Abstainer and Recovery Ally workshop

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RECOVERY& ALLY TRAINING

Transcript of Abstainer and Recovery Ally workshop

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R E C O V E R Y &A L L Y T R A I N I N G

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OVERVIEW

Substance Use Culture at IU

What is Recovery?

Stigma and Marginalized Identities

How to be an Ally

Resources and Discussion

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SUBSTANCE USE CULTURE AT IU

• A large percentage of IU students choose to abstain for various reasons.

• 70% of our student body either abstains, or drinks moderately.

• Alcohol use is most prevalent on campus, followed by marijuana, and

prescription drugs like Adderall, pain killers, and sedatives (i.e. Xanax).

• Nationally, 31% of college students meet the criteria for a substance use

disorder

– Nationally, 6% of college students meet criteria for a more serious

substance use disorder.

• On our campus, 600+ students identify as being in recovery from

problematic alcohol or drug use.Students Needing Help are Often Shielded From Doing So

because of the “Party Culture” Perception.

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W H AT I S R E C O V E R Y ?M Y T H S , F A C T S , A N D B E I N G I N R E C O V E R Y

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MYTHS

• People who abstain or are in substance use disorder recovery will judge you

for drinking even if you don’t have a “problem”.”

• People that abstain or are in recovery don’t have fun.

• People in recovery are “jealous” or “sad” that they “can’t” drink.

• People in recovery “aren’t allowed” to hang with people who drink; they can

only be friends with each other. Everyone at parties drinks or uses drugs.

• “Relapse” is always a part of recovery; relapse can happen at any moment.

• You can spot a person in recovery just by looking at them. (Stereotypes)

• People that abstain are lame.

• People in college are too young to be in recovery.

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TRUTHS

1 in 10 Americans will get

help for substance use

disorder in their lifetime.

23 million Americans currently live

in addiction recovery

27% of Americans

admit they would be

less likely to hire an

otherwise qualified job

applicant just because

the person was in

recovery.

67% of Americans believe

that stigma and

stereotypes exist against

people in recovery.

Stigma keeps people from getting

help. Shame is deadly.

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WHAT IS RECOVERY?

“…a voluntarily maintained lifestyle

composed and characterized by

sobriety, personal health, and

citizenship.”

-Hazelden Betty Ford Center, 2013

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BEING IN RECOVERY

• We all hold multiple identities

• Some of those identities hold power, some are

marginalized

• Some students on campus identify as a person in

recovery:

• Recovery is a:–Hidden identity

–Misunderstood identity

–Stigmatized identity

– Internalized identity

–Subordinated identity

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BEING IN RECOVERY

• For some, it means abstaining from all mind and mood-altering

substances

• Seeking to live a life of emotional, physical, and spiritual wellness

• Some attend 12-step fellowships, and others rely on the support of

churches, their family, or mental health professionals.

• Some take medications to help them maintain sobriety

• They recognized that being of service to others helps their recovery

• Recovery is a process, not an event

• Recovery is a personal journey, and is the responsibility of the

person in recoveryIf you want to learn more about someone’s reason for

abstaining, or for being in recovery, ASK.

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BEING IN RECOVERY AT IU

• A large percentage of IU students choose to abstain for various reasons.

Some are in recovery.

– From Alcohol: 400

– From Drugs: 980

• Many students in recovery choose to remain unknown

• Other students that abstain or are in recovery are unaware of their

options on campus

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VERY INCLUSIVE

50% men, 50% women

Ages 18-30

50% in-state students

None live on campus

currently

Sobriety ranges from less

than 6 months to more

than 5 years

Some were at IU when

they entered recovery,

some were not

Some took time off of

school for treatmentStudents in Recovery is a student

organization supported by OASIS. It is

open to all students in recovery, allies and

advocates.

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S T I G M AM A R G I N A L I Z AT I O N O F P E O P L E I N R E C O V E R Y

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STIGMA• Language and word choice can determine your tone

Helpful and encouraging

VS.

Discriminating, judgmental, and labeling

• Negative terms infer that addiction is a choice

“alcoholic” “junkie” “stoner” “addict”

• Person first language

“Person in recovery” or “Person with substance use

disorder”

• Supportive and caring friendships facilitate recovery

• Education and awareness creates understanding

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CHARACTERISTICS OF DOMINANT AND SUBORDINATED IDENTITIES

DOMINANT GROUP:

DRINKING, USING

SUBORDINATE GROUP:

RECOVERING, ABSTAINING

• Considered “different,” “Lame,” “boring”

• Adapt to a world where drinking and drug use is popular

• Feel ostracized

• Limited options for help or sober fun

• Not as acceptable to talk about abstinence or recovery

• Viewed as “normal” and

acceptable

• World is built to suit their needs

• Privilege of substance use is

“the way things are”

• Free to attend events where

alcohol and drugs may be

present without much concern

• Share stories about drinking or

using drugs in public, or with

friends

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B E I N G A R E C O V E R Y A L LY O R F R I E N D T O A B S TA I N E R“ A L LY ” I S I N T E R C H A N G E A B L E W I T H

“ C H A M P I O N ”

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OBJECTIVES FOR ALLIES

• Understand the recovery community, which includes:

–People in recovery

–Allies

–Professionals

–Friends and family

• Be a friend to those in recovery

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HOW TO BE AN ALLY

• Be a helpful part of the recovery community

–Communicate that they are not alone

–Actively listen to advice and perspective from those in

recovery

–Ask respectful questions to further your understanding

• Form opportunities for alcohol-free fun... Compromise!

• Be mindful of your word choice

–Person first language

• Know that being an ally is a process of growth

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HOW TO BE AN ALLY

AT A PARTY

• Have non-alcoholic options available, and food

• Provide water that is accessible

• Respect anyone’s refusal

• Respect the wishes of people that don’t use substances

• Be aware of your friends’ habits and behavior

• Be an active bystander. STEP UP if you hear someone pressuring someone to drink or use drugs.

ON CAMPUS

• Reduce stigmatizing language

through respectful conversation

• Educate others about recovery

• Share information about

activities and events without

alcohol

• Inform students about OASIS as

a resource for students in

recovery

• Talk about SIRB

• Invite non-using friends to

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HOW TO TALK TO A FRIEND

WHAT TO DO

• Talk when both of you are sober

• The sooner the better

• Be specific and concrete, state

observations (i.e. facts)

• Distinguish between the person

and the behavior

• Consult a friend or family member

• Encourage your friend to consult

with a professional

• Set boundaries; take care of you

WHAT NOT TO DO

• Pressure them to drink or use

drugs

• Pressure them to do something

that they do not want to do

• Accuse or argue

• Lecture, moralize, or judge

• Tell them you’re giving up on them

• Downplay or shame recovery

• Take on their pain or struggle

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TAKE-HOME RESOURCES

• Indiana Recovery Alliance

– Naloxone distribution organization in Bloomington

– http://indianarecoveryalliance.org/

• Faces and Voices of Recovery

– National organization advocating for recovery

– http://www.facesandvoicesofrecovery.org/

• The Fix

– News in the recovery community

– https://www.thefix.com/

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REFERENCES

• Perron, B. E., Grahovac, I. D., Uppal, J. S., Granillo, T. M., Shuter, J., & Porer, C. A.

(2011). Supporting students in recovery on college campuses: Opportunities for

student affairs professionals. Journal of Student Affairs Research and Practice, 48(1),

47–64. doi:10.2202/1949-6605.6226 Available at

http://journals.naspa.org/jsarp/vol48/iss1/art4/

• www.drugfree.org

• http://www.transformingyouthrecovery.org/

• http://www.drugabuse.gov/