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Chapter 2 Outline- When Love is Not Enough by Nancy Thomas
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When Love is
Not Enough
Part IIChapter
2
ATTACHMENT
An affectional tie with some other
differentiated and preferred individual
who is usually conceived as stronger and/or wiser - Bowlby
If mom is in denial
about the
child’s behavior
If mom is too tired to try to stop the child
If mom doesn’t know
what to do
If the child can
make mom angry
She seems inept
She appears out of control
She appears uncarin
g
She comes
across
as
ignorant
If-Thenattachment suffers
AWESOME MOM!!!
“You hug the unhuggableLove the unloveable
and have opened your heart
And your home to a childThat gives little or nothing
In return.”
You deserve to be treated with honor and respect…
ESTABLISH RESPECT
THROUGH...
EYE CONTACT
MANNERS
SPEECH PATTERNS
EYE CONTACTo When you speak
oWhen your child speaks
oWhen you reply
oYour position is important
Listening Answering
Do not be distracted with other work
Turn the radio/other distracting noise off
Have them physically looking up at you
The Child Must Always Make Eye Contact With You
When:
When You reply:
BE VERY CONSCIOUS OF HOW YOU ARE USING EYE CONTACT
EYE CONTACT
MANNERS
SPEECH PATTERNS
SPEECH PATTERNS
The child should hear what you say the first time
The correct response
‘Please’ and ‘Thank you’
When asking for things
The use of ‘we’
Incorrect Response
THE CORRECT RESPONSE
“Yes, Mom”“No, Mom”“I don’t
want to, but I will do it anyway”
GruntsShrugs Incomplete
words or phrases Non-words “I don’t know” “I can’t”
SPEECH PATTERNS
The child should hear what you say the first time
The correct response
‘Please’ and ‘Thank you’
When asking for things
The use of ‘we’
When asking your child to do something for you personally
When telling the child to do something for himself or the family
Say please or thank you:
Do not say please or thank you:
“Please” and “Thank you”require special attention
YOU
When asking for something such as for water or bathroom
“I have to go to the bathroom really bad”
Say please or thank you:
Examples of what does not constitute as asking:
“Please” and “Thank you”require special attentionTHE
M
SPEECH PATTERNS
The child should hear what you say the first time
The correct response
‘Please’ and ‘Thank you’
When asking for things
The use of ‘we’
EYE CONTACT
MANNERS
SPEECH PATTERNS
Being helpful and thoughtful
Walking
Eating
On the phone
Respect for property
In the car
MANNERS
Talking with food in their mouth
Slurping
Gulping
EATING
Lovingly and firmly excuse them from the table the first time they do it.
If it grosses out the folks, they repeat it!
Being helpful and thoughtful
Walking
Eating
On the phone
Respect for property
In the car
MANNERS
ACTION NOT ANGER
1.Seat belts on
2.Child does not talk
3.Adult controls the radio
4.Driver selects the air temperature
FUN FOOD FACTS
CALCIUM
VITAMIN B
PROTEIN
FUN FOOD FACTS
CALCIUM
VITAMIN B
PROTEIN
POWER SMOOTHIE by Adam deHoll
½ container frozen orange juice concentrate1 or 2 bananasA couple of kiwi (other fresh fruit)2 cups frozen strawberries (or other berries)1 cup plain or vanilla yogurt1-2 cups water
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