Conflict Resolution

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Dealing With Conflict Before Conflict Deals With You us Health and Safety Presented by: Glenda Shaw 1

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Page 1: Conflict Resolution

Dealing With Conflict Before Conflict Deals With You

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 1

Come up with a word for each letter in your first name that represent

you

G- GenerousL- Live

E- Energy N-Never D-Devil A-Angel

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 2

1 Arrange yourselves in groups

2 Choose a spokesperson for your group

3 ldquoCome up with a name for your grouprdquo

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

3

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 4

When people have different views on issues

Conflict is unavoidable Conflict can be good or bad Conflict is normal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 5

Honey pleaseJust calm down hellipLet me explainhellip

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 6

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 7

What are some signs of unresolved Conflict

Culture race and ethnicity

Gender and sexuality

Knowledge (general and situational)

Impressions of the Messenger

Previous experiences

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 8

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 9

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 10

FIGHT POVERTY IN AFRICA BETTER SCHOOLS FOR OUR NEIGHBORHOOD

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

11

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 12

Are women too sensitive or are men insensitive

Should the wife have equal say in the marriage or should the husband have the last say

Can a woman lead the church

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 13

A- APPROVE B- REJECT

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 14

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 15

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 16

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 2: Conflict Resolution

Come up with a word for each letter in your first name that represent

you

G- GenerousL- Live

E- Energy N-Never D-Devil A-Angel

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 2

1 Arrange yourselves in groups

2 Choose a spokesperson for your group

3 ldquoCome up with a name for your grouprdquo

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

3

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 4

When people have different views on issues

Conflict is unavoidable Conflict can be good or bad Conflict is normal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 5

Honey pleaseJust calm down hellipLet me explainhellip

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 6

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 7

What are some signs of unresolved Conflict

Culture race and ethnicity

Gender and sexuality

Knowledge (general and situational)

Impressions of the Messenger

Previous experiences

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 8

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 9

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 10

FIGHT POVERTY IN AFRICA BETTER SCHOOLS FOR OUR NEIGHBORHOOD

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

11

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 12

Are women too sensitive or are men insensitive

Should the wife have equal say in the marriage or should the husband have the last say

Can a woman lead the church

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 13

A- APPROVE B- REJECT

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 14

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 15

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 16

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 3: Conflict Resolution

1 Arrange yourselves in groups

2 Choose a spokesperson for your group

3 ldquoCome up with a name for your grouprdquo

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

3

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 4

When people have different views on issues

Conflict is unavoidable Conflict can be good or bad Conflict is normal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 5

Honey pleaseJust calm down hellipLet me explainhellip

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 6

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 7

What are some signs of unresolved Conflict

Culture race and ethnicity

Gender and sexuality

Knowledge (general and situational)

Impressions of the Messenger

Previous experiences

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 8

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 9

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 10

FIGHT POVERTY IN AFRICA BETTER SCHOOLS FOR OUR NEIGHBORHOOD

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

11

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 12

Are women too sensitive or are men insensitive

Should the wife have equal say in the marriage or should the husband have the last say

Can a woman lead the church

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 13

A- APPROVE B- REJECT

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 14

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 15

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 16

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 4: Conflict Resolution

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 4

When people have different views on issues

Conflict is unavoidable Conflict can be good or bad Conflict is normal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 5

Honey pleaseJust calm down hellipLet me explainhellip

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 6

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 7

What are some signs of unresolved Conflict

Culture race and ethnicity

Gender and sexuality

Knowledge (general and situational)

Impressions of the Messenger

Previous experiences

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 8

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 9

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 10

FIGHT POVERTY IN AFRICA BETTER SCHOOLS FOR OUR NEIGHBORHOOD

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

11

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 12

Are women too sensitive or are men insensitive

Should the wife have equal say in the marriage or should the husband have the last say

Can a woman lead the church

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 13

A- APPROVE B- REJECT

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 14

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 15

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 16

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 5: Conflict Resolution

When people have different views on issues

Conflict is unavoidable Conflict can be good or bad Conflict is normal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 5

Honey pleaseJust calm down hellipLet me explainhellip

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 6

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 7

What are some signs of unresolved Conflict

Culture race and ethnicity

Gender and sexuality

Knowledge (general and situational)

Impressions of the Messenger

Previous experiences

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 8

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 9

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 10

FIGHT POVERTY IN AFRICA BETTER SCHOOLS FOR OUR NEIGHBORHOOD

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

11

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 12

Are women too sensitive or are men insensitive

Should the wife have equal say in the marriage or should the husband have the last say

Can a woman lead the church

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 13

A- APPROVE B- REJECT

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 14

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 15

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 16

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 6: Conflict Resolution

Honey pleaseJust calm down hellipLet me explainhellip

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 6

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 7

What are some signs of unresolved Conflict

Culture race and ethnicity

Gender and sexuality

Knowledge (general and situational)

Impressions of the Messenger

Previous experiences

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 8

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 9

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 10

FIGHT POVERTY IN AFRICA BETTER SCHOOLS FOR OUR NEIGHBORHOOD

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

11

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 12

Are women too sensitive or are men insensitive

Should the wife have equal say in the marriage or should the husband have the last say

Can a woman lead the church

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 13

A- APPROVE B- REJECT

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 14

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 15

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 16

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 7: Conflict Resolution

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 7

What are some signs of unresolved Conflict

Culture race and ethnicity

Gender and sexuality

Knowledge (general and situational)

Impressions of the Messenger

Previous experiences

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 8

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 9

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 10

FIGHT POVERTY IN AFRICA BETTER SCHOOLS FOR OUR NEIGHBORHOOD

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

11

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 12

Are women too sensitive or are men insensitive

Should the wife have equal say in the marriage or should the husband have the last say

Can a woman lead the church

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 13

A- APPROVE B- REJECT

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 14

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 15

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 16

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 8: Conflict Resolution

Culture race and ethnicity

Gender and sexuality

Knowledge (general and situational)

Impressions of the Messenger

Previous experiences

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 8

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 9

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 10

FIGHT POVERTY IN AFRICA BETTER SCHOOLS FOR OUR NEIGHBORHOOD

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

11

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 12

Are women too sensitive or are men insensitive

Should the wife have equal say in the marriage or should the husband have the last say

Can a woman lead the church

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 13

A- APPROVE B- REJECT

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 14

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 15

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 16

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 9: Conflict Resolution

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 9

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 10

FIGHT POVERTY IN AFRICA BETTER SCHOOLS FOR OUR NEIGHBORHOOD

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

11

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 12

Are women too sensitive or are men insensitive

Should the wife have equal say in the marriage or should the husband have the last say

Can a woman lead the church

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 13

A- APPROVE B- REJECT

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 14

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 15

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 16

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 10: Conflict Resolution

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 10

FIGHT POVERTY IN AFRICA BETTER SCHOOLS FOR OUR NEIGHBORHOOD

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

11

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 12

Are women too sensitive or are men insensitive

Should the wife have equal say in the marriage or should the husband have the last say

Can a woman lead the church

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 13

A- APPROVE B- REJECT

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 14

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 15

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 16

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 11: Conflict Resolution

FIGHT POVERTY IN AFRICA BETTER SCHOOLS FOR OUR NEIGHBORHOOD

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

11

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 12

Are women too sensitive or are men insensitive

Should the wife have equal say in the marriage or should the husband have the last say

Can a woman lead the church

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 13

A- APPROVE B- REJECT

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 14

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 15

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 16

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 12: Conflict Resolution

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 12

Are women too sensitive or are men insensitive

Should the wife have equal say in the marriage or should the husband have the last say

Can a woman lead the church

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 13

A- APPROVE B- REJECT

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 14

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 15

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 16

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 13: Conflict Resolution

Are women too sensitive or are men insensitive

Should the wife have equal say in the marriage or should the husband have the last say

Can a woman lead the church

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 13

A- APPROVE B- REJECT

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 14

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 15

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 16

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 14: Conflict Resolution

A- APPROVE B- REJECT

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 14

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 15

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 16

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 15: Conflict Resolution

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 15

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 16

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 16: Conflict Resolution

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 16

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 17: Conflict Resolution

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 17

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 18: Conflict Resolution

Your Culture race and ethnicity+

Your Gender and sexuality+

Your Knowledge +

Your Impressions of the Messenger+

Your Previous experiences

=A Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 18

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 19: Conflict Resolution

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 19

Activity 3

Who are you

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 20: Conflict Resolution

Passiveness is displayed by someone who is typically withdrawn tries to be a nice guy wants to be liked doesnt like to compete and feels inadequate when responding to power challenges

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

20

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 21: Conflict Resolution

People who are assertive are generally self-confident souls who know what they want out of life and they go after it Since they feel like they are in control of their own destiny they are filled with an abounding energy and drive I know many people like this mainly professionals who are winners in many aspects of their lives

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

21

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 22: Conflict Resolution

This means that you tend to be heavy-handed harsh or otherwise step on other peoples toes when trying to get what you want This can result in relationship problems and patterns of ended friendships and repeated conflicts You may be emulating a parent who had a similar style of relating or you may not be aware that you can get what you want without offending others or keeping them from getting what they want as well

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw

22

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 23: Conflict Resolution

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 23

Being aware of your own thoughts perceptions and beliefs is the start to becoming more comfortable with others and life in general

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 24: Conflict Resolution

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 24

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 25: Conflict Resolution

Perceptions vary from person to person Different people perceive different things about the same situation

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 25

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 26: Conflict Resolution

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 26

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 27: Conflict Resolution

WordsPictures

Emotions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 27

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 28: Conflict Resolution

Using your worksheet what do you see

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 28

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 29: Conflict Resolution

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 29

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 30: Conflict Resolution

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 30

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 31: Conflict Resolution

The best way to forget your troubles is to wear tight shoes Author unknown

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 31

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 32: Conflict Resolution

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 32

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 33: Conflict Resolution

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 33

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 34: Conflict Resolution

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 34

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 35: Conflict Resolution

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 35

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 36: Conflict Resolution

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 36

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 37: Conflict Resolution

Acceptance

The way I see it if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain

Dolly PartonA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 37

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 38: Conflict Resolution

You have been employed as a supervisor in the same department for 4 years You are well respected and do a good job A new supervisor has recently been appointed whom you have to work with They are continually re-organising the section re-prioritising work which you have allocated and questioning your judgement openly

Try to identify1 Potential reasons for conflict2 Your initial reaction and solution3 Other information you might require4 Possible alternative solutions

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 38

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 39: Conflict Resolution

Conflict itself does not cause problems 1048715 The way people react or respond in conflict causes problems 1048715 We have choices

Speak when you are angry - and you will make the best speech youll ever regret - Laurence J Peter

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 39

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 40: Conflict Resolution

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 40

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 41: Conflict Resolution

Avoiding

Competing

Collaborating

Accommodating

Compromising

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 41

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 42: Conflict Resolution

Irsquoll think about it tomorrow

Goal Remove

Use when issue is not important

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 42

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 43: Conflict Resolution

OUR WAY ldquoTwo heads are better than onerdquo Goal winwin

Use when time and cost permit

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 43

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 44: Conflict Resolution

My Way My Way or the Highway

Goal To win

Action is required and all other options are

closedA Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 44

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 45: Conflict Resolution

YOUR WAY

ldquoItrsquos ok with merdquo

Goal to yieldA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 45

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 46: Conflict Resolution

Half WAY ldquoLetrsquos make a dealrdquo

Goal middle ground

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 46

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 47: Conflict Resolution

bullWhen facing a conflict consider the following

bullThe Relationship bullThe Situation bullThe Other Person bullYour Goals

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 47

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 48: Conflict Resolution

Read

Respond

Reflect

Recognize

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 48

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 49: Conflict Resolution

Hear them out

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 49

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 50: Conflict Resolution

The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges Martin Luther King Jr

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 50

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 51: Conflict Resolution

RevisitTaking the good with the

badGrow

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing John Powell

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 51

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 52: Conflict Resolution

A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her ~David Brinkley

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 52

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 53: Conflict Resolution

~Ben Jonson Never argue with a fool onlookers may not be able to tell the difference

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 53

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 54: Conflict Resolution

Spoken Words Written Words Visual Images Body language

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 54

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 55: Conflict Resolution

The exchange of thoughts messages or information as by speech signals writing or behavior

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 55

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 56: Conflict Resolution

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 56

Sender Encodes

Receiver Decodes

Transmission

Feedback

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 57: Conflict Resolution

One- way

SendergtgtgtReceiver

Two- Way

SenderltltltgtgtgtReceiver

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 57

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 58: Conflict Resolution

MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT

DO NOT INTERRUPT - LET THEM FINISH

GOOD POSTURE - MAINTAIN A NON-THREATENING POSTION

ParaphraseA Plus Health and Safety

Presented by Glenda Shaw 58

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 59: Conflict Resolution

Noise External Internal

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 59

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 60: Conflict Resolution

ldquoIrdquo messages

From your perspective

Using ldquoIrdquo language not ldquoyourdquo language

Without blaming

Without demanding

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 60

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 61: Conflict Resolution

Ability to put yourself in anotherrsquos shoes

Understanding anotherrsquos perspective

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 61

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 62: Conflict Resolution

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 62

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice
Page 63: Conflict Resolution

A Plus Health and Safety Presented by Glenda Shaw 63

  • Conflict Resolution
  • Activity 1
  • Activity 2
  • Write a sentence describing Conflict
  • Conflict
  • Slide 6
  • Slide 7
  • What Cause Conflict
  • Culture race and ethnicity
  • Should the US intervene in the internal affairs of other countries
  • Your company is working on a campaign for children Your team has been assigned to work on a 2 Millions dollars projects The CEO has chosen two areas of interest Your team must decided where these funds will be allocated
  • Gender and sexuality
  • Men vs Women
  • A well respected gay couple that is financially stable and well educated desires to adopt a child from a local childrenrsquos home The decision rest in the hand of you and your team
  • Knowledge
  • Impressions of the Messenger
  • Previous experiences
  • Slide 18
  • Slide 19
  • Passive 7-12
  • Assertive 13- 22
  • Aggressive 23-29
  • Slide 23
  • Write a sentence describing perception
  • You and Your perception
  • Slide 26
  • Belief ndash An emotional Acceptance from self-talk
  • Activity 3
  • What Do You see now
  • Slide 30
  • Slide 31
  • Who Makes the best Cars
  • Greatest Basketball Player in the NBA
  • Slide 34
  • Slide 35
  • Whorsquos perception is right and whorsquos wrong
  • Slide 37
  • Activity
  • Conflict is NORMAL
  • Bobby Knight
  • 5 Conflict Responses
  • Avoiding
  • Collaborating (most popular)
  • Slide 44
  • Accommodating
  • Which Style to Use
  • 4 Rrsquos in RESOLVING CONFLICT
  • Read
  • Response ndash Internal feelings being displayed externally
  • Reflect
  • Recognize
  • Communication
  • Ways in Which We Communicate
  • What is Communication
  • Communication Process
  • Types of Communication
  • Features of Effective Communication
  • Communication Barriers
  • Taking Ownership
  • Empathy
  • Clinton vs Obama
  • Practice