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Transcript of Courageous Conversation
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Welcome
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Women
Integrating
WorkdayCourage
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OBJECTIVES
Recognize 12 female signs of a
courageous awakening atwork
Apply the language of courageusing the 12 behaviors ofcourage
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Premise
&
Theory
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11% of Women PerceivedThemselves as Courageous
Based on the original research found inCOURAGE: The Heart and Spirit of
Every Woman/Reclaiming theForgotten Virtue
Perceived themselves as courageous Lived in conscious choice
Quickly took action Faced the facts Recognized the power of language (could
distinguish the 12 behaviors of courage found onthe Source Wheel diagram)
Able to underscore their courageous steps Kept stepping up Knew the value of sacrifice and discipline Valued courageous will Stayed committed regardless of feeling lonely Driving force was authenticity being true to
themselves
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The Original Definitionof
COURAGE:
Medieval Old Frenchcorage,meaning
heart and spirit
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In Other Words
BeTrue to Yourself
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Chart the Steps
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OutcomeBecome a model of
Courage
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A directcorrelation exists
between yoursuccess
quotientand yourcourage
quotient
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12 Female Signs of aCourageous Awakening
At Work
1. Gave themselves permission to be
courageous2. Managed up to achieve their expectations3. Asked for the tough projects4. Focused on results5. Regrets were not an underlying theme
6. Applied direct talk called where couragemeets grace versus manipulation7. Innately motivated8. Low blame ratiomost held themselves
100% accountable
9. Passion ran consistently high10. Adept at managing paradoxes11. Brand their value (state what they bring to
the position)12. Exited bad situations
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Adopting aLanguage that
Exhibits theEnergy
of the 12 Behaviorsof
Courageis the Key
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The
Courageto
SpeakUp
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Our relationshipsare defined by the
conversations wehave
Ordo not have
with the peoplein our lives
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If you cant
be direct,why
be?
--Lily Tomlin
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THE COURAGE TO CONVERSE
You refuse to let anyone elsedesign your life.
1. Recognize the defining moments in your life
2. Confront the ultimate truth and be realistic
3. Identify choices and hold yourself 100%
responsible for your lifeThen,
Your Conversations
And
Your Life
will not be filled with regret
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En-courageVersus
Dis-courage
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Courageous Speech
Fish Market Woman
Board Room WomanCongenial Hostess
Good Time Girl
Untrampled, but rude!
Courageously
effective, articulate
Well-spoken trivialities
Girls just wanna have fun!
No
contest
Tough
issues
Where Courage meets Grace!
0 100%
100
%Thoughtful
Diplomatic
Tactful
Friendly
Slang
Coarse
ReactionarySelf-Focused
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The
Courageto Affirm
Self-Esteem
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Interviews
Men/Women
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HurdleObstacles
Diane
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InterestingFindings
TomboysSurvey formgroupingof words
Highest pile
Recognized courage in
others
Different energy
Womans Inhumanity
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Creating your history
is not an accident,
its a choice each day,
in the decisions
you make,
and the actions
you take.COURAGE
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CELEBRATE THEACTIONS
OF COURAGEModels
of couragegive permission
for other peopleto be courageous
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Declaration ofCourageous Intention
Claiming Your Courage
Being authentic takes
courage.Committing to your
courageous intention will
expandyour life.Be prepared to welcome the
authentic YOU!
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ReadingRecommendation
COURAGE: The Heart and Spirit ofEveryWoman/Reclaiming the Forgotten Virtue,Sandra Ford Walston, New York: BroadwayBooks, 2000.Good to Great, Jim Collins, New York:HarperCollins, 2001Open MindOpen Heart, Thomas Keating, NewYork: The Continuum Publishing Company, 1986.Power vs. Force: The Hidden Determinants of
Human Behavior, David R. Hawkins, M.D.,Ph.D., Carlsbad, CA: Hay House, Inc., 1995SacredContracts:Awakening Your DivinePotential, Caroline Myss, New York: HarmonyBooks, 2001.Womans Inhumanity to Woman, PhyllisChesler, New York: Thunders MouthPress/Nation Books, 2001.The Power of Now, Eckhart Tolle.
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HowSavvy WomenSpotlight their Courage
COURAGEWORKS!
Women Step Up Their Careers
Due soonSandra Ford Walston
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Sandra Ford Walston
The Courage Expert
www.walstoncourage.com
He who hesitates before each step
spends his life on one leg.