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Patrick Shaul, LCSW
Dual Relationships: Balancing Your Role as Leader and Friend
Patrick Shaul, LCSW
Objectives
Participants will receive tips for first time bosses
Participants will list four strategies for transitioning from peer to boss
Participants will utilize an assessment tool to determine the strength of their team
Participants will learn the four stages of group dynamics and the management strategies to use for each stage
Participants will explore the special challenges of dual relations
Participants will use the Departure Risk Matrix to determine team engagement
Participants will list eight strategies managers, both new and seasoned, use to be effective
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Introduction
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The Role of the Supervisor
Manager „man ij er
1. A person who directs a team or athlete
2. One in charge of the business affairs or
training of a group
See also Circus Juggler
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The Role of a Supervisor
Juggling many roles, resources, projects,
priorities and problems
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Number one function
Zig Ziglar - to bring individuals together as a
team
Ken Blanchard – “to gradually increase the
competence and confidence of your people
so that you can begin to use less time
consuming styles and still get high quality
results”
Don Shula – manager = coach
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Know Thyself
Know why you want to supervise others
Zig Ziglar – Management assumptions +
management attitude = management
behavior
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Theories of management
Theory X – Frederick Taylor, Negative
management assumptions
Theory Y – Douglas McGregor, Positive
management assumptions
Theory Z – Dr. William Ouchi
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Theory X
Negative Management Assumptions
Employees are expenses, not investments
Control must be centralized
Management‟s primary duty is to control costs, monitor employee work methods, and assure immediate productivity or profit
Workers are basically unmotivated and probably dishonest
There is the one best (standardized) way of performing any job
Subordinates are assumed to dislike work
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Theory Y
Positive Management Assumptions
Work is as natural as play
People are committed and creative
Subordinates are willing to work
People accept responsibility
Employees are capable of intrinsic self direction and control
People are adept at creativity and innovation
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Theory Z
Decision making is typically consensual and
participative
There is a broad concern for the well being
of employees as a natural part of a working
relationship
Flexibility and freedom are intrinsic
Workers work without close supervision
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Transitioning from peer to leader
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Four strategies
1. Accept your new role
2. Set clear boundaries
3. Communicate
4. Take action
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Accept Your Leadership Role
1. How the organization values you has
changed
2. Different duties
3. Changed relationships and allegiances
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Accept Your Leadership Role
Become a “learning machine”
Do your job – not your employees‟ job
Lead by example
Avoid finger pointing
Accept responsibility
When in doubt, ask
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Set Clear Boundaries
Clarify expectations
- What you expect of employees
- What they can expect from you
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Set Clear Boundaries
Clarify any changes to policies, procedures and operations
The importance of consistency
Don‟t …
- let personal feelings sidetrack you from
establishing boundaries and enforcing rules
- let friends come before business
- assume that saying something once is enough or
that “everyone already knows”
- share privileged or confidential information with
direct reports who are not in the “need to know”
capacity
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Communicate
Inform
Instruct
Learn
Clarify
Coach
Motivate
Receive and
understand
Correct
Commend
Listen
WIIFM
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Communicate
I never said you stole the money
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Take Action
The ultimate criteria for measuring
management effectiveness is results
Three types of actions
1. Problem solving
2. Implementation/Execution
3. Decision Making
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Advice & ideas for new supervisors
Accept the change
Be upfront and honest with people
Expect your relationships to change
Establish a new peer group
Be yourself
Don‟t let your feelings get hurt
Admit mistakes
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Advice & ideas for new supervisors
Don‟t pull any punches
Stand your ground
Help others to be more valuable
Use clear communication
Don‟t play favorites
Don‟t wait for things to happen
Do what you say you‟re going to do
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How advice and ideas help
It helps you focus on the future
It allows you to gain credibility as a
manager/supervisor
It helps others trust you in your new role
It reduces the chance that your new
employees will “test” you
It helps establish you as “the boss”
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How advice and ideas can help
It helps you gain the confidence of your former peers/new employees
It helps you get off on the “right foot” with everyone
It sends the message that you‟re there to support your employees
It helps you set new team norms
It establishes you as a “fair” boss
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How advice and ideas can help
It minimizes confusion
It helps others perform at their best
It helps you get things done, which helps
your manager feel like he/she made a good
choice in selecting you!
Strategy What it Means Why it’s Important
Accept Your New Role Understand that your
responsibilities have changed
and increased and that your
relationships with former
peers are different
Establishes you as the boss;
helps you deal with the
change; helps you get on with
doing the new job; helps with
your self esteem
Set Clear Boundaries Make sure that your new
employees understand the
rules and limits of your new
working relationship with
them
Establishes the rules for
working together so that
things go more smoothly;
establishes you as being in
charge
Communicate Send clear messages and
listen effectively
Allows for clarify of direction,
responsibilities, expectations
and information
Take Action Take the initiative to get
things done
Helps you get the results for
which you are accountable
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Balancing your role as leader and friend
Three key strategies
1. Communicate
2. Set limits/boundaries
3. Be aware of the situation
Balancing Your Role as Leader and Friend
Challenges
1. Former peers now report to you
2. Social situations, for example schools, churches, recreation
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Stages of Group Development
Forming
Storming
Norming
Performing
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Forming
Group Dynamics
Discomfort of a new
situation
Polite and impersonal
relationships
Testing
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Forming
Group Dynamics
Discomfort of a new
situation
Polite and impersonal
relationships
Testing
Manager’s Tasks
Directing
Setting Goals and
Vision
Team Assessment
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Storming
Group Dynamics
Tension and conflict
Adolescents
Creative
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Storming
Group Dynamics
Tension and conflict
Adolescents
Creative
Manager’s Tasks
Coaching
Telling and Listening
Solicit Suggestions
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Norming
Group Dynamics
Building cohesion
Increased order
Rules of behavior
Team identity
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Norming
Group Dynamics
Building cohesion
Increased order
Rules of behavior
Team identity
Manager’s Tasks
Support, Encourage
and Praise
Share Decision Making
(Listen)
Facilitate Group
Interaction
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Performing
Group Dynamics
Climate of support
Focused energy
Functional relationships
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Performing
Group Dynamics
Climate of support
Focused energy
Functional relationships
Manager’s Tasks
Delegate
Reinforce Group‟s
Decisions
Guide
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Moving through the stages
Tell employees what to do
Show employees what to do (coaching)
Risk taking by employees
Observe (supporting)
Praise
Forming
Storming
Norming
Performing
Forming
Polite
Impersonal
Guarded
Testing
Figuring things out
Storming
Power struggles
Conflict control
Cliques
Opting out
Feeling stuck
In-fighting
Performing
Mature
Supportive
Flexible
Productive
Open, even in
difficult situations
Norming
Clarifying roles
Getting organized
Giving feedback
Becoming cohesive
Developing how to
problem solve
Stages of team development
Forming
Introductions
Expectations
Ground rules
Boundaries and
structure
Storming
Raise issues and
resolve conflicts
Listen
Help team learn how to
work together
Performing
Celebrate successes
Set new targets
Mentor
Norming
Reflect on group‟s
progress
Share insights and
observations
Analyze tasks and
roles
Stages of team development/Manager‟s tasks
Forming Storming Norming Performing
Key Issues Forming trust Who has power,
authority, control
Feeling valued
and appreciated
Satisfaction with
roles and
progress
Key Concerns Why are we
here?
What role will I
play?
Will I fit in?
Will we get tasks
done?
Will we work
together?
How do I fit in?
How do you fit in?
Will we work well
together?
What have we
accomplished?
What else can we
do?
How can we do it
better?
Things to do Introductions
Ground rules
Clarify function,
mission & tasks
Teach/experience
group process
Learn roles
Teach decision
making
Share feedback
Evaluate team
and individual
progress
Celebrate
success
Set new targets
Redesign and
improve
processes
Leader tasks Provide safety,
structure and
boundaries
Share
responsibility and
authority
Provide safe
ground for
feedback
Share insights
and observations
Share information
Coach and
mentor
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Leadership styles
Directing
Coaching
Supporting
Delegating
Leadership style is a combination of directing
and supportive behavior
Development Level of the Group Leadership Style
Low Competence
High Commitment
Some Competence
Low Commitment
High Competence
Variable Commitment
High Competence
High Commitment
Development Level of the Group Leadership Style
Low Competence
High Commitment
Directing
Structure, control & supervise
Some Competence
Low Commitment
Coaching
Direct & Support
High Competence
Variable Commitment
Supporting
Praise, Listen & facilitate
High Competence
High Commitment
Delegating
Turn over responsibility
for day to day operations
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Situational Leadership
The ability to change your style depending
on the person you are working with and the
task
Leader may use more than one style with
different employees and/or different styles
with the same employee for various tasks
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Three skills needed for leadership
Flexibility – changing your style
Diagnostic skills – assesses your team
individually and collectively
Contracting on goals
Leader Manager
May or may not have official appointment
to the position. Can be an informal leader
Have power and authority to enforce
decisions only so long as followers are
willing to be led
Influence others toward goal setting,
either formally or informally
Interested in risk taking and exploring
new ideas
Relate to people personally in an intuitive
and empathetic manner
May or may not be successful as
managers
One who inspires people to do the right
thing in a timely manner
Are appointed officially to the position
Have power and authority to enforce
decisions
Carry out predetermined policies, rules
and regulations
Maintain an orderly, controlled, rational
and equitable structure
Relate to people according to their roles
Feel rewarded when fulfilling
organizational mission or goals
Are managers as long as the appointment
holds
One who directs people to do things right
in a timely manner
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He who leads but has no followers is only taking a walk
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Assessing your team
The Departure Risk Matrix
-Healthcare Advisory Board
HIGH IMPACTMEDIUM
IMPACTLOW IMPACT
HIGH
DEPARTURE
RISK
1 2
MEDIUM
DEPARTURE
RISK
3 4
LOW
DEPARTURE
RISK
High Departure Risk
Unexplained absenteeism or tardiness
Disengagement
Formal complaint
Behavior change
Performance covers
Dissatisfaction with performance review
Newly assigned responsibilities
Life-changing event
Interviewing elsewhere
Poor relationships with colleagues
Significant institutional or environmental changes
Source: Advisory Board Company.
H*Works Recruitment and Retention Database, 2001, Advisory Board Interviews
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Tracking Risks/Impact
Strategies
1. Talk with employees
2. Listen
3. Match strengths with tasks
4. Recognition
5. Gallup Organizations Q-12 questions
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Gallup Q 12
Do you know what is expected of you at work?
Do you have the materials and equipment you need to do your work right?
At work, do you have the opportunity to do what you do best every day?
In the last seven days, have you received recognition or praise for doing good work?
Does your supervisor, or someone at work, seem to care about you as a person?
Is there someone at work who encourages your development?
At work, do your opinions seem to count?
Does the mission/purpose of your company make you feel your job is important?
Are your associates (fellow employees) committed to doing quality work?
Do you have a best friend at work?
In the last six months, has someone at work talked to you about your progress?
In the last year, have you had opportunities at work to learn and grow?
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Employee Engagement
The Engaged Employee
The Not-Engaged Employee
The Actively Disengaged Employee
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The Engagement Index
The Engaged Employee
Use their talents daily
Consistently high levels of performance
Emotionally committed to what they do
High energy and enthusiasm
Committed to work, company, role and colleagues
Intentionally builds supportive relationships
Challenges purpose to achieve goals
Natural innovation and drive for efficiency
Clear about desired outcomes of their role
Leader’s Role
Make employee aware of their strengths
Provide continuous feedback on how employee‟s strengths are used
“Clear the path” so that employee can do what they do best without unnecessary distractions
Build trust by showing commitment to employee‟s success
Give employee ownership and creation of outcomes
Challenge employee with their area of strength
Follow This Path, Coffman, Gonzales-Molina,
2002
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The Engagement Index
The Not-Engaged Employee
Meets the basics
Confusion or inability to act with
confidence
Low-risk response and commitment
No real sense of achievement
Possible commitment to organization,
but not always to role or group
Will speak frankly about negative views
Leader’s Role
Review the demands of each role
Clarify the desired outcome of these
roles
Tweak the fit of the role if necessary. If
possible, move people into roles
that fit better
Be direct with employee and engage in
conversations about problem areas
Measure progress toward outcomes by
rating the performance – never the
person
Follow This Path, Coffman, Gonzales-Molina,
2002
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The Engagement Index
The Actively Disengaged Employee
Low trust
“I‟m OK, everyone else is not”
Normal reaction starts with resistance
Inability to move from problems to solutions
Low commitment to company, work group or
role
Isolation
Won‟t speak frankly about negatives views
but will act out frustrations either overly
or covertly
Leader’s Role
Address the problem as soon as possible
Talk to the employee involved about how to
address the problem
Use direct language. Be specific. Use real
examples of behavior observed
Help the employee understand they need to
move out of the problem into solutions
Review talent fit for the role. Be honest with
yourself and the employee. Act swiftly to
find the right role. Create a plan
Create trust by talking more about outcomes
that about steps to get there
Follow This Path, Coffman, Gonzales-Molina,
2002
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Eight Universal Laws of Leadership
“The Stuff of Heroes: The Eight Universal
Laws of Leadership.” William Cohen. 1998.
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1. Maintain absolute integrity
Keep your word
Chose the harder right over the easier wrong
Guard your principles
Do the right thing
An Effectiveness Leaders is...
0 5000 10000 15000
Courageous
Expertness
Motivator
Model
Dedicated
Other
Decision Making
Caring
Visionary
People
Communicator
Integrity
Number surveyed: 54,000
Covey, 1999
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2. Know your stuff
Know your people
Learn from the bottom up – become an
expert
Learn from every experience
Learn from your subordinates
Never stop learning
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3. Declare your expectations
Get your expectations clear
Choose, don‟t juggle
Make your expectations compelling
Develop a plan. Write it down
Promote your expectations and implement your plan
Listen to feedback and adjust your strategy as
needed
Be faithful to your expectations
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4. Show uncommon commitment
Meet with your employees face-to-face
Keep going when the going gets tough
Think outside the box
Accept risk that go with commitment
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5. Expect positive results
Develop your self confidence
Be true to yourself
Become a positive thinker
Visualize the results you want
Maintain your enthusiasm
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6. Take care of your employees
Be the leader when things go wrong
Give employees needs a top priority
Recognize, appreciate and reward
Assume responsibility when things go wrong
Share the gain
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7. Put duty before self
Focus on goals instead of personal gain
Rejoice in the success of others
Consider others before yourself
Share the pain
Demonstrate high morale courage
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8. Get out in front
Go to where the action is
Set the example
Be willing to do anything you ask of your
employees
Take charge
Be an up-front leader
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The Eight Universal Law
Without action,
the universal laws are worthless
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