Check urself b4 u wreck urself
Errol Vassell
Geraldine Vassell
Welcome and Introductions to facilitators
Seminar Objective
To understand God’s plan and purpose for your life
using check points for relationships and social behaviour for your success
Setting the scene
Why do you need to check yourself?
10% of 16 – 25 year olds think life has little or no purpose
50% of the 40,000 pregnancies in 2008 among girls under 18 ended in abortion
40% of unemployed young people said they were unhappy or depressed
34% of young people did not have a parent who they
considered a role model
There is greatness in YOU!
SELF EVALUATION
5 things that define who you are
SELF EVALUATION
5 things/experiences that have shaped you
SELF EVALUATION
5 things that move and motivate you
SELF EVALUATION
Me right now
God’s plan for your life
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What the Bible says about God’s plan for your life
To be in intimate relationship with Him.
To be in His image after His likeness and to have dominion (Gen 1:26).
Be fruitful, multiply, replenish the earth and subdue it (Gen 1:28).
What the Bible says about God’s plan for your life
He ordained male and female relationships in marriage and therefore designed sex within the confinements of marriage (Gen. 2: 24).
For you to discover His purpose for your life – the ‘treasure’ within (2 Cor. 4:7).
What the Bible says about God’s plan for your life
Spread the Gospel of Hope (Mark 16:15)
To love others (John 15:17)
He wants to be glorified in our bodies
(1 Cor. 6:9)
What the Bible says about God’s plan for your life
Train up children in the way of the Lord (Prov. 22:6)
He wants you to prosper -the whole person- (3 John 1:2)
To choose Him above, self, world, satan.
(Exod. 20:3)
To have a worship, life, work balance.
Satan’s plan for your life
?
Satan’s plan for your life
Counterfeit of God’s Plan!
3 E’s
God’s plan v Satan’s plan
St John 10 v 10
‘The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly’
Relationships
“Evil communication corrupts good manners”
1 Cor 15:33
Types of Relationships
Acquaintances
Friendships
Dating
Partners
Types of Love
Agape – God’s perfect love
Phileo – Brotherly love
Storge (maternal / paternal) – Family love
Eros – Romantic love
Group Activity
Split into two groups by gender Males Females Please discuss and answer the following
questions?
Group Exercise
Contrast the difference between male and female expectations in relationships
Life Plan
Child - nurturedTeens - discoveryYoung adults - choicesAdults – buildSeniors - legacy
Life Plan
Key Points:
Understand God’s purpose for your lifeWrite a visionAct on your visionDevelop your giftBuild a teamLeave a legacy
CHECKPOINTS TO SUCCESS
C = Christ’s Image / likeness H = HabitsE = EducationC = ChoicesK = Kingdom principlesU = Unplanned eventsR = Relationships S = Self controlE = Effects of pre-marital sex L = Love v LustF = Fresh start
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