WESTGATE MONTHLY Cheshvon 5771 Vol. 9 Issue 3 October 2010

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Bnos of Westgate

Bnos will I”yh begin פרשת לך לך . To sign your daughter up for a group please call

Primary Sori Liss 367-3797 1st grade Matty Berger 730-1616

2nd grade Nechama Kohn 367-8794 3rd grade Chaya Bracha Friedman 901-3098

We would like to thank the Epstein, Baddouch & Kohn families for hosting the bnos groups last

year. If anyone would like to host a group in their basement this year please call Shani Katz @367-

3190 or Kayla Chavoly at 730-1313

New שחרית מנין There will now be a שחרית מנין at 9:00 am every

Friday in the ezras noshim of 100 Ropshitz.

Mazel Tov Corner Rabbi & Mrs. Huttman–Boy Rabbi & Mrs. Edelson–boy Rabbi & Mrs. Krikheli -girl

Rabbi & Mrs. M. Weiss –boy Rabbi & Reb. Helberg -Girl

Rabbi & Mrs. Brull -Girl Rabbi & Mrs. Twersky upon the bar mitzvah of

their son י"נ

Hashovas Aveidah Corner 

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FOOD:

□ To bake cookies or cake, call Malka Blejer 886-0985. □ To cut up vegetables or fruit, call Shoshana Weiss 905-8804.

□ Short on time? We have items you can buy (e.g. soda), call 886-0985.

PHONE CALLS:

□ To help solicit prizes call R. Starashefsky 730-3696. □ Advance ticket calls (evenings) call R. Dick 942-8811. □ To process ticket orders call S. Gutterman at 886-5846. DAY OF AUCTION:

□ To sell tickets at the door call R. Shapiro 901-5154. □ Set up - call C.E. Berliner 886-5887.

MISCELLANEOUS:

□ Prize pick up/errands call R. Peretz 370-6061. □ Typing/computer secretarial work call S.G. Rubnitz 942-0808. □ Décor/props call R. Blaney 942-3042

□ Do you or anyone you know have maaser money to help sponsor a prize for a worthy cause? Watch the dividends of your donation grow, as each prize generates

much needed funds. (There are also some smaller prizes to sponsor). Call R. Sta-

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□ Do you love to organize, lead, take responsibility or use your talent for a Mitzva? You would be perfect to head a committee! Call C.S. Mandel 886-6167 to find out what’s still available. Please fax this form to 732-730-0118 at any time or call the appropriate phone number. If you volunteered in the past, please call us to let us know if you are available again.

 

 

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Educator’s Angle

My son recently turned בר מצוה and does not like to Daven as the ץ"ש . If he says these words every day wouldn’t he be comfortable

with them by now? He has a nice voice and sang a solo in the school choir so he is not afraid to be on stage. What can we do to boost his confidence?

In your question you make the point that after saying the שמונה three times a day for the past few years he should know it by עשרהnow. Unfortunately this is not the case, as many Bochurim have never learned to Daven properly. Many remember parts of davening the way they “heard it” in first or second grade. While saying it along with the class they never had a need to look inside and these errors were incorporated into their rote saying of Ashrei etc. When a Talmid has made significant improvement in his reading often I will instruct him to read Davening from a סידור. I include warnings that if he finds errors he should not get dejected because it is likely his memory at fault not his reading. (Adults should also be careful to regularly review parts of תפילה and Bentching to detect errors which have crept in over time.) For the situation is more challenging because less time is שמונה עשרהspent with the class saying it in unison. Any student who has any level of difficulty with reading may never properly achieve fluency in the שמונה עשרה.

The question is how to detect this issue at an early stage. A Rebbe recently told me thatwhen he raised this issue his Menahel instructed him not to test his 5th grade on fluency in שמונה עשרה because it could damage the student’s ego too greatly. This is a serious concern, and I have found that it must be handled in a most delicate fashion.

There are some indicators that a Bochur does not say the words properly. If a page takes the same amount of time no matter how many words are on it he is probably just looking at the page not reading each word. Another scenario is when a new שמונה עשרה is present ( ח"מוסף שבת ר ) and he says it as quickly as if he were familiar with it. It may be a good time to sit down with your son and explain to him the responsibilities of being a גדול and the importance of proper תפילה. With that as a start you may suggest that he read some parts which you are more sure that he does know well ( אשרי ,שמע ) and work your way to שמונה עשרה. You may also find it more beneficial to just ‘hear him out’ without corrections and relay the information to someone who can correct the issue. It is always important to be mindful of a Bochur’s self esteem.

 Questions can be sent to: Rabbi Meir Levenson 180 White Street Lakewood, NJ 08701 or Call 732-364-7839/ 908-616-9124  

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A Parrot Named Moishe

Aaron came back from the pet store elated at his new purchase -- a parrot. And this wasn't just any parrot, this one could talk.

Aaron stayed up all night teaching his new parrot, Moishe, Hebrew.

The next morning, while Aaron was putting on his tefillin, Moishe the parrot demanded to know what he was doing. When Aaron explained, the parrot wanted a pair too. Aaron went out and dutifully made a miniature set of tefillin for Moishe.

The parrot wanted to learn how to daven and Aaron taught him every prayer. He wanted to learn more about Judaism so Aaron spent months teaching him Torah. In time, Aaron came to love and count on the parrot as a friend and a fellow Jew.

One morning, on Rosh Hashana, Aaron rose and got dressed and was about to leave when Moishe demanded to go with him. Aaron explained that shul was not place for a bird but the parrot insisted and was carried to shul on Aaron's shoulder.

Needless to say, they made quite a spectacle, and Aaron was questioned by everyone, including the Rabbi and Cantor. They refused to allow a bird into the building on the High Holy Days but Aaron convinced them to let him in this one time, swearing that parrot could daven.

Wagers were made with Aaron. Thousands of dollars were bet (even odds) that the parrot could not daven, could not speak Hebrew and knew nothing about Judaism. All eyes were on the African Grey during services.

The parrot perched on Aaron's shoulder as one prayer and song passed -- Aaron heard not a peep from the bird.

He began to get annoyed, slapping at his shoulder and mumbling under his breath,

"Moishe! Daven!" Nothing. "Davendaven, so daven...come on, everybody's looking at you!"

Nothing. After Rosh Hashana services were concluded, Aaron found that he owed his shul buddies and the Rabbi over $4,000. He marched home, extremely angry, saying nothing. Finally several blocks from the shul the bird began to sing "Avinu Malkeinu" at the top of his lungs.

Aaron stopped and looked at him. "You miserable bird, you cost me over $4,000. Why? After I made your tefillin and taught you how to daven and learned Torah with you. Why did you do this to me?"

"Don't be silly," Moishe replied. "Think of the odds on Yom Kippur."

 

 

 

   

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10:00-11:00 Girls age 6 ½ & up

 

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Over 10 yrs. experience 

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Evening hours available. Shomer Shabbos.  Best prices in town! (ask for our weekly specials)  

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(732) 232‐3769  

LOOKING FOR CLEANING HELP?I have a few ladies available 

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Exciting Sunday Clubs In Westgate for girls ages 4‐6 

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Warm experienced morah 

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One slot available now in2yr old playgroup 

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Slots available in warm & loving babysitting group starting Sept 

please call  Chaya Yitty Kipper 732‐886‐5616 

Sunday Morning babysitting / clubs& weekday afternoon babysitting in 

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Please call 730‐1063 

 

Shul available for rent as  Yeshiva or Kollel 

Please call 908‐910‐3106 

Your local Mohel 

located in 

Westgate 

חודש חשוןסזק"ש מ"א &

גר"אשקיעה ע"ש הדל"נ זמנים

מעריב מנחה שחריתזמני תפלה בחול

9:19 & 9:55 6:17 5:59 פרשת לך לךיום א' 8:00, ג'ד'ו' 6:45 (ב' וה' 6:40) 25 Kelmwoods

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9:30 & 10:06 5:50 5:32 פרשת תולדות1:45

7:10 (ב' וה' 7:00)

& 8:00 ב"מ למעלה

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7:06 1:40 5:21 8:30 1:45 5:52 ב"מ למטה 7:16 1:40 5:31 8:30 1:45 6:02 ב"מ למטה7:18 5:31 7:40 5:52 49 Radin Village 7:28 5:41 7:40 6:02 49 Radin Village7:06 5:30 8:30 5:59 ב"מ למעלה 7:16 5:40 8:30 5:59 ב"מ למעלה7:06 5:49 8:45 5:59 25 Kelm Woods 7:16 5:59 8:45 6:09 25 Kelm Woods

7:06 7:18 1:15 5:11 5:26 7:30 8:15 1:40 5:47 5:52 47 Kelm Woods 7:16 7:28 1:15 5:21 5:36 7:30 8:15 1:40 5:57 6:02 47 Kelm Woods 7:06 5:31 8:45 5:57 45 Kelm Woods 7:16 5:41 8:45 6:07 45 Kelm Woods 7:06 5:26 8:00 5:30 39 Kletsk Hill 7:16 6:45 8:00 5:40 39 Kletsk Hill7:01 5:06 8:15 5:49 17 Kelm Woods 7:11 5:36 8:15 5:59 17 Kelm Woods 7:18 5:49 9:00 6:09 17 Kletsk 7:28 5:59 9:00 6:19 17 Kletsk7:01 5:21 8:45 5:52 14 Kingsfeild 7:11 5:31 8:45 6:02 14 Kingsfeild

7:30,8:15,8:45,9:00,9:20,9:40 10:00 10:20,

10:40 & 11:00 11:20

עשר דקות לפני שקיעה

וועסט געיט'זמני תפלה לבתי מדרש ד

7:01 5:21 8:45 5:52 14 Kingsfeild 7:11 5:31 8:45 6:02 14 Kingsfeild

7:06 5:31 8:45 5:55 32 Kletsk Hill 7:16 5:31 8:45 6:05 32 Kletsk Hill

מעריב מנחה שחרית מנחה ע"ש פרשת תולדות מעריב מנחה שחרית מנחה ע"ש פרשת חיי שרה

6:49 1:40 5:04 8:30 1:45 5:35 ב"מ למטה 6:57 1:40 5:12 8:30 1:45 5:43 ב"מ למטה7:01 5:14 7:40 5:35 49 Radin Village 7:09 5:22 7:40 5:43 49 Radin Village6:49 5:13 8:30 5:42 ב"מ למעלה 6:57 5:21 8:30 5:50 ב"מ למעלה6:49 5:32 8:45 5:42 25 Kelm Woods 6:57 5:40 8:45 5:50 25 Kelm Woods

6:49 7:01 1:15 4:54 5:09 7:30 8:15 1:40 5:30 5:35 47 Kelm Woods 6:57 7:09 1:15 5:02 5:17 7:30 8:15 1:40 5:38 5:43 47 Kelm Woods

6:49 5:14 8:41 5:40 45 Kelm Woods 6:57 5:22 8:45 5:48 45 Kelm Woods 6:49 5:09 8:00 5:13 39 Kletsk Hill 6:57 5:17 8:00 5:21 39 Kletsk Hill6:44 4:49 8:15 5:32 17 Kelm Woods 6:52 4:57 8:15 5:40 17 Kelm Woods 7:01 5:32 9:00 5:52 17 Kletsk 7:09 5:40 9:00 6:00 17 Kletsk6:44 5:04 8:45 5:35 14 Kingsfeild 6:52 5:12 8:45 5:43 14 Kingsfeild6:49 5:14 8:45 5:38 32 Kletsk Hill 6:57 6:30 8:45 5:46 32 Kletsk Hill

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20 דקות לאחר הדל"נ מנחה ע"ש עם קבלת שבת

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