1. Body Language by Abid Iqbal Khari

2. Please Be Attentive! You are going to learn about a very important aspect of your personality

3. How do you like to look like?

4. a dull, angry and boring personality

5. or like a dazzling and awe-inspiring personality

6. This session would help you evaluate, and if need be, improve yourself as well

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• Body Language

8. It includes movements

9. Appearance (First impression it happens only once)

10. Dress People dont see what is in your stomach, they see what youre wearing

11. The dress differentiates .

12. Facial Expressions A happy face is loved by all

13. Facial Expressions

14. Gestures Gestures should be in consistent with your words

15. Posture

16. Use of silence

• Silence is half consent (saying)

• A good way of showing your being angry

17. Use of touch Your grip shows either affection, indifference (carelessness) or threat

18. Timing Punctuality indicates how you value time (Pakistani politicians are exceptional case)

19. Physical Proxemity (Distance between speaker and listener) An appropriate distance is

20. Physical Surrounding/Orientation Your living room also speaks .

21. Tone & rhythm of speech Good rate to utter words is 80 to 120 words per minute

22. and colours HATRED LOVE BROADENING SACRED

23. Body Language means

• Not to speak orally but even then to communicate

24. Actions speak louder than words. Yes, they do. Arent they?

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26. People may doubt what you say but they always believe what you do In communication Words play 7% role Body Language plays 93% role

27. Load your personality with this great art and your success is guaranteed in every meeting/ interview

28. Your words tell me a story but your body tells me the whole story

29. Confidence

• Leaning forward in chair

• Chin up

• Putting tips of fingers of one hand against the tips of fingers of other hand in praying or steepling position

• Hands joined behind back when standing

30. Openness and Warmth

• Open-lipped smiling

• Open hands with palms visible

• Unbuttoning coat upon being seated

31. Nervousness

• Smoking

• Whistling

• Pinching skin

• Fidgeting

• Jiggling pocket contents

• Running tongue along front of teeth

• Clearing throat

• Hands touching the face or covering part of the face

• Pulling at skin or ear

• Running fingers through hair

• Wringing hands

• Biting on pens or other objects

• Twiddling thumbs

• Biting fingernails (action itself or evidence of)

• Tongue clicking

32. Untrustworthy/Defensive

• Frowning

• Squinting eyes

• Tight-lipped grin

• Arms crossed in front of chest

• Pulling away

• Chin down

• Touching nose or face

• Darting eyes

• Looking down when speaking

• Clenched hands

• Gestures with fist

• Pointing with fingers

• Chopping one hand into the open palm of the other

• Rubbing back of neck

• Clasping hands behind head while leaning back in the chair.

33. Do your best to stay connected with your interviewer --- both verbally and non-verbally

34. Beauty --- the adjustment of all parts proportionately so that one cannot add or subtract or change without impairing the harmony of the whole Leon Battesta Alberti Beauty

35. Smile is a universal Body Language phrase (Other phrases vary in meaning across cultural lines)

36. You cant be a good personality even when you are wearing a costly suit if you dont have a smile

37. Thy smiling in thy brothers face is charity (Al-Hadith)

38. Smile increases your face value Lets increase our worth free of cost

39. Keep Smiling

40. Thanks Good bye Developed & presented by: www.abidiqbal.com