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WORKSHOP ON “MANTRAS FOR DEALING CHILDREN”

BY:- DIVYASHU SHARMASCHOOL COUNSELLOR

Pathfinder Global School, Pataudi

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WELCOME PARENTS!!

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“MANTRAS” at a Glance

IntroductionToday’s scenarioHow much important is guidance

MANTRAS for dealing children

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Introduction

To up bring a children is a big challenge. Children usually misbehave which leads

embarrassment .

Every child is unique so parents are not

sure about best strategy to reduce or

handle their misbehave.

There is no clear cut way or a STAT tablet

to reduce their misbehave.

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TODAY’S SCENARIO

No training is required for parenting skills.

Our parents reared us why we can’t.But time has changed.New generation is getting more

freedom and becoming street smart.So children must be tackled with a

different approach.Parent-child relation, now must be

explanation based not fear based.

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Importance of Guidance

Little guidance is good parenting.

It will boost up the confidence of

parents as teachers.

Reduce the stress related to different

behaviour problems in children.

Parents must now work on different

strategies for tackling misbehaviour.

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MANTRAS while dealing children

1. Understand this; Is its really a problem behaviour.

2. Is there is any fault in the environment-parents,teachers, peers, siblings, restricted environment.

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3. Correction is required within the environment- parents, teachers, siblings etc. not in the child.

4. Common causes are strict discipline, harsh punishments, and insecure feeling.

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MANTRAS while dealing children

5. Try to find the underlying cause don’t react superficially.

6. Why the child is doing that- scared, unhappy, threatened or even ignored.

7. Find the cause, deal with them.

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MANTRAS while dealing children

8. Rewards or bribes: reward them in form of praise, a look of approval, a pat. Understand the difference.

9. Punishments can be in form of, with holding privileges.

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10. Threats, scolding's and physical punishments are not effective punishments, these lower self esteem, make them unwanted and unloved .

11. Any behaviour which can’t be tolerated must be immediately rectified not after a time lapse.

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MANTRAS while dealing children

12.Discipling children must be explanatory not fear based. Clear them the reason WHY.

13. Praise/ Reward the child when doesn’t make mistake rather scolding for wrong deeds.

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14.Respect the individuality of each child.

15. Each problem must be dealt in its present perspective.

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MANTRAS while dealing children

16. Make children understand why they are not allowed to do they want through role plays and story telling.

17. Make the child feel secure in your unconditioned love.

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18. Give positive and concrete commands. Like – play outside instead of don’t play here.

19. Be consistent with your approach towards children.

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MANTRAS while dealing children

20. Listen to your child, listen with your eyes through active and reflective listening.

21. Describe your own feeling using “ I ” statements.

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MANTRAS while dealing children

22. Every problem must be attended, handled with care, understanding, affection and concern.

23. Display sense of humour for effective parent – child relationship.

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24. Don’t worry or panic about occasional misbehaviour. Try to understand child point of view.

25. Don’t hesitate to consult a counsellor.

MANTRAS while dealing children

19Children deserve a little

praise

For tasks they are asked to do.

If they’re to lead a happy life,

Dear parent,

So much depend on you.

20THANK YOU

ALL !!

For further queries:-DIVYASHU SHARMA

pgscounsellor@gmail.com