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FAMILY MATTERSWORKSHOP
Presented by
MV KOTU
NEUTRALITY OR NEUTRAL MODE
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CHALLENGES
COMMUNICATIONFINANCESSPIRITUALITYCHILDRENNEUTRALITYSEXUAL
NEUTRALITY
the state or CHARACTER of being neutral, especially in a dispute, contest, etc.
the state or POLICY of being neutral, especially nonparticipation
in war.
REALITY:
IT IS NOT POSSIBLE TO HAVE 100% TROUBLE-FREE
COMMUNICATION
WE ALL HAVE SOMETHING TO GIVE AND TAKE IN LIVING TOGETHER
AND THIS ALWAYS CAUSES US TO LOSE SOME OF THE STRENGTHS WE POSSESS
TRIANGULATION
TRIANGULATION
It’s frightening to admit, but a couple in conflict instinctively behaves like two nations preparing for war. In each case, the warring parties create alliances in order to strengthen their respective hands.
TAKING SOMEONE FOR GRANTED
Think about this question for a moment. Are you as polite, kind and considerate to your partner as you are to a casual acquaintance? For most of us, the answer is no. How come? How is it that this same person that you now hardly give a moment’s thought to, unless it’s negative, could be the same one to whom you once were so loving, giving and appreciative?
WHAT REALLY MAKES SOMEONE TO DECIDE TO BECOME NON INVOLVED
YOUR SPOUSES BRAIN IS FIRING ON ALL CYLINDERS
MEET MY PARTNER……..
POWER DIFFERENCES
THIS IS MY SPOUSE AND THIS IS POOR ME
WE ARE BOTH PROFESSIONALWRESTLERS
CAN ANYONE OUT THERE PLEASE HELP ME!
MY SPOUSE IS LIKE A JIGSAW
MINE IS LIKE A MAZE
AND THIS MAKES IT IMPOSSIBLE FOR BOTH OF US TO GET ALONG WELL
END OF SESSION ONE
QUESTION 2
PART 2
NEUTRALITY
the state or CHARACTER of being neutral, especially in a dispute, contest, etc.
the state or POLICY of being neutral, especially nonparticipation
in war.
WE NEED TO EXCERCISE THE GRACE TO REALIZE THAT WE WERE NEVER THE SAME
THE SOCIABLE PARTNER
HE/SHE LIKES CROWDS
THINKS AND FUNCTIONS BETTER IN A GROUP
LIKES TO CONSULT ABOUT EVERYTHING
THE SO WHAT PARTNER
ALWAYS THINKS AND ACTS SUPERIOR AND TOO SPEACIAL
DOES NOT CARE MUCH ABOUT OTHERS’ OPINIONS
RARELY CARES ABOUT HOW I FEEL
THE JUST LEAVE ME ALONE KIND OF PARTNER
HE/SHE IS TOTALLY DIS-INTERESTED IN ALL I DO OR SAY
NEVER VOICES OUT HIS/HER FEELINGS
THE PATH TO NON-INVOLVEMENT
AT FIRST ITS FRIGHTENING
THEN SURPRISING
THEN IT ENDS UP FEELING GOOD TO IMITATE
BE BLESSED
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