X3 pure men's chapt 13a

Session 13: X3pure Men’s SeriesRecovery Target #3: Truth, Trust and Territory

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Recovery Target #1: Psychological Examination of Feelings

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Recovery Target #2: Seeking, Establishing and Engaging in Community

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Recovery Target #3: Truth, Trust and Territory

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Recovery Target #3: Truth, Trust and Territory

Recovery Target #4: Development and Exploration of Genuine Faith

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• Recovery Target #1: Psychological Examination of Feelings

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- Our goal is to search deep within ourselves to find those areas of

conditional love in our lives.


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• Recovery Target #2: Seeking, Establishing and Engaging in Community


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• Recovery Target #2: Seeking, Establishing and Engaging in Community- Our goal is to find communities of unconditional love, people or

groups of people who love you no matter who or what you are, warts

and all.

Truth, Trust and Territory

• Truth


• Truth


- Addiction resides in lies.

• Truth


- Addiction resides in lies.

• In order to recover you must stop lying

Truth

• Telling the truth requires that you face the realities of the things that are really hurting us inside, those pathogenic beliefs, those feelings of being shameful or unlovable.

Truth


• Telling the truth requires you to discover who in your life can either handle the truth you need to tell or can’t.

Truth


• Telling the truth requires you to discover who in your life can either handle the truth you need to tell or can’t.

• Telling the truth requires those people who can’t handle the truth either to grow and change or get shrink or disappear from your life.

Truth

• Telling the truth at all times despite the consequences will act as a sort of weather barometer, a self-correcting mechanism for your life.

Truth

• Telling the truth at all times despite the consequences will act as a sort of weather barometer, a self-correcting mechanism for your life.

• Changing the systems that you live in so that they are supportive of your real self.

• Rewards from truth telling.

Trust

• Rewards from truth telling. - Accountability

- Pride

- Courage

- Dignity

- Trust in yourself

Trust

Trust

• As you trust others, you will be able to enlarge that community that you so desperately need in minimizing those negative thoughts about yourself so that you can become more relational.

• Gaining self-trust means that you have to make the right decision even when you don’t want to.

Trust

• As you trust others, you will be able to enlarge that community that you so desperately need in minimizing those negative thoughts about yourself so that you can become more relational.

Territory

Territory

• Territory is related to truth and trust.

Territory

• Territory is related to truth and trust.

• Territory is another word for boundaries, and addiction is boundary failure.


• Truth, Trust, and Territory are our gauges for ensuring that love is unconditional.



• Antonio’s Testimony



• Antonio’s Testimony- He has learned the immense value of telling the truth at all times,

trusting that when he tells the truth everything is going to be OK, and in

the process of doing so building a sense of territory in this world that is

his and his alone.

Farewell

Farewell

• Next Session: Development and Exploration of Genuine Faith

X3 pure men's chapt 13a

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