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Great Divorce Advice For Men
“How You Conduct Your Divorce Will Affect The Rest of Your Life. You Need To Take
Control…or She Will”
I’ve been where you are now. As a divorced man, I understand how difficult and
unfair the divorce process can be for men. Since going through my own divorce
back in 2003, I’ve successfully guided thousands of men just like you through the
divorce process. Let me give you some free divorce advice. How you conduct
your divorce will affect the rest of your life! Why do some men get a great
settlement while so many others get screwed? You need to know the facts and
take total control of your divorce. Let me show you how…
A Lawyer Won’t Win Your Case
Sadly, too many men think hiring a lawyer is the way to win a divorce. This
strategy never works. It doesn’t work for the rich and famous men in Hollywood
and it won’t work for you either. Divorce lawyers charge by the hour, not by the
victory. If you’re using a lawyer now, you know this already. Things never
seemed to go as promised or planned. I receive complaints all the time from
men telling me “they’ve spent thousands on legal fees and have gotten
nowhere”. If you hire an attorney, it’s only a matter of time before you experience
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the expense and frustration of the legal system. This is why divorce lawyers
always demand payment upfront in the form of a large retainer. They know you’ll
be unhappy in the end…but they don’t care because you’ve already paid them
and they just move on to the next client.
The Risk of Representing Yourself
Representing yourself isn’t necessarily a bad idea, but unless you know exactly
what you’re doing, it could backfire on you. The system has zero tolerance for
men that don’t follow court procedures to the letter. One little mistake (like not
filing the right form at the right time) could cost you everything. Some men go it
alone without any professional legal advice. They get their advice from family
and friends…or worst of all…television shows. Divorce in the real world is
nothing like divorce on TV. Most men don’t realize how unfair and corrupt family
court can be until they’re broke, in debt to their ex-wife, and alienated from their
children. To win your divorce, you need a winning strategy and the knowledge to
implement that winning strategy.
Use a Proven Winning Strategy that Guarantees Results
The key is to conduct what I call a “No BS Divorce”. Most people (men and
women) approach their divorce like a lawsuit instead of a business negotiation.
We’ve been conditioned by society (and the television shows) to hire a lawyer
and sue somebody in court. Women especially are notorious for this. The billion
dollar divorce industry is geared to play into this notion that divorce is a lawsuit.
Your best defense is to follow a proven strategy that gets results, not a strategy
based on false promises, legal fees, and court dates. Easy to use common
sense strategies will always get a better result than lawyers, lawsuits, and court
appearances. In this case, the best strategy is also much cheaper.
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Going Through Your Divorce Uninformed Will Be Costly
You should never pay more that $50 for divorce advice. Why do so many men
pay lawyers $200+ per hour for legal advice that has such a well documented
track record of failure? Because they don’t know any better. Their lack of
knowledge costs them thousands in legal fees, pointless negotiations, and
thousands more in a bad settlement for years after that.
After reading this report, you’ll no longer fall victim to that divorce lawyer scam.
I’ve advised thousands of men on divorce since 2004 and I’ve never once seen
divorce lawyers win a case for men. Not once! Yet every day men handover
$3,500 retainer fees to legal firms with no guarantee of success and a long trackrecord of failure. Why?
Never Pay More Than $50 for Great Divorce Advice
For less than $50, I’ll tell give you all the divorce and strategic advice you need.
I’ll explain how the divorce system really works and provide a winning strategy
that gets results. I’ll tell you when you should and shouldn’t use a lawyer and
how to manage the lawyer effectively if you do. Unlike divorce lawyers, I
guarantee my advice will get results or I’ll give you your money back. Read myaction guide and try my advice and strategies. If you feel my advice isn’t worth
what you paid, I’ll immediately refund your money with no questions asked…
even if you come back six months from now! Your attorney will never do that.
My Strategies Are All You Need
I’ve written the very action guide that I wish somebody had written for me when I
went through my own divorce. I call it “No BS Divorce Strategies for Men”.Back in 2003, I went through one of the most complex divorces in history. I’ve
conducted years of research since. I’ve read just about all the books out there
on divorce. I’ve spoken to attorneys, legal clerks, custody evaluators, and
judges. Over the years, I’ve also had “off the record” discussions with judges
and many so called legal experts in the backrooms of the courthouse. I’ve done
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all the research for you. I know what works and what doesn’t. As a result, I
became an expert on the divorce process. I’ve represented myself in court many
times on several issues and won. My divorce is over, but yours isn’t. I’m now
able to pass all my knowledge, research, and advice on to you. You can either
re-create all my years of research or simply buy it for less than $50 and in a few
hours of reading you’ll know everything that took me years to learn. You’ll also
benefit from the advice (and mistakes) of many of my past customers who e-mail
me every week with their stories. They too were once where you are right now.
In my action guide, I answer common divorce questions like . . .
Common Divorce Questions
1. Who gets the house?It depends on a number of factors. Generally the courts want to see minor
children remain in the home; so the house is awarded to the custodial
parent until the youngest child turns 18. If there are no minor children
involved, then the house will be sold and the proceeds split. Smart men
can use this to their advantage. I show you how on page 20.
2. Will I have to pay alimony and if so, how much?The purpose of alimony is to prevent women from falling into poverty
immediately following a divorce. If you earn significantly more than she
does and/or have more assets (such as retirement savings) in your name,
then you’ll be expected to pay some level of alimony. Unlike child support
which can be calculated to the penny based your financial situation;
alimony is solely up the discretion of the judge.
This can work for you if you know how the system really works. Her
alimony award depends entirely on how you present your case and your
strategy. You need to reduce that income gap between you as much as
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possible. There are many creative ways to do this that the courts will
allow. But you need to take the right approach. I talk about these
strategies on page 97.
3. How does child custody work?Most fathers are horrified when they discover how the game of child
custody is really played. The guidelines issued by most states are total
BS. This can be extremely frustrating to fathers that play by the rules.
Most fathers take the wrong approach. Explaining why you deserve
custody of the kids never works. Explaining why the kids deserve to live
with their father is a much more effective approach. These little details
make a huge difference. Attorneys are bound to play by the rules; I’m not.
I expose the truth about child custody starting on page 57.
4. How do I find a good divorce lawyer?Finding a divorce lawyer is easy. Managing your divorce lawyer is difficult
unless you know how. I dedicate an entire chapter to managing your
attorney and demanding results (not hollow promises). This chapter starts
on page 33.
To find a divorce attorney in your area visit my website at:
www.GreatDivorceAdvice.com/
5. How much should a typical divorce cost?I’m always amazed by the number of men that pay a $3,500 retainer fee
with absolutely no guarantee of a good result. You’d NEVER do this with
an auto mechanic or home contractor, so why do it with a law firm?
I’ve read just about all the divorce books out there, I’ve interviewed
lawyers, judges, and men like you. I’ve coached thousands of men
through the divorce process. Additionally, I’ve gone through the divorce
process myself. I’ve done all the research for you. I’ll tell you everything
you need to know and how the system really works for less than $50. To
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pay anybody more than that is complete waste of your money. Let me
help you keep your money in your pocket!
6. She/I had an affair. How does that impact my divorce?
An affair has no impact on divorce whatsoever. I don’t care if you have aDVD of her in the Dallas Cowboys locker room. No judge will even look at
it. Don’t think you’ll win custody or won’t have to pay alimony just because
she had an affair. These days, nobody cares.
7. How can I reduce the stress of my divorce?We’ve been conditioned by society and the TV shows to think that divorce
is an honest process where justice prevails. The truth is that divorce is an
ugly, corrupt business that most people know little about. When your common misconceptions meet the “buzz-saw” of divorce reality, stress
caused by all the surprises and uncertainty inevitably follows.
When things don’t go according to plan, it creates uncertainty. This
uncertainty creates stress and keeps you up all night wondering what will
happen next. I eliminate the uncertainly by explaining how the divorce
process really works. Once you understand the truth behind the system,
uncertainty and stress are eliminated because you’ll know what to expect.
Once you understand the process, you’ll immediately feel much better and
be able to take control.
8. Why are divorce laws so unfair to men?Elected politicians in your state write the divorce laws. Politicians respond
to organized political groups representing large voting blocks, not to
individuals. N.O.W. (National Organization of Women) is a large, well
financed, powerful political group that politicians respond to. Men have no
such counterpart. Therefore, N.O.W. has been very successful creating
divorce laws that favor women and mothers. I explain how to side step
N.O.W and their gender biased laws on page 115.
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9. But my lawyer said I have an excellent chance to win my
case, why shouldn’t I believe him? Of course your lawyer is
going to tell you that you have a fair chance of winning every issue. Heknows you’d never pay him to fight a case that you have no chance of
winning. That’s why he tells you what you want to hear. If you smashed
your car into a tree and it was beyond repair, would you pay an auto
mechanic $400 upfront for a new brake job? Of course not. That wouldn’t
fix the problem. You’d be paying $400 for nothing. You’d never do that
with an auto mechanic, so why do it with a divorce attorney?
Never forget that your lawyer has absolutely no accountability to anybody.
He could care less if you win your case or not. He is paid by the minute,
not by your victory. You’re paying for his time and nothing more. If your
lawyer thought you had a fair chance of winning, then why does he always
demand full payment up front? Why won’t he guarantee his advice and
issue a refund if he’s wrong?
10.What are some of the most common mistakes men make ina divorce?Not having a strategy and trusting a lawyer to win your divorce is the
costliest mistake. Ignoring the tax implications of your divorce is a close
second. I’m amazed by the number of men that argue over the TV,
furniture, or CD collection, and never even address taxes. Who will take
head of household tax dedication in the years ahead? Who will claim the
mortgage interest and property tax deduction for the last year you were
married? Who will claim the deduction for health and daycare costs?
These tax deductions can save you (or cost you) thousands each year in
income taxes. Are you really going to leave these things to chance? Most
men don’t think about taxes until it’s too late and few divorce attorneys
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even address the issue. It’s such an important topic that I dedicate an
entire chapter to the tax implications of your divorce starting on page 121.
11. I’m paying too much alimony and/or child support. Can Iget it reduced? If anything (such as income) has change since your
J&D was issued, you can probably modify your existing court order and
reduce what you’re paying. If you’re paying more alimony or child support
than you should be, it’s probably because the judge made a mistake or
didn’t believe your financial situation. You can change this simply by
going back to court and using a common loophole. I explain how to do
this on page 104.12. How does a common sense, “No BS” divorce differ from a
traditional divorce? In a traditional divorce, you pay an attorney
thousands to argue your case in court. You trust your attorney and let him
run the show. Men often have no idea why the attorney is writing letters,
negotiating with the other side, or setting court appearances. After a
while, you begin to realize that the lawyer is busy doing things that never
get any positive results. Things never seem to go according to plan. For
most men, this approach is stressful, confusing, and ends in frustration.
Only in the end does it become clear that you wasted thousands on an
attorney and got nowhere…and by then it’s too late…you’ve already paid.
Stop throwing your money down the rat hole! My “No BS Divorce
Strategies for Men” action guide uses common sense tactics that produce
results. You never do things without knowing why and what the outcome
will be. Every letter sent or court filing is done to achieve a specific result,
not simply for the sake of running up your legal bills. I show you how to
side step the process, not follow the herd into the slaughterhouse.
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Hot Tip: For example, many men pay $300 per year for term life
insurance to cover alimony or child support in the event their death. But
wait! These men don’t realize that Social Security will pay survivors
benefits to your children and ex-spouse. These monthly benefits from
Social Security often exceed what you’re already paying in alimony or
child support. You don’t need to buy a life insurance policy to cover your
child support or alimony obligations. This is a smart, common sense
strategy that nobody tells you about. This Hot Tip alone will save you
approximately $300 per year. That’s a $3,000 savings over 10 years. Is
advice like that worth $49.95? Could saving money with my no BS
divorce strategies be any easier?
Want to see more hot tips?
Some Divorce Hot TipsHot Tip #1 Your attorney wants to avoid court
and negotiate alright . . . the problem is he
wants those negotiations to last forever. I can
guarantee you that your soon-to-be ex-wife’s
attorney wants to negotiate forever too. Both
attorneys do everything possible to prolong the
negotiations. Sadly, most couples aren’t
aware they’re being played for fools. In a cruel
irony, many men even “thank” their attorneys
for fighting for them and keeping them out of
court.
Hot Tip #4 Make your lawyer earn his job
everyday. The single biggest mistake people
make is blindly trusting their attorney and giving
up control of their divorce. Blind trust will
almost always lead to disaster. You should
expect results from your attorney, not
mediocrity. Never accept poor performance.
Don’t hesitate to fire your attorney on the spot if
you suspect he’s not getting you the results he
promised. One of the biggest mistakes men
make is sticking with a mediocre (or shady)
attorney. Don’t let this happen to you.
Hot Tip #2 Making sure the attorney you hire
handles every part of your divorce (as opposed
to having a team with junior associates) will
save you at least $1,000. Here’s why: If you
use a “team” of attorneys, they’ll spend (waste)
countless hours keeping each other up to
Hot Tip #6 Want to see your lawyer squirm?
Tell your lawyer you’ve heard rumors fathers
never win custody battles. If he feeds you the
standard BS on how the courts and custody
evaluators are fair and gender neutral, ask him
how many of his male clients received a
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speed on your case. This is what I call a “non-
value add process.” These attorney meetings
do absolutely nothing to help your case. They
add no value. You’ll be paying the attorney’s
on your team to speak to each other about thestatus of your case. You’re paying them big
bucks to play a game of “gossip”. How much
sense does that make?
favorable custody evaluation last month? He’ll
likely dodge the question. Ask him what
percentage of fathers in general win custody
battles from the custody evaluator? If he
claims statistics for your state are unclear or not published, ask him what percentage of his
male clients receive favorable custody
evaluations? Surely, he must know. Ask him
for the number of fathers he represented that
went through the custody evaluation process
and received a favorable recommendation from
the county evaluator. If he gives you a number,
it’ll likely be a very small one. Tell him you’d
like to speak to just one of these former clientsas a reference. If he tells you four of his male
clients received a favorable custody evaluation
report last year and 40% of fathers win custody
battles; then he has only represented 10 male
clients in the last 12 months.Hot Tip #3 Remember, everything in the
Judgment and Decree is subject to change.
You don’t have to live with a bad deal because
it’s in the J&D. Nothing is set in stone. If you
agreed to pay 75% of the children’s medical
expenses and 6 months later, you learn the law
requires you to pay only 50%, don’t be afraid to
take the matter back to court and get the J&D
changed. Just remember, she can do the
same thing.
Hot Tip #6 Never let negotiations drag on
indefinitely. Know what the laws are and stick
close to them. Don’t waste too much time
negotiating outside of the laws. It’s unrealistic
to think you’ll do much better than what the law
requires. On the flip side, your ex-wife isn’t
going to do any better than the law either.
Don’t get intimidated into engaging in
unrealistic negotiations.
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Why Struggle With The Stress, Uncertainty,and Expense Of Divorce?
I’ve done all the research for you. All you need to do is read what I’ve
discovered. Knowing what you do now, why would you ever pay a lawyer more
than $50 for divorce advice? If you’ve been paying a lawyer thousands and have
nothing to show for it, you’re not alone. Why continue down that path? It won’t
have a happy ending. Save yourself all the pain and expense and try my
common sense “No BS Divorce Strategies for Men” at no risk. With my 90-
Day money back guarantee, you have absolutely nothing to lose.
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Your alternatives are:
1. Pay a lawyer thousands with no guarantees and trust he’ll work with you
to obtain the best possible outcome. Knowing the dismal failure rate of
this strategy, why would anybody do this?
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2. Go it alone and hope you don’t make a procedural error making your
whole case invalid. She wins everything by default.
3. Go into mediation and negotiate a settlement hoping that you’ve covered
all the bases like taxes, division of assets, child support, and alimony.
Mediation is great as long as you have the knowledge to negotiate the
best deal from a position of strength.
Here Are Just Some of the Actual
Testimonials I Receive Every Week
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Knowledge Is Not Power; Action Is Power
Nobody cares about the outcome of your divorce more than you. If you don’t
take total control of your own divorce, others will take control away from you. If
you’ve been letting a lawyer run your case, you know this already. What are you
going to do now? How are you going to separate yourself from the pack? What
are you going to do differently than all the men that get taken to the cleaners?
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Are you going to follow the herd into the slaughterhouse or are you going to take
action by letting me show you how to get a better result for less than the cost of
15 minutes with an attorney?
Still Not Convinced?
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