5 Easy Ways To Get Past A

Woman's Defenses

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Why Do Women Need Defenses?

• Picture it this way: how many times are you solicited to buy something? You have sales people calling you on the phone, knocking on your door and cluttering your email box. You also see advertisements on your television, on the radio and the Internet.

• How could you possibly give your attention to even half of these sales messages?

• It's just information overload... so you've probably got to be saying "no thanks" or "not interested" haven't you? You're doing this before you even know whether you’re interested or not!

Here are five simple ways to get past her defenses and set yourself apart from other men trying to get her attention:

1. Don't Hover

• Want to really make her uncomfortable about you? Hover close to her, glance at her occasionally or even stare at her. The more you do this without approaching her, the more defensive she is likely going to be.

• In fact, it’s the best strategy to ruin your chances of meeting her before you even say a single word.

2. Don't Go Out Alone

• Take a friend with you, preferably a female friend. If a woman sees that you have friends, this sends her the subconscious message that you are a normal person.

• It also shows her that you have a life so there are chances that you won't be one of those clingy, needy guys.

3. Talk to Everyone (Not Just Her)

• This is really effective when it comes to getting a woman to lower her defenses. In fact, if you are in a situation where you can talk to people around her without speaking directly to her, she's eventually going to wonder:

• "Who is this guy? He's talking to everyone but me... I wonder why." This will show her that you are friendly and will keep her from thinking that you are talking to her just to hit on her. If you do this the right way, she may even approach you first.

4. Master the Walk Away

Unless you are in a situation where you won’t have an opportunity to talk to her again, practice the art of temporarily walking away from the conversation. This will prove that you are not needy and will help her relax.

5. Wait on the Introductions

Sometimes it can be a mistake to introduce yourself right away. After all, what is every other guy doing to get her attention? He is probably saying: "Hi I'm___, what's your name?" Much like the walk away, it will show her that you are not needy and will bring her defenses down.

You might be really surprised at the difference these simple strategies can make in someone’s life...

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