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Me, You and Them— Designing Interactions for Healthy Relationships Fawn Ellis [email protected] #KillerRobot Friday, September 6, 13

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Me, You and Them— Designing Interactions for Healthy Relationships

Fawn Ellis [email protected]#KillerRobot

Friday, September 6, 13

mailto:[email protected]
mailto:[email protected]
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Extensions of Body

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Efficient Extensions of Body

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Efficient Extensions of Body Docile Servant

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Docile Servant

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Mobile partnerDocile Servant

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Mobile partnerDocile Servant Mobile partner

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Relationship Model

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References Steve Duck

Ruthellen Josselson

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Long-term meaningful relationship

Personal/Social Order AlignmentAutonomy

TimingCommunication

Identify/ relate

Disc

lose

DisclosePersonal G

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Share Experience

Contribute

Disclose

Discover alignment

Shor

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Discover alignment

Build Trust

TendCare

Anticipate

Understand Meaning system Build Trust

TendCare

Anticipate

Understand Meaning system Build Trust

TendCare

Anticipate

Understand Meaning system Evolve & Realign

Share Experienc

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Alignment is Key

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Social Order

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Social Order Personal Order

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Social Order

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Social Order Personal Order

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Identity/Relatedness

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Identity/Relatedness

Body language

Context

Fashion

Slang

Body language

Fashion

Slang

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Identity/Relatedness

Body language

Context

Fashion

Slang

Context

Fashion

Slang

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Identity/Relatedness

Body language

Context

Fashion

Slang

Context

Slang

Body language

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Identity/Relatedness

Body language

Context

Fashion

Slang

Context

Body language

Fashion

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Disclosure

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Share intimate

info

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DisclosureDisclose to align

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Balance disclosure

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DisclosureToo Fast, Too soon

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Balance disclosure

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Balance disclosure

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Balance disclosure

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Balance disclosure

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Balance disclosure

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Too fast, Too Soon

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Identify/ relate

Disc

lose

DisclosePersonal G

row

th

Share Experience

Contribute

Disclose

Discover alignment

Shor

t-te

rm re

latio

nsh

ip

Discover alignment

Build Trust

TendCare

Anticipate

Understand Meaning system Build Trust

TendCare

Anticipate

Understand Meaning system Build Trust

TendCare

Anticipate

Understand Meaning system Evolve & Realign

Share Experienc

eD

eepe

r Disc

losu

re

Long-term meaningful relationship

Personal/Social Order AlignmentAutonomy

TimingCommunication

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Identify/ relate

Disc

lose

DisclosePersonal G

row

th

Share Experience

Contribute

Disclose

Discover alignment

Shor

t-te

rm re

latio

nsh

ip

Discover alignment

Build Trust

TendCare

Anticipate

Understand Meaning system Build Trust

TendCare

Anticipate

Understand Meaning system Build Trust

TendCare

Anticipate

Understand Meaning system Evolve & Realign

Share Experienc

eD

eepe

r Disc

losu

re

Long-term meaningful relationship

Personal/Social Order AlignmentAutonomy

TimingCommunication

What

Identify/ relate

Disc

lose

Disclose

Contribute

Discover alignment

Shor

t-te

rm re

latio

nsh

ip

Discover alignment

Evolve & Realign

Personal Gro

wth

Share Experience

Disclose

Build Trust

TendCare

Anticipate

Understand Meaning system Build Trust

TendCare

Anticipate

Understand Meaning system Build Trust

TendCare

Anticipate

Understand Meaning system

Dee

per D

isclo

sure

Share Experienc

e

Identify/ relate

Disc

lose

Disclose

Contribute

Discover alignment

Shor

t-te

rm re

latio

nsh

ip

Discover alignment

Evolve & Realign

Personal Gro

wth

Share Experience

Disclose

Build Trust

TendCare

Anticipate

Understand Meaning system Build Trust

TendCare

Anticipate

Understand Meaning system Build Trust

TendCare

Anticipate

Understand Meaning system

Share Experienc

e

Contribute

Evolve & Realign

Dee

per D

isclo

sure

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Identify/ relate

Disc

lose

DisclosePersonal G

row

th

Share Experience

Contribute

Disclose

Discover alignment

Shor

t-te

rm re

latio

nsh

ip

Discover alignment

Build Trust

TendCare

Anticipate

Understand Meaning system Build Trust

TendCare

Anticipate

Understand Meaning system Build Trust

TendCare

Anticipate

Understand Meaning system Evolve & Realign

Share Experienc

eD

eepe

r Disc

losu

re

Long-term meaningful relationship

Personal/Social Order AlignmentAutonomy

TimingCommunication

What Why

Identify/ relate

Disc

lose

Disclose

Contribute

Discover alignment

Shor

t-te

rm re

latio

nsh

ip

Discover alignment

Evolve & Realign

Personal Gro

wth

Share Experience

Disclose

Build Trust

TendCare

Anticipate

Understand Meaning system Build Trust

TendCare

Anticipate

Understand Meaning system Build Trust

TendCare

Anticipate

Understand Meaning system

Dee

per D

isclo

sure

Share Experienc

e

Identify/ relate

Disc

lose

Disclose

Contribute

Discover alignment

Shor

t-te

rm re

latio

nsh

ip

Discover alignment

Evolve & Realign

Personal Gro

wth

Share Experience

Disclose

Build Trust

TendCare

Anticipate

Understand Meaning system Build Trust

TendCare

Anticipate

Understand Meaning system Build Trust

TendCare

Anticipate

Understand Meaning system

Share Experienc

e

Contribute

Evolve & Realign

Dee

per D

isclo

sure

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Share Experiences

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Share Experience

Past Stories

Equivalent Knowledge

Participate

Synchronous/Asynchronous

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Share Experience

Past Stories

Equivalent Knowledge

Participate

Synchronous/Asynchronous

Past Stories

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Share Experience

Past Stories

Equivalent Knowledge

Participate

Synchronous/Asynchronous

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Share Experience

Past Stories

Equivalent Knowledge

Participate

Synchronous/Asynchronous

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Share Experience

Past Stories

Equivalent Knowledge

Participate

Synchronous/Asynchronous

Equivalent Knowledge

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Equivalent Knowledge

Past Stories

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Past Stories

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Past Stories

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Past Stories

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Synchronous

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Synchronous

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Asynchronous

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Asynchronous

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Equivalent Knowledge

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Equivalent Knowledge

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Participate in each others experience

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Contributions

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Collaborative Effort

Tokens of Commitment

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Collaborative Effort

Tokens of Commitment

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Collaborative Effort

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Collaborative Effort

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Tokens of Commitment

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Tokens of Commitment

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Growth

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Growth

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GrowthFriday, September 6, 13

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Understanding

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Understanding Understanding

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Tend & Care

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Tend & Care Tend, Care, Anticipate

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Evolve and Realign

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Evolve & Realign

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Thank youFawn Ellis [email protected]#KillerRobot

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mailto:[email protected]
mailto:[email protected]

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