UNESCO Series on Women in African History Mariama Ba · 2019-09-18 · the lane behind my house: if...
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UNESCO Series on Women in African History
Mariama BaAnd the choice of Ndeye
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The UNESCO Series on Women in African History is produced by the Communication and Information Sector of UNESCO. This publication has received additional support from the Culture Sector, and the Social and Human Sciences Sector.
UNESCO specialist responsible for the project: Sasha RubelEditorial and artistic direction: Edouard Joubeaud
Published in 2017 by the United Nations Educational, Scientific and Cultural Organization7, place de Fontenoy, 75352 Paris 07 SP, France
© UNESCO 2017
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The ideas and opinions expressed in this publication are those of the authors; they are not necessarily those of UNESCO and do not commit the Organization.
Translation from French (original) to English: Obioma Ofoego and Maya JuddIllustration of the cover page : Massiré TounkaraGraphic design: Muyang Li
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UNESCO Series on Women in African History
Editorial and artistic direction: Edouard JoubeaudIllustrations: Natacha Nze Ndong
Script and dialogue: Sandra Joubeaud
Mariama BaAnd the choice of Ndeye
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So?
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And he’ll have a modern daddy who knows how to hang
out the wash.
You won the bet Ndeye, it’s a little
boy...
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Mother?
Help me dear, so that I can welcome my son.
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I’m wondering where my father is today...
My memories of him are frozen, like those old
photos of us…
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...except that day, I was 8 years old...
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...I understood as soon as we got home... I’ll never forget
her words.
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I tried you know, but by taking a ñaarel*, you leave me no
choice but to turn my back on your love…
* second wife.
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...Like that which I have for you.
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They loved one another, but neither would give in
and we left for another life.
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Little by little, I came to understand that she had given up, in the name dignity, a more comfortable life.
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For us and for her.
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Sometimes I wondered whether she regretted giving up her choice, and if she would have preferred
to go to the theatre with her husband instead of her son.
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But all this vanished
behind her smile…
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No, not yet…
Hello there Ndeye!
So, what about Amadou? have you
decided?
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I can’t help it, they all choose me, they
want me!
While you Awa…
The day that Ndeye will no longer be
indecisive…
And later, I sort it out.
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We have finished our analysis of the novel ‘The Bel-ly of the Atlantic’ which, beyond
the story has, I hope, allowed you to realise your luck in having such a perceptive professor with such
good advice…
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Oh! A post-it! Ha, ha, ha!
Uh.. ?! Hee hee hee
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We are going look at another woman’s views, this time that of Mariama Bâ, on our society,
particularly on marriage.
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‘So Long a Letter’ is a novel written in 1979, a time when male literature predominated in Senegal, and was born out of the intimate exchanges between
the author and two of her friends whose marital troubles had thrown them into depression.
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The first, who had stood by her husband for 10 years
of married life...
...saw herself cast to the side with the appearance of a young rival, who became her husband’s
second wife. The other friend had met a similar fate…
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...Mariama Ba unveils the destinies of two women bound by friendship…
Faced with this situation and through the life choices
of these characters…
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Hey, this is just for you…
Mind your own business!
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Ndeye, did you want to say something?
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No thank you Sir.
I see. Start with the first extract, marked
on page 16.
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‘My back propped up by cushions, legs outstretched... I follow the comings and goings
of people.’
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‘Across from me, a new winnowing fan bought for the occasion receives the first alms. The presence of my co-wife
beside me irritates me.’
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‘With each passing hour her cheeks become more deeply hollowed, acquire ever more rings, those big and beautiful eyes which open and close on their secrets, perhaps their regrets. At the age of love
and freedom from care, this child is dogged by sadness.’
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Everything ok Ndeye? You had a look on your
face just now…
Try to come later then!
Well, do you want to come study at my house?
It’s Awa, she gets on my
nerves…
I can’t today.
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You don’t like the choice of the book?
I know the tune of this book
by heart...
...polygamy this, polygamy that…
While One can very well love a married man; it can be a marriage of love.
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But of course we can love a married man or
woman, that is not the point.
And then these days,second wives are often conquerors, not victims.
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Amadou, stop !
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I’ve been staring at you for 10 minutes.
Since I’ve met you, Ndeye, I’m a different person. Everybody has
noticed it.
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Naturally, she will be sad. No one likes to feel replaced. But you’re not a
replacement Ndeye, or a sequel…
Babe, I’ve never hidden my marriage
from you…
But Amadou, what will your
wife say?
Really, everybody?
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…you’re my new beginning!
Ndeye, come with a ‘yes’ on Wednesday, otherwise don’t come. I can’t wait any longer.
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As we danced, your fore-head, hairline already rece-ding, bent over my own.
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The same happy smile lit up our faces.
The pressure of your hand became more tender,
more possessive.
Everything in me gave in and our relationship endured over the school years and during the holidays, strengthened in me by the discovery of your
subtle intelligence…
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…by your embracing sensitivity, of your readiness to help, of your ambition, which suffered
no mediocrity.
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We would walk along the Dakar Corniche, one of the most beautiful
in West Africa, a sheer work of art wrought by nature…
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Rounded or pointed rocks, black or ochre-coloured, overlooking the ocean.
Greenery, sometimes a veritable hanging garden, spread out under the
clear sky. The sea air would put us in good humour.
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Careful children!
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Here daddy, get this!
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You would tell me stories.
You remember when you were little, I would do your
hair here, we had just arrived…
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And when you didn’t like the
ending, you would change it!
You were so funny, you had so much imagination! You know, that book that you’re reading, I read it to you at the time. I helped
me find strength…
…and it reminded me so much of your father; he took me often, unexpectedly, like that.
He knew when I needed it.
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You loved him, why did you leave then? Couldn’t you have been happy
anyways?
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I left precisely because I loved him, because
I didn’t want to be happy ‘anyways’, like you say.
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No, but stop, it’s my question! Why do you want all the girls to
think like you?
You see it the same way as in the days of Mariama Ba, as something endured, but today for
many it is a choice. They defend it, and I think rightly so.
Oh yeah?!! And what exactly has changed? No, but
who have you seen, huh?
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Who can explain to him that no woman chooses to
share her man!!
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So, she is right, they struggle! Starting with the social pressure! If you aren’t married by the age of 30,
everyone thinks there must be something wrong with you...
Calm down, I’m only repeating what they say, and I’ve spoken to more than one, believe it or not! First they finish
their studies and find there aren’t many single men left, and then they work, they’re independent, they’re happy to have a few peaceful days to hang out
with their friends!
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Well, it’s true that most of my sister’s friends don’t want a
co-wife, but without exception they all prefer a co-wife to no husband!
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Enough! Be the spokespersons of the opposite sex, that will be more interesting! We’ll never get
anywhere like this.
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Love doesn’t come in limited quantities, everything I give to my third wife takes nothing away
from the first…
We have far greater sexual needs. It is by the mercy of Allah that we have polygamy. I am devout, and so I can satisfy my needs lawfully.
The flame has gone out, my second wife will rekindle it, and everyone will benefit!
My first is unable to give me a son! I have no choice!
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He wasn’t planning on taking another wife, but he fell in love, that’s all! It’s out of love that
he takes a second wife!
Not out of love for the first, in
any case!
Yeah, another monogamist who signed a polygamous marriage contract without
realising it!
I still prefer the greater sexual needs argument, it’s
less hypocritical!
He hasn’t justified himself to me!
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Out of love! Ha ha ha ha!
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Stop it!
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Uh, Ndeye, calm down, it’s ok…
Who told you that we should only love one person our whole life? We can easily love
two friends at the same time, just like our parents, or children! So why not two women? Mariama Ba writes of love!
And love, it can’t be controlled!
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Ndeye is right.
My father often says to me ‘talkative sex doesn’t
mean silent heart’
BOUM !
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Ha ha ha ha!
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Well, if you don’t want to talk about yourself, it’s your right! As for me, I’m going to talk about myself.
I hesitate to publish my writings. I tell myself it’s not too late, Mariama Ba published her first book at the age
of 50, so why not me?
I imagine her walking there, giving me advise, encouraging me to follow my dreams.
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And then I have much in common with her: I lost my mother when I was quite young, my
grandparents raised me, and I attended the same mosque…
Ndeye, you’re not listening to me.
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And yet what is more important than what the
professor says!
Ndeye?!
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Uh, sir, I understand that she inspires you but you
are not Mariama Ba.
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That’s true, for example she was only married
three times!
Really and so?
While I… wait… Oulimata, Sira, Aïssa, Fatou, that
makes four…
And all girls think you are married to
your work!
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Ndeye, it was my father’s dream to see me return to
his tire business…
Ha ha ha ha !
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I wanted to get my doctorateto become what I am today. I was so torn, impossible to
make a choice between the two…
So, I threw a tire down the lane behind my house: if it went right, I would make my father happy,
if it went left, I would follow my own path.
And well, it went right. I sat there for an hour staring at it and then I ended up putting it on the other side of the lane. It was at that
precise moment that I understood that I couldn’t let life choose for me.
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Lucky for us.
Uh sir?
Yes, what it is?
You have a post-it there!
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So??
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Finally!
Hello there!
So, my nephew!
Few weeks later.
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Areu-are
u !
He is so cute!
You’re just in time!
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Ok, it’s ready!
Come my little darling!
What a lovely name you’ve chosen for him my dears…
Well Ndeye, Amadou finally accepted within the family!
Ha ha ha!
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Hi hi hi hi !Ha ha ha ha !
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Mariama Ba
To educate, campaign and write in order to raise women’s awareness and promote their rights: such was Mariama Ba’s credo throughout her life. She belonged to the first generation of Senegalese women who attended French school during the interwar period. She was as much a pioneer in the domain of literature, as she was in the women’s movement. The impact of her first novel in and beyond Senegal, in which she denounced polygamy and confronted the problems of the caste-system, testifies to her emblematic status.
Women in African History
By way of various artistic and pedagogical resources available online, this UNESCO project highlights a selection of historical female figures, from Africa and of African descent, who have distinguished themselves in the history of the continent in areas as diverse as politics (Gisèle Rabesahala), diplomacy and resistance against colonization (Njinga Mbandi), defence of women’s rights (Funmilayo Ransome-Kuti) and environmental protection (Wangari Maathai).
The selection of women figures proposed in the framework of this project is not exhaustive and represents only a small part of the contribution of African women, known and unknown, to the history of their countries, Africa and all mankind.
For additional resources, please visit the web site www.unesco.org/womeninafrica