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    Unlock Your Personal Power!

    Learn all the stuff they didn’t teach you at schoolin this special free report.

    Written by Aymen Fares

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    Table Of Contents

    Introduction ............................... 4 

    Are You Letting Your Thoughts Control You? . 6 

    You Are Not Your Thoughts! ................. 8 

    A Little On How Your Mind Works ...........10 

    Your Will – Your Power! ...................13 

    Your Emotions .............................16 

    Who Are You? .............................. 19 

    Happy and Whole ...........................23 

    It’s Fear That Stops You! .................26 

    Final Words. .............................. 29 

    An important point to remember! ........... 34 

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    Introduction

    You can do anything you want!

    This is a bold statement and it is true.

    The problem and the reason you fail to achieve your

    potential is simple.

    You don’t know how you work. The human being is

    complex and there is much more to you than your

    physical body. In order to master life you need to

    know how you work. In other words you need access

    to the secret techniques that govern existence andhow to use them.

     A special note if you run a business.

    There is a mass of information in the world on how

    to succeed in running your business. All businesses

    are just a collection of systems. In my experience

    working with hundreds of people who own businesses,

    it is the human element that lets down your

    business systems. When you understand how you workyou will understand how others work. You will see

    why your business and its systems aren’t at their

    potential. When you see, you will be able to

    implement changes that explode your profits to

    higher levels. 

    This e-book is a collection of extracts from my Key

    To Life and Spiritual newsletters. This e-book will

    give you a basic understanding of how you work. For

    a full and detailed explanation refer to my

    Key To Life Manual. 

    Remember you can do anything you want. Just learn

    how, you work!

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    Here is a quote to start you thinking.

    "There is no such thing as failure.

    'Failure' is merely an opinion that a

    given act wasn't done satisfactorily.Being ruled by fear of failure lets you

    take the easy way out. Rather than

    accepting the challenge of pursuing a

    goal, you can scratch it off your list and

    tell yourself that it is impossible or not

    worthwhile...

    ...Life is a self-fulfilling prophecy. If

    you never try you can't win, if you do you

    might." Jack Collis 

    People often do not try; your fear of

    failure often holds you back.

    Subconsciously you can say to yourself

    that you did not fail. However lack of

    failure does not mean success.

    Overcome your fear

    o Set your own standards don't let others make

    your choices.

    o Don't try and be perfect at everything, it's

    unrealistic and will rob you of your enjoyment.

    o Go head on, do something that you like, yet

    fear. Start small.

    o If you think you have failed treat it as a

    learning experience, you can learn a lot fromyour experiences.

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    Are You Letting Your Thoughts Control You?

    "Every thought you have makes up some

    segment of the world you see. It is with

    your thoughts then, that we must work, if

    your perception of the world is to be

    changed". A course in miracles. 

    You have about 50 000 thoughts per day.

    What are you thinking to create the world

    you live in? Be aware of your thoughts.

    This will give you the power to create the

    environment you want. You are in control

    whether you like it or not. Accept it!

    Many people lead unfulfilled lives.

    Are you aware that your thoughts dictate your

    emotions?  The path you follow is decided upon by

    the thoughts that you have and then follow. Your

    thoughts make you feel in a certain way. Emotion

    comes from your thoughts and emotions are

    impossible without thoughts preceding them. When an

    event happens in your life you interpret it basedon who you are, your past experiences and the

    knowledge you have at the time. Interpret means we

    start to think. Thoughts appear and this leads you

    to having emotions based on what you are thinking.

    The same event may be interpreted differently by

    you and your neighbor, causing different emotions

    in each of you.

    The first step in making a positive change in yourlife is being aware of what you think. This sounds

    easy but how many thoughts do you have each day? I

    have heard the figure 'fifty thousand' quoted. It

    is very hard to be aware of all your thoughts; some

    are so quick and habitual that you can easily miss

    them. Once you start to consciously 'catch' your

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    thoughts you may be surprised at how many negative

    thoughts you have. You may even be shocked at some

    of the thoughts you have.

    Your thoughts are not real they are just thoughts!

    You have a choice. You can pursue these thoughts

    and dwell on them. You can even put them into

    action. You can also choose to let them travel

    through and not follow them. You can consciously

    choose to have positive thoughts. It requires

    effort, especially at the beginning. It will soon

    become habit. Rather than fight your negative

    thoughts just let them go. Get into the habit of

    throwing some positive thoughts after them.

    Where to start? Next time you are not happy. Take a

    look at what you are thinking. Just think about

    something that makes you happy. It's that easy. The

    past and the future do not exist.

    Live in the present moment and create your own

    uplifting thoughts. Enjoy life rather than

    constantly thinking about it.

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     You Are Not Your Thoughts!

    Most people have an identity based upon their mind.

    This means that you believe you are the thoughts in

    your head. Everyone thinks in their own certain

    way. Most people believe that they are these

    thoughts. 'I am fat' 'I am poor' 'I am unhappy' "I

    am a carpenter" etc.

    These thoughts are not you!

    They originate due to external stimuli in your

    world. They depend on how YOUR mind has interpreted

    the world around you. An example would be; if therewere no thin people then how could you say you were

    fat? The word fat would not exist. Your mind

    compares you to a standard that you decided to

    accept. Your mind continually bombs you with

    thoughts that are based on your past and what you

    have inherited from your culture.

    Emotions are similar. Often the emotion, which

    comes after the thought/s are so charged with

    energy that you are overwhelmed. You believe thatyou are the emotion and act accordingly. Emotions

    are your reaction to your mind and it's thoughts.

    None of this is you!

    When you actually take the time to catch one or

    more of your thoughts you discover something

    amazing.

     Who is doing the catching? 

    The answer to this is rather complex and

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    to long for this short article. It is instead

    contained in The Key To Life Manual. 

    The manual has all the answers and the techniques

    that enable you to radically change your life for

    the better.

    Did you notice that when you do this there are two

    of you? If you have gone through this process you

    must now acknowledge that there is someone there

    that actually does the catching as opposed to the

    thinking.

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    A Little On How Your Mind Works

    "The best way to predict the future is to

    invent it." Alan Kay

    You invent the future with every choice

    you make in every moment of your life.

    Don't be a victim to unconscious

    programming. Choose where you are going

    and make it happen.

    One of the best ways you have of improving yourself

    is by looking into your thought processes. Theeasiest way to do this is to look at the results in

    your life.

    I mean look at what is happening around you and

    what is happening to you. This is an easy way for

    you to change your life because you get instant

    feedback, just by looking around.

    The results you see are the end product of the

    accumulation of your thoughts. Your thoughtsactually carry 'weight' and determine what your

    world is like. This is not always apparent. We have

    so many thoughts; most people are unaware of the

    majority of them.

    It is estimated that you have around 50 000

    thoughts per day.

    Let me explain how your mind works.

    You have experiences, through your 5 senses, which

    are the process of the conscious mind. These

    experiences are recorded by your subconscious mind.

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    Your subconscious mind faithfully records

    everything that happens to you, what you think

    about it and how you feel about it. Your

    subconscious mind can't judge the quality of this

    information it only records it.

    If you imagine something that is vivid (vivid means

    a clear image with depth of emotion), then your

    subconscious mind treats this as a real life

    experience and records it as such. Your

    subconscious mind just records as it sees, it

    doesn't store past and future with an image. It

    lives in the present.

    What is recorded in your subconscious mind formsyour belief system and your Self Image. Your Self

    Image is the opinion you have about yourself. The

    image of yourself that you form comes from your

    accumulated beliefs and the judgments you make in

    regard to what you can and can't do.

    It is the job of a part of your subconscious mind

    to harmonize your external world with your Self

    Image. When the two don't match it creates an inner

    tension and something must change.

    There are two possibilities for change. Either your

    external world changes or the tension is reduced.

    Lets come back to this later!

    Most people exist and accept what happens to them

    as their lot in life. They float through life. I

    say, you can have whatever you wish. How?

    Just reverse the way you do things.

    Look around at your world and see what results you

    have. Pick something that you wish to change and

    set a goal.

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    Setting goals is not a new concept. All successful

    people have used the concept of goal setting.

    However less than 3% of the western population set

    and write their goals.

    Setting a goal is putting a new image of what you

    want into your subconscious.

    Lets say you are overweight and you want to be

    slim. You need to do the following four things.

    1. Set the goal. (I want to be slim) 

    2. Be specific with the goal. (I want to be 70kg.) 

    3. Write an affirmation. An affirmation is a

    statement of intent and must be written in the

    first person, present tense. A statement of intent

    has more impact if you add emotional words. (I am a

    stunningly slim 70kg and I look wonderful.)

    For a full and detailed explanation of these three

    things and the fourth and final point please refer

    to the

    Key To Life Manual.  You’ll also find a full anddetailed discussion on the two things that stop you

    using one of the most magical sources of creation -

    your subconscious mind. The first of these is if

    you look for the ‘how’. The ‘how’ is never apparent

    otherwise your goal is too easy. The second thing

    that stops you is requiring proof before you act.

    Proof means you have no faith. Without faith you

    cannot harness your subconscious mind.

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     Your Will – Your Power!

    The collection of your thoughts and their strength

    and ability to manifest what the real you desires,

    is called your will.

    Will is your personal power. Your will is the

    collection of your thoughts. Your thoughts if you

    have a strong will, enable you to manifest what you

    desire.

    To put it bluntly, you get what you want if you use

    your will. Many people have not developed their

    will. In fact many people create situations thatweaken their will.

    One of the easiest and simplest ways to strengthen

    your will is to set and attain a goal.

    Boring you say, we have already covered this! Let's

    go a little deeper.

    Every time you have a thought that goes along the

    lines of - "I will do..." or "I am going to..." you

    are actually setting a goal. In other words anytimeyou say to yourself I am going to do something no

    matter how small that something is, you are goal

    setting.

    It's like making an appointment with yourself.

    "Next week I will..."

    The question to ask yourself is do you do it? Do

    you keep the appointment? It's interesting to

    observe that most people keep appointments with

    others yet break the appointment they make with

    themselves. This is an indicator of your self-

    respect.

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    It's your thoughts that create your goals and

    targets whether you consciously have a part in them

    or not.

    Remember we have already covered that the average

     person has 50,000 thoughts per day. That's about 2

    thoughts per second. Most people are only aware of

    a few of their thoughts.

    Here's the important bit. Every time you do NOT

    follow through and attain your goal you are

    weakening your personal power.

    Every time that you follow through you are

    strengthening it. The first thing to do is to beconscious of what you promise yourself and other

    people. Don't promise too much.

    I know, I am an advocate of shooting high when it

    comes to goal setting. However if you consciously

    examine your thoughts I believe that you will find

    you are promising too much.

    You need to focus on less to achieve more.

    Here's are some easy examples,1. A gentleman I know wants to exercise more. He

    has trouble exercising once per week and he has

    many late nights. He sets himself a target of a

    grueling workout every morning before work. It

    never happens but he continues to set this goal.

    2. A salesman I met believes that he can earn a

    fortune selling his product. He has a small,

    established client base and has trouble making cold

    calls. Everyday he promises himself that he will

    make 30 phone calls. His best day so far is two.

    3. I have a client that is disorganized; he has

    hundreds of small jobs to do. They are not high on

    his list of priorities and they never seem to get

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    done. He promises himself everyday that he will

    clean up. He never has time.

    All three scenarios have a multitude of solutions

    but we are only discussing the thought process and

    how it affects your will.

    In all three examples the people are dis-empowered.

    In order to build strength of will you need to

    start with a smaller target and work on achieving

    it.

    Achieve one gym workout per week in the afternoon

    for a period of time. Make four phone calls per

    day, everyday. Do one small task from your lowpriority list per day. Build a habit and look for

    consistency. Strengthen your will. Achieve one

    small step at a time, and then look to the sky to

    achieve your dream.

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     Your Emotions

    Emotions control your life. They are an

    inexplicable force that you have to deal with on a

    daily basis.

    Think of your emotions in terms of energy currents.

    Imagine an energy field around you, which changes

    shape, color and texture as your emotions change.

    In spiritual terms this is called your astral body.

    Some people call this your emotional body or energy

    field.

    Generally, your emotions serve your personality oryour ego. If you wish to achieve a measure of

    personal development you must learn to master your

    emotions and not be ruled by them. This personal

    development is one of the first steps on the

    spiritual path of initiation and is also known as

    spiritually evolving. The goal of our personal

    development is to exercise control of our emotions.

    Energetically this is like calming the stormy sea

    and symbolically, emotions are represented by

    water.

    This doesn't mean that we do not 'feel' or that we

    should 'shut off' as many people do, on the

    contrary the only way to master your emotions is to

    get closer to them and actually find out what you

    really are feeling. Your emotional needs are often

    manifested in physical form. A simple example would

    be; eating, many people eat too many sweets. Sweets

    are often used as a reward by parents or eaten at

    celebrations and may be associated with happiness.

    People who are not happy have a subconscious

    craving to eat sweets. Emotions control this

    behavior.

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    Other ways in which emotions dominate are numerous.

    You may seek to satisfy desire in many ways; food,

    money and sex are common ways to do this. Your

    subconscious emotional needs dominate and cause

    behavior, which is not 'good' for you. You measure

    'good' from a reference point of what you, the soul

    behind your ego, thoughts and personality wants.

    Through the veil of emotion and ego, a clear path

    is often needed before your true self is

    discovered.

    There are many ways to ‘still the waters’ one-way

    is to respond, rather than react.

    There are other methods that are discussed in myManual but we don’t have enough room here to cover

    them all.

    Reacting means you are usually expressing a

    negative emotion such as anger and jealousy. Please

    notice how I said expressing. If we respond rather

    than react we will still feel the emotion. We do

    not however have to express it in a negative

    fashion. In order to respond rather than react you

    need to follow two simple steps that you can findin the Key To Life Manual. 

    This two-step process is simple, but hard to put

    into practice, the heat of the moment often

    providing a difficult training ground. A common way

    to overcome this difficulty is to work backwards.

    Start with the moments that cause you to react.

    Look at incidents that cause you to get emotional,

    situations where people 'push your buttons'. Anger

    and Jealousy are easy places to start. Look for the

    message about yourself; don't just react.

    Your emotions originate from thoughts. Unravel the

    thread. Find the thought pattern behind the

    emotion. All negative emotions start with a fear.

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    Take jealousy for instance.  This is based on the

    fear of losing your partner. It also has it's

    origins from the incorrect assumption that you

    posses your partner. This shows up as issues of

    self worth and it means that you are comparing

    yourself to another person and judging yourself as

    less.

    Envy is another negative emotion  and again the

    origin is fear. The focus with envy is on what we

    are lacking. What you are really thinking is "The

    other person has what I want" This is based on one

    of two ideas;

    There is not enough for everyone and I might beinadequate or I am not happy with my situation or

    myself. This manifests with you launching an attack

    or belittling the person or object of your envy.

    Statements such as "I didn't want that anyway"

    "That's no good because..." mean you are focusing

    on what you don't have. Change your thoughts; focus

    instead on what you do have.

    Once you are aware of the mechanics, which come

    into play when your negative emotions are aroused,you have come a long way. What is required to

    finish the task at hand is a willingness to

    confront yourself. Remember, when emotions are

    raised in YOU, that is the signal for you to look

    inside.

     A common trap along the way is failure to look at

    yourself and instead look to the other person

    involved. This means you are not taking

    responsibility for your self. You need to shift the

    focus back onto you. If you are really interested

    in working with this concept you need to take a

    look at the Key To Life Manual. It teaches you the

    techniques that enable you to take responsibility

    and change your life for the better. 

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    Who Are You?

    This is an important question.

    You are a soul, experiencing certain aspects of

    creation through a physical body. The real you is

    eternal, the real you is the hidden spiritual side,

    the voice of wisdom that you sometimes hear in

    moments of clarity. The real you is one with the

    universe and everything in it. It is the part of

    you that feels, the part of you that has a dream,

    the part of you that knows right from wrong and

    good from bad. Some people call this "your higher

    self."

    In most of us, to varying degrees, this true nature

    is blocked and hidden by what's known as your ego.

    Your ego is the part of you that does all the

    thinking, it is responsible for the management of

    your physical body, including feeding, sheltering

    and protecting it. Although your ego is a

    necessity, problems arise when it dominates and

    controls. This happens because it over identifies

    with your physical state and believes it is allthere is. The result is that you live under an

    illusion and forget who you are. Your true

    spiritual being is blocked from your consciousness.

    This is your negative ego. Some people call this

    "your lower self."

     Why are you like this?

    You are here to experience the physical, to learn

    the power of our thoughts and to create with them.

    We are on a journey back to our source. In order

    for us to be able to do this we must temporarily

    forget who we really are. Your mind through its

    guardian, your ego, latches onto an identity. This

    identity is formed from our surroundings and

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    experiences since birth. It serves us because we

    believe that that's all there is.

    Ask someone, "Who are you?" You are likely to get

    an answer such as,

    o "I am a Writer"

    o "I am a Lawyer"

    o "I am a Basketballer"

    o "I am a Catholic"

    People answer with what they do and associate with.

    Not with who they really are. The identity that youcreate and hold onto also encompasses certain

    traits. These traits are learned responses to

    stimuli that you have encountered. If the behavior

    you choose is deemed to be self-serving at the

    time, your ego adds it to its repertoire and a

    habit is in the making. Your Lower Self behavior

    usually serves your subconscious desires and needs.

    These needs are essentially physical and survival

    based. They are based on you moving away from fear.

    Imagine a shop-aholic who spends all his/her money.

    They have to have all the latest clothes no matter

    how expensive and how many other clothes they have

    to wear. They do this to the detriment of the other

    parts of their life, perhaps they run up huge

    credit card bills as is common. The fear in this

    case may be that they would not be accepted, their

    ego tells them that if they have the latest

    fashions then they will be accepted. The extent to

    which this is played out is dependent on how much

    control their ego has. Imagine an angry driver who

    abuses other drivers for driving too slow in front

    of them. This may be a fear of arriving late for

    work or an appointment. The anger is their ego

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    enforcing right of way by intimidation and

    aggression.

    Your Higher Self makes decisions based on movement

    towards love and this is essentially spiritual in

    nature. An example of this would be spontaneously

    giving a present without thought of any reciprocal

    arrangement. Helping someone from a pure desire

    just to serve, like in the cliché of helping a

    little old lady across the road. This would also be

    taking up the career we love as opposed to the

    egoic choice of a career for the money. Going to a

    restaurant you love as opposed to the egoic choice

    of the restaurant that is fashionable to be seen

    at.

     What do you argue about?

    Think of two people arguing. Who is right and who

    is wrong? It depends on your perspective.

    Two people argue over the weather, the first person

    says it is cold the second person says it's not.

    The temperature is 7 degrees Celsius. Who do you

    think is right? The first person lives near theequator and enjoys the warm weather and sunshine.

    The second person comes from one of the poles and

    is used to subzero temperatures. Right or wrong can

    only be - when it is compared to something else.

    You take up your defensive position because your

    ego identifies with certain thoughts that you have.

    These thoughts are part of your identity and your

    ego has convinced you that this is who you are and

    therefore you must take a stand. You are not your

    opinion. There is no right and wrong. Think about

    what you last argued over. You may have tried to

    make yourself right and the other person wrong.

    What is there to defend? Nothing. Why does one of

    you have to be right and therefore the other wrong?

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    You are not the identity that your ego has built.

    If you make some changes in your life, you will

    still be you. Change your career, car, spouse, the

    country that you live in, your eating habits, your

    sexual preferences, your sporting club, go to jail

    or go to church, go to the movies or sleep all day.

    You are still you, no matter what you do. The

    scenario's we can discuss are endless, complex and

    along similar lines. What is important is that you

    recognize what your fear is and when your ego takes

    over!

    If you are interested in learning the techniques

    that enable you to overcome your urge to argue have

    a look at my self-help manual, The Key To Life. 

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    Happy and Whole

    "It is an orderly universe and the

    suffering that comes to us has a purpose

    in our lives, it is trying to teach us

    something. We should look for its lesson."

    Peace Pilgrim

    Look around you. The world is reflecting

    what you believe. The world is reflecting

    to you, what and who you are. If you are

    not happy with what's going on around you,

    the type of people you attract or your

    physical surrounds. Stop trying to changethe world and change who you are.

    Your soul chooses to manifest into the physical

    body you have today, to create, express and

    experience. To be happy and whole you need to do

    four things. Here is a brief explanation of two of

    things you need to do.

    1. Express and nurture yourself.

    As a human being you need to express yourself.

    Expression means doing what you want to do, what

    you feel you have to do and showing the world who

    you are as an individual. This is often cloaked in

    an emotional cloud. Your path can be obscured by

    the powerful 'should' word. People often spend

    lifetimes doing what they should do as expressed by

    the wishes of their parents or society. "What will

    my parents think if I am the singer in a rock androll band instead of a lawyer or doctor". Find what

    you want to do as expressed by your soul. This is

    how you find your power.

    Living a life that denies expression and your inner

    feelings means that you are not nurturing yourself

    and that you are suppressing your feelings.

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    Suppression gives away your power. When you give

    your power to others it enables them to have undue

    influence over you. When people have too much power

    and influence over you and subconsciously you are

    not doing what you want, you feel helpless and

    victimized. This causes you to be frightened and

    angry. Anger is a symptom of your loss of power.

    The easiest way to suppress feelings is to

    medicate. Drugs including alcohol and the use of

    food are popular methods employed. Emptiness,

    boredom and disease are the results of this

    process. Not doing what you want means you are not

    nurturing yourself this again may manifest in the

    abuse of food, alcohol or sex. The substance orbehavior becomes a substitute for nurturing.

    2. Love yourself and accept yourself as you are.

    You need to accept yourself and to love yourself as

    you are today. All of us have thoughts and feelings

    and everyone has, or has had, what they consider

    'bad' thoughts. We have all done things that we are

    ashamed of.

    There is both positive and negative in you. This is

    also known as light and dark. You must acknowledge

    and accept your dark side to become whole. No

    matter what you have done in the past you can

    change your behavior today. It is pointless to

    wallow in your feelings of guilt as this is based

    on the assumption that what you did was wrong. Your

    behavior always has a positive intent for you, at

    the time.

    There is a great self esteem exercise that is very

    quick and simple to do. It enables you to

    dramatically improve your Self Love, Self Esteem

    and Self Acceptance.

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    It can be found in the Key To Life Manual  along

    with the other two things that you need to do to be

    happy and whole.

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    It’s Fear That Stops You!

    "Fear is the foundation of all human

    limitations." Benny the Jet 

    Benny the Jet was a fighter, a kick boxer.

    Although very small in stature he has

    ventured to fight much larger opponents in

    full contact tournaments and he has beaten

    them. This is an achievement, which earned

    him some acclaim.

    Before you say, "hey! I thought that thiswas a spiritual publication" think

    carefully and reflect over your life. What

    fears have stopped you doing something and

    what rewards have you missed out on?

    Fear is only an emotion not a brick wall. 

    You have learnt of goals and setting targets. It is

    important to move forward into the direction that

    you wish to go. I deliberately use the words 'moveinto' because that's what you do. You don't move

    towards your goal as if it was a never reachable /

    achievable ideal. You literally merge with it. You

    move forward and become what you want.

    What stops you? Fear.

    Fear is an interesting emotion and comes from a

    series of thoughts. These thoughts are expressedand form a picture of what you don't want to

    happen. The ideal is to focus on what you do want

    to happen. Whatever you focus on you move towards.

    Just because you have a series of thoughts that

    create an emotion does not mean that you can't act.

    The emotion is independent of the ability to act.

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    Here are some physical examples that illustrate the

    possibilities.

    If you are about to parachute from an airplane you

    may feel fear but you can still perform the action.

    A fighter may feel fear whilst he faces his

    opponent but he can still perform. You may feel

    fear at the thought of public speaking. You can

    still actually speak whilst in the company of this

    emotion.

    If you look at the pattern of thoughts that precede

    the emotion you will see that your focus is on what

    you do not wish to happen. There is a direct

    correlation between the amount of thought you givein this direction to the power of your fear. Of

    course there are other factors that complicate this

    illustration. You may have had a prior negative

    experience, which usually increases your fear. I

    know if you look closely you will find the same

    pattern of thoughts that lead to the emotion of

    fear. A thought or series of thoughts have as much

    power over you as you give them. It's not always as

    easy as the physical examples I have given. For the

    relationship between action and emotion is quiteobvious. Here is a more intangible way fear

    manifests and stops you moving ahead and into your

    goals.

    Fear of success is prevalent and is often linked to

    self-esteem and responsibility. You may not think

    you are worthy of success. You may believe that you

    are worth less than someone else and therefore are

    not deserving of success. Realize that you are

    equal as a human being with the rest of humanity

    and that no one person is any better or worse than

    you. You have your own set of challenges to work

    through. You are just as deserving of success as

    anyone else. What judgment have you made that limit

    your own self-esteem?

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    When success finally comes you move from an old

    pattern that has held you back, to a new pattern.

    This can create emotional turbulence in the lives

    of those around us. It is important that you

    understand that you don't have to hold yourself

    back to protect the self-esteem of others. You have

    a fear of your own greatness and you can

    read more about it in the Key To Life Manual, along

    with two other major fears that prevent you moving

    forward.

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    Final Words.

    "Fear is not of the present, but only of

    past and future - which does not exist."

    A Course In Miracles 

    You are often afraid, now, of something

    that is imaginary. How much energy do you

    waste thinking and being afraid of

    something that may never happen, next

    week? Do you empower a past negative

    situation and let that spoil what you are

    doing today?

    Your thoughts are yours; only you have the

    power to change them. I show you exactly

    how to do this in the Key To Life Manual. 

    The Key To Life Manual teaches you how to get

    anything you want. This includes happiness, success

    and wealth.

    It is honest, hard-hitting information that works,written by someone who uses it everyday on himself

    and real world clients.

    It is not just theory!

    The manual also explains why normal practice of

    goal setting often doesn’t work. I teach you secret

    techniques that are not generally know and explain

    exactly who you are, where you came from and whatthe meaning of life is.

    Try it for yourself. You can’t afford not to. 

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    Business and Lifestyle Coaching

    Life Coaching is a special relationship between you

    the client and I the coach. As a coach I help

    people from all walks of life and each relationship

    is different. I guide you in stages at your pace

    and I offer you a non-judgmental point of view.

    This allows you the recognition of your own

    enormous potential.

    The result is that you achieve your objectives much

    faster than if working alone. I assist you in

    finding happiness and a fulfilling stress free

    lifestyle.

    Coaching involves weekly sessions, either in

    person or over the telephone. (You can be

    anywhere in the world and I can ring you)

    I do things a little differently to other

    coaches – some people say I am a little

    psychic. (You’ll have to wait and find out

    about that one!)

    Coaching is about Action!

    Putting into practice what you learn. 

    Here are nine ways you can benefit from my coaching

    sessions.

    1. It's about You!

    There never has been, there never will be another

    YOU. It's important to get it right by fulfilling

    your potential. Coaching completely focuses on

    you. Unlike attending a training course and

    sitting through content that is not relevant to

    you. Coaching is 100% focused on your needs and

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    wants right now. You are the expert in your life

    and I bring out your best. 

    2. You can reach for the Stars

    As your coach I help you stretch your boundariesand venture from your comfort zone. Challenges

    can be incredibly rewarding and I offer you a

    partnership to set challenging goals and achieve

    your potential. Make your goals more important

    than the other things that compete for your

    attention. How much time do you spend watching

    television? How much time do you devote to other

    peoples problems? One hour per week with me can

    change your life.

    3. Spiritual Fulfillment

    The process of coaching leads you to question

    your internal life and the way you do things. As

    an expert in esoteric practice I can show you how

    to master your thoughts and emotions giving you

    the insight required to find your true path in

    life. Your Emotional Intelligence has been foundto be more important to success than IQ and you

    can now build your emotional intelligence to a

    new level.

    4. Focus on Solutions not your Problems

    I help you focus on where you want to be and the

    best way to get there. By staying firmly focused

    on what you want rather than your problems, you

    can achieve extraordinary results and manyproblems just fade away. 

    5. Your Education

    If you are like most people you love to learn new

    things yourself and often you don't trust the

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    advice of others. As your coach I don't tell you

    what to do; rather I help bring out your best,

    enabling you to learn from your own experience.

    Your emotions can cloud your judgment. As your

    coach I don't have an emotional attachment to

    your problems and can therefore show an objective

    point of view.

    Note: If you want to do this yourself try the

    ’Key To Life’ Manual. 

    6. Your Success is not an Accident

    Developing a step-by-step plan for your goals

    dramatically increases your chance of success.

    Rather than just throwing yourself at a new idea

    I can help you break your goal into smaller

    steps. This added depth to your planning makes

    starting a whole lot easier and helps keep you

    action orientated.

    7. Stick to your Plan

    If you lead a busy lifestyle, without something

    to remind you about your plans it's easy to let

    them slide. Staying committed to your plans is

    difficult and a professional support structure

    helps you stay on track and achieve a result. As

    your coach I am that support.

    8. Relationships

    The answers to many of life's questions are found

    in the relationship you have with yourself and

    with others. You will learn how to improve yourbusiness relationships, with both customers and

    employees. You can dramatically improve your

    personal relationships.

    9. Accountability and Motivation

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    With increased accountability your success rate

    improves dramatically. Your coach is there to

    remind you of where you are going. An expert

    motivator I can help you overcome those moments

    when it all becomes a little daunting.

     Accountability dramatically improves your bottom

    line.  In dollar terms alone, this one point pays

    for years of coaching.

    If you are looking for direct personal or business

    coaching to really make your world zing! Contact me

    direct or via my web site.

    http://www.KeyToLife.com.au 

    Aymen Fares

    KTL Enterprises Pty. Ltd.

    Suite 49/66 Kingsway

    Glen Waverley VIC

    Australia 3150

    Phone 61 03 9753 6202Mobile 0418 102 544

    Email: [email protected] 

    Are you still not sure about coaching? Dip your toe

    in the water with the Key To Life Manual. 

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    An important point to remember!

    Next time you…

    Argue with your spouse.

    Get angry with your children.

    Have trouble at work with your employees, your

    employer or your work colleagues.

    Find yourself without direction.

    Have no meaning in your life.

    Are stressed about something.

    Are experiencing fear, in any way.

    Find that you are unhappy.

    Find that you have lost motivation.

    Are stuck and not taking action.

    Are in emotional pain.

    That guy on the Internet has the answers!

    Even if you don’t want the commitment of coaching

    you have the option of a ‘How To’ manual that gives

    you all the answers.

    I almost forgot …

    The manual comes with a Lifetime guarantee!

    Click here for more information. 

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