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PROGRAM GUIDE

57802019-2020

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TABLE OF CONTENTS

LEADERSHIP

YEAR AT A GLANCE

SCHOLARS IN RESIDENCE

GROWTH THROUGH LEARNING ON SUNDAY MORNINGS

TRAVEL TOGETHER

COMING TOGETHER

CHESSED TOGETHER

CELEBRATE & COMMEMORATE TOGETHER

SHAVUOT @ SHOMREI

SISTERHOOD

SHOMREI TORAH’S WOMEN’S INSTITUTE FOR LEARNING, LEADERSHIP & LEGACY (WILLL)

YOUTH DEPARTMENT

NAFTALI ARON TORAH ENRICHMENT PROGRAM (NATEP)

LEARNING TOGETHER

DAVENING SCHEDULE

SHABBOS SHIURIM

DAILY CLASSES & SHIURIM

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It is with great excitement that we share with you the Shomrei Torah 5780 Program Guide. Our program is a true testament to the dynamic

and diverse nature of our vibrant shul. With

nearly 300 member families and rising, our shul

is proud to offer a wide array of programming

that speaks to the passions and interests of

all our members. As you peruse the brochure,

we’re confident you will discover meaningful

opportunities for children, teens, and adults to

grow, connect, and enhance relationships with

the Shomrei Torah community.

Our community is full of chessed. More than

100 members have generously donated their

time, energy, and talents to bring this year’s

programs to life. We are so grateful for the

collective effort everyone has invested to

make all of this possible.

If you are new to the community or thinking of

moving to Fair Lawn, it would be our pleasure

to host you for Shabbos or any of the events

planned for the year. We guarantee you’ll

quickly find a group of warm, down-to-earth,

special people ready to welcome you into the

community.

Here’s to a wonderful year of building beautiful

community memories. We look forward to the

opportunity to grow together!

Rabbi Markowitz and Jeff Cohen

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LEADERSHIP

Rabbi Andrew & Dr. Sara Markowitz [email protected]

[email protected]

Rabbi Benjamin & Shevi Yudin Rabbi Emeritus and

Rebbetzin Emeritus

201-906-3731

201-403-1575

[email protected]

Dovi & Sara Grosser Youth Directors [email protected]

Simi Maline Office Manager [email protected]

LEADERSHIP TEAM

President Jeff Cohen [email protected]

Oren Hiller Executive Vice President

Boruch Hersh Vice President - Administrative

Larry BravmanVice President - Financial [email protected]

Dori ZofanVice President - Fundraising

Rabbi Yoni & Talya Mandelstam Rabbi of the Beis Medrash [email protected]

Sisterhood President Brittany Ricklis

Rachel KrichVice President - Membership

David Heiser Financial Secretary

Mikki FriedmanRecording Secretary

Jeff SchultzCorresponding Secretary

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YEAR AT A GLANCEOCTOBERSIR Ms. Raizi Chechik

novemberSisterhood Kickoff Karaoke

Melave Malka

Teen Minyan Learning

Mental Health Lecture

NATEP Trip to Fiddler on the

Roof

Veteran’s Day Simcha Kiddush

PCL Kickoff

Kristallnacht Commemoration

(evening)

Youth Programming (morning)

Mental Health Lecture Series

Kickoff

Shabbos Project


NATEP Breakfast with Dovid

Lichtenstein


Thanksgiving Football &

Pie Delivery

Youth Luncheon

DECEMBERTrip to Ohel

Sisterhood Boutique

Yachad Shabbaton

Coffee Presentation NATEP

Trivia Dinner

Youth Chanukah Party

Shabbos Chanukah Simcha

Kiddush

JANUARYShomrei Torah Goes to Siyum HaShas

Havdalah PJ Party

FEBRUARYSisterhood Winter Event

Shalom Bayis Lecture

Trip to New Orleans


SIR Moishe Bane


Whiskey Tasting

MARCHPurim Carnival

Zayin Adar Dinner

Traveling Chasidim

Pre-Purim Simcha Kiddush

Final PCL of Season

Purim Tisch @ The Markowitz

Home

Purim

Hagaddah Marathon

Pre-Pesach Cooking Demo

Pre Pesach Shiur

10/25

11/2/19

11/3/19

11/4/19

11/6/19

11/9/19

11/9/19

11/10/19

11/10/19

11/11/19

11/16/19

11/18/19

11/24/19

11/25/19

11/28/19

11/30/19

12/5/19

12/8/19

12/13/1912/15/1912/21/19

12/24/19

12/28/19

1/1/20

1/11/20

2/1/20

2/5/20

2/6-2/9

2/12/20

2/15/20

2/19/20

2/22/20

3/1/20

3/2/20

3/7/20

3/7/20

3/7/20

3/9/20

3/10/20

3/18/20

3/25/20

APRILHechsher Keilim

Erev Pesach

Pesach

Yom Hashoah Commemoration

SIR Binny Friedman and Simcha

Kiddush

Shani Taragin Sisterhood

Yom Iyun

Yom Hazikaron

Yom Haatzmaut

MAYNorpac Mission to Washington

Yom Yerushalayim

Tentative Mother’s Day Simcha

Kiddush

Lag B’omer

Sisterhood Spring Dinner

JUNEGraduation Kiddush/Father’s Day

Kiddush

First Shiur Beer & BBQ of the

Season

NATEP Annual Breakfast with

Charlie Harary

Sisterhood Night Out

4/1/20

4/8/20

4/9-4/16

4/20/20

4/25/20

4/26/20

4/28/20

4/29/20

TBA

5/7/20

5/9/20

5/12/20

5/20/20

6/20/20

6/25/20

6/28/20

6/30/20

Adult Education

Community

Sisterhood

Youth

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MR. MOISHE BANEPARTNERSHIP WITH THE ORTHODOX UNIONFEBRUARY 15

Moishe (Mark) Bane became president of the Orthodox Union in January 2017. Mr. Bane is a senior partner and chairman of the business restructuring department at the international law firm of Ropes & Gray. Much of his time, however, has been dedicated to service within the American Orthodox community. Past positions that Mr. Bane has held in the Orthodox Union include chairman of the OU’s Board of Governors, chairman of the OU Advocacy Center, and national chairman of NCSY.

Beyond the OU, Mr. Bane has been involved in a wide array of kiruv and educational endeavors and has written and lectured extensively. He is a founding editor of Klal Perspectives, a journal addressing contemporary public policy issues within the American Orthodox community.

SCHOLARS IN RESIDENCE

MS. RAIZI CHECHIKSHABBAT BEREISHIT, OCTOBER 25-26

Ms. Raizi Chechik, currently Head of School at Manhattan Day School, is a creative and dynamic educator who brings to her position over two decades of school leadership experience and a passion for learning and teaching. She studied Tanach and Counseling at Michlalah Jerusalem Teachers College, holds an MA in Jewish History, and has done doctoral work in both Education and Jewish Studies. Ms. Chechik is the recipient of numerous professional and academic awards, among them the national Grinspoon-Steinhardt Award for Excellence in Jewish Education. Ms. Chechik has earned a reputation as a warm, caring, and innovative educational leader with high standards of scholarship, expertise in professional development, and sensitivity to the needs of each individual student. She is a gifted speaker and thinker who has lectured internationally on topics of education and Jewish studies.

CHAZZANIM IN RESIDENCEMARCH 6-7, PARSHAT ZACHOR WITH THE TRAVELING CHASSIDIM

We once again have the privilege of hosting the Traveling Chassidim for Shabbat Zachor. Join us for a Shabbos of tefillah, connection, and inspiration. We will be hosting a leibidik Kabbalas Shabbos, beautiful tefillot, a Friday night tisch, and musical Havdalah to conclude Shabbos.

RABBI BINNY FREEDMAN MIZRACHI 360 PARTNERSHIP SHABBAT APRIL 24-25Rabbi Binny Freedman is the founder, Rosh Yeshiva, and Dean of Yeshivat Orayta. He is a highly engaging and inspiring educator who has a gift for synthesizing difficult, sophisticated material in a way that inspires both the novice and the scholar. His proficiency in applying Jewish concepts to contemporary life in a personal and meaningful manner has made him a sought-after speaker and educator around the world. Rav Binny is an IDF Company Commander who came to Israel as a lone soldier in 1982.

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GROWTH THROUGH LEARNING ON SUNDAY MORNINGS

CHANUKAH CHIZZUK AND GOURMET COFFEE DEMO & TASTE TESTINGSUNDAY, DECEMBER 15 @ 9:00 AMEnjoy a coffee demonstration from our very own Josh Blachman, followed by a shiur with Rabbi Markowitz.

RABBANIT SHANI TARAGIN IN PARTNERSHIP WITH MIZRACHISUNDAY, APRIL 26 @ 9:00 AMShani Taragin received her BA and MA in Tanach and Talmud from Bar-Ilan University and is a graduate of Nishmat’s Keren Ariel Program for certification as a Yoetzet Halacha in issues of family purity law. She is the

DOVID LICHTENSTEIN OF HEADLINES PODCASTSUNDAY, NOVEMBER 24 @ 9:00 AM

Born and raised in Sheepshead Bay, Brooklyn, Dovid Lichtenstein credits his parents (both public school teachers) with instilling in him a love of knowledge and a strong work ethic. Mr. Lichtenstein became interested in real estate early in his adult life, and in 1986, he scraped together $89,000 to invest in a two-family home in New Jersey. Within just two years, this investment grew into the Lightstone Group, now one of the largest privately held real estate companies in the United States. Through his studies at the Mir in Yerushalayim and Beth Medrash Govoha in Lakewood, Mr. Lichtenstein developed a passion for contemporary Halacha, leading him to launch his ground-breaking Halacha Headlines radio program. He is also the author of Headlines: Halachic Debates of Current Events, a collection of scholarly essays exploring a wide range of contemporary halachic questions. Mr. Lichtenstein is involved in many communal causes, both in the Orthodox Jewish community and beyond.

NATEP ANNUAL BREAKFAST WITH CHARLIE HARARYSUNDAY MORNING, JUNE 28

The 14th Annual Naftali Aron T.E.P. Breakfast, the speaker is sponsored by Honny and Mendy Aron and Family in memory of the 50th Yahrzeit of Naftali Aron A’’H

Mr. Charlie Harary, Esq., is a business executive, author, and prolific speaker, known internationally for his charismatic, passionate, and sophisticated lectures, seminars, and keynote addresses. Currently, Mr. Harary is the CEO of Ayven Point Group, an investment and advisory company based in New York. He is the author of the best-selling book Unlocking Greatness, published last year by Random House. His podcasts, videos, and radio show have reached hundreds of thousands of people world-wide, providing messages on topics of business, personal growth, and spirituality. Mr. Harary received his J.D. from Columbia Law School, where he was a James Kent Scholar and a Harlan Fiske Stone Scholar.

TEENS ‘N TORAHMONTHLY TEEN MINYAN FOR YOUNG MEN & WOMENSUNDAY MORNINGS AT 9:00 AMBEGINNING NOVEMBER 3

Following the minyan, our teens are invited to join Rabbi Markowitz for breakfast and an engaging, interactive shiur.

For scheduling or sponsorship information, please reach out to Michael Zimbalist: [email protected]. Please check the bulletin for future dates.

(Please note: Middle schoolers and high schoolers will meet on alternate months)

educational director of both Matan’s Bellows Eshkolot Educators Institute for Tanach & Jewish Studies in Matan HaSharon and the Morot l’Halacha program in Matan Renana.

A well-known lecturer throughout Israel and North America on topics of Tanach, Jewish education, and Jewish law, Shani is also the curriculum coordinator for the Matan Bnei Akiva Program (MTVA). Shani and her husband Reuven are the Educational Directors of World Mizrachi and Religious Zionists of America and also serve as Roshei Beit Midrash in Camp Moshava during the summers. The Taragins live with their children in Alon Shvut, Gush Etzion, Israel.

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TRAVEL TOGETHERPRE-CHANUKAH TRIP TO THE LUBAVITCHER REBBE’S OHELDECEMBER 5 @ 7:00 PM

The “Ohel” is the burial plot of the Lubavitcher Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson, and his Rebbetzin, Chaya Mushka. Hundreds of people go to the Ohel daily to daven, learn, and reflect. Join Rabbi Markowitz for an opportunity to learn the Rebbe’s Torah at his kever, followed by tefillah. Carpools will be set up to leave from the Shul. For more information contact Ari Ashkenas: [email protected].

NATEP GOES TO “FIDDLER ON THE ROOF”WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 6

“A New York Times Critics’ Pick, Fiddler on the Roof “strikes a deep emotional chord” and “offers a kind of authenticity no other American Fiddler ever has.” Don’t miss the beloved story of a community and its struggle to balance traditions and desires in a changing world. The little town of Anatevka will bustle with the sounds of mame-loshn in the Yiddish language adaptation of Fiddler.The cost is $90 which includes brunch, transportation by coach bus and a ticket for Fiddler. Contact Mendy Aron: [email protected].

SHOMREI TORAH GOES TO THE SIYUM HASHASJANUARY 1, 2020

A Shomrei Torah group of men and women will be attending the 13th Global Siyum HaShas of Daf Yomi at MetLife stadium.

CHESSED MISSION TO NEW ORLEANS FOR ADULTSFEBRUARY 6-9Join us for a fun-filled, action-packed, and meaningful mission with Rabbi & Dr. Sara Markowitz in partnership with Rabbi Ethan Katz of NCSY. We will spend several days engaged in hurricane relief work, partnering with Habitat for Humanity and Green Light New Orleans. Experience the history of this fascinating city, including a tour of the Lower Ninth Ward. The mission culminates in a memorable Shabbat with the New Orleans community.

NORPAC MISSION TO WASHINGTONMAY 2020Be part of NORPAC’s annual Mission to Washington, when we join close to 1,000 citizen activists in Washington, DC to advocate with members of Congress for a stronger U.S.-Israel relationship. Join the Shomrei Torah family and the broader Jewish community in an intense and fulfilling day of activism for the State of Israel. A bus will leave from Fair Lawn early in the morning and return late in the evening.

COMING TOGETHERWOMEN’S SEUDAH SHLISHITLed by Dr. Sara Markowitz, we will have women’s seudah shlishit at different

homes throughout the community every other month. Come together for singing and discussing Emunah and Bitachon, our choices, Hishtadlus, and the road ahead.

TRIVIA DINNERDECEMBER 21 @ 7:30 PM

Have some wine and hit up the (meat) buffet dinner. Then test both your knowledge and your relationships as your team competes in a multi-media trivia contest for prizes and bragging rights. Build a team of 10 or we’ll make one for you (multi-generational teams have the advantage). This event is world famous in parts of Bergen County and has become an almost annual highlight on the Shomrei Torah calendar.

WHISKEY TASTINGMOTZAI SHABBAT, FEBRUARY 22

Join us for a palate-enhancing whiskey tasting event. Enjoy the colors, aromas and flavors of a wide selection of distilled and cask-aged treats. Professionals will be on hand to help you discover new flavors in your own commemorative whiskey glass. There will also be gourmet herring, hors d’oeuvres, and desserts. Looking forward to seeing you there!

For questions please contact Aryeh Hersh and Yaakov Maline at [email protected].

SHIUR, BEER, AND BBQTHURSDAY NIGHTS THROUGHOUT THE SUMMER

Rabbi Markowitz shares Torah on the Parsha while beer and BBQ are served at various homes in the community. If you would like to participate, please reach out to Yehuda Brum or Ari Mayefsky.

COMMUNITY BBQTBA

Join us for the annual Shomrei Torah Summer BBQ. There will be great food, as always. In the past we have had bounce houses, face paint, balloon artist, family baseball, 3 point basketball contest, prizes and more! It is a great time to hang out with friends and make new ones at this special communal event.

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CHESSED TOGETHERYACHAD SHABBATONDECEMBER 13-14

One of the highlights of our shul calendar is the Yachad Reyim Shabbaton, when we open our homes and hearts to the members of Yachad, an organization that provides individuals with developmental disabilities an opportunity to socialize and be included in the Jewish community. This year we are privileged to host the Yachad Shabbaton on December 13-14. To get involved, or for more information, please reach out to Sam or Ally Ulrich: [email protected].

THANKSGIVING MORNING FOOTBALL & PIE DELIVERY THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 28

Following the 8 AM minyan and shiur, Shomrei Torah adults and children will compete in the annual Turkey Bowl (aka football at the Shabbos park.) Afterwards, we will deliver holiday pies to our local Fire Departments and Police Station to express our thanks for all they do for us.

DAUGHTERS OF MIRIAM:MONTHLY SUNDAY MORNINGS MINYANWe run monthly Sunday minyanim at DOM for the residents. After minyan, stay for some visiting with the residents.

SIMCHAT PURIMBring joy and excitement to the holiday of Purim by visiting DOM as we sing and dance through the halls and bring mishloach manot to the seniors.

To get involved, or for more information, please reach out to Sam Heller: [email protected].

THE CHESSED COMMITTEE OF THE SISTERHOODThe Sisterhood supports members through lifecycle events.

For new mother meals, please contact: [email protected].

For shiva and other chessed opportunities, please contact Carol Weissmann: [email protected].

THE HOSPITALITY COMMITTEEVISITING SHOMREI TORAH?

The Hospitality Committee plays a vital role in the continued growth of the Shomrei Torah community by reaching out to both prospective and new families. Families interested in Shomrei Torah are matched with community members based on age and common interests and are then invited to Fair Lawn to experience Shabbat in our shul, sharing meals with their host family and meeting other members. The committee stays in touch with these interested families, inviting them to other shul events and making themselves available to answer questions. New families who have moved to town also benefit from the Hospitality Committee. In addition to visiting each new family and bringing a welcome gift, the Committee ensures that new families have a chance to meet other members by arranging their Shabbat and Yom Tov meals for their first few months in Fair Lawn. Each new family is also matched with a point person in their neighborhood to connect them with neighbors and answer questions as they navigate their new community.

If you are interested in hosting or visiting new members, please email [email protected].

INGE HEISER KINDER CONNECTIONIn loving memory of Inge Heiser, we will be starting chessed opportunity where young children (and parents) will connect and visit the elderly in our community. This programs in guaranteed to bring joy and sunshine to their days!

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CELEBRATE & COMMEMORATE TOGETHERKRISTALLNACHTSUNDAY, NOVEMBER 10

The 10th Annual Susan Nelson Glasser Memorial Kristallnacht Commemoration, sponsored by the Kovacs Family

ZAYIN ADAR DINNERMONDAY, MARCH 2

Join us for a seudah and siyum in appreciation and recognition for all of the dedicated and devoted members of the Chevra Kaddisha.

LEIL PURIM TISCH9:45 PM PURIM NIGHT @ THE MARKOWITZ HOME

Open to the entire community! Men, women, and children are invited for an evening of singing, divrei Torah, Purim poppers (& other yummy food!)

COMMUNITY WIDE HAGADDAH MARATHONJoin us for the 4th Annual Haggadah Marathon, with the community Rabbanim sharing insights on the Haggadah. The Marathon rotates among the different shuls in our community.

YOM HASHOAH COMMEMORATIONMONDAY EVENING, APRIL 20

At past Yom HaShoah programs we have had the privilege of hearing personal stories from survivors.

COMMUNAL YOM HAZIKARON & YOM HA’AZMAUTTUESDAY EVENING, APRIL 28

Join us for a community-wide program celebrating 72 years of the State of Israel. Program begins with Mincha, followed by a festive meal and concluding with a celebratory Maariv tefillah. Program details to follow.

TIKKUN LEIL SHAVUOT FOR ADULTS & TEENSExperience our own Kabbalat haTorah through engaging learning opportunities, including all-night learning with all of our Rabbanim, special learning and programming for teens, and additional shiurim given by the members of the community.

TIKKUN YOM SHAVUOT FOR ADULTSCouldn’t stay up the whole night? Or want to learn more? Shomrei Torah provides shiurim throughout the day of Shavuot in celebration of Matan Torah! Join us for an array of learning and shiurim.

Highlights include:

• Parent/child learning

• Ice cream party

• Q&A for the youth with the Rabbi (no parents allowed!)

ANNUAL SHAVUOT SIYUMThere is no better way to celebrate Shavuot than by enjoying a meal together as a shul, followed by a communal siyum.

SHAVUOT @ SHOMREI

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SISTERHOODThe Sisterhood of Shomrei Torah provides entertaining and inspiring

programming open to women of all ages. Holiday programming helps us

gear up for the chagim with pre-Yom Tov baking

demonstrations, food sales, boutiques, and shiurim.

Plenty of social programming takes place as well,

with creative art and team-building events, as well

as nights out at bowling alleys, art studios, and

restaurants. Sisterhood is also a major source of fundraising for the shul

throughout the year, from Rosh Hashanah and Chanukah gift packages to

deliveries of beautiful Mishloach Manot baskets.

Sisterhood also cares

for its members. The

New Moms Committee

organizes meals for

members who have

recently given birth. In

addition, the Chessed

Committee arranges meals for families who have

suffered a loss or who are experiencing an illness.

So many women of Shomrei Torah can say, “I made my

best friends through Sisterhood.” Come join us! There’s

something for everyone! We encourage you to get involved. Volunteers are

always needed and new ideas are always welcome.

“i made my best friends through the sisterhood”

ONGOING SHIURIM

MONTHLY ROSH CHODESH SHIUR:A proud tradition in our shul for decades, the Rosh Chodesh shiur gives women

from the community an opportunity to share Torah each Shabbat Mevarchim,

inspiring us as we prepare for a new month. Speakers scheduled for the

new year include Mira Stokar, Dr. Yael Mayefsky, Dr. Rena Bacon, Brenda

Wiener, and Dr. Sara Markowitz. Refreshments are served in conjunction

with sponsorships, and new speakers are welcome. To sponsor or volunteer,

contact Adina Weinstein: [email protected].

YIMEI IYUN AND SPECIAL SCHOLAR IN RESIDENCE

ONGOING CHESSEDThe Chessed Committee of the Sisterhood supports members through lifecycle

events. See page 13 for details.

MEMBERSHIP KICKOFF EVENT: KARAOKE MELAVE MALKAMOTZEI SHABBAT, NOVEMBER 2

All paid-up Sisterhood members receive a complimentary ticket to the Kickoff Event. Past events have included a Zumba breakfast and a paint night.

WINTER BOUTIQUE: SHOP & SUPPORT THE SISTERHOODSUNDAY, DECEMBER 8

The Shomrei Torah Social Hall is transformed into a pre-Chanukah shopping experience during our annual boutique. A wide array of vendors sells housewares, children’s and women’s clothing, jewelry, Judaica and toys. Refreshment sponsorship opportunities available.

CHANUKAH GIFT DELIVERYEach Shomrei Torah member receives a Chanukah gift package from the Sisterhood that includes an item to enhance your holiday. If you’d like to deliver or to sponsor, please reach out to the Sisterhood leadership.

FUN NIGHT OUTMOTZEI SHABBAT, FEBRUARY 1

Men and women are invited out to socialize and enjoy dinner and entertainment with other community members. Past events have included a murder mystery and escape room game.

MISHLOACH MANOTPURIM DAY

Each Shomrei Torah member receives a goody-filled Mishloach Manot package from the Sisterhood. Multiple sponsorship levels are available, and all donors’ names are listed on the scroll accompanying each gift box.

CELEBRITY CHEF COOKING DEMOBefore you start planning your Yom Tov menus, join the Sisterhood for a cooking demonstration with… More info coming soon.

PRE-PESACH SHIUR WITH RABBI MARKOWITZWEDNESDAY, MARCH 25

Pesach Prep made a little easier by learning with Rabbi Markowitz. A “Q & A” form will be sent out in advance and the shiur will be on Facebook live.

GETTING READY FOR SHAVUOTThe Sisterhood prepares for Shavuot with a range of activities including food or flower sales and a ladies’ night out to make something for your Yom Tov table!

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SHOMREI TORAH’S WOMEN’S INSTITUTE FOR LEARNING, LEADERSHIP & LEGACY (WILLL)The women of Shomrei Torah have always been dedicated lay

leaders in the community. The Orthodox Union’s Women’s Initiative

Challenge Grant offered us an opportunity to engage an even broader

spectrum of women and girls by developing innovative programming

at both the shul and community levels. Of the more than 100 shuls

that applied, Shomrei Torah was one of only ten to be awarded this

special grant.

WILLL expresses its mission through its three pillars: Learning,

Leadership, and Legacy. We are proud of the initiatives developed in

each area and look forward to strengthening these pillars together.

LEARNING:Shiurim and learning opportunities for women are a significant part

of our shul, both through the classes offered by our rabbis and

rebbetzins, and through our Sisterhood monthly Rosh Chodesh

shiurim and Yemei Iyun (Days of Learning). The WILLL Learning pillar

makes Torah more accessible through live interactive webinars, so

that participants in any location can take part in the classes. Stay

tuned for the next upcoming webinar series!

LEADERSHIP:WILLL encourages women to cultivate their leadership skills and be

active lay leaders in the Orthodox community.

LEGACY:Legacy hinges on the value our Jewish teachings place on the concept

of “mesorah,” tradition. Each individual, with her own knowledge,

experience and wisdom, serves as another link in the chain of our rich

mesorah. The goal of Legacy is to bring multiple generations together,

face to face, to share these ideas and experiences, as we continue to

transmit our special mesorah.

THE DR. DAVID THALER MEMBERS HELPING MEMBERS GROUP Dr. David Thaler, z”l was the go-to professional for those

who needed direction in addressing life’s challenges. He

took great joy in sharing his expertise with the community

and devoted countless hours of pro bono counseling to

many. We are building on David’s legacy by capitalizing

on the skills and abilities of our members to help others

in need. From layoffs to financial struggles to medical

issues, life has its share of ups and downs. But living in

a community means you are not alone and can turn to

your fellow members for help. A list of men and women

who have offered their professional skills and services

is being compiled, including comprehensive bios, type

of services offered, and the professional experience of

each volunteer.

Renee Nussbaum will be the point person to match

those in need with members who can provide assistance.

She can be reached at [email protected]. All

information will be held in the strictest confidence.

LILA LEVINSON BAT MITZVAH PROGRAM Calling all Bat Mitzvah-aged girls and their moms to

participate in a new Bat Mitzvah Program led by Elisheva

Rubin. The program will be tailor-made to our Shomrei

Torah young women, aiming for them to aspire and to

be inspired as they connect to Tefillah through weekly

teen minyan participation, chessed and community, with

special and exciting events planned throughout the year.

More details to come after the Yamim Tovim.

For more information please contact Elisheva Rubin:

[email protected] or visit www.shomrei-torah.org/batmitzvah

JOIN THIS NEW AND EXCITING INITIATIVE!Contact [email protected] to join our Learning, Legacy, or Leadership team!

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YOUTH DEPARTMENTSHABBOS MORNING GROUPSThe importance of growing up with a positive and happy experience in

shul on Shabbos morning is extremely important. Come by at 9:30 AM on

Shabbos morning for our fun, engaging

and exciting groups! Children ages

3-6 can enjoy spending time with old

friends, while making new friends at

the same time. New toys, snacks and

more are being introduced for the

upcoming year, and we also have brand

new specialized groups: “Metukim”

for ages 3-4, “Ahuvim” for age 5, and

“Chaveirim” for age 6. This year, we are

also beginning our exciting “Mitzvah Ticket” program! Receive Mitzvah

Tickets for good davening and midos, and store them in your very own,

new Mitzvah Ticket Pouch! Tickets can then be redeemed for amazing

prizes on Shabbos Mevorchim of that month. In addition to the Mitzvah

Tickets, every week in each group, two children will be named “Davening

Star of the Week” and “Midos Star of the Week.” These two children will

receive an exciting certificate, and will be able to choose a prize that

week! Learn Torah, play with friends and hear exciting stories at Shabbos

Morning Groups!

JUNIOR CONGREGATION For those children who are aged 7 and up who

would like a more shul-like experience at groups,

Junior Congregation is the place to be! Come

learn the beautiful tefillot of Shabbos morning,

together with friends in this fun, tefillah-based

group. Mitzvah Tickets along with our davening

and Midos Stars of the Week program will take

place here, highlighting the importance of davening and being nice to

our friends. Come daven, learn about the Parsha and take part in Junior

Congregation Kiddush as well. Junior Congregation is the perfect group

to prepare our children for davening in shul when they get older!

TOT SHABBAT Looking for a fun and warm environment for your ‘Tot?’ Our group meets

every Shabbos morning with tots (3 and younger) with a parent. Join

us for Shabbos songs, play, and snack. It’s a great time for the kids and

parents to interact with one another. Doors open at 10 AM.

PARENT-CHILD LEARNING FOR CHILDREN OF ALL AGESStart your week off right with Shomrei Torah’s Motzei Shabbos Parent &

Child Learning Program! PCL will take place every Saturday night from

November 9 through March 7, starting approximately 20 minutes after the

conclusion of Shabbos. Each week, a different school, including Yavneh,

YBH, He’atid, Noam, RYNJ, and BPY, will lead a PCL session, infusing their

own love of Torah into our special program. Camps Shalom and Acheinu

will also come to showcase their summer talents... and MORE.

New for this year, in addition to the wonderful family-style learning, we

will be offering advanced learning for older boys and girls.

Come read a book, Parshah, Mishna, or Gemara with your child. Bring

some coloring books, hear the words on the Parsha from Rabbi Markowitz

and many special guests, or just come for the Torah environment!

CELEBRATE YAMIM TOVIM WITH THE SHOMREI TORAH YOUTH DEPARTMENT

Come to the shul for a special show from the Parrot Rebbe! See and

hear about more than 10 species of parrots from all across the globe!

Break into teams and cheer on your parrots in exciting races. Hold the

parrots on your hands, shoulders or head and take beautiful pictures to

have for years to come.

Come to Shomrei Torah’s annual Chanukah Party for pizza, snacks,

games, and project perfect for Chanukah!

See the exciting Twins From France jump, spin and flip, in a show that is

sure to be a heart-stopper! Pricing and timing TBA at a later date.

The Annual Bowski Family Pre-Purim Extravaganza (this year on March

1) attracts hundreds of families from all over Bergen County. The

carnival includes moon bounces, face painting, balloon twisting, live

entertainment and carnival games. Lunch and snacks are available for

purchase. Come in costume!

Shavuot Learning and Ice Cream Party

LUNCHEONS AND FRIDAY NIGHT ONEGSThroughout the year, we will have special luncheons and Friday night

onegs for specific ages. This is a great way to connect with friends outside

of school! Dates and details to be announced!

BNEI AKIVABnei Akiva will be joining us again for the upcoming year! Stay tuned...

YOUTH LEADER PROGRAMSWe can’t forget our amazing youth leaders! Looking forward to having

programs just for them, including pizza making, ice cream parties, and more!

KENNY FRANK TEEN MINYAN ON SHABBAT MORNINGS

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NAFTALI ARON TORAH ENRICHMENT PROGRAM (NATEP) Under the leadership of Mendy Aron, the Naftali Aron Torah Enrichment Program (NATEP) offers something for individuals at all stages of life who are eager to continue their Torah learning.

Men and women are invited to engage in NATEP’s interactive classes, with breakfast served, Monday through Thursday mornings. Beginning in September 2019, shiurim topics will include Gemara, Sefer Bereishis, Connecting to the Parsha, Emunah, 10 Minute Mussar, and more.

In addition to regular weekly learning sessions, NATEP offers special educational and entertainment events that have been enjoyed by shul members of all ages. Recent NATEP events include ping pong tournaments, chess matches with a grandmaster, cooking contests, book signings, trips to museums of Jewish interest, and a Yankee game followed by a BBQ and shiur.

Whether a chess match, museum trip, or baseball game, each NATEP event is designed to contain a taste of Torah learning, to remind us that our daily activities should always be infused with Torah and mitzvot.

SAVE THE DATE! Come see the acclaimed Fiddler on the Roof in Yiddish with NATEP on November 6th.

MANY MORE EVENTS TO COME!

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FALL COMMUNITY LECTURE SERIES:CONVERSATIONS ABOUT RELIGION & PSYCHOLOGY MONDAY EVENINGS @ 8:00 PM IN THE SOCIAL HALL

Classes will be given by a variety of speakers, including psychologists and rabbanim from the community

NOV 4 “Religion & Psychology: Are They Playing on the Same Team?”

Rabbi Andrew & Dr. Sara Markowitz

NOV 11 “Anxiety, Emunah, and Bitachon” with Rabbi Dr. Eliezer Schnall Note time change: 8:30 PM

NOV 18 “Mental Health and Our Children” An Open Communal Conversation with Mental Health Professionals from our Local Day Schools; Including BPY, RYNJ, Yavneh Academy, Yeshivat Noam, and Yeshivat Heatid

NOV 25 “OCD & Shleimut” Dr. Yael Mayefsky

WINTER COMMUNITY LECTURE SERIES:SHALOM BAYIS IN THE 21ST CENTURYLOCATIONS TBA

An open and frank conversation about improving our marriages

FEB 5 What You Didn’t Learn in Chosson Classes Rabbi Andrew Markowitz (FOR MEN)

FEB 12 What You Didn’t Learn in Kallah Classes Dr. Sara Markowitz (FOR WOMEN)

FEB 19 With Our Increasingly Busy Lives, How Do We Make Time for Improving Our Marriages? Rabbi Andrew & Dr. Sara Markowitz (FOR MEN & WOMEN)

LEARNING TOGETHER

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SUNDAY & LEGAL HOLIDAY SCHEDULESHACHARIT: • 6:30 AM• 7:00 AM• 8:00 AM• 9:00 AM (monthly teen minyan)

MINCHA: • 2:00 PM • Zman

MAARIV:• Zman• 9:00 PM (or 9:30 PM in the summer months)

WEEKDAY SCHEDULESHACHARIT: • MON/THURS 5:45 AM

• TUES/WEDS/FRI 5:55 AM

• 6:30 AM

• 7:45 AM

MINCHA: • Zman

MAARIV:• Zman• 9:00 PM (or 9:30 PM in the summer months)

SHABBOS SCHEDULESHACHARIT:

• 8:15 AM - Beis Medrash Minyan

• 9:00 AM - Main Minyan

• 9:00 AM - Kenny Frank Teen Minyan

MINCHA AND MAARIV B’ZMAN

DAVENING SCHEDULE SHAYLA OF THE WEEK WITH RABBI MARKOWITZ

KABBALAT SHABBAT (in the winter months)

BEIS MEDRASH CHABURAHFOLLOWING MINYANChabura given by Rabbi Mandelstam and the members of the BM Minyan.

THE GREATEST HITS: RESPONSA OF THE 20TH CENTURYBEFORE MINCHA

SEUDAT SHLISHITSeudat Shlishit is the holiest point of Shabbos when we come together to sing, learn, and take advantage of the final moments of Shabbos together. To sponsor contact Esther Silvestri: [email protected] or 201-741-5341

SISTERHOOD ROSH CHODESH SHABBOS SHIURMONTHLY

A proud tradition in our shul for decades, the Rosh Chodesh shiur gives women from the community an opportunity to share Torah each Shabbos Mevarchim. To sponsor or volunteer, contact Adina Weinstein: [email protected]

MONTHLY ROSH CHODESH SHIURIMThe Naftali Aron T.E.P. invites you to join us at our kickoff of “The Rosh Chodesh Lunch & Learn “. Beginning with Rosh Chodesh Cheshvan on Tuesday, October 29, NATEP will be hosting Lunch at 12:30 PM followed by a shiur given by Rabbi Markowitz.

SIMCHA KIDDUSHIMVeterans Day Simcha Kiddush 11/9/19

Shabbos Chanukah Simcha Kiddush 12/28/19

Pre-Purim Simcha Kiddush 3/7/20

Scholar In Residence Binny Friedman and Simcha Kiddush 4/25/20

Mother’s Day Simcha Kiddush (Tentative) 5/9/20

Graduation Kiddush/Father’s Day Kiddush 6/20/20

To sponsor a kiddush, please contact Mikki Friedman: [email protected]

SHABBOS SHIURIM

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DAILY CLASSES & SHIURIM

MONDAY MORNING WITH RABBI MARKOWITZ 8:55 AM - PERSONAL GROWTH (NATEP)The theme of our year in to ‘grow together,’ it is with this in mind that we will be learning together the new sefer, Olam haMidot: a study in perfecting our character traits, which helps us guide our journey through life. .

9:10 AM - GEMARA PESACHIM, PEREK ARVEI PESACHIM (NATEP)We will be exploring several fundamental topics that affect our daily life such as “Content with Intent,” and “Priorities in Performance.” With each topic we will learn it from the Gemara, through the commentary, and all the way to practical halacha. Previous skills or knowledge in gemara is not needed to attend the class.

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WOMEN’S TEHILLIM MONDAYS AT 7:30 PM Tehillim has been a source of inspiration, clarity, chizuk, and comfort in times of distress for Jews of all walks of life. The women in our Shul led by Rebbetzin Shevi Yudin join together every Monday night to say tehillim on behalf of the cholim in our community and all of Klal Yisrael.

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BEGINNERS PARSHA WITH RABBI YUDINMONDAYS AT 8:30 PMThrough the prism of the parsha and Yamim Tovim, Rabbi Yudin makes the beauty of the Torah relevant to our daily lives. Everyone is welcome to attend.

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TUESDAYS WITH RABBI YUDIN & RABBI MARKOWITZ8:45 AM - TORAH WITH RABBI YUDIN (NATEP)Learn with Rabbi Yudin in his unique, indelible style as he plumbs the depth and profundity of Torah while bringing all of us along for the ride inspiring us along the way.

9:15 AM - TAKING TIME FOR TEFILLAH (TTT) (NATEP)The Siddur is the one book we use at every part of our lives. Do we ever take time to think about its words and meaning? Explore the siddur and the importance of prayer in our lives with Rabbi Markowitz

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GEMARA MEGILLAH CHABURAH WITH RABBI MARKOWITZTUESDAYS AT 8:15 PMRabbi Markowitz will be giving a weekly Gemara Chabura for Men.

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PARSHA PERSPECTIVES WITH RABBI MARKOWITZWEDNESDAYS AT 8:45 AM (NATEP)Traverse the weekly Parsha with Rabbi Markowitz. Each week, we will explore a different aspect of the parsha and learn multiple perspectives from the beautiful tapestry of our commentaries throughout our rich history.

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LUNCHTIME LEARNING WITH RABBI YUDINWEDNESDAYS AT 1:00 PM IN THE SHUL SOCIAL HALL FOR WOMENThe Sefer ha-Chinuch is a classic work that systematically discusses the 613 commandments of the Torah. Join the shiur to learn the mitzvos with their contemporary and timeless applications.

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TIMELY TORAH IITHURSDAYS AT 9:00 AM (NATEP)Continuing to explore the beauty of Torah and Halacha with Rabbi Greene.

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WEDNESDAY NIGHT GEMARA SHIUR WITH RABBI YUDINWEDNESDAYS AT 9:15 PMWant an in-depth, relevant, and practical shiur? Join Rabbi Yudin as he learns Masechet Beitzah.

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TIMELY TORAHWEDNESDAYS AT 9:20 AM (NATEP)Explore and learn contemporary Torah topics and issues with Rabbi Wallace Greene.

Rabbi Dr. Wallace Greene has had a distinguished career as a Jewish educator. He founded The Sinai Schools, the first Jewish special needs program accredited by the Middle States Association, when he was principal of the Hebrew Youth Academy, now renamed the Joseph Kushner Hebrew Academy. He is a frequent contributor to numerous local publications and is known as a teacher to all teachers.

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DAF YOMIMONDAY-THURSDAY AT 8:00 PM The Daf will take place Monday through Thursdays @ 8 PM with Rabbi Dr Tzvi Loewy. Shabbos mornings 45 minutes before the beginning of Shacharit, and Sunday mornings following the 7 AM minyan.

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MONTHLY ROSH CHODESH LUNCH & LEARNBEGINNING TUESDAY, OCTOBER 29 AT 12:30 PM (NATEP)Enjoy lunch followed by a shiur by Rabbi Markowitz.

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