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Insight of Blissful Life
Lessons of Life Leading To Joy...
Arundeep Singh
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A Dedication to
Adiyogi
W
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Preface
When I started writing this book I wasn’t sure that I
would be publishing this book one day. As this book
wasn’t much more than something that I grasped from
life every day. One thing that I want to share with my
readers is that in your life you experience a lot of things,
different kind of events takes place in your life but the
thing that matters much is what you learned from those
events and how you are going to use it to make your
future better. This book is nothing much more than what
life has taught me. But just realizing the fact that a lot
can be learned from life isn’t enough. As the fact that
matters is the moment when one starts acting on the
belief that a lot can be learned.
The moment I started learning from my own life
experiences a tremendous amount of changes started to
happen and life started getting simpler and simpler every
day.
The problems in everyone’s life is increasing
everyday not because what we call stress, tension,
anxiety, etc. these type of things are increasing in our
life, but because we are not able relate and rationalize
the very basic things in our own life.
Life of an individual isn’t messed up due to some
external factor completely. If one try to seek, one will
responsible not completely but in some way less or more
for the complications in his or her own life.
So these are a few lessons I want to share with you,
that life taught me and made my life much simpler and
blissful than it was. Hope it may give you a spark of
bliss that may lead to tremendous possibilities.
W
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Acknowledgements
W A debt of Gratitude and love to my Mom and Dad for
making me what I am today, as without them it wouldn’t
have been possible to even think about writing this book.
No doubt we had perspectives that were different but
still they showed an enormous amount of faith and
helped me in every way they could.
I am also grateful to have such a great family that
always was standing by my side. All my cousins,
nephews and elders were so encouraging that the journey
of writing this book was no less than an adventure. I
remember how Jaipreet(my nephew) used to do mock
interviews of mine asking me funny but challenging
questions as if I was a famous writer and how
Tejinder(my cousin) always kept encouraging me not to
stop with what I’ve started.
I would also like to thank my teachers from whom
I’ve learned great lessons in my life. The lessons that
have made me a far better person than what I was in my
past.
Not to forget my dear friends, all over the world! I
can’t deny the fact that I have most epic friends.
Friends like Arjun with whom I done great things in
life and he helped me in writing this book in numerous
ways from explaining how things work and what type of
things I should keep in mind. I don’t know how to thank
Umesh for how he was there listening to the challenges
that I had and helped me in resolving them. Not to forget
Deedar, Tervinder, Shivam and Pradeep as they are the
people who showed me mirror of potential that I had
within me, and a few nice ladies; Jill, Surabhi and
Bhumika who were always motivating me to fulfil my
dream of writing a book.
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In the end I want to pay a huge amount of gratitude
to my life as each and every experience in my life has
taught me something great that hold a great value for me
and more is to be learned in future.
W
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Contents
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1.
Dreams You Hold In Your Eyes–
Turn Them Into Reality
1
2. Self-Underestimation–A Lethal
Venom
11
3. Dealing With Setbacks In Life
18
4. Small Is Beautiful
26
5. Emancipate Yourself From Mental
Slavery
34
6. Take A Break And Make Sometime
For Yourself
42
7. Acceptance Of Reality – Path To
Liberation
49
8. Balancing The Use Of Social Media
In Life
57
9. Devotion-Aspect Of Life Beyond
Simple Intellect
66
10. Gratefulness Towards Life
73
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11. Learning From Mistakes
80
12. Taking Responsibility For Our
Actions
88
13. Learn To Be Motivated By Insult
And Failure
96
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“The dreams that reside within realm of
your mind can only be brought into realm.
For the inception of path is done with
ignition of belief of one on one’s own
individuality.
With willingness to withstand every
disappointment and obstruction.
In the darkest corners of time when even
your very own shadow might leave you in
isolation.
Don’t be reluctant to walk as lone wolf on
the path you chose, as sometimes walking
alone is the only solution.
Accept and work on your very own flaws so
they might not act as a barrier.
As learning lessons taught by mistakes is the
best the best way of embracing failures.”
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Chapter 1
Dreams You Hold in
Your Eyes–Turn Them
into Reality
W “Dreams aren’t the ones you see while
you’re asleep, but one that won’t let you
sleep” is really well said by some
anonymous personality and that
determination is what will lead you to chase
the dream you hold in your eyes.
Now each of us has a dream to achieve
something or to attain certain position, no
doubt some people realize very soon what is
their dream some people take bit longer, but
honestly that’s not an issue as according to
me everything has a right time and so does
ones realization of what one has to do out of
this precious life that one has got. Now the
most important thing is once you realize
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what your dream is, you must start working
on it and must not stop until you achieve it.
Basically to achieve any goal in your life
the first and the foremost thing you must
have is belief, that you can achieve that
dream what you have dreamt no matter how
strange or different it is. As it was belief of
mine that I can write a book no matter how
much people going to say that it isn’t my
cup of tea but if I have faith in me that I can
write a book I will no matter what odds life
will throw at me I have tackle them and
keep moving. It works same for you too,
always remember “belief of one in oneself
can change the perception of one’s for the
life one is living”. That dialogue of Will
Smith from the movie “The Pursuit of
Happiness” where he says “Don’t let ever
somebody tell you... you can’t do
something” is a real inspiration for those
who listen others and think that they are
aiming too high, if you have a dream than
who has got the right to stop you, nobody
not even that demon who resides within you.
All you need is to ignore them and listen to
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your God damn gut, as unless you don’t
believe in yourself, you have no right to
expect someone else to believe in you. Once
you have got that faith in you that you have
the potential to achieve your goal you have
crossed the biggest hurdle that was stopping
you to start walking on the path that you
yourself had chosen for you.
Once you have laid a path and have
started the journey in order to reach your
destination all you require is proper focus as
it is clear once, no matter what path you
have chosen and how you going to chase
your dream you are going to face a hell lot
of distractions in your pathway in many
forms. The biggest problem with them is
their process of distracting you from your
path is so slow that even you won’t be able
to understand that you are being distracted
and when the realization comes it has priced
you a tremendous loss, it works just like a
malignant tumour that doesn’t gives any
symptom until cancer has invaded whole
organ or multiple body organs. All you can
do is before you go to sleep ask yourself are
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you still focused and determined the same
you were when you started the journey to
achieve the dream and if your inner
consciousness is not responding then
probably you have to worry about the fact
maybe you are distracted and your focus is
deviated towards something else. The
moment you realize that you have to work
on yourself, analyze who you are “creation
of nature with limitless potential, with no
hold bar.” Once you have realized that
again put all the efforts and concentration
you have to focus and come back on the
path to the success.
One thing that you have to keep in mind
that you are going to face failure a hell lot of
times and you have to learn to embrace them
and stand up again and keep moving in the
right direction. What actually come to the
mind of people is that failure is a warning
that the path followed by them isn’t actually
meant for them but to be honest you need to
think the other way round, instead of
questioning your ability become curious of
the fact why you failed as failure is a
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comma, not full stop. According to Ronnie
Screwvala “failure must fascinate and
intrigue your mind” if we are afraid of
failure we won’t be able to reach our
destination that we have set for ourselves
just because our faith wasn’t determined
enough, so never let that determined passion
break even in those hard times of failure.
Keep motivating yourself as you are one
who can understand yourself completely as
in hard times we need someone who may
understand what we are going through and
can motivate us to rise again, so why don’t
we ourselves bring out that inner motivation
as an angel resides within you.
Also keep this fact in mind that there
will be times when people wouldn’t be
standing by your side or leave you or may
betray you that will make you feel
heartbroken, lonely and alone and maybe it
can also deviate you from the path that you
chose for yourself “yes I know it’s not easy
to walk alone but if you keep going and be
true to yourself, it will be worth in the end”,
maybe the hardest walk but it’s one that
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makes you strongest. The more hard it gets
the greater your destiny is going to be, so
even if everyone leaves you alone don’t stop
stay strong and keep moving and keep
your faith strong. If you will be true to
yourself right people will show up you
won’t be alone forever in this journey
forever and never ever settle in order to fit in
world if you are destined with greater
heights as that would be the worst thing you
could have ever done to yourself. Everyone
is not capable to understand the real
potential that is within you so if you are
surrounded by the people who can’t
understand what you actually are capable to
do it’s better to be alone at that time and
wait for the right people to show up.
Also there will be people who are going
to de-motivate you not because you aren’t
on the right path or you are not worth of
being on the path you are right now, but
because they don’t have they don’t have the
ability and potential that you had to be on
that path. So never be de-motivated by the
one who mock you, as by doing so you are
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going to loose your inner faith and belief
that you had made while you set this dream
for yourself as have to be different and face
every odd that comes in order to stand out of
the herd and reach your destination. Always
remember it’s not easy to stand out and
follow your God damn gut even when so
many people are intentionally or
unintentionally de-motivate you as if it
would have been people instead of de-
motivating you would have worked on their
own dreams instead of settling down for less
than what they deserve.
Moreover we are human and are full of
flaws and Tyrion Lannistor is 100% true
when he says “Accept your flaws so they
can't be used against you”, as until we don’t
accept our flaws we can’t work on them and
we know flaws are weaknesses which
hinders the growth of person which
ultimately brings a lot of hurdles between
you and your dream. So it’s better to accept
the flaws you have and start working on
yourself.
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Lastly you should also keep the fact in
your mind that you are going to make a lot
of mistakes while you are going to chase
that dream but never ever sit and regret as it
will be a waste of time, instead of wasting
time learn from your mistakes as everything
happens for a reason and the best reason of
you committing mistake is to make realize
that you were wrong somewhere and you
need to improve on it.
Hence it isn’t that you have to follow
any complex equation to achieve your dream
but belief in yourself, determined focus &
passion, ability learn from mistakes and
failures to rise again and keep moving until
you have reached your goal where that
dream has turned into a reality.
W
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“Undeniable truth what one must accept,
the tendency of humans being judgmental
towards one’s situation time and again.
When one will hit the rock bottom, for sure
they will underestimate till the very last
moment things are against the grain.
Though it isn’t the matter of concern for
human nature is something that can’t be put
to blame.
But a lethal seed of self-underestimation
sown within will be an inception of affliction
of one’s own mind.
The fire of confidence burned within will
bring the light of motivation in the shadows
of dark times.”
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