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HPER F258MARRIAGE AND FAMILY
INTERACTION
KATHLEEN R. GILBERT, PH.D.INDIANA UNIVERSITY
Welcome to the Class
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Some thoughts on “family”
Family relationships are unique.
All study of family is biased.The way it was, wasn’t.The family is not “dying,” but it is changing
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Central Functions of the Family
Sexual intimacyReproductionEconomic cooperationSocialization of children
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The following come from the the scholarly and clinical literature as
well as from common usage:
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The Family as an institution
This is the most restrictive view of the family
The family as a source of responsibility for its members
Legal family relationships (birth, marriage, adoption)
Has the greatest potential for stability of family forms
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Family as a set of relationships
Family of choiceMay include cohabiting couples,
committed couples, informally adopted family members, “play cousins,” church families
This form of family can be highly unstable (lasts only while the relationship is “good,” however that is defined)
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Family as "a haven in a heartless world”
“Home is where, when you get there, they have to take you in” (Frost)
Family as a place of comfort and protectionA place of safety where you can be yourself
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Family as the center of conflict
The aspect of family that is most uncomfortable for us to recognize and accept.
This may lead to abuse and/or painful conflict
it is also a characteristic of most families Conflict is normal – the problem can arise in
how the conflicts are handled
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Family as a state of mind
The internal family system The family that we carry within ourselves,
the “inner voices” that influence our decision making (when you hear your mom’s voice when you’re
thinking of doing something she wouldn’t approve of)
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What Do We Mean When We Think of "Family”
Draw a Personal Crest A personal crest is symbolic of who
you are. This exercise is designed to help you identify some of your thoughts on who you are and how your family influences you.
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Drawing the Crest
1.Take a piece of paper and draw a shield on it. Mark it off into four quadrants and using words and pictures:
2. Upper right quadrant: depict something you value.
3. Upper left quadrant, depict something you believe you are good at.
4. Lower right quadrant, depict what your family values.
5. In the lower left quadrant, depict a strength in your family.
6. Below the crest, write what what the whole crest says about you.
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Final Thoughts and Conclusions
Write down at least one thing you learned this class session that either surprised you or intrigued you.
If you have any questions about the lecture, write them too, or stop and talk to Dr. G.