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ORConsulting A Psychology Practice for Business

Dr Gill Green

Contact details: gill.green@orconsulting.uk.com

ORConsulting Ltd: http://www.orconsulting.uk.com

ORConsulting A Psychology Practice for Business

Effective Interactions

ORConsulting A Psychology Practice for Business

Transactional Analysis

PARENT

ADULT

CHILD

CHILD

EMOTIONS

LOGIC

CHILD

ADULT

PARENT

ADULT

CHILD

JUDGEMENT

Preconceived ideas

How we think things should be

I’m right you’re wrong

Control

CRITICAL PARENT

CRITICAL PARENT

PARENT JUDGEMENT

CHILD EMOTION

Reactive behaviour

Under threat

Feel unsafe

ADAPTED CHILD

REBELLIOUS CHILD

COMPLIANT CHILD

Understanding

Curiosity

Listening respect

Empathy

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PARENT JUDGEMENT

CHILD EMOTION

The ‘actual’ emotion

Honest, genuine & authentic

Positive or negative

FREE CHILD

FREE CHILD

ADULT

FREE CHILD

REBELLIOUS CHILD

COMPLIANT CHILD

CRITICAL PARENT

NURTURING PARENT

ADULT

FREE CHILD

REBELLIOUS CHILD

COMPLIANT CHILD

CRITICAL PARENT

NURTURING PARENT

ADULT BLUE

= EFFECTIVE

RED =

INEFFECTIVE

Critical Parent doesn't change behaviour.

PART TWO

REBELLIOUS CHILD

COMPLIANT CHILD

FREE CHILD

REBELLIOUS CHILD

COMPLIANT CHILD

NURTURING PARENT

ADULT

REBELLIOUS CHILD

COMPLIANT CHILD

CRITICAL PARENT

NURTURING PARENT

ADULT

CRITICAL PARENT

FREE CHILD

CRITICAL PARENT

CRITICAL PARENT

FREE CHILD

REBELLIOUS CHILD

COMPLIANT CHILD

NURTURING PARENT

ADULT

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ADULT

FREE CHILD

CRITICAL PARENT

REBELLIOUS CHILD

COMPLIANT CHILD

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FREE CHILD

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ADULT

Intent ≠ impact

PART THREE

REBELLIOUS CHILD

CRITICAL PARENT

CRITICAL PARENT

REBELLIOUS CHILD

NURTURING PARENT

FREE CHILD

ADULT

Listening

Understanding perspectives

Collaboration & support

Logical reasoning

Clear thinking

Evidence-based decisions

Genuine expression of concerns

Enthusiasm & energy

Open and honest

RULES

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ADULT

FREE CHILD

my intent

my intent

Work & home

PART FOUR

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ADULT

FREE CHILD

WHAT MAKES FOR THE PERFECT TEAM?

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ADULT

FREE CHILD

PSYCHOLOGICAL

SAFETY

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ADULT

FREE CHILD

Where in your world does

this need to be applied?

Q

ORConsulting A Psychology Practice for Business

Dr Gill Green