Waste InWedding

Mohammad Khairy Bin Md. Barderin

BY:

What is wedding?A wedding is a

ceremony and associated rituals by which two people vow to spend their lives together in marriage, (Nina Callaway, 2003)

Want to get

married..??

But it is to expensive…

So, what you

suppose to do..???

Borrow money from bank,

Borrow money from

parents, siblings, friends,

Or surplus money from

PTPTN..??

What matter how you get the money, it is all

because of the wedding expenses

=

I don’t believe

wedding expensive. Prove it…

So, lets we count it

randomly….

Pre-weddingDowry

Wedding Jewellery

Invitation CardsEtc…

Jurunikah

Mahr

Total = 15,000

CeremonyDecoration

Bunga TelurDesignerCanopyCateringEtc…..

Total = 15,000

Other ExpensesPA systemDJPhotographerHoneymoonKompang Beaters

Total = 15,000

Grand TOTAL

!!!RM

45,000.00

It is hard to believe the extreme amounts of money spent and lengths gone for only one day celebration

Factors Of Having

Expensive Wedding

Do not budget

carefully

Lack of wedding

knowledge

Sense

of proud and

arrogant

Effect of waste of a wedding

Relationship problem

Depression due to financial problem

Divorce

Remember this:Those who waste excessively are brothers to the devils…

So, how we can

solve the problem of having waste in wedding

Wedding by follow in Islamic

way, which is shows in Al-Quran and

Sunnah

Rasulullah Shallallahu 'alaihi saw has said:

أيسره النكاح خير"The best wedding is the most convenient." (Narrated by Abu Dawood, no. 2117. Assessed authentic by al-Albanian)

The most important is:

By choose nikah in islamic way, you can save your money…

For What?Many things you

can spend the money, such as:

We can donate it because there is

citizen in countries whose need for clean

water

Or….

Spend to buy a new house…

I bought it for you..

Spend to buy a new car…I bought

it for you..

Spend to buy thing that needs

for baby….

…..

Look, we have a baby..

Or spend it for making

new business

References:Abu Numair. (2012, June 1) Majlis Perkahwinan Yang Sunnah, Mudah, dan Barakah. Retrieved from: http://www.ilmusunnah.com/fiqh/majlis-perkahwinan-yang-sunnah-mudah-dan-barakah-2/Nina Callaway. (2003) The Definition of a Wedding, and the Essential Components. Retrieved from: http://weddings.about.com/bio/Nina-Callaway-9601.htm

Shaun Coltress. (2010, May 11) Are Wedding A Waste Of Money? Retrieved from: http://www.pbleepd.com/life-and-style/are-weddings-a-waste-of-money/

Azmi Abdul (2010, October 26) Melayu Suka Membazir Bila Nikah. Retrieved from: http://www.cikgu.net.my/index.php?option=com_myblog&Itemid=73&id=1073&show=Jangan-membazir-bila-nikah.html&user=0