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In Pursuit of Happiness

Public Sector Accountants Conference

Zenith Hotel, Kuantan

13 Jun 2013

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Hj Md Taib Mat CEO / Founder

Akademi NLP Malaysia

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A Story

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Question on Happiness

What has to

happen for you

to be happy?

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The Answer is :

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NOTHING !!! Get More Bonus

Get my dream Job Promotion

Boss satisfied with my job

Being healthy

My child get 9A SPM

Get good appraisal

He/she loves me

Happiness is an inside job

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The Story of Victor Frankl

Dachau

Auschwitz

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The Story of Victor Frankl

Then I grasped the meaning of the

greatest secret that human poetry and

human thought and belief have to

impart: The salvation of man is through

love and in love. I understood how a

man who has nothing left in this world

still may know bliss, be it only for a brief

moment, in the contemplation of his

beloved

Incantation

Nothing or Nobody

can affect me

negatively

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NLP Communication Model

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NLP Presupposition

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The map is not the territory.

It is just a symbolic representation of the territory

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Primary Question

What Do I Really Want

How can I Get That?

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When Somebody Throw

Rubbish at You …

“Mine,

Not Mine.”

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Select States That Make You happy

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Happy

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Enjoy

Joyful

Focus

Calm

Law #1

Most

Important

Thing

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3A For Your Happiness Movie

Access

Amplify

Anchor

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Changing States

Be Aware of your state

Change Your Thinking

Change Your Physiology

Move (beta-endorphins – mood enhancers)

Change Your Breathing

Relax your muscle

Change Your vision

Pay attention to someone else

Use your resource anchors

Eat / Drink

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Tips To Being Happy

Love Yourself

Keep Yourself Healthy / Physiologically

Happy Mindset / Movie Mind (I want to be happy)

Be Grateful

Stay in good emotional state

Stay in the Moment / Present

Personal Goal / Challenge Yourself

Make work a Play

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A Story of Happiness

Nick Vujicic

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Quotes on Happiness

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“The purpose of our lives is to be happy.”

Dalai Lama

“Happiness depends on ourselves.”

Aristotle

“Happiness doesn’t depend on any external

conditions, it is governed by our mental

attitude.

Dale Carnegie

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Quotes on Happiness

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“Happiness is not a goal. It is a by-product.”

Eleanor Roosevelt

“Be happy for this moment. This moment is

your life.”

Omar Khayyam

“Love is trembling happiness.”

Khalil Gibran

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Quotes on Happiness

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“If you want to be happy, be.”

Leo Tolstoy

“True happiness … is to enjoy the present,

without anxious dependence of the future.”

Lucius Annaeus Seneca

“Happiness is an inside job.”

William Arthur Ward

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The Greatest Game !!!???

The goose blame the boy, the boy blame the goose

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End / Q & A

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