Listening

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Listening Listening Presented By: Presented By: Usman Hashmi Usman Hashmi

Transcript of Listening

ListeningListeningPresented By:Presented By:Usman HashmiUsman Hashmi

Oral Communication in Oral Communication in the Workplacethe Workplace

• Private discussion

• Telephone• Interviews• Trainings• Meetings• Seminars• Presentation• conferences

• Gossiping• Talking in the

hallway

The Listening ProcessThe Listening Process

3. Remembering3. Remembering

2. Interpretation2. Interpretation

1.Receiving1.Receiving

4. Evaluating4. Evaluating

The Listening ProcessThe Listening Process

6. Acting6. Acting

5. Responding5. Responding

Listening Process Listening Process BarriersBarriers

Mental Barriers

• Prejudgment

• Closed-mindedness

• Selfishness

• Selective Listening

Improving Listening in the Workplace• Prepare to listen• Control external and internal distractions.• Separate facts from opinions.• Identify important facts.• Ask clarifying questions.• Avoid pre-judgment.• Establish eye contact• Take notes to ensure retention.• Watch for signals• Give feedback

Listening in the Listening in the WorkplaceWorkplace

• Defer judgment.• Pay attention to content (not to appearance, form, or

surface issues).• Listen completely.• Listen primarily for the main idea; avoid responding

to sidetracking issues.• Do only one thing at a time; listening is a full-time job.• Control your emotions.• Be silent for a moment after person finishes.• Make affirming statements and invite additional

comments.

Listening in the Listening in the WorkplaceWorkplace

Barriers to ListeningBarriers to Listening

• Pre-judgment• Uninteresting

Topics• Speaker’s

Delivery• External

Distractions• Selfishness

• Listening for Facts

• Selective Listening

• Personal Bias• Language/

Culture Differences

• Faking Attention

Most Irritating Most Irritating Listening HabitsListening Habits

1. Rushing the speaker and making him feel he is wasting the listener’s time.

2. Interrupting the speaker.3. Not looking at the speaker.4. Getting ahead of the speaker

(finishing her thoughts).5. Not responding to the speaker’s

requests.

Most Irritating Most Irritating Listening HabitsListening Habits

6. Showing interest in something other than what the speaker is saying.

7. Saying “Yes, but . . .,” as if the listener’s mind is made up.

8. Topping the speaker’s story with “That reminds me . . .” or “That’s nothing; let me tell you about. . . .”

Most Irritating Most Irritating Listening HabitsListening Habits

9. Forgetting what was talked about previously.

10. Asking too many questions about details.