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    The Official

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    Inside:Seniors' Column

    Baby-sitterListings

    Yard o theMonth

    Whitehorn GirlGuides

    WhitehornSchool News

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    WhitehornCommunity

    AssoCiAtionMailing Address: P.O. Box 55110,

    Temple RPO T1Y 6R6

    Executive

    President Raleigh DeHaney, 285-7859

    Vice-president Ed Howell

    Secretary Linda Fava

    Treasurer Neal Purdie

    Past President Debra Sawatzky

    Directors

    Planning and Bylaws Raleigh DeHaney

    Membership Drive Vacant

    Events Vacant

    Youth Programs Vacant

    Fundraising Ed Howell

    Recreation Suzanne Davidson, 285-1457

    Public Outreach Gail Hapanowicz, 571-0920

    Echo Editor Vacant

    School News Pat Sokolosky, 280-5586

    Yard o the Month Dave Nicholson, 818-4742

    Pat Sokolosky, 280-5586

    Directors at Large Anita Gill, Tom Skinner

    Maintenance Jim Guenard 285-8503

    Community Liaison

    P l a y s c h o o l

    Ora, 272-8372 or Carla, 590-7052

    Scouts Norm, 280-3674

    Guides Maire, 293-1182

    Community Liaison Tracy Opho

    Community Recreation Coordinator

    Pam Taylor, 221-3627

    Properties Sports Association 293-6767

    Hall Rentals/Maintenance Susie, 280-2880

    Vision Statement:

    We are committed to recognizing and celebrating thediverse nature of our community through involvement,

    awareness, resources and unity.

    Seniors' ColumnBe a part o Heart Smart Day

    Yard o the MonthHard work and determination defnitely pays o

    Whitehorn residents show o the care and love put intotheir yards

    Membership Benefts theCommunityThe Whitehorn Community Association works hard oryou, the residents Join today and help!

    Baby-sitter ListingsIn need o a baby-sitter? Check out the listings or peoplein your community who are qualifed to baby-sit

    Whitehorn School NewsSee what the Whitehorn schools have been up too sincethe winter break

    Whitewind Girl GuidesThe next Bubblegum Dance is on February 24

    Real Estate Matters Whether youre a home buyer or seller, the main questionthats on everyones mind as we enter the new year isWhat does the real estate market hold in store or 2006?

    InsideInsideIns

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    "Please support the local merchants who make this magazinepossible."

    Proof that Whitehorn had snow this winter, just long enough totake a picture before the sun melted it all away

    Photo by Linda Fava

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    Why not rent the Whitehorn

    Community Centre?Saturday rentals for just $350

    (damage deposit $200)Friday and Sunday rentals only $200

    (damage deposit $200)

    For community membership holders, there is a20 per cent discount

    Call Suzie for bookings at 280-2880.

    Hall RentalsDo you have a special event, meeting orgathering coming up soon?

    Seniors' Column

    Heart Smart DayTake part in our ree blood pressure clinic, enjoy heartsmart snacks and rereshments and kick up your heels at ourdance with live entertainment

    Visit our special guests

    The Heart and Stroke Foundation, at their onsite booth

    Date:Saturday, February 25, 2006Time: 1 to 4 pm

    Location:Whitehorn Village 5200 44 Ave NE

    Admission:Complimentary

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    None of the material, written or artistic may be reprinted or used in any way without the specific permission of the editor. Theopinions & statements expressed in the articles and advertisements found in North Hill Publications are not necessarily those of thestaff or owners. Therefore, North Hill Publications will not be responsible for those opinions or statements included in the articlesor advertisements. However, the staff & owners of North Hill Publications would appreciate written notice of false advertising. Thepublisher reserves the right to refuse any advertising. While every effort is made to ensure the accuracy of material published, noresponsibility will be assumed for advertising received by telephone & in no case will liability be assumed for greater than the cost ofthe advertising when errors or omissions have occurred. North Hill Publications may not be held responsible for the loss or damageof any photographs, drawings, logos, manuscripts, etc., that are sent or brought to the office.

    Volume 9, Issue 2

    Published by:

    278 19 St. N.E., Calgary, AB T2E 8P7

    Phone: (403) 248-9993 Fax: (403) 248-8838

    Office hours: Monday to Friday from 8 a.m. to 5 p.m.

    Publisher Dave Wrigley

    Community liaison/editor

    Nancy Nelson Alison Taylor

    sales Consultants

    Ziad Chucri Mike Dobbin Wil Gadsby

    Krista Malden Debbie Woodley

    Classified ad sales Candace Materi

    ProduCtion suPervisor Leo Smith

    ProduCtion Coordinator Kathy Richardson

    Creative/GraPhiC/ProduCtion

    Shannon Thomson Kenzie Browne

    North Hill Publications takes pride inpublishing on recycled paper and

    using environmentally safe and sensitivemethods wherever possible.

    Background: Originating from the success of the 1988 Calgary Winter Olympics and supported, in part, for more than a decade

    by an Olympic Legacy Fund, the Calgary Winter Festival has gradually evolved into the community-based,self-sufficient festival it is today.

    The evolution of Calgary Winterfest has had its ups and downs. Some years, favourable weather conditionsenticed Calgarians to step out and enjoy the festivities. Other years, harsher weather kept people away anddecreased overall festival attendance. Weather conditions also affected the viability and success of some festivalactivities. In an effort to overcome these challenges and to present events that pique the interest of Calgarians,organizers have made changes to programming and venues from time-to-time.

    In 2002, the contract for Legacy funding from the City of Calgary came to an end and the festival became self-supporting. The Board of Directors considered the future of Calgary Winterfest to cease or find a new way of

    operating. Through on-site public surveys, festival-goers enthusiastically expressed their appreciation of the freefamily programs and the board voted to base the new operating plan on these popular family programs.

    Calgary Winterfest 2006 takes place February 11 to 21 and offers Calgarians and their visitors accessible andentertaining activities to enjoy winter Calgary style!

    For more festival information visit: www.calgarywinterfest.com.

    Winter Karate Classesfor all Levels

    Be part of ourDojo.

    24 classes or $95Community members:

    $85

    12 classes or $55Community members:

    $45

    Mondays, January 9 to March 27Time: 7:45 to 8:45 p.m.

    Tuesdays, January 12 to march 30Time: 6:45 to 7:45 p.m.

    Ages six to adult

    Register by phoning Suzanne at 285-1457.

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    We are trying something new!We would like to present the Pet o the Month every

    issueSo kids and adults alike, please send in your pictures

    o your beloved pet with a ew words about him or herand your name (age i you are a child) and telephonenumber and we will put your cute little animal in theEcho newsletter

    Please be advised that we wont be able to return thepictures

    Please send your pictures to our mailing address:

    EditorP.O. Box 55110

    Temple RPOCalgary, AB

    T1Y 6R6

    King o Glory Church: 2640 Rundlelawn Rd NEPhone: 285-1048

    Pastor Phil Estabrooks andTapestry Vocal Band will

    be providingentertainment

    Come visit us andenjoy a Valentines

    Day Tea

    NEW!!!Whitehorn

    Pet of the Month

    Mark Saturday,February 11

    on your calendar.This is the date set or the annualKing o Glory Valentines Day Tea

    Come join us for a

    Valentines Teafrom 1 to 4 p.m. on

    Saturday, February 11.

    February 22, 20067 to 8 p.m.

    Annie Gale Junior High School577 Whiteridge Way N.E.

    Please join us to recognizeand celebrate the work and

    achievement of all our studentsat Annie Gale

    Come to the school to seedisplays o student work and to

    experience live demonstrations ostudents engaged in learning

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    Whitehorn Community Association Membership Application

    Name: _______________________________________________________________________

    Surname Given Names Spouses Name

    Children: ____________________________________________________________________

    _____________________________________________________________________

    Surname Given Name(s) Age Male or Female

    Address: _____________________________________________________________________

    Postal Code: _________________ Phone: __________________ E-mail Address: ____________

    I would like to volunteer or: (check as many as you like):

    Bingo

    CasinoYouth Programs

    Membership Drive Block Watch Social Events Administration/Clerical Echo (Translation/Writing Articles/Photos) Other Short Term Projects

    Membership ees are $25 Valid or one year rom date o issueMake cheques payable to: Whitehorn Community Association, Attn: Membership

    Mail to PO Box 55110, Temple RPO Calgary, AB, T1Y 6R6

    Membership Benefits the Community

    Thank you to the merchants who have decided to become

    part o our Preerred Merchant Program

    Please show your membership card at the ollowinglocations to beneit rom special oers:

    Magikz Automotive Solutions Inc, corner o

    Barlow and 23 Ave NE

    Jessies Bicycle Repairs, in the back o the Filipino

    Grocery #6 5008 Whitehorn Drive

    New Bombay Liquor, 135 Whiteield Drive

    Village Square Leisure Centre 30 per cent oadmission on Mondays

    More merchants will be added as responses come in

    Contac t Nancy (ext . 286) or Al ison (ext . 288) a t 248-9993 or e-mai l edi tor@northhi l l .net .

    Silly for stories?Are you curious about your community?Constantly asking questions?Are you nuts for news?

    T h e n w e n e e d y o u r h e l p .

    We need writers in your community to tell us about the people and places they love.If youre interested in being your community reporter, wed love to hear from you.

    T h e r e a r e g r e a t p e o p l e i n e v e r y c o m m u n i t y w h o s t a n d s o u t i n y o u r s ?

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    WhitehornBaby-sitters

    Listing Rita, 17247-0678

    Red Cross Emergency First Aid and St. Johns

    Baby-sitting Certificates

    Nicole, 16 568-3575

    Available evenings and weekends

    Jeremy, 13 285-1245

    Available evenings and weekends

    Adriana,14 590-1396

    Red Cross Certificate, available evenings and

    weekends

    Miranda,14 568-9407

    Ashley 285-5446

    Baby-sitters and first aid, available weekends

    Jessica, 13 590-0035

    Baby-sitters and Red Cross certiicates

    Desiree285-8074

    Red Cross Baby-sitting and First Aid Courses

    Amanda, 12

    293-3024

    Red Cross First Aid and Baby-sitters Courses

    Carol Milo 285-1547

    Toddlers to age five, available daytime

    Margaret 293-7617

    All ages, days evenings and weekends

    Amanda 263-6056

    Days, evenings or weekends (working on Early

    Childhood Diploma)

    Julie 590-5223

    Available ull time days; evenings as required

    Genevieve 245-4625

    Days, until 6 pm Preschoolers welcome

    Debbie 293-0871

    All ages, anytime, health care aid, nanny experience

    Rozmin 293-0426

    Monday to Friday, baby to age ive, Level 2 First Aid

    Certiicate, Police Check, Beore and Ater school care

    available

    The Echo and the Whitehorn Community Association do not take responsibility for names appearing on this list It is up to you tocheck out the sitters you decide to hire

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    Whitehorn School NewsFebruary 2006

    Lester B. Pearson High School

    Under Construction (India):In the International Baccalaureate program, the notion oglobalism is the oundation o learning goals Understandingsocial justice and inequality moved many students intoaction In September o 2004 a group o Lester B PearsonIB students ormed a club called Under Construction(India) in order to respond to global disparity

    A committee o 25 Lester B Pearson students havededicated three years to raisemoney or a school in India

    through various und-raisingand donation projects

    Our goal is to raise $50,000We believe this attainable withthe support o the school andthe community This projecthas been in eect or over ayear and we expect it to cometo an end in 2008 Our mainmission is to inorm peopleabout the education system indeveloping countries

    The school we have cho-sen to help is situated in aremote area in a village calledChadernagar, near CalcuttaIn 1932 a local educational-ist built a small school inhis community It was extend-ed, however it still lacksmany educational acilitiesCurrently, the school has ourrooms and educates Grades1 to 4 Its evident that theinvolvement o communityhas played a huge role in the schools current developmentand we ask the Calgary community or their support inreaching out an helping this school grow I youre inter-ested in joining, donating or inding out more about us,you can get in contact with Mr Benard or Mrs Saini Ourgeneral meetings are held in room 1213 every Wednesdayat lunch

    CJM Chief Justice Milvain

    CJM has been invited to participate in an eort to sponsorthe construction o a water well in India Since 1999, over300 Canadian schools have been involved in building 445

    wells to bring sae drinking water to villages in the state oAndhra Pradesh in India People in this part o the worldace many challenges, including access to clean waterElementary schools across Canada have helped manycommunities in India enjoy access to sae drinking water

    We can share out virtues o generosityand caring by getting together to sponsor

    a water well to help out those who areless ortunate

    The water well construction programis sponsores by SOPAR (Society orpartnership) and supported by CIDA(Canadian International Development

    Agency)The cost is $750 to build one water

    well As a school we have decided thiswould be a valuable good will projector our children and amilies to supportSo ar we have raised about $225

    Dr. David Lodhar,Principal

    Colonel J. Fred Scott School

    Renovation Update:Renovations in the portable continue tomove along We had hoped to be backto our classrooms early in the new year;

    however, it looks like it may be closerto the end o January We will need totake another organizational day to moveclassroom urniture and student materi-

    als back to the portables and rom Annie Gale School Weknow that parents require as much time as possible to planchildcare or non school days We will be sending a notehome as soon as we know when we can move students andclasses back to our original coniguration

    Sincerely,Joy Chadwick

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    Another year o Guiding un and adventure has begun Several units have already been out to camp this year Guides(Mexican Camp), Pathinders (CSI Camp) and Trexs (Canoeing and Leave-No-Trace Camping)

    PathfindersGirls 12 to 15-years-oldGrades 7 to 9

    Senior Branches and TrexsYoung women 14+ years-old

    SparksGirls ive to seven-years-oldGrades K to 1

    BrowniesGirls seven to nine-years-oldGrades 2 to 3

    GuidesGirls nine to 12-years-oldGrades 4 to 6

    Come join us!Call Maire for more info at 293-1182.

    Female Adult Leaders NeededTraining Provided

    Whitewind DistrictGirl Guides

    The Girl Guide units are back in action ollowing the Christmas break In February we are involved in Thinking Day

    activities as we celebrate the ounders o Guiding and Scouting Mint cookies are still available or purchase, so i youmissed them or would like more, please call Maire (293-1182) The Pathinders going to the Mosaic National Camp in

    July 2006 have been busy und-raising and we thank you or any support you have been able to provide (such as cookiesales, Christmas crat and home party sales, bottle drives, donations or silent auction item, etc)

    Next Whitehorn Bubblegum DanceValentines danceFebruary 24, 2006.

    Dinner and Silent Auction Fund-raiserto Support the Pathfinders for the Guiding Mosaic National Camp

    Whitehorn Community CentreSaturday, March 4, 2006

    $5 per person

    (Tickets available rom Mosaic girls or call Maire at 293-1182 or Margaret at 293-3276)

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    Village Square LibraryHours: Monday to Thursday, 10 a.m. to 9 p.m.; Friday and Saturday, 10 a.m. to 5 p.m.; Sunday noon to 5 p.m.

    2623 56 St. N.E. Phone 221-2060 to register

    Village Square Library news for January 2006:

    A new year, a new look!Renovations are coming to the Village SquareLibrary! Starting in January 2006 we will be creat-ing a new and exciting library space To be includedare a new teen zone, new childrens area, two newcommunity meeting rooms, a computer lab and selcheckout stations! We will remain open throughoutthe renovations and as always we look orward to

    seeing you at the library!

    Children and Teen ProgramsJoin us for stories, songs and fingerplays espe-

    cially for toddlers.Ages two to three with a parent/caregiver,10:15 to 10:45 amOr or your preschooler aged three to ive indepen-dent o a parent/caregiver,11 to 11:30 am

    Wednesdays, January 25 to March 1Registration begins January 10

    Working parents! Join us on the weekends withyour children or a Drop-in Family Storytime.

    Ages two to ive with a parent/caregiverSundays, January 15 to May 7, 1:30 to 2 pmNo registration required

    Celebrate Valentines Day with our Tickle YourHeart storytime!Tuesday, February 14 7 to 7:30 pm

    Ages two to ive with a parent/caregiverRegistration begins January 31

    I your youngster has the homework blues, get helpat the library with Homework Help! Studentsmeet in small groups with trained volunteers oractivities that promote lie-long learning skillsGrades 3 to 6 Tuesdays, February 21 to April 11 4 to 5 pmRegistration begins February 6

    Adult Programs Join acilitator Karly Berry, businesswoman andinancial advisor with Clarica, or Small BizNetworking Club! These our sessions at threelocations will provide opportunities to meet othersmall business owners, gather important businesstips rom speakers and might even assist you withsetting up a networking group o your ownSession 1: Crowoot Library,

    January 17 7 to 8:30 pmSession 2: Village Square Library,February 15 7 to 8:30 pmSession 3: WR Castell Central Library(meeting room #2) March 23 7 to 8:30 pmSession 4: Crowoot Library, April 20 7 to 8:30 pm

    New Friends is a program or immigrant womenwho wish to meet new people, share experiences,improve English skills and learn about their com-munity Free child care!

    Thursdays, January 5 to April 27 10 am tonoonCall Angela or Shokooeh at Calgary Immigrant

    Womens Association to register at 263-4414

    Every Child Ready to Read: Pre-Readers (our toive years)In this workshop you will learn what children needto know about reading and writing and other stepsto early literacy skills

    Wednesday, February 8 6:30 to 8 pmProgram takes place at Clarence Sansom JuniorHigh School Registration required

    Programs may be oered o-site due to our renova-tions When registering or a program please ensureyou have noted the correct locationPrograms are ree with a valid library card, althoughpre-registration may be requiredRegister in person or by calling 221-2060

    www.calgarypubliclibrary.com

    Programs are free with a valid library card, although pre-registration may be required Register in person or by calling 221-2060

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    Whether youre a home buyer orseller, the main question thats oneveryones mind as we enter thenew year is, What does the realestate market hold in store or

    2006? Generally, both industrysources and economic orecastersagree that 2006 will be anothergood year or real estate, with homevalues continuing to appreciate atthe scorching double-digit pacethat weve seen in recent years

    There are some crucial economicand demographic actors in playright now that are expected tocontribute to a strong real estate

    market in the coming year Aprimary actor in determining valueis consumer demand and this isexpected to stay strong There aresolid economic indicators or agood year or the Canadian econ-omy Unemployment is at one oits lowest-ever levels and consumerconidence a driving orce thatuels the buyer demand in the realestate market is high

    However, while such economicactors can vary dramatically in arelatively short space o time, thereare several demographic actors thatdrive the market that will continueto have a sustained impact over thelong term An aging baby boomerpopulation is now inheriting sub-

    stantial wealth rom the generationthat is passing away The transer o

    what amounts to trillions o dollarsin their parents wealth over thenext ew years will create the most

    aluent generation ever seen in thiscountryReal estate will also continue to

    be an appealing investment choicein 2006, as relatively low interestrates result in conventional savingsvehicles, such as GICs, not earn-ing very good returns Canadians

    will continue to ind that build-ing their equity in real estate isan appealing alternative to other

    investments Real estate also hasthe added appeal o being one othe ew ways that you can investyour money and build equity, whileenjoying it at the same time

    O course, these general demo-graphic and economic trends donttake into consideration some othe variables that may impact yourlocal market Your real estate pro-essional can give you many more

    insights about what actors willimpact your local market in gen-eral, your neighborhood and evenyour own property Why not startthe new year o right and beneitrom their expert advice

    Dave Nicholson and Mark Ross

    Real Estate Matters

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    North Hill Publications may not be held responsible for the loss or damage of any photographs or written material that is submitted .

    For more information, call Nancy (248-9993, ext 286) orAlison (248-9993, ext 288) or e-mail [email protected].

    We need photos relating to Calgary. If you have good quality colour digital(minimum resolution of 200 dpi) or hard copy photos please send them to us.

    We will provide a photo credit and published copy.

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    Annie Gale Junior High School Grade 6 Tour and Open House

    (Celebration of learning)For students: February 22 at 1:45 p.m.For parents: February 22 at 6:30 p.m.

    Annie Gale Junior High Schoollibrary

    577 Whiteridge Way N.E.

    To students and parents o Chie Justice Milvain,Colonel J Fred Scott, Guy Weadick

    and Stanley Jone Elementary (Coral Springs),Please join us to learn more about Grizzly Country

    Annie

    galeOpenHouseAnni

    egaleOpenHouse

    to the WhitehornCommunity Association

    meeting onFebruary 6, 2006

    at 7 p.m. at theWhitehorn Community

    Centre.

    Youre

    invited ...

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    CINDERELLA GOWN PROJECT old ball gowns wanted

    Now that the holiday party season has wound up, you may have one or twoold party dresses that could be recycled The Fashion Studies teacher at Sir

    Winston Churchill High School is once again putting on the CinderellaGown Project This endeavour was launched last year and accepts donations ogently used gowns that are revamped and given to Grade 12 girls whootherwise couldnt aord to buy a dress or their graduation Last year, 110 girls

    received a reashioned graduation gown, shoes and accessoriesThey are very short o dresses this year, so the school is asking Calgarians to

    donate any old Christmas party dresses, ball gowns, etc that arent worn any-more (and its a good excuse to say you need to buy a new one!) All the gownsare dry-cleaned ree o charge once received, so all you have to do is bring themto the school oice Theyll take any dress rom an 80s puy-sleeved monstros-ity to 1950s vintage gowns and everything in-between

    I you would like to contact them directly about this project, you can callLynne Herman at 289-9241 (ext 2118)

    Winners Circle Mentorship ProgramThe Winners Circle Program is now accepting applications or the 2006 program year

    This youth mentorship program:

    Is available to youth entering Grade 10 or 11 as o September, 2006 Is a community based program where youth work independently with a mentor on the youths personal interest and

    participate in group activities ocusing on career and education, community services and volunteerism, sports andleisure and the arts

    Is an 18-month program with an opportunity to extend

    Youth and mentors meet approximately three to our times per month, excluding July and August Every youth completing the program and receiving the Alberta High School diploma is eligible or a inancial awardto pursue post-high school endeavors

    2006 application deadline is February 28, 2006

    For information and application forms, contact Betty Shaw at 520-1514 or e-mail [email protected].

    Boys and Girlcommunity Services

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    People must not delude themselves about the concept ostrength You may perceive strength as physical You may

    think it is a psychological state in which a person has noear Or you might think strength is quietly enduring painin times o weakness It is, in reality, none o the above

    A person may exercise and spend months buildingmuscles, in an eort to remain strong, healthy and itThis is all ine However, the body is still lesh and bloodand that individual may be physically strong, but he is not,by any means, invincible or ree o his/her weaknesses Heis still human

    When personally attacked or threatened, people willbite down on their lips and make an attempt to mantain

    their composure, not to let others know they are aectedby certain actions or statements directed at them Thetruth is, the person is aected The individual is thinkingand planning actions be it psychological or physical todeend and protect him or hersel

    When injured, a person may choose to keep a straightace and try to ignore the need to cry Crying, in manycultures, is seen as a sign o weakness Dont cry and yourea strong person, according to some belies

    However, your true strength lies in your character Inyour words, actions, way o thinking and in the way you

    deal with others This does not mean individuals muststalk around, puing their chests and staring down any-body who shows signs o challenging them Having the lastsay in a situation, dominating a situation or a conversationand being able to argue that one is in the right may resultin what may eel like a victory to some Yet it is a tempo-rary victory and in many cases, a alse one True power andvictory comes through a persons actions and responses

    to dire, threatening encounters By choosing your wordsand acting in a disciplined manner, you have not only

    conquered an adverse situation and proved to be above theother person You have also gained respect in everyoneseyes and possibly even the eyes o the one who opposedyou This is oten called the ability to be diplomatic It isaddressing conlict and both persons issues in a noncon-rontational manner And thus, this eliminates situationsin which one might continue to act deensively

    You have to stop and ask yoursel: Isnt it strange thatdisrespecting a persons opinion and putting them in theirplace, would eel like you have, in some manner, won?Is this really the digniied, proper way to address dier-

    ence o opinion? It isnt Disregarding a persons eelings,putting a person down and lashing out at the person inorder to prove your point is not correct Nor is it win-ning a situation Rather, it is low down and immatureLet us remember that children and animals attack in seldeense when they realize there is no other way out We areabove this Weve got unctioning brains and the ability tocommunicate and interact with one another

    So when theres conlict, keep your head, rerain romverbally attacking the other and deal with the personrespectully Address the other persons concerns beore

    discussing your own The person deserves as much respectas you do The individual may not think like you, but

    when it really comes down to it, the two o you arenot that dierent rom each other You are both humanbeings You both have emotions You both need to eelsecure, loved and respected

    Zeina,Whitehorn resident

    Strength