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OUCH! That Stereotype Hurts
&
Communicating Respectfully in a Diverse World
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OUCH! Goal
Explore communication
skills for promoting
inclusion and respect in
the workplace
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• Name
• Community and Position
• One personal objective
OUCH!OUCH! Participant Introductions
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OUCH! Ground Rules
• Everyone teaches, everyone learns
• Keep an open mind• Respect others’ opinions• Maintain confidentiality• Prompt return from breaks and
lunch • Silence phones
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BRIGHTVIEW CORE VALUES
The Brightview organization has adopted a set of core values that have become known as STARS – Service, Teamwork, Action, Reputation, and Success. These principles guide our interactions with co-workers, residents, and business partners; influence the way that we do our jobs; and inspire us to deliver exceptional service to internal and external customer.
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MISSION STATEMENT
“As associates of Brightview Senior Living, we are a team of
people dedicated to creating vibrant senior living communities by providing excellent service to
all of our customers.”
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BRAND PROMISE
Vibrant people creating vibrant communities
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OUCH! Objectives
Recognize the impact of stereotypes and biased comments even when said casually.
Enhance skills for speaking up against stereotypes and biased comments without blame or guilt.
Identify inappropriate workplace behaviors and their potential for creating a hostile work environment.
Learn strategies to filter your behavior.
Describe and use the Let’s Get Honest Three-Step Process.
Explain the “reasonable person” standard.
Explain intent vs. impact
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OUCH! StereotypesOUCH! Stereotypes
An oversimplified image or
statement applied to a whole group
of people, without regard for the
individual.
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OUCH! Bias
Bias is a predisposition to see events, people or items in a
positive or negative way.
Bias is an attitude or belief.
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OUCH! Terms
Silent Collusion - To go along with through silence.
Ally - Someone who speaks up on behalf of someone else.
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OUCH! Experiences
• Describe a time when you…
• Were exposed to stereotypes in media (TV, movie, music, etc.
• What message did it send?
• When you have been the target or recipient of a stereotype. How did that affect you?
• When have you witnessed someone else being stereotyped. What did you do?
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“The simple act of naming a bias as such or objecting to it
on the spot establishes a social environment that
discourages it: Saying nothing encourages it:
– Daniel GolemanEmotional Intelligence
OUCH!OUCH!
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How Stereotypes Surface
Jokes Name-Calling/labels Oversimplified statement applied to ALL people in
the group Stereotypical descriptors Personal assumptions about individuals Spokesperson syndrome Descriptors that evoke stereotypes because they are
opposite to the existing stereotype Statistical stereotyping Sarcasm
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OUCH! That Stereotype Hurts
Now, Let’s Watch the OUCH! Video
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OUCH! Discussion
• How does this video relate to you? Do you see yourself reflected in any way?
• Which technique(s) do you personally prefer? In what types of situations would you use these techniques?
• Which situations are most difficult for you? How do you respond? What is the impact of sitting silent?
• How can you increase your comfort, confidence and skill in speaking up in these situations?
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Speaking Up: Six Techniques
• Assume Good Intent and Explain Impact
• Ask a Question
• Interrupt and Redirect
• Broaden to Universal Human Behavior
• Make It Individual
• Say Ouch!
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• All associates should be trained to understand their rights and responsibilities
• Guard your words and actions
Key Points and Application
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“Communication provides the legs for
bias, carrying it from person to person,
from generation to generation.
Eventually, however, communication
will be the way to end discrimination.”– John N. Bailey
ABC, Exec. Director, International Association of Business Communicators
OUCH!
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Thank You
International Training and Development, LLCwww.OuchThatStereotypeHurts.com
Produced and Distributed by Joel Leskowitz SunShower Learningwww.Ouch-Video.com
Based on the book by Leslie C. Aguilar
OUCH!OUCH!
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SEX is EVERYWHERE
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What is Sexual Harassment?
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This workshop is about… Recognizing how tough it is to leave your
sexuality at home How difficult it is to live in a sexually
charged society but work in an environment that strives to be void of anything sexual
How we relate to one another and the complexities of sexual harassment
Getting honest and speaking up just as we did with stereotypes and biases
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Now, let’s watch the video
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• What is one thing that you think about differently now that you’ve watched this video?
•Who thinks speaking up is hard?
•Why?
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Get Honest and Speak Up•Walk Away•Think about what you want to say•Go back and say it
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What are the two filters discussed in the video?
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THE GRANDMA FILTERIf you wouldn’t say or do that in front of
your grandma…don’t say or do it
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THE BUSINESS FILTER
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THE FILTERS
1.Are the behaviors inappropriate?
2.Are the behaviors potentially harassing?
3.Rework using filters
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Manager
Caring co-worker
Offended co-Worker
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• Getting Honest with a
Clueless Co-Worker Who Personally Offends You• Neutralize body
language, tone, and inflection
• Use “I” Statements• Give an out• Ask person to stop
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• Getting Honest with a Clueless Co-worker who displays inappropriate behaviors• Use “I” statements with
specifics about inappropriate behavior
• Give an out
• Ask person to stop
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Getting Honest with a Clueless Co-worker who just doesn’t get
it
•Forget courtesy•Be direct, firm, and specific•If necessary:
•Repeat the same words•Walk away
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Getting Honest with a Predator Go to your manager or Human
Resources
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• Third-party sexual harassment
• Reasonable person standard
• Intent versus impact
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Questions?
Comments?
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THANK YOU FOR YOUR PARTICIPATION