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[on skype] Session 3 (2013)
Lecture 52 2 (April 23, 2013)
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WHATS OUR GOAL OF LIFE
Have you determined your
goal of life?
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So many people .. So manygoals
Is there anything wrong in it?
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The thing thats wrong is..
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These should be the stepping-stones not the Goal
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THEN WHAT SHOULD WEDECIDE AS A GOAL OFLIFE?
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We dont need to decideon it..
.WHY ?8
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BECAUSE. IT HAS ALREADY BEENDECIDED AND DETERMINED BYOUR CREATOR
Which is ?9
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And I have not created the jinn and the
human except that they should worship Me.Al Quran 51:56 (Az-Zariyat).
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Worshipping Allah - To obey Allahs
commandments and to do a thing that conforms
with His religion just to please Allah.
Anything done without the intention to please
Allah subhanawatala is outside the loop of
Allahs worship.
Al-Quran 6:162 (Al-Anaam)
Does worshiping Allah includes only
Ibadaat like Salah, Zakah, Hajj etc.
(162. Say: "Verily, my Salah, my sacrifice, my living, and my dying are for
Allah, the Lord of all that exists.'')11
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If you are serious and sincere about
achieving your goal then you need to plan
out for that
Lets discuss one very important thing to keep in mind
while you do the planning and that is what this hadeeth
reflects upon:
A man is upon the religion of hisfriend..
(Ibn Adi) Mishkat Masabih 1-552-195 W
HADEETH
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HADEETH
Narrated Abu Hurayrah:
The Prophet ( ) said: A man follows the
religion of his friend; so each one shouldconsider whom he makes his friend.
Sunan Abi Dawud 4833 Hasan (Al-Albani)
(Abi Dawud 4815 thru another hadeeth index)
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HADEETH
Narrated Abu Musa:Allah's Messenger ( ) said, "The example of a
good companion (who sits with you) in comparison
with a bad one, is like that of the musk seller and
the blacksmith's bellows (or furnace); from the firstyou would either buy musk or enjoy its good smell
while the bellows would either burn your clothes or
your house, or you get a bad nasty smell thereof.
Sahih al-Bukhari 2101
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Why is it so very important to
be cautious about making
friends?
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To keep oneself safe from
being among those who willsay this phrase on the day
of judgment .
Which phrase?16
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Ah! woe to me! Would that I hadnever taken such a one as afriend!
Al-Quran 25:28 (Al-Furqan)
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What will be the cause ofregret?
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Al-Quran 25:27-30 (Al-Furqan)
(27. And (remember) the Day when the wrongdoer will bite at his hands, he
will say: "Oh! Would that I had taken a path with the Messenger.'') (28. "Ah!
Woe to me! Would that I had never taken so-and-so as a friend!'') (29. "He
indeed led me astray from the Reminder after it had come to me. And
Shaytan is to man ever a deserter.'') (30. And the Messenger will say: "Omy Lord! Verily, my people deserted this Qur'an.'')
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Conclusion?
What type of friendsone should make
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Al-Quran 25:27-30 (Al-Furqan)
Who helps you follow the
way of Rasool Allah(pbuh)
Who helps you in takingheed from Quran rather
than ignoring it
Who makes you take
guidance from Quran
rather than treating it as
an insignificant thing..
WE MUST LOOK FOR THE FOLLOWING QUALITIES IN A
FRIEND
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While considering the features of a
good or a bad company also keepan eye on self to know
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CAN YOU BE CONSIDERED A
GOOD COMPANY FOR OTHERS
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Must be performed for Allah's sake alone.
They must conform with the religion (method of theMessenger).
(Tafseer ibn Katheer)
The Messenger of Allah said, Whoever performs a
deed that does not conform with our matter (religion),
then it will be rejected.Muslim (Tafseer ibn katheer)
HADEETH
There are two conditions for deeds to be accepted:
"Oh! Would that I had taken a path with the Messenger.''
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The good deeds of the priests and rabbis will not be accepted, even if they are
sincerely for Allah alone, because these deeds do not conform with the method
of the Messenger, who was sent for all mankind. Allah said regarding such
cases,
(And We shall turn to whatever deeds they (disbelievers,
polytheists, sinners) did, and We shall make such deedsas scattered floating particles of dust.) (25:23)
(As for those who disbelieved, their deeds are like a mirage
in a desert. The thirsty one thinks it to be water, until hecomes up to it, he finds it to be nothing.) (24:39)
(Tafseer ibn Katheer)
Example:
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Give some example of the deeds done by Muslims
that are good but does not conform to the way of our
prophet Mohammad (pbuh).
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Doing good deed with Haram income.
Donatio
n
Example:
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HADEES-E- QUDSI
On the authority of Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be
pleased with him), who said that the Messenger ofAllah (PBUH) said: Allah (glorified and exalted be He)
said:
I am so self-sufficient that I am in no need of having
an associate. Thus he who does an action for
someone else's sake as well as Mine will have that
action renounced (rejected) by Me to him whom he
associated with Me.
It was related by Muslim (also by Ibn Majah).
Doing good deed to get admired
(Hidden/minor shirk).
Example:
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Doing good deed to make other feel
obliged by repeated mentioning .
Al-Quran 2:264 (Al-Baqarah)
(264. O you who believe! Do not render in vain your Sadaqah (charity) by
reminders of your generosity or by injury, like him who spends his wealth to be
seen of men, and he does not believe in Allah, nor in the Last Day. His likeness
is the likeness of a smooth rock on which is a little dust; on it falls heavy rain
which leaves it bare. They are not able to do anything with what they have
earned. And Allah does not guide the disbelieving people.)
Example:
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He led me astray from the Reminder after it had come tome
The company influences you in an unfelt way.
You wont feel how it changes you
Example:
You visit to a family for some days where the home
environment is such that everyone is punctual in Salah. You
also feel like praying it if you were not that regular.
While if you visit a family where there is no trend of praying
salah, you also miss the prayers which you were somehow
praying off and on. In such company time of Salah just
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You can easily appreciatethe influence of a company
in kids 30
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Example 1:
Beware of the friends taking you
towards SHIRK AND BIDDAAT.
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Examples:
Takes you
for
amal aat
Shirkiya
symbols
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Example 2:
Has it ever happened that you missed or almostmissed the Salah because of the company of your
certain friends or a friend. (in party, picnic, gup shup,
shopping etc.)
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Al-Quran 20:14 (Ta HA)
Establish worship for My remembrance
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(18. O you who believe! Have Taqwa of Allah and let every person look to
what he has sent forth for tomorrow, and fear Allah. Verily, Allah is All-Aware
of what you do.) (19. And be not like those who forgot Allah, and He causedthem to forget themselves. Those are the rebellious.) (20. Not equal are the
dwellers of the Fire and the dwellers of the Paradise. It is the dwellers of
Paradise that will be successful.)Al-Quran 59:18-20 (Al-Hashr)
Meaning, do not forget the remembrance of Allah, the Exalted, otherwise, He will
make you forget to perform the good deeds that benefit you in your return,
because the recompense is equated with the action. (Tafseer ibn katheer)
(19. And be not like those who forgot Allah, and He caused them to forget
themselves.
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Al-Quran 2:152 (Al-Baqarah)
Therefore remember Me (by praying,glorifying). I will remember you
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(70. And leave alone those who take their religion asplay and amusement, and are deceived by the life of
this world. But remind (them) with it (the Qur'an)
thereby lest a soul should be given up to destruction
for what it has earned.Al-Quran 6:70 (Al-Anaam)
Help your friend if you really care
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Example 3:
Do you want to get
bankrupt becauseof your friend?
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WHO THE
REAL
BANKRUPT 39
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THE REAL BANKRUPT (MUFLIS)
The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) asked one group of his
companions, Do you know who the bankrupt person is?
They said, A bankrupt person amongst us is the one who has neither
money nor property.
The Prophet (pbuh) said, The bankrupt person of my nation is he whowould come on the Day of Resurrection with prayer and fast and
Zakah. And at the same time, he would come having abused (or
insulted or offended) this one, and slandered that one, and consumed
the wealth of the other unlawfully, and shed the blood of yet others
and having beaten others. Then any person whom he has wrongedwill be given from his good deeds on that Day. And if his good deeds
are exhausted until he clears the account concerning all of the people
he has oppressed, the sins of those people whom he has wronged will
be thrown unto his account and after that, he will be thrown into the
hellfire. (Muslim)
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See if you say stuff about others
during your gossips when you sit
with your friend which may put thatother person down or which could
be a slander.
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On the Day of judgment
the only currency
available will be ones
deeds.
REMEMBER
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Allah clearly forbids to be in Suspicion with, to
Spy on each other and to Backbite
Al-Quran 49:12 (Al-Hujurat)
(12. O you who believe! Avoid much suspicion; indeed some suspicion
is sin. And spy not, neither backbite one another. Would one of you like
to eat the flesh of his dead brother, you would hate it. And have Taqwa
of Allah. Verily, Allah is the One Who forgives and accepts repentance,
Most Merciful.)
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The problem is not that we dont
know how bad the Backbiting is
but the problem is that most ofus dont know WHAT BACKBITING IS.
Ign Ur slp45
HADEETH
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HADEETH:
Abu Huraira reported: Allah's Messenger (may peace be
upon him) as saying: Do you know what is backbiting?They (the Companions) said: Allah and His Messenger
know best. Thereupon he [the Holy Prophet (pbuh)]
said: backbiting implies your talking about your brother
in a manner which he does not like. It was said to him:
What is your opinion about this that if I actually find
(that failing) in my brother which I made a mention of?
He said: If (that failing) is actually found (in him) what
you assert, you in fact backbited him, and if that is not
in him it is a slander (tauhmat).
(Sahih Muslim Book#032, Hadith #6265)
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Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet (pbuh) said, "Beware of suspicion,
for suspicion is the worst of false tales; and do
not look for the others' faults and do not spy,
and do not be jealous of one another, and donot desert (cut your relation with) one another,
and do not hate one another; and O Allah's
worshipers! Be brothers (as Allah has orderedyou!")
Sunan Abu-Dawud Volume 8, Book 73, Number 90
HADEETH:
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Narrated AbuBarzah al-Aslami:The Prophet (peace be upon him) said:
O community of people, who believed bytheir tongue, and belief did not enter
their hearts, do not back-bite Muslims,and do not search for their faults, for ifanyone searches for their faults, Allah
will search for his fault, and if Allahsearches for the fault of anyone, He
disgraces him in his house.
Sunan Abu-Dawud Book 41, Number 4862
HADEETH:
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HADEETH:
Anas bin Malik related that the prophet
Muhammad (pbuh) said: On the night of my
ascent to Heaven [Al-Mairaj], I passed by some
people who were scratching their faces andchest with their nails which were made of
copper. I asked Jibreel, Who are they? and he
replied, These are the people who used to eat
the flesh of other men by attacking their honorand respect.
(Abu-Dawud)
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Allah orders not to laugh at each other and do
not find fault with your own people nor call each
other by (offensive) nicknames
Al-Quran 49:11 (Al-Hujurat)
O you who believe! No people shall laugh at (another) people, it may be that
the (latter) are better than the (former). Nor shall women laugh at other women,
it may be that the (latter) are better than the (former). Do not find fault with
yourself (your own people), nor defame by calling each other by (offensive)
nicknames: Evil is the name of wickedness after faith. And whosoever does not
repent, and then such are indeed wrongdoers.)
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So what do you do when you are in agathering in which some people are
backbiting, slandering, ridiculing,
making fun of others and talkingLaghw (vain talk)?
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Stop them if you canDefend your Muslim
brother or sisterDo not let it
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Al-Quran 25:72 (Al-Furqan)
And the servants of Rahman are those. and when
they pass by what is vain they pass by it with dignity.
Do not join the bad company
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Example 4:
Ab Hurayrah relates that Allah's Messenger
(peace be upon him) said: Whoever believes
in Allah and the Last Day should speak a
good word or remain silent.[ Sahh al-Bukhrand Sahh Muslim ]
HADEETH:
VAIN TALK
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Al-Quran 33:70-71 (Al-Ahzab)
O you who believe! Fear Allah and speak a word that is right. He
will set right for you your deeds and forgive you your sins. And
whoever obeys Allah and His Messenger, he indeed achieves a
great success.
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Example 5:See if your friends company is the reason why
you are spending more (DOINGEXTRAVAGANCE) example: Shopping with her,
desire to have like her or better than her.
or
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Al-Quran 20:131 (TaHa)
(131. And strain not your eyes in longing for the things Wehave given for enjoyment to various groups of them, the
splendor of the life of this world, that We may test them
thereby. But the provision of your Lord is better and more
lasting.)
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Al-Quran 57:20 (Al-Hadeed)
Avoid competition
(20. Know that the life of this world is only play and amusement, pomp and mutual
boasting among you, and rivalry in respect of wealth and children. (It is) like a rain
(Ghayth), thereof the growth is pleasing to the tiller; afterwards it dries up and you see it
turning yellow; then it becomes straw. But in the Hereafter (there is) a severe torment,
and (there is) forgiveness from Allah and (His) pleasure. And the life of this world is only
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(21. Race with one another in hastening towards
forgiveness from your Lord, and Paradise the width
whereof is as the width of the heaven and the earth,
prepared for those who believe in Allah and His
Messengers. That is the grace of Allah which He bestowson whom He is pleased with. And Allah is the Owner of
great bounty.)
Al-Quran 57:21 (Al-Hadeed)
Do competitionAllah says:
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Tafseer Ahsan ul
Bayyan
Al-Quran 102:1-2 (Takathur)
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Al-Quran 57:20 (Al-Hadeed)
Al-Quran 102:1-2 (Takathur)
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People do not offer salah, learn Islam, give time to their
kids to make them good Muslims just because the time is
being utilized in the job they do to fill the pockets with
extra money. Its not ok unless one can manage the job
while taking care of all the responsibilities one could be
questioned for by Allah.Realize ,Time is Running out. Soon the life will end and
graves will be the resting place.
(May Allah forgive and guide us all. Ameen )
(If the Son of Adam had a valley of gold,
he would desire another like it...)Sahih Bukhari (Tafseer ibn Katheer)
HADEETH
Serious lack of realization in the
society
Example: For actress or a model. We say it applies
For a doctor or a salesperson .. We think it doesnt
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Al-Quran 6:141 (Al-Anam)
And do not act extravagantly
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VERY DELICATE MATTER TO
UNDERSTAND
Differentiate between your needs and
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Islam is a religion of BalanceAbu Ahwas narrated on the authority of his father: Once I
went to visit the prophet (pbuh) while I was poorly dressed.
He asked me if I had my wealth and I replied that I did. Sohe asked me what kind it was, and I replied that Allah had
blessed me with every kind of wealth. At that he said,
When Allah bestows wealth upon you, the effect of His
grace and favor should be visible upon you.Ahmad and An-Nasai
AHADEETH
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It doesnt mean we can startspending free-handedly
Amr bin Shuayb narrated on the authorityof his father that the prophet (pbuh) said:
When you eat, drink or give charity, let
not EXTRAVAGANCE or Pride be mixedwith it.
Ibn Majah and An-Nasai
HADEETH
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Allsh says:
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Al-Quran 25:63 and 67 (Al-Furqan)
And the servants of Rahman are those And those who, when they
spend, are neither extravagant nor stingy, but are in a just balance between
them.)
Al-Quran 7:32 (Al-Araaf)
Say: Who has prohibited the embellishment of Allah which He has
brought forth for His servants and the good provisions? Say: These are
for the believers in the life of this world, purely (theirs) on the
resurrection day; Thus We explain the Ayaat in detail for people who
have knowledge.
68
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HADEETH
Encouragement and incentives
for being simple
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Avoid competition except in two
things:
Narrated Ibn Masud: I heard the Prophet (pbuh) saying,
"There is no envy except in two (means not justified except
in case of two persons): a person whom Allah has given
wealth and he spends it in the right way, and a person
whom Allah has given wisdom (i.e. religious knowledge)
and he gives his decisions accordingly and teaches it to theothers.
Sahih Bukhari Volume 2, Book 24, Number 490
HADEETH
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Example 6:See if the company you sit with is the reason whyyou feel discouraged to dress up the Islamic way.
When you have to start compromising yourselfand your morals for the people you are
surrounded by, its probably time to change thepeople around you
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Example 7:
Friend who tells future and
past reading your palm lines
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Al-Quran 7:188 (Al-Araf)
Allah commanded His Prophet:
who could be more beloved to Allah then prophet . When he
is unaware of the unseen except what Allah has given him the
knowledge of, how can anybody else claim to have the
knowledge of unseen including future and past and how do
people believe on it. May Allah protect us from such an act.
(188. Say : "I possess no power over benefit or harm to myself
except as Allah wills. If I had the knowledge of the Ghayb (Unseen), Ishould have secured for myself an abundance of wealth, and no evil
should have touched me. I am but a warner, and a bringer of glad
tidings unto people who believe.'')
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Al-Quran 6:50 (Al-Anam)
Say: I do not say to you, I have with me the treasures of Allah, nor
do I know the unseen (Ghayb), nor do I say to you that I am an
angel; I do not follow aught save that which is revealed to me. Say:
Are the blind and the seeing one alike? Do you not then reflect?
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Only Allah Knows the
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Al-Quran 27:65 (Al-Naml)
Al-Quran 6:59 (Al-Anam)
Only Allah Knows the
Unseen
Al-Quran 72:26-27 (Al-Jinn)
(59. And with Him are the keys of the Ghayb (all that is hidden), none knows
them but He.
(65. Say: "None in the heavens and the earth knows the Unseen except
Allah, nor can they perceive when they shall be resurrected.'')
(26. "The All-Knower of the Unseen, and He reveals to none His Unseen.'') (27.
Except to a Messenger whom He has chosen, and then He makes a band of
watching guards to march before him and behind him.)
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HADEETH:
Hafzah bint Umar narrated that prophet (pbuh)
said:Whoever goes to a fortune teller to ask about thefuture will not have his prayer accepted for forty nights.
(Muslim)
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HADEETH
Abu Bakr Al-Bazzar recorded from `Abdullah, which states,
Whoever came to a soothsayer or a sorcerer and believed in what hesaid, will have disbelieved in what Allah revealed to Muhammad.
This Hadith has an authentic chain of narration and there are other Hadiths which
support it. (Tafser Ibn Kaseer)
Sometimes friend directs you to some fortune
tellers saying he or she is the genuine one.
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Astrologer (on TV, facebook, phone and inMagazines)
Don t acquire the company of:
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A person is a Fraud even if he is giving the
knowledge of unseen using Quran as a tool
in a manner the Quran is not meant for.
These are the tricks and tactics they use.
Al-Quran 72:26-27 (Al-Jinn)
Example: Faal from Quran
Use of Letters from Quran to predict things
Be very cautious
(26. "The All-Knower of the Unseen, and He reveals to none His Unseen.'') (27.
Except to a Messenger whom He has chosen, and then He makes a band of
watching guards to march before him and behind him.)
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Narrated 'Aisha:Some people asked Allah's Apostle about the fore-
tellers He said. ' They are nothing" They said, 'O
Allah's Apostle! Sometimes they tell us of a thing
which turns out to be true." Allah's Apostle said, "AJinn snatches that true word and pours it into the ear
of his friend (the fore-teller) (as one puts something
into a bottle) The foreteller then mixes with that word
one hundred lies.
Sahih Bukhari, Volume 7, Book 71, Number 657
HADEETH
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HADEES
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Narrated Abu Huraira:
Allah's Prophet said, "When Allah decrees some order in the heaven, the
angels flutter their wings indicating complete surrender to His saying
which sounds like chains being dragged on rock. And when the state offear disappears, they ask each other, "What has your Lord ordered? They
say that He has said that which is true and just, and He is the Most High,
the Most Great." (34.23). Then the stealthy listeners (devils) hear this
order, and these stealthy listeners are like this, one over the other."
(Sufyan, a sub-narrator demonstrated that by holding his hand upright andseparating the fingers.) A stealthy listener hears a word which he will
convey to that which is below him and the second will convey it to that
which is below him till the last of them will convey it to the wizard or
foreteller. Sometimes a flame (fire) may strike the devil before he can
convey it, and sometimes he may convey it before the flame (fire) strikeshim, whereupon the wizard adds to that word a hundred lies. The people
will then say, 'Didn't he (i.e. magician) tell such-and-such a thing on such-
and-such date?' So that magician is said to have told the truth because of
the Statement which has been heard from the heavens.
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People deserted this Qur'an
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Al-Quran 25:73 (Al-Furqan)
If you want to safe yourself from being in the situation of regretting onmaking certain friends, on the Day of Judgment, recognize the friends
who may help you in taking heed from Quran rather that ignoring it.
One sign of such person is that s/he talks about Allah and His deen
(positively). On the contrary, a person who may take you away from
Quran is the one who tries to avoid the topic of Deen , changes thesubject or leave the sitting for a while till the topic changes, or sits
with interest less face while the Topic of Deen is being discussed.
Also important to see if you yourself fall in that category.
(73. And those who, when they are reminded of the Ayaat of their Lord,
fall not deaf and blind .)
Allah describes the feature of righteous persons:
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the subject of Deen or leave the sitting
for a while till the topic changes.
.
.
.
.Quran also talks about leaving the
sitting and the changing of the topic
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Al-Quran 6:68-69 (Al-Anam)
[68. And when you see those who engage in false conversation about
Our verses (of the Qur'an) by mocking at them, stay away from themtill they turn to another topic. And if Shaytan causes you to forget, then
after the remembrance, sit not you in the company of those people
who are the wrongdoers.) (69. There is no responsibility for them upon
those who have Taqwa, but (their duty) is to remind them, that they
may (attain) Taqwa.] 86
CommonlyWhat Quran
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You can sit again when
they change the topicof their false
conversation about
Allahs Ayaat (of the
Qur'an .
observed Practice
People leave the
sitting where AllahsAyaat are reminded
and sit again when
the topic of Deen and
Quran is changed to
says:
Sit not in the companyof those who engage in
false conversation
about Allahs Ayaat (of
the Qur'an) by mocking
at them.
People try not to sit inthe company of those
who engage in good
conversation about
Allahs Ayaat (of the
Quran).
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do the exact opposite of What Allah wants . Muslims
must be very careful about the Hypocrisy of Actions (a
very wide spread disease among Muslims).
IndicatorVERY IMPORTANT TO RECOGNIZE
If you are yourself engaged in the
practice of avoiding the talks about
Deen you are neither a good companyfor others nor doing good to yourself.
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Compare and decide
for yourself whom youwant to be friend with
.
.
.
A Momin or the onewith features like
H ocrites 89 MUNAFIQMOMIN
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Al-Quran 9:71 (At-Taubah) Al-Quran 9:67 (At-Taubah)
Q
(67. The hypocrites, men and women,
are one from another; they enjoin
evil, and forbid the good, and they
close their hands. They have
forgotten Allah, so He has forgotten
them. Verily, the hypocrites are the
rebellious.)
(71. The believers, men and women, are
supporters of one another; they enjoin
good, and forbid evil; they perform the
Salah, and give the Zakah, and obey
Allah and His Messenger. Allah will have
His mercy on them. Surely, Allah is All-
Mighty, All-Wise.)
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Al-Quran 9:71 (At-Taubah) Al-Quran 9:67 (At-Taubah)
MUNAFIQ
Result: Result:
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VERY IMPORTANT..
.Should you not consider
all this for the full time
companion?
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The life partner93
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Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him)
reported: The Prophet (pbuh) said: A woman is
married for four things: for her wealth, for herlineage, for her beauty or for her piety. Select
the pious, may you be blessed!.
(Interpretation , Riyad-as-salihin the book of miscellanyArabic/English bookreference : Book 1, Hadith 364 (Al-Bukhari and Muslim)
Hadeeth
Example: Normal Musalman
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Dont choose the one who is beautiful
to the world; choose the one who
makes your world beautiful (both the
worlds)
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The way you like is the way
you choose
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Its neverrecommended tobreak the terms with
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But
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Sometimes you need to
distance yourself to see thingsclearly.
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p yTala for forgiveness of our, our
parents and our familys andfriends sins, open or secret,
intentional or unintentional, past,
present or future. And we seek HisMercy for His forgiveness and
release from Hellfire and grant of
J annat ul Firdous.