Communication differences

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what will different gender thinks when you say the same words?how do they feel?

Transcript of Communication differences

Gender differences in

communication——Men are from Mars.Women are from Venus(n. 金星 ), and I’m your interpreter.

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They all love each other,but they break up finally.

One of the reasons is their communication !

Three movies

Style of Communication

rapport talk (关系式):emotion

Women

Report talk (报告式) : factMan

Style of communication

In the following aspects,

1 、 Connection and status

2 、 Emotion and rapport

4 、 Jokes and stories

5 、 Conflict

3 、 Listening and interruptingDifferences

Differences

Connection and status -the fundemental difference

Seek connectionWomen

Seek statusMen

·Why we communicate?

←Connection and status

Emotion and rapport

talk more about feelings, relationships and people

Women

avoid emotion as a sign of weakness, prefer talking facts.

Men

←Emotion and rapport

Listening and interrupting

listen carefully and attentively for a long period without interrupting ,

ask questions Women

use interruption as a power play so they can grab attention and demonstrate

status,avoid asking questions

Men

←Listening and interrupting

Jokes and stories ←

The victims,creates more empathetic connection with their audience.

Women

The heroes and intellectual,solving complex problems, leading the charge and saving the world.

Men

Joke and stories

Conflict

Avoid conflict in order not to reduced connections.

Women

Use conflict as a short-cut to gain status.

Men

←Conflict

So ……Here comes a question

How can different gender people be together ?!!!

Question

Solution

2

TIME

$3

MONEY

Solution

1

LOVE

You just need the one ‘s gender…………

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THANK YOU~

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Designed by Snow ,131090016