Communication differences
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Gender differences in
communication——Men are from Mars.Women are from Venus(n. 金星 ), and I’m your interpreter.
Designed by Snow ,131090016
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They all love each other,but they break up finally.
One of the reasons is their communication !
Three movies
Style of Communication
rapport talk (关系式):emotion
Women
Report talk (报告式) : factMan
Style of communication
In the following aspects,
1 、 Connection and status
2 、 Emotion and rapport
4 、 Jokes and stories
5 、 Conflict
3 、 Listening and interruptingDifferences
Differences
Connection and status -the fundemental difference
Seek connectionWomen
Seek statusMen
·Why we communicate?
←Connection and status
Emotion and rapport
talk more about feelings, relationships and people
Women
avoid emotion as a sign of weakness, prefer talking facts.
Men
←Emotion and rapport
Listening and interrupting
listen carefully and attentively for a long period without interrupting ,
ask questions Women
use interruption as a power play so they can grab attention and demonstrate
status,avoid asking questions
Men
←Listening and interrupting
Jokes and stories ←
The victims,creates more empathetic connection with their audience.
Women
The heroes and intellectual,solving complex problems, leading the charge and saving the world.
Men
Joke and stories
Conflict
Avoid conflict in order not to reduced connections.
Women
Use conflict as a short-cut to gain status.
Men
←Conflict
So ……Here comes a question
How can different gender people be together ?!!!
Question
Solution
2
TIME
$3
MONEY
Solution
1
LOVE
You just need the one ‘s gender…………
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Designed by Snow ,131090016