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ORConsulting A Psychology Practice for Business

Dr Gill Green

Contact details: [email protected]

ORConsulting Ltd: http://www.orconsulting.uk.com

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ORConsulting A Psychology Practice for Business

Effective Interactions

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ORConsulting A Psychology Practice for Business

Transactional Analysis

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PARENT

ADULT

CHILD

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CHILD

EMOTIONS

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LOGIC

CHILD

ADULT

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PARENT

ADULT

CHILD

JUDGEMENT

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Preconceived ideas

How we think things should be

I’m right you’re wrong

Control

CRITICAL PARENT

CRITICAL PARENT

PARENT JUDGEMENT

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CHILD EMOTION

Reactive behaviour

Under threat

Feel unsafe

ADAPTED CHILD

REBELLIOUS CHILD

COMPLIANT CHILD

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Understanding

Curiosity

Listening respect

Empathy

NURTURING PARENT

NURTURING PARENT

PARENT JUDGEMENT

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CHILD EMOTION

The ‘actual’ emotion

Honest, genuine & authentic

Positive or negative

FREE CHILD

FREE CHILD

ADULT

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FREE CHILD

REBELLIOUS CHILD

COMPLIANT CHILD

CRITICAL PARENT

NURTURING PARENT

ADULT

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FREE CHILD

REBELLIOUS CHILD

COMPLIANT CHILD

CRITICAL PARENT

NURTURING PARENT

ADULT BLUE

= EFFECTIVE

RED =

INEFFECTIVE

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Critical Parent doesn't change behaviour.

PART TWO

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REBELLIOUS CHILD

COMPLIANT CHILD

FREE CHILD

REBELLIOUS CHILD

COMPLIANT CHILD

NURTURING PARENT

ADULT

REBELLIOUS CHILD

COMPLIANT CHILD

CRITICAL PARENT

NURTURING PARENT

ADULT

CRITICAL PARENT

FREE CHILD

CRITICAL PARENT

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CRITICAL PARENT

FREE CHILD

REBELLIOUS CHILD

COMPLIANT CHILD

NURTURING PARENT

ADULT

NURTURING PARENT

ADULT

FREE CHILD

CRITICAL PARENT

REBELLIOUS CHILD

COMPLIANT CHILD

NURTURING PARENT

FREE CHILD

NURTURING PARENT

ADULT

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Intent ≠ impact

PART THREE

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REBELLIOUS CHILD

CRITICAL PARENT

CRITICAL PARENT

REBELLIOUS CHILD

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FREE CHILD

ADULT

Listening

Understanding perspectives

Collaboration & support

Logical reasoning

Clear thinking

Evidence-based decisions

Genuine expression of concerns

Enthusiasm & energy

Open and honest

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RULES

NURTURING PARENT

ADULT

FREE CHILD

my intent

my intent

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Work & home

PART FOUR

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NURTURING PARENT

ADULT

FREE CHILD

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WHAT MAKES FOR THE PERFECT TEAM?

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NURTURING PARENT

ADULT

FREE CHILD

PSYCHOLOGICAL

SAFETY

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FREE CHILD

Where in your world does

this need to be applied?

Q

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ORConsulting A Psychology Practice for Business

Dr Gill Green