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"
He
that lives not by rule,
lives not at alL has grown
into a proverb yet many have .
no settled plan and no fixed
principles, They are at sea
without
a compass, and know
not
whither
they go , but are
borne along with every
wind
and current. This may be an
easy mode of life, but can it
be safel Blinded by self-love,
such may hope that all is
well, but is there cause for
such expectationsl
It
may be
have learned 'somewhat to
restrain their tongues, and yet
have no right motives in
doing so. their propensities
are the same as before. They
fear man, but not Ciod. They
dread trouble, but not
iniquity;
The pen is subject to the
same laws which are made
for . he tongue. What a man
may not speak, he should not
write. Indeed, writing evil
things often does more harm
end in amending one's own
faults and avoiding wicked
courses;
In many ways we may sin
with our tongues. Laurentius
enumerates as many sins of
the tongue as there are letters
in the alphabet.
In
his
Christian Directory, Richard
Baxter gives a list of thirty
sins of speech, beginning
with blasphemy. In
expounding the third and
ninth commandments, the
as inischievous to
have no principles
as bad ones. A rule
not followed is a
mere notion, and
governs no one.
Westminster
r ===============:::O=====i l Assembly make
S
the number still
S
lahrgerf'
There
is
,
" ' . t
ere
ore, no want
of matter on such
These remarks
apply
to
the use and
abuse of the tongue.
There
is
often a
criminal
a theme.
.' on u . ome speak too
. . .fast. Merely rapid
carelessness about themoral
quality of words. The subject
is vast,
and
not well
understood. Few know as
well
as
they ought, and still
fewer
do
as well as they
know, Yet Ciod's word is
plain. There are but ten
commandments; yet two of
them, one in each table,
relate
to
our speech, and all
Scriptures give instruction
on
the same subject. True, the
word of Ciod does not .
determine the precise amount
of speech
to
be used, leaving
much
to
natural' disposition,
and to
circumstances of time
and
place. But Ciod has
clearly told us
what
kind of
word he approves, and what
kind he condemns.
Mere reserve does not
evince good principles. Some
than speaking 'them.
We may'siri, not only by
the words used, but also by
'the tones with which they are
spoken, and by
109ks
and
.gestures. The language of
pantomime is universal,
vigorous, and easily
perverted. A naughty person,
a wicked man, walketh with
a froward mouth.
He
winketh with his eyes, he
speaketh with his
feet, he
teacheth with his fingers. "
Provo 6:12 13.
Whenever we speak of sin
or duty, levity is out ofplace.
To avoid the former and do
the latter is the highest end
of
learning. In such a subject
mere curiosity
is
worse than
idle. Here malignity may find
a remark
to
condemn others,
but
wis om
will gain its chief
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articulation
is
not
here intended. But
statements made without
reflection, though not
designed
to
mislead, are a
great evil. "
Seest
thou a man
, hasty in his,wordsl There.
is
more hope 6f afoeil than
him: Prov.29:20. The
intellect of such is in a state
unfriendly to accuracy of
knowledge or statement.
He
seldom improves in mind or
manners. He jumps at
conclusions, and wishes
others
to
do the same.
Others speak too often.
When
awake and in cOlnpany
they are sddom silent. "From
morn
to
night the ceaseless
larum rings: In the absence
of things weighty, wise or
true trifles, folly, or
falsehood serve their turn. It
is a mark of intolerable self
conceit
to be
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offering unsolicited opinions.
Even
the oracles of the
heathen were sometimes
silent, though paid for
speaking.
Others say too much.
Not
content with stating what
is
called
for,
they proceed
to
tiresome and sinful lengths.
They are neither "swift to
hear: nor "slow to speak:
Others speak too soon.
They do not inquire, listen
and consider, but are ready to
deliver their views at
heated by passion, it is
usually best to be silent. A
very good man wrote down
this rule, I will never talk to
an angry man."
In
general, men probably
speak too much. The
Scriptures
warn
us on this
point. " A fool's voice is
known by multitude of
words." Eccles. 5:3. "A fool
also
is
full of words." Eccles.
10:14. "In the multitude of
words there wanteth not sin."
Provo 10:19. Ciarrulity
is
not
Qod,
and
good men would
not dare to sanction what
Qod condemns. If any man
has such a license, he forged
it. By excessive talking
professors of religion make
sad the hearts of their
brethren,
and
all men are less
esteemed for it.
The
judgement of mankind is with
Solomon, that
a
fool uttereth
all his mind; but a wise man
keepeth it in till afterwards,"
Provo 2.9:11; and that "even a
fool, when he holdeth his
all times, and often in
dashing style. A wise
man regardeth time and
judgement," but they
disregard both. He
that answereth a matter
before he heareth it, it
is
folly and shame unto
t
is
ma k of
h l i o l e a b h ~
S ( ~ I f c o l { ~ e i t
to
be
continl lal ly
offe.-ing IIllsolicited
Ol)inions.
peace, is counted wise;
and he that shutteth
his lips is esteemed a
man
of
understanding. Provo
17:2.8. Some one has
well said: He
is
not
a fool that hath
unWise thoughts, but
him: Provo
18:13.
As "there is time to speak,"
so "there is a time to
keep
silence:
Eccles.
3:7. One of
these times is when you have
nothing pertinent to say.
Another is, when others are
speaking. Did any family ever
come to much good, where'
the young were not taught to
be silent
when
the old were
speaking, or where all the
children were allowed to
speak at once Another such
time
is
when we first visit a
friend overwhdmed with
affliction. Some sympathies
are best expressed by silence.
Thus, Job's friends ,"sat down
with him upon the ground
seveTj days and seven nights,
and none spake a word unto
him; for they saw that his
grief was very great." Job
2.:13. When others are greatly
always innocent. Even good
and wise men censure it.
One
of our proverbs is, 'The fool's
tongue is long enough to cut
his throat:' Babblers were
never held in high esteem
among a virtuous people.
"Surely the serpent will bite
without enchantment, and a
babbler
is
no better." Eccles.
10:11. This odious character
is often more or less acquired
by those who suppose
themselves unsuspected of it.
Of many a man it is said,
He is not worth minding, he
is
always talking." This
is
a
sign that all
is
not right. One
may plead that he is a
licensed character, and that
he always allowed to say just
what he pleased. But it may
be asked, Who signed and
gave the license Can
it
be
produced
It
never came from
he
that utters them." Yet
some can never. be cured of
this folly. To them silence is
torture. like one of the
ancients they might say, "If I
hold my tongue, I shall give
up the ghost:-
Uob
13:19)
They know little of the peace
and quiet of one
who
follows
them not. "Whoso keepeth
his mouth
and
his tongue
keepeth his soul from
troubles." Provo 21 :2.3. The
troubles brought on by an
unbridled tongue in this life
are but a prelude to far worse
in the next. Excessive talking
is frequently attended by loud
speaking. The former betrays
self-conceit; the latter
imprudence.
One
feature of
as
bad a character as is sketched
in Scripture
is
that "she is
loud."
Provo
7:11.
A
foolish
woman is clamorous; she is
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simple and knoweth nothing."
Provo
9:13. It was a bright
ornament of the character of
the divine Redeemer that he
was gentle and quiet, and did
"not cry, nor lift up his voice
to
be heard in the street." Isa.
42:2.
He
was not a clamorous
person, but meek and lowly.
Is
the
following a fancy
sketchl When others were
speaking, he was restless, and
if ruled
to
entire silence, he
was miserable. Ordinarily he
.seemed to have some amiable
traits,
but when
others
had
the good sense
to
listen
to
his
wit
or wisdom, he was in a
specially good temper. The
more you attended
to
him, the
louder and more emphatic he
was. On nearly all subjects he
knew something; on many,
he knew much, on
some
he
was an oracle in his own
esteem. When doomed to
spend soine time with those
whose dignity restrained him,
he might well have adopted
the words of one who bears a
part in the oldest epic poem
extant:
'
am
full
of matter,
th'e spirit within cQnstraineth
me. Behold my belly
is
as
wine, which hath no vent; it
is
ready to burst like new
bottles. I will speak that I
may be refreshed." Job 32:18-
20. Our hero wished to pass
for abenevolent man.
He
was great at a public,meeting.
He commonly said
something, and was full in
promises in the aid of the
cause. To fulfill them was far
from him. His children
caught his spirit, though in
his presence they were
sometimes forced
to
keep
silence. But when they had a
chance, they lost no time.
Even on his
d e a t h ~ e d
the
same propensity was
sometimes manifest, and he
left the world without
seeming
to
know that he bore
the character of a babbler.
One of his townsmen was
little like him. He was a man
of few words.
When
he did
speak he was heard with
marked respect.
If
others were
impatient, it was because he
was s ow to utter his mind
His maxim was, "The fewer
words, the less sin:
He
thought much and weighed
his words welL Far removed
from sourness, he was given
to self-communion. His
prayers were brief, but fervent
and comprehenSive. His
words were well ordered.
He
was not hasty
to
utter
anything, especially before
Qod. His Sincerity was
apparent. His word was as
.good as his bond or his oath .
He
was rarely required
to
explain or retract any of his
statements; but if he had been
mistaken, he frankly said
so
.
His children, though
sprightly and joyous, were
neither pert nor impudent.
They honoured grey hairs. In
him "the effect of
righteousness was quietness
and assurance for ever." Isa.
32:17.
His
end was peace.
Survivors generally
mentioned his name with
honour. His family never
blushed to own him
as
their
former gUide and head.
Would it not be wise for
every man to say with a
servant of Qod of the
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seventeenth century, :1 am
resolved, by the grace of Qod,
never
to
speak much, lest I
often speak too much, and not
to speak at all, rather than to
no purpose."
Our
words should also be
pure and chaste.
How
many
narratives, anecdotes, songs,
riddles, and questions are
indelicate, and therefore
unchristian How many
hints, allusions, innuendos,
insinuations, and surmises are
of this description Nearly
ever thing in the
form
of
double entendre falls under
the same condemnation.
Whatever pollutes the mind
is
Wicked, and never without
necessity to be repeated. This
class of evils
is
vastly
sustained by the stage, by
works of wit and fiction, and
by many popular ballads.
Tradition also shows both
fidelity and industry in
transmitting impure sayings
from age to
age
. Those who
thus sin sometimes excuse
their conduct by saying that
unto the pure all things are
pure," but they seem
to
forget
that "unto them that are
defiled and unbelieving is
nothing pure, but even their
mind and conscience is
defiled." Tit. 1 :15. This latter
class constitutes no small
portion of mankind. The sow
washes more frequently than
the sheep, and yet is not
clean. The nature of the flock
is to
avoid the mire. Shun
those who are foul-mouthed.
Never smile at their impurity.
Never imitate them.
Let
no
corrupt communication '
proceed out of your mouth,
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shame, perhaps for ruin.
Every human being
is
entitled
to some respect. Even the
guilty felon on his
way
to
execution should not be
mocked or rudely gazed at.
Every well- meaning person
is
entitled to such treatment
as will express approbation of
his good character. But
fawning servility
is
due to no
mortal. "The Lord shall cut
off
ll
Haltering lips: Psa.
1.2:3. Among some "to be
agreeable" is to be
,-,- --,-
--,..-
-,.-.
'
' adulatory. This sin
is
I am resolved, by the . .
one of the most
but that which
is
good 10
the
use of
edifying, that it may
minister grace to the hearers."
EJih.
4:29. "But now
ye
also
put off all these; anger wrath
blasphemy, filthy
communications out of your
mouth:
Col. 3:8.
Be
not
deceived, evil '
communications corrupt good
manners: 1 Cor. 1
q:33
Many who greatly offend
against these laws
of
speech,
would be both surprised and
displeased
if
their sin
was charged upon
them.
faces,
and of theii'virtues
only behind their backs: The
only exception to this rule
is
that of necessity. Properly
observed, it would banish a
large ,part of social misery.
Flattery
is
always an
unkindness. "A man that
Hattereth his neighbour, '
spreadeth a net
for
his feet."
Provo
29:5. Those are good
words of Elihu-"Let
me
not
accept any man's person,
neither let me give flattering
titles unto .men.
For
I know
Another grievous
sin of the tongue
is
flattery, which
consists,
in,
undue
or
unreas'onable praise,
Few things are more
ensnaring. Riches"
talents, family; office,
,_ ..
e e
o f ,God, to sv
eak
\ - ,' ~ ~ a ; C ~ i ~ ~ s h i ~ a n d
,
:
other men's sins
QOly
\ ':i
tempting to him who
~ e f o r ~ . h e i : l , f a e e S l
n d is
Hattered. It greatly
Q f t b e i ~ y ~ r t u e s n l ~ ~ ~ ~ e ; s a ~ ; e ~ ~ ; n g
;'
behindtheiJ, baeks;i ,
i{,;
: of reproof.
One
who
person" attainments. deeds of
distinction, and even vices
furnish occasions for it.
Husbandsfl itter their wives,
and wives their husbands;
parents their children, and
children their parents;
ministers their 'peoplei 'and
people their ministers, and all
under the pretence of
manifesting esteem. The poor
flatter the rich, and
demagogues the people. Yet
ll
commendation
is
not
flattery; but that which
exceeds the truth
is
always
sinful, and untimely praise,
even
when
true, disgusts wise
men and puffs
up
the minds
of the simple. It was a good
purpose of Bishop Beveridge,
I am resolved, by the grace
ofqod,
to speak
of
other
men's sins,only before th,eir
not
to
give flattering tiUes; in
so
doing my Maker wO\lld
soon take me away ." Job
32:21,22. Paul says- "Neither
at any time used
we
flattering
words: 1Thess. 2:5 . Courtly
manners may require such ,
words,
but
the truth, even
bluntly spoken,
is
more
pleasing to Ciod. Almost all
flatterers have some wicked
design in view. "Discretion
shall preserve thee
from
the
stranger. that flattereth with
her words." Provo 2:16,
This is a
g r ~ a t
evil under
the sun. Kings have their
courtiers"
and
few are sunk
so
low
as
not at times to have
their sycophants. Yet if man
is
really displeased with
flattery, it will seldom be
offered. To be pleased with
it
is
to become a candidate for
was famous in his
day said,
I
will do my best to
cross any man in his sins; if I
have not thanks of him, yet I
shall of my
own
consCience."
Flatterers are quite sure to
be
backbiters. This
is
neither
conjecture, nor the mere fruit
of observation. The Bible
so
teaches. He that goeth about
as
a tale-bearer, revealeth
secrets; therefore meddle not
with him, that flattereth with
his lips." Prov. 20: 19. A
defeated flatterer is a
malicious slanderer. His
principles are bad. He who
will lie in your favour will
upon a turn lie against you .
He who will unduly praise,
will unduly censure. Flattery
and slander are branches
of
the same trade, and are
carried on by the same
people. Those called in the
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Bible, "whisperers," belong to
the same class. They
go
about
their work by stealth. They
often enjoy secresy
on
their
dupes. To them an evil report
is music. They are often very
cunning in avoiding
responsibility before men, but
(jod
knows the filthiness
of
their hearts. Their career
is
sometimes long, but generally
ends in open shame. They
have sometimes poisoned the
minds of many with their
falsehoods. They often .speak
well of a inan to his friends,
but
evil of him
to
his
enemies.
"He
that
utlereth a slander, is
a
fool Provo
10:18.
A heathen once said,
The most dangerous
of
wild
beasts
is
a
slanderer; of tame
The law of love to man
may be violated in speech
without uttering a word that
is
not true. That no man is
any better than he ought to
be, is literally true, yet to say
as
much of any particular
person is often slanderous in
its effect, and may tear a good
name to pieces.
Tale-bearing and news
carrying are species
of
slander, and are very
mischievous.
In
this more
than in most ways, one man
may produce deep and
Moses is this statute; "Thou
shalt not
go up
and down
as a
tale-bearer among thy
people:"
Lev
.
19:16 .
"A tale
bearer revealeth secrets; but '
he that
is
of a faithful spirit
concealeth the
matter: Provo
11
:13.
Every man, family,
and firm have secrets, which
it does not conc 'ern others
to
know. if by accident, or in .
confidence,
.they
come to' your
knowledge, reveal them not.
To
lre
a spy upon your
neighbour is a low
occupation, imd he
to
whom
ones, a flatterer:
Men
sometimes '
pretend to know
confidence
is
not
sacred,
is
truly
d e b a ~ e d
None but
the i1nprudent are in
the habit
of
telling ,
their secrets. "
If
you
would teach secresy
to others, begin with
yourself .
How
can
' -' '-' ~ ~ E i i l i J
you
exp ect
anoth er
some great evil of another,
but
will not tell
what
it is.
They know that the human
imagination, ilppealed to
mysteriously; can.soon out
run
any
common scale of
enormity,
and so
they set t
to
work.
That
such conduct
.is
mean, cruel, and indefensible,
few will deny. Yet
how
many practise
it
And
if, .
instead of going abroad
with
such
of
other charges against
their neighbours men would
go
diredly
to them, how
much evil would
be
prevented "Debate thy cause
with thy neighbour himself,
and discover not a secret to
another; lest he that heareth
it put thee to shame, and
thine infamy turn not
away."
Provo
25:9,10.
extensive distress.
like
the
incendiary, who has fired a
city and fled
to
an eminence
to ravish his eyes with the
progress of the ruin he has
wrought, the tale"beater loves
to embroil families and
communities, and then, if
possible, escape unnoticed
and unhurt. Often he
is
found
out in time to receive the
frowns of the virtuous, but
commonly not till he has
engendered strife. Paul says
such persons were found in
his day, "And withal they ,
learn to be idle, wandering
from house to house; and not
only idle, but tattlers also,
and busy-bodies speaking
things which they ought not."
Him. 5 :13 . hi
the law of
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to
keep a secret
. when you yourself cannotl"H
was a wise determination of ,
a good man
ofthe
last
generation, ' IngeneraL I will
deal in secrets as .
itHe
as
possible."
Much social misery'
is
owing to tale-bearing.
"Where no wood
is
, the
fire
goeth out; so where there
is
no tale-bearer, the strife
ceaseth :
ProVo 26:20.
The
dreadful
effect's of
this vile
practice are clearly stated in
Scripture. "The words of a
tale"bearer are
as
wounds;
and they
go
down into the
innermost parts of the belly."
Provo
18:8.
Among the seven
abominations Which the
Lord
hates, four of them are, a
lying tongue, feet that be
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swift in running to mischief,
a false witness that speaketh
lies, and
he that
soweth
discord among brethren ."
Provo 6:17-19. Lying in some
form
is
a common attendant
on tale-bearing. Vseless strife
always follows it. It argues a
low mind; and a meddlesome
disposition. And he that
passeth
by and
meddleth
with
strife not belonging to him, is
like one that taketh a dog by
the
ears.
Provo
.26:17. To
others he gives trouble,
while
he
has a large share himself.
Very
few
men
openly declare
themselves candidates for
contempt,
but
tale-bearers
gain
it
without direct seeking.
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1.ongu.e
of
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to
the discussion with anti
paedobaptist assumptions." --Greg L. Bahnse
n
Southern California Center for Christian Studies
.
,a thorough
and
careful study
of
he church, the covenants, and
the
concept
of
infant baptism, There's much use
ful
infonnation here-even for those who do not believe in the baptism of c.ovenant children.
Ja
y E. Adams,
author and
pastor
Randy's writing is
cogent, irenic,
and proceeds from th basic issues . I think s
uch
a book
will
be a great benefit to the church
of Christ.
-Douglas
Wilson, Credenda/Agenda
", . . especially strong in the clarity of
its
presentation, the inclusion of sample dialogues
to
make
th
e book more personal,
and
the concern for love
. .
. . Booth] is clearly friendly to those with
whom
he disagree s, but not at the expense
of
truth.
-Vern
S. Poythress, Westminster Theological Seminary
May, 1996 THE COUNSEL of Chalcedon 15