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Welcome to Effective Speech 155
Why It Matters..
https://www.polleverywhere.com/multiple_choice_polls/EY7ZA0mM6WPJgsK#
*Handout . ……And The Line-up
http://www.channelone.com/life/school/swf_take_a_seat/
http://www.thepowerofintroverts.com/about-the-book/quiet-quiz-are-you-an-introvert/
http://www.ted.com/talks/susan_cain_the_power_of_introverts
Your “Selfie” Speech Interview*
*See Interview Handout
A little about me……
President & CEO of Choice President & CEO of Choice TechnologiesTechnologies
RAY BRANNON, PH.D. (ABD)RAY BRANNON, PH.D. (ABD)WWW.INSPECTYOURGADGETS.COWWW.INSPECTYOURGADGETS.CO
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A little about myself…
This could be you……
Introduce yourself:
Stereotyping – harmful categorizationLet’s Do Away With Stereotypes
Our need to connect with others……http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XVQ1ULfQawk
Education may fail us at times…but you are the master of your destiny.
http://www.ted.com/talks/ken_robinson_changing_education_paradigms.html
Self Esteem – Self Efficacy
Self Confidence
Self esteem:Self esteem:You can change your You can change your ““set pointset point””!!
A person with poor self-esteem will feel the urge to put down or condescend to the person.
A person with good self-esteem when faced with a person showing ignorance or confusion or trouble will try and help the person.
Self-fulfilling Prophesy Self-fulfilling Prophesy and the Placebo Effectand the Placebo Effect
www.wired.com/medtech/drugs/magazine/17-09/ff_placebo_effect
Placebos Are Getting More Effective.
Drugmakers Are Desperate to Know Why.
The The pole-vaulterpole-vaulter experiment. experiment.
““How high can fleas jump?How high can fleas jump?””
Famous I.Q. ExperimentFamous I.Q. Experiment
Self talk:Self talk:Constructing your own realityConstructing your own reality
Tricks to Show Self Confidence#1 DRESS WELL
AND STAND TALL
TIP#2 EXPRESS CONVICTION
Speak with Conviction!http://vimeo.com/3829682
TIP #3 PREPARE YOURSELF FOR SUCCESS
TIP #4 AVOID THINKING OF
YOURSELF IN TERMS OF PERFECTION OR IMPERFECTION!
Developing your inner confidenceDeveloping your inner confidence(within a realistic self appraisal) (within a realistic self appraisal)
TIP 5: ACKNOWLEDGE YOUR FEARS AND EMBRACE FAILURE
Calvin Coolidge
“Nothing in this world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful people with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent.”
http://www.ted.com/talks/julian_treasure_how_to_speak_so_that_people_w
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Let’s validate each otherhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cbk980jV7Ao
Projection
A simple start…
I didn't say she stole my money - someone else said it
I didn't say she stole my money - I didn't say it
I didn't say she stole my money - I only implied it
I didn't say she stole my money - I said someone did, not necessarily her
I didn't say she stole my money - I considered it borrowed, even though she didn't ask
I didn't say she stole my money - only that she stole money
I didn't say she stole my money - she stole stuff which cost me money to replace
Ennuciation
Diction, Slang, anat
“No, thank you….I have had a sufficiency, more would be a redundancy. Already my gastronomic satiety has reached its ultimatum.”
overassimilation
“I dunno”“Probly”“Havta”
“Woulda/coulda/shoulda” “Uzshly”“Gonna”“Wanna”“Cancha”
Most overused and meaningless words today
http://www.askmen.com/top_10/entertainment/top-10-most-overused-words.html