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Priory Group
• Europe’s Leading Independent Provider of Mental Health Services
• National provision of focused short duration treatment that achieves results
• Strong focus on return to work and improved productivity
Mission
To bring hope, healing, learning & sanctuary
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Employee Therapy Programmes
• General
Stress Anxiety Depression Bereavement Social Phobia Panic Disorder Post Traumatic Stress Disorder Obsessive Compulsive Behaviour Healthy Lifestyle (Drama, Music, Art Therapies)
• Specialist
Addictions Adolescents Eating Disorders
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Tricia Woolfrey, FCIPD, MNLP, DHP
HR Consultant, Hypnotherapist, Trainer, Coach, Author
An associate of The Priory and private practices in Surrey and Harley Street
25 years in the corporate world as an HR Director
Qualifications include: Fellow of the Chartered Institute of Personnel and Development Advanced Clinical Hypnotherapist Master Practitioner in Neuro Linguistic Programming
Clients in the IT, Telecoms, Pharmaceutical and Finance industries: Dell Fujitsu Schroder NHS
Change management, team building, training, coaching and therapy
From stress management to presentation skills, leadership to conflict management, from anxiety to depression and wellbeing programs including addictions, weight control and smoking cessation
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Optimising Performance in a Stressful World
Our chaotic world
Shareholder expectations Battling the giants Mergers and acquisitions Targets bigger, margins are smaller Pressure to produce more with less GPs/Hospital doctors not the only decision makers More power in purchasing Spending is tight Managing the matrix Pressure to drive sales and cut costs Huge pressure to reduce numbers in the sales force Leads to insecurity and fear
Insecurity + fear = stress
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What is Stress?
Stress occurs when pressure exceeds your perceived ability to cope
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Levels of Stress
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Sources of Negative Stress
Threat• Job losses• Restructuring• Poorly implemented change
Boredom• Work underload• Lack of challenge
Environment• Noise• Unsafe environment• Uncomfortable conditions• Crime
Worry• Regrets above the past• Fears for the future• Financial commitments
Pressure• Work overload• Tight timelines• High targets • Work or responsibility significantly above level of skill
Frustration• What you are doing is not working• Perfectionism• Traffic
Conflict• Working relationships• Office politics• Family/partners
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Our Response?
Fight Flight Freeze
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Our Contribution to Stress
Poor change management Poor management of conflict Hiring the wrong people for the job Failure to manage upwards Providing insufficient resources Negativity Ego-led management –v- motivational management
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Signs of Stress
Tension in the body An increase in blood pressure A change in sleeping patterns A change in eating patterns A rapid heart rate Rapid breathing Dizziness Nausea Fatigue/insomnia Lethargy Back pain Headaches Loss of sense of humour Negative/anxious thinking Tearfulness Waking up tired after an early night Biting nails Pacing Depression
Skin rashes Difficulty concentrating Loss of sex drive Irritablity Impatience Nightmares Frequent colds Indecisiveness/procrastination Apathy Sense of isolation Isolating yourself Feeling overwhelmed Distraction behaviours increasing:
Smoking Drinking Eating Gambling Drugs
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The Risks of Prolonged Stress
Physical Heart disease High blood pressure Diabetes Stroke Obesity Migraines Heartburn Ulcers Infection IBS
Emotional Memory problems Anxiety Depression Eating disorders Substance abuse
Happiness is not doing what you like, but liking what you do
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The Secret Language of Feelings
Understanding the Secret Language of Feelings
Primary feelings1. Boredom To grow through challenge2. Anger To experience fairness for self and others3. Guilt To be fair to others4. Sadness To keep valued things and people5. Loneliness To have meaningful relationships6. Stress To have success in managing your life7. Fear To feel safe
Secondary feelings9. Frustration To meet needs through own efforts
Tertiary10. Depression To be effective and hopeful
Source: Secret Language of Feelings, Cal Banyan
Identify the source and create a strategy
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Dealing with Stress
Wellbeing
• Eat healthfully• Avoid caffeine, alcohol and cigarettes• Exercise regularly• Work-life balance• Practice deep breathing• Massage• Reflexology• Yoga• Physiology – head up and shoulders down, back and relaxed• Have a pet – really!
Outlets
• Doing something you enjoy• Doing something physical and tiring – jogging, swimming, gardening, kick-boxing• Having a really good belly-laugh
Social
• Talk problems through with someone you trust• Spend time with friends
For fast acting relief, try slowing down!
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Dealing with Stress, continuedTime Management• Learn to say no• Delegate where possible• Create a routine where possible• Maintain an up to date to do list• Prioritise and focus• Set achievable goals and reward yourself when you achieve them• Keep a clear desk• Pack up and go home• Learn to powernap
Develop inner strength and outer calm• Be aware of strengths and achievements• Develop problem solving skills• Embrace change• 7th Path ® Self-hypnosis• Meditation• Emotional Freedom Technique• Use positive anchors: relaxing music, or remembering a time when you
were happy, relaxed, strong and confident
• Adopt a positive mental attitude• Employ motivational leadership
Identify the source and create a strategy
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Thinking Distortions and the Art of the Reframe
1. All or nothing thinking He’s uselessHe’s not strong on admin, but he can sure close
a deal
2. Catastrophising It’s terribleIt’s not good, but it is resolvable
3. Over-generalisation He was disrespectful – nobody respects meHe was disrespectful once and there are
plenty of examples of genuine respect from the others
4. Disqualifying the positive Never mind that we got the sale, we are still off target
We can make up the gap with focused effort
5. Jumping to conclusions We will never win this contract – our price is too highWe can win on reputation, quality and service
6. Magnification/Minimisation We didn’t win that contract – may as well write off the quarter
There is enough in the pipeline and we can build more
7. Emotional reasoning After that row, it’s all pointlessWe’ve cleared the air now. Some important lessons
have been learned.
8. Personalisation He’s not happy in his job. It’s my faultLet’s find out why he isn’t happy and see
what can be done about it
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The Ten Step Program
Step 1: The negative thought (be specific)Step 2: What is the evidence for the thoughtStep 3: What is the evidence against the thoughtStep 4: Which thinking pattern does it represent?Step 5: How does the thought make you feel?Step 6: Is there a purpose for the thought which does not cause me stress?Step 7: Reality/logic/perspective challenge
RealityHow do you know the thought is true?Who says?
LogicHow does this logically follow?Is this based on fact or emotion?How reasonable is this?
PerspectiveWhat is the worst that could happen?What are the odds of this happening?How would the outside world view this?
Step 8: Alternative positive thoughtStep 9: How does that make you feel?Step 10: Are you willing to let go of the negative thought? When?
From: Think Positive, Feel Good by Tricia Woolfrey
Attitudes are contagious.
Dennis and Wendy Mannering
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Ego-Led Leadership –v- Motivational Leadership
EGO-LED LEADERSHIP
Inner fear – outer strength
Creates fear and doubt
Fear and doubt = stress
Obedience and “just enough”
Short-term gain, long-term pain
Command and control
One size fits all
Rigid
MOTIVATIONAL LEADERSHIP
Inner strength – outer calm
Stimulates creativity and confidence
Creativity and confidence = resourcefulness
Commitment and motivation
Short-term pain, long-term gain
Inspire and empower
Adapt to motivational profile
Flexible
Those who see themselves as weakened, attack
© Copyright Tricia Woolfrey, PW Consulting Limited 2008
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Personality Indicators
Towards Away From
Internal External
Necessity Possibility
Specific General
Similarity Difference
Self Other
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Action Plan
Create a less stressful working environment by:
Practicing the art of reframing – for yourself and your team Discover your own PI profile and that of your team Apply the PI profile to ease communication, conflict and change
Recognise signs of stress early in yourself and others
Identify the source of stress and create effective coping strategies
Manage expectations upwards, with your peers and with your team
Under promise and over-deliver
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Serenity Prayer
Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change
The courage to change the things I can
And the wisdom to know the difference