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    Medieval Sourcebook:Lorenzo De Medici:

    Paternal Advice To A Cardinal (C. 1491)

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    Lorenzo de Medici (1449-1492) was the unofficial ruler of Florence from 1469 until his death. He was a humanist,arts patron - and a skillful politician. In 1489 he manages to have his son Giovanni made a cardinal, at the age of 14.Giovanni later ruled as Pope Leo X (reigned 1513-1521) and was also a patron of the arts. In the letter here Lorenzowarns his son to avoid vice and luxury.

    You, and all of us who are interested in your welfare, ought to esteem ourselves highly favored by Providence, not

    only for the many honors and benefits bestowed upon our house, but more particularly for having conferred upon us,

    in your person, the greatest dignity we have ever enjoyed. This favor, in itself so important, is rendered still more so

    by the circumstances with which it is accompanied, and especially by the consideration of your youth and of our

    situation in the world. The first that I would therefore suggest to you is that you ought to be grateful to God, and

    continually to recollect that it is not through your merits, your prudence, or your solicitude, that this event has taken

    place, but through his favor, which you can only repay by a pious, chaste and exemplary life; and that your

    obligations to the performance of these duties are so much the greater, as in your early years you have given some

    reasonable expectations that your riper age may produce such fruits. It would indeed be highly disgraceful, and ascontrary to your duty as to my hopes, if, at a time when others display a greater share of reason and adopt a better

    mode of life, you should forget the precepts of your youth, and forsake the path in which you have hitherto trodden.

    Endeavor, therefore, to alleviate the burden of your early dignity by the regularity of your life and by your

    perseverance in those studies which are suitable to your profession. It gave me great satisfaction to learn, that, in

    the course of the past year, you bad frequently, of your own accord, gone to communion and confession; nor do I

    conceive that there is any better way of obtaining the favor of heaven than by habituating yourself to a performance

    of these and similar duties. This appears to me to be the most suitable and useful advice which, in the first instance,

    I can possibly give you.

    I well know, that as you are now to reside in Rome, that sink of all iniquity, the difficulty of conducting yourself by

    these admonitions will be increased. The influence of example is itself prevalent; but you will probably meet with

    those who will particularly endeavor to corrupt and incite you to vice; because, as you may yourself perceive, your

    early attainment to so great a dignity is not observed without envy, and those who could not prevent your receivingthat honor will secretly endeavor to diminish it, by inducing you to forfeit the good estimation of the public; thereby

    precipitating you into that gulf into which they had themselves fallen; in which attempt, the consideration of your

    youth will give them a confidence of success. To these difficulties you ought to oppose yourself with the greater

    firmness, as there is at present less virtue amongst your brethren of the college. I acknowledge indeed that several

    of them are good and learned men, whose lives are exemplary, and whom I would recommend to you as patterns of

    your conduct. By emulating them you will be so much the more known and esteemed, in proportion as your age and

    the peculiarity of your situation will distinguish you from your colleagues. Avoid, however, as you would Scylla or

    Charybdis, the imputation of hypocrisy; guard against all ostentation, either in your conduct or your discourse; affect

    not austerity, nor ever appear too serious. This advice you will, I hope, in time understand and practice better than I

    can express it.

    Yet you are not unacquainted with the great importance of the character which you have to sustain, for you well

    know that all the Christian world would prosper if the cardinals were what they ought to be; because in such a casethere would always be a good pope, upon which the tranquility of Christendom so materially depends. Endeavor then

    to render yourself such, that if all the rest resembled you, we might expect this universal blessing. To give you

    particular directions as to your behavior and conversation would be a matter of no small difficulty. I shall, therefore,

    only recommend, that in your intercourse with the cardinals and other men of rank, your language be unassuming

    and respectful, guiding yourself, however, by your own reason, and not submitting to be impelled by the passions of

    others, who, actuated by improper motives, may pervert the use of their reasons. Let it satisfy your conscience that

    your conversation is without intentional offense; and if, through impetuosity of temper, any one should be offended,

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    as his enmity is without just cause, so it will not be very lasting. On this your first visit to Rome, it will, however, be

    more advisable for you to listen to others than to speak much yourself.

    You are now devoted to God and the church: on which account you ought to aim at being a good ecclesiastic, and to

    shew that you prefer the honor and state of the church and of the apostolic see to every other consideration. Nor,

    while you keep this in view, will it be difficult for you to favor your family and your native place. On the contrary, you

    should be the link to bind this city closer to the church, and our family with the city; and although it be impossible toforesee what accidents may happen, yet I doubt not but this may be done with equal advantage to all: observing,

    however, that you are always to prefer the interests of the church.

    You are not only the youngest cardinal in the college, but the youngest person that ever was raised to that rank; and

    you ought, therefore, to be the most vigilant and unassuming, not giving others occasion to wait for you, either in

    the chapel, the consistory or upon deputations. You will soon get a sufficient insight into the manners of your

    brethren. With those of less respectable character converse not with too much intimacy; not merely on account of

    the circumstance in itself, but for the sake of public opinion. Converse on general topics with all. On public occasions,

    let your equipage and address be rather below than above mediocrity. A handsome house and a well-ordered family

    will be preferable to a great retinue and a splendid residence. Endeavor to live with regularity, and gradually to bring

    your expenses within those bounds which in a new establishment cannot perhaps be expected. Silk and jewels are

    not suitable for persons in your station. Your taste will be better shown in the acquisition of a few elegant remains of

    antiquity, or in the collecting of handsome books, and by your attendants being learned and well-bred rather thannumerous. Invite others to your house oftener than you receive invitations. Practise neither too frequently. Let your

    own food be plain, and take sufficient exercise, for those who wear your habit are soon liable, without great caution,

    to contract infirmities. The station of a cardinal is not less secure than elevated; on which account those who arrive

    at it too frequently become negligent; conceiving their object is attained and that they can preserve it with little

    trouble, This idea is often injurious to the life and character of those who entertain it. Be attentive, therefore, to your

    conduct, and confide in others too little rather than too much. There is one rule which I would recommend to your

    attention in preference to all others. Rise early in the morning. This will not only contribute to your health, but will

    enable you to arrange and expedite the business of the day; and as there are various duties incident to your station,

    such as the performance of divine service, studying, giving audience, and so forth, you will find the observance of

    this admonition productive of the greatest utility. Another very necessary precaution, particularly on your entrance

    into public life, is to deliberate every evening on what you may have to perform the following day, that you may not

    be unprepared for whatever may happen. With respect to your speaking in the consistory, it will be most becoming

    for you at present to refer the matters in debate to the judgment of his holiness2 alleging as a reason your ownyouth and inexperience. You will probably be desired to intercede for the favors of the pope on particular occasions.

    Be cautious, however, that you trouble him not too often; for his temper leads him to be most liberal to those who

    weary him least with their solicitations. This you must observe, lest you should give him offense, remembering also

    at times to converse with him on more agreeable topics; and if you should be obliged to request some kindness from

    him, let it be done with that modesty and humility which are so pleasing to his disposition. Farewell.

    trans. by Merrick Whitcomb, Source-Book of the Italian Renaissance, revised ed. (Philadelphia, University of

    Pennsylvania Press, 1903), 82-86.

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