Unleash potential

Vivien R. De Guzman Mangaldan NHS


By Dr. Vivien R. De Guzman Mangaldan NHS

Transcript of Unleash potential

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Vivien R. De GuzmanMangaldan NHS

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UNLEASHto allow or

cause something powerful to

happen suddenly.

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CAN feel good CAN be rich

CAN feel loved CAN have purpose

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is the process of promoting and supporting the development of a child from infancy to



social intellectual

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1. Learn to listen to your children. Influencing

their lives is one of the greatest things parents can do. It is easy to tune out our children, and a missed opportunity for meaningful guidance.

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2. Treat your child with respect.

Don't ever forget that your child is a living, breathing human being who has needs and wants just like the rest of us.

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3. Be involved in your child's daily life. It will take effort and strength to be there for your child every day, but if you want to encourage your child to develop his own interests and character, you have to create a strong support system for him.

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4. Teach good manners.Good manners will follow your children for the rest of their lives, and you should start modeling it as soon as possible

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5. Be a good role model. Face it: human beings learn primarily through modeling. In fact, you can’t avoid being an example to your children, whether good or bad. Being a good example, then, is probably your most important job.

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Discipline teaches a child to follow rules.

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High Discipline – Low Love


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low Discipline – Low Love

Juvenile Delinquents

Jared Michael Padgett

15-year-old Jared Padgett  killed one student 14-year-old Emilio Hoffman and  injured a teacher, before turning the gun on himself, June 10, 2014 at Reynolds High School in Troutdale.Emilio Hoffman

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low Discipline – high Love

Spoiled Brat

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High Discipline – high Love

Unleashed CHILD

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How to discipline?

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1. Set acceptable and unacceptable code of behavior.

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2. Determine appropriate disciplinary action per violation. Punishment should be per violation and per age level.

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Kinds of Punishments

a. Time -out

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The youngest Neuro-

Surgeon Head at

Johns Hopkins Hospital,

Baltimore, Maryland,


Dr. Ben Carlson

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2. Taking away privileges.

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c. Spanking.

“Whoever spares the rod hates their children, but the one who loves their children is careful to discipline them.”

Proverbs 13:24

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The purpose of a spanking is not to cause any lasting bodily harm, but to cause spiritual correction....Parents should not fear that spanking will hurt or cause them to die, although some scream loud enough that it sounds that way. On the contrary, it is a kindness to a child, as they will respect authority, if it is done properly." 

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3. Discuss the discipline process to children.

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 Most people know Oprah as one of the most iconic faces on TV as well as one of the richest and most successful women in the world. Oprah faced a hard road to get to that position, however, enduring a rough and often abusive childhood as well as numerous career setbacks including being fired from her job as a television reporter because she was "unfit for tv."

Oprah Winfrey

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Darwin himself wrote…

"I was considered by all my masters and my father, a very ordinary boy, rather below the common standard of intellect." Perhaps they judged too soon, as Darwin today is well-known for his scientific studies.

Charles Darwin

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4. If there is an infraction, investigate before you punish and give children chance to explain.

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with love and not with anger

with an embrace and a talkin private

with firmness

5. Enforce the discipline

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“No discipline seems pleasant at the time but

painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of

righteousness and peace who

have been trained by it.”

- Hebrews 12:11

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Pray with children


Teach you children about God everyday.

Teach children that obeying their parents is not for their parents but for


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Practical Tips in Raising

Unleashed Children

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Tip No. 1. Start and end the day


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Tip No. 2 Help your child to come up

with a Vision Board

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Tip No. 3 Practice “Simulated


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Tip No. 4 Don’t give your child too much privacy.

Watch movies with your children.

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James Eagan Holmes

Big fan of Batman

In 2010, James received his undergraduate degree in  Neuroscience with the highest honors.

Mother is a registered nurse.

Father is a mathematician and scientist with degrees at Stanford University.

Born on December 13, 1987 in San Diego, California.

On July 20, 2012, James shot into the audience with

multiple firearms killing 12 people and injuring 70 others. during a midnight screening of the film The Dark Knight Rises, inside of the Century Movie Theater in Aurora, Colorado.


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Tip No. 5 Do not allow sleepover unless

school-mandated activities.

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Tip No. 6 Do not allow your children

to play violent computer games.

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Two senior students murdered a total of 12 students and one teacher at

Columbine High School, Colorado, USA on April 20, 1999. They injured 24 additional students, with three other people being

injured while attempting to escape the school. The pair

then committed


Eric Harris and Dylan Klebold,

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Tip No. 7Teach your children to live

without you.

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Tip No. 8Teach your children about

physical and financial wellness.

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Tip No. 9Be sure that you belong to TGIF

with your children.

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Tip No. 10Encourage children to study


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Each and every day , ask

yourself, “What can I say and do to be an even

better parent?”

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