theme is wedded bliss I started checking on an exact meaning for this title This is what was written in the English Dictionary ldquothe happiness of being marriedrdquo As I reflect back and think about life altogether whether marriage engagement purchase of a product or dealing with family and friendshellip

There are many factors in life that can afford you wedded bliss or the joy serenity and comfort of having the right lover husband or wife the right house or car the right job or titlehellip Now letrsquos admit to the fact that we all go though the ups and downs and have to face many situationshellip This is part of being human

Just imagine not having a significant other to share the joy or sadness of an event or a shoulder to cry onhellip Just imagine not having a cell phone to communicate with your loved ones or a car to get you from point A to point B

Just like a marriage you start by meeting a prospective mate lover or significant other You then starting dating and checking on the possibility of a good fit

If that is the case you start focusing on the possibility of a future together and if the positive traits in that individual outweigh the negative and if you canrsquot imagine living without himher then the marriage is to be considered

The same thing goes for the perfect car for you You have specific unique preferences based on your personality and the purpose of the car purchase

Achieving wedded bliss with your vehicle choice

The right car that will suit your needs for years to come exists It just takes a little research planning budgeting and common sense We all dream of the luxury car that we many not be able to afford but till the time comes to make our dream car a reality we will need to settle for what is achievable practical fits our need and makes us proud of the choice we made Here are some practical questions to answer would you like to get a sporty car a regular 4 door sedan a van an SUV or a truck

Would you like a practical car you may drive in city highway or would you like to go off-roading on the weekends Would you need this vehicle to tow your boat to tow your camping trip supplies or would you like to have an elegant car to show off to your friends Now we have to consider the budget and whether we want to purchase a domestic or foreign vehicle the maintenance cost the fuel efficiency and the overall look and feel of the car

We have noticed that cars reflect their ownerrsquos personality so if you are someone who is sporty adventurous have a young spirit and are financially secure then a Bugatti Veyron Porsche 911 Ford Mustang McClaren MP4- 12C Lamborghini Egoista Limited edition Mercedes AMG SL SLK Roadster or E Class Cabriolet Convertible or the Chevy Camaro come to mind Pictured on page 31 is the 2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue by the way

If you are someone who is practical enjoy trips to the mountains or the beach work full time and look for a dependable and comfortable car then check out the Cadillac CTS (pictured above) XTS or DTS Super Subaru Impreza Lexus CT 200h Sport IS 250 or ES 350 Mercedes CS or E Class Chevy Equinox Chevy Tahoe and Toyota Prius V

Cadillac CTS photo copy General Motors

Pompano Today May 2016 31

If you are the family manwoman and are seeking safety comfortable seating and an affordable vehicle with low maintenance we noticed that most of the inquiries are SUV or Van related such as the Mercedes GLA SUB GLE SUV or GLS SUV Audi Q5 Audi Allroad Toyota Sienna Ford Fex Ford Transit Connect Cadillac Escalade Cadillac SRX and letrsquos not forget the Chevy Suburban

Now if you are the hunter or you enjoy off roading every now and then the vehicles we seesell and repair most are the Ford F150 Ford Super Duty Mercedes G Class Toyota TacomaTundra Range Rover Jeep Wrangler and the Chevy Silverado

What about the green energy conscious We have had inquiries about the Toyota Prius and the Rav 4 Hybrid Audi A3 E-tron Cadillac ELR or the Chevy Spark EV Now if you are in the market for a nice ride then you need to test drive the Cadillac CT6 Plug-in Hybrid or the BMW I8 and tell me if you enjoyed the drive

Yes even car owners and their vehicles can talk about wedded bliss So if you have the

perfect car that fits your image your lifestyle your personality then congratulations because you are lucky to get the perfect car In the meantime if you are looking for a vehicle and have questions or concerns feel free to contact us and we will be glad to assist you BY JAY GHANEM

2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue copy The Ford Motor Company 2016 All Rights Reserved

HOLLYWOOD CORNER

news from the west coast

32 Pompano Today May 2016

stars in your eyesBenjamin A Onyango on keeping the faith

and making people happyWhen did you know without any doubt that you wanted to act

Ive always acted in church youth plays that I wrote myself when I was a teenager in Nairobi Kenya In 1987 I came to the United States and while attending California State University Stanislaus in Turlock California formed a traditional dance group called Upendo Singers and Cultural Dancers We wrote plays and songs and performed them in cultural festivals universities and churches After graduating in 1992 I knew I wanted to act so I struck the tent and moved to Hollywood where I joined a funk rock band called PFO and also acted as a background performer in TV and feature films What inspires you to act

I am naturally a happy person and I love it when people are happy So I cant help it but crack jokes and poke fun at myself to make people around me laugh I am inspired by other people Their presence makes me want to do stuff talk dance sing shout etc When did you realize you had reached your goals as an actor

I do not think I have reached my goal as an actor yet To me acting is an evolving thing You get to a certain level and then you strive to get better than the level you currently are on Acting has many facets and therefore many challenges There is no one way to approach acting I therefore believe that I am still reaching for that goal and I must admit that the experience indeed is the best teacher because you indeed get better at it the more you keep doing it

What was your favorite role to date and why

My favorite role to date is the movie I am currently filming called Beautifully Broken The reason its my first role as a lead actor in a feature film and best of all I am playing the role of a real person who survived the Rwanda genocide that the story is about I played a lead role before in a short film called Kwame also based on a true story and was voted best actor at the 2009 Mexico International Film Festival Beautifully Broken is a story that connects very strongly with the human spirit I can almost guarantee that there will not be a

single dry eye in the theater when its screened Its a beautifully written story of hardship resilience survival and hope

What do you enjoy most about your career

What I enjoy most about my career is the ability to travel and see different people in different parts of the world I am a people person and nothing

makes me happier than meeting and making new friends

Can we expect a book from you

Thats funny you mentioned that I write lots of movie scripts and TV show scripts and I have always thought of writing a book So on my down days on the set of Beautifully Broken I started a book Ive been toying with in my head for a while The title of the book is God Moves When We Stop Helping Him Its more of a booklet than a book Its a book about encouragement

What is the best way for your fans to know what yoursquore working on FacebookTwitter Do you post for your own sites or do you have your assistants do the posts

I hope I do have fans LOL They can find out about what I am doing or working on my Facebook page facebookcomEMEBAND or Facebook fan page facebookcomBenjiBendrix Twitter twittercombochieng Instagram instagramcombenjibendrix and imdb imdbcomnamenm1335173ref_=nv_sr I also have a website benjibendrixcom that I use

Tell us something new something bold that yoursquove never told any other magazinehellipnews tip )

Recently I was fortunate to have my TV webseries Dysfunctionally Organized pitched to a major network and they agreed to have us do a spin-off of the show So we have started the writing process Its a major achievement for my team and myself since we have been working on the show for a long time Its not easy to get an audience with a content procurement person on a major network so we feel very fortunate I cant mention the network because of confidentiality reasons

Photo of Benjamin Ochieng aka Benji Bendrix (friend of Jimi Hendrix) copy Flygirl PhotographyLearn more about Benjamin atproimdbcomnamenm1335173afro-mericarecordscommindtricksmoviecom

BY MISTY SCHWARTZ

word scrambleTHE LAST WORD

a workout for your mind

Wedded bliss All of the words in this months Scramble are related to marriage and weddings Good luck Look for the answers online beginning May 15 at pompanotodaycom

Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answerodeutx gnir oeemcryn lsuipnatgnwo iaoynmtmr rogom slrofweermdiadbis eusenv shrue ovwsnwiddge rrdemia erdib psoesuerdbhteot rceepnoit errceat eiervsc

James Stafford PhotographyfacebookcomJamesStaffordPhotography

jamesstaffordname(561) 201-1640

22 Pompano Today May 2016

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24 Pompano Today May 2016

AROUND TOWN

a look back charlottes web

your city(the Sample family)

THANKS TO DAN HOBBY AND THE POMPANO BEACH HISTORICAL SOCIETY FOR THE PHOTO AND INFORMATION ABOUT OUR CITYS RICH AND VARIED HISTORY TO LEARN MORE ABOUT OUR CITYS FASCINATING PAST VISIT POMPANOHISTORYCOM

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Members of the Sample family gather together ca 1920 Albert Neal Sample who had the house now known as the Sample-McDougald House constructed in 1916 is standing in the second row third from the viewers right The man kneeling in the first row is Neals younger brother John who prior to 1910 was the first member of the Sample family to settle in the Pompano area The house that Neal Sample built turns 100 this year

The non-profit Sample-McDougald House Preservation Society has a number of activities and events planned to commemorate the historic houses 100th birthday For information visit SampleMcDougaldHousecom or call 754-307-5446

Pompano Today May 2016 25

What the hell do I know about wedded bliss I am a long-term and certified member of the ldquohappily single never been marriedrdquo club Relationships take work people My comfort level of commitment is agreeing to feed walk and nurture the fluffy poodle I brought home from the shelter 5 years ago Beyond thathellipIrsquom selfish And letrsquos face it no onersquos ever gotten into an argument with a dog over a miscommunication Theyrsquore perfect in that respect

But weddings are wonderful events Friends and family gathering together for a festive happy occasion weddings almost always guarantee a good time The happy couple gazing into each otherrsquos eyes while reciting wedding vows Uncle Jim having a few too many at the open bar and trying out his salsa moves on the dance floor Ah the memories we can reminisce about for years to come And the expectation is that the new union will last forever

But how does that same couple reach their 50th year wedding anniversary 50 years of wedded bliss now thatrsquos an accomplishment Since I have already mentioned that I am not exactly a go-to advisor on the subject I did what I always do Letrsquos see what the internet says It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was ldquodonrsquot be selfish and always put your partner firstrdquo Hmmm

ldquoMake it quickrdquo This tip was found when referencing the science of being happily married While it doesnrsquot reference the actual marriage itself in summary I interpreted it to read if someone annoys you now they will most inevitably annoy you much more in the future So maybe not marrying material to begin with Interestingly enough I have this one covered with my three date rule What is the three date rule you ask If there is nothing you find annoying about an individual within the first three dateshellipgreen light means go there may be a future In my case this is a bit of a challenge to achieve

And then Oprahrsquos people had to weigh in on the subject I feel compelled to share a link to a great joke I found on Oprahcom during the search It involves a couple celebrating their 50th anniversary and a mule but no worries Itrsquos a completely clean joke You can see the full joke here oprahcomrelationshipsHappy-Marriage-Tips-Love-Advice

your city charlottes web

Wedded bliss the flip side

BY CHARLOTTE SUNDQUIST

It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was

dont be selfish and always put your partner first Hmmm

POMPANO BEACH GREAT LAWN | 700 PM | BRING LAWN CHAIRS amp BLANKETSPOMPANOBEACHFLGOV | 9547864111

TK BLU amp THE UNCOOL | MAY 13SEAN CHAMBERS | JUNE 10

ZERO TO SIXTY | JULY 8

Presents

Are you back Good Am I wrong in assuming this has some ties to the three date rule

I donrsquot know I certainly havenrsquot got all the answers But Irsquove just confirmed that single is a perfectly acceptable status for me And you single people that are tired of hearing ldquoWhen are you going to settle down and get marriedrdquo Donrsquot cavehellipdo what makes you happy There is not one version of the perfect relationship ideal If itrsquos a good fit for you so be it Wersquore all different after all

And to all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work Time to go walk the dog

To all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work

GET SMART

your business

Located in Pompano Beach since 1986 Open 7 Days a Week for all of your

Real Estate needs amp goals

C21Wiedercom 954-978-8300

1221 S Powerline Rd Pompano Beach FL 33069

SMARTER BOLDER FASTER Whether yoursquore buying selling or renting contact

us for real solutions to your real estate needs

Blissful BusinessCan we be blissful in life Yes Can we be blissfully in love Yes Can we be blissful in business That depends on what your definition of a ldquoblissfulrdquo business is Is it working Monday through Thursday Is it dress down days Is it bringing in a new client or two each month Your bliss depends on what your definition is and what that looks like for your business model Letrsquos talk about a few ways you can be ldquoblissfulrdquo in business

Your Company Culture

What is the tone or perception of your company Are you rigid conservative and safe Or are you creative thought provoking and innovative You have the opportunity to transform your company culture a culture that attracts customers employees and partners Think about Google they have created a co-working collaborative happy environment at work for their employees Google has determined that their definition of ldquoblissfulrdquo is casual dress napping pods libraries and bring your dog to work days Think about what your culture is and try to create an atmosphere that people can enjoy

Better Matters

How can you perform tasks and projects ldquobetterrdquo to make it more manageable for your staff As leaders when we put our employees first the rewards are priceless What are you implementing internally to ldquobetterrdquo your employees to meet their sales goals client leads or individual quotas If you raise your standards the company will follow Being better should be the norm Better business creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo business

The Next Level

What is your definition of the reaching the next level Will reaching that level create a ldquoblissfulrdquo business Maybe yes or maybe no The next level for my business would be to add more employees and another office which would create bliss for me I would be free to do more networking and outside activities Determine and define what the ldquonext levelrdquo is for your company and see if it makes sense and creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo work environment for everyone involved

Itrsquos important to take a step back every now and then to remember why being an entrepreneur makes you happy

Determine your personal definition of a blissful business

BY TEANA MCDONALD

26 Pompano Today May 2016

working it special feature

your business special feature

Pompano Today May 2016 27

Kim Briesemeister greets us at the entrance to RMArsquos new digs a suite of comfortable welcoming offices right on Atlantic Boulevard As usual she is polished professional and enthusiastic about all of the great things happening in our city

ldquoWhat RMA brings is the technical expertise the realities of how to achieve the market visionhellipthe end result is creating a quality place that people want to live in and are proud to call home a place where businesses want to be and the city gets a certain great viberdquo Kim notes You can see this ldquoviberdquo in her eyes ndash and you know that Kim can see what the future looks like here in Pompano Beach and at that moment in time we can see it with her

What is ldquoitrdquo exactly ldquoItrdquo is what great places are made of Art Culture Safety Walkability Excitement The vision that Kim and her partner Chris Brown as well as all of the bright creative energetic staff we see is breathtaking And that feeling of hometown comfort that we all get when we return here whether after a trip to the next town over or a trip around the world is the wellspring from which all of the plans for our future originate Itrsquos still Pompano Beach but itrsquos far far better

As the publishers of this magazine for the past six years we have firsthand knowledge of all of the great people who live here and

the great things that attract more like-minded residents and visitors An airport A harbor The Intracoastal The lighthouse Thriving businesses A small-town feeling that is ever harder to maintain

Without a cohesive vision itrsquos likely that some if not all of these could be lost To paraphrase Benjamin Franklin ldquoFailing to plan is planning to failrdquo and there is no shortage of planning for this bright future going on at RMA

Speaking of that planning at that point Kim turns our attention to the consideration of an ldquoinnovation districtrdquo and this is where her enthusiasm is if possible even more palpable We are treated to a breathtaking visual tour of what is possible in such a district and oh my We can hardly contain ourselves What we ask is RMArsquos role in this endeavor ldquoWe are able to help the community go through the redevelopment processrdquo Kim responds adding that ldquo[the goal is that] in the end everyone says lsquoThis is the most amazing place to live This is where I want to bersquordquo

Yes Thatrsquos what we all want A place that wersquore even more proud to call home Proud of the looks on the faces of others when we tell them ldquoYes I live in Pompano Beachrdquo proud that we raised our children in a place where after theyrsquore grown they choose to return and put down roots of their own right here where they belong This is the place that we will create that will provide a solid foundation on which our city will continue to build on and thrive

As we prepare to depart earnest young professionals come bounding enthusiastically through the door (ok they werenrsquot really bounding ndash they are professionals ndash but they sure gave the impression of bounding)

ldquoAhhhrdquo we think to ourselves imagining an exchange with them ldquoDo you guys happen to live in Pompano Beach No Thatrsquos too badrdquo we say unable to help feeling just a tad smug ldquoItrsquos a great place to live work and playrdquo

Falling in love with the future of Pompano Beach

For the past 50 years the landscape of innovation has been dominated by places like Silicon Valleymdashsuburban corridors of spatially isolated corporate campuses accessible only by car with little emphasis on the quality of life or on integrating work housing and recreation

A new complementary urban model is now emerging giving rise to what we and others are calling ldquoinnovation districtsrdquo These districts by our definition are geographic areas where leading-edge anchor institutions and companies cluster and connect with start-ups business incubators and accelerators1 They are also physically compact transit-accessible and technically-wired and offer mixed-use housing office and retail

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts

LOOKING AHEAD TO AN EVEN BRIGHTER FUTUREFrom top left

bull Creating a Downtown Innovation District means incorporating all of the pieces of a successful plan

bull a sterling example of one such district

bull synergy in actionbull specific steps

to harness our unique strengths

bull targeted industriesbull another sterling

example this time of a complete street

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts What They Are

Economic Assets

Networking Assets

Physical Assets

InnovationEcosystemA synergistic relationship between people firms and place that facilitates idea generation and acceleratescommercialization

Target Industries

International Trade and Logistics

Marine Industry

Life Sciences and Biotechnology

Creative Design

Digital Media and Technology

Class A Office

Tourism

Advanced Materials and High-Tech Manufacturing

Redevelopment of Commercial and Residential

Alternatives Energy and Renewable Resources

AviationAerospace

Global Business Services

Global Media and Production

Headquarters and Management Operations

Human Resources and Higher Education

How to harness our ldquoDowntown Innovation Districtrdquo

1 Build a collaborative leadership network

2 Set a vision for growth to leverage our unique strengths

distinct economic clusters leading local and regional institutions and companies physical location and design advantages and other cultural attributes

3 Pursue talent and technology

4 Promote inclusive growthEquip workers with the skills they need to participate in the innovation economy or other secondary and tertiary jobs generated by innovative growth

5 Enhance access to capital

Cultural ArtsTourism

Industrial

Multi Purpose

DowntownInnovation

District

Target Industries

Education

Housing

Downtown Innovation

District

28 Pompano Today May 2016

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30 Pompano Today May 2016

VROOM

all things automotiveyour rideThis monthrsquos theme is wedded bliss I started checking on an exact meaning for this title This is what was written in the English Dictionary ldquothe happiness of being marriedrdquo As I reflect back and think about life altogether whether marriage engagement purchase of a product or dealing with family and friendshellip

There are many factors in life that can afford you wedded bliss or the joy serenity and comfort of having the right lover husband or wife the right house or car the right job or titlehellip Now letrsquos admit to the fact that we all go though the ups and downs and have to face many situationshellip This is part of being human

Just imagine not having a significant other to share the joy or sadness of an event or a shoulder to cry onhellip Just imagine not having a cell phone to communicate with your loved ones or a car to get you from point A to point B

Just like a marriage you start by meeting a prospective mate lover or significant other You then starting dating and checking on the possibility of a good fit

If that is the case you start focusing on the possibility of a future together and if the positive traits in that individual outweigh the negative and if you canrsquot imagine living without himher then the marriage is to be considered

The same thing goes for the perfect car for you You have specific unique preferences based on your personality and the purpose of the car purchase

Achieving wedded bliss with your vehicle choice

The right car that will suit your needs for years to come exists It just takes a little research planning budgeting and common sense We all dream of the luxury car that we many not be able to afford but till the time comes to make our dream car a reality we will need to settle for what is achievable practical fits our need and makes us proud of the choice we made Here are some practical questions to answer would you like to get a sporty car a regular 4 door sedan a van an SUV or a truck

Would you like a practical car you may drive in city highway or would you like to go off-roading on the weekends Would you need this vehicle to tow your boat to tow your camping trip supplies or would you like to have an elegant car to show off to your friends Now we have to consider the budget and whether we want to purchase a domestic or foreign vehicle the maintenance cost the fuel efficiency and the overall look and feel of the car

We have noticed that cars reflect their ownerrsquos personality so if you are someone who is sporty adventurous have a young spirit and are financially secure then a Bugatti Veyron Porsche 911 Ford Mustang McClaren MP4- 12C Lamborghini Egoista Limited edition Mercedes AMG SL SLK Roadster or E Class Cabriolet Convertible or the Chevy Camaro come to mind Pictured on page 31 is the 2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue by the way

If you are someone who is practical enjoy trips to the mountains or the beach work full time and look for a dependable and comfortable car then check out the Cadillac CTS (pictured above) XTS or DTS Super Subaru Impreza Lexus CT 200h Sport IS 250 or ES 350 Mercedes CS or E Class Chevy Equinox Chevy Tahoe and Toyota Prius V

Cadillac CTS photo copy General Motors

Pompano Today May 2016 31

If you are the family manwoman and are seeking safety comfortable seating and an affordable vehicle with low maintenance we noticed that most of the inquiries are SUV or Van related such as the Mercedes GLA SUB GLE SUV or GLS SUV Audi Q5 Audi Allroad Toyota Sienna Ford Fex Ford Transit Connect Cadillac Escalade Cadillac SRX and letrsquos not forget the Chevy Suburban

Now if you are the hunter or you enjoy off roading every now and then the vehicles we seesell and repair most are the Ford F150 Ford Super Duty Mercedes G Class Toyota TacomaTundra Range Rover Jeep Wrangler and the Chevy Silverado

What about the green energy conscious We have had inquiries about the Toyota Prius and the Rav 4 Hybrid Audi A3 E-tron Cadillac ELR or the Chevy Spark EV Now if you are in the market for a nice ride then you need to test drive the Cadillac CT6 Plug-in Hybrid or the BMW I8 and tell me if you enjoyed the drive

Yes even car owners and their vehicles can talk about wedded bliss So if you have the

perfect car that fits your image your lifestyle your personality then congratulations because you are lucky to get the perfect car In the meantime if you are looking for a vehicle and have questions or concerns feel free to contact us and we will be glad to assist you BY JAY GHANEM

2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue copy The Ford Motor Company 2016 All Rights Reserved

HOLLYWOOD CORNER

news from the west coast

32 Pompano Today May 2016

stars in your eyesBenjamin A Onyango on keeping the faith

and making people happyWhen did you know without any doubt that you wanted to act

Ive always acted in church youth plays that I wrote myself when I was a teenager in Nairobi Kenya In 1987 I came to the United States and while attending California State University Stanislaus in Turlock California formed a traditional dance group called Upendo Singers and Cultural Dancers We wrote plays and songs and performed them in cultural festivals universities and churches After graduating in 1992 I knew I wanted to act so I struck the tent and moved to Hollywood where I joined a funk rock band called PFO and also acted as a background performer in TV and feature films What inspires you to act

I am naturally a happy person and I love it when people are happy So I cant help it but crack jokes and poke fun at myself to make people around me laugh I am inspired by other people Their presence makes me want to do stuff talk dance sing shout etc When did you realize you had reached your goals as an actor

I do not think I have reached my goal as an actor yet To me acting is an evolving thing You get to a certain level and then you strive to get better than the level you currently are on Acting has many facets and therefore many challenges There is no one way to approach acting I therefore believe that I am still reaching for that goal and I must admit that the experience indeed is the best teacher because you indeed get better at it the more you keep doing it

What was your favorite role to date and why

My favorite role to date is the movie I am currently filming called Beautifully Broken The reason its my first role as a lead actor in a feature film and best of all I am playing the role of a real person who survived the Rwanda genocide that the story is about I played a lead role before in a short film called Kwame also based on a true story and was voted best actor at the 2009 Mexico International Film Festival Beautifully Broken is a story that connects very strongly with the human spirit I can almost guarantee that there will not be a

single dry eye in the theater when its screened Its a beautifully written story of hardship resilience survival and hope

What do you enjoy most about your career

What I enjoy most about my career is the ability to travel and see different people in different parts of the world I am a people person and nothing

makes me happier than meeting and making new friends

Can we expect a book from you

Thats funny you mentioned that I write lots of movie scripts and TV show scripts and I have always thought of writing a book So on my down days on the set of Beautifully Broken I started a book Ive been toying with in my head for a while The title of the book is God Moves When We Stop Helping Him Its more of a booklet than a book Its a book about encouragement

What is the best way for your fans to know what yoursquore working on FacebookTwitter Do you post for your own sites or do you have your assistants do the posts

I hope I do have fans LOL They can find out about what I am doing or working on my Facebook page facebookcomEMEBAND or Facebook fan page facebookcomBenjiBendrix Twitter twittercombochieng Instagram instagramcombenjibendrix and imdb imdbcomnamenm1335173ref_=nv_sr I also have a website benjibendrixcom that I use

Tell us something new something bold that yoursquove never told any other magazinehellipnews tip )

Recently I was fortunate to have my TV webseries Dysfunctionally Organized pitched to a major network and they agreed to have us do a spin-off of the show So we have started the writing process Its a major achievement for my team and myself since we have been working on the show for a long time Its not easy to get an audience with a content procurement person on a major network so we feel very fortunate I cant mention the network because of confidentiality reasons

Photo of Benjamin Ochieng aka Benji Bendrix (friend of Jimi Hendrix) copy Flygirl PhotographyLearn more about Benjamin atproimdbcomnamenm1335173afro-mericarecordscommindtricksmoviecom

BY MISTY SCHWARTZ

word scrambleTHE LAST WORD

a workout for your mind

Wedded bliss All of the words in this months Scramble are related to marriage and weddings Good luck Look for the answers online beginning May 15 at pompanotodaycom

Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answerodeutx gnir oeemcryn lsuipnatgnwo iaoynmtmr rogom slrofweermdiadbis eusenv shrue ovwsnwiddge rrdemia erdib psoesuerdbhteot rceepnoit errceat eiervsc

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Wednesday May 25

8am - 12pm

Stroke is the fifth leading cause of death in America and one of the leading causes of long-term disability These ldquobrain attacksrdquo

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The good news is up to 80 of strokes are preventable Join us May 25 to learn about your risk

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1030am - 1050amStroke Signs and Symptoms

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1130am - 1150amStroke in the YoungJonathan Harris MD

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SPIKE OUT

24 Pompano Today May 2016

AROUND TOWN

a look back charlottes web

your city(the Sample family)

THANKS TO DAN HOBBY AND THE POMPANO BEACH HISTORICAL SOCIETY FOR THE PHOTO AND INFORMATION ABOUT OUR CITYS RICH AND VARIED HISTORY TO LEARN MORE ABOUT OUR CITYS FASCINATING PAST VISIT POMPANOHISTORYCOM

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Members of the Sample family gather together ca 1920 Albert Neal Sample who had the house now known as the Sample-McDougald House constructed in 1916 is standing in the second row third from the viewers right The man kneeling in the first row is Neals younger brother John who prior to 1910 was the first member of the Sample family to settle in the Pompano area The house that Neal Sample built turns 100 this year

The non-profit Sample-McDougald House Preservation Society has a number of activities and events planned to commemorate the historic houses 100th birthday For information visit SampleMcDougaldHousecom or call 754-307-5446

Pompano Today May 2016 25

What the hell do I know about wedded bliss I am a long-term and certified member of the ldquohappily single never been marriedrdquo club Relationships take work people My comfort level of commitment is agreeing to feed walk and nurture the fluffy poodle I brought home from the shelter 5 years ago Beyond thathellipIrsquom selfish And letrsquos face it no onersquos ever gotten into an argument with a dog over a miscommunication Theyrsquore perfect in that respect

But weddings are wonderful events Friends and family gathering together for a festive happy occasion weddings almost always guarantee a good time The happy couple gazing into each otherrsquos eyes while reciting wedding vows Uncle Jim having a few too many at the open bar and trying out his salsa moves on the dance floor Ah the memories we can reminisce about for years to come And the expectation is that the new union will last forever

But how does that same couple reach their 50th year wedding anniversary 50 years of wedded bliss now thatrsquos an accomplishment Since I have already mentioned that I am not exactly a go-to advisor on the subject I did what I always do Letrsquos see what the internet says It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was ldquodonrsquot be selfish and always put your partner firstrdquo Hmmm

ldquoMake it quickrdquo This tip was found when referencing the science of being happily married While it doesnrsquot reference the actual marriage itself in summary I interpreted it to read if someone annoys you now they will most inevitably annoy you much more in the future So maybe not marrying material to begin with Interestingly enough I have this one covered with my three date rule What is the three date rule you ask If there is nothing you find annoying about an individual within the first three dateshellipgreen light means go there may be a future In my case this is a bit of a challenge to achieve

And then Oprahrsquos people had to weigh in on the subject I feel compelled to share a link to a great joke I found on Oprahcom during the search It involves a couple celebrating their 50th anniversary and a mule but no worries Itrsquos a completely clean joke You can see the full joke here oprahcomrelationshipsHappy-Marriage-Tips-Love-Advice

your city charlottes web

Wedded bliss the flip side

BY CHARLOTTE SUNDQUIST

It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was

dont be selfish and always put your partner first Hmmm

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Are you back Good Am I wrong in assuming this has some ties to the three date rule

I donrsquot know I certainly havenrsquot got all the answers But Irsquove just confirmed that single is a perfectly acceptable status for me And you single people that are tired of hearing ldquoWhen are you going to settle down and get marriedrdquo Donrsquot cavehellipdo what makes you happy There is not one version of the perfect relationship ideal If itrsquos a good fit for you so be it Wersquore all different after all

And to all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work Time to go walk the dog

To all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work

GET SMART

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Located in Pompano Beach since 1986 Open 7 Days a Week for all of your

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SMARTER BOLDER FASTER Whether yoursquore buying selling or renting contact

us for real solutions to your real estate needs

Blissful BusinessCan we be blissful in life Yes Can we be blissfully in love Yes Can we be blissful in business That depends on what your definition of a ldquoblissfulrdquo business is Is it working Monday through Thursday Is it dress down days Is it bringing in a new client or two each month Your bliss depends on what your definition is and what that looks like for your business model Letrsquos talk about a few ways you can be ldquoblissfulrdquo in business

Your Company Culture

What is the tone or perception of your company Are you rigid conservative and safe Or are you creative thought provoking and innovative You have the opportunity to transform your company culture a culture that attracts customers employees and partners Think about Google they have created a co-working collaborative happy environment at work for their employees Google has determined that their definition of ldquoblissfulrdquo is casual dress napping pods libraries and bring your dog to work days Think about what your culture is and try to create an atmosphere that people can enjoy

Better Matters

How can you perform tasks and projects ldquobetterrdquo to make it more manageable for your staff As leaders when we put our employees first the rewards are priceless What are you implementing internally to ldquobetterrdquo your employees to meet their sales goals client leads or individual quotas If you raise your standards the company will follow Being better should be the norm Better business creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo business

The Next Level

What is your definition of the reaching the next level Will reaching that level create a ldquoblissfulrdquo business Maybe yes or maybe no The next level for my business would be to add more employees and another office which would create bliss for me I would be free to do more networking and outside activities Determine and define what the ldquonext levelrdquo is for your company and see if it makes sense and creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo work environment for everyone involved

Itrsquos important to take a step back every now and then to remember why being an entrepreneur makes you happy

Determine your personal definition of a blissful business

BY TEANA MCDONALD

26 Pompano Today May 2016

working it special feature

your business special feature

Pompano Today May 2016 27

Kim Briesemeister greets us at the entrance to RMArsquos new digs a suite of comfortable welcoming offices right on Atlantic Boulevard As usual she is polished professional and enthusiastic about all of the great things happening in our city

ldquoWhat RMA brings is the technical expertise the realities of how to achieve the market visionhellipthe end result is creating a quality place that people want to live in and are proud to call home a place where businesses want to be and the city gets a certain great viberdquo Kim notes You can see this ldquoviberdquo in her eyes ndash and you know that Kim can see what the future looks like here in Pompano Beach and at that moment in time we can see it with her

What is ldquoitrdquo exactly ldquoItrdquo is what great places are made of Art Culture Safety Walkability Excitement The vision that Kim and her partner Chris Brown as well as all of the bright creative energetic staff we see is breathtaking And that feeling of hometown comfort that we all get when we return here whether after a trip to the next town over or a trip around the world is the wellspring from which all of the plans for our future originate Itrsquos still Pompano Beach but itrsquos far far better

As the publishers of this magazine for the past six years we have firsthand knowledge of all of the great people who live here and

the great things that attract more like-minded residents and visitors An airport A harbor The Intracoastal The lighthouse Thriving businesses A small-town feeling that is ever harder to maintain

Without a cohesive vision itrsquos likely that some if not all of these could be lost To paraphrase Benjamin Franklin ldquoFailing to plan is planning to failrdquo and there is no shortage of planning for this bright future going on at RMA

Speaking of that planning at that point Kim turns our attention to the consideration of an ldquoinnovation districtrdquo and this is where her enthusiasm is if possible even more palpable We are treated to a breathtaking visual tour of what is possible in such a district and oh my We can hardly contain ourselves What we ask is RMArsquos role in this endeavor ldquoWe are able to help the community go through the redevelopment processrdquo Kim responds adding that ldquo[the goal is that] in the end everyone says lsquoThis is the most amazing place to live This is where I want to bersquordquo

Yes Thatrsquos what we all want A place that wersquore even more proud to call home Proud of the looks on the faces of others when we tell them ldquoYes I live in Pompano Beachrdquo proud that we raised our children in a place where after theyrsquore grown they choose to return and put down roots of their own right here where they belong This is the place that we will create that will provide a solid foundation on which our city will continue to build on and thrive

As we prepare to depart earnest young professionals come bounding enthusiastically through the door (ok they werenrsquot really bounding ndash they are professionals ndash but they sure gave the impression of bounding)

ldquoAhhhrdquo we think to ourselves imagining an exchange with them ldquoDo you guys happen to live in Pompano Beach No Thatrsquos too badrdquo we say unable to help feeling just a tad smug ldquoItrsquos a great place to live work and playrdquo

Falling in love with the future of Pompano Beach

For the past 50 years the landscape of innovation has been dominated by places like Silicon Valleymdashsuburban corridors of spatially isolated corporate campuses accessible only by car with little emphasis on the quality of life or on integrating work housing and recreation

A new complementary urban model is now emerging giving rise to what we and others are calling ldquoinnovation districtsrdquo These districts by our definition are geographic areas where leading-edge anchor institutions and companies cluster and connect with start-ups business incubators and accelerators1 They are also physically compact transit-accessible and technically-wired and offer mixed-use housing office and retail

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts

LOOKING AHEAD TO AN EVEN BRIGHTER FUTUREFrom top left

bull Creating a Downtown Innovation District means incorporating all of the pieces of a successful plan

bull a sterling example of one such district

bull synergy in actionbull specific steps

to harness our unique strengths

bull targeted industriesbull another sterling

example this time of a complete street

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts What They Are

Economic Assets

Networking Assets

Physical Assets

InnovationEcosystemA synergistic relationship between people firms and place that facilitates idea generation and acceleratescommercialization

Target Industries

International Trade and Logistics

Marine Industry

Life Sciences and Biotechnology

Creative Design

Digital Media and Technology

Class A Office

Tourism

Advanced Materials and High-Tech Manufacturing

Redevelopment of Commercial and Residential

Alternatives Energy and Renewable Resources

AviationAerospace

Global Business Services

Global Media and Production

Headquarters and Management Operations

Human Resources and Higher Education

How to harness our ldquoDowntown Innovation Districtrdquo

1 Build a collaborative leadership network

2 Set a vision for growth to leverage our unique strengths

distinct economic clusters leading local and regional institutions and companies physical location and design advantages and other cultural attributes

3 Pursue talent and technology

4 Promote inclusive growthEquip workers with the skills they need to participate in the innovation economy or other secondary and tertiary jobs generated by innovative growth

5 Enhance access to capital

Cultural ArtsTourism

Industrial

Multi Purpose

DowntownInnovation

District

Target Industries

Education

Housing

Downtown Innovation

District

28 Pompano Today May 2016

INDULGENCESCOOL

MAKE A SPLASH

HOT PROPERTIES

hot properties cool indulgences festive weekends

the guide

1159 S FEDERAL HIGHWAYPOMPANO BEACH MARKETPLACEPHONE 954-946-7600M-F 9am-10pm SAT 8am-8pm SUN 10am-8pm

Therapeutic Massages and facialsMaking a healthy choice has never been easier

MASSAGEENVYCOM

SPAHHH DAYCAN YOU SPELL ldquoAAAAAHHHHHHrdquoThe fine folks at Massage Envy can From facials to therapeutic massages this delightful retreat has got you covered Enjoycopy davizro photography - Fotoliacom

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MAKE YOUR BEST MOVE WITH CENTURY 21 where youre a neighbor not a number If youre already here stop by for coffee If not what are you waiting for

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CENTURY 21 Wieder Realty 1221 S Powerline Rd Pompano Beach FL 33069 Phone 954-978-8300

Whether yoursquore buying selling or renting contact us for

your real estate needs

Open 7 days a week

C21Wiedercom

WEEKENDSFESTIVE

Volleyball with a cause Mark your calendars for the 31st Annual Volleyball Challenge on June 11th-12th 2016 at the Wyndham Sea Gardens (615 N Ocean Blvd Pompano Beach FL) Proceeds to benefit United Cerebral Palsy of South Florida Learn more at ucpsouthfloridaorg

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Pompano Today May 2016 29

A tasty and unique dine-in or drive-through experience

Proprietor Gentiana Kristo

bull Soups amp Sandwichesbull Premium Coffeebull Hand-Baked Goods

1631 S Cypress Road Pompano Beach FL 33060(954)933-3453chezcafecoffee

SHOW THE LOCALS SOME LOVEthe guide shopping

YOUR GUIDE TO GOOD EATSthe guide dining

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ALLOW US TO GUSH Really We are without exaggeration obsessedEvery once in awhile a life-changing product comes along You know the kind - the kind that makes you slap your forehead (at least metaphorically) and think Really I couldnt have thought of that

You probably could have But you didnt Thankfully Bill Glazer and his partner Rob Lembersky did Get Waisteds tagline is Free Yourself and this is not hyperbole Really We take ours everywhere - so long purse See ya crossbody Imagine - phone keys money cards and - look ma free hands and a slim silhouette Get Waisted is life-changing Stop by Glam Sparkle n Glitz and see for yourself It comes in several festive colors including basic black Oh It can go under your shirt too Amazing

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GET THOSE PANTS HEMMED Those sleeves altered You know you need toWell pay $1000 (ok $1 but still) to any reader who can prove to us that there is not onesinglething in his or her closet that couldnt use a little fine tailoringWe know You have a sewing kit So do we - three in fact How long has that blouse been sitting there Those pants Hmmm Its ok Thankfully we have Benjamins

We have never ever ever looked so put together as when the outstanding folks at Benjamins work their magic In fact were fighting the compulsion to buy more clothes () so we can go back

Now available exclusively at Glam Sparkle nrsquo Glitz The most fashionable functional and flattering way

to hold your keys phone and so much more

211 Commercial Blvd Lauderdale-by-the-Sea954-351-9171 getwaistedinfo

Check out GetWaistedFree Yourself

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take advantage of the seasonal savings

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1 2 0 0 N O C E A N B L V D P O M P A N O B E A C H F L

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M E E T A T T H E B E A C H

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30 Pompano Today May 2016

VROOM

all things automotiveyour rideThis monthrsquos theme is wedded bliss I started checking on an exact meaning for this title This is what was written in the English Dictionary ldquothe happiness of being marriedrdquo As I reflect back and think about life altogether whether marriage engagement purchase of a product or dealing with family and friendshellip

There are many factors in life that can afford you wedded bliss or the joy serenity and comfort of having the right lover husband or wife the right house or car the right job or titlehellip Now letrsquos admit to the fact that we all go though the ups and downs and have to face many situationshellip This is part of being human

Just imagine not having a significant other to share the joy or sadness of an event or a shoulder to cry onhellip Just imagine not having a cell phone to communicate with your loved ones or a car to get you from point A to point B

Just like a marriage you start by meeting a prospective mate lover or significant other You then starting dating and checking on the possibility of a good fit

If that is the case you start focusing on the possibility of a future together and if the positive traits in that individual outweigh the negative and if you canrsquot imagine living without himher then the marriage is to be considered

The same thing goes for the perfect car for you You have specific unique preferences based on your personality and the purpose of the car purchase

Achieving wedded bliss with your vehicle choice

The right car that will suit your needs for years to come exists It just takes a little research planning budgeting and common sense We all dream of the luxury car that we many not be able to afford but till the time comes to make our dream car a reality we will need to settle for what is achievable practical fits our need and makes us proud of the choice we made Here are some practical questions to answer would you like to get a sporty car a regular 4 door sedan a van an SUV or a truck

Would you like a practical car you may drive in city highway or would you like to go off-roading on the weekends Would you need this vehicle to tow your boat to tow your camping trip supplies or would you like to have an elegant car to show off to your friends Now we have to consider the budget and whether we want to purchase a domestic or foreign vehicle the maintenance cost the fuel efficiency and the overall look and feel of the car

We have noticed that cars reflect their ownerrsquos personality so if you are someone who is sporty adventurous have a young spirit and are financially secure then a Bugatti Veyron Porsche 911 Ford Mustang McClaren MP4- 12C Lamborghini Egoista Limited edition Mercedes AMG SL SLK Roadster or E Class Cabriolet Convertible or the Chevy Camaro come to mind Pictured on page 31 is the 2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue by the way

If you are someone who is practical enjoy trips to the mountains or the beach work full time and look for a dependable and comfortable car then check out the Cadillac CTS (pictured above) XTS or DTS Super Subaru Impreza Lexus CT 200h Sport IS 250 or ES 350 Mercedes CS or E Class Chevy Equinox Chevy Tahoe and Toyota Prius V

Cadillac CTS photo copy General Motors

Pompano Today May 2016 31

If you are the family manwoman and are seeking safety comfortable seating and an affordable vehicle with low maintenance we noticed that most of the inquiries are SUV or Van related such as the Mercedes GLA SUB GLE SUV or GLS SUV Audi Q5 Audi Allroad Toyota Sienna Ford Fex Ford Transit Connect Cadillac Escalade Cadillac SRX and letrsquos not forget the Chevy Suburban

Now if you are the hunter or you enjoy off roading every now and then the vehicles we seesell and repair most are the Ford F150 Ford Super Duty Mercedes G Class Toyota TacomaTundra Range Rover Jeep Wrangler and the Chevy Silverado

What about the green energy conscious We have had inquiries about the Toyota Prius and the Rav 4 Hybrid Audi A3 E-tron Cadillac ELR or the Chevy Spark EV Now if you are in the market for a nice ride then you need to test drive the Cadillac CT6 Plug-in Hybrid or the BMW I8 and tell me if you enjoyed the drive

Yes even car owners and their vehicles can talk about wedded bliss So if you have the

perfect car that fits your image your lifestyle your personality then congratulations because you are lucky to get the perfect car In the meantime if you are looking for a vehicle and have questions or concerns feel free to contact us and we will be glad to assist you BY JAY GHANEM

2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue copy The Ford Motor Company 2016 All Rights Reserved

HOLLYWOOD CORNER

news from the west coast

32 Pompano Today May 2016

stars in your eyesBenjamin A Onyango on keeping the faith

and making people happyWhen did you know without any doubt that you wanted to act

Ive always acted in church youth plays that I wrote myself when I was a teenager in Nairobi Kenya In 1987 I came to the United States and while attending California State University Stanislaus in Turlock California formed a traditional dance group called Upendo Singers and Cultural Dancers We wrote plays and songs and performed them in cultural festivals universities and churches After graduating in 1992 I knew I wanted to act so I struck the tent and moved to Hollywood where I joined a funk rock band called PFO and also acted as a background performer in TV and feature films What inspires you to act

I am naturally a happy person and I love it when people are happy So I cant help it but crack jokes and poke fun at myself to make people around me laugh I am inspired by other people Their presence makes me want to do stuff talk dance sing shout etc When did you realize you had reached your goals as an actor

I do not think I have reached my goal as an actor yet To me acting is an evolving thing You get to a certain level and then you strive to get better than the level you currently are on Acting has many facets and therefore many challenges There is no one way to approach acting I therefore believe that I am still reaching for that goal and I must admit that the experience indeed is the best teacher because you indeed get better at it the more you keep doing it

What was your favorite role to date and why

My favorite role to date is the movie I am currently filming called Beautifully Broken The reason its my first role as a lead actor in a feature film and best of all I am playing the role of a real person who survived the Rwanda genocide that the story is about I played a lead role before in a short film called Kwame also based on a true story and was voted best actor at the 2009 Mexico International Film Festival Beautifully Broken is a story that connects very strongly with the human spirit I can almost guarantee that there will not be a

single dry eye in the theater when its screened Its a beautifully written story of hardship resilience survival and hope

What do you enjoy most about your career

What I enjoy most about my career is the ability to travel and see different people in different parts of the world I am a people person and nothing

makes me happier than meeting and making new friends

Can we expect a book from you

Thats funny you mentioned that I write lots of movie scripts and TV show scripts and I have always thought of writing a book So on my down days on the set of Beautifully Broken I started a book Ive been toying with in my head for a while The title of the book is God Moves When We Stop Helping Him Its more of a booklet than a book Its a book about encouragement

What is the best way for your fans to know what yoursquore working on FacebookTwitter Do you post for your own sites or do you have your assistants do the posts

I hope I do have fans LOL They can find out about what I am doing or working on my Facebook page facebookcomEMEBAND or Facebook fan page facebookcomBenjiBendrix Twitter twittercombochieng Instagram instagramcombenjibendrix and imdb imdbcomnamenm1335173ref_=nv_sr I also have a website benjibendrixcom that I use

Tell us something new something bold that yoursquove never told any other magazinehellipnews tip )

Recently I was fortunate to have my TV webseries Dysfunctionally Organized pitched to a major network and they agreed to have us do a spin-off of the show So we have started the writing process Its a major achievement for my team and myself since we have been working on the show for a long time Its not easy to get an audience with a content procurement person on a major network so we feel very fortunate I cant mention the network because of confidentiality reasons

Photo of Benjamin Ochieng aka Benji Bendrix (friend of Jimi Hendrix) copy Flygirl PhotographyLearn more about Benjamin atproimdbcomnamenm1335173afro-mericarecordscommindtricksmoviecom

BY MISTY SCHWARTZ

word scrambleTHE LAST WORD

a workout for your mind

Wedded bliss All of the words in this months Scramble are related to marriage and weddings Good luck Look for the answers online beginning May 15 at pompanotodaycom

Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answerodeutx gnir oeemcryn lsuipnatgnwo iaoynmtmr rogom slrofweermdiadbis eusenv shrue ovwsnwiddge rrdemia erdib psoesuerdbhteot rceepnoit errceat eiervsc

James Stafford PhotographyfacebookcomJamesStaffordPhotography

jamesstaffordname(561) 201-1640

24 Pompano Today May 2016

AROUND TOWN

a look back charlottes web

your city(the Sample family)

THANKS TO DAN HOBBY AND THE POMPANO BEACH HISTORICAL SOCIETY FOR THE PHOTO AND INFORMATION ABOUT OUR CITYS RICH AND VARIED HISTORY TO LEARN MORE ABOUT OUR CITYS FASCINATING PAST VISIT POMPANOHISTORYCOM

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1 2 0 0 N O C E A N B L V D

P O M P A N O B E A C H F L

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Members of the Sample family gather together ca 1920 Albert Neal Sample who had the house now known as the Sample-McDougald House constructed in 1916 is standing in the second row third from the viewers right The man kneeling in the first row is Neals younger brother John who prior to 1910 was the first member of the Sample family to settle in the Pompano area The house that Neal Sample built turns 100 this year

The non-profit Sample-McDougald House Preservation Society has a number of activities and events planned to commemorate the historic houses 100th birthday For information visit SampleMcDougaldHousecom or call 754-307-5446

Pompano Today May 2016 25

What the hell do I know about wedded bliss I am a long-term and certified member of the ldquohappily single never been marriedrdquo club Relationships take work people My comfort level of commitment is agreeing to feed walk and nurture the fluffy poodle I brought home from the shelter 5 years ago Beyond thathellipIrsquom selfish And letrsquos face it no onersquos ever gotten into an argument with a dog over a miscommunication Theyrsquore perfect in that respect

But weddings are wonderful events Friends and family gathering together for a festive happy occasion weddings almost always guarantee a good time The happy couple gazing into each otherrsquos eyes while reciting wedding vows Uncle Jim having a few too many at the open bar and trying out his salsa moves on the dance floor Ah the memories we can reminisce about for years to come And the expectation is that the new union will last forever

But how does that same couple reach their 50th year wedding anniversary 50 years of wedded bliss now thatrsquos an accomplishment Since I have already mentioned that I am not exactly a go-to advisor on the subject I did what I always do Letrsquos see what the internet says It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was ldquodonrsquot be selfish and always put your partner firstrdquo Hmmm

ldquoMake it quickrdquo This tip was found when referencing the science of being happily married While it doesnrsquot reference the actual marriage itself in summary I interpreted it to read if someone annoys you now they will most inevitably annoy you much more in the future So maybe not marrying material to begin with Interestingly enough I have this one covered with my three date rule What is the three date rule you ask If there is nothing you find annoying about an individual within the first three dateshellipgreen light means go there may be a future In my case this is a bit of a challenge to achieve

And then Oprahrsquos people had to weigh in on the subject I feel compelled to share a link to a great joke I found on Oprahcom during the search It involves a couple celebrating their 50th anniversary and a mule but no worries Itrsquos a completely clean joke You can see the full joke here oprahcomrelationshipsHappy-Marriage-Tips-Love-Advice

your city charlottes web

Wedded bliss the flip side

BY CHARLOTTE SUNDQUIST

It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was

dont be selfish and always put your partner first Hmmm

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Presents

Are you back Good Am I wrong in assuming this has some ties to the three date rule

I donrsquot know I certainly havenrsquot got all the answers But Irsquove just confirmed that single is a perfectly acceptable status for me And you single people that are tired of hearing ldquoWhen are you going to settle down and get marriedrdquo Donrsquot cavehellipdo what makes you happy There is not one version of the perfect relationship ideal If itrsquos a good fit for you so be it Wersquore all different after all

And to all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work Time to go walk the dog

To all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work

GET SMART

your business

Located in Pompano Beach since 1986 Open 7 Days a Week for all of your

Real Estate needs amp goals

C21Wiedercom 954-978-8300

1221 S Powerline Rd Pompano Beach FL 33069

SMARTER BOLDER FASTER Whether yoursquore buying selling or renting contact

us for real solutions to your real estate needs

Blissful BusinessCan we be blissful in life Yes Can we be blissfully in love Yes Can we be blissful in business That depends on what your definition of a ldquoblissfulrdquo business is Is it working Monday through Thursday Is it dress down days Is it bringing in a new client or two each month Your bliss depends on what your definition is and what that looks like for your business model Letrsquos talk about a few ways you can be ldquoblissfulrdquo in business

Your Company Culture

What is the tone or perception of your company Are you rigid conservative and safe Or are you creative thought provoking and innovative You have the opportunity to transform your company culture a culture that attracts customers employees and partners Think about Google they have created a co-working collaborative happy environment at work for their employees Google has determined that their definition of ldquoblissfulrdquo is casual dress napping pods libraries and bring your dog to work days Think about what your culture is and try to create an atmosphere that people can enjoy

Better Matters

How can you perform tasks and projects ldquobetterrdquo to make it more manageable for your staff As leaders when we put our employees first the rewards are priceless What are you implementing internally to ldquobetterrdquo your employees to meet their sales goals client leads or individual quotas If you raise your standards the company will follow Being better should be the norm Better business creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo business

The Next Level

What is your definition of the reaching the next level Will reaching that level create a ldquoblissfulrdquo business Maybe yes or maybe no The next level for my business would be to add more employees and another office which would create bliss for me I would be free to do more networking and outside activities Determine and define what the ldquonext levelrdquo is for your company and see if it makes sense and creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo work environment for everyone involved

Itrsquos important to take a step back every now and then to remember why being an entrepreneur makes you happy

Determine your personal definition of a blissful business

BY TEANA MCDONALD

26 Pompano Today May 2016

working it special feature

your business special feature

Pompano Today May 2016 27

Kim Briesemeister greets us at the entrance to RMArsquos new digs a suite of comfortable welcoming offices right on Atlantic Boulevard As usual she is polished professional and enthusiastic about all of the great things happening in our city

ldquoWhat RMA brings is the technical expertise the realities of how to achieve the market visionhellipthe end result is creating a quality place that people want to live in and are proud to call home a place where businesses want to be and the city gets a certain great viberdquo Kim notes You can see this ldquoviberdquo in her eyes ndash and you know that Kim can see what the future looks like here in Pompano Beach and at that moment in time we can see it with her

What is ldquoitrdquo exactly ldquoItrdquo is what great places are made of Art Culture Safety Walkability Excitement The vision that Kim and her partner Chris Brown as well as all of the bright creative energetic staff we see is breathtaking And that feeling of hometown comfort that we all get when we return here whether after a trip to the next town over or a trip around the world is the wellspring from which all of the plans for our future originate Itrsquos still Pompano Beach but itrsquos far far better

As the publishers of this magazine for the past six years we have firsthand knowledge of all of the great people who live here and

the great things that attract more like-minded residents and visitors An airport A harbor The Intracoastal The lighthouse Thriving businesses A small-town feeling that is ever harder to maintain

Without a cohesive vision itrsquos likely that some if not all of these could be lost To paraphrase Benjamin Franklin ldquoFailing to plan is planning to failrdquo and there is no shortage of planning for this bright future going on at RMA

Speaking of that planning at that point Kim turns our attention to the consideration of an ldquoinnovation districtrdquo and this is where her enthusiasm is if possible even more palpable We are treated to a breathtaking visual tour of what is possible in such a district and oh my We can hardly contain ourselves What we ask is RMArsquos role in this endeavor ldquoWe are able to help the community go through the redevelopment processrdquo Kim responds adding that ldquo[the goal is that] in the end everyone says lsquoThis is the most amazing place to live This is where I want to bersquordquo

Yes Thatrsquos what we all want A place that wersquore even more proud to call home Proud of the looks on the faces of others when we tell them ldquoYes I live in Pompano Beachrdquo proud that we raised our children in a place where after theyrsquore grown they choose to return and put down roots of their own right here where they belong This is the place that we will create that will provide a solid foundation on which our city will continue to build on and thrive

As we prepare to depart earnest young professionals come bounding enthusiastically through the door (ok they werenrsquot really bounding ndash they are professionals ndash but they sure gave the impression of bounding)

ldquoAhhhrdquo we think to ourselves imagining an exchange with them ldquoDo you guys happen to live in Pompano Beach No Thatrsquos too badrdquo we say unable to help feeling just a tad smug ldquoItrsquos a great place to live work and playrdquo

Falling in love with the future of Pompano Beach

For the past 50 years the landscape of innovation has been dominated by places like Silicon Valleymdashsuburban corridors of spatially isolated corporate campuses accessible only by car with little emphasis on the quality of life or on integrating work housing and recreation

A new complementary urban model is now emerging giving rise to what we and others are calling ldquoinnovation districtsrdquo These districts by our definition are geographic areas where leading-edge anchor institutions and companies cluster and connect with start-ups business incubators and accelerators1 They are also physically compact transit-accessible and technically-wired and offer mixed-use housing office and retail

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts

LOOKING AHEAD TO AN EVEN BRIGHTER FUTUREFrom top left

bull Creating a Downtown Innovation District means incorporating all of the pieces of a successful plan

bull a sterling example of one such district

bull synergy in actionbull specific steps

to harness our unique strengths

bull targeted industriesbull another sterling

example this time of a complete street

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts What They Are

Economic Assets

Networking Assets

Physical Assets

InnovationEcosystemA synergistic relationship between people firms and place that facilitates idea generation and acceleratescommercialization

Target Industries

International Trade and Logistics

Marine Industry

Life Sciences and Biotechnology

Creative Design

Digital Media and Technology

Class A Office

Tourism

Advanced Materials and High-Tech Manufacturing

Redevelopment of Commercial and Residential

Alternatives Energy and Renewable Resources

AviationAerospace

Global Business Services

Global Media and Production

Headquarters and Management Operations

Human Resources and Higher Education

How to harness our ldquoDowntown Innovation Districtrdquo

1 Build a collaborative leadership network

2 Set a vision for growth to leverage our unique strengths

distinct economic clusters leading local and regional institutions and companies physical location and design advantages and other cultural attributes

3 Pursue talent and technology

4 Promote inclusive growthEquip workers with the skills they need to participate in the innovation economy or other secondary and tertiary jobs generated by innovative growth

5 Enhance access to capital

Cultural ArtsTourism

Industrial

Multi Purpose

DowntownInnovation

District

Target Industries

Education

Housing

Downtown Innovation

District

28 Pompano Today May 2016

INDULGENCESCOOL

MAKE A SPLASH

HOT PROPERTIES

hot properties cool indulgences festive weekends

the guide

1159 S FEDERAL HIGHWAYPOMPANO BEACH MARKETPLACEPHONE 954-946-7600M-F 9am-10pm SAT 8am-8pm SUN 10am-8pm

Therapeutic Massages and facialsMaking a healthy choice has never been easier

MASSAGEENVYCOM

SPAHHH DAYCAN YOU SPELL ldquoAAAAAHHHHHHrdquoThe fine folks at Massage Envy can From facials to therapeutic massages this delightful retreat has got you covered Enjoycopy davizro photography - Fotoliacom

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MAKE YOUR BEST MOVE WITH CENTURY 21 where youre a neighbor not a number If youre already here stop by for coffee If not what are you waiting for

copy o

lga

volo

din

a -

Fot

oli

ac

om

CENTURY 21 Wieder Realty 1221 S Powerline Rd Pompano Beach FL 33069 Phone 954-978-8300

Whether yoursquore buying selling or renting contact us for

your real estate needs

Open 7 days a week

C21Wiedercom

WEEKENDSFESTIVE

Volleyball with a cause Mark your calendars for the 31st Annual Volleyball Challenge on June 11th-12th 2016 at the Wyndham Sea Gardens (615 N Ocean Blvd Pompano Beach FL) Proceeds to benefit United Cerebral Palsy of South Florida Learn more at ucpsouthfloridaorg

|||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||

copy smuki Fotoliacom

Pompano Today May 2016 29

A tasty and unique dine-in or drive-through experience

Proprietor Gentiana Kristo

bull Soups amp Sandwichesbull Premium Coffeebull Hand-Baked Goods

1631 S Cypress Road Pompano Beach FL 33060(954)933-3453chezcafecoffee

SHOW THE LOCALS SOME LOVEthe guide shopping

YOUR GUIDE TO GOOD EATSthe guide dining

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ALLOW US TO GUSH Really We are without exaggeration obsessedEvery once in awhile a life-changing product comes along You know the kind - the kind that makes you slap your forehead (at least metaphorically) and think Really I couldnt have thought of that

You probably could have But you didnt Thankfully Bill Glazer and his partner Rob Lembersky did Get Waisteds tagline is Free Yourself and this is not hyperbole Really We take ours everywhere - so long purse See ya crossbody Imagine - phone keys money cards and - look ma free hands and a slim silhouette Get Waisted is life-changing Stop by Glam Sparkle n Glitz and see for yourself It comes in several festive colors including basic black Oh It can go under your shirt too Amazing

|||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||

GET THOSE PANTS HEMMED Those sleeves altered You know you need toWell pay $1000 (ok $1 but still) to any reader who can prove to us that there is not onesinglething in his or her closet that couldnt use a little fine tailoringWe know You have a sewing kit So do we - three in fact How long has that blouse been sitting there Those pants Hmmm Its ok Thankfully we have Benjamins

We have never ever ever looked so put together as when the outstanding folks at Benjamins work their magic In fact were fighting the compulsion to buy more clothes () so we can go back

Now available exclusively at Glam Sparkle nrsquo Glitz The most fashionable functional and flattering way

to hold your keys phone and so much more

211 Commercial Blvd Lauderdale-by-the-Sea954-351-9171 getwaistedinfo

Check out GetWaistedFree Yourself

TM

A L L D A Y M E E T I N G P A C K A G E F R O M $ 8 5 A T T E N D E E

This summer treat your guests to a

beachfront meeting experience and

take advantage of the seasonal savings

T O S T A R T P L A N N I N G 9 5 4 7 8 2 0 1 0 0 O R P O M P A N O M A R R I O T T C O M

1 2 0 0 N O C E A N B L V D P O M P A N O B E A C H F L

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M E E T A T T H E B E A C H

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30 Pompano Today May 2016

VROOM

all things automotiveyour rideThis monthrsquos theme is wedded bliss I started checking on an exact meaning for this title This is what was written in the English Dictionary ldquothe happiness of being marriedrdquo As I reflect back and think about life altogether whether marriage engagement purchase of a product or dealing with family and friendshellip

There are many factors in life that can afford you wedded bliss or the joy serenity and comfort of having the right lover husband or wife the right house or car the right job or titlehellip Now letrsquos admit to the fact that we all go though the ups and downs and have to face many situationshellip This is part of being human

Just imagine not having a significant other to share the joy or sadness of an event or a shoulder to cry onhellip Just imagine not having a cell phone to communicate with your loved ones or a car to get you from point A to point B

Just like a marriage you start by meeting a prospective mate lover or significant other You then starting dating and checking on the possibility of a good fit

If that is the case you start focusing on the possibility of a future together and if the positive traits in that individual outweigh the negative and if you canrsquot imagine living without himher then the marriage is to be considered

The same thing goes for the perfect car for you You have specific unique preferences based on your personality and the purpose of the car purchase

Achieving wedded bliss with your vehicle choice

The right car that will suit your needs for years to come exists It just takes a little research planning budgeting and common sense We all dream of the luxury car that we many not be able to afford but till the time comes to make our dream car a reality we will need to settle for what is achievable practical fits our need and makes us proud of the choice we made Here are some practical questions to answer would you like to get a sporty car a regular 4 door sedan a van an SUV or a truck

Would you like a practical car you may drive in city highway or would you like to go off-roading on the weekends Would you need this vehicle to tow your boat to tow your camping trip supplies or would you like to have an elegant car to show off to your friends Now we have to consider the budget and whether we want to purchase a domestic or foreign vehicle the maintenance cost the fuel efficiency and the overall look and feel of the car

We have noticed that cars reflect their ownerrsquos personality so if you are someone who is sporty adventurous have a young spirit and are financially secure then a Bugatti Veyron Porsche 911 Ford Mustang McClaren MP4- 12C Lamborghini Egoista Limited edition Mercedes AMG SL SLK Roadster or E Class Cabriolet Convertible or the Chevy Camaro come to mind Pictured on page 31 is the 2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue by the way

If you are someone who is practical enjoy trips to the mountains or the beach work full time and look for a dependable and comfortable car then check out the Cadillac CTS (pictured above) XTS or DTS Super Subaru Impreza Lexus CT 200h Sport IS 250 or ES 350 Mercedes CS or E Class Chevy Equinox Chevy Tahoe and Toyota Prius V

Cadillac CTS photo copy General Motors

Pompano Today May 2016 31

If you are the family manwoman and are seeking safety comfortable seating and an affordable vehicle with low maintenance we noticed that most of the inquiries are SUV or Van related such as the Mercedes GLA SUB GLE SUV or GLS SUV Audi Q5 Audi Allroad Toyota Sienna Ford Fex Ford Transit Connect Cadillac Escalade Cadillac SRX and letrsquos not forget the Chevy Suburban

Now if you are the hunter or you enjoy off roading every now and then the vehicles we seesell and repair most are the Ford F150 Ford Super Duty Mercedes G Class Toyota TacomaTundra Range Rover Jeep Wrangler and the Chevy Silverado

What about the green energy conscious We have had inquiries about the Toyota Prius and the Rav 4 Hybrid Audi A3 E-tron Cadillac ELR or the Chevy Spark EV Now if you are in the market for a nice ride then you need to test drive the Cadillac CT6 Plug-in Hybrid or the BMW I8 and tell me if you enjoyed the drive

Yes even car owners and their vehicles can talk about wedded bliss So if you have the

perfect car that fits your image your lifestyle your personality then congratulations because you are lucky to get the perfect car In the meantime if you are looking for a vehicle and have questions or concerns feel free to contact us and we will be glad to assist you BY JAY GHANEM

2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue copy The Ford Motor Company 2016 All Rights Reserved

HOLLYWOOD CORNER

news from the west coast

32 Pompano Today May 2016

stars in your eyesBenjamin A Onyango on keeping the faith

and making people happyWhen did you know without any doubt that you wanted to act

Ive always acted in church youth plays that I wrote myself when I was a teenager in Nairobi Kenya In 1987 I came to the United States and while attending California State University Stanislaus in Turlock California formed a traditional dance group called Upendo Singers and Cultural Dancers We wrote plays and songs and performed them in cultural festivals universities and churches After graduating in 1992 I knew I wanted to act so I struck the tent and moved to Hollywood where I joined a funk rock band called PFO and also acted as a background performer in TV and feature films What inspires you to act

I am naturally a happy person and I love it when people are happy So I cant help it but crack jokes and poke fun at myself to make people around me laugh I am inspired by other people Their presence makes me want to do stuff talk dance sing shout etc When did you realize you had reached your goals as an actor

I do not think I have reached my goal as an actor yet To me acting is an evolving thing You get to a certain level and then you strive to get better than the level you currently are on Acting has many facets and therefore many challenges There is no one way to approach acting I therefore believe that I am still reaching for that goal and I must admit that the experience indeed is the best teacher because you indeed get better at it the more you keep doing it

What was your favorite role to date and why

My favorite role to date is the movie I am currently filming called Beautifully Broken The reason its my first role as a lead actor in a feature film and best of all I am playing the role of a real person who survived the Rwanda genocide that the story is about I played a lead role before in a short film called Kwame also based on a true story and was voted best actor at the 2009 Mexico International Film Festival Beautifully Broken is a story that connects very strongly with the human spirit I can almost guarantee that there will not be a

single dry eye in the theater when its screened Its a beautifully written story of hardship resilience survival and hope

What do you enjoy most about your career

What I enjoy most about my career is the ability to travel and see different people in different parts of the world I am a people person and nothing

makes me happier than meeting and making new friends

Can we expect a book from you

Thats funny you mentioned that I write lots of movie scripts and TV show scripts and I have always thought of writing a book So on my down days on the set of Beautifully Broken I started a book Ive been toying with in my head for a while The title of the book is God Moves When We Stop Helping Him Its more of a booklet than a book Its a book about encouragement

What is the best way for your fans to know what yoursquore working on FacebookTwitter Do you post for your own sites or do you have your assistants do the posts

I hope I do have fans LOL They can find out about what I am doing or working on my Facebook page facebookcomEMEBAND or Facebook fan page facebookcomBenjiBendrix Twitter twittercombochieng Instagram instagramcombenjibendrix and imdb imdbcomnamenm1335173ref_=nv_sr I also have a website benjibendrixcom that I use

Tell us something new something bold that yoursquove never told any other magazinehellipnews tip )

Recently I was fortunate to have my TV webseries Dysfunctionally Organized pitched to a major network and they agreed to have us do a spin-off of the show So we have started the writing process Its a major achievement for my team and myself since we have been working on the show for a long time Its not easy to get an audience with a content procurement person on a major network so we feel very fortunate I cant mention the network because of confidentiality reasons

Photo of Benjamin Ochieng aka Benji Bendrix (friend of Jimi Hendrix) copy Flygirl PhotographyLearn more about Benjamin atproimdbcomnamenm1335173afro-mericarecordscommindtricksmoviecom

BY MISTY SCHWARTZ

word scrambleTHE LAST WORD

a workout for your mind

Wedded bliss All of the words in this months Scramble are related to marriage and weddings Good luck Look for the answers online beginning May 15 at pompanotodaycom

Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answerodeutx gnir oeemcryn lsuipnatgnwo iaoynmtmr rogom slrofweermdiadbis eusenv shrue ovwsnwiddge rrdemia erdib psoesuerdbhteot rceepnoit errceat eiervsc

James Stafford PhotographyfacebookcomJamesStaffordPhotography

jamesstaffordname(561) 201-1640

Pompano Today May 2016 25

What the hell do I know about wedded bliss I am a long-term and certified member of the ldquohappily single never been marriedrdquo club Relationships take work people My comfort level of commitment is agreeing to feed walk and nurture the fluffy poodle I brought home from the shelter 5 years ago Beyond thathellipIrsquom selfish And letrsquos face it no onersquos ever gotten into an argument with a dog over a miscommunication Theyrsquore perfect in that respect

But weddings are wonderful events Friends and family gathering together for a festive happy occasion weddings almost always guarantee a good time The happy couple gazing into each otherrsquos eyes while reciting wedding vows Uncle Jim having a few too many at the open bar and trying out his salsa moves on the dance floor Ah the memories we can reminisce about for years to come And the expectation is that the new union will last forever

But how does that same couple reach their 50th year wedding anniversary 50 years of wedded bliss now thatrsquos an accomplishment Since I have already mentioned that I am not exactly a go-to advisor on the subject I did what I always do Letrsquos see what the internet says It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was ldquodonrsquot be selfish and always put your partner firstrdquo Hmmm

ldquoMake it quickrdquo This tip was found when referencing the science of being happily married While it doesnrsquot reference the actual marriage itself in summary I interpreted it to read if someone annoys you now they will most inevitably annoy you much more in the future So maybe not marrying material to begin with Interestingly enough I have this one covered with my three date rule What is the three date rule you ask If there is nothing you find annoying about an individual within the first three dateshellipgreen light means go there may be a future In my case this is a bit of a challenge to achieve

And then Oprahrsquos people had to weigh in on the subject I feel compelled to share a link to a great joke I found on Oprahcom during the search It involves a couple celebrating their 50th anniversary and a mule but no worries Itrsquos a completely clean joke You can see the full joke here oprahcomrelationshipsHappy-Marriage-Tips-Love-Advice

your city charlottes web

Wedded bliss the flip side

BY CHARLOTTE SUNDQUIST

It was ironic that one of the first suggestions that came up was

dont be selfish and always put your partner first Hmmm

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Are you back Good Am I wrong in assuming this has some ties to the three date rule

I donrsquot know I certainly havenrsquot got all the answers But Irsquove just confirmed that single is a perfectly acceptable status for me And you single people that are tired of hearing ldquoWhen are you going to settle down and get marriedrdquo Donrsquot cavehellipdo what makes you happy There is not one version of the perfect relationship ideal If itrsquos a good fit for you so be it Wersquore all different after all

And to all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work Time to go walk the dog

To all you happily married people congratulations A toast to your success and ability to make those relationships work

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Blissful BusinessCan we be blissful in life Yes Can we be blissfully in love Yes Can we be blissful in business That depends on what your definition of a ldquoblissfulrdquo business is Is it working Monday through Thursday Is it dress down days Is it bringing in a new client or two each month Your bliss depends on what your definition is and what that looks like for your business model Letrsquos talk about a few ways you can be ldquoblissfulrdquo in business

Your Company Culture

What is the tone or perception of your company Are you rigid conservative and safe Or are you creative thought provoking and innovative You have the opportunity to transform your company culture a culture that attracts customers employees and partners Think about Google they have created a co-working collaborative happy environment at work for their employees Google has determined that their definition of ldquoblissfulrdquo is casual dress napping pods libraries and bring your dog to work days Think about what your culture is and try to create an atmosphere that people can enjoy

Better Matters

How can you perform tasks and projects ldquobetterrdquo to make it more manageable for your staff As leaders when we put our employees first the rewards are priceless What are you implementing internally to ldquobetterrdquo your employees to meet their sales goals client leads or individual quotas If you raise your standards the company will follow Being better should be the norm Better business creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo business

The Next Level

What is your definition of the reaching the next level Will reaching that level create a ldquoblissfulrdquo business Maybe yes or maybe no The next level for my business would be to add more employees and another office which would create bliss for me I would be free to do more networking and outside activities Determine and define what the ldquonext levelrdquo is for your company and see if it makes sense and creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo work environment for everyone involved

Itrsquos important to take a step back every now and then to remember why being an entrepreneur makes you happy

Determine your personal definition of a blissful business

BY TEANA MCDONALD

26 Pompano Today May 2016

working it special feature

your business special feature

Pompano Today May 2016 27

Kim Briesemeister greets us at the entrance to RMArsquos new digs a suite of comfortable welcoming offices right on Atlantic Boulevard As usual she is polished professional and enthusiastic about all of the great things happening in our city

ldquoWhat RMA brings is the technical expertise the realities of how to achieve the market visionhellipthe end result is creating a quality place that people want to live in and are proud to call home a place where businesses want to be and the city gets a certain great viberdquo Kim notes You can see this ldquoviberdquo in her eyes ndash and you know that Kim can see what the future looks like here in Pompano Beach and at that moment in time we can see it with her

What is ldquoitrdquo exactly ldquoItrdquo is what great places are made of Art Culture Safety Walkability Excitement The vision that Kim and her partner Chris Brown as well as all of the bright creative energetic staff we see is breathtaking And that feeling of hometown comfort that we all get when we return here whether after a trip to the next town over or a trip around the world is the wellspring from which all of the plans for our future originate Itrsquos still Pompano Beach but itrsquos far far better

As the publishers of this magazine for the past six years we have firsthand knowledge of all of the great people who live here and

the great things that attract more like-minded residents and visitors An airport A harbor The Intracoastal The lighthouse Thriving businesses A small-town feeling that is ever harder to maintain

Without a cohesive vision itrsquos likely that some if not all of these could be lost To paraphrase Benjamin Franklin ldquoFailing to plan is planning to failrdquo and there is no shortage of planning for this bright future going on at RMA

Speaking of that planning at that point Kim turns our attention to the consideration of an ldquoinnovation districtrdquo and this is where her enthusiasm is if possible even more palpable We are treated to a breathtaking visual tour of what is possible in such a district and oh my We can hardly contain ourselves What we ask is RMArsquos role in this endeavor ldquoWe are able to help the community go through the redevelopment processrdquo Kim responds adding that ldquo[the goal is that] in the end everyone says lsquoThis is the most amazing place to live This is where I want to bersquordquo

Yes Thatrsquos what we all want A place that wersquore even more proud to call home Proud of the looks on the faces of others when we tell them ldquoYes I live in Pompano Beachrdquo proud that we raised our children in a place where after theyrsquore grown they choose to return and put down roots of their own right here where they belong This is the place that we will create that will provide a solid foundation on which our city will continue to build on and thrive

As we prepare to depart earnest young professionals come bounding enthusiastically through the door (ok they werenrsquot really bounding ndash they are professionals ndash but they sure gave the impression of bounding)

ldquoAhhhrdquo we think to ourselves imagining an exchange with them ldquoDo you guys happen to live in Pompano Beach No Thatrsquos too badrdquo we say unable to help feeling just a tad smug ldquoItrsquos a great place to live work and playrdquo

Falling in love with the future of Pompano Beach

For the past 50 years the landscape of innovation has been dominated by places like Silicon Valleymdashsuburban corridors of spatially isolated corporate campuses accessible only by car with little emphasis on the quality of life or on integrating work housing and recreation

A new complementary urban model is now emerging giving rise to what we and others are calling ldquoinnovation districtsrdquo These districts by our definition are geographic areas where leading-edge anchor institutions and companies cluster and connect with start-ups business incubators and accelerators1 They are also physically compact transit-accessible and technically-wired and offer mixed-use housing office and retail

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts

LOOKING AHEAD TO AN EVEN BRIGHTER FUTUREFrom top left

bull Creating a Downtown Innovation District means incorporating all of the pieces of a successful plan

bull a sterling example of one such district

bull synergy in actionbull specific steps

to harness our unique strengths

bull targeted industriesbull another sterling

example this time of a complete street

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts What They Are

Economic Assets

Networking Assets

Physical Assets

InnovationEcosystemA synergistic relationship between people firms and place that facilitates idea generation and acceleratescommercialization

Target Industries

International Trade and Logistics

Marine Industry

Life Sciences and Biotechnology

Creative Design

Digital Media and Technology

Class A Office

Tourism

Advanced Materials and High-Tech Manufacturing

Redevelopment of Commercial and Residential

Alternatives Energy and Renewable Resources

AviationAerospace

Global Business Services

Global Media and Production

Headquarters and Management Operations

Human Resources and Higher Education

How to harness our ldquoDowntown Innovation Districtrdquo

1 Build a collaborative leadership network

2 Set a vision for growth to leverage our unique strengths

distinct economic clusters leading local and regional institutions and companies physical location and design advantages and other cultural attributes

3 Pursue talent and technology

4 Promote inclusive growthEquip workers with the skills they need to participate in the innovation economy or other secondary and tertiary jobs generated by innovative growth

5 Enhance access to capital

Cultural ArtsTourism

Industrial

Multi Purpose

DowntownInnovation

District

Target Industries

Education

Housing

Downtown Innovation

District

28 Pompano Today May 2016

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T O S T A R T P L A N N I N G 9 5 4 7 8 2 0 1 0 0 O R P O M P A N O M A R R I O T T C O M

1 2 0 0 N O C E A N B L V D P O M P A N O B E A C H F L

copy 2016 Marriott International Inc

M E E T A T T H E B E A C H

FLLPM All Day Meeting Ad (PT) 3625x225indd 1 41216 621 PM

30 Pompano Today May 2016

VROOM

all things automotiveyour rideThis monthrsquos theme is wedded bliss I started checking on an exact meaning for this title This is what was written in the English Dictionary ldquothe happiness of being marriedrdquo As I reflect back and think about life altogether whether marriage engagement purchase of a product or dealing with family and friendshellip

There are many factors in life that can afford you wedded bliss or the joy serenity and comfort of having the right lover husband or wife the right house or car the right job or titlehellip Now letrsquos admit to the fact that we all go though the ups and downs and have to face many situationshellip This is part of being human

Just imagine not having a significant other to share the joy or sadness of an event or a shoulder to cry onhellip Just imagine not having a cell phone to communicate with your loved ones or a car to get you from point A to point B

Just like a marriage you start by meeting a prospective mate lover or significant other You then starting dating and checking on the possibility of a good fit

If that is the case you start focusing on the possibility of a future together and if the positive traits in that individual outweigh the negative and if you canrsquot imagine living without himher then the marriage is to be considered

The same thing goes for the perfect car for you You have specific unique preferences based on your personality and the purpose of the car purchase

Achieving wedded bliss with your vehicle choice

The right car that will suit your needs for years to come exists It just takes a little research planning budgeting and common sense We all dream of the luxury car that we many not be able to afford but till the time comes to make our dream car a reality we will need to settle for what is achievable practical fits our need and makes us proud of the choice we made Here are some practical questions to answer would you like to get a sporty car a regular 4 door sedan a van an SUV or a truck

Would you like a practical car you may drive in city highway or would you like to go off-roading on the weekends Would you need this vehicle to tow your boat to tow your camping trip supplies or would you like to have an elegant car to show off to your friends Now we have to consider the budget and whether we want to purchase a domestic or foreign vehicle the maintenance cost the fuel efficiency and the overall look and feel of the car

We have noticed that cars reflect their ownerrsquos personality so if you are someone who is sporty adventurous have a young spirit and are financially secure then a Bugatti Veyron Porsche 911 Ford Mustang McClaren MP4- 12C Lamborghini Egoista Limited edition Mercedes AMG SL SLK Roadster or E Class Cabriolet Convertible or the Chevy Camaro come to mind Pictured on page 31 is the 2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue by the way

If you are someone who is practical enjoy trips to the mountains or the beach work full time and look for a dependable and comfortable car then check out the Cadillac CTS (pictured above) XTS or DTS Super Subaru Impreza Lexus CT 200h Sport IS 250 or ES 350 Mercedes CS or E Class Chevy Equinox Chevy Tahoe and Toyota Prius V

Cadillac CTS photo copy General Motors

Pompano Today May 2016 31

If you are the family manwoman and are seeking safety comfortable seating and an affordable vehicle with low maintenance we noticed that most of the inquiries are SUV or Van related such as the Mercedes GLA SUB GLE SUV or GLS SUV Audi Q5 Audi Allroad Toyota Sienna Ford Fex Ford Transit Connect Cadillac Escalade Cadillac SRX and letrsquos not forget the Chevy Suburban

Now if you are the hunter or you enjoy off roading every now and then the vehicles we seesell and repair most are the Ford F150 Ford Super Duty Mercedes G Class Toyota TacomaTundra Range Rover Jeep Wrangler and the Chevy Silverado

What about the green energy conscious We have had inquiries about the Toyota Prius and the Rav 4 Hybrid Audi A3 E-tron Cadillac ELR or the Chevy Spark EV Now if you are in the market for a nice ride then you need to test drive the Cadillac CT6 Plug-in Hybrid or the BMW I8 and tell me if you enjoyed the drive

Yes even car owners and their vehicles can talk about wedded bliss So if you have the

perfect car that fits your image your lifestyle your personality then congratulations because you are lucky to get the perfect car In the meantime if you are looking for a vehicle and have questions or concerns feel free to contact us and we will be glad to assist you BY JAY GHANEM

2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue copy The Ford Motor Company 2016 All Rights Reserved

HOLLYWOOD CORNER

news from the west coast

32 Pompano Today May 2016

stars in your eyesBenjamin A Onyango on keeping the faith

and making people happyWhen did you know without any doubt that you wanted to act

Ive always acted in church youth plays that I wrote myself when I was a teenager in Nairobi Kenya In 1987 I came to the United States and while attending California State University Stanislaus in Turlock California formed a traditional dance group called Upendo Singers and Cultural Dancers We wrote plays and songs and performed them in cultural festivals universities and churches After graduating in 1992 I knew I wanted to act so I struck the tent and moved to Hollywood where I joined a funk rock band called PFO and also acted as a background performer in TV and feature films What inspires you to act

I am naturally a happy person and I love it when people are happy So I cant help it but crack jokes and poke fun at myself to make people around me laugh I am inspired by other people Their presence makes me want to do stuff talk dance sing shout etc When did you realize you had reached your goals as an actor

I do not think I have reached my goal as an actor yet To me acting is an evolving thing You get to a certain level and then you strive to get better than the level you currently are on Acting has many facets and therefore many challenges There is no one way to approach acting I therefore believe that I am still reaching for that goal and I must admit that the experience indeed is the best teacher because you indeed get better at it the more you keep doing it

What was your favorite role to date and why

My favorite role to date is the movie I am currently filming called Beautifully Broken The reason its my first role as a lead actor in a feature film and best of all I am playing the role of a real person who survived the Rwanda genocide that the story is about I played a lead role before in a short film called Kwame also based on a true story and was voted best actor at the 2009 Mexico International Film Festival Beautifully Broken is a story that connects very strongly with the human spirit I can almost guarantee that there will not be a

single dry eye in the theater when its screened Its a beautifully written story of hardship resilience survival and hope

What do you enjoy most about your career

What I enjoy most about my career is the ability to travel and see different people in different parts of the world I am a people person and nothing

makes me happier than meeting and making new friends

Can we expect a book from you

Thats funny you mentioned that I write lots of movie scripts and TV show scripts and I have always thought of writing a book So on my down days on the set of Beautifully Broken I started a book Ive been toying with in my head for a while The title of the book is God Moves When We Stop Helping Him Its more of a booklet than a book Its a book about encouragement

What is the best way for your fans to know what yoursquore working on FacebookTwitter Do you post for your own sites or do you have your assistants do the posts

I hope I do have fans LOL They can find out about what I am doing or working on my Facebook page facebookcomEMEBAND or Facebook fan page facebookcomBenjiBendrix Twitter twittercombochieng Instagram instagramcombenjibendrix and imdb imdbcomnamenm1335173ref_=nv_sr I also have a website benjibendrixcom that I use

Tell us something new something bold that yoursquove never told any other magazinehellipnews tip )

Recently I was fortunate to have my TV webseries Dysfunctionally Organized pitched to a major network and they agreed to have us do a spin-off of the show So we have started the writing process Its a major achievement for my team and myself since we have been working on the show for a long time Its not easy to get an audience with a content procurement person on a major network so we feel very fortunate I cant mention the network because of confidentiality reasons

Photo of Benjamin Ochieng aka Benji Bendrix (friend of Jimi Hendrix) copy Flygirl PhotographyLearn more about Benjamin atproimdbcomnamenm1335173afro-mericarecordscommindtricksmoviecom

BY MISTY SCHWARTZ

word scrambleTHE LAST WORD

a workout for your mind

Wedded bliss All of the words in this months Scramble are related to marriage and weddings Good luck Look for the answers online beginning May 15 at pompanotodaycom

Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answerodeutx gnir oeemcryn lsuipnatgnwo iaoynmtmr rogom slrofweermdiadbis eusenv shrue ovwsnwiddge rrdemia erdib psoesuerdbhteot rceepnoit errceat eiervsc

James Stafford PhotographyfacebookcomJamesStaffordPhotography

jamesstaffordname(561) 201-1640

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your business

Located in Pompano Beach since 1986 Open 7 Days a Week for all of your

Real Estate needs amp goals

C21Wiedercom 954-978-8300

1221 S Powerline Rd Pompano Beach FL 33069

SMARTER BOLDER FASTER Whether yoursquore buying selling or renting contact

us for real solutions to your real estate needs

Blissful BusinessCan we be blissful in life Yes Can we be blissfully in love Yes Can we be blissful in business That depends on what your definition of a ldquoblissfulrdquo business is Is it working Monday through Thursday Is it dress down days Is it bringing in a new client or two each month Your bliss depends on what your definition is and what that looks like for your business model Letrsquos talk about a few ways you can be ldquoblissfulrdquo in business

Your Company Culture

What is the tone or perception of your company Are you rigid conservative and safe Or are you creative thought provoking and innovative You have the opportunity to transform your company culture a culture that attracts customers employees and partners Think about Google they have created a co-working collaborative happy environment at work for their employees Google has determined that their definition of ldquoblissfulrdquo is casual dress napping pods libraries and bring your dog to work days Think about what your culture is and try to create an atmosphere that people can enjoy

Better Matters

How can you perform tasks and projects ldquobetterrdquo to make it more manageable for your staff As leaders when we put our employees first the rewards are priceless What are you implementing internally to ldquobetterrdquo your employees to meet their sales goals client leads or individual quotas If you raise your standards the company will follow Being better should be the norm Better business creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo business

The Next Level

What is your definition of the reaching the next level Will reaching that level create a ldquoblissfulrdquo business Maybe yes or maybe no The next level for my business would be to add more employees and another office which would create bliss for me I would be free to do more networking and outside activities Determine and define what the ldquonext levelrdquo is for your company and see if it makes sense and creates a ldquoblissfulrdquo work environment for everyone involved

Itrsquos important to take a step back every now and then to remember why being an entrepreneur makes you happy

Determine your personal definition of a blissful business

BY TEANA MCDONALD

26 Pompano Today May 2016

working it special feature

your business special feature

Pompano Today May 2016 27

Kim Briesemeister greets us at the entrance to RMArsquos new digs a suite of comfortable welcoming offices right on Atlantic Boulevard As usual she is polished professional and enthusiastic about all of the great things happening in our city

ldquoWhat RMA brings is the technical expertise the realities of how to achieve the market visionhellipthe end result is creating a quality place that people want to live in and are proud to call home a place where businesses want to be and the city gets a certain great viberdquo Kim notes You can see this ldquoviberdquo in her eyes ndash and you know that Kim can see what the future looks like here in Pompano Beach and at that moment in time we can see it with her

What is ldquoitrdquo exactly ldquoItrdquo is what great places are made of Art Culture Safety Walkability Excitement The vision that Kim and her partner Chris Brown as well as all of the bright creative energetic staff we see is breathtaking And that feeling of hometown comfort that we all get when we return here whether after a trip to the next town over or a trip around the world is the wellspring from which all of the plans for our future originate Itrsquos still Pompano Beach but itrsquos far far better

As the publishers of this magazine for the past six years we have firsthand knowledge of all of the great people who live here and

the great things that attract more like-minded residents and visitors An airport A harbor The Intracoastal The lighthouse Thriving businesses A small-town feeling that is ever harder to maintain

Without a cohesive vision itrsquos likely that some if not all of these could be lost To paraphrase Benjamin Franklin ldquoFailing to plan is planning to failrdquo and there is no shortage of planning for this bright future going on at RMA

Speaking of that planning at that point Kim turns our attention to the consideration of an ldquoinnovation districtrdquo and this is where her enthusiasm is if possible even more palpable We are treated to a breathtaking visual tour of what is possible in such a district and oh my We can hardly contain ourselves What we ask is RMArsquos role in this endeavor ldquoWe are able to help the community go through the redevelopment processrdquo Kim responds adding that ldquo[the goal is that] in the end everyone says lsquoThis is the most amazing place to live This is where I want to bersquordquo

Yes Thatrsquos what we all want A place that wersquore even more proud to call home Proud of the looks on the faces of others when we tell them ldquoYes I live in Pompano Beachrdquo proud that we raised our children in a place where after theyrsquore grown they choose to return and put down roots of their own right here where they belong This is the place that we will create that will provide a solid foundation on which our city will continue to build on and thrive

As we prepare to depart earnest young professionals come bounding enthusiastically through the door (ok they werenrsquot really bounding ndash they are professionals ndash but they sure gave the impression of bounding)

ldquoAhhhrdquo we think to ourselves imagining an exchange with them ldquoDo you guys happen to live in Pompano Beach No Thatrsquos too badrdquo we say unable to help feeling just a tad smug ldquoItrsquos a great place to live work and playrdquo

Falling in love with the future of Pompano Beach

For the past 50 years the landscape of innovation has been dominated by places like Silicon Valleymdashsuburban corridors of spatially isolated corporate campuses accessible only by car with little emphasis on the quality of life or on integrating work housing and recreation

A new complementary urban model is now emerging giving rise to what we and others are calling ldquoinnovation districtsrdquo These districts by our definition are geographic areas where leading-edge anchor institutions and companies cluster and connect with start-ups business incubators and accelerators1 They are also physically compact transit-accessible and technically-wired and offer mixed-use housing office and retail

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts

LOOKING AHEAD TO AN EVEN BRIGHTER FUTUREFrom top left

bull Creating a Downtown Innovation District means incorporating all of the pieces of a successful plan

bull a sterling example of one such district

bull synergy in actionbull specific steps

to harness our unique strengths

bull targeted industriesbull another sterling

example this time of a complete street

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts What They Are

Economic Assets

Networking Assets

Physical Assets

InnovationEcosystemA synergistic relationship between people firms and place that facilitates idea generation and acceleratescommercialization

Target Industries

International Trade and Logistics

Marine Industry

Life Sciences and Biotechnology

Creative Design

Digital Media and Technology

Class A Office

Tourism

Advanced Materials and High-Tech Manufacturing

Redevelopment of Commercial and Residential

Alternatives Energy and Renewable Resources

AviationAerospace

Global Business Services

Global Media and Production

Headquarters and Management Operations

Human Resources and Higher Education

How to harness our ldquoDowntown Innovation Districtrdquo

1 Build a collaborative leadership network

2 Set a vision for growth to leverage our unique strengths

distinct economic clusters leading local and regional institutions and companies physical location and design advantages and other cultural attributes

3 Pursue talent and technology

4 Promote inclusive growthEquip workers with the skills they need to participate in the innovation economy or other secondary and tertiary jobs generated by innovative growth

5 Enhance access to capital

Cultural ArtsTourism

Industrial

Multi Purpose

DowntownInnovation

District

Target Industries

Education

Housing

Downtown Innovation

District

28 Pompano Today May 2016

INDULGENCESCOOL

MAKE A SPLASH

HOT PROPERTIES

hot properties cool indulgences festive weekends

the guide

1159 S FEDERAL HIGHWAYPOMPANO BEACH MARKETPLACEPHONE 954-946-7600M-F 9am-10pm SAT 8am-8pm SUN 10am-8pm

Therapeutic Massages and facialsMaking a healthy choice has never been easier

MASSAGEENVYCOM

SPAHHH DAYCAN YOU SPELL ldquoAAAAAHHHHHHrdquoThe fine folks at Massage Envy can From facials to therapeutic massages this delightful retreat has got you covered Enjoycopy davizro photography - Fotoliacom

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MAKE YOUR BEST MOVE WITH CENTURY 21 where youre a neighbor not a number If youre already here stop by for coffee If not what are you waiting for

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CENTURY 21 Wieder Realty 1221 S Powerline Rd Pompano Beach FL 33069 Phone 954-978-8300

Whether yoursquore buying selling or renting contact us for

your real estate needs

Open 7 days a week

C21Wiedercom

WEEKENDSFESTIVE

Volleyball with a cause Mark your calendars for the 31st Annual Volleyball Challenge on June 11th-12th 2016 at the Wyndham Sea Gardens (615 N Ocean Blvd Pompano Beach FL) Proceeds to benefit United Cerebral Palsy of South Florida Learn more at ucpsouthfloridaorg

|||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||

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Pompano Today May 2016 29

A tasty and unique dine-in or drive-through experience

Proprietor Gentiana Kristo

bull Soups amp Sandwichesbull Premium Coffeebull Hand-Baked Goods

1631 S Cypress Road Pompano Beach FL 33060(954)933-3453chezcafecoffee

SHOW THE LOCALS SOME LOVEthe guide shopping

YOUR GUIDE TO GOOD EATSthe guide dining

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ALLOW US TO GUSH Really We are without exaggeration obsessedEvery once in awhile a life-changing product comes along You know the kind - the kind that makes you slap your forehead (at least metaphorically) and think Really I couldnt have thought of that

You probably could have But you didnt Thankfully Bill Glazer and his partner Rob Lembersky did Get Waisteds tagline is Free Yourself and this is not hyperbole Really We take ours everywhere - so long purse See ya crossbody Imagine - phone keys money cards and - look ma free hands and a slim silhouette Get Waisted is life-changing Stop by Glam Sparkle n Glitz and see for yourself It comes in several festive colors including basic black Oh It can go under your shirt too Amazing

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GET THOSE PANTS HEMMED Those sleeves altered You know you need toWell pay $1000 (ok $1 but still) to any reader who can prove to us that there is not onesinglething in his or her closet that couldnt use a little fine tailoringWe know You have a sewing kit So do we - three in fact How long has that blouse been sitting there Those pants Hmmm Its ok Thankfully we have Benjamins

We have never ever ever looked so put together as when the outstanding folks at Benjamins work their magic In fact were fighting the compulsion to buy more clothes () so we can go back

Now available exclusively at Glam Sparkle nrsquo Glitz The most fashionable functional and flattering way

to hold your keys phone and so much more

211 Commercial Blvd Lauderdale-by-the-Sea954-351-9171 getwaistedinfo

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30 Pompano Today May 2016

VROOM

all things automotiveyour rideThis monthrsquos theme is wedded bliss I started checking on an exact meaning for this title This is what was written in the English Dictionary ldquothe happiness of being marriedrdquo As I reflect back and think about life altogether whether marriage engagement purchase of a product or dealing with family and friendshellip

There are many factors in life that can afford you wedded bliss or the joy serenity and comfort of having the right lover husband or wife the right house or car the right job or titlehellip Now letrsquos admit to the fact that we all go though the ups and downs and have to face many situationshellip This is part of being human

Just imagine not having a significant other to share the joy or sadness of an event or a shoulder to cry onhellip Just imagine not having a cell phone to communicate with your loved ones or a car to get you from point A to point B

Just like a marriage you start by meeting a prospective mate lover or significant other You then starting dating and checking on the possibility of a good fit

If that is the case you start focusing on the possibility of a future together and if the positive traits in that individual outweigh the negative and if you canrsquot imagine living without himher then the marriage is to be considered

The same thing goes for the perfect car for you You have specific unique preferences based on your personality and the purpose of the car purchase

Achieving wedded bliss with your vehicle choice

The right car that will suit your needs for years to come exists It just takes a little research planning budgeting and common sense We all dream of the luxury car that we many not be able to afford but till the time comes to make our dream car a reality we will need to settle for what is achievable practical fits our need and makes us proud of the choice we made Here are some practical questions to answer would you like to get a sporty car a regular 4 door sedan a van an SUV or a truck

Would you like a practical car you may drive in city highway or would you like to go off-roading on the weekends Would you need this vehicle to tow your boat to tow your camping trip supplies or would you like to have an elegant car to show off to your friends Now we have to consider the budget and whether we want to purchase a domestic or foreign vehicle the maintenance cost the fuel efficiency and the overall look and feel of the car

We have noticed that cars reflect their ownerrsquos personality so if you are someone who is sporty adventurous have a young spirit and are financially secure then a Bugatti Veyron Porsche 911 Ford Mustang McClaren MP4- 12C Lamborghini Egoista Limited edition Mercedes AMG SL SLK Roadster or E Class Cabriolet Convertible or the Chevy Camaro come to mind Pictured on page 31 is the 2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue by the way

If you are someone who is practical enjoy trips to the mountains or the beach work full time and look for a dependable and comfortable car then check out the Cadillac CTS (pictured above) XTS or DTS Super Subaru Impreza Lexus CT 200h Sport IS 250 or ES 350 Mercedes CS or E Class Chevy Equinox Chevy Tahoe and Toyota Prius V

Cadillac CTS photo copy General Motors

Pompano Today May 2016 31

If you are the family manwoman and are seeking safety comfortable seating and an affordable vehicle with low maintenance we noticed that most of the inquiries are SUV or Van related such as the Mercedes GLA SUB GLE SUV or GLS SUV Audi Q5 Audi Allroad Toyota Sienna Ford Fex Ford Transit Connect Cadillac Escalade Cadillac SRX and letrsquos not forget the Chevy Suburban

Now if you are the hunter or you enjoy off roading every now and then the vehicles we seesell and repair most are the Ford F150 Ford Super Duty Mercedes G Class Toyota TacomaTundra Range Rover Jeep Wrangler and the Chevy Silverado

What about the green energy conscious We have had inquiries about the Toyota Prius and the Rav 4 Hybrid Audi A3 E-tron Cadillac ELR or the Chevy Spark EV Now if you are in the market for a nice ride then you need to test drive the Cadillac CT6 Plug-in Hybrid or the BMW I8 and tell me if you enjoyed the drive

Yes even car owners and their vehicles can talk about wedded bliss So if you have the

perfect car that fits your image your lifestyle your personality then congratulations because you are lucky to get the perfect car In the meantime if you are looking for a vehicle and have questions or concerns feel free to contact us and we will be glad to assist you BY JAY GHANEM

2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue copy The Ford Motor Company 2016 All Rights Reserved

HOLLYWOOD CORNER

news from the west coast

32 Pompano Today May 2016

stars in your eyesBenjamin A Onyango on keeping the faith

and making people happyWhen did you know without any doubt that you wanted to act

Ive always acted in church youth plays that I wrote myself when I was a teenager in Nairobi Kenya In 1987 I came to the United States and while attending California State University Stanislaus in Turlock California formed a traditional dance group called Upendo Singers and Cultural Dancers We wrote plays and songs and performed them in cultural festivals universities and churches After graduating in 1992 I knew I wanted to act so I struck the tent and moved to Hollywood where I joined a funk rock band called PFO and also acted as a background performer in TV and feature films What inspires you to act

I am naturally a happy person and I love it when people are happy So I cant help it but crack jokes and poke fun at myself to make people around me laugh I am inspired by other people Their presence makes me want to do stuff talk dance sing shout etc When did you realize you had reached your goals as an actor

I do not think I have reached my goal as an actor yet To me acting is an evolving thing You get to a certain level and then you strive to get better than the level you currently are on Acting has many facets and therefore many challenges There is no one way to approach acting I therefore believe that I am still reaching for that goal and I must admit that the experience indeed is the best teacher because you indeed get better at it the more you keep doing it

What was your favorite role to date and why

My favorite role to date is the movie I am currently filming called Beautifully Broken The reason its my first role as a lead actor in a feature film and best of all I am playing the role of a real person who survived the Rwanda genocide that the story is about I played a lead role before in a short film called Kwame also based on a true story and was voted best actor at the 2009 Mexico International Film Festival Beautifully Broken is a story that connects very strongly with the human spirit I can almost guarantee that there will not be a

single dry eye in the theater when its screened Its a beautifully written story of hardship resilience survival and hope

What do you enjoy most about your career

What I enjoy most about my career is the ability to travel and see different people in different parts of the world I am a people person and nothing

makes me happier than meeting and making new friends

Can we expect a book from you

Thats funny you mentioned that I write lots of movie scripts and TV show scripts and I have always thought of writing a book So on my down days on the set of Beautifully Broken I started a book Ive been toying with in my head for a while The title of the book is God Moves When We Stop Helping Him Its more of a booklet than a book Its a book about encouragement

What is the best way for your fans to know what yoursquore working on FacebookTwitter Do you post for your own sites or do you have your assistants do the posts

I hope I do have fans LOL They can find out about what I am doing or working on my Facebook page facebookcomEMEBAND or Facebook fan page facebookcomBenjiBendrix Twitter twittercombochieng Instagram instagramcombenjibendrix and imdb imdbcomnamenm1335173ref_=nv_sr I also have a website benjibendrixcom that I use

Tell us something new something bold that yoursquove never told any other magazinehellipnews tip )

Recently I was fortunate to have my TV webseries Dysfunctionally Organized pitched to a major network and they agreed to have us do a spin-off of the show So we have started the writing process Its a major achievement for my team and myself since we have been working on the show for a long time Its not easy to get an audience with a content procurement person on a major network so we feel very fortunate I cant mention the network because of confidentiality reasons

Photo of Benjamin Ochieng aka Benji Bendrix (friend of Jimi Hendrix) copy Flygirl PhotographyLearn more about Benjamin atproimdbcomnamenm1335173afro-mericarecordscommindtricksmoviecom

BY MISTY SCHWARTZ

word scrambleTHE LAST WORD

a workout for your mind

Wedded bliss All of the words in this months Scramble are related to marriage and weddings Good luck Look for the answers online beginning May 15 at pompanotodaycom

Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answerodeutx gnir oeemcryn lsuipnatgnwo iaoynmtmr rogom slrofweermdiadbis eusenv shrue ovwsnwiddge rrdemia erdib psoesuerdbhteot rceepnoit errceat eiervsc

James Stafford PhotographyfacebookcomJamesStaffordPhotography

jamesstaffordname(561) 201-1640

your business special feature

Pompano Today May 2016 27

Kim Briesemeister greets us at the entrance to RMArsquos new digs a suite of comfortable welcoming offices right on Atlantic Boulevard As usual she is polished professional and enthusiastic about all of the great things happening in our city

ldquoWhat RMA brings is the technical expertise the realities of how to achieve the market visionhellipthe end result is creating a quality place that people want to live in and are proud to call home a place where businesses want to be and the city gets a certain great viberdquo Kim notes You can see this ldquoviberdquo in her eyes ndash and you know that Kim can see what the future looks like here in Pompano Beach and at that moment in time we can see it with her

What is ldquoitrdquo exactly ldquoItrdquo is what great places are made of Art Culture Safety Walkability Excitement The vision that Kim and her partner Chris Brown as well as all of the bright creative energetic staff we see is breathtaking And that feeling of hometown comfort that we all get when we return here whether after a trip to the next town over or a trip around the world is the wellspring from which all of the plans for our future originate Itrsquos still Pompano Beach but itrsquos far far better

As the publishers of this magazine for the past six years we have firsthand knowledge of all of the great people who live here and

the great things that attract more like-minded residents and visitors An airport A harbor The Intracoastal The lighthouse Thriving businesses A small-town feeling that is ever harder to maintain

Without a cohesive vision itrsquos likely that some if not all of these could be lost To paraphrase Benjamin Franklin ldquoFailing to plan is planning to failrdquo and there is no shortage of planning for this bright future going on at RMA

Speaking of that planning at that point Kim turns our attention to the consideration of an ldquoinnovation districtrdquo and this is where her enthusiasm is if possible even more palpable We are treated to a breathtaking visual tour of what is possible in such a district and oh my We can hardly contain ourselves What we ask is RMArsquos role in this endeavor ldquoWe are able to help the community go through the redevelopment processrdquo Kim responds adding that ldquo[the goal is that] in the end everyone says lsquoThis is the most amazing place to live This is where I want to bersquordquo

Yes Thatrsquos what we all want A place that wersquore even more proud to call home Proud of the looks on the faces of others when we tell them ldquoYes I live in Pompano Beachrdquo proud that we raised our children in a place where after theyrsquore grown they choose to return and put down roots of their own right here where they belong This is the place that we will create that will provide a solid foundation on which our city will continue to build on and thrive

As we prepare to depart earnest young professionals come bounding enthusiastically through the door (ok they werenrsquot really bounding ndash they are professionals ndash but they sure gave the impression of bounding)

ldquoAhhhrdquo we think to ourselves imagining an exchange with them ldquoDo you guys happen to live in Pompano Beach No Thatrsquos too badrdquo we say unable to help feeling just a tad smug ldquoItrsquos a great place to live work and playrdquo

Falling in love with the future of Pompano Beach

For the past 50 years the landscape of innovation has been dominated by places like Silicon Valleymdashsuburban corridors of spatially isolated corporate campuses accessible only by car with little emphasis on the quality of life or on integrating work housing and recreation

A new complementary urban model is now emerging giving rise to what we and others are calling ldquoinnovation districtsrdquo These districts by our definition are geographic areas where leading-edge anchor institutions and companies cluster and connect with start-ups business incubators and accelerators1 They are also physically compact transit-accessible and technically-wired and offer mixed-use housing office and retail

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts

LOOKING AHEAD TO AN EVEN BRIGHTER FUTUREFrom top left

bull Creating a Downtown Innovation District means incorporating all of the pieces of a successful plan

bull a sterling example of one such district

bull synergy in actionbull specific steps

to harness our unique strengths

bull targeted industriesbull another sterling

example this time of a complete street

The Rise of Urban Innovation Districts What They Are

Economic Assets

Networking Assets

Physical Assets

InnovationEcosystemA synergistic relationship between people firms and place that facilitates idea generation and acceleratescommercialization

Target Industries

International Trade and Logistics

Marine Industry

Life Sciences and Biotechnology

Creative Design

Digital Media and Technology

Class A Office

Tourism

Advanced Materials and High-Tech Manufacturing

Redevelopment of Commercial and Residential

Alternatives Energy and Renewable Resources

AviationAerospace

Global Business Services

Global Media and Production

Headquarters and Management Operations

Human Resources and Higher Education

How to harness our ldquoDowntown Innovation Districtrdquo

1 Build a collaborative leadership network

2 Set a vision for growth to leverage our unique strengths

distinct economic clusters leading local and regional institutions and companies physical location and design advantages and other cultural attributes

3 Pursue talent and technology

4 Promote inclusive growthEquip workers with the skills they need to participate in the innovation economy or other secondary and tertiary jobs generated by innovative growth

5 Enhance access to capital

Cultural ArtsTourism

Industrial

Multi Purpose

DowntownInnovation

District

Target Industries

Education

Housing

Downtown Innovation

District

28 Pompano Today May 2016

INDULGENCESCOOL

MAKE A SPLASH

HOT PROPERTIES

hot properties cool indulgences festive weekends

the guide

1159 S FEDERAL HIGHWAYPOMPANO BEACH MARKETPLACEPHONE 954-946-7600M-F 9am-10pm SAT 8am-8pm SUN 10am-8pm

Therapeutic Massages and facialsMaking a healthy choice has never been easier

MASSAGEENVYCOM

SPAHHH DAYCAN YOU SPELL ldquoAAAAAHHHHHHrdquoThe fine folks at Massage Envy can From facials to therapeutic massages this delightful retreat has got you covered Enjoycopy davizro photography - Fotoliacom

||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||

MAKE YOUR BEST MOVE WITH CENTURY 21 where youre a neighbor not a number If youre already here stop by for coffee If not what are you waiting for

copy o

lga

volo

din

a -

Fot

oli

ac

om

CENTURY 21 Wieder Realty 1221 S Powerline Rd Pompano Beach FL 33069 Phone 954-978-8300

Whether yoursquore buying selling or renting contact us for

your real estate needs

Open 7 days a week

C21Wiedercom

WEEKENDSFESTIVE

Volleyball with a cause Mark your calendars for the 31st Annual Volleyball Challenge on June 11th-12th 2016 at the Wyndham Sea Gardens (615 N Ocean Blvd Pompano Beach FL) Proceeds to benefit United Cerebral Palsy of South Florida Learn more at ucpsouthfloridaorg

|||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||

copy smuki Fotoliacom

Pompano Today May 2016 29

A tasty and unique dine-in or drive-through experience

Proprietor Gentiana Kristo

bull Soups amp Sandwichesbull Premium Coffeebull Hand-Baked Goods

1631 S Cypress Road Pompano Beach FL 33060(954)933-3453chezcafecoffee

SHOW THE LOCALS SOME LOVEthe guide shopping

YOUR GUIDE TO GOOD EATSthe guide dining

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ALLOW US TO GUSH Really We are without exaggeration obsessedEvery once in awhile a life-changing product comes along You know the kind - the kind that makes you slap your forehead (at least metaphorically) and think Really I couldnt have thought of that

You probably could have But you didnt Thankfully Bill Glazer and his partner Rob Lembersky did Get Waisteds tagline is Free Yourself and this is not hyperbole Really We take ours everywhere - so long purse See ya crossbody Imagine - phone keys money cards and - look ma free hands and a slim silhouette Get Waisted is life-changing Stop by Glam Sparkle n Glitz and see for yourself It comes in several festive colors including basic black Oh It can go under your shirt too Amazing

|||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||

GET THOSE PANTS HEMMED Those sleeves altered You know you need toWell pay $1000 (ok $1 but still) to any reader who can prove to us that there is not onesinglething in his or her closet that couldnt use a little fine tailoringWe know You have a sewing kit So do we - three in fact How long has that blouse been sitting there Those pants Hmmm Its ok Thankfully we have Benjamins

We have never ever ever looked so put together as when the outstanding folks at Benjamins work their magic In fact were fighting the compulsion to buy more clothes () so we can go back

Now available exclusively at Glam Sparkle nrsquo Glitz The most fashionable functional and flattering way

to hold your keys phone and so much more

211 Commercial Blvd Lauderdale-by-the-Sea954-351-9171 getwaistedinfo

Check out GetWaistedFree Yourself

TM

A L L D A Y M E E T I N G P A C K A G E F R O M $ 8 5 A T T E N D E E

This summer treat your guests to a

beachfront meeting experience and

take advantage of the seasonal savings

T O S T A R T P L A N N I N G 9 5 4 7 8 2 0 1 0 0 O R P O M P A N O M A R R I O T T C O M

1 2 0 0 N O C E A N B L V D P O M P A N O B E A C H F L

copy 2016 Marriott International Inc

M E E T A T T H E B E A C H

FLLPM All Day Meeting Ad (PT) 3625x225indd 1 41216 621 PM

30 Pompano Today May 2016

VROOM

all things automotiveyour rideThis monthrsquos theme is wedded bliss I started checking on an exact meaning for this title This is what was written in the English Dictionary ldquothe happiness of being marriedrdquo As I reflect back and think about life altogether whether marriage engagement purchase of a product or dealing with family and friendshellip

There are many factors in life that can afford you wedded bliss or the joy serenity and comfort of having the right lover husband or wife the right house or car the right job or titlehellip Now letrsquos admit to the fact that we all go though the ups and downs and have to face many situationshellip This is part of being human

Just imagine not having a significant other to share the joy or sadness of an event or a shoulder to cry onhellip Just imagine not having a cell phone to communicate with your loved ones or a car to get you from point A to point B

Just like a marriage you start by meeting a prospective mate lover or significant other You then starting dating and checking on the possibility of a good fit

If that is the case you start focusing on the possibility of a future together and if the positive traits in that individual outweigh the negative and if you canrsquot imagine living without himher then the marriage is to be considered

The same thing goes for the perfect car for you You have specific unique preferences based on your personality and the purpose of the car purchase

Achieving wedded bliss with your vehicle choice

The right car that will suit your needs for years to come exists It just takes a little research planning budgeting and common sense We all dream of the luxury car that we many not be able to afford but till the time comes to make our dream car a reality we will need to settle for what is achievable practical fits our need and makes us proud of the choice we made Here are some practical questions to answer would you like to get a sporty car a regular 4 door sedan a van an SUV or a truck

Would you like a practical car you may drive in city highway or would you like to go off-roading on the weekends Would you need this vehicle to tow your boat to tow your camping trip supplies or would you like to have an elegant car to show off to your friends Now we have to consider the budget and whether we want to purchase a domestic or foreign vehicle the maintenance cost the fuel efficiency and the overall look and feel of the car

We have noticed that cars reflect their ownerrsquos personality so if you are someone who is sporty adventurous have a young spirit and are financially secure then a Bugatti Veyron Porsche 911 Ford Mustang McClaren MP4- 12C Lamborghini Egoista Limited edition Mercedes AMG SL SLK Roadster or E Class Cabriolet Convertible or the Chevy Camaro come to mind Pictured on page 31 is the 2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue by the way

If you are someone who is practical enjoy trips to the mountains or the beach work full time and look for a dependable and comfortable car then check out the Cadillac CTS (pictured above) XTS or DTS Super Subaru Impreza Lexus CT 200h Sport IS 250 or ES 350 Mercedes CS or E Class Chevy Equinox Chevy Tahoe and Toyota Prius V

Cadillac CTS photo copy General Motors

Pompano Today May 2016 31

If you are the family manwoman and are seeking safety comfortable seating and an affordable vehicle with low maintenance we noticed that most of the inquiries are SUV or Van related such as the Mercedes GLA SUB GLE SUV or GLS SUV Audi Q5 Audi Allroad Toyota Sienna Ford Fex Ford Transit Connect Cadillac Escalade Cadillac SRX and letrsquos not forget the Chevy Suburban

Now if you are the hunter or you enjoy off roading every now and then the vehicles we seesell and repair most are the Ford F150 Ford Super Duty Mercedes G Class Toyota TacomaTundra Range Rover Jeep Wrangler and the Chevy Silverado

What about the green energy conscious We have had inquiries about the Toyota Prius and the Rav 4 Hybrid Audi A3 E-tron Cadillac ELR or the Chevy Spark EV Now if you are in the market for a nice ride then you need to test drive the Cadillac CT6 Plug-in Hybrid or the BMW I8 and tell me if you enjoyed the drive

Yes even car owners and their vehicles can talk about wedded bliss So if you have the

perfect car that fits your image your lifestyle your personality then congratulations because you are lucky to get the perfect car In the meantime if you are looking for a vehicle and have questions or concerns feel free to contact us and we will be glad to assist you BY JAY GHANEM

2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue copy The Ford Motor Company 2016 All Rights Reserved

HOLLYWOOD CORNER

news from the west coast

32 Pompano Today May 2016

stars in your eyesBenjamin A Onyango on keeping the faith

and making people happyWhen did you know without any doubt that you wanted to act

Ive always acted in church youth plays that I wrote myself when I was a teenager in Nairobi Kenya In 1987 I came to the United States and while attending California State University Stanislaus in Turlock California formed a traditional dance group called Upendo Singers and Cultural Dancers We wrote plays and songs and performed them in cultural festivals universities and churches After graduating in 1992 I knew I wanted to act so I struck the tent and moved to Hollywood where I joined a funk rock band called PFO and also acted as a background performer in TV and feature films What inspires you to act

I am naturally a happy person and I love it when people are happy So I cant help it but crack jokes and poke fun at myself to make people around me laugh I am inspired by other people Their presence makes me want to do stuff talk dance sing shout etc When did you realize you had reached your goals as an actor

I do not think I have reached my goal as an actor yet To me acting is an evolving thing You get to a certain level and then you strive to get better than the level you currently are on Acting has many facets and therefore many challenges There is no one way to approach acting I therefore believe that I am still reaching for that goal and I must admit that the experience indeed is the best teacher because you indeed get better at it the more you keep doing it

What was your favorite role to date and why

My favorite role to date is the movie I am currently filming called Beautifully Broken The reason its my first role as a lead actor in a feature film and best of all I am playing the role of a real person who survived the Rwanda genocide that the story is about I played a lead role before in a short film called Kwame also based on a true story and was voted best actor at the 2009 Mexico International Film Festival Beautifully Broken is a story that connects very strongly with the human spirit I can almost guarantee that there will not be a

single dry eye in the theater when its screened Its a beautifully written story of hardship resilience survival and hope

What do you enjoy most about your career

What I enjoy most about my career is the ability to travel and see different people in different parts of the world I am a people person and nothing

makes me happier than meeting and making new friends

Can we expect a book from you

Thats funny you mentioned that I write lots of movie scripts and TV show scripts and I have always thought of writing a book So on my down days on the set of Beautifully Broken I started a book Ive been toying with in my head for a while The title of the book is God Moves When We Stop Helping Him Its more of a booklet than a book Its a book about encouragement

What is the best way for your fans to know what yoursquore working on FacebookTwitter Do you post for your own sites or do you have your assistants do the posts

I hope I do have fans LOL They can find out about what I am doing or working on my Facebook page facebookcomEMEBAND or Facebook fan page facebookcomBenjiBendrix Twitter twittercombochieng Instagram instagramcombenjibendrix and imdb imdbcomnamenm1335173ref_=nv_sr I also have a website benjibendrixcom that I use

Tell us something new something bold that yoursquove never told any other magazinehellipnews tip )

Recently I was fortunate to have my TV webseries Dysfunctionally Organized pitched to a major network and they agreed to have us do a spin-off of the show So we have started the writing process Its a major achievement for my team and myself since we have been working on the show for a long time Its not easy to get an audience with a content procurement person on a major network so we feel very fortunate I cant mention the network because of confidentiality reasons

Photo of Benjamin Ochieng aka Benji Bendrix (friend of Jimi Hendrix) copy Flygirl PhotographyLearn more about Benjamin atproimdbcomnamenm1335173afro-mericarecordscommindtricksmoviecom

BY MISTY SCHWARTZ

word scrambleTHE LAST WORD

a workout for your mind

Wedded bliss All of the words in this months Scramble are related to marriage and weddings Good luck Look for the answers online beginning May 15 at pompanotodaycom

Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answerodeutx gnir oeemcryn lsuipnatgnwo iaoynmtmr rogom slrofweermdiadbis eusenv shrue ovwsnwiddge rrdemia erdib psoesuerdbhteot rceepnoit errceat eiervsc

James Stafford PhotographyfacebookcomJamesStaffordPhotography

jamesstaffordname(561) 201-1640

28 Pompano Today May 2016

INDULGENCESCOOL

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the guide

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Volleyball with a cause Mark your calendars for the 31st Annual Volleyball Challenge on June 11th-12th 2016 at the Wyndham Sea Gardens (615 N Ocean Blvd Pompano Beach FL) Proceeds to benefit United Cerebral Palsy of South Florida Learn more at ucpsouthfloridaorg

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Pompano Today May 2016 29

A tasty and unique dine-in or drive-through experience

Proprietor Gentiana Kristo

bull Soups amp Sandwichesbull Premium Coffeebull Hand-Baked Goods

1631 S Cypress Road Pompano Beach FL 33060(954)933-3453chezcafecoffee

SHOW THE LOCALS SOME LOVEthe guide shopping

YOUR GUIDE TO GOOD EATSthe guide dining

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ALLOW US TO GUSH Really We are without exaggeration obsessedEvery once in awhile a life-changing product comes along You know the kind - the kind that makes you slap your forehead (at least metaphorically) and think Really I couldnt have thought of that

You probably could have But you didnt Thankfully Bill Glazer and his partner Rob Lembersky did Get Waisteds tagline is Free Yourself and this is not hyperbole Really We take ours everywhere - so long purse See ya crossbody Imagine - phone keys money cards and - look ma free hands and a slim silhouette Get Waisted is life-changing Stop by Glam Sparkle n Glitz and see for yourself It comes in several festive colors including basic black Oh It can go under your shirt too Amazing

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GET THOSE PANTS HEMMED Those sleeves altered You know you need toWell pay $1000 (ok $1 but still) to any reader who can prove to us that there is not onesinglething in his or her closet that couldnt use a little fine tailoringWe know You have a sewing kit So do we - three in fact How long has that blouse been sitting there Those pants Hmmm Its ok Thankfully we have Benjamins

We have never ever ever looked so put together as when the outstanding folks at Benjamins work their magic In fact were fighting the compulsion to buy more clothes () so we can go back

Now available exclusively at Glam Sparkle nrsquo Glitz The most fashionable functional and flattering way

to hold your keys phone and so much more

211 Commercial Blvd Lauderdale-by-the-Sea954-351-9171 getwaistedinfo

Check out GetWaistedFree Yourself

TM

A L L D A Y M E E T I N G P A C K A G E F R O M $ 8 5 A T T E N D E E

This summer treat your guests to a

beachfront meeting experience and

take advantage of the seasonal savings

T O S T A R T P L A N N I N G 9 5 4 7 8 2 0 1 0 0 O R P O M P A N O M A R R I O T T C O M

1 2 0 0 N O C E A N B L V D P O M P A N O B E A C H F L

copy 2016 Marriott International Inc

M E E T A T T H E B E A C H

FLLPM All Day Meeting Ad (PT) 3625x225indd 1 41216 621 PM

30 Pompano Today May 2016

VROOM

all things automotiveyour rideThis monthrsquos theme is wedded bliss I started checking on an exact meaning for this title This is what was written in the English Dictionary ldquothe happiness of being marriedrdquo As I reflect back and think about life altogether whether marriage engagement purchase of a product or dealing with family and friendshellip

There are many factors in life that can afford you wedded bliss or the joy serenity and comfort of having the right lover husband or wife the right house or car the right job or titlehellip Now letrsquos admit to the fact that we all go though the ups and downs and have to face many situationshellip This is part of being human

Just imagine not having a significant other to share the joy or sadness of an event or a shoulder to cry onhellip Just imagine not having a cell phone to communicate with your loved ones or a car to get you from point A to point B

Just like a marriage you start by meeting a prospective mate lover or significant other You then starting dating and checking on the possibility of a good fit

If that is the case you start focusing on the possibility of a future together and if the positive traits in that individual outweigh the negative and if you canrsquot imagine living without himher then the marriage is to be considered

The same thing goes for the perfect car for you You have specific unique preferences based on your personality and the purpose of the car purchase

Achieving wedded bliss with your vehicle choice

The right car that will suit your needs for years to come exists It just takes a little research planning budgeting and common sense We all dream of the luxury car that we many not be able to afford but till the time comes to make our dream car a reality we will need to settle for what is achievable practical fits our need and makes us proud of the choice we made Here are some practical questions to answer would you like to get a sporty car a regular 4 door sedan a van an SUV or a truck

Would you like a practical car you may drive in city highway or would you like to go off-roading on the weekends Would you need this vehicle to tow your boat to tow your camping trip supplies or would you like to have an elegant car to show off to your friends Now we have to consider the budget and whether we want to purchase a domestic or foreign vehicle the maintenance cost the fuel efficiency and the overall look and feel of the car

We have noticed that cars reflect their ownerrsquos personality so if you are someone who is sporty adventurous have a young spirit and are financially secure then a Bugatti Veyron Porsche 911 Ford Mustang McClaren MP4- 12C Lamborghini Egoista Limited edition Mercedes AMG SL SLK Roadster or E Class Cabriolet Convertible or the Chevy Camaro come to mind Pictured on page 31 is the 2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue by the way

If you are someone who is practical enjoy trips to the mountains or the beach work full time and look for a dependable and comfortable car then check out the Cadillac CTS (pictured above) XTS or DTS Super Subaru Impreza Lexus CT 200h Sport IS 250 or ES 350 Mercedes CS or E Class Chevy Equinox Chevy Tahoe and Toyota Prius V

Cadillac CTS photo copy General Motors

Pompano Today May 2016 31

If you are the family manwoman and are seeking safety comfortable seating and an affordable vehicle with low maintenance we noticed that most of the inquiries are SUV or Van related such as the Mercedes GLA SUB GLE SUV or GLS SUV Audi Q5 Audi Allroad Toyota Sienna Ford Fex Ford Transit Connect Cadillac Escalade Cadillac SRX and letrsquos not forget the Chevy Suburban

Now if you are the hunter or you enjoy off roading every now and then the vehicles we seesell and repair most are the Ford F150 Ford Super Duty Mercedes G Class Toyota TacomaTundra Range Rover Jeep Wrangler and the Chevy Silverado

What about the green energy conscious We have had inquiries about the Toyota Prius and the Rav 4 Hybrid Audi A3 E-tron Cadillac ELR or the Chevy Spark EV Now if you are in the market for a nice ride then you need to test drive the Cadillac CT6 Plug-in Hybrid or the BMW I8 and tell me if you enjoyed the drive

Yes even car owners and their vehicles can talk about wedded bliss So if you have the

perfect car that fits your image your lifestyle your personality then congratulations because you are lucky to get the perfect car In the meantime if you are looking for a vehicle and have questions or concerns feel free to contact us and we will be glad to assist you BY JAY GHANEM

2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue copy The Ford Motor Company 2016 All Rights Reserved

HOLLYWOOD CORNER

news from the west coast

32 Pompano Today May 2016

stars in your eyesBenjamin A Onyango on keeping the faith

and making people happyWhen did you know without any doubt that you wanted to act

Ive always acted in church youth plays that I wrote myself when I was a teenager in Nairobi Kenya In 1987 I came to the United States and while attending California State University Stanislaus in Turlock California formed a traditional dance group called Upendo Singers and Cultural Dancers We wrote plays and songs and performed them in cultural festivals universities and churches After graduating in 1992 I knew I wanted to act so I struck the tent and moved to Hollywood where I joined a funk rock band called PFO and also acted as a background performer in TV and feature films What inspires you to act

I am naturally a happy person and I love it when people are happy So I cant help it but crack jokes and poke fun at myself to make people around me laugh I am inspired by other people Their presence makes me want to do stuff talk dance sing shout etc When did you realize you had reached your goals as an actor

I do not think I have reached my goal as an actor yet To me acting is an evolving thing You get to a certain level and then you strive to get better than the level you currently are on Acting has many facets and therefore many challenges There is no one way to approach acting I therefore believe that I am still reaching for that goal and I must admit that the experience indeed is the best teacher because you indeed get better at it the more you keep doing it

What was your favorite role to date and why

My favorite role to date is the movie I am currently filming called Beautifully Broken The reason its my first role as a lead actor in a feature film and best of all I am playing the role of a real person who survived the Rwanda genocide that the story is about I played a lead role before in a short film called Kwame also based on a true story and was voted best actor at the 2009 Mexico International Film Festival Beautifully Broken is a story that connects very strongly with the human spirit I can almost guarantee that there will not be a

single dry eye in the theater when its screened Its a beautifully written story of hardship resilience survival and hope

What do you enjoy most about your career

What I enjoy most about my career is the ability to travel and see different people in different parts of the world I am a people person and nothing

makes me happier than meeting and making new friends

Can we expect a book from you

Thats funny you mentioned that I write lots of movie scripts and TV show scripts and I have always thought of writing a book So on my down days on the set of Beautifully Broken I started a book Ive been toying with in my head for a while The title of the book is God Moves When We Stop Helping Him Its more of a booklet than a book Its a book about encouragement

What is the best way for your fans to know what yoursquore working on FacebookTwitter Do you post for your own sites or do you have your assistants do the posts

I hope I do have fans LOL They can find out about what I am doing or working on my Facebook page facebookcomEMEBAND or Facebook fan page facebookcomBenjiBendrix Twitter twittercombochieng Instagram instagramcombenjibendrix and imdb imdbcomnamenm1335173ref_=nv_sr I also have a website benjibendrixcom that I use

Tell us something new something bold that yoursquove never told any other magazinehellipnews tip )

Recently I was fortunate to have my TV webseries Dysfunctionally Organized pitched to a major network and they agreed to have us do a spin-off of the show So we have started the writing process Its a major achievement for my team and myself since we have been working on the show for a long time Its not easy to get an audience with a content procurement person on a major network so we feel very fortunate I cant mention the network because of confidentiality reasons

Photo of Benjamin Ochieng aka Benji Bendrix (friend of Jimi Hendrix) copy Flygirl PhotographyLearn more about Benjamin atproimdbcomnamenm1335173afro-mericarecordscommindtricksmoviecom

BY MISTY SCHWARTZ

word scrambleTHE LAST WORD

a workout for your mind

Wedded bliss All of the words in this months Scramble are related to marriage and weddings Good luck Look for the answers online beginning May 15 at pompanotodaycom

Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answerodeutx gnir oeemcryn lsuipnatgnwo iaoynmtmr rogom slrofweermdiadbis eusenv shrue ovwsnwiddge rrdemia erdib psoesuerdbhteot rceepnoit errceat eiervsc

James Stafford PhotographyfacebookcomJamesStaffordPhotography

jamesstaffordname(561) 201-1640

Pompano Today May 2016 29

A tasty and unique dine-in or drive-through experience

Proprietor Gentiana Kristo

bull Soups amp Sandwichesbull Premium Coffeebull Hand-Baked Goods

1631 S Cypress Road Pompano Beach FL 33060(954)933-3453chezcafecoffee

SHOW THE LOCALS SOME LOVEthe guide shopping

YOUR GUIDE TO GOOD EATSthe guide dining

||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||

ALLOW US TO GUSH Really We are without exaggeration obsessedEvery once in awhile a life-changing product comes along You know the kind - the kind that makes you slap your forehead (at least metaphorically) and think Really I couldnt have thought of that

You probably could have But you didnt Thankfully Bill Glazer and his partner Rob Lembersky did Get Waisteds tagline is Free Yourself and this is not hyperbole Really We take ours everywhere - so long purse See ya crossbody Imagine - phone keys money cards and - look ma free hands and a slim silhouette Get Waisted is life-changing Stop by Glam Sparkle n Glitz and see for yourself It comes in several festive colors including basic black Oh It can go under your shirt too Amazing

|||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||

GET THOSE PANTS HEMMED Those sleeves altered You know you need toWell pay $1000 (ok $1 but still) to any reader who can prove to us that there is not onesinglething in his or her closet that couldnt use a little fine tailoringWe know You have a sewing kit So do we - three in fact How long has that blouse been sitting there Those pants Hmmm Its ok Thankfully we have Benjamins

We have never ever ever looked so put together as when the outstanding folks at Benjamins work their magic In fact were fighting the compulsion to buy more clothes () so we can go back

Now available exclusively at Glam Sparkle nrsquo Glitz The most fashionable functional and flattering way

to hold your keys phone and so much more

211 Commercial Blvd Lauderdale-by-the-Sea954-351-9171 getwaistedinfo

Check out GetWaistedFree Yourself

TM

A L L D A Y M E E T I N G P A C K A G E F R O M $ 8 5 A T T E N D E E

This summer treat your guests to a

beachfront meeting experience and

take advantage of the seasonal savings

T O S T A R T P L A N N I N G 9 5 4 7 8 2 0 1 0 0 O R P O M P A N O M A R R I O T T C O M

1 2 0 0 N O C E A N B L V D P O M P A N O B E A C H F L

copy 2016 Marriott International Inc

M E E T A T T H E B E A C H

FLLPM All Day Meeting Ad (PT) 3625x225indd 1 41216 621 PM

30 Pompano Today May 2016

VROOM

all things automotiveyour rideThis monthrsquos theme is wedded bliss I started checking on an exact meaning for this title This is what was written in the English Dictionary ldquothe happiness of being marriedrdquo As I reflect back and think about life altogether whether marriage engagement purchase of a product or dealing with family and friendshellip

There are many factors in life that can afford you wedded bliss or the joy serenity and comfort of having the right lover husband or wife the right house or car the right job or titlehellip Now letrsquos admit to the fact that we all go though the ups and downs and have to face many situationshellip This is part of being human

Just imagine not having a significant other to share the joy or sadness of an event or a shoulder to cry onhellip Just imagine not having a cell phone to communicate with your loved ones or a car to get you from point A to point B

Just like a marriage you start by meeting a prospective mate lover or significant other You then starting dating and checking on the possibility of a good fit

If that is the case you start focusing on the possibility of a future together and if the positive traits in that individual outweigh the negative and if you canrsquot imagine living without himher then the marriage is to be considered

The same thing goes for the perfect car for you You have specific unique preferences based on your personality and the purpose of the car purchase

Achieving wedded bliss with your vehicle choice

The right car that will suit your needs for years to come exists It just takes a little research planning budgeting and common sense We all dream of the luxury car that we many not be able to afford but till the time comes to make our dream car a reality we will need to settle for what is achievable practical fits our need and makes us proud of the choice we made Here are some practical questions to answer would you like to get a sporty car a regular 4 door sedan a van an SUV or a truck

Would you like a practical car you may drive in city highway or would you like to go off-roading on the weekends Would you need this vehicle to tow your boat to tow your camping trip supplies or would you like to have an elegant car to show off to your friends Now we have to consider the budget and whether we want to purchase a domestic or foreign vehicle the maintenance cost the fuel efficiency and the overall look and feel of the car

We have noticed that cars reflect their ownerrsquos personality so if you are someone who is sporty adventurous have a young spirit and are financially secure then a Bugatti Veyron Porsche 911 Ford Mustang McClaren MP4- 12C Lamborghini Egoista Limited edition Mercedes AMG SL SLK Roadster or E Class Cabriolet Convertible or the Chevy Camaro come to mind Pictured on page 31 is the 2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue by the way

If you are someone who is practical enjoy trips to the mountains or the beach work full time and look for a dependable and comfortable car then check out the Cadillac CTS (pictured above) XTS or DTS Super Subaru Impreza Lexus CT 200h Sport IS 250 or ES 350 Mercedes CS or E Class Chevy Equinox Chevy Tahoe and Toyota Prius V

Cadillac CTS photo copy General Motors

Pompano Today May 2016 31

If you are the family manwoman and are seeking safety comfortable seating and an affordable vehicle with low maintenance we noticed that most of the inquiries are SUV or Van related such as the Mercedes GLA SUB GLE SUV or GLS SUV Audi Q5 Audi Allroad Toyota Sienna Ford Fex Ford Transit Connect Cadillac Escalade Cadillac SRX and letrsquos not forget the Chevy Suburban

Now if you are the hunter or you enjoy off roading every now and then the vehicles we seesell and repair most are the Ford F150 Ford Super Duty Mercedes G Class Toyota TacomaTundra Range Rover Jeep Wrangler and the Chevy Silverado

What about the green energy conscious We have had inquiries about the Toyota Prius and the Rav 4 Hybrid Audi A3 E-tron Cadillac ELR or the Chevy Spark EV Now if you are in the market for a nice ride then you need to test drive the Cadillac CT6 Plug-in Hybrid or the BMW I8 and tell me if you enjoyed the drive

Yes even car owners and their vehicles can talk about wedded bliss So if you have the

perfect car that fits your image your lifestyle your personality then congratulations because you are lucky to get the perfect car In the meantime if you are looking for a vehicle and have questions or concerns feel free to contact us and we will be glad to assist you BY JAY GHANEM

2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue copy The Ford Motor Company 2016 All Rights Reserved

HOLLYWOOD CORNER

news from the west coast

32 Pompano Today May 2016

stars in your eyesBenjamin A Onyango on keeping the faith

and making people happyWhen did you know without any doubt that you wanted to act

Ive always acted in church youth plays that I wrote myself when I was a teenager in Nairobi Kenya In 1987 I came to the United States and while attending California State University Stanislaus in Turlock California formed a traditional dance group called Upendo Singers and Cultural Dancers We wrote plays and songs and performed them in cultural festivals universities and churches After graduating in 1992 I knew I wanted to act so I struck the tent and moved to Hollywood where I joined a funk rock band called PFO and also acted as a background performer in TV and feature films What inspires you to act

I am naturally a happy person and I love it when people are happy So I cant help it but crack jokes and poke fun at myself to make people around me laugh I am inspired by other people Their presence makes me want to do stuff talk dance sing shout etc When did you realize you had reached your goals as an actor

I do not think I have reached my goal as an actor yet To me acting is an evolving thing You get to a certain level and then you strive to get better than the level you currently are on Acting has many facets and therefore many challenges There is no one way to approach acting I therefore believe that I am still reaching for that goal and I must admit that the experience indeed is the best teacher because you indeed get better at it the more you keep doing it

What was your favorite role to date and why

My favorite role to date is the movie I am currently filming called Beautifully Broken The reason its my first role as a lead actor in a feature film and best of all I am playing the role of a real person who survived the Rwanda genocide that the story is about I played a lead role before in a short film called Kwame also based on a true story and was voted best actor at the 2009 Mexico International Film Festival Beautifully Broken is a story that connects very strongly with the human spirit I can almost guarantee that there will not be a

single dry eye in the theater when its screened Its a beautifully written story of hardship resilience survival and hope

What do you enjoy most about your career

What I enjoy most about my career is the ability to travel and see different people in different parts of the world I am a people person and nothing

makes me happier than meeting and making new friends

Can we expect a book from you

Thats funny you mentioned that I write lots of movie scripts and TV show scripts and I have always thought of writing a book So on my down days on the set of Beautifully Broken I started a book Ive been toying with in my head for a while The title of the book is God Moves When We Stop Helping Him Its more of a booklet than a book Its a book about encouragement

What is the best way for your fans to know what yoursquore working on FacebookTwitter Do you post for your own sites or do you have your assistants do the posts

I hope I do have fans LOL They can find out about what I am doing or working on my Facebook page facebookcomEMEBAND or Facebook fan page facebookcomBenjiBendrix Twitter twittercombochieng Instagram instagramcombenjibendrix and imdb imdbcomnamenm1335173ref_=nv_sr I also have a website benjibendrixcom that I use

Tell us something new something bold that yoursquove never told any other magazinehellipnews tip )

Recently I was fortunate to have my TV webseries Dysfunctionally Organized pitched to a major network and they agreed to have us do a spin-off of the show So we have started the writing process Its a major achievement for my team and myself since we have been working on the show for a long time Its not easy to get an audience with a content procurement person on a major network so we feel very fortunate I cant mention the network because of confidentiality reasons

Photo of Benjamin Ochieng aka Benji Bendrix (friend of Jimi Hendrix) copy Flygirl PhotographyLearn more about Benjamin atproimdbcomnamenm1335173afro-mericarecordscommindtricksmoviecom

BY MISTY SCHWARTZ

word scrambleTHE LAST WORD

a workout for your mind

Wedded bliss All of the words in this months Scramble are related to marriage and weddings Good luck Look for the answers online beginning May 15 at pompanotodaycom

Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answerodeutx gnir oeemcryn lsuipnatgnwo iaoynmtmr rogom slrofweermdiadbis eusenv shrue ovwsnwiddge rrdemia erdib psoesuerdbhteot rceepnoit errceat eiervsc

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30 Pompano Today May 2016

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all things automotiveyour rideThis monthrsquos theme is wedded bliss I started checking on an exact meaning for this title This is what was written in the English Dictionary ldquothe happiness of being marriedrdquo As I reflect back and think about life altogether whether marriage engagement purchase of a product or dealing with family and friendshellip

There are many factors in life that can afford you wedded bliss or the joy serenity and comfort of having the right lover husband or wife the right house or car the right job or titlehellip Now letrsquos admit to the fact that we all go though the ups and downs and have to face many situationshellip This is part of being human

Just imagine not having a significant other to share the joy or sadness of an event or a shoulder to cry onhellip Just imagine not having a cell phone to communicate with your loved ones or a car to get you from point A to point B

Just like a marriage you start by meeting a prospective mate lover or significant other You then starting dating and checking on the possibility of a good fit

If that is the case you start focusing on the possibility of a future together and if the positive traits in that individual outweigh the negative and if you canrsquot imagine living without himher then the marriage is to be considered

The same thing goes for the perfect car for you You have specific unique preferences based on your personality and the purpose of the car purchase

Achieving wedded bliss with your vehicle choice

The right car that will suit your needs for years to come exists It just takes a little research planning budgeting and common sense We all dream of the luxury car that we many not be able to afford but till the time comes to make our dream car a reality we will need to settle for what is achievable practical fits our need and makes us proud of the choice we made Here are some practical questions to answer would you like to get a sporty car a regular 4 door sedan a van an SUV or a truck

Would you like a practical car you may drive in city highway or would you like to go off-roading on the weekends Would you need this vehicle to tow your boat to tow your camping trip supplies or would you like to have an elegant car to show off to your friends Now we have to consider the budget and whether we want to purchase a domestic or foreign vehicle the maintenance cost the fuel efficiency and the overall look and feel of the car

We have noticed that cars reflect their ownerrsquos personality so if you are someone who is sporty adventurous have a young spirit and are financially secure then a Bugatti Veyron Porsche 911 Ford Mustang McClaren MP4- 12C Lamborghini Egoista Limited edition Mercedes AMG SL SLK Roadster or E Class Cabriolet Convertible or the Chevy Camaro come to mind Pictured on page 31 is the 2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue by the way

If you are someone who is practical enjoy trips to the mountains or the beach work full time and look for a dependable and comfortable car then check out the Cadillac CTS (pictured above) XTS or DTS Super Subaru Impreza Lexus CT 200h Sport IS 250 or ES 350 Mercedes CS or E Class Chevy Equinox Chevy Tahoe and Toyota Prius V

Cadillac CTS photo copy General Motors

Pompano Today May 2016 31

If you are the family manwoman and are seeking safety comfortable seating and an affordable vehicle with low maintenance we noticed that most of the inquiries are SUV or Van related such as the Mercedes GLA SUB GLE SUV or GLS SUV Audi Q5 Audi Allroad Toyota Sienna Ford Fex Ford Transit Connect Cadillac Escalade Cadillac SRX and letrsquos not forget the Chevy Suburban

Now if you are the hunter or you enjoy off roading every now and then the vehicles we seesell and repair most are the Ford F150 Ford Super Duty Mercedes G Class Toyota TacomaTundra Range Rover Jeep Wrangler and the Chevy Silverado

What about the green energy conscious We have had inquiries about the Toyota Prius and the Rav 4 Hybrid Audi A3 E-tron Cadillac ELR or the Chevy Spark EV Now if you are in the market for a nice ride then you need to test drive the Cadillac CT6 Plug-in Hybrid or the BMW I8 and tell me if you enjoyed the drive

Yes even car owners and their vehicles can talk about wedded bliss So if you have the

perfect car that fits your image your lifestyle your personality then congratulations because you are lucky to get the perfect car In the meantime if you are looking for a vehicle and have questions or concerns feel free to contact us and we will be glad to assist you BY JAY GHANEM

2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue copy The Ford Motor Company 2016 All Rights Reserved

HOLLYWOOD CORNER

news from the west coast

32 Pompano Today May 2016

stars in your eyesBenjamin A Onyango on keeping the faith

and making people happyWhen did you know without any doubt that you wanted to act

Ive always acted in church youth plays that I wrote myself when I was a teenager in Nairobi Kenya In 1987 I came to the United States and while attending California State University Stanislaus in Turlock California formed a traditional dance group called Upendo Singers and Cultural Dancers We wrote plays and songs and performed them in cultural festivals universities and churches After graduating in 1992 I knew I wanted to act so I struck the tent and moved to Hollywood where I joined a funk rock band called PFO and also acted as a background performer in TV and feature films What inspires you to act

I am naturally a happy person and I love it when people are happy So I cant help it but crack jokes and poke fun at myself to make people around me laugh I am inspired by other people Their presence makes me want to do stuff talk dance sing shout etc When did you realize you had reached your goals as an actor

I do not think I have reached my goal as an actor yet To me acting is an evolving thing You get to a certain level and then you strive to get better than the level you currently are on Acting has many facets and therefore many challenges There is no one way to approach acting I therefore believe that I am still reaching for that goal and I must admit that the experience indeed is the best teacher because you indeed get better at it the more you keep doing it

What was your favorite role to date and why

My favorite role to date is the movie I am currently filming called Beautifully Broken The reason its my first role as a lead actor in a feature film and best of all I am playing the role of a real person who survived the Rwanda genocide that the story is about I played a lead role before in a short film called Kwame also based on a true story and was voted best actor at the 2009 Mexico International Film Festival Beautifully Broken is a story that connects very strongly with the human spirit I can almost guarantee that there will not be a

single dry eye in the theater when its screened Its a beautifully written story of hardship resilience survival and hope

What do you enjoy most about your career

What I enjoy most about my career is the ability to travel and see different people in different parts of the world I am a people person and nothing

makes me happier than meeting and making new friends

Can we expect a book from you

Thats funny you mentioned that I write lots of movie scripts and TV show scripts and I have always thought of writing a book So on my down days on the set of Beautifully Broken I started a book Ive been toying with in my head for a while The title of the book is God Moves When We Stop Helping Him Its more of a booklet than a book Its a book about encouragement

What is the best way for your fans to know what yoursquore working on FacebookTwitter Do you post for your own sites or do you have your assistants do the posts

I hope I do have fans LOL They can find out about what I am doing or working on my Facebook page facebookcomEMEBAND or Facebook fan page facebookcomBenjiBendrix Twitter twittercombochieng Instagram instagramcombenjibendrix and imdb imdbcomnamenm1335173ref_=nv_sr I also have a website benjibendrixcom that I use

Tell us something new something bold that yoursquove never told any other magazinehellipnews tip )

Recently I was fortunate to have my TV webseries Dysfunctionally Organized pitched to a major network and they agreed to have us do a spin-off of the show So we have started the writing process Its a major achievement for my team and myself since we have been working on the show for a long time Its not easy to get an audience with a content procurement person on a major network so we feel very fortunate I cant mention the network because of confidentiality reasons

Photo of Benjamin Ochieng aka Benji Bendrix (friend of Jimi Hendrix) copy Flygirl PhotographyLearn more about Benjamin atproimdbcomnamenm1335173afro-mericarecordscommindtricksmoviecom

BY MISTY SCHWARTZ

word scrambleTHE LAST WORD

a workout for your mind

Wedded bliss All of the words in this months Scramble are related to marriage and weddings Good luck Look for the answers online beginning May 15 at pompanotodaycom

Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answerodeutx gnir oeemcryn lsuipnatgnwo iaoynmtmr rogom slrofweermdiadbis eusenv shrue ovwsnwiddge rrdemia erdib psoesuerdbhteot rceepnoit errceat eiervsc

James Stafford PhotographyfacebookcomJamesStaffordPhotography

jamesstaffordname(561) 201-1640

Pompano Today May 2016 31

If you are the family manwoman and are seeking safety comfortable seating and an affordable vehicle with low maintenance we noticed that most of the inquiries are SUV or Van related such as the Mercedes GLA SUB GLE SUV or GLS SUV Audi Q5 Audi Allroad Toyota Sienna Ford Fex Ford Transit Connect Cadillac Escalade Cadillac SRX and letrsquos not forget the Chevy Suburban

Now if you are the hunter or you enjoy off roading every now and then the vehicles we seesell and repair most are the Ford F150 Ford Super Duty Mercedes G Class Toyota TacomaTundra Range Rover Jeep Wrangler and the Chevy Silverado

What about the green energy conscious We have had inquiries about the Toyota Prius and the Rav 4 Hybrid Audi A3 E-tron Cadillac ELR or the Chevy Spark EV Now if you are in the market for a nice ride then you need to test drive the Cadillac CT6 Plug-in Hybrid or the BMW I8 and tell me if you enjoyed the drive

Yes even car owners and their vehicles can talk about wedded bliss So if you have the

perfect car that fits your image your lifestyle your personality then congratulations because you are lucky to get the perfect car In the meantime if you are looking for a vehicle and have questions or concerns feel free to contact us and we will be glad to assist you BY JAY GHANEM

2017 Ford Shelby GT350 in Grabber Blue copy The Ford Motor Company 2016 All Rights Reserved

HOLLYWOOD CORNER

news from the west coast

32 Pompano Today May 2016

stars in your eyesBenjamin A Onyango on keeping the faith

and making people happyWhen did you know without any doubt that you wanted to act

Ive always acted in church youth plays that I wrote myself when I was a teenager in Nairobi Kenya In 1987 I came to the United States and while attending California State University Stanislaus in Turlock California formed a traditional dance group called Upendo Singers and Cultural Dancers We wrote plays and songs and performed them in cultural festivals universities and churches After graduating in 1992 I knew I wanted to act so I struck the tent and moved to Hollywood where I joined a funk rock band called PFO and also acted as a background performer in TV and feature films What inspires you to act

I am naturally a happy person and I love it when people are happy So I cant help it but crack jokes and poke fun at myself to make people around me laugh I am inspired by other people Their presence makes me want to do stuff talk dance sing shout etc When did you realize you had reached your goals as an actor

I do not think I have reached my goal as an actor yet To me acting is an evolving thing You get to a certain level and then you strive to get better than the level you currently are on Acting has many facets and therefore many challenges There is no one way to approach acting I therefore believe that I am still reaching for that goal and I must admit that the experience indeed is the best teacher because you indeed get better at it the more you keep doing it

What was your favorite role to date and why

My favorite role to date is the movie I am currently filming called Beautifully Broken The reason its my first role as a lead actor in a feature film and best of all I am playing the role of a real person who survived the Rwanda genocide that the story is about I played a lead role before in a short film called Kwame also based on a true story and was voted best actor at the 2009 Mexico International Film Festival Beautifully Broken is a story that connects very strongly with the human spirit I can almost guarantee that there will not be a

single dry eye in the theater when its screened Its a beautifully written story of hardship resilience survival and hope

What do you enjoy most about your career

What I enjoy most about my career is the ability to travel and see different people in different parts of the world I am a people person and nothing

makes me happier than meeting and making new friends

Can we expect a book from you

Thats funny you mentioned that I write lots of movie scripts and TV show scripts and I have always thought of writing a book So on my down days on the set of Beautifully Broken I started a book Ive been toying with in my head for a while The title of the book is God Moves When We Stop Helping Him Its more of a booklet than a book Its a book about encouragement

What is the best way for your fans to know what yoursquore working on FacebookTwitter Do you post for your own sites or do you have your assistants do the posts

I hope I do have fans LOL They can find out about what I am doing or working on my Facebook page facebookcomEMEBAND or Facebook fan page facebookcomBenjiBendrix Twitter twittercombochieng Instagram instagramcombenjibendrix and imdb imdbcomnamenm1335173ref_=nv_sr I also have a website benjibendrixcom that I use

Tell us something new something bold that yoursquove never told any other magazinehellipnews tip )

Recently I was fortunate to have my TV webseries Dysfunctionally Organized pitched to a major network and they agreed to have us do a spin-off of the show So we have started the writing process Its a major achievement for my team and myself since we have been working on the show for a long time Its not easy to get an audience with a content procurement person on a major network so we feel very fortunate I cant mention the network because of confidentiality reasons

Photo of Benjamin Ochieng aka Benji Bendrix (friend of Jimi Hendrix) copy Flygirl PhotographyLearn more about Benjamin atproimdbcomnamenm1335173afro-mericarecordscommindtricksmoviecom

BY MISTY SCHWARTZ

word scrambleTHE LAST WORD

a workout for your mind

Wedded bliss All of the words in this months Scramble are related to marriage and weddings Good luck Look for the answers online beginning May 15 at pompanotodaycom

Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answerodeutx gnir oeemcryn lsuipnatgnwo iaoynmtmr rogom slrofweermdiadbis eusenv shrue ovwsnwiddge rrdemia erdib psoesuerdbhteot rceepnoit errceat eiervsc

James Stafford PhotographyfacebookcomJamesStaffordPhotography

jamesstaffordname(561) 201-1640

HOLLYWOOD CORNER

news from the west coast

32 Pompano Today May 2016

stars in your eyesBenjamin A Onyango on keeping the faith

and making people happyWhen did you know without any doubt that you wanted to act

Ive always acted in church youth plays that I wrote myself when I was a teenager in Nairobi Kenya In 1987 I came to the United States and while attending California State University Stanislaus in Turlock California formed a traditional dance group called Upendo Singers and Cultural Dancers We wrote plays and songs and performed them in cultural festivals universities and churches After graduating in 1992 I knew I wanted to act so I struck the tent and moved to Hollywood where I joined a funk rock band called PFO and also acted as a background performer in TV and feature films What inspires you to act

I am naturally a happy person and I love it when people are happy So I cant help it but crack jokes and poke fun at myself to make people around me laugh I am inspired by other people Their presence makes me want to do stuff talk dance sing shout etc When did you realize you had reached your goals as an actor

I do not think I have reached my goal as an actor yet To me acting is an evolving thing You get to a certain level and then you strive to get better than the level you currently are on Acting has many facets and therefore many challenges There is no one way to approach acting I therefore believe that I am still reaching for that goal and I must admit that the experience indeed is the best teacher because you indeed get better at it the more you keep doing it

What was your favorite role to date and why

My favorite role to date is the movie I am currently filming called Beautifully Broken The reason its my first role as a lead actor in a feature film and best of all I am playing the role of a real person who survived the Rwanda genocide that the story is about I played a lead role before in a short film called Kwame also based on a true story and was voted best actor at the 2009 Mexico International Film Festival Beautifully Broken is a story that connects very strongly with the human spirit I can almost guarantee that there will not be a

single dry eye in the theater when its screened Its a beautifully written story of hardship resilience survival and hope

What do you enjoy most about your career

What I enjoy most about my career is the ability to travel and see different people in different parts of the world I am a people person and nothing

makes me happier than meeting and making new friends

Can we expect a book from you

Thats funny you mentioned that I write lots of movie scripts and TV show scripts and I have always thought of writing a book So on my down days on the set of Beautifully Broken I started a book Ive been toying with in my head for a while The title of the book is God Moves When We Stop Helping Him Its more of a booklet than a book Its a book about encouragement

What is the best way for your fans to know what yoursquore working on FacebookTwitter Do you post for your own sites or do you have your assistants do the posts

I hope I do have fans LOL They can find out about what I am doing or working on my Facebook page facebookcomEMEBAND or Facebook fan page facebookcomBenjiBendrix Twitter twittercombochieng Instagram instagramcombenjibendrix and imdb imdbcomnamenm1335173ref_=nv_sr I also have a website benjibendrixcom that I use

Tell us something new something bold that yoursquove never told any other magazinehellipnews tip )

Recently I was fortunate to have my TV webseries Dysfunctionally Organized pitched to a major network and they agreed to have us do a spin-off of the show So we have started the writing process Its a major achievement for my team and myself since we have been working on the show for a long time Its not easy to get an audience with a content procurement person on a major network so we feel very fortunate I cant mention the network because of confidentiality reasons

Photo of Benjamin Ochieng aka Benji Bendrix (friend of Jimi Hendrix) copy Flygirl PhotographyLearn more about Benjamin atproimdbcomnamenm1335173afro-mericarecordscommindtricksmoviecom

BY MISTY SCHWARTZ

word scrambleTHE LAST WORD

a workout for your mind

Wedded bliss All of the words in this months Scramble are related to marriage and weddings Good luck Look for the answers online beginning May 15 at pompanotodaycom

Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answerodeutx gnir oeemcryn lsuipnatgnwo iaoynmtmr rogom slrofweermdiadbis eusenv shrue ovwsnwiddge rrdemia erdib psoesuerdbhteot rceepnoit errceat eiervsc

James Stafford PhotographyfacebookcomJamesStaffordPhotography

jamesstaffordname(561) 201-1640

word scrambleTHE LAST WORD

a workout for your mind

Wedded bliss All of the words in this months Scramble are related to marriage and weddings Good luck Look for the answers online beginning May 15 at pompanotodaycom

Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answer Scramble Answerodeutx gnir oeemcryn lsuipnatgnwo iaoynmtmr rogom slrofweermdiadbis eusenv shrue ovwsnwiddge rrdemia erdib psoesuerdbhteot rceepnoit errceat eiervsc

James Stafford PhotographyfacebookcomJamesStaffordPhotography

jamesstaffordname(561) 201-1640

James Stafford PhotographyfacebookcomJamesStaffordPhotography

jamesstaffordname(561) 201-1640