Dr Dharmesh Bhadja, MD (Homeopathy) Founder and Chief consultant, Niramay Health Care

• Its complex, its about failure to achieve proportionate academic worth• It is about feeling undervalued

• It is about clashes between perception of ‘me’ between me and authorities• It sucks, disturbs, disappoints and at the end… makes me stronger and feeling

motivated to prove something more…

Title: Mysel f v /s Myse l fThe story of clashes between perception of self

Clash of perceiving between me and authorities:eg.-Three roles of mine

1. as a doctor- This role is everything for me. My designation, my job, my duty, my vision and after all I am spending whole day in this role and relates with all through this role.2. as a student – I was student of the same people who are now authorities at the institutes. Still they have more student feeling about me.3. as a professional highflier – I am leading my own way with good financial backup and earning satisfactorily with immense work satisfaction. I am one of the very few who are doing the job they love.

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me according to close friends

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Where is the failure?Here are the failures.

For me – as a tutor• I feel under-valued and my professional growth is blocked.

• My skills and knowledge is not utilized just because of perceiving blocks.

For them – as administration• I might be egoistic or difficult to handle kind of staff

member• No more promotions or opportunities to me

For quality education – institutional aspect• We failed to cultivate the positive environment, which is

highly needed for the growing medical science like Homeopathy.

…Deeper into the story…this happens to all of us somewhere

Old and unchanged perceptions by others

Similar relations in different authoritative

roles

Taken-into-consideration-kind-of-

things

New version of self after improvement or

higher studies

Getting more and more positive inputs from all

near ones

Positively charged and optimistic about self

believing

Resolution ???

<<<Patience>>>

2014 and upcoming years let my work to convince them…

<<<Proofs of expertise>>>

through other activities and platforms…

<<< 3rd way>>>

Not your, not mine. But the appropriate one…

That’s all for 2013… let’s enter the new year with strong sense of self beliefs and optimistic attitude.

Life is not the race. It’s a beautiful journey to feel each moment.

Nobody can prevent usFrom what we deserveAt the same time,We can not get more than What we deserve.

2014 resolution – BE deserving

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