Self-EsteemSelf-Esteem
DefinitionsDefinitions
Self-concept: Picture or perception of Self-concept: Picture or perception of ourselves/ a person's mental model of his ourselves/ a person's mental model of his or her abilities and attributes or her abilities and attributes
Self Efficacy: The set of beliefs that one Self Efficacy: The set of beliefs that one can perform adequately in a particular can perform adequately in a particular situation.situation.
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Self-idealSelf-ideal: The way we would like to be: The way we would like to be Self-actualizationSelf-actualization A concept in personality A concept in personality
psychology referring to a person's constant psychology referring to a person's constant striving to realize his or her potential and to striving to realize his or her potential and to develop inherent talents and capabilities.develop inherent talents and capabilities.
Self-awarenessSelf-awareness The top level of consciousness; The top level of consciousness; cognizance of the autobiographical character of cognizance of the autobiographical character of personally experienced events.personally experienced events.
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Self Esteem: Feelings we have about Self Esteem: Feelings we have about ourselves ourselves
Self Esteem: A realistic respect for or Self Esteem: A realistic respect for or favorable impression of one self; Self favorable impression of one self; Self respectrespect
(Dictionary.com)(Dictionary.com)
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What is Self Esteem?What is Self Esteem?
Self + EsteemSelf + Esteem The total, essential, or particular being The total, essential, or particular being
of a person; the individual:of a person; the individual: +Worth, +Worth, Value, Opinion ,judgmentValue, Opinion ,judgment
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Self-Esteem…What’s it made of?Self-Esteem…What’s it made of?
Your self-esteem is Your self-esteem is made up of all the made up of all the experiences and experiences and interpersonal interpersonal relationships you’ve relationships you’ve had in your life. had in your life. Everyone you’ve ever Everyone you’ve ever met has added to or met has added to or taken away from how taken away from how you see yourself!you see yourself!
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Self-EsteemSelf-Esteem
Self-esteem refers to th way Self-esteem refers to th way we see and think about we see and think about ourselvesourselves
Self esteemSelf esteem is your opinion of is your opinion of yourself. yourself.
High self esteem is a good High self esteem is a good opinion of yourself and opinion of yourself and
low self esteem is a bad low self esteem is a bad opinion of yourself.opinion of yourself.
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What Self Esteem is NotWhat Self Esteem is Not
Self Esteem is NOT dependant upon what Self Esteem is NOT dependant upon what other people think of youother people think of you
Self Esteem is not egotism, arrogance, Self Esteem is not egotism, arrogance, narcissism/selfishness, or a desire to feel narcissism/selfishness, or a desire to feel superior to others superior to others
Self Esteem is not temporary euphoriaSelf Esteem is not temporary euphoria
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How should we measure self-esteem?
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Factors affecting on high and low Factors affecting on high and low self esteemself esteem
Your self esteem depends on many questions:Your self esteem depends on many questions: Is your job worthwhile? Do others respect what you do? Do Is your job worthwhile? Do others respect what you do? Do
you?you?
Do you believe you are successful?Do you believe you are successful?
How do you see yourself (your self image)? How do you see yourself (your self image)? - Improve your self esteem- Improve your self esteem- Boost your self confidence- Boost your self confidence- -
How do you feel about your strengths and weaknesses? How do you feel about your strengths and weaknesses?
What do you think of your social status? What do you think of your social status?
How do you relate to others? How do you relate to others?
Can you make your own decisions? A lack of choices leads to Can you make your own decisions? A lack of choices leads to low self esteem. low self esteem.
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Development of Self EsteemDevelopment of Self Esteem
A person develops his/her self esteem A person develops his/her self esteem throughout the life through experiences.throughout the life through experiences.
In this regard childhood experiences play In this regard childhood experiences play an important role in shaping self esteem. an important role in shaping self esteem.
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Factors that develop High and Low Factors that develop High and Low Self EsteemSelf Esteem
High Self EsteemHigh Self Esteem If you are being praisedIf you are being praised If you are listened toIf you are listened to If you are being spoken If you are being spoken
to respectfullyto respectfully If you are getting If you are getting
attention attention Experiencing successExperiencing success Having trust worthy Having trust worthy
friendsfriends
Low Self EsteemLow Self Esteem Experiencing Continuous Experiencing Continuous
FailureFailure Being expected to perfect Being expected to perfect
all the timeall the time Being Ignored or made Being Ignored or made
fun offun of Having physical or Having physical or
emotional punishmentemotional punishment Being criticizedBeing criticized
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Why Self Esteem is important?Why Self Esteem is important? Having a healthy self – esteem Having a healthy self – esteem
creates confidence, self-reliance, creates confidence, self-reliance, and overall happiness in an and overall happiness in an individual individual
Self esteem increases your confidence. If Self esteem increases your confidence. If you have confidence you will respect you have confidence you will respect yourself and then you can respect others, yourself and then you can respect others, improve your relationships and improve your relationships and become happier....this is not a selfish goal become happier....this is not a selfish goal as you will contribute more and share as you will contribute more and share yourself with the world and those around yourself with the world and those around you.you.
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Low esteem causes depression, Low esteem causes depression, unhappiness, insecurity and low unhappiness, insecurity and low confidence. confidence.
Other's desires may take preference over Other's desires may take preference over yours. yours.
Inner criticism, that nagging voice of Inner criticism, that nagging voice of disapproval inside you, causes you to disapproval inside you, causes you to stumble at every challenge and challenges stumble at every challenge and challenges seem impossibleseem impossible
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Change the bad
Appreciate life
Willing to try
new things Believes in self
Is not a threat to others
Doesn’t submit to
peer pressure
Accept failure
Leader to
others
Good Self
Esteem
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Who has Who has contributed to contributed to
your self your self esteem?esteem?
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No one can Make you feel inferior Without your Consent. Eleanor Roosevelt
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Tips for building Self EsteemTips for building Self Esteem Learn to be more assertive and not Learn to be more assertive and not
feel guilty about saying no feel guilty about saying no Think positivelyThink positively Believe on your selfBelieve on your self Make plans for the future .Set and Make plans for the future .Set and
achieve goalsachieve goals Do something challenging each dayDo something challenging each day Look your bestLook your best Eat correctlyEat correctly Do something for someone elseDo something for someone else Learn a new skillLearn a new skill 1818Mrs.Najam-un-NissaMrs.Najam-un-Nissa
Contd.Contd.
Handle things one at a timeHandle things one at a time Use criticism constructivelyUse criticism constructively Ask for help – take advantage of learning Ask for help – take advantage of learning
opportunitiesopportunities Allow personal growth time each dayAllow personal growth time each day Do not say negative things about yourselfDo not say negative things about yourself Reward yourself oftenReward yourself often List your accomplishments each evening List your accomplishments each evening Volunteer to share your skills with othersVolunteer to share your skills with others
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Accept yourself: Stop worrying about the things Accept yourself: Stop worrying about the things you can’t change. Be more accepting of others you can’t change. Be more accepting of others and the things they can’t change.and the things they can’t change.
Try not to compare with others. It’s unfair. You Try not to compare with others. It’s unfair. You may compare their strengths with your may compare their strengths with your weaknesses. Judge yourself in terms of your weaknesses. Judge yourself in terms of your own growth own growth
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Have Realistic Expectations – We expect too Have Realistic Expectations – We expect too much from ourselves. Perfection is not possible much from ourselves. Perfection is not possible but bettering our-self should be a lifetime goal. but bettering our-self should be a lifetime goal.
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Emphasize your strengths.Emphasize your strengths.
Change what can be changed. Some Change what can be changed. Some things fast, others gradual, and others things fast, others gradual, and others never. There are things we inherit but we never. There are things we inherit but we can change our attitude about it. Try new can change our attitude about it. Try new experiences.experiences.
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Best FriendsBest Friends
Would you take better care of yourself?Would you take better care of yourself?Would you be kinder to yourself?Would you be kinder to yourself?Would you be more forgiving of your humanWould you be more forgiving of your human imperfections?imperfections?If you realized your best friend was yourself?If you realized your best friend was yourself?
Who is always with you everywhere?Who is always with you everywhere?Who is on your side when others are unfair?Who is on your side when others are unfair?And tell me, who will never let you down in any situation?And tell me, who will never let you down in any situation?Who will always see you get your share?Who will always see you get your share?
And that’s why I’m a best friend to myself.And that’s why I’m a best friend to myself.And I take me out whenever I feel low.And I take me out whenever I feel low.And I make my life as happy as a best friend wouldAnd I make my life as happy as a best friend wouldI’m as nice to me as anyone I know!I’m as nice to me as anyone I know!
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There are two different people in the There are two different people in the world. One that says “I wish I had” and world. One that says “I wish I had” and the one that says “I’m glad I did”. the one that says “I’m glad I did”. Remember you can have anything in this Remember you can have anything in this world if you just believe in yourself.world if you just believe in yourself.
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Final ThoughtFinal Thought
You are a unique individual. No one else is You are a unique individual. No one else is like you in the whole world. This makes like you in the whole world. This makes you special already!you special already!
Our time in this world is limited. Make it Our time in this world is limited. Make it happen for you so you leave your mark in happen for you so you leave your mark in history!history!
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““Commercial of Me”Commercial of Me”
Emphasizing the positive characteristics and Emphasizing the positive characteristics and capabilities of you, develop an advertisement or capabilities of you, develop an advertisement or
commercial to commercial to
““sell oneself”. sell oneself”.
It may be a radio or television ad, billboard, It may be a radio or television ad, billboard, sweepstakes, etc.sweepstakes, etc.
Due next class period.Due next class period.
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