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John Parley Byington
Marguerite Brennetta Smith Byington
Compiled by Roma Byington Sierk
Copyright © 2009, All Rights Reserved
Updated © 2019 All Rights Reserved
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We Are A Family Since before any of us were born, God planned for us to share our lives together.
He knew exactly how our strengths and weaknesses would balance one another and
the depth of love, understanding, and commitment we would learn to feel. He
knew the richness of our separate characters would be born as a result of
overcoming the trials together. He knew that we would laugh together and cry
together. He knew we would need each other....to hug....to help....to teach....to
serve....to Love.....
Author Unknown
To My Family I know that I am not perfect and that I may have made some mistakes in this
document. I hope that you will enjoy it anyway! My intent is to make a special
memory and tribute to the lives of so many special family members. I love you
and want you to know that I am proud to be a part of this wonderful family. Thank
you all for being part of my life. Roma Sierk
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Home of Hannah Molland Byington; where she raised 8 of her 10 children. Parley
was three when they moved here. Note: The improvements on this land were not
there when Hannah bought this home. The photo was taken in the 1990s. Notice
the beauty of the land surrounding the home.
A Short Sketch of the life of John Parley Byington
“I was born March 23 1880 in the southern part of Idaho at
a little place called Red Rock, Idaho. My parents were,
Joseph Henry Byington and Hannah Molland Byington.
Our family later moved to a place 3 miles northeast of
Menan where my mother filed a homestead right on 160
acres of land.
The first few years of my boyhood were spent here at this
place. I was about 14 years old when I went to live with my
sister Martha on a ranch near the village of Taylorville
about 8 miles due south of Idaho Falls. I lived with Martha
and her husband Frank for about 4 years where I finished what schooling I got.
I worked for wages for a few years, in February 1903, I met the girl I later
married, Marguerite Brennetta Smith, on a dredge boat on the Snake River south
of Minnedoka, she and her mother, Loulia Brennetta Allen Smith, were cooking
for the miners.
I left the dredge in June and didn’t see my future wife for nearly 2 years. I met and
married her on the 12th day of December in 1904. We filed a homestead right on a
piece of dry farm land in 1907 and have farmed every since. My wife died on
September 10, 1953. I didn’t like to live alone so I asked my sister, Martha (who
was a widow) to come and live with me. She lived here till the 9th of December
1959 when she passed away. I’m alone now.” John Parley Byington
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It was the year of 1880, on March 23rd, in a small place called Red Rock, Idaho.
The happiness of Joseph Henry and Hannah Molland Byington was increased by
the birth of a baby boy. This was the ninth of ten children. They named him John
Parley. His only memory of Red Rock was going over to the neighbors and talking
to them through the cat hole; a small hole in the bottom of the door through which
cats passed in and out.
The photo shown above is Red Rock Pass, South of Downey, Idaho.
It was pioneers like Joseph Henry Byington, Captain Hunt, Hyrum Byington,
James Burrup, Joseph Bloxham, Frank Potter, Thomas Jenkins and many others who bore the
hardships of pioneer life. They built the bridges, killed the rattlesnakes, fenced and cleared the
land. They opened the mines, faced the danger of Indians and built roads at their own expense.
They were the true pioneers. They were builders, hunters, trappers and sturdy settlers of early
Idaho. Joseph Henry and his wives left Red Rock about the year 1882.
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1882 Congress passed the Edmunds Law, making polygamy a federal crime
punishable by up to five years in prison and denying convicted polygamists
the right to vote, to hold office and to serve on juries. The law increased
federal pressure on Mormons to renounce their practice of plural marriage
and sent many Mormon leaders into hiding.
Due to the Manifesto, Hannah was now considered a widow and was left to raise
the family by herself. About this time Parley was three years old. The family
moved to Pools Island, now Annis. Here, his mother filed on a 160-acre
homestead.
The Homestead Act May 20, 1862
(U. S. Statutes at Large, Vol. XII, p. 392 ff.)
AN ACT to secure homesteads to actual settlers on the public domain.
Be it enacted, That any person who is the head of a family, or who has arrived at
the age of twenty-one years, and is a citizen of the United States, or who shall have
filed his declaration of intention to become such, as required by the naturalization
laws of the United States, and who has never borne arms against the United States
Government or given aid and comfort to its enemies, shall, from and after the first
of January, eighteen hundred and sixty-three, be entitled to enter one quarter
section or a less quantity of unappropriated public lands, upon which said person
may have filed a pre-emption claim, or which may, at the time the application is
made, be subject to pre-emption at one dollar and twenty-five cents, or less, per
acre; or eighty acres or less of such unappropriated lands, at two dollars and fifty
cents per acre, to be located in a body, in conformity to the legal subdivisions of
the public lands, and after the same shall have been surveyed: Provided, That any
person owning or residing on land may, under the provisions of this act, enter
other land lying contiguous to his or her said land, which shall not, with the land
so already owned and occupied, exceed in the aggregate one hundred and sixty
acres.
Sec 2. That the person applying for the benefit of this act shall, upon application to
the register of the land office in which he or she is about to make such entry, make
affidavit before the said register or receiver that he or she is the head of a family,
or is twenty-one or more years of age, or shall have performed service in the Army
or Navy of the United States, and that he has never borne arms against the
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Government of the United States or given aid and comfort to its enemies, and that
such application is made for his or her exclusive use and benefit, and that said
entry is made for the purpose of actual settlement and cultivation, and not, either
directly or indirectly, for the use or benefit of any other person or persons
whomsoever; and upon filing the said affidavit with the register or receiver, and on
payment of ten dollars, he or she shall thereupon he permitted to enter the quantity
of land specified: Provided, however, That no certificate shall be given or patent
issued therefore until the expiration of five years from the date of such entry; and
if, at the expiration of such time, or at any time within two years thereafter, the
person making such entry -- or if he be dead, his widow; or in case of her death,
his heirs or devisee; or in case of a widow making such entry, her heirs or devisee,
in case of her death -- shall prove by two credible witnesses that he, she, or they
have resided upon or cultivated the same for the term of five years immediately
succeeding the time of filing the affidavit aforesaid, and shall make affidavit that
no part of said land has been alienated, and that he has borne true allegiance to
the Government of the United States; then, in such case, he, she, or they, if at that
time a citizen of the United States, shall be entitled to a patent, as in other cases
provided for by law: And provided, further, That in case of the death of both father
and mother, leaving an infant child or children under twenty-one years of age, the
right and fee shall inure to the benefit of said infant child or children, and the
executor, administrator, or guardian may, at any time within two years after the
death of the surviving parent, and in accordance with the laws of the State in
which such children for the time being have their domicile, sell said land for the
benefit of said infants, but for no other purpose; and the purchaser shall acquire
the absolute title by the purchase, and be entitled to a patent from the United
States, and payment of the office fees and sum of money herein specified.. ..
Aunt Martha Byington Reed, who was twelve years old, tells how cold it was when
they got to Annis on November 22, 1883. They found a place there for three
hundred dollars, so they decided to stay. It was a one-room log house with a dirt
floor. James sold his place in Wilford and stayed with his mother in Annis.
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Times were hard. Martha says, "there was scarcely any
money”. “I remember having a nickel once in a while”.
Even after I worked out for a living I was paid with an
order on the store. We could buy things like sugar,
raisins and salt. Then when the crops were harvested,
the store took wheat for their pay. Fruit was very scarce.
An apple was a great treat. Sometimes we took
butter and eggs to the store to trade for the things we needed. Butter sold for eight
to ten cents a pound and eggs from six to eight cents a dozen."
Everyone who was old enough to work had chores to do. Their recreation was
dancing, sleigh riding and church. Sometimes they would have a home talent show
or a play, put on in the ward.
The year 1886 brought another sorrow to Hannah. Her son, Joseph Henry, who
was about eight years old, died in June. He died of the dread disease diphtheria.
Her family contacted the disease but only one lost his life, all the rest were very
sick.
Diphtheria took many children in the early days. Often scarlet fever swept the
area, destroying the hearing when it did not kill, resulting in deaf-mutism. Measles
came almost every spring. The terrible epidemic of smallpox spread like wildfire
on a prairie. Nothing could be done. Home remedies and native herbs did not
help. A few days of terrible fever and little bodies lay lifeless, covered by the ugly
pock marks.
When the Diphtheria came through the country it was so severe that every family
lost one or more. Hannah was called many times to the homes of the sick to nurse
or lay away the dead. Note: 90% of the death rate of children between the
years1860-1965 was because of whooping cough, scarlet fever, diphtheria, and
measles. This was before the introduction of immunizations and antibiotics.
Hannah nursed her children through these sicknesses with a prayerful heart and
loving care. She was called many times to the homes of her neighbors to help
them. She was always a good friend and would divide her last bit of food with
them.
About this time Hannah took in a little girl, since she had been left an orphan. All
the family came to love her as one of them. After three or four years they were left
broken hearted when relatives came and took her away.
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1887 Increasing pressure on the Mormons, Congress passed the
Edmunds-Tucker Act, which disincorporated the Mormon
church, confiscated its real estate and other properties, and
abolished women's suffrage in Utah. The law effectively
destroyed the political, economic and social system by
which the leaders of the Mormon church have guided and
governed their society, imposing federal authority in its
place.
About 3 or 4 times a week Hannah would walk to Menan about 3 miles to Sunday
school, Relief Society & Primary. It has been said of her that she kept time with
her feet by knitting socks, sweaters, and gloves for her family, as she walked.
There were no schools in the country but Hannah Molland Byington, taught the
boys and girls how to read and write, she had taught school in Marsh Valley at a
place called nine mile. Hannah was the first teacher of this school. Hannah also
insisted that the children be baptized at 8 yrs. of age. In the year of 1888 Grandpa
was baptized by Bishop William Stephens.
1888 Deep snows and raging blizzards, following a dry
Summer season devastated the cattle herds of the
northern Plains. When the snows finally melted,
hundreds of thousands of carcasses littered the range,
leading the ranchers who gathered them up to call the
winter of '88 "The Great Die-Up."
On November 19, 1889 Grandpas mother died after a
lingering illness caused by an injury to her back when
she jumped from a wagon and her skirt caught. It was
his recollection that he had crawled down behind the
stove where it was warm and had fallen asleep. The
neighbors, who were caring for his mother, awoke
Grandpa and told him his mother was dead.
He said “no-one will ever know what a heartache these
words caused, because she had been both mother and
father to him”.
Hannah Molland Byington
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1890 The U. S. Supreme Court upheld the constitutionality
of the 1887 Edmunds-Tucker Act, denying that its assault
on Mormon institutions constituted a violation of
Mormon religious freedom. At the same time, Congress
debated the even more punitive Cullom-Strubble Bill,
designed to deny all Mormons the right to vote. In
response, Wilford Woodruff, leader of the Mormon Church, issued the
"Manifesto," a revelation urging all members of the church to comply with
the laws of the land regarding marriage.
Parley‟s older brothers and sisters took care of him, and when he was 10 years old,
he started school where he went to the 4th reader. They used homemade benches
and tables in place of desks.
Money was very scarce so the only toys that Grandpa ever owned was something
useful. They always managed to have a pocket knife which they used to make
toys. Once Grandpa said he and his younger brother Spencer made a wagon which
several of the neighbors wanted to buy. All offers were refused, but the little boys
agreed to trade it for some seed wheat, which was never received.
About this time Grandpa was given his first pair of store bought pants, a
pair of waist overalls which really made him feel grown up.
At a 24th of July celebration, Grandpa entered a foot race. The prize was
a bag of marbles. After several attempts the race ended in a tie between
him and another boy. The judges decided to give a straw hat
as another prize and since grandpa was from a poor family. They felt he
needed the hat the most. Later that day some bigger boys took
away his straw hat and ruined it.
In the Fall Grandpa and Uncle Spencer worked in the spuds and
made just enough between them for one pair of shoes. These
two boys took turns wearing the shoes to school that winter.
For the use of his mother’s homestead, an older brother had agreed to care for the
two little boys as Grandpa and Spencer were called. They had been withering some
horses for an older sister and her husband. The following is a letter his sister
received from Grandpa.
Menan, Bingham Co. Idaho April 16, 1893
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Dear Sisters it is with pleasure that I set down to drop you a few lines to let
you know that we are all well and hope this finds you all the same. Well
we started plowing on the 8th of this month and have plowed about 6
acres. Well the school teacher is teaching up to the Teton
Basin and he left here owing me and Spencer $3.50 how
much will you take for your bay colt, she is as ugly as she can
be she has not grown any since you left here Well I cannot
think of any more to write so I will close my letter at this time
from your ever loving brother, Parley Byington.
Aunt Martha told us a few years ago that she was sure he got
that runty ugly colt. At this time the brother took the little
boys to Marsh Valley where they worked on the railroad
changing the tracks from narrow gage to wide. He also
worked clearing sage and shocking grain which he tied by
hand for 50 cents a day. With some of this money he bought
his first suit. Next he moved up to Sand Creek near
Taylorville where he stayed with his sister Martha and her
husband for about three years. Grandpa and Spencer baled hay
during the winter and worked on ranches during the summer trying to get a start in
livestock.
Parley worked on a dredge boat mining gold in Stanley Basin and also dredged for
gold on the Snake River near Minidoka, Idaho. Note: The Author, Edgar Rice
Burroughs worked on the same dredge boat at the same time.
The photo on the left is of the Burroughs-Sweetser Gold
Dredge it was located in Stanley Basin. The photo
below is of a house boat where the Burroughs family
lived upstairs and the hired hands slept downstairs.
They mined near Minidoka.
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This is where he met Marguerite Brennetta Smith
(Maggie) in 1903. She and her mother were
cooking for the miners. The mine failed, and Parley
was once again forced to look for work. He found a
job working for the railroad in Utah.
It was about one and a half years later that Parley
and Maggie were married at Laguna, Utah. At this
time he was working on the railroad. Grandpa studied and worked on steam
engines. All his life he had a secret desire to be a railroad engineer.
In 1905 he and Grandma moved into a little house at Broxom where he
worked helping build a canal for irrigation. Prior to this as a young man he
had helped build the Island Canal at Annis.
In June they moved to Annis, Idaho on his
mother’s old homestead. Times were hard,
but they were used to it, since things never
had been easy for either him or Grandma.
They had a cow, a wagon team and ten
dollars. They planted a garden and Grandpa
got a job at anything he could do, as it was
too late to plant a crop.
This photo is of the Cookhouse near Minedoka, Idaho where Loulia and Maggie cooked for the miners. Loulia and Maggie are pictured on the l eft.
( Actual home where they lived in Annis, Idaho)
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Maggie holding
Parley and Maggie Byington baby Glen
Their first child was born on November 5, 1905. They named their sweet little
daughter Lena Marguerite. The second child, Joseph Burkhart (Bert) joined them
on October 29, 1907. Theao Brennetta became part of the family on February 26,
1910. All three of these children were born in the log home in Annis.
In the spring of
1906, one of
grandpa’s horses got
a disease, so it had
to be destroyed and
they weren’t allowed
to bring another
horse on the place
for one year.
Grandpa went up
behind Old Baldy in Swan Valley and worked at a Sawmill. He got some rough
lumber and some slabs and moved on a dry farm in Poplar in 1907 where he had
filed on a homestead. With this lumber he built a one room house. In the daytime
he would plow and clear the land of sage and in the evenings while the horses
rested he would work on building the house. Some of the men working on the
Anderson dam would hear him hammering a long time after dark.
Joseph Burkhart ( Bert) Byington
2 nd child
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hard Grandpa had to shovel the snow away from the barn door and then away from
the horses before he could get them out to water.
Grandpa and Grandma worked hard to get
the homestead cleared of sage. The
plowing had to be done with a walking
plow. The winters were hard, and one
time during the winter the wind blew so
The Byington Farm Poplar, Idaho
During harvest, Grandpa
traded work with the
neighbors for help to get
his own done. Sometimes
threshing wouldn't be
finished until Christmas.
Wo rking the Farm Poplar, Idaho
Parley and Maggie’s Farm.
Parley is standing on the load of hay. Maggie, Lena, Theao and Gene are standing next to the wagon.
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Grandpa worked on the Anderson Dam
several times to repair and rebuild houses that
were washed away in high-water. He also
helped at different times bring several rafts of
house logs and lumber down the Snake River.
Some were taken out at Lorenzo and some
were taken out at near Heise Hot Springs by
the Upper Snake River Ferry.
Upper Snake River Ferry
Six more children came to
bless their happy home.
Eugene Parley was born
November 11, 1912. Merrill
Ray came to them on October
9, 1914. On August 10, 1916
Glen Spencer made his
appearance. John Franklin
was born October 26, 1918
and Keith Paul was born July
Eugene, Lena and Bert
17, 1920. Wayne Ivan was
born February 24, 1922. Even though money was scarce at times they loved to
get together at the school
house for community parties
and dances, also to go on
picnics or gathering wild
fruit in the canyons. The
photo on the left was in
grandpa’s collection. I am
not sure what they are
doing… but, it looks like
fun! Looks like every little
child in the area
was there… maybe even
some we know.
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Eugene, Maggie baby Glen Spring 1917: Eugene, Theao, baby Glen, and Merrill Maggie, Little Merrill, Lena and Bert.
Merrill, Theao, Glen, Frank, Grandpa holding Lena or Theao
Maggie, Ivan and Keith. In
1923 the family moved a few
miles from the dry farm
homestead to the home where
he lived until he died. The
family had grown in number so
that he now had nine children,
two girls & seven boys.
After moving into their new
home in Poplar, Idaho, Carl
Parley and Maggie Byington Home
in Poplar, Idaho Lynn was born January 12,
1925. Sorrow came to the family when little Carl came down with whooping cough
and died on April 14, 1926. Ivan remembered how sad it made him to see his little
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brother struggling to breathe. He said he coughed so hard that he could not catch his
breath. Ivan was devastated by Carl’s death.
Murry Irving joined the family on September 27,
1926. Larry Douglas was born July 14, 1929. Neva
LaRee was born July 31, 1929 and the last child was
born August 10, 1934, his name was Gary Richard.
They were all happy to get where they could have a
lawn, flowers, trees, and a garden and not have to haul
all their drinking water.
Maggie and baby Murry
When Grandpa and Grandma
bought th eir home in Poplar t hey
also acquired some dry farm land
on Antelope, but the crops were
poor and not worth much. So
Parley was forced to go to work
on the river, rebuilding the Dam
Again to make ends meet.
Grandpa played on a ball team until a sprained ankle made
him quit, but several years later he played with several of
his boys again. He enjoyed all kinds of sports and was very
Larry Douglas Neva LaRee Gary Richard
John Parley Byington
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good at horseshoes until the last few years, when a heart condition made it so he
couldn't play.
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In 1949 a six-day blizzard began over the Northern
Rockies and the Great Plains. The storm produced the
most adverse
weather conditions
in the history of the
West. Over 50
inches of snow was
dumped in
South East Idaho.
Parley and Maggie
Maggie and Parley Byington Byington 1949
Parley was asked to be in a movie that was filmed in
this area. Th is photo is from that movie… complete with the old clothing, covered wagons, and other stars!
It would be nice to know the title of that movie and see
if it was still in existence! The title of the movie was
“Bad Boy Bascam”. I don’t know the year it was
filmed but it would be fun to see if it was still in
existence!
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Grandma was in ill health for several years and grandpa was
always ready to take her for a ride or anything to
make her feel better. It seemed that all their lives
Grandpa and Grandma had family and friends around
them. He and Grandma made everyone welcome and was
always ready to help anyone in need. Maggie finally
passed away September 10, 1953. She was 64 years old.
Parley asked his sister Martha to come and live
with him, which she did. Martha had taken care
of him when he was young and now he had his
opportunity to take care of her. Every one of us
lives were blessed because of her, Aunt Martha
did many things to make Grandpa less lonesome.
Grandpa and Grandma and Aunt Martha always
loved to have the little children around them and
were blessed in this respect. None of the 13
living children, who were all married with
families of their own, lived more than fifteen miles away. There wasn't a day
passed but what some of the grand or great grandchildren would run in to see the
Grandparents. They always had candy or cookies for each and every one. Roma
remembers calling Martha “Grandma Aunt Martha” and that she had a bin in the
kitchen where she kept those delicious soft cookies. They were brown and spicy
and really yummy, but, Roma was only allowed to have one. And… never to ask
for one… she just had to wait till one was offered to her. So Roma would stand
by the bin where the cookies were stored until she got one!
Grandma Aunt Martha made a dress for Roma and one for her
doll to match. It was red and had black and yellow circular
designs on it. The dress was made of a shiny material. Roma
loved those dresses and sat eagerly beside her as she made
them. Roma also loved to watch Aunt
Martha’s foot moving up and down on the
treadle sewing machine as she sewed. Aunt
Martha wore black oxford shoes with a wing tip design and a
two-inch heel.
Roma loved to sit on the floor next to her and watch as she made many beautiful
creations for Parley’s family. Roma was two or three years old at the time but still
remembers how much she loved Aunt Martha and Grandpa Parley. Unfortunately,
Martha Byington Reed
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Grandma Maggie died when Roma was only one year old. How she wishes she
could have known her.
Martha made a “Star” pattern quilt
top for many of Parley’s
grandchildren.
Note: The photo on the left is
of a quilt top that Aunt Martha
made. It is still in existence in
2009 and in the possession of
Nina Jones. Martha was a
wonderful “Grandmother” or
“Aunt” to all of us. Aunt
Martha passed away
December 9, 1959 leaving
Grandpa alone once more. She was 87 years old.
Even though someone was around most of the time, Grandpa was very lonely. His
heart had been bothering him for some time although he didn’t go to a Dr. until his
feet started swelling.
Right up to the last-minute Grandpa was telling witty
stories and was interested in changes in community
and government affairs. He was really happy when he
could solve puzzles or do problems that would stump
any of the family, which he often did. He still loved to
play with the children when they came to visit. He
loved to play games like “Triopoly” and “Horseshoes”
with his family. We will all miss his wit and wisdom
but we are deeply grateful for having had it.
Parley with Roma and Evertt
Although he was under a Doctor’s care he started declining until on the 20th of
February 1964 he passed away. At the time he was survived by 13 children, 10
boys 3 girls 89 Grandchildren and 73 great grandchildren. He was preceded in
death by a son, Carl and his beloved wife Maggie. Parley was 83 years old.
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Grandpa was the ninth of ten in his mother’s family and eleven half brothers and
sisters, one child, five grandchildren and four great grandchildren preceded him in
death.
An original poem by Alice Camphouse
I am alone now. Were the words that he said “for the rest of my life, until I am
dead,” He was alone. How could this be true? When his children were counted,
there were more than a few. But the loneliness you feel, when you're in a crowd, is
much worse than when, there is no one around. He was the last one to go, of his
sisters and brothers, his dear wife had gone, along with the others. His life now is
over. We'll see him no more. Now grandma is with him. He's not alone,
anymore.
Life Sketch was written by Granddaughter Alice Camphouse in 1964 and added to
by Granddaughter Roma Christensen 2009
In Loving Memory of Parley and Maggie Byington
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The Parley and Maggie Byington Family Portraits
1935 Back Row: Lena, Bert, and Theao Middle Row: Ivan, Merrill, Glen, Eugene, Frank and Keith.
Bottom Row: Doug, Maggie, Neva Parley holding baby Gary and Murry
Parley Neva, Parley and Theao
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About 1940 Back Row: Bert, Theao, Ivan, Maggie, Glen, Parley, Lena, Merrill, and Doug. Front Row: Keith, Neva, Eugene, Murry, Frank and Gary.
Parley and some of his siblings
Back Row: James, Charles and Parley Front Row: Mariah, Martha, and Susan
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Life History of Marguerite Brennetta Smith Byington
John Perry and Loulia Smith
post office. Nephi was incorporated in
1889, the year that Maggie was born.
Nephi became the county seat of Juab
County.
Agriculture was the first industry.
Farming and livestock have always been
important in the Nephi area. The settlers
traced the source of the salt in the creek
to a cave in the canyon east of town and
they then began to mine it. This soon
became a flourishing local industry, with
salt traded to people as far away as St.
George in exchange for food and
clothing.
Marguerite Brennetta Smith Byington
was born July 3, 1889 in Nephi, Juab
County, Utah, to John Perry Smith and
Loulia Brennetta Allen Smith
(pictured on the left). Nephi was
known for some years as Salt Creek.
However, early church records refer to
it as the Nephi Branch and some
government records also called it
Nephi. Until 22 May 1882 mail to the
town was addressed to the Salt Creek
Maggie Smith age 2
She was the fifth child of 10 children. A son and three daughters were born before
her. None of them lived. Loulia and John must have been very grateful when
Maggie lived. It was seven years after they married that they finally got a child to
keep. (The photo on the left is of Maggie when she was two years old.) Another
daughter, Marion Nevada Smith, was born on 16 July 1891 in Oceola, Nevada.
She lived! What a wonderful feeling it must have been to Loulia to have two little
daughters that she could hold and love and cherish. Two years later on 13 Jul
1893 another daughter, Ruby Hannah Smith, was born in Coalville, Utah. Frank
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Allen Smith joined the family on 30 Jul 1896. Imagine the joy and laughter that
filled this home. Dea Marie Smith was born 10 Apr. 1898 in Nephi, Utah and
once again the family endured sorrow when this little girl died in Feb of 1899, she
was just 1 year old. John Wheaton Smith was born on 23 Aug 1900 in Eureka,
Utah. When John was a baby of eight and a half months old his father, John Perry
Smith, was killed in a train accident there is Eureka, Utah while working for the
railroad. Loulia was faced with the tragedy of losing her beloved husband and
having to feed 5 living children. Here it was, May of 1901 and Loulia had no
choice but to take care of her family alone. Maggie was nearly 12 years old at this
time. Because she was the oldest Maggie had to help. Grandma Loulia took up
sewing for other people to support the family. She moved her family to Lehi,
Utah. It must have been a daunting task to take on the responsibility of raising a
family all alone. But, Loulia was a very strong person. She was a survivor. She
would not give up! Maggie was a very beautiful person. When she was a teen she
was voted the most beautiful girl in Lehi, Utah… although, her physical beauty
was no match for her inner beauty.
Maggie met Parley Byington in 1903 when she and her mother were cooking for
the miners near Minidoka, Idaho. Maggie was 14 years old. It was love at first
sight. However, Parley had to leave and the couple didn’t see each other for a year
and a half.
On the 1st of July 1904, three years after the death of her
husband, Loulia married a man by the name of John
Richard (Jack) Dallimore in Lehi, Utah. He was a
happy man who was ready and willing to help her raise
her family. He loved to play the fiddle and the
accordion and was known to provide the music at many
dances.
One year later another daughter joined the family.
Maggie had a new little sister named Loulia Katherine
Dallimore.
Then Maggie once again was reunited with her lifelong
love and married him in Laguna, Utah in December
John Richard (Jack) Dallimore
1904. She was only 15 years old at the time. Though 15 was not an uncommon
age to be married in 1904. Maggie left her family and moved to Idaho with her
new husband.
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In 1905 Parley and Maggie moved
into a little house at Broxom where he
worked helping build a canal for
irrigation. Prior to this as a young man
he had helped build the Island Canal at
Annis. In June they moved to Annis,
Idaho on Hannah Molland Byington’s
old homestead. Maggie was expecting
a baby. Times were hard, but they
were used to it, since things never had
been easy for either of them. They had a cow, a wagon team and $10. They planted
a garden and Parley got a job doing anything he could do, as it was too late to plant
a crop. Lena Marguerite was born on November 5, 1905. On October 29, 1907
the family was blessed with the birth of Joseph Burkhart (Bert). Then on February
26, 1910 the family added another little daughter, Theao Brennetta.
They moved to Poplar, Idaho near the Snake River in 1910. After Parley had filed
a homestead right on a piece of land and had worked it and built a home for his
family. He wanted his family to be comfortable, so he sacrificed much of his time
to build the home in the picture below. The lady in the photo is Martha Reed.
Parley worked the fields in the daytime and at
night he would build on the house. A man
named Hy Frew was camped across the river
working on the dam. He said he could hear
that hammer going till nine or ten o'clock at
night. Parley was continually working on the
house. Hy Frew realized that Parley had a lot
of ambition. So then he hired him to work on
the river project as often as they could use him. And Hy discovered that Parley was
an expert with an axe. It was like music to watch him. He would swing that axe so
precisely that the axe would hit in the right place every time. It didn't take him
long to get results.
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Lena, Bert, Theao, Eugene, and Merrill
After moving to the new place, Eugene Parley was born on November 11, 1912.
Merrill Ray came along on October 9, 1914.
Eugene, Theao, Baby Glen, Maggie, Little Merrill, Lena and Bert 1917 Merrill, Theao, Glen, Frank, Maggie, Ivan and Keith
One year the family went to Swan Valley for
Christmas. Swan Valley was about twenty-
five miles and that's a long way with a sleigh.
So, Parley did the usual thing. He put the hay
in the bottom of the box. Then he put quilts on
top of the hay. In addition to that, he added
two or three sacks of big cobble rocks that he
had heated in the old cook stove. He got them
real hot and then tucked them down in the hay
and covered them with more hay and quilts to keep them hot. He did this to keep
them warm in the sleigh. He put everyone in the sleigh and headed for Swan
Valley. It took too long to go twenty-five miles in a sleigh… for the rocks to stay
warm. By the time they got to Conant Valley the rocks were cold and so were the
kids! Maggie did her best to keep everyone warm but, alas, the warmth didn’t last.
This was a trip to remember. They went to Swan Valley to stay with Uncle Ike
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and Aunt Susan Fisher. But, Maggie and Parley didn't take any toys for their kids.
But, Uncle Ike and Aunt Susan still had Christmas for their kids. That wasn't
something that satisfied the Byington kids too well. They stayed in Swan Valley
about a week. (The horse and sleigh photo is not from the Byington family
collection).
When they came home, Hy Frew had been at their home. He could see the house
was unlocked. So, he tied a rope to the door knob and went all around the house
with that rope. He wrapped it up so nobody could get in. After untying the house,
they got in and there was a bowl on the table and under the bowl was a gold watch
with a nice fob on it. It was a watch that he had taken to the jeweler and got fixed
up so it run good and he'd left it there for Bert! Maggie thought that Bert was a kid
too small to carry it, so Maggie wouldn't let him have it. She hung it on the wall. It
hung there for a few months, and one day little brother Gene got too curious and
he got up there and picked the hands off from it. He ruined it! Maggie was afraid
to let Bert have it! He never did get any good out of it. Hy Frew was the
superintendent of the progressive irrigation district and he had a good relationship
with Parley and the family. He was quite a guy. He was good to the family. He was
also quite a prankster. Since we didn't lock the house he tied the door shut so we
couldn't get in! Everybody got a kick out of that.
He was a compassionate person. Whenever he had an opening he would give dad a
job and of course dad always made sure he gave him plenty of work for his money.
Parley always taught the family that whenever they went to work… always give a
good day’s work for your pay. And because of that he always had a job with Hy
Frew. It kept the family from going hungry many a time.
Maggie Glen, Frank, Keith and Ivan
Glen Spencer was born August 10, 1916 and John Franklin was born October 26,
1918. Keith Paul was born July 17, 1920. Wayne Ivan came along on February 24,
1922.
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Parley and co-workers felling trees
Bert watched his father with amazement as
he would use his axe to fell trees. He saw
him fell a tree one time near the upper
ferry. The tree was tipped out over the
river. It was a tall cottonwood tree. Parley
sawed a notch on the river side of the tree
in the direction it was tipped, till it started
binding the saw. Then he pulled the saw
out. Parley drove a wedge in the notch, a
little farther, and a little farther. He notched the other side too and pretty soon
the tree fell over the other way. It had been leaning to the east, and it fell to the
west!
Parley had the opportunity to work on the canal. So when Bert was fifteen years
old he was considered old enough to take care of the farm. It took twelve head of
horses to pull the combine. They went to Antelope to harvest the crop, Bert's job
was to haul water and hay to the horses. Luther Higby and Bill Thorngren were
running the combine. Bert had to cook for them. When the job was done he had to
load sacks of wheat and haul them to the barn and stack them up and take some to
town. When the crop was harvested Parley told Bert he could hire someone to help
him bring the sacks in. So, Bert promptly hired Bill Stagg to help him. It took three
days to complete the job. When Bert got back, Parley had a job waiting for him on
the river. Bert had a lot of respect for his father and was always willing to do
anything he asked him to do. He worked hard for his dad because he wanted him
to be proud of him.
The canal superintendent was awfully
good to Parley and to Bert. He usually
paid Parley more than he did anyone
else. He paid Bert the same as Parley.
Bert helped put in most of the rock that
is in the dam at the head of the
Anderson canal. They would put five
wagon loads of rock on a big square
boat (three feet deep and twenty-four
feet square). It had wenches on it so it
could go either up or down stream. They would load the boat up and untie it. They
had to tilt the boat, so the current would take it out into the stream. "We would
push down below the boat to catch the push from the water", said Bert. Then we'd
have to let it down a couple hundred feet. We had a big load sitting down into the
Anderson Head gate
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water two feet or better. Then we would let it down to where we would dump the
rock
off and we would dump the rock off beside the boat. The boat had a flat top on it.
We had to scatter the rock with nothing at the back… up to a crest at the front that
was about eight feet deep. The water was fourteen feet deep at the back side of the
dam. So it took an awful lot of rock. That was dad's job. My job was blasting out
rock and taking it to the river. We did five loads a day. The rocks were too big to
handle so they would blast them and break them up so they could roll the rocks to
the wagons to transport to the boat. They didn't even go home at night. The boss
had a tent they stayed in that was big enough to hold all of them. It took three Fall
seasons to complete the job. Frank and John Smith (Maggie’s brothers) worked
there too. They poured cement on each side of the dam.
"I didn't mind the work, it was nice, said Bert. I liked to get in a little row boat and
row around the river. I really loved that. Every chance I got I was out in that boat!
While we were working on the dam project, Hy Frew, the boss, brought the
superintendent of the sugar factory up there fishing. He told me to take the
superintendent out in the boat. I took him out just below the dam. I was holding the
drift boat close to the cribs or the dam. The superintendent let his line out there
about a couple hundred feet. He kept hooking and catching fish one after another.
He got so excited one time that he kept moving around in the back of the boat and
the water came up within about two inches of the top of the boat. The idea really
tickled me that he might sink the boat! He was one of those big guys that went
around acting awfully important. I would have taken my chances on getting out…
just to see him get soaked! We had a lot of good times. I enjoyed boating on the
river and working on the river too. And in fact, I enjoyed all my work on the farm
or whatever I was doing. That was the kind of a life we had. When you feel good
about what you’re doing, you have a good life.”
Maggie was busy raising her family. She planted a garden and taught the kids to
pull weeds and keep it watered. There was no electricity, no indoor plumbing, and
no refrigeration. The water used in the home had to be carried in buckets. Maggie
had an old-fashioned cook stove. The wood had to be gathered and stacked near
the home so that it was accessible when it was needed. Maggie would build a fire
in the cook stove every morning to prepare all of the family’s meals. The stove
was also used for heat. However, the summer months were unbearably hot. She
baked a lot of bread. She raised her own chickens, cows, horses, pigs, and sheep.
The cows had to be milked, the eggs had to be gathered and all the farm animals
also had to be fed. The family also ate fish that they caught on the Snake River.
Maggie was a master seamstress. She made most of the family clothing. He
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washed the clothes by hand. There were no doctors in the area. Babies were born
at home. She never stopped to rest… and she seldom complained. Maggie was an
amazing person.
In 1923 the family moved again a few miles from the dry farm homestead to the
home where they lived until they died. The family
had grown in number so that they now had nine
children, two girls & seven boys. They were all
happy to get where they could have a lawn, flowers,
trees, and a garden and not have to haul all
their drinking water. They had also acquired some
dry farm land on Antelope, but the crops were poor
and not worth
much. Parley was forced to go to work on the river,
rebuilding the Dam again to make ends meet. Maggie holding baby Murry
Five more children came to bless their happy home. Carl Lynn was born on
January 12, 1925. Then on the 14th of April 1926 he died of the whooping cough.
Maggie was broken hearted. It is so hard to lose a child. It takes a part of you
away that you are never able to get back. Little Carl had left a small handprint in
the cement when the family added a few steps to the front porch. That little hand
print was a memory that lasted for many years. Ivan remembered how difficult it
was to watch his little brother coughing so hard that he could not breathe. Ivan
was very sad.
Murry, Doug, Neva and Gary
Murry was born on September 27, 1926 and Larry Douglas was born on July 14,
1929. Neva LaRee came along on July 31, 1931 and Gary Richard was born on
August 10, 1934.
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Even though money was scarce they loved to get together at the school house for
community parties and dances, also to go on picnics or gathering wild fruit up in
the canyons. They loved to go fishing.
Parley and Maggie were blessed
with fourteen children. Maggie
used to say that the way the Lord
could punish her most was if he
sent her twins! Since she never
had twins she was OK. The
average spacing of the children
was two years. She gave birth to
fourteen children, eleven boys
and three girls!
In the new home, Maggie would rise early every morning
and make bread (12 loaves, and a pan of rolls). She
would stoke the fire in the old cook-stove and get the temperature just perfect for
baking bread. This bread was the main food of the family. Bert remembered that
in the fall the family would take wheat to the granary and trade it for Germade
(wheat) cereal (enough to last 6 months). Then in
the spring they would get oatmeal to last the next
six months. He said it wasn't much for variety but
that it took care of the needs of the family. They
also raised potatoes and a large garden and farm
animals for food and milk.
One of the family favorite
treats was to pour the heavy
cream off the top of the milk
onto a slice of homemade
bread and sprinkle sugar all
over it.
Maggie took pride in her
flower garden. She was
known to walk around the yard when the flowers were in full
bloom with her hands clasped behind her back and breathe deeply the sweet scent
of God's creations. She loved flowers. She had huge "Bleeding Heart's" that grew
on each side of the front steps to the house. They were so beautiful! Maggie loved
her flowers… and she loved her family. But most important, her family loved her.
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She had been a hard-working, loving mother and had devoted all of her life to her
family.
Maggie had diabetes. In the last years of her life she lost a lot of weight. She was
called home to her Father in Heaven on September 10, 1953. She was 64 years 2
months and 7 days old.
May Maggie and Parley Byington’s Pioneer Determination and Loving Spirit
Live on Forever in our Hearts…
Written by Roma Byington Sierk Granddaughter October 2009- updated 2019
Neva Byington Peterson (daughter) wrote: We lived so close to the school that we
walked home for lunch each day. That was why the sack lunch was special. I know
now that my dear mother would have also sent me a sack lunch, if I'd have told her
how much I loved that. She was always cooking and making things that she knew
we loved to eat. She worked hard, night and day, caring for all the family as well
as grand kids and others. It makes me sad to remember how life was so hard for
her. Her enjoyments and compliments were few and far between. I don't think any
of us ever appreciated and loved her like we should have. We should have made a
point to tell her. And it would have been better if we had helped her more. I know
she is one of Gods choicest Angels in Heaven. She is much loved there.
My mother and Father were much loved and although they had so many hardships
in life, (mostly before I was born), they took good care of all of us and we never
went hungry or lacked for love. They were very hard working all their lives and
did sacrifice so much for all us kids. It makes me sad to remember how much they
both went without so that we could all have more. They worked hard to help their
kids. My mother worked both day and night to keep up with her large family. She
was always up working, long after the rest of the family had gone to bed. Mom and
Dad were the first up in the morning getting started on the days work.
There is not a day that goes by that I don't think about Mom and Dad and miss
them and know how hard life was for them. I sure do appreciate how much they
taught me and the values they gave us all. They gave us their love, their honesty,
and kindness and thoughtfulness for others. These are lessons that will always be
with us. Their love and concern for others was always first in their minds. They
also taught us love and concern for the less fortunate among us including animals
and birds and other creatures. I find these values lacking in society as we know it
today.
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Stanley Smith (grandson) wrote: When Grandpa moved the family to the
Anderson Canal head gate, times were terribly tough and challenging. The
available properties were generally isolated from the more developed properties
and communities. The land made available to him was located in the greater
Poplar, Idaho, region. It was 'dry land' property which meant he had the added risk
of depending on Mother Nature for rainfall to make his crops grow. His land was
far from markets for his produce and far from meaningful commerce where he
could conduct his business needs.
Undaunted by the isolation and the attendant hardships it would bring, he and
Grandma set their course. Land cultivation and harvest drove the activities of these
pioneers. The endless daylight-to-dark demands of farming inspired the need for
large families. Grandpa and Grandma were no exception to this tradition. As they
succeeded agriculturally, they 'pushed the envelope' by expanding their family
nearly every year. Sacrifice was a by-word to them as they struggled to endure.
The family lived in a one-room house with a semi-basement dug into the hillside
approximately a 1/4 mile above the Anderson head gate. There were no trees, no
in-door toilet facilities, no electricity, no water well, no improved roads, no
doctors, no stores, and no close neighbors. The family had only basic necessities
and few material possessions -- even windows with glass panes and curtains were
pure luxuries in those times. Their existence was void of all worldly pleasures and
nice things that are now taken for granted in our more modern age.
Fortunately, though, Grandpa and Grandma seemed to have an abundance of
character, love, and determination. Their bedrock features forged the nest for the
Byington children as they sought to till the unplowed ground and prosper from
their backbreaking work. Not much is known by my generation about how
members of the family spent each day, each week, and each month as they grew up
on the 'dry farm., Without doubt the boys worked hard along side of Grandpa to
plow, plant, and harvest the crops. However, female members, traditionally cared
for the babies and young toddlers and did the household chores.
Sharon Tyler Linville (granddaughter) remembered when Grandma asked her to
go out to the garden and get her an ear of corn. She loved corn on the cob but, she
liked to eat it raw! She also remembered that Grandma loved flowers and babies
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(all kinds of babies!) She remembered a family film of Maggie holding baby
chicks and talking to them.
Fay Anthony wrote: My association with the Byington family and with Ivan goes
back 70 years. In 1929 my folks purchased the Poplar Store and we moved up to
Poplar. I don’t think that there are any friendships that are so solid and enduring as
those that you form as a youngster growing up. This was my experience with the
Byington family. Parley Byington was a true friend to my Dad When we moved to
poplar it was during the time of the great depression, and Parley Byington did
everything that he could to help my folks make the little country store produce a
living.
Parley and Maggie had a large family often boys and three girls, so they had their
hands full trying to keep food on the table and clothes on the backs of all Even
though he could have saved money by going to town for groceries, Parley made it
a point to buy everything that he could from Dad I don„t remember Parley
Byington being a great church goer, but I do remember him coming into my
Fathers store on several occasions and telling him to take an order of groceries to
the home of a widow in our community that had a rather large family. He would
always say just put it on my bill and don’t say anything about where it came from.
If any family had serious financial problems, Parley Byington was the first one
there to help. This attitude toward other people has been carried on by his family. I
will never forget the great Love and Respect that my folks had for Parley &
Maggie Byington, I guess that’s why I have had the same feeling about them. The
Byington’s have been some of my dearest friends and business supporters
throughout my life. And I have had a great respect for their integrity because I
found that their word was as good as their bond.
Mrs. Parley (Maggie) Byington, Funeral Held
Funeral services for Maggie B. Byington were held Monday, September 14, at 2 p.
m. from Ririe Second ward L.D.S. Chapel, with Bishop George L. Lovell,
presiding. Family prayer was offered by Murry Byington and the prelude and
postlude was by Marilyn Lovell. Opening song was "Sometime We'll Understand,"
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by the Singing Mothers. Invocation was offered by Herbert S. Poore. Life history
was given by Harriet Lovell and a vocal solo, "We'll Meet at the End of Trail," was
sung by Jesse Nield.
Harold Freeman was a speaker and a vocal selection, I'll Go Where You Want Me
to Go," was sung by the Singing Mothers. Closing remarks were made by Bishop
George L. Lovell, and Ray Crystal sang the closing song, "Bury Me Near the Old
Home". The Benediction was by Doug Byington. Interment was in Annis Little
Butte Cemetery with the dedicatory prayer by Dan Tyler.
Pall bearers were Rodney, Spencer, Dale, Donald Byington, Wayne Robinson,
Terry Tyler, Bob Hall, Harry Groth. The flower bearers were Grandchildren.
Flowers were under the direction of the Ririe Second Ward Relief Society. The
funeral was directed by the Eckersell Funeral Home.
Ririe Pioneer Matron Dies
Mrs. Maggie Byington, 64, of Ririe, died Thursday in an Idaho Falls hospital after
a lingering illness.
Born July 3, 1889, at Nephi, Utah, daughter of John and Louila Brennetta Smith.
Married to Parley Byington, Dec, 12, 1904, at Lagoona, Utah. Member of the
Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
Mrs. Parley (Maggie B.) Byington, 64, resident of Ririe for the past 43 years, died
Thursday afternoon at an Idaho Falls hospital following a lingering illness.
She was born July 3, 1889, at Nephi, Utah, the daughter of John Perry and Loulia
Brennetta Allen Smith. She was married Dec. 12, 1904, at Lagoona, Utah, to
Parley Byington and the couple immediately came to Idaho, living first at Annis
and moving to Ririe a short time later. She was a member of the LDS Church.
Survivors include her husband and the following sons and daughters: Mrs. Lena
Smith, Bert Byington, Mrs. Dan M. (Theao) Tyler, Eugene Byington, Merrill
Byington, Glen Byington, Frank Byington, Keith Byington, Ivan Byington, Carl
Byington (deceased), Murry Byington, Douglas Byington, Mrs. Dwain (Neva)
Peterson, and Gary Byington.
Also surviving are 57 grandchildren and two brothers and two sisters, Mrs. Albert
(Ruby) Hansen, Annis; Mrs. Elvin (Loulia) Wilbur, Vallejo, California; John W.
Smith, Boise; and Frank A. Smith, Santa Rosa, California.
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Funeral services will be held Monday at 2 p.m. in the Ririe Second LDS Ward
Chapel with Bishop George L. Lovell officiating. Interment will be in the Annis
Little Butte Cemetery under the direction of the Eckersell Funeral Home of Rigby.
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Marguerite Brennetta Byington
July 1889 – Sept 1953
Obituary given at her funeral
by Harriet Lovell
God did not make her in a single hour.
He fashioned her for laughter, love and tears.
And as a tree that slowly comes to flower
He gave her time, the blessed gift of years
God did not make her with a single breath
He gave her will, to strive and hope and trust
And days for growth-------
And she grew graciously through sun and rain
With tolerance and kindness for all men
And though life’s storms have bowed her soul in pain
She did not fall, but reached to the stars again
Maggie was born the 3rd of July, 1889 at Nephi, Juab Co., Utah
A tiny baby daughter came to the home of John Perry Smith and his
wife, Loulia B. Allen Smith. She was the sixth child to enter that
home but the first to live.
What a joy she must have been to her parents. How much love and
care must have been showered upon her. So much that all through her
life she seemed to radiate that love on all whom she met. Sometimes
to me it seemed that she must have been created that she might scatter
love, smiles and sunshine on all who crossed her way.
Ten more children came to bless the Smith home. Sixteen in all, but
only five lived to maturity; these were Maggie, Mamie, Ruby, Frank
and John. Mamie died when she was 21. The others are here today
(1953) Maggie’s sister Ruby who is Mrs. Hanson of Lorenzo, Idaho.
Frank A. Smith from his home in Santa Rosa, California. John W.
from his home in Boise, Idaho.
The family left Nephi, Utah when Maggie was very small. First, they
went to Coalville, Utah. And later to Eureka, Juab Co, Utah where her
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father (John Perry Smith) was employed on the railroad, which carried
the ore from the mining district down the mountain to the junction.
When Maggie was 12, an accident at work, left the little family
fatherless. Her mother, Loulia B Smith, received compensation from
the company, about a thousand dollars which covered his funeral and
burial at Coalville, UT With the balance, she purchased a small home
in Lehi, UT
As soon as the family was located in their new home in Lehi, Utah,
they were faced with the necessity of earning a livelihood. A girl of
12 years old in that day was expected to do most of the work of a
woman. The only work to be had at that time was in the kitchen of a
neighbor. Cleaning the home of a friend and doing the washing and
ironing for those fortunate as to be able to pay them.
With tub and board or at best with an old over stroke washer, money
doesn’t go very far in keeping a family.
I (Harriet Lovell) know, I was born a few months before Maggie. My
father was killed in an accident in a mine seven miles from Eureka,
Utah. My mother too, tried to make a living washing.
Overnight, almost, Maggie found herself of necessity assuming the
responsibility of womanhood. Indeed, each member of the family for
there was wood to be chopped, water to be carried, the housework to
be done, and children to be cared for.
A cook was needed in Minidoka, Idaho on a boat where men were
dredging for gold on the Snake River. Mrs. Smith was glad to get the
extra money so the little family moved to Idaho.
One of the men on the boat was Parley Byington. Who knows,
perhaps there was a mutual attraction at their first meeting. Two
months later the boat dismantled and moved elsewhere. Maggie and
family returned to Lehi, Utah. The young man moved to Stanley
Basin and later to Utah. Maggie was in Salt Lake City working for
her aunt.
Later, Mrs. Smith married and and with her new husband moved to
Laguna, Utah. Then a child was born of this marriage, a sister Loulia,
now Mrs. Wilbur of Valiejo, California.
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So, it happened that in the fall of 1904 Parley Byington went to
Laguna, Utah to claim his bride. They were married there the 12th of
December of that year. 22 months after their first meeting. Their first
years were spent successively at Lava Hot Springs and Annis, Idaho
and at the Diamond X ranch on Pinecreek Bench, back in forth on the
farm. In that year they filed on a homestead near the Anderson Dam.
With three children they moved to the dry farm where they lived for
fifteen years.
Many of us know what it is to homestead a dry farm. Hauling water,
gathering wood, the long distance to church or store and the few near
friends. With hopes and the disappointments.
Several children were born at their home fourteen children in all.
The tenth child; named Carl died of whooping cough. He was 1 year
old. Maggie called him her “tithing child.” There are 56
Grandchildren and 10 Great Grandchildren. To Maggie, their care
was never a task but a labor of love. She was proud of them, so
grateful that they had been given to her and that it was her privilege to
love and care for them and be loved and cared for by them in turn.
For those of her children who married, she always had kind words
“She is such a wonderful girl” I’ve heard her say of all of them… or
he’s such a fine man.
She loved the beautiful things of life; the flowers, a beautiful quilt, the
lace, the embroidery, they were part of her. She made them herself.
When the time came that she could have beautiful things in her home
she was grateful, proud and happy.
She was ill when I first knew her. I never heard her utter a word of
complaint. She made light of her wobble and laughed at her swollen
legs. She said interesting things till one almost didn’t know she was
ill.
It has been difficult for me to speak only of the mother for always
since I have known them, the father has been nearby, quiet, watchful,
apparently her source of strength and comfort. I laughed from a
glance of her eye toward Parley, and her occasional word of
appreciation, how very much she needed and depended on him. Many
days and nights were spent by a sick bed; with fourteen children. The
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many loaves of bread, the many hurts to comfort, washing and
mending of the clothing and either making or purchasing clothing
which must be provided. I marvel that this father and mother could
find house, bedroom and heart room for those who depended on them
and those in need of wood, coal and oil.
All must have labored together, Maggie and Parley did well raising
their children to womanhood and manhood.
I (Harriet) shall always be grateful for the privilege of spending time
with her at the hospital. We became very close.
During the morning hours she lay partly unconscious, speaking at
times to someone in the room. Later, after she regained consciousness
I asked who she had been talking to, she said it was her sister, Mamie,
who died when a young woman.
At lunch I persuaded her to eat some dry bread. She asked for more.
Later the doctor came and helped her to understand she was standing
in the doorway to eternity. She did not want to leave her family. She
asked to have her own sons administer to her. When they came to her
room she was lying in her bed very weary. Later in the evening she
drank water after she had a very difficult hour with the doctor.
Her eyes filled with tears and she said “God Bless, to her family”
I echo her prayer, may God bless the father, these sons and daughters
and children and all those who will miss her in her absence.