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When It's Time to Go: A Look at Contract
We've all grappled with the decision to leave an organization. By any measure, this is a difficult
impasse to consider - often involving an agonizing "push" and "pull" of emotions. One day we might
feel momentarily energized to "stick with it" for the long haul - only to have core issues re-surface inan amplified form. Should we continue to hope for things to improve or cut our losses and begin the
process of moving on? Previously we've discussed and why we shouldn't give up too quickly.
However, there are some situations where we need to realize that enough - is well - enough.
One factor which is often a silent contributor to this decision, is the status of thepsychological
contractthat exists between ourselves and our employer. Often, the inevitability of leaving, may have
actually been cast long before the final decision to pull up roots has been made - as the very core of
the employer-employee relationship has already been significantly damaged. The damage occurs
when we have been let down in some way - or perceive that a promise has not been fulfilled. As
such, it becomes increasingly difficult to remain committed, and we begin to lose focus and quietly
disengage. In this regard, our physical departure only represents a ceremonial farewell. Truth be told- any further investment in the employment relationship has already been halted.
The psychological contract that exists between employer and employee, plays a vital role throughout
our work lives. Described in thisresearch, this contract is "an individuals belief regarding the terms
and conditions of a reciprocal exchange agreement between that focal person and another party". The
health of this contract can affect the development of key workplace attitudes and behaviors (job
satisfaction, trust, intention to turnover, etc.) While both parties contribute to the"give" and "take" of
the dynamic - the contract is re-calibrated over the course of an employee's tenure. Ultimately, when
either party perceives a problem with balance, a breakdown can occur.
Let me offer an illustration. Recently I had a conversation with a highly competent marketing
executive. Unfortunately, many obstacles had emerged in his current role - among these, the lack of a
well-suited path for career growth and development, Over a period of time, he began to experience
doubt that his employer had his best interests at heart. On the face of things he professed that he
would remain committed - rock steady that he would continue to do his best to fulfill his role and
make things work. But, in reality I observed that his psychological resources were waning and he
was subtly disengaging. On a basic level, I believe he perceived that the psychological contract with
his employer had been breached. (He did depart a short time later.)
Overall, the on-going viability of this contract is critical to our work lives. When problems arise - the
strength and tenor of contract can become stressed. Ultimately, it is often difficult to acknowledge
that the contract has been irreparably broken - and admit that it may be time to explore new horizons.
What might be holding us back:
Attribution of failure. We may delay a departure because on some level, we feel personallyresponsible for the current state. In our minds, the failure of the relationship equals a personal failure
- which is often not the case - so we remain to seek resolution.
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Others seem happy. In some situations, the organization is just not the right environment for thespecific employee, with a specific career need. Keep in mind that although opportunities might exist
within your current organization - these opportunities may not be right for you.
Separation anxiety. Often we develop strong bonds with our colleagues, making a departure eventhat much more traumatic. We stay for them - when we should really be leaving for ourselves.
The "one more try" vice. If you have already done your best to bring core issues to the forefrontwithout satisfactory resolution, it is difficult to find the energy to continue. You've likely done your
part - offer yourself permission to move on.
Often we have disengaged long before our physical departure from an organization or role. Have you
ever experienced this?