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Are You Making These 7 Biggest Mistakes In Your Long Distance
Relationship?
Have you been in a long distance relationship that could have
worked out really well but ended up screwed because both
of you seemed unable to get and express what the other
wanted? Or are you currently in a long distance relationship
that really feels like this might be the ‘one’ but are afraid you
will end up screwing it like all your previous relationships?
Then this is an article that is right up your alley.
We all have had ghastly relationships in the past that have, in
a way, made us believe we are not meant for a healthy loving
relationship. However, everyone deserves love and the odds
are always in your favor. So, it is time to take back control of
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your love life and learn to identify the mistakes that are
causing you so much pain. Then, you know what comes next,
yup damage control. So, take out your notebook, grab a pen
and start taking notes because we are going down the road
from which you will never return alone.
If you are in a long distance relationship, or thinking of
getting into one, you would/should know this stuff is not
easy. Love and relationships are hard work so only enter if
you are willing to work for it. If you are determined to make
it work, then there is only one rule. Enter without fear and
leave without regrets. This doesn’t mean that you have to
worry about it not working out. On the contrary, it means
you are going to try your best and if it still doesn’t work out,
it wasn’t meant to.
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When you are in love, you feel vulnerable and start feeling
defensive. You probably go all psycho-crazy by giving out too
much information at one time and then holding it all back, to
remedy the slips. Well, no one is blaming you.
Long distance relationships can feel like a never-ending
rollercoaster, with few smooth and straight tracks and loads
of topsy-turvy turns. In order to make it work, you need to be
prepared for what is coming up. After all, no one ever went
on a rollercoaster with a cup of coffee and a book to read. If
you expect the ride to be bumpy, you will be better prepared
for what you are going to face ahead.
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Here are the quick 7 biggest mistakes that can turn your
relationship into a mess. You can find a detailed strategically
prepared action plan on how to rectify the mistakes and turn
your relationship around in my book, ‘Long Distance
Relationship Miracle: How to Make a Long-Distance
Relationship Work', visit our website
http://longdistancerelationshipmiracle.com/
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Mistake Number 1 - Being Too Clingy
We all have been guilty of this mistake. There are two kinds
of people as a rule, the clingers and the detachers. If there is
one of each kind in a relationship, it requires a good amount
of hard work to reach a balance where both of you are happy
with the relationship. You need to identify the traits of your
partner in order to label them as a detacher or clinger.
The worst mistake you can make is being too clingy with a
detacher. They are going to run so fast, you would not know
what just happened. Make sure you have a life of your own
and take out the time to connect with them as well. Follow
their pattern and reciprocate.
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Mistake Number 2 - Being Too Detached
So, you are the detacher in the relationship. Your partner is
probably whining all the time how you never have enough
time for them? Do not give them what they want. There is a
certain power over making the other person chase you. That
is what keeps the attraction going. However, you should give
them just enough to keep them satisfied, yet want more.
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Mistake Number 3 - Letting Jealousies Take Over
So, you have been cheated on before and now you have
serious trust issues. This doesn’t mean you color every
partner as a cheater.
Not all men are cheaters and there are probably a thousand
other problems in a relationship without letting your
jealousies create a thousand new ones.
Talk to your partner about your feelings and let them know
what ignites them in the first place. This will definitely open
the door for your relationship to grow fonder.
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Mistake Number 4 - Not Creating Enough Attraction
for Your Partner
We get it, you are busy and they are busy and yet you want
this relationship to work. However, it is not as easy as that.
You need to create ways to keep the spark alive in the
relationship to make sure it feels new and exciting even after
years.
Killing excitement and uncertainty from your relationship is a
surefire way to kill any attraction they feel for you. In my
book, ‘Long Distance Relationship Miracle: How to Make a
Long-Distance Relationship Work’ I have a step-by-step plan
on how to keep the attraction alive in a relationship.
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Mistake Number 5 - Giving Them Everything They
Ask For
If you have a million-dollar estate, would a hundred dollars
hold any value for you? In fact, owing to human nature, as
long as it is not taken away from you, your estate will stop
making you happy for long.
We take things for granted unless we are uncertain about
owning them. So, if you give your partners everything they
ask for, you are kind of forcing them to take you for granted.
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Mistake Number 6 -Not Trusting Them
The thousands of miles that separate you can be unbearable
on both of you. However, they can become harder on you if
you do not trust them. This attitude will change your
perspective of them and create a lot of unwanted issues. If
you are in a relationship, why let trust issues cause problems.
Take a leap of faith.
“Have enough courage to trust love one more
time and always one more time.”
― Maya Angelou
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Mistake Number 7 - Not Communicating Enough
The only thing that keeps the two of you connected is your
communication. Calls and texts are the only link between the
two of you. Keep it strong but keep it spontaneous. Routines
are boring, so add a spark to your relationship by calling
them randomly. Make sure to plan exciting activities
together. Distance doesn’t have to make your relationship
any less exciting.
Your attitude, at the end of the day, will decide if your
relationship will work out or not. Be strong and confident
and be sure to believe in your worth. Making your partner
the centre of your world is placing too much pressure on
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them, so take responsibility for your own happiness and keep
yourself busy.
If you feel you need serious help in saving your relationship,
then my book ‘Long Distance Relationship Miracle: How to
Make a Long-Distance Relationship Work’ has all the
information, plans and strategies that will help you take
immediate action and start seeing results in your
relationship, today. You can have a great romance and the
relationship of your dreams, if you learn how to play your
cards right.
Visit our website http://longdistancerelationshipmiracle.com/
for more information about how to make a long distance
relationship work.
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